Does your country have a dating culture like the Americans, or how does it work where you live?
I always thought the American way was so weird. You ask people out for arranged "dates" and there's all these rules like you have to pick her up, pay for her, kiss her the first date but not fuck until the "third date" and call only after three days, etc.
In Sweden people just fuck if there's an attraction and if the fucking continues and they want to do more than fuck it's a relationship. You don't ask people out for "dates" like that, it's not arranged and structured in any way.
(Though more and more due to American cultural imperialism some girls in the younger generation have started with something more like "dates" because they saw it in American romcoms)
It depends on the people.
I'm the type of dude that is never taking his chance if all the signs arent there
In highschool I spent months eying on girls before I made a move, but It always worked in the end.
now that i'm older I cant afford to spend months taking cues on a receptive bitch, so I just get drunk and go for it
failed much
wont break me though
>>62140499
Maybe don't see them as "bitches" and you will do better, Jean-Pierre.
>>62140701
>Maybe don't see them as "bitches"
That's ultimately what they are, Karl.
>>62140971
Because they don't want to suck your dick? And they don't want to suck your dick because you see them as bitches.
Hmmm, a mystery has been solved.
>>62141231
No, to be honest i'm salty about the fact that they dont get to experience the lonelyness as much as we do.
After a break up, bitches be calling everyone to get dicked because they miss the tendering
while we're polishing our shafts and crying our hearts out
>>62141999
I'm a girl, 22 and virgin without friends. It's unhealthy to overly generalize. And loneliness has very little to do with sex if you had actually known what it truly feels like. You don't get rid of actual loneliness by being pumped and dumped, used like a cumdumpster. If anything it quite strengthens how you feel noone actually cares about you, other than being used as a tool. Curing loneliness is about having someone care about you, about your thoughts, feelings and well-being. That's not what women are to men in those situations. Rather, it's them mocking women by pretending to care and then dumping them and showing they are nothing but a hole for them.
You have no idea what actual loneliness is.
>>62139417
picking a girl up is usually a thing a guy should be doing and if youre inviting someone out you should atleast be offering to pay.
theres no rules really. if people wanna fuck on first dates they do, granted the attraction is there.
>>62142787
but girls have beta orbiters for actual non physical loneliness you fucknuts
if you were a woman you'd have tons of people vying for your attention
>>62143259
>I read it on r9k so it must be true
You're a moron, Louis.
>>62142787
>I'm a girl, 22 and virgin without friends
I'm sorry for you sweetie, really wish I could help you with this but I'm sure if you take 3 month out to get in shape, you'll get the man that you want.
your current situation is only dictated by your inner will, dont let your fear get the best of you and you'll be happy.
>You have no idea what actual loneliness is.
believe me I do, and it fuckign hurts
>>62143259
>trying to have serious discussions with women
Top kek pierre
>>62143510
i thought you were a guy because too drunk to read properly
just take some salsa classes and get laid
you speak about people being pumped and dumped but you have no actual life experience
>>62142787
>Curing loneliness is about having someone care about you, about your thoughts, feelings and well-being.
I agree with you
>That's not what women are to men in those situations
Yeah because they act like cold ass bitches.
>>62143568
>but I'm sure if you take 3 month out to get in shape, you'll get the man that you want.
Holy shit.
I'm 28 and managed to snatch a lovely nerdy bf five years ago, so I'm not here to complain about how my dating life went.
But holy shit. This is absolute bullshit. Do people on here not realize what kind of unrealistic shit they project onto the other sex, just so that they can justify their inability to find a partner?
>THE OTHERS HAVE IT SO EASY
>IT'S ONLY HARD FOR MEEEE
>>62143908
finding a partner is hard
having people give you attention of all kinds is pretty easy as a woman
no need to have social skills at all
>>62143743
>Yeah because they act like cold ass bitches.
The men, yes.
Most men don't even know romance. You're predators, savages, beasts, brutes, rapists, family abandoners and perverts. Fuck off.
Now I'm rustled.
>>62139417
Your retarded if you actually believe there are some set rules to American relationships. I'm sure its hardly any different than it is in Sweden.
>>62144048
>You're predators, savages, beasts, brutes, rapists, and perverts.
And this is precisely why heterosexual women love us
>>62143908
Come on for christ sake
I don't see no man refusing a nice round female ass bent over, you can get fucked by anyone if you want to
>>62144174
No I hate you
>>62144217
Again, it's all about sex in your head. Go to a prostitute then and stop complaining about anything.
>>62144048
>You're predators, savages, beasts, brutes, rapists, family abandoners and perverts. Fuck off.
>Now I'm rustled.
please dont make it hard for me
>>62139417
I wouldn't know, I'm morbidly obese and a semi-kissless virgin. All I know is that normal people in Austria fuck bitches in clubs or pick them up there, or you meet someone at a bar or something. Also, girls in the countryside are big whores and th .few girls who are still very christian are the biggest whores.
