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How do you deal with loneliness?
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How do you deal with loneliness?
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Maturbate.
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go on kik and look for a girl, and sext each other
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I play videogames most of the time.
or this >>51958757
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>>51958693
I don't.
I'm used to it.
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>>51958693
Tbqh I try to talk to people.
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I accept it.
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>>51958693
you tell me
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When I feel sad, I just remember how uncomfortable I feel being around people. I honestly dont like being lonely, but I enjoy it more than, you know, going out with people and shit.
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>>51958693

I go to /int/..
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>>51958693
Beer and 4chan
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There are some who have no voices
Or none that will ever speak
Because of the things they know about this world
And the things they feel about this world
Because the thoughts that fill a brain
That is a damaged brain
Because the pain that fills a body
That is a damaged body
Exists in other worlds
Countless other worlds
Each of which stands alone in an infinite empty blackness
For which no words are being conceived
And where no voices are able to speak
When a brain is filled only with damaged thoughts
When a damaged body is filled only with pain
And stands alone in a world surrounded by infinite empty blackness
And exists in a world for which there is no special plan

When everyone you have ever loved is finally gone
When everything you have ever wanted is finally done with
When all of your nightmares are for a time obscured
As by a shining brainless beacon
Or a blinding eclipse of the many terrible shapes of this world
When you are calm and joyful
And finally entirely alone
Then in a great new darkness
You will finally execute your special plan
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>>51958693
>he doesn't have enough money to pay people to listen to his problems
baka desu senpai
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Spend hours on a photorealism drawing, then throw it away because it looks like shit
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>>51958693
Get shot
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Talk to people.
I'm really friendly and I have two close friends who I can tell anything to. They understand when I shell up and want to be alone and they're always there when I want to chat about whatever. I'm very blessed.
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>>51959166
NNOOOOOORRRRMMMMMIIIIEEEEEEE
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Whisky and long solitary walks...
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Smoke joints and drink Manhattans.
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>>51959191
I take that as a compliment. 10 years ago I was a suicidal hermit.
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>>51958693
4chan, vidya, alcohol, exercise, work.

None of it works mind you.
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>>51958693
At least you don't live in a country where asperger is a norm.
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>>51958693
Xanax.
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>>51959464
Dem memes tho.
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>>51959464
Haven't yet figured out how Finns make friends.
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>>51959464
that'd be cool m8
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dank memes and qts
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>>51959464
isn't that actually better? At least you aren't the odd one without friends.
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>>51959166
Two close friends, are they your parents?
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>>51959602
And it's impossible to ever have friends or any social interaction because it's not socially acceptable to talk to strangers.
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>>51959687
well, that's bad if you actually want to make friends. I'd love to live in finland, tho.
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>>51959726
why?
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>>51959649
no parents
I lol'd though, that was a good one
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>>51959789
>literally me
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>>51958693
i delude myself into thinking that im delusional and that in reality i have friends
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>>51959789
I love being alone, and the only reason I made an attempt to make friends when I was younger was to not be seen as an oddity and hoping I would start liking being around people if I forced myself to do it. It never happened so I gave up, but I still feel the pressure of needing to have a normal social life.
I think, maybe mistakenly, that in finland I wouldn't have such pressure since most people are ok with being lonely.
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>>51959825
Are Swedes as socially awkward as Finns?
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>>51959904
>>51959789
well, I don't have these anxieties, so maybe I wouldn't fit in finland's society
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>>51959904
Probably. Though I'm more so that what is considered normal. I've skipped classes, standing outside, too embarrassed to enter. I mean, even though I have been there before and checked my schedule 4 times it could still be the wrong one, right?
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>>51959006
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lxZpEFJhO6k
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>>51959963
sounds familiar
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>>51958757
I like loneliness
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by not being lonely

it's a state of mind
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>>51958693
porn, Netflix, 4chan, and twitter
That's literally most of my day
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What is loneliness, what does it feel like? I've never experienced it.
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>>51962668
wanting to fuck someone's hole
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>>51962701
I've a weird fetish so I can't relate there.
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>>51958763
"Kik" makes me think of "kike". I bursted laughing.
And what does "sext" mean, normie slang has gone through my ears lately.
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>>51962802
"Sext".

