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Ancient map: https://www.zeemaps.com/edit/U0Hw9yNtqrJd-qzTdbUFMw
Some info (excuse the tumblr, it's truscum): http://helpfultransinfo.tumblr.com/tags/
Phalloplasty info:
http://ftmphalloplasty.tumblr.com/post/127662387608/phalloplasty-blogs
Skype group: add cheeki-briki or duckduckfrog
>>6225355
It's too early for a new thread but I will taint it with memes all the same
>>6225382
Fuck off dude
>>6225382
>It's too early for a new thread
we'll all be okay
>>6225390
touching
>>6225390
We're all gonna make it, brah.
Each and every one of us.
Thoughts on Ky Peterson?
>>6225355
>Putting $80-$100+ figures inside your computer
Why?
>>6225604
they make it work better
>>6225561
around blax never..
>>6225604
Lmao if you can't afford a figurine of your 2d waifu how are you ever gonna be able to afford a 3d one?
>>6225798
By not spending money on a 2D waifu. And also not showing off in public that you have a figure of 2D waifus.
>tfw more hair around my nipples than in my chin
okay
Question for you fag guys, do you take dick in your butt or in you puss? What is considered norm
Got the misogyny burning deep inside me 2bh, lads. Gonna go gay from now on. It's less hassle.
>scare brother with bugs, dirt and blood in quick succession
I take great solace in the fact that he's more of a girl than I am.
what does ftm general think of this:
>>6221731
>>6226742
>mother of 12
Fucking hell. Check the body language on those poor fucking kids, the girl in blue seems scared.
hey guys
can you help me out?
I'm a 27 yo, supposedly cis woman
I'm not sure where to begin
>behaved "like a boy" as a child
>lots of bullying and trouble, later started behaving more like a girl
>still kinda 50/50 to this day
>cried a lot as a teenager, hated my body specially my hips, felt like a breeding cow or something, didn't care about my tits tho (very smol, a cup)
>still not fully ok with it but I don't cry over it anymore
I feel as if I was supposed to be a man, everything would "fit" better. my tastes, my personality, even my face would look better I think. I'm an ugly female but would be a cute male
at the same time I think I got used to it? sometimes it really bothers me and I dress manly but I never leave the house in boy mode, too terrified for that
other times I'm feeling super girly and wear florals and stuff and it's alright
what do? maybe I'm trans? have you guys experienced anything like this? am I in denial?
>>6226742
I can 100% guarantee you this is literally only about MtF and she couldn't (or doesn't even know FtM exist) care less about FtM. She's pissy about transwomen invading her bathrooms--or better yet, she doesn't actually care at all and just wants to seem important on a fucking stupid issue that was suddenly made out to be a political one.
Holy mother of hell, how did my transition align with it also being all over the news. I seriously want to die.
>apply for therapy over 3 years ago
>get in just over a year ago
>finally get on T and start passing
>all of this trans shitshow starts happening
Literally kill me.
>>6226742
Kim Davis?
>>6226828
pls?
>>6227187
nope you are just a tomboy fujoshi
bet you like men too
>>6226828
>very smol
back to tumblr pls
you seem more like a tomboy if you've made it to almost 30 without trying to kill yourself bc tfw no dick
>>6226828
at the end of the day, only you can answer this question
think about how you'd feel with a more masculine body-if you started growing body hair everywhere, got moustache and beard hairs, if you got muscles more easily and body fat went more to your tummy than your hips, etc, how would it make you feel? excited? disgusted?
maybe experiment with male pronouns in an online community, you can build a profile somewhere unconnected to anywhere else online and see how you feel being referred to as 'he' and 'him'
if you're someone more down to talking things out, you could go to a therapist-here i'd recommend someone with experience of gender variation over a generic therapist
good luck, friend
do FTMs have the promiscuity of cis men or prudeness of cis women?
>>6227320
both
you can't escape being raised female, it makes most ftms shitty
>>6227320
I'm pretty promiscuous
>>6227320
this is a generalisation based on my experiences but
gay ftms love sleeping around
straight ftms find one girl who's ok with them and will get married when they're 20 due to scarcity of said girls
>>6227380
>scarcity
lmao no
>>6227461
craigslist for a hookup, okcupid for a romance
>>6227461
Just so you know, it's rarer for gay FtMs to let you fuck them vaginally, most will only let you do anal. If that's what you were hoping for, good luck.
>>6227511
>Just so you know, it's rarer for gay FtMs to let you fuck them vaginally
Are you serious?
Are there any FtM that are into guys? FtM/tomboy kinda turns me on
>>6227219
yeah, maybe
I like both
actually there's an ongoing joke that I'm a gay dude because most males I hook up with are bi guys who prefer men
>>6227278
well, I've been depressed and not having a dick sometimes bothers me but ok, thanks
>>6227305
I think I would be excited and terrified at the same time, and I like the online community idea.
I'll need some time to think about the stuff you said
I'm already seeing a therapist for other stuff (anxiety/depression), maybe I'll try to lightly suggest it. thanks!
>>6226828
> I'm an ugly female but would be a cute male
>>6226376
Yeah I didn't even bother with women, never in my life
I can only tolerate mom
>>6225561
>Ky Peterson
>search
>This Black Trans Man Is in Prison for Killing His Rapist
>bretty cool
That's all really.
>>6226306
i'm fag ftm
i do not take dick, i only give dick
there is no norm, everyone is different. there is probably the same top/bottom split among trans guys as among cis guys
>>6227461
anywhere you can find cis gay men
grinder, tinder, okcupid, craigslist, your local gay bar, etc
>>6227599
there are lots of us
but most of us don't fuck with straight guys for obvious reasons
>>6225532
http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/TheTeamWannabe
>>6228461
>>Tumblr
>>6228466
>much creative
>10/10 originality
why the fuck getting a job is so difficult
>>6228499
because you don't have any applicable degrees, education or skills in accordance to the current job demand in your location, or your social skills or means of interactions obscure your chances with connecting with a potential employer??
>lab course from 7-10PM, walk in sweaty and disgusting because summer
>TA trying to be friendly checking everyones names
>introduce myself by chosen name
>he looks at roster "...[slave name]?"
>...
>"...No?"
>full beard have been 100% passing for years now
>he asks again in confusion
>"i just got added so I might not show up yet"
>"oh well I just have "slave name" on the roster"
>brings it up again, I just turn and stare at him in exasperation
>class laughs, thankfully because of my appearance the idea of me being some girl [slave name] is so ludicrous its not obvious what is happening
>he apologizes for messing up my name, I'm mentally fried the whole period so I'm last one finishing up
>its just us, i tell him that's my legal name
>have to tell him 3 times before he believes me
>...