>>62144306
women like psychopaths and chads
fuck off now
>>62144379
>>please dont make it hard for me
I don't understand what you mean
maybe I have drunk too much
>>62144500
>maybe I have drunk too much
alright guys, I'm going first
dont you fucking try to stick a finger up my ass while i'm doing so
Yes, but usually we avoid too much drama, so our relationships seem like two robots synched to outsider.
Also, when I was in Germany about two years ago, my wife started to feed me with spoon at the cafe there. A woman approached us and said I must be ashamemed for exploiting her. Never laughted that much in my life.
>>62144717
What?
>>62144717
reported to the police
>>62144815
he's talking about raping you lmao
cause you are drunk lmao
and all men are rapist lmao
>>62144912
But why would I finger him as he rapes me? Makes a lot more sense to scratch the eyes out
I like the art you've been posting.
really makes me think.
>>62144815
Let me lap the shit out of your pussy over this imageboard you kinky little cutie
>USA
>any kind of culture
>4chan
>knowing shit about dating
>>62145025
he's talking to us supposedly
pls be my gf btw
>>62145077
Good for escapism of reality
>>62145314
>Good for escapism of reality
better ways have been found
>>62144409
>he buys into the "women only fuck chads" meme
>>62145192
Is that literally meant, the shit? Because that's 2 kinky 4 me
did a quick search on Ron Hicks,
surprisingly he's American, relatively young and black.....
but I like his paintings, reminds me of classic Dutch paintings.
>>62139417
As a liberal country, the rule is to fuck if there's attraction. I think that's pretty degenerate, but my case is out of the rule (with all girls I dated): when the attraction existed, we met and went outside, to a park...to kiss and know each other better. She always expected a relationship from me, never sex, the last one I dated even didn't let me to touch her ass. Any of those"relationships" lasted more than a month and here I am, still virgin with 19 yo.
>>62145478
Drinking? it's not enough
>>62145529
Did you tried not dating girls from nun school?
>>62139417
Does dating strictly Chads(We call them Erokhins here) and treatingbetas as a walking purse count as american dating culture?
>>62145529
Why didn't you want a relationship with her?
And 19 is hardly a lot, plus you've clearly got interested girls. It's your fault because you push them away because you only want to use them.
>>62145506
I drink your blood but any type of shit will get me fleeing faster than mewtwo hitten by a superball
>>62145812
Well that's what I'm saying too
We're not Germans after all, dear God.
>>62145878
>We're not Germans after all
Hey!
>>62145967
Austrians... you're the super-Germans.
How's building your sex dungeon going?
>>62145878
>We're not Germans after all, dear God.
holy shit
>>62146035
Ein Volk!
I don't have a sex dungeon, we don't use those anymore.
>>62142787
>And loneliness has very little to do with sex if you had actually known what it truly feels like
You do realize men and women view sex differently?
What a bait kek. Dumb frog
>>62145627
They were actually non-religious, dressed normally and had interests, even they were hotter than average, I think it's just bad luck because those kind of girls are not the rule.
>>62145785
And I wanted, in most of the cases I thought it was worthy to wait in order to have a future relationship, but it didn't work because most of them finally rejected me.
In the other hand, it's in part my fault in part to be still virgin because of shyness some years ago and because nowadays I think most of girls are degenerate and it's not worthy to spend time on them. I am also good looking, so if I weren't so shy 4 years ago I could have perfectly fucked. I carry with my virginity without stress because I know the day will come, sooner or later.
ok int, i am a girl and i'm texting with this guy. i'm 21 and i'm a virgin, if i do have sex with him, will he know that i'm a virgin? i don't want him to know
>>62146183
There's the right, female, way of sex being an expression of love and for procreation. And the male way of lol tits are fun and jiggly and it makes me feel good in my dick for 15 minutes no matter how many I hurt lol sex is lyf bro
The male degenerate sodomite way
>>62146158
Yeah, what's the new trendy way then? You just imagine one via virtual reality and rape-torture there?
Sounds better for everyone so good on you if so
>>62146266
> Dumb frog
>>62146496
it really shows that you never go outside
women have sex for fun all the time
>>62146661
No, we just drug girls now and then throw them away like trash. It's more convenient and the shame they feel makes it very unlikely for them to press charges.
>>62139417
Brazil is more similar to Sweden, but girls don't usually fuck on the first contact.
If you hit on a girl in a nightclub and she likes you, she will kiss you.
Then you call her, go on a date (or a few) and finally fuck her. If people like each other, they build a relationship.
I don't really understand the american culture. If a girl decides to go on a date, what does it mean?
In my head, she's already decided that she will kiss/fuck me. It's up to me not to ruin it.
