Why have you never had a girlfriend, anon?
Well, what is your reason /int/?
I did.
>>56798681
>>56798763
What was it like to have one?
>>56798853
I was truly in love with her. We were together for 4 years.
One day she just told me she doesn't love me anymore and that was that. It was great to have one, but the heart break is on another level.
>>56798808
First off this is ridiculous and feminist should hang on trees with the niggers
BUT stop lying it has absolutely nothing to do with you not having a gf that's just because you're awful
>>56798953
have you gotten over her?
>>56799333
Yes and no. I've come to accept the fact she isn't coming back and I have to move on. But she was my first for everything, someone I truly connected with. So (and at the risk of sounding like a fag) she will always have a special place in my heart.
I'm not lesbian
>>56799532
I feel sorry for your loss. But hey, at least you've had someone you could truly connect with. There might be other, stronger connections out there.
Here's a picture of a seal to cheer you up.
I'm socially retarded and not very good looking.
Pretty decent reasons tbqh.
>>56799532
How old were you? if its a young age thing usually people go into it knowing its a temporary/short thing
I know you said it lasted 4 years but I still want to know
>>56798681
I don't want one
>>56799597
T-thanks anon, I appreciate it
>>56799645
this desu
>>56799666
Why not?
>inb4 satan
>>56799701
Maybe because I never start conversations, so I end up not talking to some of my friends for weeks or even months. I don't do it on purpose, but I do it with every single person in my life, e.g. my mother, my brother, etc.
I think commiting to a relationship would make me feel suffocated, since I'd have to constantly give my girlfriend attention and, if I didn't - which is highly likely to happen accidentally - , I'd probably end up creating a huge gap between us and our relationship would slowly crumble down.
>>56798681
Celibacy is better.
I have a gf though
>>56800122
Care to share this social experiment ?
>>56800221
long distance gf of about a year now, breddy gud :DD
>>56800288
>long distance
I've had 2. But despite that i'm still a virgin.
>>56800288
How do you deal with the thought that she's probably sucking 2 niggers right now while you brag about her?
>>56800288
>long distance
Wow so jelly of the mad pussy you score every night
>>56800448
desu, the mental/emotional bond is equally, or even more important than the physical bond
>>56799592
Me neither
>>56800288
>long distance gf
I'm a social retard and a failure.
Girl don't like me. Guys only like me because they find me funny.
I'm a shitty human bean and nobody likes me
>>56798681
Asperger's
>>56800541
Yeah, no. Girls are whores that have no loyalty.
>>56798681
Never felt like it/wanted one desu.
Sometimes I think it would be cool to have someone to sleep cozily next to and talk to, but I barely even have the energy to hang out with my friends the few times a month that I actually do.
>>56799947
Same friend. I wonder if this mindset will eventually change or if we will be like this forever?
>>56798681
I don't know what to say. I am super quiet unless I'm with friends.
1. I have many insecurities that I feel like I should deal with first before starting a relationship with someone.
2. I'm not actively trying to get a gf.
3. I'm yet to meet a girl that interests me. Last time I had a crush I was 14, now I'm almost 20.
>>56799947
I can relate to this also. I have difficulty forming bonds with people. I don't see it as a flaw, but it's just the way I am and have always been. I acknowledge it will be hard to find someone that can tolerate entering a relationship with me.
>>56806840
>>56806936
Same, also what do you think about:
>>56806674
>>56798681
I don't want one, simple as that. After hearing all the bullshit women have caused my friends, and other people I've talked to I've made a conclusion that having a relationship with a women is pointless, for myself that is. You guys go ahead.
>>56800288
She gets the D from other dudes while you gotta deal with all the emotional bullshit.
Way to go.
>>56798681
I want a gf but at the same time i don't. It's hard to explain and i don't have the energy or the social ability to get one.
>>56807053
Same. I'm pretty content with my life, but I feel bad sometimes because I know it's something society expects of me.
>>56806957
I don't think I'll ever change. Like I said:
>I don't see it as a flaw, but it's just the way I am and have always been.
I'm used to being this way. It can be a pain to people who try to relate with you though. I've made a friend of mine cry once because of this.
I've never been diagnosed, but I'm pretty sure I have mild autism.
I have learned the secrets of Tibetan monks
>girls
How do you get a gf if you're ugly and autistic, should I just kill myself?
