how do i tell the difference between love and infatuation? im pretty sure it could be the first but honestly im pretty new to thatalso how do i tell some one thatplease help me this is hardit would be so much better if she just saw this
>>28926402
you are autistic. kys
>>28926409
>you are autistic
yeah probably
>>28926402
Love is more emotional maybe? Like it's more than just the looks of the person, it's how they think and act?
I dunno, when it comes to SOs and whatnot, both infatuation and love play a part, they work in tangent with each other so it's hard to differentiate the two. If you're doing it out of status/looks/sex only, then it's probably not love.
Then again, they say love takes time, but that sounds sketchy because if it takes time to fall in love, then aren't you just tolerating and getting used to the person? You don't really like them, but eventually you just learn to deal with it. But if you rush into love you can easily get manipulated, because you're lovestruck, and you might soon realise that you don't like the person they turn into/their inner being
The best move is not to play at all
>>28926503
>Like it's more than just the looks of the person, it's how they think and act?
well its kinda both so i dont really know
>>28926571
Yah they aren't separate emotions I feel. Has this attraction been going on for a while now? What have your interactions been with this girl in that span of timealso don't become orbiter/cuck or whatever, bsafe anon
>>28926627
>Has this attraction been going on for a while now? What have your interactions been with this girl in that span of time
since i met her which was admittedly not that long ago and i now starts as infatuation but i think has changed and for interaction we talk on Skype and stuff and play vidya
>>28926402
How long have you been dating??? That will help differentiate
>>28926402
>how do i tell the difference between love and infatuation?
The former means you are more addicted to the person than in the latter, i dont think that is complicated
>>28926684
What do you talk about? What do you play? Similar interests in vidya? How's her attitude when she plays?do you like that attitude?
>>28926814
shit nigga lots of stuff i guess but yeah we have similar interests and i like her attitude on most things
If you're not dating it is just a creepy obsession
>>28926895
I guess if its in depth convos about things you are interested in and you like talking to her because she has meaningful things to say then it's probably love, maybe, I dunnotfw she just considers you a friend because love probably isn't demisexual to women
>implying it matters
Girls want you to be a selfish git. Go for it as if it's love regardless. Just tell her you love her and then leave.
>>28926402
Insofar as you wish yourself that you see her more often, it's infatuation.
Insofar as you wish herself that she accomplishes her potential, it's love.
>>28927288
>Just tell her you love her and then leave.
but i dont want to leave
i want to do the other thing
>>28927318
Just tell her you love her and stay then.
Like. My point is that there's no need to know since you shouldn't act differently based on that information.
>>28927318
>Implying the other thing is good
It's 2016 m8, love doesn't existif it ever existed, prepared to get used as an emotional and monetary sponge
>>28926402
Would you still be attracted to the person's being if they were the opposite gender?
Infatuation is loving someone only for their body. In that regard, you don't have to know a lot or care a lot about someone's personality to be infatuated with them, and if they were the same gender as you, you would not be good friends with them.
Loving someone means that you love them for their body and their personality. If they were a boy, you may love them less but you'd still want to be great buddies with them because you genuinely enjoy their presence.
>>28926503
it takes time because it takes time to get to know soemone fully and accepting that person fotr who she is and not just 2 or 3 convos and a glance an evening
>>28926402
Have you known her for a while? Have you slept with her a lot, and still feel strongly about her? If you don't want her to be around unless she's putting out, then it is not love.
>>28927332
i guess what im scared of is that id tell her and she would not feel the same even though i know she likes me
>>28927644
>i know she likes me
Best thing to do is go for it. Women are impatient and desperate if they don't think their current 'pursuit' (code for sitting and waiting while imagining you're doing something) isn't working out they will just go for anyone.
Don't waste any time. She's on her way to Tyrone right now.
>>28927702
>Don't waste any time
This is true. Make a move as soon as possible. Ask her out. Do something fun and make sure it is a date in her eyes too (not hanging out as friends). But don't tell her that you love her.
>>28926402
I think i'm in love with a girl, can stop thinking about her and would like to see her everyday. It's the longest I had a crush on someone, it started about a year ago. I care about her and when she tells me something personal I take it seriously. She is pretty, but her presence makes me awfully happy.
However, I convinced myself that it's just a crazy obsession and not actual love. I just want to be with her to make myself happy, not her (at least that's what I keep telling myself).
I finally accepted that I have feelings for her, but she obviously doesn't feel the same way. Just gotta deal with it.
>>28927812
That's why you always got to try making a move early on if you're attracted to a girl (unless you're 90% sure that you'd be better off as close platonic friends). If you do that you can only win. If she's into you you'll get laid and nothing else comes out of it, or you'll get laid and start a long term relationship. Even if she turns you down, chances are that you could still end up as friends. But now, you can't make a serious move. You could try going for a drunken ons with her, if she's the flirty kind of girl though.
>>28926409
Thisis the only true answernot original enough? stupid bots...