Dating culture where I live
>be at party, usually in someone's unfinished garage >every man is drunk on Alexander Kieths
>every girl is drunk on coffee brandy and milk
>find girl with most of her teeth and relatively little fat
>if she is under 25 she will probably only have 1 or 2 kids so body isn't totally wrecked yet as it will be when she reaches 29 and her 4th kid
>tell her you almost never collect E.I. you make as much as $15 an hour cash seasonally
>she will now hladly agree to be escorted to your late model pickup truck
>she continues to be impressed because you bought soray can touch up paint from Canadian Tire and were able to hide the massive amounts if rust caused by salted roads
>at this point you are the most successful man she has ever met
>if she requests a condom because she heard about one on TV once remind her that Trudeau has recently increased the monthly child tax credit amount
>proceed to fuck her in truck bed if summer, front of truck if winter
>she has been drinking milk mixed with liqour all night so she will inevitably vomit on you either from gagging on your cock or all the shaking from sex
>ignore this, it's just donairs from pizza delight or greco anyway
>11 months later, after the baby has come and some if the pregnancy fat gas gone, get married in tiny Pentecostal church
>say goodbye immediately after wedding, you are headed west for oil money
>she immediately declares single (as per your instructions) so that she can get more chold tax benefits and social assistance money
This is how we date here 99% of the time
Wish I was kidding at all
Welcome to the Maritimes /int/
>>62146883
>women have sex for fun all the time
shut up with this now
what are you?
FWG?
>>62146496
Women are literally sociopaths.
>>62146496
We can make you feel creamy
>>62139417
eh that sounds alot like aspergers/autism imo. met girls who were the case and they usually skip the socialization part because its usually too difficult or alienating to them.
courtship phase is pretty important imo, its the part where you build emotional connection/empathy with partners and figure out if they are worth investing time in.
>>62147429
Please stop
>>62139417
it seems like either Swede or American girls are always posting threads about liking nigger cock or about 'true romance'
the reality is most american girls are covered in tattoos and piercings and will basically fuck any guy who is willing to beg for it. The only decent girls are well educated and have a good job so they are not looking to leech off a guy
>>62147543
>courtship phase is pretty important imo, its the part where you build emotional connection/empathy with partners and figure out if they are worth investing time in.
Here that's just called friendship. Courtship? How medieval
Do you serenade your ladies, m'gentleman?
>>62146496
eh different countries and cultures have different systems imo. some are highly monogamous and strictly find meaning with one partner, some seek out multiple ones.
i'd explain it better in more scientific detail because i've studied this before, but it has a lot to do with a hormone called oxytocin and different systems of mating that humans evolved.
>>62142787
Pls be my gf
>>62147674
>>62147823
>uppvakta
Det är jö ett passande ord. Va fan, varför ska vi skit på ord bara för att dom är gammla.
Vi svenskar använder färre och färre ord för varje generation. Vi älskar inte språk. Vi suger kuk.
>>62147995
>I will never know what it's like to be creampied
Stop it
>>62147823
nope, there's a strong difference in attraction when you have two personalities that can understand each other well/have similar experiences or views.
there's a difference between attraction to porn girls after all vs. someone you bond well with and share memories/moments with afterall.
>>62148173
>only 22
>woman
>complaining about being a virgin forever
holy fuck you don't understand do you
a virgin woman is valuable until 30 years old
a virgin man is worthless for 95% women from 20 years old and onward
>>62148173
You can have sexy anytime you want.
Stop complaining.
>>62148138
Svenskar gör det ju bättre ändå än amerikaner. Jag tycker svenskar generellt är vältaliga, tom då det kläs i vulgaritet (se: Flashback).
Det större problemet är väl anglicismer (se: Jönköping University)
>>62148173
WRONG
>>62148323
>>62148392
No YOU don't understand
What are your issues exactly, some light social awkwardness? My face is ruined literally, marked by a fire. No man will ever touch me, people stare.
And if you don't have the looks as a woman you are NOTHING to men.
You really have no idea.
>>62148553
>And if you don't have the looks as a woman
FUCK U MEAN?
>>62148553
well of course if you are a monster you can't get laid you dummy
i still bait you'll find some dumb beta faggot before you're 26 though
also your graphic is shit
women rate men according to the money/status they have
>>62148553
eh explain marked by fire. what happened?
>>62148553
Women have it easy, even if your face was disfigured you'll still find a kv willing to do anything to put benis in bagina
>>62146496
WOW. im sry things haven't worked out. not being condescending. hope you find a good guy someday that'll change your mind on that outlook. also let's be realistic about the AGE of the men you're ripping on, just gotta find some mature lads
>>62148407
>Jag tycker svenskar generellt är vältaliga, tom då det kläs i vulgaritet (se: Flashback).
Visserligen har du, edgy ungdomar, t.ex argblattetalar. Vi älskar att bygga vårat ordförråd.
Men efter att ha gått på gymnasiet i lindholmen, och mött så många unga vuxna som inte kan bry sig om ordförråd.
Får en att längta efter ett starkare klass samhälle som upphöjde bildade människor som kunde prata som bildade jävlar.
All in all we can conclude by this clear and simple sentence:
Fuck women.
