Role-Reversal and Gentle Femdom General - Little Domme Big Sub Edition
ITT:
>related hentai
>greentext
>monster girls
>general lewdness
>dojinshi recommendations
>anime/manga recommendations
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
>cuteposting
>vocaroos
>friendly discussion
Previous Thread: >>6521156
>What is Role Reversal?
http://rolereversalreader.tumblr.com/post/108492906077/finished-the-faq-for-relationship-role-reversal
New Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1618907
Old Role Reversal Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1239585#
FetLife Group
https://fetlife.com/groups/121948
irc channel: irc.irchighway.net , #gfd
/rr/ and /gfd/ megapastebins:
http://pastebin.com/7NfGfusP
http://pastebin.com/evbfjazh
http://pastebin.com/iQetqpH7
List time!
Animated films:
>Garden of Words
>Kiki's delivery service
Anime/Manga:
>Witch Craft Works
>Freezing
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>Infinite Stratos
>Accel World*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun
Manga/Light Novel:
>Kono Onee-san wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Oyomegatari
>Sensei Lock-on
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Natsuyuki Rendezvous
>Otomen
>Tramps like us
>Hokago play
>Game Over
*/gfd/ is not the main focus of the story. Don't read/watch it purely for the /gfd/, make sure you enjoy it first and consider the /gfd/ a bonus.
Doujins: http://pastebin.com/5w7qgrM6
As usual, recommendations are welcome.
What do women think of submissive guys? Where can you find dominant women?
I don't want any kind of weird BDSM type relationship, I just want a normal typical relationship but with a girl who is assertive and in control in the bedroom, but gentle about it.
Sometimes it seems like I have impossible to satisfy tastes. Like a woman that meets my ideals isn't possible to even exist.
I like women with a healthy body type, like someone athletic or even better muscular, I really like tomboyish girls with short haircuts, and armpit hair definetly happens to be one of my fetishes, but most women I meet like that happen to be either lesbians or crazy liberals. I want a girl that let's me feel like I can actually discuss things with her and isn't so deep into political ideology that telling her anything that contradicts her views would offend her, someone reasonable you could actually have a civil debate with as friends. She absolutely has to be into guns or at least willing to try, because that happens to be the field I work in.
Height and breast size aren't really anywhere near as important as anything else on my list, though a tall girl larger breasts would be nice obviously.
It just seems like with all of this it would be really damn hard to find any girls that I think would be completely ideal, or even close to my idea of ideal, mostly because I think I might have impossible standards.
So how is everyone going?
>>6522948
>>6522949
>>6522939
I think you also just described my ideal girl as well.
but yeah, honestly, I think we all have impossible standards here. but we fall in love with whomever we fall in love, and we compromise.
>>6522951
>>6522949
Theeeere you are... I was wondering when that series's fanart would pop up
>>6522955
>>6522955
a-ayy?
>>6522953
Honestly the body can be subject to change as long as she's not fat. I just want a girl with the right personality more than anything, but even that seems impossible to find.
>>6522954
>>6522963
Where are my baking bros at?
>>6522948
Everything is going as usual.
I'm bored, I'm lonely, I'm contemplating suicide. But at least I have my gfd porn.
>>6522939
I want a smart academic gf to teach me things but that's probably not going to happen
>>6522964
Yooo! I baked that tiramisu I was talking about.
>>6522964
This doujin is awesome
tomboy nee-san best girl
>>6522971
Nice! I would love to try some but...you cant send tiramisu over the internet. however speaking of baking I made a vanilla slice last night and its just about set, do you want me to send a pic once its done?
>>6522980
C-can I snuggle with you? and sorry I don't know the sauce.
>>6522964
sorry my oven is just used to store pots and pans ;__;
>>6522989
>C-can I snuggle with you? and sorry I don't know the sauce.
It's alwight
I just wanna sleep. It's been a loooonngg day.
And I'll probably stay up until 2 again. And wake up at 7.
>>6522989
I would love to see a picture! I'd give a picture of my tiramisu but I already gave it all out. :x
>grow up being friends with a very loud, tomboyish girl
>we'd play wrestle all the time, she'd always beat me at everything
>we were the two "gifted" kids in our small rural school
>if other kids bullied me she'd kicked the shit out of them
>went to a bigger high school, lost touch with her
>she went to law school, I did computer sciences
>we now live in different countries but I still think about her a lot
>she recently started weightlifting and there's a pic of her bridal carrying a guy on Facebook
>She posted happy birthday on my Facebook for the first time in years
>Never understood oneitis until now
>>6522989
>>6522980
sauce is [Yuuki Homura] Onee-chan! Tengoku Sister Paradise
>>6522948
IT'S FUCKING HALLOWEEN YEAH
>>6522948
I'm moving out and packing up a bunch of figures, models, and games, and artwork is really grating on me.
