Millenials of /fit/, do you think porn has fucked you up at all psychologically and/or sexually?
Yeah.
>>36593605
Tastes in porn vs real life? Or something else
>>36593634
Idk about real life. Im a virgin.
i've seen women drink milkshakes straight out of other women's assholes, yet i've never so much as held a girl's hand. yes i do.
I jack off too much, but other than the wasted time, I haven't noticed any issues
I would quit it, but I already premature ejaculate. If I didn't have porn, I'd probably bust a nut just making out with a broad
>>36593595
Nope, like any functional human being I can separate fantasy from reality.
30 days nofap today ^_^
Yeah.
Got into that sissy shit. Which fucked with my dysmorphia. Which fucked with my social life
I hugged a girl yesterday.
>Her boobs were lifted by my shoulder as i stood to hug.
>d-delts ftw
>can't stop thinking about it
>or her butt
>I saw i girl i had oneitis for, back in high school, at my gym.
>She saw me mire her
>didn't talk to her
>she gone now
It's been a long sludge run from St. Patties Day.
I'm quitting this shit till i die from blue balls
>>36593595
I'm 31, been watching porn almost daily ever since I had to slowly wait for images to load on 56k.
I've fucked dozens and dozens of women and have had multiple serious relationships.
So... no. I'm a sexy man muffin with an awesome romantic life.
>>36593756
also is it normal for skin to not feel like your own.
I hadn't slept well in a while.
I keep scratching it and it doesn't feel right
Reminder that these people are the same ones that go ape shit and say nofap is a meme when they get triggered in no fap threads
>>36593756
>boobs were lifted by my shoulders
Fucking manlets
I haven't masturbated to a 3D women in almost 8 years.
Nop, sex is for passion, porn is for stress relief.
Absolutely. Made me go for sex when it was available instead of stopping short and letting her want for more
>>36593776
Might be bed bugs.
Clean your shit and go to a doctor.
I've fapped over all kinds of shit. The funny thing is I only started getting low libido and shit is when I tried NoFap.
Psychosoma is a powerful thing.
Anyway, I'm back to fapping to what I feel like, and fucking big hipped bitches.
>>36593595
I have an ass eating fetish.
I'm black and I can't get enough of white and Asian girls.
I need to finish on a girl's face or lower back.
If I finish inside a girl, I have to cream pie her.
So...maybe.
>>36593715
>falling for no-fap maymay
what a life you must lead...
yeah probably, Ive had the chance to have sex like 8 times and never gotten it up, well comboed with my retard level anxiety.
>>36593605
/thread
>>36593595
No because I don't watch porn.
>>36593756
>Got into that sissy shit
Dont let that shit define you brah. It gets better
Actual sex wise no. I've had a foot fetish as long as I can remember and I have a thing for bareback / creampie but I don't think that's too far out there.
However, I do find myself very Dissapointed when the woman I am penetrating isn't all dolled up like a barbie porn star WHORE. That's where porn fucked me I guess. I want my bitch smothered in makeup and colors and stuff. Also when you're that close to a woman you can see so many imperfections like their little facial hair and shit. It can be disgusting sometimes. I've lost girlfriends because they'd want to bang and I'd be like "really? While you look like that?"
I've had regular sex (I think a month is longest I've gone without it) since I was 16 (31 now) and first watched porn when I was 5 or 6. With my normal internet browsing I probably see an average of 50-100 naked women a day (just on /b/ etc...) and I've watched pretty much every video on efukt. I've watched or looked at porn regularly for almost 2 decades. If I had the ability to, it would have been for longer (no internet when I was a kid) so we only got to see naked ladies in rated R movies or when a friend found his dads magazine stash.
It's really hard to say how any of that has affected me but there's absolutely no way that it hasn't. It's probably made me much more open in bed. I can't imagine people 100 years ago were OK with giving rim jobs or 69ing when they were high school age, but who knows... I'm not asking my grandparents.
I think porn makes kids want to try everything they see on screen but they learn kinda quickly a lot of it doesn't work too well in real life. Most girls don't feel like they're receiving a gift from god when you cum on their faces, for instance. If they do it's probably cause they saw it in porn and figure it's what guys like.
tl;dr our generation has so many unprecedented things about it, there's more than a lifetime to study for any psychologist.