Sexual Text Messages.
I.E dirty talking, usually but not always involving the exchange of nude photographs via SMS.
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>>51962802
>lately

sext is as old as the internet
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Anime
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>>51959904
not as much when Swedes finn deez nutz bustin in their bum
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Sometimes it's too much to handle desu
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>>51963780
like you can't handle all those shekels Germany gives to you
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>>51958693
Instead of thinking inside your head, vocalize your thoughts. It's a neat trick to fool your mind into thinking you're not alone.
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>>51963800
No all those shekels went to coke and prostitutes desu.
Best investment I ever did
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>>51958693
interpals dot net
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>>51958693
I'm daydreaming....a lot...
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>>51963848
It's a neat trick to look schizophrenic

>>51958693
also prostitutes.
if you want to make friends you can even go to the psychiatry ward at the hospital, that's what i did. just act crazy and they'll give you medication
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>>51959789
>>51963892
lmao we are literally the opposite
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>>51958693

I am forced to talk to normies at work.
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>>51963877
Dreaming about what, desu?
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talking to random people on skype

I don't know how to meet people IRL
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>>51958757
this and music
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>>51963742
Pretty much this. Anime is the only thing that makes me feel alive these days. Well, that and huge amounts of alcohol.
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You don't.

You just keep on going because dying's too much trouble.
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Ignoring it until it become overbearing.
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>>51958693
Camwhores
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i [spoiler]rosepost[/spoiler]
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>straight up funpost on /int/
>pester people and try to derail threads on /g/
>watch dumb garbage on youtube
>play GTAV
>watch some movies when I can be bothered
>occasionally go to the theatre
>fuck around with my android phone
>watch female ASMR videos like a true sad loner
>collect welfare

That's pretty much a full week for me.
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>>51958693
4chan 2ch
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>>51960303
Soossia tälle kuvalle?
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>>51963918
>It's a neat trick to look schizophrenic
Says the lonely loner who's all alone.
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>>51958693

Denial. That's what I do, anyway
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>>51959464
literally the perfect world tbqh
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>>51958693
I try to remember that other people can't make me love myself, and focus on winning small victories (brush my teeth every day, take my dog out for a walk every day, etc.)

I am the only one who can make my life worth living.
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>>51963742
>>51965996

The saddest posts tbqh
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>>51958693
Tell myself that there's others out there lonlier than me.
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>>51958693
haha i've been in my room 24 hours and am hiding from my family waheeeey i think i'm going to literally be a hikkikomori at this rate loloolololol i'm dying
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>>51966963
ah fuck off you muslim cunt. fuck off already and give us a break eh
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>>51966984
Why are you doing that pham?
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Videogames, 4chan and occasionally drugs
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>>51958693
wankie-wankie
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>>51960303
>>51959904
>>51959789
>>51959536
God bless you you autistic neckbeards.


I spent a semester in Finland, it was the best time i had in my life. I had more sex in those 6 months than in the 6 years before that. Everyone is autistic, you have 0 competition. It pretty much felt like beeing the one-eyed man among the blind.

I think ill move there, but your language and your weather are fucking disgusting.
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>>51967044
i don't know. maybe i'm selfish and maybe i've failed all expectations but i don't think there's a concrete reason. some birds fly and some fall. it's inate
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occupy yourself with self-learning, helps rid of the guilt of doing "nothing" all day. also i am happy that as of 22, i'm outgrowing this site/forums.
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>>51967090
Are you happy with that?
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>>51967178
if i'm to be completely honest i'm going to kill myself i've already secured a length of rope and found a good support beam

once you see true emptiness there's no answer and there's nobody to confide in. the void consumes all
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>>51958693
I got a dog that I take to the dog park in my city. I've met tons of people at the park, and my dog is my little buddy.