>have a unit this semester with a super qt in it
>we have a facebook group for the unit on fb which makes it easier to catch up on/announce stuff
>After being involved in one of the posts, super qt adds me
>mfw
I DON'T FUCKING ADD GIRLS AT RANDOM BECAUSE THERE'S NO REASON TO, SO TO HER I'M FACEBOOK FRIEND #658 THAT SHE JUST ADDED ON A WHIM WHEN TO ME IT'S SUPPOSE TO MEAN SOMETHING.
Also no, I've gone out with girls but never been in a relationship. For it's been;
>Like girl
>Get to know her
>Stop contacting her because she's shit
>>56807359
tbqh, just talk to her normally, but like you're a bit interested, just NEVER put her on a pedestal
>>56807149
Don't think we're autistic to be honest. My brother has aspbergers and he is extremely outgoing(to a fault).
>>56798681
I don't know, too scared of rejection I guess
>>56807378
It's not that I don't know how to approach/talk to girls. It's that I don't add randoms on facebook. If someone adds me on facebook that I've never spoken to before, I expect them to say something. I just have that expectation.
But of course like a good little cuck I had to make the one exception.
>>56807388
well yeah, I wouldn't consider myself a full-blown autist, I just think that is a slightly autistic trait.
I have an internet addiction and spend all my free time glued to my computer, whenever I am not on my computer I feel uncomfortable and think about being on my computer. I lost all my friends because I just go days and months at a time without responding because to me the days just float by
>>56804511
ouch, that's a little close to home
Lack of endgame
Talking to girls is easy, talking them into a relationship is hard.
>>56798681
I find myself not even trying and I don't recall having been rejected, so I must have strstrange tendencies. Perhaps I'm asexual which I find pathetic but logically fitting for someone of my personality.
Internet gfs don't count. I could have had one but I was too afraid of going to jail.
I don't know how to flirt or act around grills, and I just can't approach a girl knowing what to say. I am very insecure and I never know for certain if a girl likes me and I dont have the balls to ask her. I can be very quiet with people I don't really know and sometimes I get really nervous. I don't want to be rejected since I think it would destroy the little confidence I have in myself
>>56798681
i can talk to people fine, but i dont know how to make friends, let alone a girlfriend.
>>56807240
>chuck tingle
kek
>>56798681
I used to have one, then I realized how bad I was at handling it so I broke it off.
Never, kissless virgin
highschool fucked me and shattered my self-esteem. relationships and intimacy have also become somewhat of a fear to me. i can't see why people would want me.
At face value, im alright, i have friends and make people laugh and i believe that people do enjoy my company. I do go little over the top, but that's about it. Once people do start to get to know me, i can end up showing how incredibly cynical and bitter about myself and how i view things.
>being in a relationship brings out the most of what you already at. amplifies it if you will.
probably one of the best advice i've ever heard and for that, i refuse to get serious until i fix myself.
Whenever I asked a girl out, I always got rejected. So I don't know how to get girls in the first place. Furthermore, it's too late to find a gf that would not be ugly/damaged goods/hitting the wall/etc. now (assuming I would not be rejected again).
>>56800288
Don't fall for the long distance meme. I did.
6 months in she tells me she spent all her travel money on pot. Stupid whore.
I have a LDR, I wish we were together everyday but she is so special to me its alright. You guys will probably joke about it but I love her more than anything. Luckily we are able to see each other 1 week every 1-2months.
Social autism.
I can't see why would someone choose me over the next guy, I'm not that ugly but I'm not good looking either, I don't have a very good sense of humour outside of shitty ironic memes and I ignore people for days at time because I don't feel like talking to anyone. Also did I mention I'm severely depressed and will eventually probably kill myself? Anyways, back in third grade high school I was talking to a really fucking cute girl and she actually told me for whatever reason that she likes me and I just decided to ignore her for few days because shit was rough in my personal life, that was my first and only chance that I had to bond a meaningful relationship with someome but I fucked up.. Im ranting at this point but oh well, there you go.
>>56813051
Yeah there was a qt grill who liked me when I was in 4th grade but I just ignored and now I'm just autistic and shit
in high school way too self-conscious about how I looked and my lack of popularity
first two years of uni I had an existential crisis and straight up gave up on life. developed a bunch of bad habits during this time too that kinda fucked me up.
now the pressure is just too much and each passing year the insecurity grows. almost 24. it's too late for me.