>>6523019
>tfw no spooky ghost girl gf to spook your lights out and play invisible pranks
>>6523026
sounds pretty spooky
Tasogare Otome is mandatory Halloween /gfd/ viewing.
>>6522948
Really tired. Wish I had someone to cuddle with and sleep.
And still thinking if going to a con on sunday is worth it.
>>6522997
Here, sorry it took so long I had to take a phone call. It's my first try at a vanilla slice so it's a bit messy
>>6523026
>you break down and start crying when it becomes too much
>she stops and starts whispering her apologies and telling you it'll all be okay
It would happen pretty quick to me. I scare easily.
>>6523038
Ahh, it looks really nice! Good job.
>>6523041
Pretty adorable
>she will never make you squeal in fear
>and then squeal in delight
>>6523010
You should tell her.
>>6522969
I want a gf who's into /tg/ so I can play the easily bullied cleric for her.
>>6523075
>no berserker gf to defend you from marauding thieves
>she will never draw attention away from you during battle
>you will never heal her wounds and buff her in return
>>6523081
>tfw I'd rather be the one defending my qt Dom healer/mage/whatever
I know different strokes for different folks, but damn this thread sometimes makes me feel like being 6'/230 pounds and somewhat hairy is a bad thing.
>>6523091
Bruh, the thread title though.
>>6523091
As a fellow bara guy I would enjoy playing the big submissive knight for my little domme priest.
>>6523100
As someone who has been playing D&D/Pathfinder for a decade. Your cleric is necessary for your warriors survival.
>>6523103
A counterpoint: A good cleric is as competent a frontliner as a fighter, which could lead to quite the dynamic duo.
Hi, gfd. I feel kind awkward since my new dom posts in this thread too (I think this is the only place she even goes on the internet, judging by her history.) Anyways, she's gone for three days on a business thing that I remember her explaining to me but I kinda zoned out really hard. Something about construction project that is a six hour drive from our apartment, so she's going to her dad's so they can get it done quickly.
I feel like I haven't fully repaid her yet. She keeps like, giving me things, but I can hardly give anything back. My mischievous plan is to set something up for her when she gets back that leads to hopefully something sexual (that first night still fresh in my mind...)
Also, are there any other traps on here? C-can we talk about trap things? Like wearing cute dresses to look good for our doms? I'm not the only one that does that, right?
>>6523107
Depends on the build, they become less adept to healing. Battle clerics and laser clerics are great dpr though for a support class.
>>6523110
You... Don't happen to be that trap-anon we've been told about so much, do you?
Because I really could use tips from you, seeing how femanon has praised you for your looks so much. Starting with skin and hair care?
>>6523110
Oh my is that you "trap anon"?
>>6522928
>Little Domme, Big Sub
The role I was born to play...
also, happy spookyween /gfd/
>>6523074
No clue. Sorry.
>>6523123
>>6523120
Don't scare the poor thing.
>>6523110
It's part of the Domme's place to spoil the sub when they think it's necessary. The best thing to do in my opinion is to repay her kindness in the way you think is best and will satisfy your domme by giving her great joy. Vague I know sorry.
>zoned out when domme is speaking to you
Not the best thing to do.
>wearing cute dresses for your domme
>others do that too?
Most likely. Though I don't know if there any other traps online right now.
>>6522928
If only the whole thread were about these two. It is the cutest love story that I never knew I wanted.
>>6523120
>>6523123
I guess I am? She asked me if she could talk about me to her "online friends," so I guess that meant here. I would ask to be called by my real name but um, anonymous image board. So that pet tag works fine.
As for self care... Isn't that an awkward place to start? Well, I was born with effeminate genes. I use lady skin care products, wash my hair with shampoo and conditioner ever other day (don't wanna dry up your scalp,) women's deodorant, healthy diet (at least now that I actually get fed,) and generally staying positive about my body. I don't do anything special. This is vague and I'm sorry, but I remember just looking up stuff as a kid like "how do women take care of themselves" or something. Cardio helps too, helps with that girly waist/thighs... I think.
>>6523190
But I didn't mean to zone out, she had woken me up only like five minutes prior.. Now I feel really bad. I'll try to always listen intently from now on.
And as for pleasing her, I'm still nervous to the point of exploding when thinking about doing lewd things. Clearly I trust her. But contact is such a scary thing, to me. I have to ease into it, but it gives me a heart attack when someone sneaks up on me. The first night we were together... I was different. That was me on the verge of suicide because of my living conditions, and I guess I just... Didn't want to die a virgin. So I went for some free... Lewd stuff. How do I go about pleasing her non-sexually? I cleaned the apartment recently (she's... kind of a slob,) cook breakfast for us every Friday and Saturday, baked a cake a couple days ago for her... Is there anything else? Just when I thought I had finally done everything I could for her, she lets me buy some (admittedly cute) dresses at the mall. I just want a way to show her I care about her the way that she does for me, because right now I seem like a timid little jerk with how emotionally repressed I am.