>he slowly begins to realize what he's done, he seems like a nice dude sure he feels awful about it
>accept his apology assure him I understand it was just an accident, but there's nothing that can save us from this exponentially growing awkwardness
>suck it up and finish, say goodbye and headout
>legs shaking as I try to go down the stairs, mortification setting in
fuck, no matter how I rationalize it I'm dreading going into class tomorrow. I'm trying to just be proud of myself for keeping my cool when it happened and not blowing up or breaking down on him after class, but fuck, man. I'm just going to blow the 400 dollars to get my name changed, dealing with this is impossible.
>even when you pass you aren't free
>people don't understand why trans people kill themselves
>>6227278
> If you haven't tried to kill yourself yet you're not miserable enough
well fuck you, too
>>6229548
She's 27 and has had no signs of sex dysphoria whatsoever.
She's just a tomboy who hates having hips
>>6229669
>She's 27 and has had no signs of sex dysphoria whatsoever.
You could make a lot of money with that crystal ball of yours.
>>6229690
>defending a cis tomboy this much
>>6229748
Actually I'll bite - you make it like being trans is all about genital dysphoria when THAT IS WRONG AND NOT SUPPORTED BY THE MEDICAL COMMUNITY. If it was only about genitalsomething what would be the point of transition without phallo?
'Sex dysphoria' is literally a term tumblr made up. It does not exist in literature. Stop trying to spread that idea everywhere else.
>>6229821
Being trans is about genital dysphoria tho
also
>phallo
You mean a shitty inadequate surgery? No thanks I'd rather not get an armdick that can't cum and can't get hard on its own I'm holding out for some miraculous medical breakthrough that gives me something decent
>>6229821
I'm pretty sure that transitioning without phallo would be much rarer if our fake dicks would resemble proper dicks closer than they do Frankenstein's monster.
If the results were amazing, I'd honestly doubt anyone's validity who wouldn't go through with it.
does everyone wear guys underwear?
>>6229836
>implying everyone who questions is trans
>implying a boyish girl who hates her hips and think she's ugly is trans
>implying no dysphoria is needed just taking gender roles too seriously, and damage from bullying makes someone trans
>>6230320
>phallo
>a dick
>>6226306
both, but moreso in the front just because of the sheer convenience of it
>>6230410
>Implying damage from bullying makes someone trans
>Behaved like a boy
>Bullied into behaving like a girl
Yeah sure. Nothing trans-related here.
>>6230448
>girls are never boyish
>masculine behavior means trans
no
>>6230032
I wear stuff made for kids. All normal guy wear is too big for me.
>>6230451
>All gender is social constructivism
Special snowflake pls go
>>6230032
>tfw you discover panties are actually great underwear for keeping your packer pecker in place
no wonder so many cis guys like slipping on a soft snug pair of women's underwear
>>6230500
>no wonder so many cis guys like slipping on a soft snug pair of women's underwear
>>6230458
>implying i said that
someone is trans if they experience dysphoria, a girl who thinks she's ugly and hates her hips isn't trans without dysphoria
not conforming to gender roles doesn't make someone trans
>>6230544
Lol. Define dysphoria then.
Hating your feminine bits comes with the transguy turf. She didn't have have issues with her tits because they were really small, but big hips and periods freaked her out? Why are you so quick to label that as just girls being girls and not body dysphoria?
>>6230580
why are you so quick to label someone trans for hating their hips and thinking they're ugly as a girl but would make a cute boy?
>>6230500
That's AGP as fuck. Stop polluting this board with your crap.
>>6230586
>Label them as trans
The person came to a trans thread on a LGBT board and questioned herself/himself as trans. I'm not labelling them, I want to know more before I get on the high and mighty TruTrans horse and mock them. Not everyone has everything sorted out and a lot of transpeople struggle with supressed identity for years. This person had 'boy' behaviour and got bullied into behaving like a girl. That's not your cookie cutter self-hating girl behaviour.
>>6230614
>implying making valid points is mocking
>>6230624
>Implying you made valid points
>>6230587
>That's AGP as fuck
that's a huge jump to make from just wearing a comfortable pair of pants. i'm ftm anyway, and it doesn't apply to me
>Stop polluting this board with your crap
stop being a whining little baby boy
>>6230634
>implying pointing out that thinking you're ugly and boyish so you must be ftm doesn't make you trans isn't a valid point
>implying saying you need dysphoria to be trans isn't valid
>implying a small chest is enough like a male chest to not cause any dysphoria when someone is actually ftm
>>6230661
The person never said "ugly and boyish", they simply said they're an ugly girl and would make a cute boy
You still haven't defined dysphoria, not pointed out how the person doesn't have dysphoria
A small chest can easily pass as a male chest with a sports bra, or even without a bra depending on the tits. Double D's are very very different.
>>6230670
Dysphoria is the feeling of disconnection and confusion when you're brain expects you to be male and you are not
Not wanting a more masculine body and features, that's called being a tomboy
>>6230670
you really want her to be ftm
>>6230586
>>6230614
Nobody labeled them as trans - there is simply not enough information in two paragraphs. But telling someone that they can't possible be trans if they haven't killed themselves by a certain age (what about cis guys who lose their dick and don't kill themselves!?) is just as bad as being like "Yea, you're trans".
There is a reason that you can't be diagnosed after writing a quick e-mail.
>>6230704
>not enough information
>entire post of i'm an ugly tomboy
>>6230730
>implying saying dysphoria makes someone trans is elitist
>being this stupid
>>6230735
Here's another (you) trolleyboy
>>6230741
>hurrdurr i dont like facts u r troll
>>6230749
(Y-you) too
>>6230417
It's more of a dick than a cunt, and there will never be surgical improvements to give proper dicks in our lifetime.
>>6230756
Not with talk like that, bud.
Believe, and one day you'll have a huge swinging dick.
>>6230869
You're an asshole
>>6230947
Why you hurting me like this
>>6230953
>makes light of an actual problem he'll never understand
>Why you hurting me like this
Because you're an asshole who belittles actual problems ftms face in a place you don't belong
>>6230970
Fair point but why exactly is making light of a problem a bad thing? Shit, it's a fairly common thing to hear people say they'd rather laugh at their issues because the alternative is worse.
>>6230970
>muh broblemz
>>6230970
What next, you need a trigger warning too?
>>6230970
>in a place you don't belong
would you fuck off lmao
SWG is the only good thing about this thread
>>6230970
>thinks she's a man
>still cries like a little bitch
I would deck you in two seconds, "bro".
>>6230981
Making light of a problem you don't have isn't the same as making light of one you do have
You're in a place full of ftms making jokes about something that you will never have to deal with, and will never understand and think you're entitled to do it because sometimes ftms make jokes to cope with issues they actually deal with?
Don't be a piece of shit
>>6231011
I'm an actual man you cuck, not a bitch pretending to be one.