>>62142787
>It's unhealthy to overly generalize
>a couples lines later..
>You have no idea what actual loneliness is
> and this >>62141231
Hmmm... someone should rethink their words
>>62148765
Burn scars from accident when my parents house caught fire.
If you don't have sex in the first date in Argentina, you will never have another date with that girl
>>62149095
thought about surgery?
how bad is it?
>>62149250
this is the case with women in the US except it's a kiss. you gotta kiss em to let em know whatsup on the first date. they hold all the power, and if they want to fuck on the first date, game on. it always goes at the speed the woman wants it to, which is usually date 2-3, it's up to you to let her know how into her you are and to be smooth enough to pull it off. by the time you reach date like 8, you're prob bf/gf and have been fugging on the semi-regular
>>62149416
I've had some plastic surgery more can't be done
You easy level at life faggots don't even know. You can just shave and take of the fedora and look normal
Even if you would be a monster like me you could be intelligent, funny, rich, powerful, etc... For women there's nothing if no beauty.
>>62149562
i disagree, there's personality. i've absolutely dated women based solely on their joie de vivre. having said that you endure adversities that none of the losers on this board do, myself included, and you're right when you say we don't know.
>>62149562
Stop before its too late
>>62150086
Too late?
>>62149532
You ask for kisses or just kiss them? Because if you ask for a kiss in here, even if she likes you, you lose her.
Oh! If you invite to a woman for an ice cream instead a drink you will get a NO. I don't have idea why
>>62149562
I knew a guy last year dating a girl with half of her face burned. He was used to fuck a lot of girls and was a truly chad in the past, but he abandoned all of it because of her.
>>62150290
I think you're just making that up to make me feel good, but still, that's sweet
>>62150132
ha! yeah right asking. i always do a smooch on the cheek, then look her dead in the eyes and go in for the real thing
>>62150121
too late
>>62149095
>>62149562
>>62150362
I'm sorry to hear. I guess we all should be grateful for what we have.
Sometimes I look at my brother's marriages and relationships with jealousy, even though I told them I will never marry, but I secretly want to.
>>62150362
No, i'm not. Here's a pic of them. She's really good at hiding the scars in pics and she started to use some white thing on her face, so I can't prove it, but it's true.
>>62150813
is this guy part japanese?
eyes look very asian imo
>>62150813
That's a very cute story.
Though, she is very pretty and I couldn't even hide it in a photograph, it is much more. But still, it's a warming and cute story. I dream of things like that sometimes.
>>62150863
Yes, his mother has japanese roots,
>>62150926
How much money do you have? Maybe you could get some really good makeup or artificial skin, and you could have 1 night out in a club for fun.
>>62151018
Anon I don't want to trick anyone or be pumped and dumped either. It's okay, I have come to terms with it.
>>62151134
>I don't want to trick anyone or be pumped and dumped either
Get to it or you'll die alone sweetie.
>>62151134
kill yourself piece of shit
non virgins should not be allowed on 4chan
>>62151206
I will rather die virgin than be someone's drunken regret or cumdumpster
>>62151272
then shut the fuck up becsuse the only thing that stops you having a bf is your high standards
>>62151235
you ok man? you seem upset...
>>62151206
Hey, if you have nothing to lose, just fuck some random guy and get pregnant. If you have children, at least they will love you no matter what's wrong with you.
T. Mother with stuttering
>>62139417
>you have to pick her up, pay for her, kiss her the first date but not fuck until the "third date" and call only after three days
>>62151268
that's a bit strong of a statement m8. virgins shouldn't be allowed in a dating thread i think is more appropriate
>>62151399
this website is mine and you and people like you are foreign invaders
>>62151399
but how will we know how good and easy normies have it
>>62151272
>I will rather die virgin than be someone's drunken regret or cumdumpster
I'd pay you out to keep the child
>>62151338
>getting fucked like a piece of meat by a guy drunk enough to be blind and who will then puke of regret the morning afterwards and forever hate you for tricking him
>the same as having a loving boyfriend
>>62151505
wtf
no this smells fishy
>>62151272
This has to be bait.
>>62151557
I think you are baiting with the "I am a woman that could get a boyfriend whenever I want but I'm so lonely :((".
It's too stereotypical, doing the whole waiting for prince charming thing was the give away.
>>62151557
Just fuck a guy and take his child, he wouldn't even know. I'm hoping you have enough money to raise a child.
>>62146383
He'll know eventually. Whether or not you say it is up to you.
If you go to have sex, obviously he will figure it out pretty quickly.
>>62139417
>You ask people out for arranged "dates" and there's all these rules like you have to pick her up, pay for her, kiss her the first date but not fuck until the "third date" and call only after three days, etc.
lmao swedecucks at it again. Television is not real life, Sven
>>62142787
>I'm a girl, 22 and virgin without friends.
Either you're being dishonest by omission or I really don't understand Sweden.
>>62152010
I blame romcoms.
I HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE
I'VE NEVER BEEN ON A DATE
>>62152243
this
>>62148553
If you're horrifically disfigured you really shouldn't be using your own experiences to draw wider conclusions.
That said I hope you're just exaggerating this because of self esteem issues and not really that horrible.
Also it's not true that no man will touch you even if you're right, you just can't be picky about them. Which sucks I guess, but it is what it is and that's all you get.
>>62152243
you and me both
>>62152094
My bad, I missed the comment about the fire.
>>62148553
I don't believe you might look horribly as you think, some guys prefer a good looking body, do you have one? Also, let's take a moment to appreciate this thread. Many people from all over the world, some people may be autistic, some may have depression, and some are actually chads, but we are all here discussing a certain topic, even though most of us probably can't speak perfect English
>>62148553
post face
>>62139417
We used to have more of an American style dating scene (at least what you describe) but it's become more casual, one night stands aren't unusual and they do sometimes evlve into relationships... Traditionally it used to be chaperoned dates although you'd only find that in very small towns nowadays, then there was always the old school stealing your novia on horseback...
>>62144048
From my personal experience I can tell you that these kind of romantic, sensitive, emotional guys who actually care about woman and their feelingsare viewed as weak and beta by most girls in my school.
They rather prefer Macho Alpha males and idolize rappers who call girls bitches and sluts These guys put their dicks in girls cocktails before they give it to them and then they laugh at them. It's horrible
>>62152950
But they are weak and beta. After the sexual revolution in the '60s, there was no compulsion left to stay with your partner after fucking. Men don't have to be sensitive and women don't have to be not worthless to satisfy sexual instincts.
>>62139417
we really have both dating styles you described in the US, the "arranged formal dates" and the "casual hookups becoming more". I've tried both.
The casual hookups don't really work to form strong bf/gf relationships though. Usually, they are just one night stands. Sometimes they will become FWB relationships. Occasionally, the woman in the FWB relationship will fall in love, and the man will either cut things off, or pretend to be in love in order to keep having sex.
With formal, explicit, and exclusively monogamous dating; the man and woman are both likely to fall in love.
>>62153220
Only true answer. Why do women always fall in love with men in a FWB situation, seems to happen every single time.
>>62153431
They keep telling themselves they can change the man, that's literally they're biggest flaw in life.
>>62153431
Because they're like 33 and still have a tinder profile?
I'm 30 and never had a gf, had a few chances maybe but most women here play games and don't tell you how they really feel, so it's a hit and miss thing.
>>62146496
I just want a girlfriend because I need closeness and intimacy like gif related, and having someone who genuinely loves me, and with whom I could just safely drop my guard. I don't even care about sex that much, I'm perfectly fine with fapping to porn, especially now, when VR is a thing. I know very well that women are incapable of such affection (everything is about her in the end) and despise the guys like me. I stopped trying to find a woman who doesn't exist a long time ago and just focus on my hobbies and work.
>>62153778
Go to Russia and find a gf there, if the memes are true you should be fine
>>62153642
I'm 32 and always had a gf (been together since we were 18), had a few chances to end like most women here she plays games and doesn't tell me how she really feels, so it's a hit and miss thing.
Would rather live the single life playing vidya, drinking, and watching porn all day.
>>62153851
Russian women are very cold and materialistic, and will walk all over you if you don't put them in their place, from what I heard. It's the exact opposite to what I want.
>>62153497
No, I still remember hearing about this shit in high school.
>>62153167
you're totally right, but then there are these hypocrite girls who always say guys should be this, guys should be that (caring...) , but in the end they would always take the biggest alpha male asshole if they could get him. Social status,looks and wealth is the key.
>>62153950
There are sort of hidden meanings in the profiles of Russian/Ukranian "mail order" brides.
If their advertisement says something like "seeking a professional western man..." they want money and are shallow, but if they day somethimg like "Just looking for romance from a sober, nice, man..." then they are probably legitimately just tired of the lazy, abusive, alcoholic, men in their lives and want a healthy relationship.
t. guy whose dad married a "mail order" Ukranian. (She has been with him happily for about 10 years now and she works 50+ hours a week cleaning hotel rooms, then comes home and cooks/cleans their RV trailer home in the middle of shitty, cold, barren, North Dakota. Clearly it wasn't a materialistic thing with her)
>>62153933
If you rather have the single life then why not end it?
>>62154492
If they've been together for that long they're pretty much married at that point. They either depend on each other too much to leave or just have know idea how to readapt to the single life. It's a pretty common sentiment for long term relationships.
>>62154282
Just going from my gut I assume the trick is to pick a Russian girl who clearly doesn't just want you for your money. Like if you got to know her and she displayed interest without droppin g any hints that you were well-off or flat out saying you didn't have much (ie saying you're a student) and she still sticks around you're probably alright. Plus I wouldn't think educated Russian women are as bad.
