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2016-05-29 14:37:48 Post No. 60057367
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2016-05-29 14:37:48
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Hey /int/, can I ask for some advice?
I met this guy on tinder, the only one who didn't want to fuck me on the first date, genuinely fun to talk to and physically and mentally attractive too. We went out on dates for about three months, the thing is we're in Japan (he's japanese, I'm not) and dating here is something I can't wrap my mind around. To put it simple, it's considered normal for the guy to "confess" to the girl rather soon if he's really interested, instead of letting the relationship flow naturally as I was used to back in my country. Now he's been pretty shy from the beginning but I guess I can't use that anymore as an excuse for his lack of directness, he always treated me like nothing more than a friend every time we met, only once he said he liked me through texting, we met once again and I expected him to finally say something about it but he didn't. I texted him casually later, but instead of his normal eagerness to meet again he seemed kind of cold, the conversation was uncomfortable and short.
It's been almost two months since, my birthday was last week, to which he didn't say anything, also I just found out he unfriended me on facebook. I'm too proud to text him anymore since last time he didn't even respond properly when I said goodbye, but it's still killing me because I really thought everything was going well.
I'm sorry that my english sucks and that I can't phrase what I mean in any other way, I just can't stop thinking about him, I don't think I've ever liked someone so much and having him drop contact like this for seemingly no reason depresses me horribly.
Should I try once more to contact him and see what happens? Or was I just leading myself on with this and should move on? I wish I had some to talk about this with but you’re my only option now /int/ :(