>>6231004
you tell him sista
>>6231004
Well that wraps everyone up in their own definitive issues and prevents any real contact between them succintly.
How exactly is it different anyway? I want to hear your rationale, above and beyond "you don't know what it's like to walk in my shoes", because that's rarely a valid point for any argument.
>>6231004
Literally nobody on this planet could think a man wrote this post. It reads like some shit they post on Jezebel.
>>6231011
are you ftm?
>>6231015
Someone's feeling catty today
>>6231004
SWG is one of us, don't act like a little susceptible delicate flower. It's not like him joking about our lack of dick will change anything in that regard. We'll still be dickless manlets whether or not he harmlessly makes some banter about swinging cocks.
>>6231029
>wanting to suck his dick this hard
>>6231011
More like I'll enjoy fiddling my mutant sized no-dick to sleep. Might not be a dick but it's still fun.
>>6231039
I actually wanted to fuck him up the arse ever since he posted his face pic though I don't know if he'd let me
>>6231019
My "rationale" is that when you don't understand or experience something making light of it in the company of people who do is asshole behavior
You try too hard to fit in with ftms when you speak to them, and it's stupid rather than funny
You're like an old man using slang to reach kids
>>6231055
Big surprise
>>6231055
>mfw
>>6231062
Honk honk kids, it's the big surprise truck
Choose your flavour
>>6231058
... not it isn't arsehole behaviour? Who do you hang out with that takes real offence when you're making light of misfortune? Schadenfreude is one of the oldest and most successful forms of comedy.
I wasn't directing a direct malicious jab at the poster or FtMs as a whole (which would sound something like "hurrhurr u have no dick u'll never be men", by the way that isn't what I think before you misquote me) which is what I assume you think I was doing, I was instead taking what that post said, which was a serious comment regarding the level of phalloplasty and reassuring them that it might get to a level where people would be happy with the result, and putting in enough humour into the comment for it to be light hearted.
I'm not trying to fit in with the FtM clique because I don't fit the requirements, doesn't mean I don't like the people who post here. Understand now?
>>6231094
I didn't say you were malicious, I said you were an asshole
is this like /scv/ general?
How is everyone doing?
You know, if we can't keep in SWG's good books, none of us are going to get his dick when he dies.
I love you all.
>>6231237
I'd say it's large, but most people who see it tend to be moaning too loudly to give me an easy answer.
>>6227278
>if you haven't attempted suicide you're not Trans Enough
Who made you chief of the tranny police? Just because you're miserable and inadequate doesn't mean everyone is.
>>6226828
Your story is pretty close to mine actually, only I have DD+ tiddies and life is suffering.
I've read through the thread. People are telling you that it's dysphoria, that it's run-of-the-mill self hate... What do you think? What feels right to you?
Dysphoria is a fickle bitch. Sometimes you put on makeup and a skirt and you feel cute as fuck. You think, oh, I feel fine! I feel great! I can't be trans.
And then some days you want to scrape off your skin and light it on fire. So it's kind of a toss-up.
I would recommend talking to your therapist about it. But honestly, the only one who really knows is you. You've gotta sort through that self-hate and figure out why it happens. And if that's because your trans, then come on in. We're all salty cunts, but we'd love to have you.
kill me
>>6231398
I sentence you to watch all of the Dollars Triology movies.
>I like crossdressing as a woman because it makes me feel powerful and attractive
>I fantasize about becoming a rich, powerful woman and doing whatever I want because I'm attractive
>fantasize about dominating guys and turning them into my personal sex slaves
Who else ftm autogynephilia here? Please tell me I'm not the only one.
>>6230869
If i ever have a dick it will be because I've seriously considered phallo. My attitude does not define the pace of medical research. Even if they make breakthroughs, these things need to be trialled - a process that clearly doesn't happen over night. If it ever were to happen in our lifetimes, who's to say we wouldn't be too old for surgery anyway? People need to be realistic about these things.
>>6231742
>"""""""gay ftms""""""""
Hey, quick question:
My ftm boyfriend is really into being romantic and wooing girls. I used to be a tranny, but I've recently decided (for various reasons) to regress back to being a femboy. He keeps making jokes about it and I don't think he likes it. I'm not sure if I feel comfortable telling people I'm a "woman" yet, but I want to make him happy. What do?
>>6232204
Kill self.
Are you planning on retransitioning?
>>6232213
I still take hormones
Socially, I suppose people and strangers treat me as a girl. I just have personal issues with being a "woman"
>>6232213
But yeah, if I ever get Ffs or srs I'll feel comfortable calling myself as a girl
>>6232220
Sort out that internalised misogyny
>>6232315
I wish it was that easy, but I'm 6'2". "Ohhh but I love tall women!" He says, but it's just so difficult to look past all the reasons I'm not feminine enough or the reasons that being just a feminine male makes sense to me
>>6231742
Just stay a fucking woman then
>>6231258
Let me top you, str8gay
I like gingers
What other boards do you visit?
What other threads/gens do you guys visit on /lgbt/?
>>6232493
/v/ and /vg/, /pol/, used to browse /x/ a few years ago. Mainly /lgbt/ and /v/ though.
>>6232667
Why won't you let me knead your buns with my rolling pin
>>6232743
You have to allow time for the bread to rise, senpai
>>6232752
How can it rise if you don't let me warm and work the buns up properly
You're missing out on my pastamatic magic
>>6232779
Don't forget to squeeze the icing
>>6232801
I'm running out of baker wooing techniques, can I drill your oil well or not
>>6232819
Depends, will you butter my muffins first?
Is it me or is it getting a bit of hot in the kitchen.
>>6232826
I will roll the pin a bit, provided I can stuff the plumcakes afterwards
>>6232864
Don't let my soufflé fall
>>6232870
Are you doubting my whisking abilities? I'll whip that cream hard before I take out my piping bag
>>6232890
Will you stuff my profiteroles with cream?
>>6232894
I can't guarantee on the cream but I promise I'll make a very large hole in your donut
>>6232907
When you put it like that how can I say no to you
>>6232968
Make me feel special, senpai
>>6232984
So special I made this for you
>>6233058
come on man
>>6233070
Don't ruin my wooing you piece of shit
>>6233058
No image of any large body of water will accurately convey how wet my undies are right now
>>6233145
You realise you now have to fuck me, right?
>this conversation
>>6233193
Join us
>>6233185
That's precisely what I wanted to achieve
>>6233243
Well, I'm ready when you are buddy.
>>6233260
Will I need to catapult my monster cock strapon overseas? Or are you around Eu-rape-a
>>6233279
UK, bud
>>6233288
Well yeah you're a ginger, I should have known
Want to have a seaside vacation in Italy with some sidefucking too
>>6233322
Yes
>>6233328
your straight card gets more worn and cracked as the days go on
if a cashier asked to see your straight card, she would reject it
>>6233350
With men like these, who needs women?
