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First for daddy fetishes
>>6441939
oh yeah i see
thats nice of your brother though.
you should have just kept taking hormones and worn a sports bra, lol
what is having breasts like?
idk that feel
4th for head pats!
xth for
anime
posting
>>6441937
hai :3
>>6441942
thank you .-.
>>6441953
very nice aside from catcalling and being terrified guys that buy you drinks are about to clock you as you keep your mouth shut
they are squishy and jiggly and soft and dysphoria relieving AND the nipples are a nice place to uhhh... do stuff... instead of with the sad-making appendage
>>6441955
good girl
>>6441948
So where are you? In south of the river but I have a car. I don't care about sex right now just looking to meet a nice girl.
>>6441959
i try my best :3 are you still awake from yesterday? 0,0
>>6441959
get on discord!
I'm done trusting people.
I know how people feel about me and it's disgusting.
People say nice things to try and build me up but when it's behind my back, people say the worst shit about me.
I'm done with people. I get it.
I'm hideous physically and mentally.
Are there any steps I can take to get the most out of my transition? Bigger boobs, wider hips...
>>6441939
>yeah it was :( i was finally over the boundary where i legitimately thought of myself as a girl and my internal narrative was a girl's and i didn't unconsciously refer to myself as a boy anymore
How long did that take?
I'm somewhere in between atm. Sometimes I refer to myself as male, sometimes as female.
>>6441969
You need to find the right people. I had some bad experiences too but never give up.
There are good friends out there.
And I am sure you are not hideous.
>>6441968
its okay I thought you were the one asleep so i didnt wanna msg you and wake you up xD I ended up napping a bit at 6. i was just playing dark souls all night :p
>>6441969
that sucks sorry to hear some ppl treat u like that :(
My hair is in a lazy twisty bun (because I like the curls it gives me when I let it back down).
Anyone have some other good bun suggestions, though? Kinda bored of this style, and my current job demands a particular kind of hair.
Also, good morning and hear pats for everyone!
>>6441978
drink a virgin's blood
>>6441979
Like 6 months after i started hrt but the really important part is hanging around people who gender you correctly and other trans girls, and intentionally thinking of yourself as a girl all the time
When I started actively trying to change my thinking and hung out with the right people, it was about 2.5 months after that
>>6441982
ooooh D:
>>6441984
Want to talk about your problems in private?
I am good at listening and sometimes I can give advice that doesn't suck.
>>6441984
angie no :(
>>6441987
haha it's okay i feel alot better now that i slept anyway. ^_^ how was work?
wow i wanna die
>>6441988
isnt that angie?
>>6441995
little sis <3333333 goof morning n.n
>>6441995
How would I know? I am a social retard and can't differentiate people.
And it doesn't matter :3
>>6441997
heyo :3 <3
Can anyone give me some advice on how to be more supportive of my friend who is transitioning? It's a little difficult for me to adjust, I still have the habit of calling her by her old name, and it's weird hearing them with their voice change. I just want to be a good friend.
Hello am i early or am i late to the fun?
>>6442004
practice and make sure they correct you and if you ever slip up correct yourself
trust me she appreciates the effort, you'll get there
even if the voice sounds weird to you compliment her progress when she makes noticeable improvements
>right eyelid keeps twitching
Make it stop
>>6441948
>daddy fetish
Low tier fetish tbdesu
>>6441987
hmm
I've actually been thinking lately that it might be nice to have friends who know and are accepting of my transness, but the problem is that I can't come out to my friends because I have no friends, and I don't wanna out myself to random people. :(
>>6441999
lotsa tips? :3
>>6442001
hru feeling any better?
>>6442003
there's plenty to live for :(
>>6442004
call her by the right name. trust me that's important. it's like a punch to the stomach every time you use her old name.
really besides that using female pronouns and generally being a good friend is all you need to do. if she vents to you listen and stuff. gl anon! there needs to be more cool friends like you out there!
>>6442012
>Compliment her on femininity
Autistic chaser tier advice. Don't do this it's cringy and disgusting
>>6442004
Most (reasonable) people will understand it might take some adjusting to. I guess try to correct yourself if you use the incorrect name?
How long has she been transitioning for/how long have you known?
As long as you're making an effort she will probably appreciate it.
>>6442006
So it seems.
>>6442012
First rule of fightclub, Valq.
>>6442006
Sent
>>6442015
Like what?
>>6442015
nope, I might have fucked up my endocrinal system for a while
also its stupidly hot today here, I can barely sit v_v
>>6442026
working toward stuff in the future, hope and dreams, traveling, don't you have a bf?
>>6442029
ugh I hope it's not permanent D: ur at uni rn? :3
>>6442025
kay ~
>>6442021
A couple of months now, I felt bad because I hadnt heard her new voice, but I knew that she had plans to transition for a year or so. I would continually use her old name, and she said it was fine, but deep down I knew it probably wasn't.
>>6442012
I think that should be her bf's job, i'm just a long time friend, so this is all new to me.
>>6442015
Thanks senpai, Im just trying my best to go about this the right way. We're both /pol/acks, so i'm just trying my best to be a decent human being and friend. I learned a lot of useful information from lurking here that made things much easier.
>>6442029
<3 u. Get naked then!
>>6442033
no I have weekend, no classes on thursdays and fridays. I dont have that many classes, cause I cant handle the anxiety otherwise.
>>6442037
I am wearing super short pants and a tanktop v_v
>>6442035
Voice takes a long time to actually work on so it will probably change again. Is her voice progress actually good? And yeah, probably a good idea to call her by new names as much as you can.
also I might disagree with >>6442012 Don't make compliments if you don't actually feel that way. I guess it depends a lot on the person, she might just feel like you're saying that and hugboxxed.
Active shooter in Germany
guess its time we gave up our gun rights
OH
WAIT....
>>6442049
Huh? Where?
>>6442030
Nothing to work for
I have no hopes and dreams
I had a BF but no more
>>6442025
>well trans friends are best friends! go find some
Well, there was someone in one of my classes last semester who I'm almost certain is a trans guy, but idk if I'll see him again this semester, and if I did, how would I even bring that up?
>Hey, I clocked you as trans, but it's cool because I'm a tranny too, so let's be besties!
doesn't seem like a good way to start a conversation.
>if the support groups around you are all late transitioners go find a college with a trans support group, there will probably be tumblrinas there but they'll all be supportive and nice and younger
Eh, my uni most likely has a support group, tho I've never actually looked it up.
But I don't think I'd want to go to one either way.
>>6442053
Hessen, apparently 20-50 injured, but no source on the last number,
Ntv confirmed the shooter though
SEK is en route
>>6442053
http://www.baka.com.au/world/germany-cinema-shooting-scores-wounded-in-viernheim-cinema-shooting-20160623-gpqnxw.html
There are 5 trips here who need to be savagely beaten to death
>>6442061
i-i'm sorry
>>6442061
yes pls do. Ive been waiting for that for a pretty long time
>>6442049
Come to the land of the free! :3
>>6442048
>Is her voice progress actually good?
I'd like to say so, I actually did compliment her on her voice progression. Before transition, her voice was very deep and monotone, it's pretty femmy now.
>>6442068
>60% white
>no culture or history
>shit economy
na Ill stay for the time being
>>6442059
Merkel does not want me to see this.
>>6442058
I have to look into that.