>>6523207
Making dinner
running showers when they get back
Try to be one step ahead of a few everyday habits that
Good dommes love good support
as for the lewdness we're just about in the same boat
>>6523207
>how do I please her?
By doing things you know she will approve of or be happy that you did for her. This can go from lewd to everyday things like cooking, cleaning, and just plainly being there for her when she needs to know someone is there.
>just woke up so wasn't trying to zone out
Ah, I know that feeling all to well. A good way to help that is to double check things with your domme. Like texting or calling and explaining you cleaned or took care of something around the house and wanted to know if there was anything else she would like you to do.
A little thought can go a long way.
>TFW NO QT /fit/ DOMME
>>6523217
I never even knew what kind of girl I liked until I met my current girlfriend. The idea that she's strong and can protect me... It makes me feel safe. Especially when I'm on her lap and her arms are just draped around my waist. It feels so right.
>>6523210
...I want to run a bath for her. And... Bathe together. Is it ever okay for the "sub" to take the first move, as long as she's the dominant one? I know this stuff must be different person to person, but I want to be a good little housewife.
>>6523213
I don't have a phone yet. There's the landline, but she... Didn't leave me a number! Now I'm very stressed out and scared and might just go curl up in bed for a while. I really hope she calls.
>>6523223
Well with any luck she'll call when she has free time. She wouldn't leave you alone if she didn't have confidence in you being able to handle things.
>>6523223
There's nothing wrong with a sub taking the initiative with some things, especially some of what was listed, baths, cleaning, meals etc.
>>6523207
>>6523223
Ah, yeah. Guess it would be awkward to start there.
Have always wanted to wear cute dresses/clothes, but as a kid I was always made fun of, or scolded for acting feminine, so still have some fear about going outside like that. People sometimes have trouble telling my gender, and I've been told I shouldn't have much trouble looking like a girl, so there's that.
But thank you. Will look into those things.
>Is it ever okay for the "sub" to take the first move, as long as she's the dominant one?
Being "sub" shouldn't mean never taking the initiative, so it should be okay. There can also be a lot of difference in how you ask things. Maybe try just suggesting a bath, then soemthing like "would you like me to join you?".
>Now I'm very stressed out and scared and might just go curl up in bed for a while
Don't stress out, just do what you can and keep things nice for when she comes back home.
>>6523223
When she returns try wearing nothing but an apron and tell her you are happy shes back. Guaranteed sex.
Anyone else read A Brother's Price that was recommended a couple threads ago?
I just put myself on the map. I don't think it'll work...but who knows. Maybe I'm just really desperate.
What's /gfd/'s consensus on regular role reversal? As in like, some days the female is Domme, others Sub and vice versa for males. Curious as to what you guys think about it.
>>6523247
Heh I did this once but I had a cookie half way in my mouth...she then gave me the biggest rape face and proceeded to press me up against the wall and ate the cookie out of my mouth.
>tfw met a qt girl into /gfd/
>tfw i'm happier than i've been in a long time because of her
It's long distance, but things are working out so far. I'm just really happy this happened, it's great to care about someone and have them care about you.
>>6523257
It's impossible to resist naked apron.
i hate you all ;-;
>>6523301
W-why?
>>6523306
im a bitter person why did i even come here ;_;
>>6523310
Don't be sad, friend. Have a seat and talk about it!
>tfw one of my friends just went on a date where the girl said "We're gonna do a bit of a role reversal" and another has a big enough butt to where a female friend said "Goddamn look at that huge ass" while groping him
>neither of them are into gfd or rr
>tfw i just have cereal and a flat ass
Sorry for the blog post but damn. Anyway how was your day /gfd/?
>>6523310
Cheer up.
Also thank gods I'm home with wifi now I can post pics finally.
>>6523316
see people happy in gfd/rr relationships when i'm alone and no one here likes me and i've been bitter and just ;_;
>>6522967
Sending hope. Keep on keeping on, anon.
>>6523338
Chin up, anon, relationships are hard and they don't happen out of nowhere.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ep9Vzb6R_58
>>6523338
Don't worry, nobody here is actually in a gfd relationship. It's all fantasy.
>>6523338
Well I believe in you.
>>6522932
I'd like to suggest "Mysterious Girlfriend X" for the anime list, as she completely takes charge of the relationship. Also, magic saliva.
>>6523360
And I'm out.