>>6233328
Fasten your seatbelts there are no brakes now
>>6233401
r a d i c a l
Who needs safety, let's go full throttle and to hell with the consequences.
>>6233440
Let me transform your trick weapon wildly
>>6233488
When I thought my undies couldn't get more moist, you just go and make me get moister
>>6233526
I'll make you feel my Moon Presence
Would it be possible to get my family physician to prescribe me T? There's no informed consent clinics nearby and no trans friendly endos either
>>6233564
>>6233590
Can we use yours?
>>6233625
L-lewd
>>6233657
>>6233590
A peaceful room where I'll be able to swing my occult club at >>6233625
without interferences
>>6233674
Why not let them watch
Not like they could interrupt, even if they tried
>>6225355
Are gay FtM a thing?
>>6233681
There are no stops during the wild ride, they can sit down and enjoy the scenary
Primordial serpent is ready m'lord
>>6226742
It's hilarious as hell. I shower myself in cis tears. I'll gladly piss in the same room as your daughter if that's what you want.
>>6233712
yes, the majority are bisexual in fact.
>>6234451
Most transpeople seem to be bi
>>6234494
yep, both, trans women, trans men "non binary genders", i know this poll is from reddit, but whatever, the results are the same than here, but in these polls have a lot more of voters, and still more than half of the trans people are bisexuals.
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1FXfPDh0zgOeh0_RiYhIBY0fQLmfymtNrU9OiMsHSwDM/viewanalytics
>>6234451
>tfw no FtM bf to be fem4fem with
>>6234494
>>6234540
>>6234451
>trans people are bi
Not to discount monosexual and effectively monosexual people, but I think trans people voting bi is a result of self-reflection and honesty. When the establishment leaves you in the cold anyway, why not be honest with yourself and the world about one more thing?
I think a lot more people are bi than are willing to cop to it. Other than the people who are out or out-ish, my experience (including what I hear) points to a bunch more people trying to keep it on the low, even in my (relatively very) open-minded part of the world.
>>6234688
when you throw in complete honesty and cross-sex hormones it really puts people in the middle
>>6234451
In my defense I only want to use men and women for their bodies. I find most guys boring and girls too emotional and batshit so I'm alone forever. Mtfs are also the fucking craziest and ftms.. eh. I guess in my experience that's the most suitable option if I could weed out the demiboyaromanticalwhatevers.
Honestly someone just stricken with apathy and low standards without the crippling mental illnesses that I have to coddle them 24-7 would be fine on me, really.
>>6234680
i want to peg you with my feminine dildo
>>6234949
that would be hot
tell me more
This tree slaps your ass and complements your chest. What do you do?
>>6235021
suck its twig
>>6235021
>>6233243
Where is that image from?
i have a really cool strapon that i just wear and its cool and i like it
but 1) idk if i wanna use it??? i dont even get a chance to most of the time anyways??? 2) considering it makes me feel cool would a packer be a good investment y/n
>>6235158
i'm a cis gay guy and i have a lot of trouble confronting the fact that you type exactly like a woman but clearly experience cross-sex dysphoria
how do you see yourself? and in most men's clothing, the penis is designed to be hidden; wearing a packer would be something you would do for yourself. try it out!
>>6226152
>meme
>>6230032
I prefer it, it's like 50/50 by now and I realized I was trans like a year ago... but if I deal with the basic black one's I had before I don't have to do my laundry for a loooong time
>>6226152
constable is that you
http://www.newstimes.com/local/article/Woman-mistaken-for-transgender-harassed-in-7471666.php
Has anyone ever given you trouble for being in the women's bathroom?
I've had someone come in, then double-check the door to check if she was in the right bathroom, but no hostilities ever.
>>6228461
>trying to rek someone with tv tropes
>>6236857
I got a dirty look from some girl when I was waiting around for a friend. Can't think of any reason why other than my tomboymode.
>>6236929
>be bored neet
>see if tv tropes applies to general and people in it
>only swg has any personality itt
>>6237031
>anonymous imagine board
>none of you have any personality
Aight.
>>6236857
I've gotten chased out of the women's bathroom a couple of times. I'm still pre-T and kinda unsure of where to go but I guess I already pass? I usually use the disabled bathroom to avoid confusion.
That reminds me, once an old lady in Mexico yelled at me for being 'confusing' and then refused me entry to the public bathrooms, both the women's and men's :(
>>6237031
He's the only tripfag around here you retard.
>>6237039
>mtfg full of individual personalities
>gay gen full of individual personalities
>les gen full of individual personalities
>ftmg swg and no one
>>6237063
>implying that makes any of you interesting
>implying this isn't a cess pool of bitter neets and cock thirsty straight girls with nothing worth saying
>>6237064
As a result, this is the only chill general. Not a bad thing, desu.
>>6237071
I don't think chill means what you think it means
>>6237080
Chill = nodrama
>>6234585
Call me faggot all you like, but for god's sake call me Aiden one more time and I swear you'll eat and shit broth for the rest of your life
>>6237086
>thread full of drama whining and bitching at each other
>no drama
kek
>>6235149
I saved it from a /his/ thread about middle eastern assrape
>>6237114
>/his/
Stop being so damn sexy
>>6237123
Are you stalking me str8gay
How can I stop being sexy when that's in my genes
>>6237164
Blowout soon, fellow stalker
(it's in my pants)
How realistic is it to be fully stealth?
I haven't come into society yet due to shut-in status. I'm no longer living in the area I had school in. I'm 18 and NEET. My parents do have friends that know they have a daughter, though.
So, if I even passed 100%, is it possible to be fully stealth? I hate the idea of being a trans male. I just want to be a male, forever. But I'm so sure that it would come up somehow, especially during the earlier stages. Advice/experiences welcome.
>>6237175
Easier than yesterday, slavsuit gave me a charisma bonus
>>6237031
Damn, the quality of this thread dropped over the months.
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Actually I'm lying, it was always terrible.
>>6237223
Will, you like boys. OWN UP TO IT YOU GROSS FUCKER
>>6237226
n-no u
>>6237223
That's not really what I mean; I said, even if I pass 100% and have a beard and whatever, what are my chances of no one socially knowing I'm trans?
If I pass physically, then how likely is it that I can keep it a "secret" and not have it "found out" or asked about by an employer or leaked by someone?
>>6237223
And here I thought questioning your sexuality was due to chasing after hairy men with mutant vaginas or frankencocks
Do you play ds3 str8gay, want to engage in jolly co-op with my faggot alt
>>6237238
Depends on how much you decide to disclose. Further down the line when the T has done most of it's work you'll be asolutely fine. There will be people who might suspect something or have a trained eye for it, but they're uncommon.