>>6442069
You are literally that faggot chaser from that chaser documentary. You don't go up to a cis woman and comment on how feminine they are, don't do it to trannies.
>>6442069
Does buying her a cute sweater/stockings help? I planned on buying her a cute pair of stockings because:
They're inexpensive
Stockings are pretty femmy
>>6442069
I just found random compliments/correct gendering from strangers a lot more reassuring that stuff from friends. I'm insecure and cynical af tho, so maybe that's just me.
>>6442076
>>60% white
Unfortunately, but it depends on the state, too.
>>no culture or history
Nope. Although, it depends on what you mean by either.
>>shit economy
By what metric?
>>6442085
i should be
>>6442079
Get her a pair of rainbow thigh-highs.
She'll love them, trust me.
>>6442035
make sure you don't pressure her to act the way she used to act. I have a friend who always used to make a face or question me for changing things and I had to put some space between us for a bit so I could find myself. my family does the same thing. it's had some pretty long lasting effects, he made me uncomfortable when I first started trying to use girl voice and even now a year later I get too nervous to use it around people who knew me before transition.
we are close friends again but it would have been nice to avoid needing to take some time away from him
>>6442082
this
I don't trust my friends giving me compliments desu
>>6442091
My death won't do much
The world will keep going and I'll be forgotten.
>>6442077
http://www.n-tv.de/politik/Bewaffneter-stuermt-Kino-in-Viernheim-article18026211.html
>>6442081
sorry anon ;~;
>>6442085
why not...
>>6442087
Consumerism isnt a culture.
sitting on an empty continent for a few years and raping natives isnt history,
in europe, we say that the difference between the US and a yoghurt is that if you let yoghurt alone for 200 years, it will grow a culture
>>6442091
>why not put on the a/c? D:
those arent standard here. most houses dont have that.
>>6442104
You will eventually
>>6442104
>W-what? I had no idea! why is it like that? D:
houses here are made of massive stone, it doesnt get above 25° inside usually, so its not very practical to buy a/cs
we live under the roof though, with no isolation.
its about as warm inside as outside, and since I am a lot weaker than the average person, I can barely move if it goes above 30°
>>6442106
i dont forget friends so easily like that :(
just got my HRT stuff in the mail finally <3
how bad is this first month of spiro?
>>6442102
>Consumerism isnt a culture.
True, if anything it's a virulent unculture, but that's not all we have.
>sitting on an empty continent for a few years and raping natives isnt history,
Sure it is, but again, not all we have. I guess I'll ask a bit more directly, define culture or history. I'll give you examples that match whatever definition you give.
>tfw a lesbian hits on you at the food bank and you don't know what to do because what the fuck so then you lie to her about having a boyfriend
>>6442114
>spiro
Kek
>>6442113
post list.
>>6442120
First of all why are you going to a food bank? Secondly why is that persons name quan?
>>6442114
you'll wake up in the middle of the night to pee a lot. that was honestly the only bad part
>>6442102
He is dead now.
>>6442121
>is it unusually hot in Germany or something today?
yes, 31-34°
>>6442118
If you couldnt tell by the yoghurt example, I wasnt actually serious anon v,v
>>6442125
I'm poor and idk
>>6442127
source? Reuters tweeted arrested
>>6442113
Angie. Sheen, Korra, Kayla and lily?
>>6442123
Edgar
Kayla
Sheen
Korra
Valq
The usual suspects. Absolutely disgusting.
>>6442128
Ah, sorry. Plenty are serious about it and mean the joke unironically. Saying that my country doesn't have a culture or history is one of the few things that gets to me.
>>6442120
Quan knows about your true desires.
>>6442120
Are you straight, or do you just want to avoid dating the type of person who'd call herself Quan?
>>6442130
You're not poor fuck off. Stop abusing a service meant for people who desperately need it.
>>6442134
>tfw no longer relevant
come on anon please?
>>6442120
LMAO
if you weren't interested, why not just say you're straight?
>>6442131
http://hessenschau.de/panorama/maskierter-taeter-in-viernheimer-kino-ist-tot,viernheim-108.html
>1 year hrt next week
>debating on FFS or not
>get called he/him for the first time since I can remember multiple times by a patron this morning
I guess that settles that.
>>6442142
I was considering it but you're not as bad as those 5 anymore
>>6442132
>>6442134
:(
>>6442136
I am just not very interested in american history before WW1, I did some things on the cuban missile crisis, canada during WW2 and the great depression for my final exams though.
the culture exists, its just utterly disgusting.
>>6442145
PLEASE BE ISIS
CLOSE BORDERS
>>6442148
why did you forget me? :c
>>6442144
I'm not used to being hit on and it was such an awkward situation that I just made polite conversation because I didn't know what else to do
>>6442148
so now i'm just an average everyday hon
fml
>>6442143
Fuck you, you just had cosmetic surgery. People who can't afford to even eat don't get nose jobs. You are a thief.
>>6442155
I'm nose rich and cash poor
>>6442150
My thoughts.
But he didn't kill anyone (or we don't know it yet) so it most likely wasn't isis.
>>6442157
You should be arrested. YOU'RE ROBBING PEOPLE YOU'RE A THIEF
>tfw ur a girl
: )
>>6442164
>Not even close to being on there
why not, what am I doing wrong :c
>>6442159
Nah I wasn't interested lol. I just didn't know how to be like ohhh I'm straight and ASLO WTF ABOUT ME SAYS LESBIAN AGHH
>>6442164
all i did is grow out my hair, take hrt and lose weight
pls bully me
>>6442134
Where's Angie, maddie, gem and yume?
>>6442141
>MFW People desperately needing anything in America.
>>6442134
No pizzaslut or kit?
>wake up
>see archive dump
Well, only new fags don't know about the hacked trip trip code list posted on Google, and the months of false flagging, but it gets annoying that people are this naive
>>6442168
lmao
well yeah if you weren't interested you're fine
if you want to turn someone down what you did is okay, or just mention your "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" casually in the conversation while they're hitting on you
or just say "you're so sweet but no thank you~"
>>6442175
ahh, makes sense. i wasn't around much during those months
>wake up
>try to post
>banned for penis pictures on int
>oh my phone is on cell
>annoying but every cell ip here is always banned, one for cp
>manually connect to wifi
>warned for pornography
w...what?????
>look at post
>picture of my tummy
O....oh my tummy is porn.... I'm...a porn actress now....>.>;
>>6442168
Being poor, fat and angry lookin
>>6442168
That time you said "I think you're a lesbian now" kinda made me think it
>>6442191
I'm*
>>6442184
that's mostly a meme. you can start at like 100mg of Spiro and 2mg if estrogen from day 1. I did I had absolutely no drawbacks.
but yeah if you take Spiro just by itself it does give you depression.
>>6442184
ohh I didn't do a slow ramp and started estrogen along with spiro so I didn't get the depression stuff. so I can't really comment
>>6442184
>yes i have estrogen as well put i am doing the slow 50 mg climb to 200 mg spiro.
theres no reason to take an AA without E.
Aria and sbi, you're bad mods
>>6442184
I started on 100mg spiro and 6mg E and had no mental side effects in that first month
If you have E take it along with spiro, there's no reason not to (and going long term on an AA alone is a bad idea anyway)
>>6442191
>>6442187
Wellllllllll turns out they were a guy...
