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Why are people not marrying and having kids anymore?

This is a concerning trend.
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>>67713677
Women can support themselves now, there's tons of research indicating that having kids makes you less happy. Marriage as an institution has fallen apart due to no-fault divorces, alimony, custody laws and child support. Besides the tax benefits, it's virtually meaningless. You might as well just date considering how divorces are becoming as commonplace as break-ups.

The solution:
>end no-fault divorces, one party should be forced to prove infidelity for divorce to be allowed
>companies should stop hiring women
>produce propaganda showing that parents are happier than non-parents
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Literally no incentive.
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>>67713677
How is that concerning? Marriage is a ridiculous outdated institution.
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>>67714706
It's the best way to raise kids though. Kids raised outside of a stable marriage (i.e. single mothers) end up being criminals. It's a better predictor for criminality than income or race.

Unless you're advocating that people just stop having kids, which is even more retarded.
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Why put up with a bitch wife and brat kids when I could just buy a waifu body pillow.
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>>67713677
What kind of sane man would gamble half his assets and income on the whims of a modern woman?
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because we fuck people by having archaic divorce settlements and alimony

I wonder how expensive it would be to artificially inseminate a donor egg and pay a surrogate mother
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I don't want some bitch to take half my stuff and kids are going to be corrupted by 2016+
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And the white race dies with a whimper. LOW ENERGY!
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>>67713677
I ain't having some bitch take half my stuff id rather be a mgtow and live the player lifestyle.
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>>67714880
Cohabiting works just as fine and doesn't constrict people as much.

Also, I was raised by a single mother and I'm not a criminal.
I'm a high grade student with an offer to go to a good university next year to study politics.
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>>67713955
>end no-fault divorces, one party should be forced to prove infidelity for divorce to be allowed
I would add domestic abuse to this as well
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>>67713677
>no money
>no incentive
>chance of divorce too high
>women are gold digging manipulative sluts
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People on here will blame divorce etc but truth is its too expensive. Can you afford to bring up 3+ on one salary?
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>>67713677
socialism
responsible people realize they can't afford to raise children because they're paying for all the kid irresponsible people are having
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>>67713677
>saddled with debt, poor job prospects
>urban areas no longer have decent public schools because niggers and spics
>ridiculous income taxes in many states (which fund handouts and boondoggles like public transport)
>skyrocketing healthcare costs
>easy access to sex
>instant gratification (internet)
>tension between the sexes is high due to propaganda, marriage laws, and child/spousal support
Why would anyone have kids unless they're doing exceptionally well financially or are exceptionally driven?
And of course the people who have kids don't have more than 2.
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>>67715298
>and doesn't constrict people as much.
People need external forces to restrain their base impulses. Sad but true.
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>>67715052
Divorce rates are actually lowering, and are around 14% for uneducated or moderately educated women.
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>>67715791
I disagree. Liberty is a fundamental human right.
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>>67715298
I'm glad to hear your prospects are good, but your outcome is becoming increasingly rare, atleast here in Burgerstand.

http://www.valuesandcapitalism.com/broken-families-broken-economy/
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>>67715298
Great anecdotal evidence. We're talking big picture here: statistics. And the statistics say single mothers are a terrible idea.

Marriage needs to constrict people. It needs to be binding. People are fickle, and stability requires more than that.

>>67715312
Sounds good to me.
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>>67716009
I don't think that has anything to do with family structure in itself and certainly nothing to do with marriage. It's to do with the rigged economy in your country.
Ours is fucked as well but its still not nearly as bad.
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>>67715590
True.

The only responsible white people I know who are having kids at a young age (under 25) are young military officers. They've got decent salaries, but when you add in all the benefits of being in the service (housing, commissary, tricare, cheap recreational events, etc.). No one else in the middle class can afford to live comfortably and have 3+ kids.
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>>67716207
Personal choice should come first.
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>>67713677
Nice try, Goldman Sachs. Not many people are both willing and able to follow the so called American Dream (tm) anymore.
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Welfare state causes women to distance from men and have children who are paid for by the state. Single motherhood is the biggest factor in crime and poverty. Rinse and repeat.
Black communities is what's coming to us soon.
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>>67716318
it's not very responsible to watch your race die either
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>>67713677