Yes and no.
I find it harder recently to get it up instantly in the absence of porn, maybe it's porn-induced ED maybe it's performance anxiety maybe it's only doing cardio twice a week instead of what used to be 6 times/week. Probably some combination of those three. As a teenager I had no problem no matter how much alcohol or drugs I'd consumed to get it up almost instantaneously with barely any physical stimulation, now I have to be relatively sober(except weed) with a decent amount of build-up. Porn probably plays a part, I find myself actually watching the intro now rather than skipping right to penetration.
As for my opinion of women, it was actually never porn that affected that. Same with advertisements and tv. I knew it was fake, I still know it's fake, everyone is augmented to shit with a bucket of makeup, on some pharma, and have great lighting and tons of cleaning/prep.
Getting into fitness has actually been the thing that screwed up my perceptions of women, potentially irreversibly. I used to just see "she's got a decent face and isn't fat, I'd hit it", now even if a woman is 5'6" and 128lbs, squeezed in yoga pants or a bodycon dress and I see how she has a soft pancake ass, a muffin top, and an abdomen that looks like pudding poured into a plastic bag. And I know how little actual effort it would take to fix these things, but they don't. As Dom said "you're a human foul ball, at the ripe age of 20". But we're in the middle of an obesity crisis, and I'm in university, this is literally the fittest group of people I will ever see, and they look like shit.
>>36594303
yeah it sucks being an Amerifat doesn't it? I feel like at least 8 out of 10 girls are fuckable if they are in good shape, but here only about 1 out of 4 girls are what I'd consider in good shape (that's being generous) so it makes that pool 75% smaller.
I'll add that porn has definitely made me much more into needing a girl with a full ass and hardly any excess stomach fat. You barely ever see a girl without a nice round ass in porn or extra chub, and if you do she won't make it.
the only girls with a little extra weight have massive tits and a huge ass to compensate.
I think it's made my turned off super easily by flaws like that. I'll normally just fuck a girl once if something turns me off, and never call her again.
Funny story one thing guys learn when they start having sex is that most girls have hair in their ass crack. Most younger girls don't shave it even if they shave their pussy. Huge surprise first time I saw that.
I've been no fapping for 3 days, last night I had a dream that my hot coworker got drunk and made out with me, but in the dream all I could think of was how bad her breath smelled
>>36594368
when you've been wanting to hook up with a girl so bad and when you finally do and they have bad breath, it's like Satan's cruelest joke.
When I was a teen yeah. It definitely did. I mean, jerking off to an hour long video of 5 black milfs molesting an anorexic Asian 19 yo can kind of make lying on a bed making out and listening to her shitty playlist underwhelming. Porn ruined teen love.
Not irreversible though. Haven't watched porn in a while and normal shit turns me on again.
That and the fact that my first gf ever would just drone on forever about the most stupid shit.
It's like, hmm I could put in a huge amount of effort, time, money and my self esteem all for the chance to get laid with a 7/10, and then if I want to do it again with the same one I have to listen to roughly 10 words of blabbing per one orgasm, and do whatever stupid shit she wants. Don't have to worry if I'm doing it right etc
Plus add in a chance of STD or children (the worst STD)
>Or I can fap to a 10/10 for free, when I want not just when she's in the mood, and when I'm done I can sleep or play vidya lift or do whatever
Pretty easy choice
>>36594449
10k words I meant
>>36594192
>judging my life via a chinese anime website
please show me the way
>>36593595
I thought it did but probably no. It got me to experiment with pegging, which is fun but ultimately vanilla sex with a girl you love is better. I technically have Porn-induced ED but that is probably only because I have a low sex drive and would rather masturbate than go and fuck my gf, or my gf doesn't attract me always.
>>36594184
>I have an ass eating fetish
Y-You too?
>>36593595
30 y/o here. As far as I can remember, I've always been curious/obsessed with sex. Even before I could access pornography on my own over the internet, I used to play doctor with other kids (boys and girls, no homo of course) and I was always the one pushing to go further into our exploration. I used to masturbate in the school bathroom (sometimes several times a day).