Daily reminder that mtfg ircs is run by hons
>>6442194
>>6442195
>>6442198
Oh...so I can start things straight away. Looks like I am changing my plans.
Should I do 100mg with 2mgs for a month then jump to 200mg with 4 mgs next month?
>>6442207
LMAO
>>6442207
Ded
Booked an appointment at the laser hair removal clinic
Just a consultation and patch test
Tuesday 11am
Very nervous due to social anxiety
>>6442214
that sounds good n.n
>>6442207
ayy bb, u want sum fuq?
>>6442218
did you ever go to sleep?
>>6442223
Give me those drugs
>>6442216
>Passing
but I dont pass irl
>tfw Linus is sexier than you
Before, I used to repress for months at a time. Now, I have constant mental battles throughout the day as to whether I should repress or not.
What does this mean? Should I just continue with HRT or maybe wait it out until I'm certain?
>>6442216
one day ill pass!
i have to buy a new suit today... i hate shopping. shopping IRL gives me the anxieties and the heebie jeebies, how to i manage?
So I had one of my first gross mistreatment cases yesterday and I am still pretty upset about it, and I honestly feel like it borders on a bit of a hate crime.
>Be shopping minding my own business trying to broaden my girl clothes wardrobe.
>about 1.5 years on hrt semi full time.
>wouldn't say I am a hon but I don't really pass all that well yet.
>find some clothes that I like and take them to a changing room.
>be like one outfit in and hear a super loud knock on the door telling me to come out.
>it's a two ladies one dressed professional like she works there and another a customer.
>the customer says yep that's him
>the worker tells me to come with her and I am Like "okay???? for what?"
>I was thinking they thought I was shoplifting or something so I was like ok I'll cooperate and explain.
>takes me into the back and tell me that this sort of thing isn't not at all tolerating here
>I am still at a loss and say "What isn't tolerated here?"
>she goes on about how this is a place for people to buy clothes not act out sexual fantasies in the women's dressing room.
>I get very angry and said I was simply trying on clothes to wear in my everyday life.
>she got even more hostile about how I was making people uncomfortable and proceeded to tell not to come back or she would call the authorities.
Mind you this isn't a big chain store more like a local 3-4 location outlit store. But can they seriously do this shit?
>>6442230
I don't really understand my life desu
>>6442231
Grow the fuck up faggot
>tfw jerking off in the mirror and cumming
>tfw licking your fingers clean
fuck i'm such a hottie
#justAGPthings
>>6442207
Who tells a girl
"I'm only telling you, but I've slept with men before"
>>6442232
Where do you live? Talk to the manager and call local news
>>6442235
trip on shakira
>>6442241
>implying
>>6442238
That was after he realized I was also a man
>>6442239
Washington, USA. I don't know if I can handle that spotlight of being a poster girl for trans issues like that. It just made me so upset that people like this even exist? I didn't think it was a big deal but I sat there and questioned myself even. Like sat there and was like "well maybe I shouldn't have even tried on the clothes"
Also I am like 90% sure that was the manager.
>>6442228
b cute fuccboi
>>6442248
I'm really sorry that happened. It's so shitty :c
>>6442229
You will never ever pass
>>6442228
Can someone else please answer me, I genuinely don't know what to do
>>6442253
i disagree :3 and when i *do* pass i think back to anons like you and laugh
>>6442228
repression is not really a viable long term strategy to cope with it
so why repress?
>>6442232
Just don't go to the shop anymore. If they don't want your money spend it somewhere else!
Good luck korra
>>6442258
i have to go to the limited today, im scared come with me pls
>>6442265
ty anon :3 gl to you too!
>>6442261
You won't. Even with extensive ffs your body is a joke, your voice is fucked and your personality will clock you everytime
Nth for reoccuring childhood nightmares with immortal levitating zombies and burning schools
>>6442270
lol i would if i could tbhsenpae
imagine i'm there in spirit-?
>>6442273
that's just like your opinion m8. idk why you're so negative and hateful but oh well lol. maybe one day you'll be a nicer person.
and ofc i disagree with everything you say it's kinda cute ur so obsessed with me :3
>>6442232
I'm so sorry that happened to you.
>>6442232
I'd go to the press desu, call the stores hq, I've seen stories like this in the news, it's not acceptable right now to be doing that
>>6441941
I'm kinda new here still (only been lurking /lgbt/ for like 5 or so months). and somebody on /v/ asked if I was Albi. I'm assuming Albi is a trip here. Can someone post a pic and tell me who she is if you know? Just wondering and googling didn't find anything
>>6442186
tummy porn is the most forbidden form of porno
>>6442285
never heard the name, literally who
>>6442288
IDK. I just assumed she might have been a trip on here.
>>6442287
I can think of lewder, but none as forbidden
XD
>>6442263
when u browse /pol/ and know where society is headed
>>6442294
holy crap
>>6442295
>unironically thinking like this
>>6442280
You're delusional
>>6442301
Well you don't seem very nice.
>>6442294
>tfw no one to come up behind me, grab my arm, cover my eyes, and start kissing my back
;~;
>>6442298
hey kiwi do you ever go to the aquarium in riverhead you can watch a sea lion show and pet sting rays
>>6442232
Local chain? Go to the local press first and get a national activist network to sue the owner into oblivion and picket the shops.
That kind of crap is not acceptable and any business that does it deserves to be pushed into bankruptcy.
>>6442275
I had some weird dreams last night where I was up on a cliff with like 40 black cats playing around
and then another where it was my half birthday but everyone thought it was my actually birthday and I felt guilty about tricking them
>>6442286
ahh yea. plan out a budget so you know how much you can afford to take. remember that increasing spiro or e doses won't necessarily improve results too so you might not need more anyway. depends on what your bloodwork says
>>6442309
i think you asked me that before
>>6442295
I AM AWARE
>>6442301
being hopeful about your future isnt delusional. what would be delusional would be to listen to a random angry person on the internet that has a grudge against me.
do you take life advice from your enemies or ppl that openly hate you in real life? id be a fool to listen to you. literally your only goal here is to be hateful and try to hurt me.
gl in life and i hope things go well for you ~
>>6442313
did u pet the sting rays
>>6442314
Every day I grow stronger
My jacket gains more buttons
The shoulder pads enlarge
>>6442315
I'm not giving you advice I'm telling you the reality is you will never come close to passing
korra why did u name yourself after a cartoon
>>6442316
i dont remember i was like 12
>>6442310
Yeah this. Sorry that happened, anon.
>>6442323
go back and pet the sting rays kiwi
>when you keep cringing as shit you did as a kid
>>6442325
o-okay
>>6442288
Sophie hi :D
My mum is letting me self-med :D:D
>>6442328
OH!
did you ask her? :3
>>6442326
Every fucking day.
>>6442042
do you prefer to have breaks mid week or put them together to extend your weekend if you can chose?
>tfw I turn 25 tomorrow
>tfw I start HRT and facial laser hair removal next week
>tfw lost another pound
The next 10 years of my life are going to be better than the last 10, right?
>>6442326
>tfw you will never be able to change it no matter how many time you relive those moments
>>6442330
Yes! :D:D I'm really excited :3
>>6442320
all you're doing is giving your opinion look up in Webster's dictionary the words "reality" and "opinion" i think you got them mixed up. unless you're psychic and can read into future?