>>56798681
my autistic nature and hideous deformed face.
I have trouble connecting with other people, because of this I also used anime for escapism which has completely warped my views of relationships
I love qt men intead
>>56812883
>Furthermore, it's too late to find a gf that would not be ugly/damaged goods/hitting the wall/etc.
Why?
I am an extremely boring person.
I get annoyed by people pretty fast but at the same time I'm to autistic and shy to talk to new people. The only girls that hit on me were ugly and or underaged.
I do OK with guys, even normies but only due to sense of humour. Women don't find me funny in general.
>>56813730
fag
social retard, ugly, neet...even if i had women stalking me i'd still avoid them because i know deep down that i don't deserve one
some people are meant to live alone
>>56807324
An ugly and autistic gf, perhaps?
Lower your standards.
>>56798681
Small penis desu.
>>56798681
>Why have you never had a girlfriend, anon?
lol
2016
@
no anime gf
Anxiety
>>56798681
i sit at computer most of time, the other part of my time i spend at uni
>>56813730
This tBh
>>56798681
Pussies disgust me.
I am your stereotypical autistic alcoholic finn, thats why. Also im pretty mean to people.
>>56821185
Bы вcё вpётe!
>>56821353
Cuz I'm a short rat
>>56821566
>>56806936
You sound exactly like me and I've recently (at 23) obtained a qt, keep believing in yourself you'll meet someone eventually.
>>56821717
Me on the left
>>56821759
lol
I almost fell for the LDR meme. The "girl" that tried to talk me into a relationship was a British tranny. Never again.
>>56798681
I love dick
ugly
>>56798681
It's kinda hard finding a gf or friends when you're 24/7 inside your room.
>>56809986
Same
Getting laid is easy af because women are stupid unfortunately beyond that I don't think women are interested in someone who clearly doesn't do much and stays on the internet all day
>>56821185
one day i'll become rich and will fuck every pussy i want.
>>56798681
I'm ugly
>>56821185
>>56812922
>mad that she bought weed
Also, what does that issue have to do with long distance relationships?
I had one in high school
>>56798681
Too shy
>>56813742
>>Furthermore, it's too late to find a gf that would not be ugly/damaged goods/hitting the wall/etc.
>Why?
Because at this point a certain level of knowledge, experience, maturity, and knowing the basic human condition is expected and I have none of that.
>go out with girl
>loses interest
every damn time
>>56822799
u need a right gf.
Anyone tried long distance meme relationships? How does it look like? Like you send benis she sends bagina and than you have some silly chat and that's it?
>>56822826
How?
also
>apply for Russian visa
>denied because Russia hates EU (no reason given)
>>56821185
>>56822903
I thought you just need to pay for Russian visa.
>How?
idk, with similar interests so you wouldn't get bored.
>>56822969
Yeah you pay and then pray they don't deny the visa, 1/3rd of our tour group got their visas denied and no refunds.
> with similar interests so you wouldn't get bored
I know such girls, they're super busy and they're going to work abroad for 3-4 months in a few months. I guess I'm picky?
I lift, I eat correctly, I have ambition, I am not a NEET, I have good sense of humor, I know many languages, I am starting a Master, I like to listen, I like to travel, I want to raise a family, I should be the perfect bf or something
But I am apparently not good enough yet for a woman.
Because I'm 5'8 and kind of shy. Well then, I'll just live alone and enjoy my money alone. Fuck women, virtual reality gfs can't come soon enough.
>>56823134
Shyness is your only problem, not height
>>56798681
I did, but I dumpped her, and it's been over 4yrs since I've dated anyone. I met this girl last night at a bar. We had sex and talked pretty much through the whole night and she seemed really cool.
I'm just so afraid of commitment and I'm badly socially retarded. I mean I do want a gf, but every time it starts to get serious, I start to panic and distance myself from that person. People have been telling me that I'm good looking etc. but it's no use bc of the way I am.
I have had gfs... but haven't been involved with someone since my freshman year of college 5 years ago ;____;
>>56823214
I am 24 and never had a gf. Spanish women are the party type and I fucking hate that. If the solution to find a gf is changing my personality, going to parties and pick a slut who has fucked 30 Chads then I'd rather stay like this. She'll probably cheat on me for someone more attractive because that's what apparently always happens.