>>6523356
>be gamagoori
;_;
>find mako and gamagoori stuff on tumlr
>really cute
>literally cry while going through every comic
>>6523364
Adding now to note pad.
>>6523367
1. Go to con in Gamagoori cosplay.
2. Find Mako cosplaying girl.
3. GREAT SUCCESS
>>6523370
>nearest con is 10 hours away
i live in middle of nowhere country ;-;
>>6523366
Personally I think the that and the full doujin are the perfect mix of sweet and tortuous.
>>6523110
>>6523207
omg you're so cute and I'm not even into guys, trap or otherwise
>>6523249
I got it in the mail the other day but I haven't gotten to read it yet. I wanted to read it this weekend, but I promised to read the second book for the femanon whose writing I found on a flash drive. Hopefully I'll have time to read it this week though
>>6522939
That's a long list of standards yeah. I'm not saying it's impossible, but if you want to meet assertive girls you probably have to compromise on the "no liberals" part... or try to get a date from Ann Coultier, I guess.
>>6522948
Just woke up. Going to a Halloween party full of librarians in training with my fiancee today. Had a blast last night.
>>6523074
it's art of mako and ira from kill la kill. not hentai but still a good series
the last thread broke a new record of spergatory. but i bet that you can spam it even further, just sqeeze more of your blogshit power
>>6523494
>That speech bubble.
>>6523074
Ira Gamagoori and Mako Mankanshoku from Kill la Kill. The bigguy4u canonically is a masochist, but any relationship between him and the tiny girl is mostly just shipping. There's some evidence for it in the show, and the production team has gone on record saying that the made the relationships deliberately ambiguous, but it's still kind of a secondary ship. Despite that, it is quite a popular one, and you'll find a lot of art of it.
The girl is never shown to be particularly dominant in the show, but she's the hyperactive adventurous type who would try anything, so it's really not much of a stretch to put her in that role.
![[HorribleSubs] Mobile Suit Gundam The Origin - 01 [720p].mkv_snapshot_00.17.48_[2015.02.28_15.18.57].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/EdRhGA8.jpg "[HorribleSubs] Mobile Suit Gundam The Origin - 01 [720p].mkv_snapshot_00.17.48_[2015.02.28_15.18.57].jpg")
>>6522948
Just woke up, already want to kill myself while making stuff for breakfast.
>>6523540
It's not working, anon. Tried it twice and I haven't been put into a group chat.
>>6523542
You could copy and paste it in your browser URL to prompt Skype if you're having trouble via direct client.
>>6523543
That's what I am doing.
>>6523544
Chat link:
skype:?chat&blob=ScBdLqtTJia95z85ZSdINbEi9mUwsizZJ9UokQIydte9rxH9r_6t2c7ZCG1rUWojZWjjuCCbA6g
>>6523546
It's still not working.
>>6523549
Nada.
nofit amazon gf to bully me and call me a fat, short faggot
>>6523550
Seems my Skype settings was messed up.
skype:?chat&blob=gORR_3W4_tvGDKc0y6iguv8AzfQAMcbKYZLCyox4sIqsJuzQaqQXqHyxMr6K3_MzyABJJFSNHj8
>>6523563
Still nothing. This is driving me nuts boyo
>>6523565
Firefox asks me to pick an application to use it with and I use C:\Program Files (x86)\Skype\Phone\Skype.exe. It shows that it's loading for a few seconds, then Skype opens and nothing happens.
Am I supposed to use a different application?
oh god everything looks awful
>tfw was on the hunt for new doujins but pururin is down
>>6523573
Use nhentai?
>>6523573
When is pururin NOT down? It dies every other minute I swear.
Use hitomi or nhentai?
>>6523573
puririn went shit. would not recommend
>>6523336
sauce?
Just came inside while the girl mommied me and pet my hair. It was a good night.
>>6523608
>while the girl mommied me
g-go oon...
>tfw living in a country with no halloween
I-I want to have fun too
>>6523615
Your country probably has some other holiday that others don't have, and where you can have fun, right?
>>6523620
Nope, we only have national holidays and some retarded religious holidays. No fun allowed.
>>6523609
She hugged me tight and stroked my hair and told me to let it out in her. I asked her to mommy me so she did. When I came I said mommy really loud so she pushed me into her chest so I would be quiet.
>>6523615
It's ok anon, im going to be stuck inside all day anyway giving out candy and doing homework
I have no friends
>>6523615
It's worse when you have no one to spend Halloween with than to have a Halloween at all. It feels like the world is turning without you.
>>6523615
>no halloween where i live
>will never put ricin inside candies and give them to annoying neighbour kids
>will never enjoy my popcorn as i watch them die a low and painfull death
>tfw
>>6523664
but seriously. i made lots of ricin one boring day and i have no idea what to do with it
>>6522928
I love Little Domme, Big Sub...