>>62154183
It's more subtle than that. For one, not all women are the same in taste/maturity, so the specifics to what they want/think they want will wildly vary. However, when girl's say they want "sweet, caring guy" and all the /r9k/ go into an autism fest about how that's bullshit, what girls really mean is they want a guy who knows what he wants, isn't a total doormat, has his act together, but isn't a total asshole about it and can show his soft side (specifically, to her). Most of the beta orbiters you see think they're nice and sweet, but they aren't, they're just doormats who can be just a big of an asshole as "chads" but just lack the confidence to show it.
>>62142787
Bitch
>>62147038
How's she goin bud? Nova Scotian here, and my sides are in orbit. I have given up on socializing in this province since the trashiness has reached critical levels. I'm glad I have my gf of 5 years how thankfully doesn't meet the stereotype of a bovine maritimer lass.
>>62155150
Yeah, been with mine for a few years too. If you can find a decent one here, it's best to hang on.
>>62155275
No kidding. We're hightailing it off to BC as soon as we have the dough for post secondary. Nova Scotia has fucked me up so bad I need to flee to the other side of the country to feel better. Also I couldn't give up living near the sea.
>>62154998
And yet even my parents, after 25+ years of marriage ended it one day because they believe they both can be happier (which I agree with).
I think it's unhealthy for any relationship to become that depend on each other. It's perfectly acceptable to expect support, help each other, and generally be there, but being together for the sake of being together is unhealthy. I've been there and nothing good will come from it.
>>62155349
>I couldn't give up living near the sea
Same here, I love the coast, and B.C. certainly seems nice. Good luck saving up for uni and going
>>62155431
Oh yeah, it definitely can become unhealthy. It's a man reason why so many unhappy marriages last so long, it is a common line of reasoning though.
>>62155507
Thanks bud. Cheers!
>>62139417
>In Sweden people just fuck if there's an attraction and if the fucking continues and they want to do more than fuck it's a relationship. You don't ask people out for "dates" like that, it's not arranged and structured in any way.
it's more weird
>>62142787
So you you are virgin girl in sweden cos you never saw a man you wanted to have sex with ?
>>62139417
>I always thought the American way was so weird. You ask people out for arranged "dates" and there's all these rules like you have to pick her up, pay for her, kiss her the first date but not fuck until the "third date" and call only after three days, etc.
Literally fucking no
Don't get all of your information from tv
>>62154998
You're right we can not generalize that easily but let's face it these guys who are nice and still
are determinated and alpha towards some degree are pretty rare in numbers . It's the same with our idealized women, there are probably not many of them.
From my personal experience I can only tell that you as soon as a guy realizes that he knows that he can get laid easily that he tends to act like a douche and can allow himself to play with the girl because he knows he still can get another woman who are running after him.
There are some women who probably don't like Alpha "chads" type of guys, but they still accept that they are the "biggest apes in the zoo". I mean if never seen a girl say " Girls don't idolize these douches and chase after them, they are asssholes" to the friends about rappers who treat woman like shit and say that they rape them and our mothers. Even if they dont like that type of music
>>62155950
Are you still in college? Cause that's pretty common for college kids, once people actually enter the adult world they tend to mellow out and try for more long term and stable relationships since they no longer have the time to fool around like that.
Things are more natural here in Portugal I think. Like if you meet someone you can just ask them out for a coffee, movie wtv to get to know them and if you wanna kiss you kiss, if you wanna fuck you fuck, if you want to go on another date just go on another date. With date I just mean getting together doesn't necessarily have to be something planned. One thing I think is particularly big and important in Portugal is texting. I've noticed that most of my foreign friends (Europe) don't have the habit of texting as much as we do but here people talk with friends, family, bf/gf/person they're interested in a lot and we're very expressive on the internet.
But this is just from my personal experience (21 F virgin) so it might not count that much.
>>62156372
>21 F virgin
lets go
>>62156359
Yup I am.
>>62156546
Just wait, anon. Your time will come. Older women know the true value of a stable and loving adult relationship. College chicks are still girls.
>>62148707
>women rate men according to the money/status they have
Gril here and I can tell you you're wrong. It really is an addition thing you just don't have more than one of those things. Sorry fag.
*throws grenade in thread*
*fires machinegun*
Heh, nothin personnel kid
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>>62139417
>In Sweden people just fuck if there's an attraction
In the summer LA is filled with hot Scandi chicks and they all love black cock. I see them at Jamaican/Haitian/Ethiopian places all looking for the BBC.
Even pretty Anna Nystrom like the Sand Nigger cock.
>>62156776
>>In Sweden people just fuck if there's an attraction
when you say people you actually mean women, not men, lets just be clear about that.
So it should read like: In Sweden, women just let whoever they want fuck them and they dont have to worry about being labelded a slut because the fact that they fuck outside their race makes it ok because they are being culturally open.