>Weddings are capital 'E' Expensive
>Women are whores meme
>Declining masculinity
>Divorce
>Culture shift/YOLO lifestyle focusing on a diverse sex life
>Both partners are working full time

As for not having any children... I don't know if it's where I live or what but for every 100 kids I see probably 1-2 is some form of Tard, 50 are out of control autistic brats, 40 are fairly normal and the last bit are the shy type. Just the thought of what my life would turn into if i got a Tard or one of those screaming autistic kids I see all the time makes me want to shit bricks, EIGHTEEN FUCKING YEARS of payingand putting up with them, I just couldn't do it.
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>>67716008
Nice platitude, but in practice it just creates vulgar chaos.

In any case, marriage is a voluntary contract. So it doesn't actually infringe your liberty. If you enter it, you should know what you're agreeing to.
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21 here fully decided on never marrying or having kids life is good man
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>>67716683
>dying sad and alone
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Why are people still conceiving the parasitical Jew? Answer that, Kikenstein.
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Women inevitably destroy family values and their respective civilizations.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxpVwBzFAkw
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>>67716645
Fair point. I don't ever intend to get married and I guess I'm free to make that choice.
I just think that there needs to be a separation of marriage from the state. Marriage should be a purely religious decision and the state should issue civil partnerships for both gay and straight couples.
That way people could be united in a completely secular way and religious institutions would be able to define their marriage protocols however they wanted to.
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>>67716506
No, but let's not get too semantic. A lot of white people, with high salaries, with enviable skills, and truly good intentions have been swindled. This info isn't being spread, for obvious reasons. They don't even know that our race is dying. So many think the world is simply overpopulated..when I tell them that it's overpopulated with poor Chinese and Indians, they're shocked to hear that people of European descent are actually a very small part of the population (and will disappear of current trends continue). I try not to be too overt. But discreetly reminding them that all of these green parties and environerds are run by Europeans, australians, canadians, etc. is a good redpill.
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>>67713677
kikes
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>>67714880
correlation something something causality
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>>67715298
underage B&
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>>67715298
I was raised by a single mother and I came out fucked. Not really a crim, but I have issues with holding onto anger, OCD, and once my dad left the town where I live, my grades in school plummeted. I was lost without a dad and most stats point toward that being the most likley outcome of a son being raised by a single mom
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>>67717771
I'm 21 dude.
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>>67717943
Well my parents never lived together for my entire life so maybe there's a difference there. They broke up before I was born.
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>>67713677
24 years old, not opposed to marriage and kids, but if my boyfriend never proposes and kids don't happen because we're busy with other stuff, I wouldn't be worried about it.

I think people are realizing that marrying and having kids destroys a lot of people financially and it can add stress to a relationship that would have otherwise been very fulfilling.

anyway, what does it even matter to you? whether or not a couple ties the knot and lays a couple crotch droppings has zero effect on you.
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Cuz I'm smoking weeds and playing vidya
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>>67719209
>I wouldn't be worried about it.
If you're a healthy normal woman, you'll be worried in roughly 5 years, honey.

What's your digit ratio? If you have a masculine digit ratio, you might not get the baby tingles.

>I think people are realizing that marrying and having kids destroys a lot of people financially
It didn't used to, though.

>a relationship that could otherwise be easily ended once both parties are bored.
The reality of it. Biological kids pretty much never ruin relationships. By that I mean, kids that are related to both parents. Kids are simply a responsibility that makes separation far more complicated, and this is not ideal for people who can barely conceive the idea of being with 1 person forever.

>anyway, what does it even matter to you? whether or not a couple ties the knot and lays a couple crotch droppings has zero effect on you.
Typical woman, not concerned with the food of the group. This is about survival.
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>>67715144
This is seriously the only reason I am considering having any children... we are rapidly becoming outnumbered by niggers.
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>>67719751
>good* of the group.
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>>67715293
if you're afraid of your woman leaving you, just be like hey babe, sign this.

only bitches won't sign a prenup. you leave with what you came with. if that's nothing, so be it.
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>>67720161
In my country, prenups don't work and the courts almost always rule in favor of the woman.
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