Now I watch porn every day, and like many others, I guessed I've seen pretty much everything imaginable. Has it influenced my taste? That's possible, but I did not develop a specific fetish. Rather, I enjoy pretty much everything sexual (except for niche fetish). I can have regular intercourse in missionary position one night then the next assfuck my girl and finish on her face while she cleans my shit smeared dick and pukes... I'm lucky enough to have a wife who indulges my fantasy, although it can take quite a bit of convincing some time.
I do find that I can sometime have a craving for certain things. For example, if I'm the mood for watersport, I might get moody and borderline angry if I don't get what I want sooner rather than later. After I have been satisfied, I can go months without craving the same thing, so I don't consider myself having a paraphilia.
When it relates to sex, I consider my wife to be kind of a toy to my desires. On the other hand, I have no problem indulging in her fantasy in likewise fashion.
>>36594484
jesus christ
>>36593595
Not really. I'm pretty numb to most pornography nowadays, but I got over the "beat the shit out of my dick 10 times a day phase". I've had girlfriend/wife for 8 years also so there's that.
>>36594511
What?
No
I lost my virginity at 16 though, I imagine that losing it when I was 20 something could have lead to wierd results though.
>>36594388
Bad breath has ended 2 relationships for me. If its bad enough, you associate their entire vibe with that awful smell.
>>36593696
what is reality, bropai?
>>36593757
> 31
> millenial
I don't really watch it. I guess part of the reason is I had a painting of my dead dad in my computer room, which made it always feel disrespectful.
I like my imagination - it's at my own rhythm, and with whomever I want to dick.
There's this porn password cracking irc channel I've been idling in for years. As a result I have a login to pretty much every major porn site and a lot of garbage ones as well.
When I find a pornstar I want to fap to I can't just fap and be done with it. I have to cross check all the sites I'm a member of and download all her imageset updates, organize it, and then check for any sites she is on that I don't have a cracked membership to. This entire process sometimes can waste an entire afternoon, its ridiculous
>>36593715
Good job. Start lifting btw.
>22
Lost virginity at 20. Daily fapping to porn since 13. It definitely fucked up my sex life for a bit.
Missed multiple opportunities to lose virginity earlier because I couldn't get it up.
I'd always have a semi hard dick while fucking until I cut porn out.
Stopping porn for a while definitely changed the quality of my erections.
porn has fucked me up really bad
I'm not even a wizard or anything, a regular 90% chad.. I can't even get hard without porn anymore.
>>36594697
Yeah, I'm gonna need a link to that channel
>>36594032
People simply cannot into acceptance.
And the nofap people go overboard with their keenness, while anons typically hate displays of enthusiasm for nearly anything
>>36594449
>>36594477
You sound retarded
Self-sex is nowhere close to real-sex
>>36594741
server is irc.whatnet.org
channel is #3x
you have to register your nickname to enter the channel.
>>36594778
Bless you, chile
>>36594766
Both end the same fampai
but with one it happens when I want, don't have to quit if she gets sore or not in the mood nor have a chance to waste time on a date only to get ghosted
End result is close enough
I have a lot of problems but I don't think any of them are due to porn. Porn probably didn't help but I already got an erection when women cried when I was 14 and we didn't have internet back then so....
>>36594832
no they don't end the same
have you never had any intimacy in your life?
>>36594860
The physical act ends the same, I get my nut.
I honestly don't see much in the wife gf thing, I feel like half or more of the time I have to either do some dumb shit she wants and or listen to her blab about how everyone she works with is a bitch. I don't need to hear every detail of your day woman, give me the abridged version, or better yet, learn to talk about something besides the people around you
>>36593595
Porn only made it worse, because it set my standards for women way higher than it used to.
That combined with my social anxiety (symptoms including heavy facial flushing, sweating, fast breathing and going soft) flunked my first five attempts at losing my virginity.
Lost my virginity at 21 years old, thanks to alcohol, and it was a pretty good experience overall, grill actually liked it which made it even cooler.