My response to that is that there is nothing wrong with fucking outside your race, your culture, your income bracket, relationships can work no matter how different people are culturally. But being a slut is disgusting no matter what the social status of the guy you fuck is. There are women who can go into board rooms of fortune 500 companies and only fuck millionaires, that does not mean they are not sluts just because the guy is high class. You are a slut if you let ~any~ guy fuck you. You are a slut if you have no standards about who you fuck. Unfortunately white girls, especially Swedish girls think they should be congratulated for being sexually strong. They are reinforced by this thought because most Swedish guys are cucks who have no standards and will always beg for sex no matter what.
>>62156691
thx for the advice americabro :)
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>>62157002
I have always wondered if their boyfriends in Sweden realize their women have fucked 20 black guys over a summer in LA.
Danish BBC lover.
>>62157632
everyone knows that Swedish girls are shameless sluts who will go down on anyone. Literally everyone knows that, like if I were to walk in a bar and say that I picked up 5 Swedish girls off the street and had them blow me no one would be surprised
>tfw no gf
>All these cucks falling for the bait
Disgusting /int/, just disgusting
>>62144306
>it's all about sex in your head
That's because women aren't interesting... the only reason we tslk to you is because you have vaginas, who cares about your terrible stories and which of your friends hate each other?
all that fairytale romance that you're waiting to magically happen is actually self absorbed bullshit that only benefits you.
Women need to do two things.
Not be fat
Be kind
And you'll do just fine, but you probably think you deserve Ryan Gosling because y'all are delusional to the max
>>62143908
Women generally have is easier when it comes to dating because they're not expected to approach, men are.
>>62159355
it's not like that everywhere
>>62139417
It's awful in my shithole. We don't have any culture of dating. Guys just expect you to come to their home (or invite them to your place) and make sex on the first date. They don't invite you anywhere, they don't talk to you, disgusting, that is why i want foreign bf.
how barbaric
>>62143259
No, they fuck off as long as they realize you just talk to them. And besides that's not interesting if someone talks to you just because you have a vagina.
>>62159384
Are a slav qt girl?
>>62159507
Are you*
>>62159384
My girlfriend is Russian. It's funny that she said she'd never date a Russian man.. Ever.
>>62139417
We're cucked by women who believe men should have to give them literal thousands of dollars in gifts and just cash before you're allowed to fug them
>>62159279
Might as well give up then?
I've been coming along with the idea of getting a long term gf, because this is what society expects of me and my parents mostly, but I was looking for a somewhat interesting woman with some minimal curiosity towards science or philosophy, if am going to be stuck with someone for a long time might as well be someone I don't despise
But can I even find a woman like that? because so far its been pretty fucking bad
>>62139417
>the Americans have a dating culture
>>62139417
>In Sweden people just fuck if there's an attraction and if the fucking continues and they want to do more than fuck it's a relationship. You don't ask people out for "dates" like that, it's not arranged and structured in any way.
That's pretty much how it's over here.
>start fucking or getting your dick sucked in a dark alley while shitfaced
>get in a relationship down the line
>keep having sex but at lower rates
>get married if things go well
>don't have sex at all
>divorce
Rinse and repeat. No wonder we have about 50% divorce rate. Shit is retarded and completely superficial with not an ounce of commitment behind it whatsoever.
>>62159655
Does Italian dating culture consist of being hairy, sweaty, and living with your mom till you're 40?
>>62159730
>men caring for their mothers
>not the ultimate green flag
>>62140701
they are bitches most of them if not all m8
i've had my share, i prefer boys now
>>62142787
>You have no idea what actual loneliness is.
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA
>>62144048
women are infinitely more cruel than men
women like you make me puke
>>62159575
Woudn't ever date an American either. They're disgusting like Russians.
>>62142787
>You have no idea what actual loneliness is.
With all due respect , m8. Fuck off.
>>62159782
Why are men in the west this pathetic? Dude, get off your ass, live your dreams, and don't focus on the shitty women. There are great women on every continent. If you want a wife and a family marry a muslim. Quit blaming other people for your situation. Be a man and create your own future.
>>62159845
>and don't focus on the shitty women
I'm pretty sure that's precisely what he did. That's why he now likes to be fucked in the ass by men.
>>62159830
I can "recommend" Swedish/Nordic men. They're sweet.
>get drunk
>somehow meet woman
???
>profit
I have no idea how this works
>>62159875
Why do countries with the best men have the worst women, and vice versa? I never understood this.
>>62159830
How many American men have you met? Or is education from TV?
>>62159901
I thought Finns reproduce through budding.
>>62159730
Does your dating culture consist in chopping off a portion of your dick, being fat, diabetic and being a good goy all of your life?
>>62159924
Don't forget the guns and flag waving. Typically I attract a mate by riding a giant freedom truck with a massive flag and mounted 50 cal in the bed of the truck. I show my ability to be a provider by blowing up brown people in poor neighborhoods. Then I take her for ice-cream. I bet you greasy bastards take your women out to get gelato. Disgusting.