>>6237239
I haven't got DS3 yet cos exams but drop your steam anyway lad
>>6237261
http://steamcommunity.com/id/yahiko1/
Profile is private cause i forget to make it public but you should be able to send requests anyway
Faggot Maggot welcomes you to Lothric once exams are over
>>6237063
You can tell he's not from round here because he's not considering Brooklyn who's the strangest and most recognisable person in this gen.
>>6237321
Right, tripping by ellipses. I did forget about him for a moment there.
>>6237233
You like to drink sweat from your mates balls, pal.
>>6237366
J-just because that's the case doesn't make me homo
>>6237585
Just biscum.
>Found lump in left breast
>Can't call doctor until monday
>Getting fucking girl cancer
>Dysphoria intensifies
Fucking REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>6237603
I had that last year - it's really, really unlikely that you get breast cancer in your teens or twenties. Most lumps are harmless cysts or fibradenomas, try not to freak out too much.
>>6237626
I know, but fuck it. Why can't they just chop them off already? I shouldn't have to deal with this shit.
>>6237603
>oh no! No GIRL cancer
Psst guys get breast cancer too, you neurotic dyke
>>6237592
u r rood >:c
>>6237238
It's difficult, but not impossible. I'm stealth in day-to-day life but I am occasionally inadvertently outed by random stuff.
For example, the job I started recently uses the same payroll system as a company I used to work for before I legally changed my name. So when they plugged my SSN into the system, all my old info loaded up including my old name and my old gender marker. Only one person in HR actually saw it, and she was totally cool about it, we got everything fixed, but it really fucked me up for a couple of days. I wanted it to be my first job where I was 100% stealth but I guess not.
I found out that my old info was in the system in the first place because my first paycheck was made out and mailed to me using my old name. And I didn't realize it was made out to my old name until AFTER I deposited it. So I had to call up my bank and explain the situation there as well. So all told I was possibly outed to at least three people (HR lady, mailman, bank customer care person) over one stupid thing.
I consistently get junk mail addressed to my old name, about once a month I have to log on to catalogchoice.org and submit a request to another company to stop sending mail. This is partially my fault for updating my address with the USPS (they sell your info to junk mail companies) but it's annoying and though I know it's extremely unlikely I worry sometimes that I'll be outed to my landlord or neighbors by this.
Some companies have systems that are impossible to completely update. My insurance company has the correct gender marker for me but still has my salutation listed as "miss" for some reason. Once when I switched pharmacies they sent the pharmacy my old name and gender because the medical and prescription systems were separate for some reason. I had to spend awhile on the phone with them to get it fixed.
Another stupid thing, my bank was unable to update my email address for certain types of alerts.
(cont.)
>>6237685
Only a very small percentage of tittycancer cases are men, most are women. Would you like a pink ribbon, faggot?
>>6237794
Oh, also a lot of government forms relating to taxes ask for "other names," you're supposed to put your old name in there but I don't because fuck that, I'm not outing myself over taxes. It hasn't bitten me in the ass yet but who knows.
I'm sure that this stuff evens out eventually. It's only been about a year and a half since I legally changed everything so I'm sure that I'll reach a point eventually where this stupid shit doesn't happen any more. But I am pretty sure it's impossible to predict where your old info is going to pop up; I don't think it's possible to completely and totally avoid being outed at least once or twice.
Luckily, this kind of stuff is usually not social. It's stupid crap with banks and pharmacies and tax shit. None of my friends or coworkers (well, except that one cool person in HR) know that I'm trans and they probably never will.
>>6237831
That is hardly suitable for a Christian image board
I think I'm a guy please help
How do I know for sure?
>>6237798
Yes, thank you. I'll blow my nose with it while you'll be crying over lumps in your breasts or how you don't feel like a "real man".
>>6237842
There's no way to know for sure if you're "a guy" but more importantly it doesn't matter. The best you can do is make educated guesses about what will make you happier about your life/body/presentation/etc.
>>6237868
I don't want to pump myself full of hormones on a guess tho
How did you know?
>>6237843
You keep blowing your nose while I assrape you with my dragondildo cock :)
>>6237901
What a threat. Take my every hole and don't forget to pull my hair.
Just make sure to thrust right, after all it's never going to be a natural part of your body
>>6237916
Dont' mind if I do
>>6237893
I made an educated guess based on the sum total of my experiences with dysphoria, my feelings about my body, my lifelong admiration and jealousy of male bodies, my sexuality, and the fact that nothing else I tried was working to fix my problems.
When I started hormones I didn't "know" that I was a man or that I was going to like living as a man. All I knew was that I hated my body and couldn't live the rest of my life the way that I was. I made a decision based on that.
>>6237926
Is that a dog raping a chink on reality show
>>6237938
You too anon. My advice is not to stress out too much about what you "really" are; just try to make decisions based on what you think would make you happier. In time you will probably come to understand your identity better but it honestly doesn't matter. Just work on doing things that will make you feel better about yourself.
>>6236857
I get dirty looks but I look more butch than I do like a dude so maybe they're just scared of lesbian raping
I haven't shaved my legs for years, but I still have lots of 'ingrown' little hairs that form bumps and come out when I scratch that bump a little. Could these possibly have been there for 2+ years or am I growing more leg hair?
>>6238573
that's not how hair growth works lol. hair doesn't grow and then sit there for years, hair follicles are in a constant state of falling out and regrowing. so yes you are growing leg hair but not additional leg hair if that makes sense.
>>6237238
It honestly could be a very high number or a low number depending on who you decide to tell and the legality of your sex right now. Your boss / the people in HR will most likely know what's on your birth certificate but unless they are really shitty they shouldn't tell anyone. Even if you get everything legally changed to male, there's always the people you're going to date who you will have to tell, you will probably end up telling some of your friends if it comes up just because friends tell each other about themselves. So really, technically, you will never really be 100% stealth to everyone but it doesn't matter that much desu.
The acne hasn't ended. Most are ingrown hairs.
I have an evenly fuzzy chin and neck but the hair is red, cam doesn't pick up shit.
>>6239966
Crush an ibuprofen (advil) without the sugar capsle, mix with water to form a paste, apply directly to acne spots. It doesn't stop the acne but it will make it a lot less red and less noticible. Your welcome.
>>6239989
Thanks will try.
It's also annoying I've been on t for over a year and have been running, doing a lot of push ups and sit ups nearly every day, and I don't have much to show for it. I am depressingly out of shape though, not even fat, just have the shittiest stamina ever.
My voice is getting better, I really like it and it's still deepening. I'm more hairy than most guys in my family which I'm proud of. So far I pass when I go out, as like a teenager of course, but still.
what the fuck lad?
just nuke me already.