Thought that would finally help with my anxiety, but nope, i get all autistic and spastic when dealing with girls, literally dropping my spaghetti and being unable to sustain a hardon for more than ten seconds without the aid of alcohol/viagra.
Dropped the porn and started lifting, i can finally sustain healthy erections but i'm still an autistic, sweaty fuck.
Had a sexual dream about a childhood friend yesterday. Does this make me gay?
>>36594904
jesus christ
Porn addiction is really a small symptom of a greater issue.
No Fap will either end in failure or otherwise won't make a difference if that underlying emotional issues isn't addressed.
Once I started seeing a shrink and taking steps to MAKE myself happy, the porn and jerking urges went away on their own.
My confidence is pretty good these days, I feel way more confident hitting on women. Even if I'm coming off like a creep... fuck it who cares. With that said tho...
AFFECTION/SEX FROM FEMALES SHOULD NEVER BE YOUR TOP PRIORITY IN LIFE. Keep your happiness, ambitions, dedication on MEANINGFUL goals.
And Yes, raising your Big 3 totals are a meaningless endeavor. 500lb diddys wont get you money, aesthetics, pussy or make your crippling low self esteem and anxiety go away.
>>36594303
>5'6" and 128lbs
Damn son that's super specific
Hit a bit close to home as well since btwI'magrill:3 with similar stats and I have a huge complex about the effect that major weight loss has had on my body (the upside being most people just assume I've had a child; I would imagine men don't have this privilege), but I get where you're coming from I think. The more /fit/ I get, the more I discover new and creative ways of judging myself and other people's physiques.
>>36594618
Someone currently 31 years of age (i.e. born 84-85) is technically gen Y, aka millenials, but sociologists/buzzfeed keep moving the goalposts. Last I heard, people born in '99 were apparently millenials? In a way, it stands to reason really - the vast majority of gen Y are not nearly as economically "accomplished" as gen X were at the same age (inb4 some software developer faggot chimes in with "I'm 23 and on six figures and own my own home cos stem lol") and by extension, aren't considered as "mature". I've gone back to college myself this year and despite being surrounded by 16-18 year olds (UK further education college) I was readily accepted into the fold before I even let them know I had 10 years on most of them. I'm a young looking motherbitch, but mostly it's because I'm from a generation of immature fucks, and the upcoming generation are a lot more worldly than we ever were.
>>36593595
Yeah, nah, I was messed up sexually before I even knew what porn was.
Wasn't abused, wasn't traumatized, but for whatever reason I developed a transformation fetish at 9 years old. I can remember that first boner - I loved to draw, and was working on a comic where a woman (as slinky and sexy as I could manage at 9) was caught in a spider's web. As I sketched the spider there was the plotting of what the arachnid was going to do to that woman. A normal kid would have thought, 'It's just going to eat her.' I thought, 'It's going to turn her into a spider!' Boner. This combined with a love of drawing monsters led to some Cthulhic ERP's later in life.
/fit/ has been a life-saver - this board taught me how simple (not necessarily easy) it is to take control of the body. How to transform it.
I did nofap for a bit but I just became stressed out a lot.
I still leak precum when I chat with girls on tinder. So maybe my masturbating habits are not bad at all.
>>36593595
Not at all. Though I guess it has me really craving a threesome, with another girl of course.
So much jacking off and edging as a teenager has gotten me god like pornstar tier cum control.
>>36593756
What is that "sissy shit" ?
>>36594184
I am exactly like you except I have a job
>>36594904
>Autism: The Post
>>36595292
>I still leak precum when I chat with girls on tinder.
I'll have to quote you on that you lovable autistic fucker.
>>36593595
Possibly. Only since I started browsing /fit/ though and got attracted to traps.
>>36595041
which steps did you make buddy
>>36595041
>And Yes, raising your Big 3 totals are a meaningless endeavor. 500lb diddys wont get you money, aesthetics, pussy or make your crippling low self esteem and anxiety go away.
BUT WILL I GET BIG
>>36594367
I'm Canadian so it isn't even as bad for me as it is for you guys.