>>6442322
i really like the character and personality wise we're very similar
>>6442328
so glad to hear it! what made her change her mind??
>>6442326
worst feel
in a irl hugboxathon between korra and grace between themselves, who would win?
>>6442335
we had a conversation in the car about it, cause nhs has given us like zero communication in months so
>re-reads all of my drunk posts ranting about the guy i've been in love with since i was 17
loll
sorry everyone.
also i passed tf out at some point idk. sorry!!
>stare at shot in bathroom cabinet
>fuck that
>>6442339
define winning
who hugboxes the more?
who feels better afterwards?
who hugboxes more people?
>>6442339
don't u DARE bully grace
>>6442326
I get actually depressed and borderline suicidal over some of the really bad stuff
>>6442342
Just do it.
>>6442327
>>6442326
I just remembered I came out to my mum when I was 13 and I told her I was genderqueer and pansexual
>>6442342
fuck your repression propaganda faye
>>6442341
mtfg, like alcohol, will always be here for you
>>6442339
being hopeful and positive isn't hugboxing. being negative and self defeating actively harms yourself mentally and worsens your transition. I know it's the culture here to have lots of self hate but to try and label not hating yourself as something undesirable is like some weird bizzaro world stuff
>>6442340
yay! did you order your hrt? :3
>>6442341
lol it was fun messing with u ^^
>>6442335
Explain how you will ever look, sound, act like a woman
>>6442346
which one would be the last one standing to throw a hugboxy comment without crumbling/breaking character
>>6442352
how old are you that that was a thing when you were 13
>>6442352
I told my brother I wanted to be a girl when I was 10, he was 15 and his solution was that I shouldn't worry too much about those feelings. All things considered I guess it was the best answer I could had gotten.
>>6442356
Not yet, will after holiday
>>6442351
on second thought maybe not
>>6442352
how many weeks ago was that?
>>6442284
This. If you wanted to make a fuss you probably could do it easily. The media is on our side right now for some reason.
>>6442332
I dont really care desu, its just important that theres no class after a day with more than 1 class. cause I just cant handle that much pressure, if I have 2 classes on a day, I need the following day off to cry or be sad or hurt myself
>>6442340
>>6442334
YAY! congrats :3
hmu if you need any dosage advice
>>6442363
>>6442326
LET ME FORGET
>>6442363
no look it's fun
https://youtu.be/_2_AnwqfY-k
>>6442359
Do they have to slowly incement the hugboxiness until the other one can't come up with a bigger compliment? Or do they go around hugboxing people until their throats get sored and can't speak anymore?
The idea of a marathon implies a long amount of small efforts, but I get the feeling you want something closer to a boxing match of compliments. You have to understand that they are sincere and there isn't a point at which they'll laugh at how idiotic something they said is becuase they don't see it like that from the start.
>>6442370
K E K
Time for a break from this place. See you all in a week or something.
>>6442384
i l<3ve u elanna
>>6442374
WHAT
..
WHAT
holy crap i never knew sting rays could be nightmare fuel
>>6442360
i'm 21
I looked it up on wikipedia and I was like "yeah that sounds cool sounds like me"
desu pansexual is still accurate for me I just don't like it
>>6442364
SICK
>>6442284
>become a public person
>get attention all the time
>loosing the chance of ever being stealth
>becoming the target of everyone who openly hates trans
horrible advice desu
>>6442345
no
>>6442355
thank ;-; i'm just embarrasseedddadaffifjawfaw
>>6442356
;__;
messing wit me when i'm drunk is mean!!!!! esp about that guy ;___; meanie
>>6442382
>>6442382
>Do they have to slowly incement the hugboxiness until the other one can't come up with a bigger compliment?
that
>You have to understand that they are sincere and there isn't a point at which they'll laugh at how idiotic something they said is becuase they don't see it like that from the start.
yeah thats funny
>>6442351
>>6442384
Later Elanna.
>>6442349
Oh shit same tho. But not about shit I did
>>6442370
I think you have a very good mindset going on. Idk I fell for the 6 month meme and shit and it was terrible and as it went on 1.5years+ things began to flesh out completely. Keep it up!
God, my tits are so much more sensitive than my junk and it is getting me into trouble. My gf is annoyed how I went farther than I should have with our mutual FWB today. But, once he starting sucking on my nipples, I was his. (He is FtM. We basically went as far as we could without my penis being involved.)
>>6442396
>no
what happened?
>>6442403
lmao
>>6442333
>The next 10 years of my life are going to be better than the last 10, right?
It looks like it might be!
>>6442407
i don't know if i should be mad or confused
>>6442407
>My gf is annoyed how I went farther than I should have with our mutual FWB today
>>6442326
meh who cares loser, hopefully youre a different person now who doesnt associate to that cringey kid
what is the worst thing you did?
>>6442374
>>6442410
>>6442408
Faye was needy, Edie wasn't that much on bord, ldr are horrible for people who want an actual relationship, there wasn't all that much for neither of them without completely changing their lives.
Faye took it pretty bad, now she's comming here to make anti hormon propaganda to fuck someone else's life in the process.
>>6442351
That face.
;___;
>>6442341
Thought you left
>>6442384
Have fun with real life! Stay safe.
>>6442407
should post that on /pol/, they'd eat it up
>>6442416
>>6442425
how r u knot
people r so m3an
>>6442428
>>6442407
>having a fwb and a gf
No
>tits are more sensitive then your dick
Same
>>6442421
what the fuck, last time i was on here they were posting hand holding anime gifs to each other and writing love poems
how fast things change
>>6442351
>>6442374
>>6442403
>>6442420
>>6442408
it just wasn't meant to be. i've basically wanted someone else for the bulk of my life anyways.
i still care about her and everything, we're friends now. i'm over all that stuff, and i think she is too. that's all.
>>6442423
did you miss me?
>>6442437
On the internet no one knows you're a stingray.
>>6442396
i was messing with you about Skype not the guy u dip. :3 the stuff I said about him was 100% serious :D
>>6442441
>>6442433
what do you mean
I was saying yikes because you were right
>>6442446
WHY DID YOU KILL STEVE?
everyone i love dies!
>>6442407
So your gf is ok with you having an FWB, but not with the idea of you doing sexual stuff with him?
What would even be the point of having that FWB then? idgi
>>6442437
>>6442438
i missed u bb
>>6442448
Just quirky =]
>>6442450
who is Steve?
>>6442454
Steve Irwin
>>6442437
stingrays are cute :3 pet them pls
>>6442448
It's more of my general opinion of them than this particular case. They reek of schizophrenia, trying to make a life around someone that only exists in your screen is barely a step above of having a sincere "waifu" thing.
>>6442406
thanks pupper i try to keep positive since negative thinking is actively harmful
>>6442457
they're scary as heck
no thanks
>>6442456
but thats a Manta Ray..
>>6442438
No
You should kys
>>6442463
h-how
they want u kiwi
they want to cuddle u kiwi
u should go pet them kiwi
>>6442471
>>6442468
Oh
>>6442463
JUST PET THE GODDAMN STING RAYS KIWI
considering how much you pee on spiro I think it's better if you flush as little as possible.
>>64424748
*stingray cuddles u*
PSA: stingrays are really cute
>>6442452
i missed u 2 mouthy!!