Taking care of someone or something else inspires me to take more care of myself.
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>>51967212
>not fighting against the void
>giving in to apathy
>being a soft cunt
Exceedingly poor form m8
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I'm really egotistical and full of my self, so the more time I spend alone with myself, the happier I become.
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>>51967212
Well, before you do that, you should consider whether you have actually done all you can do to make your life better. If not, you should at least try to fix yourself before you throw yourself away.
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>>51967267
How do you meet people? Do you try to start conversations and shit? I feel like I wouldn't know what to say.
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>>51967212
>not spending your last days crusading against the coloured hordes
baka desu fampai
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>>51958693
I'm scared my friend is becoming a hermit, how do I stop him? He won't leave the house to hang out with me or anybody else.
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>>51967323
this desu senpai
If I wanted to kill myself I'd book a ticket to Damascus
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>>51967395
Tell him that you miss hanging out with him and that spending all day by himself/on the internet will probably drive him insane (see: the various American supreme gentleman school shooters).
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>>51967395
Burn down his house.
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>>51958874
Who is he?
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>>51958693
i play multiplayer games
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>>51967526
What are you doing in vietnam, russiabro?
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>>51967497
Maybe, problem is he becomes very emotional when confronted. One of my female friends almost made him cry when she lost her cool with him because he continually bailed on social events.
>>51967514
He lives just outside a forest so it'll end being more than his house being torched. Still I respect that practicality of that approach but it won't work here.
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>>51958693
i just sleep 23 hours /day
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>>51967573
just leave him, having been in his position youll just make him feel guilty and thatll only make him feel worse
he'll come out of it in his own time, just make sure he doesnt feel abandoned but at the same time dont harass him constantly to be social
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>>51958693
nothing, I have a bunch of 8/10 friends
Good solution, would recommend
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>>51967395
Kinda wish I had a friend like you, man.
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>>51968236
t-that means a lot
>>51967761
Yeah I see what you mean, won't be easy though
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>>51968108
why do you browse an anonymous forum for the autistics then?
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>>51958693
I don't mind it 2bh. makes listening to sad music more intense

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M_VCbnqbwwA
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>>51958693
I smoke weed and/or drink beer while listening to music. Also, going into chat rooms to troll.
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>>51967081
Shitskin
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>>51958693
I don't deal with it at all.
I'm becoming progressively more bitter every day, then one day I'll get myself a cat and start writing a book about philosophy.
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>>51958693
I spend time with my friends on /int/ and /r9k/ or I just daydream, I'm looking forward to the new year's eve /int/ party
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>>51958874

nice mirrored photo bro
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>>51966538

wut's ASMR precious?
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>>51970603
Girls whispering sweet nothings
You put your headphones on and it feels nice
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>>51958693
>tfw no gf
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>>51958693

I push it to the back of my mind really and just try to focus on whatever I am doing, work, hobbies, drinking, whatever. If I ever dwell on it even a little it really fucks me up.
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>>51970641

Thanks hans and what do the letters actually stand for?
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>>51970730
Autonomous sensory meridian response

Just a fancy name for getting goosebumps on your nape
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>>51970730
>>51970788

I curse myself for knowing what a girl's heartbeat felt like, knowing what their sweat smells like, knowing what their breathing in their sleep sounds like.

When the girl is gone. . . Agonizing loneliness.
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>>51971084
And when you actually have a girl, she constricts you, your arms fall asleep, she snores and smells bad and you can't move in bed anymore
Also she will have ice cold feet and hands
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>>51969837
that's beautiful
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>>51963918
i am already schizoprenic so it's ok
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>>51974909
Mam jednÄ… pierdolnÄ… schizofreniÄ™
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>>51975241
good thing is took away schizoprenia medicines and antidepressants for weed though
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I like being alone but I know that's not a good thing so I'm trying to change a bit.
Thinking of put in practice the ''just go to a place with people that share your interest and hobbies''
The problem is that I don't know where the ''gamers'' movie fanatics and avid readers gather in this hellhole country.
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Beer and masturbation
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