What's the deal with flamers? I don't get how you can base an ENTIRE personality off of a sexual preference.What's the general consensus?
>>6171644
I always just acted kinda feminine, wouldn't call myself a flat-out flamer but I am effeminate. My mom would ask me if I was gay all the time when I was growing up, I'd get called a fag and such a lot, I didn't really figure out my sexuality until after high school though, kinda was in denial/just didn't put two and two together.
I never tried to sound gay or anything, and I didn't think I had a gay accent or anything, but I am told that I sound effeminate. It's not a hyper-faggy fake sounding accent though.
>>6171677
Main point I wanted to say was this: some flamers are clearly putting on an act for attention, but I do think some men just genuinely act effeminate, and typically don't have as exaggerated of a faggy voice. I'm okay with those, granted I am one. The obnoxious overly thick fake flamer accented ones are pretty bad though.
It can be cringe at times.I mean effeminism is a beautiful thing but I don't understand why people take it so far sometimes :/
>>6171734
They just want attention for being a faggot.
I'll never be one, but I'm okay with them.
As long as they don't overkill it and it seems genuine. Some fags just like putting on a show at the wrong times.