>>6442443
o-o-oh..................................................
idk. the guy thing is prob gonna be a really long work in progress. i might go on dates just to have stuff to do? but i don't want anyone else.
>>6442469
kill me yourself you fucking pussy
>>6442475
hi hi :3 things worked out AND i got taliyah to mastery lvl 6 yesterday! I almost have her to lvl 7 now
>>6442475
>>6442481
Korra!
>>6442463
Hello, Kiwi. Come and pet us. Come and pet us, Kiwi. Forever and ever and ever.
>>6442459
>>It's more of my general opinion of them than this particular case.
oh, i see.
they met in real life originally though, i think that would set them apart from other scenarios such as that, but there is a difference i think between people who have waifus and then a ldr where one is actively communicating and having voice/video calls on a regular basis, but idk
>>6442462
good for you that you can do that
>>6442480
>kill me yourself you fucking pussy
>kill
>pussy
TRIGGEREDDDDDD WHY DID THEY DO IT?!
>>6442481
heyhey :3
that's great!
I still haven't gotten a champ to mastery level 5 yet lol I play way too many
>>6442485
>>6442487
OMG <3
Tfw going to ur clinic in the city by yourself bc no friends
Pls don't shoot me
Pls don't stab me
Pls don't harass me
>>6442480
is it a ldr thing with him?? well daring is fine if you tell them up front it's not gonna be a long term thing ya know?
>>6442485
hiiiii~
>>6442492
u gon get blacked.
>>6442442
>only fake people, or at least people with fake feelings, can sustain those for a long time.
i dont think that is true
>>6442490
>>6442493
lets cuddle =P
>>6442480
I plan on it
You hurt faye
>>6442501
oryx that's LEWD
Fuck this life thing pham
>>6442489
its not so hard. alot of times its like I can either choose to be miserable about things i cant change or be happy and work on the things i can
>>6442490
i used to have the same problem but i shrunk my champion pool to like one pm for each role
>top
fiora (garden if she's banned/picked)
>jungle
Vi/Nautilus backup
>mid
taliyah/ahri backup
>adc
caitlyn/ezreal
>support
close the league client/taliyah
>>6442501
*cuddles* n.n
>tfw ur gf hugs u
>>6442496
Last time I went a group of black guys walked by me and laughed :(
>>6442505
>tfw no two headed claspers
>>6442507
I just realized, when I'm in Egypt I'll be in the GMT+1 area
huh
>>6442507
well not everyone can just choose to not be sad or miserable but yeah.
>>6442513
why are you going to Egypt
>>6442516
because travel agents are good at pushing unstable countries of death :P
>>6442507
I just get bored of champs really quick idk /:
At the most I'll play the same champ for a few days but then I just want to play someone different
Although I'm not complaining, I enjoy being versatile~
>>6442512
>tfw you're a spider
>>6442505
Is this spider lewd
>>6442489
rip...
>>6442493
idkk. there's a lot of water under the thing or whatever. it'd be a long while till exclusivity anyways.
i just want to talk to him every day and to have him there. i don't really care about the other stuff. if it happens i'd be beyond happy.
not expecting it tho. my life doesn't usually work out like that yknow lol
>>6442504
her and i are texting right now about her hair and makeup, so idk
>>6442492
be safe!
>>6442518
carol instead of going to Egypt can you give me some money
I can't talk to normies
>>6442520
It is around you ::::3
>>6442519
i want all my mains to lvl 7 so I've been sticking with them alot D:
once all of them are maxed out I'll start picking more ppl. i have all the champs so it's fun to swap around sometimes.
>>6442523
That's some 1st class autism
>>6442523
faye pls
>>6442518
Huh.
I didn't know that travel agents were still a thing tbqh.
>>6442523
W..what's wrong with that?
>>6442489
>they met in real life originally though
and that was a happier time than when they were apart, just a virtual connection isn't enough for someone who really wants to be with the other. Someone with schizophrenia also receives interactions that don't fully match their normal thinking from their hallucinations. If there were some way to have a full integration between your lives then maybe a ldr would be a thing I could respect, but just seeing someone at chosen times with severe limitations of how much of their lives you know is like dating a fictional character. I would even say that a lot of the time each one presents a fiction for the other.
>>6442527
I'm just gonna slowly get every champ to level 7 lol
rip me
>>6442523
they look garbage
>>6442521
;; i wanna see y'all together but like why are you being so afraid? is there like something else going on? or like u don't wanna take a chance if messing it up
>tfw bf sprinkles you with water to cool you
>tfw he starts touching you
>tfw he takes your shirt off
>tfw not even getting fucked
SUCH A TEASE
>>6442541
tfw ur gf hugs u
>>6442497
well... I do, that's why I posted that.
I'm always willing to change my mind if you want to present an argument. Consider that I didn't mean fake as an insult to their character, they are fakes because you can't know anything about the other person just from what they choose to show and adding more ways to filter yourself moves you away from any sincerity.
>>6442544
enjoy these moments anon :3
theyre precious
>>6442545
no it wasnt sadly :c
>>6442506
Who even came up with such a shitty idea?
>>6442513
Are you going for work or pleassure?
I really hated Cairo, and the inner parts had all the dirt and caos of a third world country without almost any charm because desserts are hard to make happy. The destruction of the main income, tourism, didn't help at all. Nice people over all, really pushy but nice.
>>6442529
I was literally doing it because of your r9k voice clips!
IM CRYING RN ^___^
>>6442521
>>6442504
I'm ok just having her there to talk to! be nice to Edie! it was a two month relationship with no sex long distance, barely even serious, I just got attached really quickly, it's fine
>>6442514
>not selecting your mood from your central mood operation system each morning
>2216
ishigidigi
>>6442539
almost as bad as the show butchers the original
>>6442539
Mojo buttercup and and bubbles are fine, the rest is trash ye
>>6442552
you don't take anime into real life faye are you crazyyyy
that's like rule NUMBER ONE
aaaaaaaaaaaaaa
>>6442540
i just have bad luck in relationships and i tend to think that most ppl would be better off with other people than they'd be with me lolll
plus he's literally known me since i was 17 and we were flirting even back then and talking all day every day.
i'm scared too much has happened and my life just is never THAT good.
>>6442549
ya or we could purposefully hangout lmao
>>6442552
let's not forget these things are related to sharks
and dat makes them bullies
>>6442563
You saying sharks aren't actually cute and cuddly?
>>6442381
How did you convince her? :3
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCvFK8_kEM8
>>6442545
>>6442549
>>6442557
Buttercup sure, maybe because of personal byass
>>6442555
mcdonalds toys sometimes look good these days. the adventure time cubeoids a while ago looked neat
hi girls :3
>>6442563
>so shark
>much bully
i love my gf :3
>>6442561
oh well in that case it's prolly for the best to take a little while and work on you and get in the proper state of mind and stuff
>>6442523
> tfw faye is +30yo
>>6442564
when the only way for you to interact with the world revolves around being able to shove it in your mouth and tell if its edible or not with no social groups since the dawn of time it makes you into a cold unfeeling dickhead
>>6442568
hihi
/pats
>>6442561
Do you live in the city or just near it? We talked about this once I think. I'm a very nervous flower Idk if I could meet you..youre like my trans idol lol.