>>36595203
I just picked stats that'd put someone right in the middle of BMI, obviously those stats will look better on fit girl(as most things do.) There are pluses to fit judgement though, like I don't really care about flat chests anymore, which opens up an often ignored market.
>>36593595
definitely i started watching when i was like 12-13 i can remember rushing home from school to make sure no one sees if my porn finished downloading on the file sharing program. you eventually build a collection and your tastes get more degenerate as the years go on. ive never seen a vagina irl and im 26 now. maybe i would have attempted talking to girls if i didnt have a library of porn to fall back on. either way im fucked i hate myself and want to die now
1997fag here
I discovered /e/ when I was 11ish
It fucked me up psychologically.
I literally don't fap, maybe once a year at best.
>>36595373
Listen I know women don't care about how many scoops I took or the difference between machines and free weights or that vidya game talk will just bore them.
Am I so wrong to expect the same back?
I really could care less about how Jill an accounting is a bitch. It just doesn't interest me.
All I know is that porn has given me the meanest fetish for anything ass related. It has affected everything I do in the bedroom. If we're having sex, your ass is going to be involved. No exceptions.
It has ruined potential relationships. With each girl I meet, when we have sex for the first time they get a little bothered when I'm full on tonguefucking their asses. A rimjob early on in the relationship, I've been told, is intimidating. I know most girls can learn to love the rimjob, but all girls have a little insecurity concerning their buttholes. Try telling that to this guy, with an ass related porn-addled mind.
And don't even get me started on anal...
I think so
I masturbate to 3D likely less than once every 4-5 months
Also it occurred to me that I've been masturbating to 2D traps and underage schoolgirls so much ever since I was a teenager that it feels normal to me but I don't think this is something that normal guys actually do
I started masturbating at 14 and then never did it again till I was 15 and a half due to Catholic guilt but I've more or less tipped my fedora at this point
I wonder if this is why I've never tried to kiss a girl at 20
I've had chances but it just never happened
>>36593595
>Millenials of /fit/, do you think porn has fucked you up at all psychologically and/or sexually?
Anyone born after '87 has been fucked over by porn both sexually and psychologically
Porn has ruined our own mental perception of our dicks plain and simple, we all feel inadequate and it has made most of us wonder if she's had bigger or if she's telling the truth when she says you fulfill her.
The fucked up part is that the majority of dudes in porn don't actually have massive johnsons, they use a lot of camera angles and more than half of all women in porn are fucking tiny.
But even knowing that and even having visited a legit set(photographer so I have a few friends in the business) seeing how it all goes down(even the editing) and I still feel inadequate af.
>Having big meaty hands doesn't help either
It's made me more depraved and into a lot of dom stuff where I'm the dom constantly chasing an elusive turnon.
>tfw vanilla sex with normie grill
>>36593595
I've had my fetish for as long as I can remember. It's remained static despite fapping to it once a day since I was 14. I would probably be sexually frustrated without porn.
>>36595905
A rapist in the making
>>36596061
>liking ass = rape
Sure thing, bud
I can't cum during sex. I'm still conflicted about what's causing it, it's either porn or self hatred.
>>36594595
I have bad breath:)
I went without porn completely for 6 months and it did change me
Normal, average women seemed much more attractive, I had more energy and drive to accomplish things
Now when I watch porn I always only watch one video. Before I would skip through 30+ videos in one session, but that's just mentally draining now
I choose 1 porno, watch it without skipping parts, and immerse myself in it.
IMO the biggest problem with porn is that you need more and more to keep fapping, it ruins real life
porn doesnt interest me at all anymore. I'm 26 now. I still havent got laid in years but at least im trying ;)
>>36595699
>1997
>kids born when ff7 came out are legal adults
Good Lord I feel old
>>36593595
Literally not at all. Fuck gf 2-3 times a week. Fap to porn 2-3 times a week. Neither has effected the other.
>>36593595
I think so.
I'm only 19 and my dick is never totally hard when I'm about to have sex. It's really frustrating and makes me even more anxious. I lost my viriginity to a prostitute and I fuck other girls like a lesbian, using mostly my tongue or my fingers. Fuck me...
These days, I'm trying to stop porn. It'll get better, hopefully.