Im not even on T and nobody is "Accepting new patients" in anywhere near where I live. When do I die? do I get T when Im 25 and ready for suicide? I already have shit acne, some weird fat around my hips, and some chest lumps. Fuck, I don't even have a therapist. Nobody is even taking me in to check out this weird lump I found in my mouth. I might have cancer and the only reason I havent gotten it checked out is because I know I dont have money for the bill. geh, sorry, none of this probably makes sense but have a pic of my face in case I die from mouth cancer
>>6240080
If it makes you feel better I would drink and cuddle with you.
>>6240094
im not even 21 yet, and I want to be super mach bear and date someone with the current physical attributes that I have with out the tits, and with a dick.. and also likes death metal.
we can still cuddle though
>>6240130
Yeah, most of us want to be masculine. And I want to fuck twinks. Man I'm glad there's alcohol.
>be mtf
>sad cause no abusive, controlling ftm bf who keeps me at home and limits my socialization
Anyone here uses cock rings?
I want to try one but I'm not sure how to put it, and I'm not sure how to ask.
it just get around the clit, or you use it all way back on the hood?
the images of ftms with cockrings make me soo confused, I would need someone to put one on me
Getting first stage phallo tomorrow 2bh lads
I'm gonna be a monster and I can't wait
>>6242530
Lucky fucker. What size did you choose?
>>6242534
15-16cm
but it won't have the head on and necrosis so who knows what it'll finish as.
>>6242609
What type you getting? Cost?
>>6241035
I can't even imagine how a clit would be big enough to fit in a cock ring
>>6242530
Good luck my man. What was the process you had to get through to get to this stage if you don't mind my asking. And what sort of choices did you get when it came to the D?
>>6242530
good luck brah, who's your surgeon?
>>6240080
>we're the same age and have similar face but I look ten years younger
>>6243369
Post face or it didn't happen
So... I fucked up my 8 month relationship by being too clingy after my gf told me that she wanted to break up as friends because she's afraid of commitment and has HOCD or some shit. How we broke uo is not important, the point is, I'm nobody's anymore. She was the only one who has respected me as a man and didn't want to "fix" me and wasn't an asshole in general. And now she's gone. I don't know what to do. I wish I was ace. I don't have high hopes on finding anyone like her ever again. I fucking loved her. Still do. But she doesn't want to be mine anymore. Or, in her words, she wishes she could, but she can't.
How do I
a) stop feeling like I'm worth nothing if I have no romantic relationship? I don't want to have my heart broken again. I have no strength to go on.
b) stop wanting to fucking die over this? I know it makes no sense and it's not worth it, but my depression's on again (it's been gaining strength for a couple of months now, creeping up on me while I've tried to pretend it's not there) and it's telling me otherwise.
Fuck, how I hate being trans. How do I even compete with cis guys? I mean, whn people go to a dog shelter, they seldomly adopt the "broken" ones. I am a fucking problem dog with my brain issues and all this bullshit.
I'm so fucking down. I have a psych appointment tomorrow, maybe then I get some advice on how to not want to off myself every minute I'm not asleep or distracted.
>>6243697
People adopt the broken ones. It's the boring ones that never get picked. Don't be boring, and you'll be fine.
Try to work on finding value in yourself rather than in your relationships with others. Other than that, raging out in the gym is a good way to get over girls.
>>6242649
uh, phallo? Nothing because UK.
>>6242825
You're a somewhat clued up guy, so I'll spare you the whole Gender identity clinic speech because I'm sure you know about that already. I've been on HRT 3 years come June/July (I forget which lol) Had my tits done last October (should have been sooner but surgeon made me wait a year to deal with acne). Had a follow-up appointment with the clinic in December said I want phallo and got reviewed by my two therapists to be confirmed, they referred me to the St. Peter's Andrology Centre. Went to see a consultant to talk me through options in April and here I am now.
In terms of options, you can choose between metoidioplasty and phallo...but I personally do not see the point in the former. I got to choose between three sites: arm, pubic flap and thigh. As my thigh was too hairy and it would have taken a year for hair removal, I've opted for arm. There is limited choice in terms of length and girth, it depends on you. As I'm taller and have longer arms than most, my consultant said we could go a bit longer, but because I'm leaner I may lose out on the girth aspect. I plan on getting a pump eventually but let's see how tomorrow goes first.
>>6243084
Mr Garaffa, I'm told he's very pleasant and Italian. I've never met him, so I'll trust the nurses.
>>6243697
I'm probably at my character limit, so forgive the brevity, but you're focusing on a future that doesn't exist yet. Maybe she's the only one who accepted you now, but that doesn't mean she will be the only one who ever will. Trust me, take one day at a time and it will get better.
>>6243697
Atleast you've had someone to love and you've been loved, so sooner or later you'll end up with someone who will love you like she did. I'm closing on 30 and no one had ever been romantically intrested in me and I think that's worse. I've never had the chance to feel how it feels to love someone and be loved back, and my mom doesnt count.
>>6233712
testosterone usually makes most FTMs gay.
the majority of heterosexual ftms suppress gay urges.
>>6245209
Kill yourself
>>6237031
no shit. this is because SWG is a namefag which means you can keep up with him easier.
>>6237603
on the bright side if you aren't out yet then this will make getting a mastectomy easier.
>>6243697
You're alright man, most of us here know that feel so you're not alone. Shit sucks for a while but it gets better. There are those of us out there who respect you for who you are and you don't need to be in love to feel loved and respected. I'd buy you a drink and let you cry on my shoulder, get it out your system then cheer you up with shit jokes.
>>6244484
Dick size is dictated by the skin donor site? Interesting. What flesh do they use which forms the "meat and potatoes" of the dick? The stuff under the skin?
>>6245314
Nah thanks, I like living too much.
>>6243697
Here comes bad cop.
You are your own person, right? You were with this girl 8 months, who were you before then? It blows my mind when someone's whole existance seems to be slumped against their partner. If you want people to respect you as a man, be a man. Carry on, live your own life. And if you care about this girl still, you will not make her responsible for your own issues.
>>6245342
Within reason. Going too big would just be insane. The skin from either the forearm, thigh, or pubic flap are all potentials and then the fat forms the mass of the dick. I believe labia skin is used for the balls with an implant in one and a the pump in the other. Well, if you're getting an inflatable implant, if not you can get a rod, but then you're always hard so. They can bury the clitoris, if you want, under the phallus and they try to re-attach the nerves for sexual stimulations. According to the studies it's successful about 3/4 of the time.
If I never post here again, I died on the table, goodnight friends
>>6245658
Good luck, dude.
>>6245455
This guy is right but do yourself the favour of not being hard on yourself yet. You just had a breakup, that's a shitty thing.
>>6245658
Godspeed, brother
>>6245342
Thanks, man.