>>6442567
that picture git me to grin like a dummy i rather like minions
>>6442568
*steals a kiss* hi ~
>>6442546
>they are fakes because you can't know anything about the other person just from what they choose to show and adding more ways to filter yourself moves you away from any sincerity
that's not exclusive to people in long distance relationships
>>6442573
but dolphins rape their and our women, and hurt others for enjoyment, and they kill the offspring so they can use the female sooner. and they are extremely social and people love them.
>>6442584
i bet a shark posted this we all saw jaws shark anon
>>6442580
>tfw will never have Lesbian sex with Korra
>>6442568
quid!
>>6442566
i pointed out that nhs were shit, also one of my brothers is now another sister and she and my mum got into a major argument and stuff so its kinda turned into a way to get back at her i think :P
>>6442584
hurts to look in a mirror doesn't it?
>>6442582
so? your feet hurting isn't exclusive to having it broken, it doesn't change it hurts when it is.
ldrs leave no choice bit that type of communication, when you meet someone irl unless you are completely incapable of reading people you get so much more info, and you have the chance to see them interact with things out of their control like everything around them. If anything you have to respect truly fake people for all the effort they put in that character.
>>6442587
stop shakiring please
>>6442588
l-lewd >\\<
tfw ur gf is a qt
>>6442572
But my tits look like they're 16
>>6442584
BUILD
THE
SEAWALL
how do you even have transbian sex
this is a serious question
>>6442591
sharks are bad dolphins did nothing wrong. gee i wonder what aquatic animal could be behind this post
>>6442599
Somebody's doing all the fish raping
>>6442596
what tits, all i see is tummy (post tits pls)
>>6442600
rub butts together
>>6442596
Post gt
>>6442571
ye that's the plan. i wanna be like .... perfect for him. i want to be everything he wants and needs and i need more time on HRT and other things done before i'll be what i need to be. i just want to end up with him one day, really. we've been talking about it forever. he's always just been this goal, even if only physically. like he's 6'4" and a qt brunette with a nice beard and glasses and a nerd. my "type" is literally shaped around him lmaoooo
>>6442577
i live near the city but it's not like i couldn't go there for the day! and i'm literally the same person online as i am irl lol so i wouldn't worry
i'm a lil more calm and i laugh nonstop irl tho
>>6442589
Oh one of your "brothers" is trans too?
I thought you had a trans cousin?
Anyway, great that she understands.
>>6442594
>tfw you're fat and too hairy and manly to ever hope to be anything more than a hon
>>6442596
omg how did u get a stomach that cute :o
>>6442596
I need the age of the following parts of your body to properly meassure the general result:
>right knee
>little finger of right foot
>third rib from either side
>nose
>middle point of your longest hair
>middle wrinkle on the first articularion of your left heart finger
>dancing style
>>6442608
not a trans cousin :P
No, I mean my mum allowing me might be kinda payback cause of the row. its kinda hard to explain really
>>6442601
Do you really want me to post articles about dolphin rape and how they treat their women?
Menwhile sharks kill less people than those that just drown.
>tfw hairy butt ;__;
>>6442621
>hair on everything but face
get in line sister
Holy fuck I am so ugly irl that it's not even funny.
It's not even BDD, I am just really fucking ugly. Worst than the honniest of hons in existence. Even for a male I am really really ugly.
I should genuinely kill myself.
>>6442600
With another trans girl?
>she lays you down
>make sure you're comfortable for your first time
>she makes sure your well lubricated
>you look up into her eyes unsure, but you love her
>she pushes inside of you slowly filling you
>you whimper a bit when it starts, but as she starts to rock in and out of you you start moving your hips
>you've always wanted this, you want her to cum inside of you to feel it fill you
>you start thrusting into her, clawing at her, begging for it... Until... It final happens
>b..ut neither of you have refractory periods.... So... You keep repeating this all night until she passes out in your arms
For a cis girl?
>you awkwardly both don't want this
>you try to do stuff
>it's kinda weird for both of you
>you talk about anime instead
>>6442607
its okay to take your time, but be careful not to waste time you know? like i can see it being easy to keep putting it off longer and longer bc ur not perfect enough. but at the same time i do understand where youre coming from wanting to feel worthy and hit your own standard of success. like it's so hard when u feel like ur not even up to ur own standards so work hard edie im rooting for you! go get your future hubby! ^_^
>>6442618
sounds like shark propaganda!
>>6442596
http://vocaroo.com/i/s1Pci0UbsHGm
>>6442600
>double ended dildo
>frotting
>admitting you're gay bois
>>6442625
woah, kinda lewd senpaii, especially cis girl part
I have my laser consult in 6 hours but I've been told nothing about it.
Do I need to grow the hair or does it not matter?
>>6442600
you jerk each other off while talking about how feminine your plad skirt and thighhighs make you feel
>>6442591
regardless of whether or not it's long distance, dating in general tend to make people wear a 2 inch social mask. the truth is, a lot of people need to embellish themselves by promoting less than accurate ideals about themselves. are people who are bettering themselves for a relationship, then fake?
there are plenty of people who get away with being just as fake in you can say when dating someone close to them. as long as they can keep up the work.
saying that people in long distance relationships are fake is simply not true. you can say people can get away easier with being fake, but as reiterated people in general are fake when it comes to dating.
>>6442574
idk i like to use emotes and pictures when i'm trying to communicate with someone i like so idk
nothing beats irl interactions though i absolutely agree
idk
>>6442594
can i tell you to fuck off
>>6442600
>how do you even have transbian sex
one fucks the other; ie dick in butt
frot
mutual masturbation
stuf like perenium rubbing
regular lesbian stuff
>obsidian will never make another fallout
>>6442632
a bit late now. maybe they'll just check your hair and skin to decide a method and give you the next apointment.
>>6442637
>you will never be miss Steele
>>6442607
Oh it takes me like an hour and a half to get there going north. Ur pretty qt..we'd prob have fun. I'd probably just be intimidated and I could be a boy that day.
>>6442643
literally who
>>6442646
fetish gaemmmme
>>6442624
This ugly?
>>6442626
Serious question. Why are people here so mean to you? I lurk the threads often and you seem to be one of the nicer posters here. I don't really understand.
>>6442626
i just want to be effortlessly feminine and happy and beautiful, and i know another year and a half of HRT won't totally grant me that, but i'll be way closer. i don't wanna have to worry about like ... anything. i just want to be me and a girl and happy and normal with him/for him. it'll happpennn.
>>6442644
it takes me like an hour and a half to get there going south lol! what should we do?!
THIS SOUNDS FUN I LOVE MEETING UP WIT 4CHINS PPL
>>6442637
Aren't you kinda too old for vidya rawr? With your responsibilities and everything?
>>6442635
People are fake because you
Can.Not.Show.Emotion. Towards most human beings, if you aren't the IT girl telling them a real life hot story, they'll just go to a bar and find the next girl that will.
Most people not like that, are married.
People are shallow and horny and love their little stories, both long distance and short. And there's nothing wrong with that
>>6442656
Give it time, all will be made clear.
>tfw testosterone fucked you up
REEEEEEEEEEE
>>6442654
I am objectively uglier
>>6442660
uh, no? not really?
>>6442639
I already have hair I just hate going to moderately populated areas without shaving.
>>6442661
I HATE OS MUSCH ;-;
butts and also farts
>>6442656
well everybody isnt going to like someone no matter what but i think it's a few reasons
>dont pass
>early hrt
>black
>not really attractive
at least thats the reasons ive been told. oh well thankfully almost all of that is temporary.