Please, PLEASE, say there's more with the little ones treading on the big ones. I love a bit of trample.
Love it when the big girls train the little ones!
>>6523657
>texted girl I know yesterday to see if she's busy tonight
>She hasn't even read it
I promise I'm not secretly dying on the inside
>>6523685
>not telling me to an hero
faget
>>6523353
Bitter
>>6523607
FLCL
Absolutely adorable Fire Emblem if /gfd/ doujin came out!
>no loving adopted onee-san to forcefully cuddle you
Can't wait for this game to hit the states
Also, in honor of this spooky day:
http://nhentai.net/g/135725/
A nice /gfd/ lamia horror/love story
>>6523730
fuck yes
but seriously though i really hope that the translation doesn't get fucked up as bad as awakening
>>6523110
>Something about construction project that is a six hour drive from our apartment
Right, I love how you just throw that in there casually. I think this place is quickly usurping /x/'s title as "the rp board".
Welp, it was a good read, nevertheless, so I'm not that annoyed, I guess.
>>6523738
Yeah, I'm bracing for some censorship. Wasn't there some kind of lewd undressing thing in the game?
>>6523736
On that note, here's another spooky monster girl story, just in case anyone hasn't read it:
http://g.e-hentai.org/g/732189/4094cba865/
part 2:
https://hitomi.la/reader/836254.html#1-
>>6523753
This one involves ghosts!
http://g.e-hentai.org/s/db8b199711/849028-1
>>6523464
But liberals are crazy.
>>6523765
/pol/ plz...
>>6523765
The fact that she doesn't mind stepping out of traditional gender roles means she has at least some "liberal" beliefs
I would also think that men who don't mind appearing vulnerable and not traditionally masculine would be nudged in that direction as well
>>6523792
By not liberal I mean someone who actually likes America and doesn't want to limit our constitutional rights, reasonably liberal is quite alright, it's the actually crazy liberals you should never associate with.
>>6523796
"Liberal," has been hijacked by the American left and has come to mean "People who want a Nanny State," instead of "those who think the best government rules the least."
The latter group has come to use the term "Libertarian."
>>6523796
well, do specify next time.
>>6523800
So how can I find some qt libertarian dommes?
>>6523801
I forget there are people on 4chan that aren't Americans sometimes.
>>6523800
this
there's a diffrence between liberalism and libertarianism
>>6523760
Here's another great one involving crossdressing ghosts(?) and tomboy childhood friends
http://g.e-hentai.org/g/613277/02eacb5fdc/
>>6523800
You do not know what you're talking about good sir. What you are citing is an extreme version of liberal belief. To be a liberal entails having a belief that the government should to some extent be concerned for the well-being of its citizens as part of the social contract. That anon was correct in saying that a liberal would not want their constitutional, "inalienable" rights to be violated by the government. Please don't market your biases as truth.
>>6523800
The American left aren't all authoritarian progressives who are pro-censorship
They have hijacked classical liberalism's identity though
>>6523257
>She ate your food
This would be a week of no sex for her if I were you.
>>6523807
You're talking about classic Liberalism, like back in the days of the Founding Fathers.
I'm talking about Neo-Liberalism.
Why has pururin been down for almost two months?
>>6523825
No, that anon is using the correct definition as it is generally used around the world to this very day. You're the one using an extreme version that doesn't reflect the views of most liberals. For the record, liberals in the US are still more similar to conservatives as they're known in the UK and Scandinavia because they're more secular so don't have the religious right so powerful, among other reasons. Their liberals are more like Bernie Sanders and beyond. Most American liberals have views similiar to the likes of Hillary Clinton, ie, pretty moderate.
just be half liberal half anarchistic. nobody will confuse what you have in mind when you say "liberal"
>Halloween
>No qt vampire gf to tease me
Why even live?
>>6523864
Did you just call Clinton pretty moderate ?
Who cares about all that crap? This is /gfd/, not /pol/. Talk about /gfd/, preferably while posting pictures, but honestly I'd just take /gfd/ discussion over /pol/, pics or not
If we're on the subject of preferences, I guess all I want is a nice looking girl who'd baby me. Bonus points if she's older than me.
>>6523880
>Talk about /gfd/
>implying anyone does that here
>pics or not
pics should always be
</doujin>
>>6523915
ROCK
FUCKING
HARD
>>6523915
that's manga
just saying
>>6523915
I just finished fapping. God damn it.
>>6523922
didnt know there was a difference
>>6523921
theres more of it, but i dont have the other chapters. theyre even less /gfd/ related, iirc
Here's a question for all the girls and traps in the thread: How does one comfortably shave one's own ass?
Every previous attempt I've made has resulted in cuts and plenty of stray hairs. I just want a soft, smooth butt. Is that so much to ask?