I'm growing more and more disgusted on women every time. It's not sadness anymore, it's frustration. I think women don't deserve me.
>>56823134
sounds like you're the supreme gentleman, elliot.
>>56823622
I have sympathy for him, except I don't want to kill anyone, just make money to enjoy in solitude.
I like this kind of thread, because it reminds me of how much of a useless shitface I am
I can not notice attention girls give to me.
I casually talk to them like I do with other people. We become friends. I hang out with them like I do with friends and then they avoid or ignore me. If I ask why they tell me that I don't notice their behaviour, how they act to attract me.
Their actions include: coming over for a movie, putting their heads on me, talking on intimate or sexual topics, asking for a help with homework and then trying to seduce me. I know these from either these girls words or from outsiders/friends that noticed girls' behaviour.
It's not like I'm dick lover. But when I think whether girl likes me and pays attention or just is friendly, I don't get it.
>>56822743
Do you want a girlfriend?
>>56798681
a couple , i have come to my knowlege that i get girls that i dont like, they like me. and the relationship starts because i think i cant get any better, and ends a month later when i figure out i hate having a girl i dont like around.
>>56798681
Because I'm an ugly fucker.
If you think a gf is magically going to fix your insecurities and life in general you are a retard. It is nice to have someone to talk to and also get laid regularly but it is overrated. Live one day at a time and find someone who is positive and that supports you in whatever you think is right.
>>56823134
Elio Rodgers
>>56824650
this dude is right, my post >>56824549
I always regret getting into a relationship when i'm desperate of having someone around. Girls are overrated.
>>56798681
no women is good enough for me
>>56824718
Never go grocery shopping when you're hungry Iad
>>56824650
>>56824874
>Costeño marico detectado.
¿Tu burra te dejo por tu primo?
>>56824874
Yeah i know. I'm kinda distant when it comes to girls emotions, so before know it a girl wants to sleep with me, and then i'm fucked... figuratively speaking
>>56798681
I suck at making actual women friend
My relationship with women is basically we happen to meet, I make jokes, they laugh, we go our seperate ways
they never actually tell me about what happened with their lifes and all that gay shit
Had one in the past.
Now I basically reject every girl while chasing the same one for years and years.
>>56798681
Because I'm far too reclusive and don't go out of my way to change it.
>>56798681
depression and prolonged fatigue since child, i have relationship at hs and college though
Because I surround myself with guys that infinitely more attractive, fit outgoing and funny. My entire social circle is made up of chads and I'm just a scrawny awkward nerd next to them. Why would a girl ever choose me over them?
>>56825439
cheerleader effect mabye
paranoid schizophrenia
>>56798681
I don't want one. Get out of the fucking Matrix, brother. I just want sex but not right now. Don't want a child before finishing university... its a risk, desu.
>>56798953
Iktf
The first person you really connected with part is the worst. Even more attractive women just seem pointless from then on.
Middle East, pretty hard to have an actual girlfriend and be in a relationship. Getting your dick wet isn't too hard, though. All it takes is money.
>>56826289
Me too, brother. I used to be so damn happy, now I am a functioning alcoholic. I don't even miss her anymore, I'm just so damn lonely every day and I don't know how to meet women anymore.
>make a thread about national dances
>instantly deleted
>tfw no gf thread
>A OK
>>56798681
i am not
funny
rich
good looking
successful
confident
intelligent
trusting
>>56799947
Literally me desu baka senpai
I'm weird and have difficulty having conversations with others because I think I'm better than them
>>56798953
This is what happens if you aren't an alpha.
>>56826939
What are you again?
>>56827043
Poland
>>56827103
Oh, ok
>>56826939
>narcissistic personality disorder
That feel is known to us.
Mfw I remember I have a lifetime of loneliness ahead of me.
Still haven't had sex. Gotten blowjobs and handies though.
>>56798681
Because I spend my free time playing videogames to forget about not having a girlfriend
>>56812838
Dude you're literally me.
>she thinks were dating
Last one had the same idea
Never. I am average looking and not socially retarded, but never even try anything.
I don't know.
Does anyone want to be my gf?
Because I never party so where was I supposed to meet her?
I'm too careless and lazy to have a gf.