>>6442658
i gotchu it'll be a big like release of pressure so u won't have to worry about that c:
>>6442671
4chan is racist in general
>>6442664
No way
>>6442658
I know I'm a terrible
However;
Girl to girl;
Never shape who you are, physically/mentally to suit a boy
You're more than that.
You're worth more than that.
...this is why girls can marry, get chubby, & bend their Hubby's habits to their will.
Plsplspls Dont 'make yourself 'X' girl for "him".
If you turn out a better person, for yourself.
Then that's fantastic.
If he doesn't appreciate the better person you worked so hard to be for YOURSELF, he's not worth your time.
He should enjoy you as natural you. Not a fetish/perfect woman you manufacture for him.
Have some feminism, sweetie. You're flying dangerously close to the sun with these posts.
>>6442661
that's because once you reveal your emotions to people, you become vulnerable. some people are opportunistic about taking advantage of your vulnerability, so it's not recommended in today's society.
black mtf's 2 qt
>>6442635
It really depends on each person how much they can notice beyond a facade, but just being in a real enviroment makes it much harder to hide yourself since you have constant interactions with others around you.
I don't think people being a better version of themselves is fake at all, we can also be a worse version. Having someone that motivates you to be better is in every sense an improvement for your life. But when that person is connected to you in an extremely controlled way at selected times you don't really have to change anything about yourself to be better, as sincere as you want to be that motivation will only last the small time you are skyping with them. Compare that to someone being able to visit your house, see the people you surround yourself with, get you to interact with others being either friends or just employees at a bar or whatever. One means changing your life for the better, the other changing a tiny framed part of it. Ignoring of course compulsive liers or things like that, of course, you can't go for the particular possibilities when just generalizing an idea.
It's more clear when it comes to your feelings. It's extremely easy to have feelings for someone you can barely know. If there's no chance of your lives intercrossing there are many elements that form part of any relationship that are left to your imagination. It's not that I see the people entering a ldr as having fake feelings in general, my point is that feelings born from them are in a great part made in your own head.
>>6442636
>emotes and pictures
I really dislike them, standarized demostrations of love feel really weird as a concept and I can't help imagining someone with a completely straight emotionless face on the other side, you know? Like pic related (understanding that wwww is lol for japan.
>>6442676
post the ufufu x sheen one
itt: post your feels as a song
currently: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZkCa2on8ia8
>>6442656
I think the main issue is that korra doesn't look particularly feminin at this point and acts overly girly, and considering her age it would be a bit cringey even for a really girly girl.
But beyond rationalizations it's just people that need a target. It's their own way of dealing with things.
>>6442678
Don't go too far with letting your vulnerability control you beyond what is justified, though. That's how you end up messed up like me.
>>6442684
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5RVbch7rEg
>>6442664
>I am objectively uglier
Pic or it didn't happen.
>>6442675
And Mercury is kind of a dumbass with a chip on her shoulder. A match made in Heaven.
>>6442596
yummy tummy :)
>>6442665
Girls don't play games silly.
>>6442086
When your bros that knew you as a bro compliment your femininity, its not autism.
Its bros saying 'good job, you're making it'
>>6442684
Don't have a Youtube link but I have a name: "Not Feeling Anything(Strong Enough for a Song)" by Anon.
>>6442661
I've said this many times to you already Faye, but you surround yourself with horrible people.
>>6442678
Or you grow a thicker skin and learn to be hurt and move on. If your vulnerability scares you or opens you to being hurt isn't because of it, it's because you created some idea that you were safe. Wanting to be invulnerable while opening up and being vulnerable is some weird dissonance that people need to fix.
>>6442686
I hate to think how people would treat me if I were one to post pictures of myself.
>>6442693
Fuck that's creepy.
>>6442677
Can't blame her for that. I can't help having whoever I'm in love reshape me altogether. It's not something I do, not even something they want, just something that happens. And I guess changing that much can get scary at times. And it has happened so many times by now I'd be hard pressed to find a real me in there. I'm just water filling whatever shape I'm provided with.
>>6442666
oh, you need like a week of hair or something like that. it sucks.
>>6442684
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SsETdQTV-lE
https://youtu.be/MoXlspGyAS4
>>6442675
i love your dog, i wish i could pet him, or any dog rn desu
>>6442679
false
>>6442680
lol
i mean alot of things do make me react irl, so idk
"lol" can be meaningless, but idk
text conversations between me and people i "date" have alot of image macros and shit
idk people deal with things in different ways
>>6442690
a chip on my shoulder?
what do you mean?
>>6442678
you can reveal some emotions or controlled emotional situations and appear vulnerable u know
>>6442684
http://youtu.be/lLeCB7Kn-VE
>>6442690
what do you mean by that
>>6442709
He loves you too :3
But yeah dogs are the best
>>6442715
im going to save that pic if you dont mind
>>6442680
so then as i've already mentioned, people are fake in general, instead of saying long distance relationships are for fake people. people can go to great lengths until it's inevitable. one of the consequences being incompatibility resulting in ground for divorce , yet people tend to be careful about who they go about marrying after knowing them for quite a while
>>6442684
https://youtu.be/tiJzCahaN8w
I'm feeling angsty.
>>6442716
Go ahead, it's all yours~
>>6442709
>have alot of image macros and shit
like, you do memes for them? that'd be cute because there'd be some sort of weird effort or something. I'm not really judging, it's just how I feel about it, like, I wouldn't complain to someone using them or anything.
im a good girl
>>6442721
Come on Caddy!
>>6442721
Hey there
>>6442722
What a nice pupper!
>>6442726
THEY UNDERSTAND ME!
WHEN I WAS
>>6442717
I said the opposite, in most cases when you "change" yourself for someone else it means improving your actual life. That's as fake as studying more because you have exams or cleaning the house because it's diry, it's another part of whatever it is "you" adapting to a certain scenario.
The limits and controls of long distance turn this change into a temporary thing with no connection to the rest of your life.
>>6442711
I think Korra is cute. Idk why her looks are ragged on so much. Yeah she still looks like a boy, but she's a cute boy at least. (Sorry Korra)
>>6442727
Best pupper!
>>6442677
i think it's more my projection of what i think he wants based on who i want to be more than anything. like the ~fully evolved~ me is what he deserves imho. not the person i am now. though he's always appreciated me for who i am at every stage of my development. if that makes sense?
>>6442688
>>6442699
i personally wear my heart on my sleeve and don't really care. i don't however, overshare my feelings with anyone. it's a delicate balance. i believe that every situation has a power dynamic to it and you need to do prevent yourself from a social suicide if you can control it. i don't however, condone people being too manipulative to the point of complete dishonesty/false posturing
>>6442722
thanks
>>6442723
no i mean
like
i've texted pepe pics back and forth for a hours straight with multiple people [that i've met in real life, not internet people]
i've never made a meme for someone i've wanted to fuck, but thats actually not a bad idea
idk if i can really explain well, but idk
i like to send and receive voice messages; i like pictures, i like in jokes and references
idk
i do prefer seeing people and talking in person, face to face, but thats not always an option
>>6442684
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xAIoh9rxRi8
>>6442735
I don't share the feeling but I don't really care about trying to hurt people and I understand that she's just a few months in having started pretty late for our supposed standards.