>>6523947
girls probably don't know how to shave their arses given that most women don't grow hair on their arse
easiest thing to do is just to have it waxed in a saloon
I've been paying attention to these threads lately and...dammit, they give me hope for an romance again.
Stahp. I joined at least two femdom groups on Fetlife because of all of the fantasizing I've done.
>>6523952
Yes, we do. It's pretty normal for girls to have some hair there. We just shave it when we're doing our legs or pubic area.
There's no trick to it. Just use good shave gel and carefully run a sharp, fresh razor along the area until it's smooth. Make sure the skin is pulled taught where necessary - though this shouldn't be an issue for your butt, I hope. You can do it behind your back entirely by touch. I recommend Bikini Zone shave gel for this because you're less likely to get shave bumps with it.
If you're careful and take your time there's no reason to have any trouble or cut yourself.
Waxing is waste of money when shaving is so easy. Just be happy you're not a girl who has to shave her legs and underarms daily. Not to mention plucking eyebrows, removing any hair that might be around the tummy, trimming or shaving pubes, etc. Girls can be fairly hairy but out hair is much finer and we get rid of that shit you never know it.
>>6523952
>saloon
I know you meant salon, but my brain popped up the image of a cowboy in a pink apron giving wax jobs. There's something seriously wrong with my head.
>>6523967
>Just be happy you're not a girl who has to shave her legs and underarms daily
that's only because of retarded society
>>6523967
Kek, I'm Italian and I can verify this. It takes me like an hour in the morning to get myself hairless enough for the beach.
It's nights like tonight that remind me there's no hope for me.
What I would give for someone to cuddle with...
>>6523978
Don't we all?
>>6523978
It sucks when all of your relationships have been shit. Then you see this stuff, hear of happy stories and...fuck. It's heart rending.
But at least there's dreaming.
>>6523983
I'd rather be dead than in my current situation. I'm just holding onto hope that life will get better.
>>6523740
Sorry, I was kind of going for hyperbole. Six hours is a ridiculous amount for driving, I thought? I don't actually know how far away or even where she is. All I remember clearly is "gone for three days." She does have a one hour commute to work though (with traffic.) I have been waiting for a call so I could know what's going on...
Also, is wearing nothing but an apron actually a thing? That sounds weird but also like it would work well.
>>6523877
I got... Aroused, reading Dracula in high school. Vampires are great.
>>6523992
What's been going on with you?
I'm still kinda recovering from a two-year stint full of...well, not great stuff. Had/still have the "better dead than sad" mentality that comes up from time to time, but I can say it gets better. Slowly...kinda. Hard to stay positive without some sort of backup/support.
Posting some stuff so I'm not shitting up the thread too hard.
>>6523992
i wonder how i managed to still be alive
maybe when you expierience hell, you grow up to be so resistant that you can't just drop dead easily
>>6523026
>spooky ghost girl gf
Why not a spooky, scary skeleton girl?
>>6523967
I did pluck eyebrows and waxed legs/armpits for a while. Yeah, it's pretty time consuming. And speaking of...
>Waxing is waste of money when shaving is so easy
Well, one issue I had with shaving is that few hours later my legs would feel rough if rubbing against the direction hair grows, due to hair growing back again, so that kinda turned me down from it. Is there a way to have the skin feel smoother for a longer time?
Would do shaving instead if it really gets the same result. Waxing used to take me like 1 hour just for half a leg, and right now I don't have the time to do the whole job. Then again, I used the cold wax that comes in sheets and you rub before applying.
>>6523952
>most women don't grow hair on their arse
Have you ever even seen a woman na-
Wait, don't answer that.
>>6523947
Shaving, in general, is fucking awful. I don't shave anywhere anymore, I switched to epilating a couple of years ago because I couldn't take the itchiness and pain any longer (not to mention it grows back far too soon, if you ask me).
This might sound weird, but you should try plucking them. If you're gonna do it yourself, waxing is out of the question because a) it's awkward as hell to reach there (I mean, it's hard enough when shaving) and b) you could seriously hurt yourself. But. What I do is I take a strip of tape and hold it between my fingers. Then I grab a small clump or hair using the sticky side and pull them out like I would with tweezers. (Make sure you pull the area taught, like the other girl mentioned.) It's not perfect, you'll probably have lots left over. But at least those remaining ones will be easier to get at at that point, and you could tweeze them out or just shave them very gently.
Oh, and use a mirror, obviously.
>>6522928
It's a role reversal, but Gamagoori is a total sub to begin with anyway.
>>6524015
>epilating
The most vicious sounding and painful method of hair removal I've ever experienced
>>6523999
I've had regular thoughts of suicide since I was about 13. Between the abuse at home, little contact with anyone outside of my family, growing up thinking the abuse I experienced was normal and that I was just being a baby.