>>62159908
It's my impression from talking with Americans on this site as well. Didn't want to offend anyone but Americans have similar mentality with Russians - that's just not my type of mentality.
>>62139417
You court someone like in the old days.
>>62160041
wew I feel so culturally enriched
thanks again merrica
>>62160085
>People on 4chan represent normal people.
>>62160112
Your feeling of cultural enrichment is just from the massive quantities of espresso, pasta, and olive oil gurgling in your stomach.
>>62159845
I am living my life, I just don't like nor trust women anymore m8. No big thing. They suck on every continent btw, i've been there and done that
>>62159384
I dated a Russian girl and she said she will never date a Russian man for the exact same reasons you just said.
>she ends up being crazy jealous and tries to make me end friendships with girls i have had for over half my life. dump her because crazy.
>>62160190
It's 08:15, too early for pasta and olive oil
But I'm enjoying myself some coffee (not espresso but the macchinetta)
>>62160085
>Americans have similar mentality with Russians
Violent, trashy drunks? Only if that's what you look for.
>>62160304
Nuh, being selfish, arrogant, ignorant (fat) and expect everyone to bow down infront of you, seems to be a super power complex or smth. And Americans are loud and they cheat a lot like Russians.
>>62159575
Have you prepared to have your property split after the divorce and pay the child support for a baby that's probably not even yours?
>>62160332
You've met some shitty people. I'm sorry.
>>62160355
This is why there is no reason for a man of means, such a myself, to ever get married and/or have children.
>>62159845
>There are great women on every continent.
And every pot has a lid.
Doesn't mean you will find the right one
>>62160403
pls marry me
>>62160403
With a russian whore you should never rest easy, especially if you're rich. It costs them nothing to get knocked up by a random guy on the side just to leash you with a solid assurnce. DNA test is a-must.
>>62160493
lol. k nastya. we can be in love until you get your greencard.
>>62160516
>>62160495
I'm a bit older, so I got snipped (vasectomy) last year. There is no way i will get trapped by anyone.
I think that maybe living in Los Angeles has jaded me.
>he doesn't fuck on the first date
What the fuck? I don't even date the girls I fuck, I usually know them for <12 hours and then we bang and I block her and never talk to her again
>>62160549
I thought you hated american men?
>>62160495
le jealous Ruskie. Stop embarassing urself.
>>62160549
Why don't you make your own money in Russia?
>>62160549
You would marry a 40 year old man? How old are you?
>>62160642
what are you doing here, granny?
>>62139417
>In Sweden people just fuck
refugees confirm this is how it works in Sweden
haha, lads, look what American granny posted to me on the dating site XDD
>>62160589
don't be cruel m8
>>62160672
In a word, boredom. I finished my workout and am waiting to get tired before I go to sleep.
I've been on 4chan since 2003. I was a goon.
>>62160589
How 100 $ a month could be even considered a money?
>>62160709
How hard is it to start a website like reddit in russian language.
How much is webhosting in Russia?
>>62160569
You're embarassing yourself by whoring yourself out hoping some suggar daddy will take pity on you and take you in, golddigging cocksleeve
>>62160642
Age doesn't matter as long as she can leech off him
>>62149562
>You can just shave and take of the fedora and look normal
>>62149562
you should post a pic of your face if you think you're so ugly. I assure you that more than 80 percent of the people who see it here will rate you as *at least* non-ugly.
>>62160877
I literally get children screaming/crying if I don't cover it
You don't know shit, you are the true normies. Fuck off
>>62160910
Either post your face or fuck off. The blatant attention whoring is getting real annoying.
>>62160751
>You're embarassing yourself by whoring yourself out hoping some suggar daddy will take pity on you and take you in, golddigging cocksleeve
wow, look who's mad again. That's not my fault Russian men are shit and don't notice me. Not like I'm going to die alone in poverty just to not being a "golddigger" in your silly opinion.
>>62160910
post a picture.
>>62143642
THE BOLIVIano HAS SPOKEN
>>62143642
The vast majority of women are fucking useless.
>>62142787
>I'm a girl, 22 and virgin without friends.
guaranteed replies
>>62142787
gr8 b8 m8
8/8
>>62161259
>>62161234
we missed the post about the fire
>>62161299
still b8.
I dated a girl in high school that had half of her face burned. Her dad got caught raping her and killed her mom and tried to burn the house down.
I don't know why, but I never cared about sex. Maybe it's not my type. All I wanna is a girl that could really care for me and love me. A female lifemate that I could give all my affection and feels.
>>62161044
>Not like I'm going to die alone in poverty just to not being a "golddigger" in your silly opinion
How about getting an education and finding a well-paid job to escape povetry then? This thought must've never even crossed your head, the only option you ever considered is to find a provider who will use you as a personal fucktoy in eschange for money.
>That's not my fault Russian men are shit and don't notice me
You must be ugly as sin if so, what are you even planning to lure your potential suggar daddy with?
>>62148553
>implying having your face marked by a fire is necessarily bad
