>19 year old straight college student
>sitting in lecture
>man that guy is cute! I'd fuck him!
>wait what better repress that
>next day
>man that guy is cute! I'd fuck him!
>shit shit not again definitely not gay definitely not gay repress that shit
>come out as bi to my gf two years later
>still in closet to homophobic friends and family two years later still
I figured it out when I was 12.
First told someone when I was 19.
I have an emergency hitlist in case people say more than I had in mind.
>>5884400
>When did you figure it out?
When I realised I fapped only to shadows, my two best friends, and models in underwear magazines.
> Who have you come out to?
Close friends, I have tried to imply it with other friends and family and I'm afraid to ask if it has worked.
>>5884400
you're straight
>>5884482
How do you figure?
>>5884487
wanting to fuck a cute guy or two doesn't make you gay or bi. You're literally straight.
>>5884504
Yes it does. Why do you think being bi has some minimun criteria quota?
>I'm straight, but I want to fuck cute boys
>>5884504
>experiencing attraction to men and women doesn't make you bi
>>5884400
What was coming out to your gf like?
>>5884530
It was really really nerve-wracking, but I don't know why. I said we needed to talk (which in retrospect was a bad choice because she panicked and thought I was breaking up with her). I apologized first and asked her to keep whatever I told her a secret, because my friends and family didn't need to know. I told her I was bi and that I really hoped it wouldn't change anything between us - that I had been "like that" for a couple years so it didn't make a difference, right?
She was actually really accepting and even kind of into it, encouraging me to experiment if I wanted. I still grapple with a lot of self-loathing over it (conservative Christian upbringing) but it was such a relief to know the only person who needed to know was alright with it. I felt dishonest hiding it from her.
>>5884594
>She was actually really accepting and even kind of into it, encouraging me to experiment if I wanted.
[Fujoshi intensifies]
>>5884512
I guess it depends on how cute they are. I know all the guys I've ever been attracted to I only liked because they were a bit fem. No facial hair and shit. Still technically bi, but not bi enough to be taken seriously.
>>5884602
>[Fujoshi intensifies]
She is, low level I think. How did you guess?