Now I'm just some lazy reclusive guy who spends his spare time sleeping and talking to people online.
>>6524022
You sound like me...though I was actually hospitalized at 12 for attempted suicide. Mix bullying with relationship-based emotional abuse and...yeah.
Sleep is nice. I've been thinking about sleeping for the rest of the day but gentle femdom just looks too dreamy to sleep right now. I can't fathom being in a situation that's 1/10th as lovey or genuinely intimate.
>>6524021
T-that's not gentle!
>finally get someone on omegle
>it's a black box
>"someone will love you someday anon"
>disconnects
y-you too
>>6524028
No matter what happens someone's always had it worse, right?
I wasn't really bullied as the opportunity never came around for it to happen. I was homeschooled, so I never had any social contact with kids my age.
>>6524037
forgot my image.
>>6524036
Second attempt was shitty too
>"there is no such thing as gfd"
>disconnects
>>6524037
Yeah...though that by itself really isn't that comforting a thought, y'know?
I was "home schooled" for two years, actually. Was so bad I just started to leave school early. Said homeschooling kinda fell through and I basically spent two years doing nothing. The transition to highschool was...awkward. To say the very least.
But for now...well, it does get better. It has gotten better for me, in a few ways. Kinda.
>>6524046
I don't really have much else to say. Thanks for the talk.
>>6524010
After I shave my legs I use cocoa butter on them to make them smooth and nice feeling. It helps soften the stubble and keep the skin moisturized as well as prevent damage to the skin from daily shaving. Actually, I would recommend using cocoa butter on your whole body to make is smooth, moist, and prevent stretch marks and the like if you gain/lose weight. My mom had zero stretch marks after giving birth to me because she used cocoa butter every day of her pregnancy. It's cheap and smells nice, too.
On my public area, I use bikini zone aftercare gel to soothe the area and prevent ingrown hairs, bumps and discomfort.
My underarms are sensitive and the hardest to shave. The skin there gets damaged from daily shaving so I'm more likely to cut myself. After I shave them, I soothe the area by rubbing in witch hazel, and then use hydrocortisone (with added aloe) cream. I wait a half hour before applying deodorant.
If you are going to wax I recommend this: http://www.amazon.com/Parissa-Natural-Removal-System-Bikini/dp/B0002PU86O
Also use a pre wax cleanser and a post wax treatment to help heal the skin.
For the tiny bit of fine hair near my navel, I use Veet Sensitive Skin cream. NEVER USE THIS SHIT ANYWHERE THAT COULD POSSIBLY BE SENSITIVE IT WILL GIVE YOU A CHEMICAL BURN.
I'll try to help if you have questions about anything else. I have pale skin and dark hair so I've tried lots of different things to keep my skin from getting too damaged from constant hair removal.
>>6523996
>wear only an apron
Yes naked apron is a thing. I think originated as a thing newly wed brides do as a turn on for the husband. However, anyone can do it and most dommes I've talked to and met all seem to appreciate greatly.
>>6524015
I tried epilating and the pain was so excruciating I tapped out. Not to mention it was super time consuming to catch the hairs.
I know it's supposed to hurt less every time you do it, but how do you power through it in the beginning? Waxing I can handle, but that was way worse.
I used this one, for reference:
http://www.amazon.com/Philips-HP6401-Satinelle-Epilator-White/dp/B00742JW8S/ref=zg_bs_234944011_1
>>6524051
Thanks for all the info, this is very helpful!
>halloween is today
>tomorrow all the cute costumes from halloween go on sale
Anybody planning of getting something?
>>6524051
>For the tiny bit of fine hair near my navel, I use Veet Sensitive Skin cream. NEVER USE THIS SHIT ANYWHERE THAT COULD POSSIBLY BE SENSITIVE IT WILL GIVE YOU A CHEMICAL BURN.
I've used it for my pubic hair before, it turned out fine for me... if you don't have allergies it seems like a preferable alternative to putting anything sharp near that region
>>6524074
I don't think they sell bondage gear at costume shops
>>6524074
Doesn't matter for me, not like I'll ever use them.
>>6524076
I've never tried it there, but I used it on my underarms once and it burned for days. Granted, I do have sensitive skin. I wish I could use it more places because it is convenient.
>>6524051
Alright, thanks for all the info. To be honest, I wasn't doing much after shaving other than showering. A lot of the things you mentioned I wasn't aware about.
It's really helpful.
>>6524079
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KCy7lLQwToI
>>6524140
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3OPOYG6XIQ
Already too late buddy.
>>6522969
I want a BF that's able to keep up with my SCIENCE! tangents... That and my raging autism.