>>6245455
Before her... I was borderline cringy daydreamer. Ached to find someone who loved me, but didn't exactly cry myself to sleep over it. It had been three years since my last (more peaceful and mutual) breakup and I felt like I was ready to try again. I was just getting my depression and other shit under control, too. Then she came along and our first three months were the happiest of my recent life. Then she started to show symptoms and she started piling her problems on me despite me telling her that, for my own safety and wellbeing, I cannot be her therapist. Of course when she said that I'm the only one willing to listen, I felt obligated to support her, and by going too far with it, I sacrificed my own health and sanity.
I need to get back on my own feet. I just wish I didn't have as much responsibilities as I have right now.
hey
>>6226828 here
just saw the shitstorm my post caused
maybe I wasn't clear, I'll try again
I came here to ask how you guys experienced dysphoria/being trans, if there was or how was the "discovery" and coming out, if you ever came out. I've read a bit about it and I'm still not sure I'm just a "self hating tomboy", as you guys said, or trans. If you know of any specially good read or resources, please point me to it.
my post was intentionally vague because 1. I'm not sure what kind of information is relevant 2. so you guys could relate or ask details
being female is a bit uncomfortable, but more like wearing cold wet socks all the time than something that would make me kill myself, I think
also, something I'd like to ask since google wasn't very helpful. how do you feel about pregnancy? always hated it? think it's nice? don't care since it's on somebody else's body?
>>6231370
>What feels right to you?
it's really hard to tell. I'm not from the us and only ever heard about trans folk (specially ftm) when I was 20+
I think it would be right, everything would make sense
>Sometimes you put on makeup and a skirt and you feel cute as fuck. You think, oh, I feel fine! I feel great! I can't be trans.
I relate so hard to this! but yeah, I need to think more about it
thanks!
>also, something I'd like to ask since google wasn't very helpful. how do you feel about pregnancy? always hated it? think it's nice? don't care since it's on somebody else's body?
Universally repulsed. You'll hear a pregnant ftm once in awhile in the news. I know a lot of cis lesbians also disgusted by it but for ftms on average you dont want anything to do with all vagina and vagina related accessories.
>>6246520
>I came here to ask how you guys experienced dysphoria/being trans, if there was or how was the "discovery" and coming out, if you ever came out. I've read a bit about it and I'm still not sure I'm just a "self hating tomboy", as you guys said, or trans. If you know of any specially good read or resources, please point me to it.
Reading about people's personal experiences made it quite a bit more clear.
I was a total girly girl up until around age 7 or 8 or so when I realized I didn't have to fit into a ~girly~ mold that I was pressured into. I started puberty pretty early and it left me feeling awkward and uncomfortable being the only girl who had to wear a bra.
By the time I got my first period I cried- it wasn't even a heavy one, there was just a little DOT and it was enough to make me break down.
Nonetheless, I only knew of MtF's (thanks Mrs. Garrison) and didn't think the inverse was possible.
Hitting my early teen years I found out about bisexuality- latched onto that immediately.
I started making trans friends a few years later and started questioning my gender- although I was in severe denial mode despite looking up FtM surgeries and associating myself with quite a few both online and IRL- even dated one at one point (online) and that was enough to get my ex-friends to shun me. I went to great lengths trying to convince myself I was just a girl who hated her periods and felt awkward about her boobs and hated her birth name and had a phobia of pregnancy. I tried presenting as feminine as I could when I previously was dressing more butch/tomboy-ishly. I looked miserable, felt miserable, ended up dropping out of public school freshman year and coming to terms with being trans.
>>6246520
>being female is a bit uncomfortable, but more like wearing cold wet socks all the time than something that would make me kill myself, I think
You don't have to be suicidal to be trans. Different people have different types of dysphoria and different coping methods that work in different ways.
>I came here to ask how you guys experienced dysphoria/being trans
Do you have any specific questions? This is pretty open-ended and I'm not gonna type up my whole life story in this little box famiglia. I could probably fill a book with stories and examples about how I experienced dysphoria/gender/being trans.
>how do you feel about pregnancy?
I'll give you a hint: today I went to Target and I saw a pregnant woman that had on a shirt that was riding up a little bit over her belly and I instantly felt so dysphoric and disgusted I got nauseous and had to turn around and walk away. I'm post-transition and the thought of pregnancy STILL makes me want to curl up in a ball and die.
>>6241035
I've had similar thoughts. I get hard but it's not really... easily used? I think you'd do it back on the hood, or like where you can feel the base of your clit is. I tend to think of that as like, foreskin equivalent.
>>6242754
This though. If I weren't worried about fucking myself up I'd attempt to ghetto-rig something.
>>6237204
It's not actually possible anymore unfortunately. There's always gonna be a papertrail when you change your name and gender, and when you inevitably get a job or have to go to the hospital, everyone in your town is gonna know. It's a harsh reality nobody likes to talk about.
>>6246994
>I'll give you a hint: today I went to Target and I saw a pregnant woman that had on a shirt that was riding up a little bit over her belly and I instantly felt so dysphoric and disgusted I got nauseous and had to turn around and walk away. I'm post-transition and the thought of pregnancy STILL makes me want to curl up in a ball and die.
Man, are you me? I react that same damn way around pregnant women
>>6246520
I've got a lot of respect for pregnancy, because humans have hard fucking pregnancies, and objectively, holy fuck dude, gj on that bioengineering! You're risking life and limb to bring another life into existence, that's pretty hardcore.
On a personal basis, mother of god no keep that shit the fuck away from me. Cis women go through weird enough shit just as a natural consequence of being pregnant, I don't need that much estrogen anywhere near my body ever again. I was fucked on birth control, man. Worst year of my life.
tl;dr pregnancy is terrifying and I'm in awe that any motherfuckers have the not-balls to go through with it
Shit, haven't been in /ftmg/ for a few days, why were people being a shit to SWG? I'll kick your asses, he's a national treasure.
>cutie grill gave me digits at the concert last night
GENTLEMEN
APPARENTLY I HAVE GAME NOW???
So this person I'm seeing calls me a woman when talking about me to other people. Is this a warning sign or not? They're pretty new to the ftm thing so should I give it more time? Would you guys accept this kind of stuff at the start of a relationship? I pass pretty well if that matters.
>>6248311
If you pass well and are out to them as trans then that person doesn't see you as male. Abort.
>>6248332
Fuuuug :(
>>6248311
>Is this a warning sign or not?
Yes, that flag is pretty red, sorry to say.
>They're pretty new to the ftm thing so should I give it more time?
Don't count on time itself fixing it, you'll have to talk to them. If you can tell it's going nowhere, don't fool yourself.
You may have a tendency to fool yourself since you had to ask if red really is red.
>Would you guys accept this kind of stuff at the start of a relationship?