I don't think posting your face here is a good idea in general, even if you look extremely good and want to make everyone jelly or if you're expecting sincere tips to improve.
>>6442678
That's not really my experience
People just can't handle emotion, like literally they either internalize it as something they did, or they try to fix you, or they can't process it and just shut down.
And it makes sense, it's how humans are as children, daddy and mommy are fighting because of you, its your fault, your parents take care of your emotions because they love you(or they don't because they don't), but you're never taught how to process another persons emotions, or have emotions at the same time
It's just like being an egocentric child who hasn't grown up, and I'm not using that as a degrading term or in a degrading way, it's just to point out its our base state as humans
>>6442715
>what do you mean by that
Exactly what it says on the tin. Mercury has an annoying tendency to sperg about whatever rubs her the wrong way that day which makes others respond in kind which leads her to adopt the condescending "sassy black ho" (and might I add adopt it badly) which makes anon (and trips going anon) push her shit in. Rinse and repeat.
I skip that altogether by filtering the whole mess.
>>6442735
its alright u havent said anything to offend me n.n
>>6442711
I mean, I know why I don't (I don't like how I look, am not out to people I live with and don't want to get bullied) but part of me does wish that I could feel comfortable posting pictures of myself like other people here.
>>6442738
idk I think my pupper might have you beat
>>6442729
YOU ARE NOT THAT PERSON ANYMORE!
YOU PROMISED!
>>6442735
>mfw he got literally chased out of gaygen for being so disgustingly ugly
>>6442743
>i've texted pepe pics back and forth for a hours straight
don't know if cute or just bizarre
You can also add using messages to simply coordinate seeing eachother and things like that. I'm not some hermit living away from technology, but I don't think it can replicate every area of interaction.
Go make some meems for your loved ones now!
>>6442742
I think that's the better way to deal with it. You can't live your life scared of just doing your thing, while it isn't okay to be an autist that can't diferentiate social situations.
>>6442756
That's a big pupper.
>>6442734
but then why do people get divorced grounded in incompatibility? surely they didn't only come from long distance relationships. not everyone in long distance relationships are prone being deceitful either. to say that long distance relationships are for fake people is too large of a blanket statement
>>6442756
Is that your mom?
>>6442756
Yeah that's a pretty good pupper, but I still think mine is best pupper
i would post another pic but
>imagelimitreached.jpeg
>>6442764
its her rofl
>>6442749
It's pretty hard to just listen to someone when they are hurting tho. When you try to justify or fix or whatever, it's just because you're powerless to actually help that person but you really want to. So you take those actions that under any logical thinking aren't going to help, but it's as much for them as it is to keep you from just getting their sadness and having to hold it inside you.
>>6442759
i'm a fucking weirdo but in each situation the other person started it
except for the girl who told me she'd text me rare pepe's on tindr, so i gave her my number and she actually did send me a bunch i didn't have
and yes, texts regarding where we are meeting/when etc are a big element of many conversations
>"Sorry i'm not into trannies"
>>6442741
>>6442677
I do the same thing, when I was with Edie, I felt like I couldn't speak or socialize, I was uncomfortable with my body, I wanted to grow more.
Now that I'm not I want to be ready for "her", whoever she is. I want to be more naturally feminine and comfortable in my skin, so I can be the partner to "her " that I want to be, and I know she'll love me more for it when I meet her
>>6442749
>People just can't handle emotion, like literally they either internalize it as something they did
that's probably because you are hanging out with self-centered narcissists
>It's just like being an egocentric child who hasn't grown up
i agree
>>6442779
It hurts when it happens, even if they don't say it in as many words.
>>6442779
>"sorry i wasn't interested in small penises anyway"
>>6442789
> my gender isn't a perversion, I swear.
>>6442763
Divorce feels like a very specific moment, even marriage is a pretty weird thing around my life. I'd prefer to avoid the topic because I don't have any experinces about them. But separations after years of being together is a pretty logical thing, you'd have to be the same person forever and that simply isn't how humans are. Change is part of life and adding strict elements to prevent it will always result in problems.
I didn't mean that people particularly good at faking life are prone to ldr, if anything they aren't because they don't need them. The problem comes from interacting with a limited vision of what the other person is. No matter how sincere we are, there is no absolute substance that makes us who we are. That's why I see changing for someone else a sincere action, but intentionally going to a space where you know you'll have a more "safe" or "easy" relationship makes you a big fake in terms of what you show the other. As sincere as you can be you're still not sharing more than what you wanted to share. That's not a real person.
>>6442793
>just fuck me in the ass
>lets be honest here thats all you'd want to do to a regular woman anyway
>>6442789
>>6442793
>>6442779
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>>6442809
i am just a strange person who attracts other strange people
>>6442780
>I want to be more naturally feminine
>by not taking hormones
>and telling everyone that not taking hormones is cool
>watching gifs of cute animals
>puppers playing with their mom
>ywn b a mom
Kill me plz
>>6442768
But you shouldn't have to hold it, sadness isn't bad, it's an emotion, and you can feel it with them, or if you aren't empathetic, just be there with them and appreciate what they're going through
I don't mind the fixing so much, but I tend to say I don't need to be fixed, or that they shouldn't stop me from having a feeling, (what can I do? Vs "you're being rediculous right now) and they get really upset by it. Like I have to stop being me, to cater to their wants completely, or hide who I am so they don't get mad at a simple feeling.
I understand it can hurt at first to be exposed to someone having feelings, but it's just who they are, and after they pass you guys can go get icecream or dinner and hold hands and fuck your Brains out or w/e
>>6442828
weren't you saying that people with those feels are idiotic and you don't want children to exist like a week ago?
>>6442839
Not me
>>6442837
As I already said in this thread, you surround yourself with horrible people.
When someone you care about, including friendships and all kinds of caring, is hurting it feels like you're going through it too. So people try to push their own solutions to you. What you see is just a reflection of how they deal with that. If someone tries to stop you from having feelings ("you're being ridiculous right now") it's because they either don't want to deal with it or they repress like that their own feelings. If you want another reaction from them you'd have to change them.
>>6442795
while people can progress or regress as human beings, the quintessential components of yourself is unlikely to change from factors of externalities. there may be divorces that occur out of a specific moment, but surely there are ones that disintegrate over time.
the problem with what you're saying is, how not every long distance relationship is intentionally plotted for its great geographical proximity. a lot of the times people get into them despite of it.
also
>there is no absolute substance that makes us who we are
can you cite your sources?
>>6442880
My problem with ldr isn't about plotting or any mean spirit, that'd be besides the point. It's just that it pragmatically limits you from actually getting to know the other person.
>can you cite your sources?
It's just how I see things. I've changed a lot many times and the people around me have done the same. I don't know anyone who thinks or acts exactly as they did 5 years ago. But it's as much of a rule as if I said that I like chicken.
If you're extremely against it feel free to cite sources defending "there is an absolute substance that makes us who we are" since that's your imlied thesis and you're free to defend it.
I don't think genes would particularly work for that argument, I guess they do make a structure that sets how we can be but they have very little control about the presentation of that. The same genes now than in the middle ages or among cavemen would result in extremely different results, for example
So I just woke from a dream where I had a trans gf. It was the most beautiful thing I've ever experienced in a dream I feel like im in love with her. But I woke up and it wasn't real how do I find her?