No. I would not put up with being called a woman. But I gladly put up with clumsy questions from genuinely open-minded people.
Anybody want to be my bf?
>>6246573
>ftms on average you dont want anything to do with all vagina and vagina related accessories
Wut
Pregnancy is repulsive, but pussy? Pussy's just great
>>6248311
Seeing a man or woman?
hi
mtf here
can i just get like a cool guy to hang out and shoot the shit with? one that doesnt care that im a weedsmoking degenerate and will like the rare music i worship?
a bro would be nice right now
interests are: sleeping, weed, fluffy clothes, complex/progressive music and engineering to an extent (mainly in metalworking)
>>6248893
>MtF
That pic isn't of you, is it?
>>6248950
why do you ask
>>6248987
>asks for guy to hang out with
>"this pic isnt of you is it?"
>"why do you ask?"
still a girl in the brain obviously
>>6248987
Because I'm sure that's just a pic of a normal cis girl you ripped from online somewhere, and you're actually a man-faced hon
>>6249131
>ad hominem
Chill ma'am, there are ways to compensate for your lack of T other than bullying
>>6249134
Nice try, but I'm a man just like she really is.
>>6248893
GOD DAMN YOU GUYS ARE EDGY
Anyway you sound like someone i know, name?
>>6246520
Hey, it's >>6231370 again.
Sorry, this ended up being a long-winded ramble, but hopefully it's helpful anyways. I'm also on mobile so forgive my writing.
I've always describe my dysphoria as the feeling of wearing socks that are too small and unpleasantly damp.
My experience is varied. Again, some days I feel fine. But I've always felt like shit about my body. I'm a really attractive girl, but I was and am so, so uncomfortable. I thought it was normal self-hate and that I was always going to hate myself.
I would go through phases where I'd dress up and wear makeup every day, but it always ended up making me feel like shit and I would go back to baggy, masculine clothing.
Ever since puberty, I've hated my tits. They look great, but they're just so... Huge. And awkward. I've always slouched to try to hide them.
Growing up, when I would play with my friends, I would always play the boy, the knight or the plucky pauper or whatever suited the game that day. I didn't realize it at the time, but looking back when I thought about my role models for looks, it was always tall, willowy men. Or barrel-chested, stocky men with manes like lions. I never looked at a woman and thought, "I want to be like that."
Later when I found out about them, I was weirdly obsessed with trans people, trans guys specifically. I would watch transition videos for hours and feel this weird pit in my stomach. I was absolutely green with envy, even if I didn't really know why.
On my bad days, looking at pictures of is dudes makes me feel sick. I'm tiny. My bone structure is wrong. My ribcage is narrow, my hips are wide, and my hands are stubby. My breasts I can fix, but my shoulders are the worst. They will always be narrow, and I constantly see and feel it.
Anyways. This was a sleepy dysphoria-rant, but tl;dr: my body makes me feel like shit, cis dudes make me feel like shit, trans dudes make me feel like shit. I just feel like shit.
>>6248893
I'll be your bro. Where are you from?
Been wearing shorts without having shaved my legs these past couple days around the house. Honestly, I can't remember any good reason I did it before. Always made me feel vulnerable like I'd just shed my skin or something.
How tall are you lads?
>>6252443
5'1
>>6252443
5'3
>>6252443
5'4. Funny thing is every transman I've seen/talked to personally has been at least 5'7. Good to see I'm not alone in manlet territory.
>>6229189
Jesus, I know I didn't get any replies but updates on this story.
>let the incident in lab go, guy is a dumbass but he wasn't trying to be malicious
>in actual class, not lab
>basically doing work within our tables while TAs and Prof float around passing out shit/answering questions
>a different TA than my lab TA walks up and straight up asks me if "slave name" is my name on the roster. In front of all my peers.
>I peer blearily at him for a moment. he starts again I just straight up go "Dude are you trying to get me murdered?"
I'm fucking beside myself. I've never had a single problem in any other course through 4 years of college and 3 different schools. I don't even know what to do. I'm going to go talk to the prof tomorrow and figure out who has access to my name and somehow try and write a non passive aggressive message to everyone else who could possibly get confused.
Like even if you weren't down with trans people, on what fucking planet are you not a huge asshole for straight up outing someone in front of a bunch of strangers? How do you not realize how much fucking trouble you could get in pulling that shit as a TA?
I'm not out to fuck them over, I just want them to never pull shit shit again.
>>6247034
yeah... I've put a garter down there, it feels nice but it goes up after a while, but hell, the part that confuses me is the thing below my little dick
the ftms in amateur porn who use those seems to reverse their flappy lips below the click and its fucking confusing
>>6252443
>5'7
HOW TALL ARE YOU POLL:
http://www.strawpoll.me/10294910
>>6252753
This kind of stuff is what worries me about transitioning. I don't think I could stealth. I'd always feel like I have something to hide, and I'm already an anxious, paranoid idiot to begin with.
>>6252877
I mean I don't regret transitioning but honestly I see where you're coming from. I'm just so tired. On top of all the other stress I'm stuck with this constant nightmare that the majority of the population can't even begin to sympathize with.
The second dude didn't even apologize. He acted like I was the asshole for being upset. And I can guarantee if he told anyone about what happened he painted me out to be a massive overdramatic SJW. When I say in my message that outing me sets me up for not just discrimination but actual physical harm, he'll probably blow it off as me overreacting. I mean it's not like I'm fucking andro. I have a beard, I've passed for years. Literally the only reason they know I'm trans at all is because my birth name on the roster.
I just can't comprehend how it isn't obvious that outting a trans person to a bunch of strangers is a shitty thing to do.
>>6252443
Glorious 5'9 territory, which means I'm taller than the average local male
>>6252753
That really sucks man all my TA's have been really understanding about everything. Definitely see your professor about that he needs to know that his TA's are being unprofessional and massive dickwads to his students.
>>6253067
Where do you live btw most universities are super liberal and would totally be on your side if this TA really becomes a problem.
fml got a bit sparse with my shots because im short on needles, started bleeding just a bit out of my fucking nether regions today after work. explains the general "sick" feeling and the pmsey mood shit the past week, too.
i'd go buy new needles but i can't get any around here (that i know of) without a prescription, and the gyno i see for my hrt/needles is kind of out of the way, so i can't see her til my appointment next month.
what do
>>6253861
i forgot to take my t shot for 4 days because of finals, and i cried to Lemonade.
at least i'm a gay dude, so it's uh. more appropriate. #masc4masc
Just saw a post in the old thread asking about shoes.
>>6218357
It's these: http://www.amazon.com/CALTO-Increasing-Elevator-Leather-Ankle-top/dp/B00ZAMY90U
They're kinda expensive, but pretty cool looking and make you taller, so it's okay. I only had them for two months so far but they're doing good.