Don't care what he looks like, but he needs to be able to look after himself, stand up for himself and not be a goddamn parasite. But that's an entire new rant... fucking useless ex.
>>6523560
sauce on this?
>>6524144
>tfw trying to git gud at astrophysics
>can get written theories
>brain shit itself when it comes to numbers
I just can't deal with numbers.
>>6524144
You're basically describing me, but I cant really stand up for myself at all. Especially against my family.
>>6523190
>It's part of the Domme's place to spoil the sub when they think it's necessary.
It's good to pay back too, though! Doing stuff for her / getting her gifts doesn't have to 'boost your power' or whatever in the relationship. If it's something you do for HER, then it's still her that's in charge?
>>6524144
>not be a goddamn parasite
What do you mean by this?
>>6524144
If you could stand my history rants, it'd be a fun back-and-forth of pain.
>>6524154
Not her, but probably things like having agency as a competent adult, not being a clingy emotional sponge who takes more than he gives, not using being a sub as an excuse to be broken and push all his burdens and responsibilities on his partner, etc.
A relationship works well as two pillars holding up a house with their own unique strengths. If one person refuses to shoulder their load, the weight tips onto their partner until they're being crushed under stress and resentments.
>>6524158
>competent adult
Well, I'm incompetent and I withdraw from others to compensate. It's lonely but at least I'm not bothering anyone.
>>6524150
Fuck numbers, man. Just give me an Excel spreadsheet and I'll make that handle it for me. Physical spatial stuff? Geology, rocks, metals, crystalline forms, heat, light, colours, optics... Great, fine. Love it. But please, no, none of those three page long equations.
>>6524151
He used to suggest we go out somewhere, so we'd go out. I'd ask him where he wanted to go, ask him to take the lead as it was his trip and I wanted to follow and watch him enjoy it. Y'know, when you're happy to just let someone else have THEIR time? Anyway, he'd do nothing, so I'd end up picking where we went. And all the time he'd just still seem miserable. Like he didn't know what he wanted, but whatever he wanted wasn't THAT.
I was the only one that could drive - for two years I tried to get him to drive, but he'd always put it off. He was living with me in the Arse End of Beyond, so public transport wasn't available - I had to drive him EVERYWHERE, and made it clear I wasn't happy about always having to do this. When we finally broke up, he basically said, "I was never going to learn to drive. I was just putting it off."
"Oh, you were putting so much into the relationship. I just sort of stopped bothering three months ago." WELL FUCK YOU TOO. "But you can keep the ring if you pay me 90% of what I bought it for!" Yeah, no. Ever heard of a market for 2nd hand engagement rings? Good luck trying to sell it, fuckface.
TL:DR; bought ring to get engaged with me, then sat on his arse doing fucking nothing for two summers while living rent-free with me. Happily broke it off when he had friends to live with at Uni. Then tried to get his ring money back.
AHEM. Stopping the rant here.
>>6524144
>Keep up with science rants
I know a lot of subjects, and I know how to break them down into experiments that are valid, or even find information on what you want to know about.
What interests you the most?
Sorry I couldn't find any on-topic pics in my collection.
>>6524163
In what sense are you incompetent?
Most likely, you just missed out on some skills and fell behind, but almost any skills you may be lacking can be found and honed. You'll need to, eventually.
>>6524167
>But please, no, none of those three page long equations.
YES PLEASE YES. I love reading about astronomy, astrophysics, cosmology, weird quantum stuff but I just can't handle numbers. Fuck I feel like a fedora tipper saying this.
>>6524167
Wow. He sounds very useless. I's glad Im not that. I can actually make decisions. I can actually better myself.
>>6524170
>In what sense are you incompetent?
Poor and emotionally unstable, next to no motivation or ambition. I'm pretty useless overall.
>>6524167
>I was the only one that could drive - for two years I tried to get him to drive, but he'd always put it off.
>tfw extreme airhead and too anxious
>I drift off even when I'm walking
>almost get hit by cars all the time
>tfw probably kill myself and other people if I drive
>>6524154
>>6524158
He lived with me and my family rent free over summer. We live in the back of beyond. In exchange for living rent free, we were to BOTH do 1 hour of garden work every day and help with any chores that needed doing. We'd also cook a meal for the family each one day of the week (two meals between both of us). AND he would start driving lessons over the summer, as he was the only person in the house that couldn't drive.
In hindsight, the signs were there from the start. When he first moved in, I still had exams.
> Come home after exams, he's spent all day on the computer. I'm dead tired, but I have to cook dinner for both of us as he hasn't done anything. Have about 3 exams, nothing every done for me while I'm off during the exams. Beds not made, no laundry done, no washing up.
Not that I would expect him to do everything like that on a normal day, but come on! Those were my finals!
> Off on a work experience placement at a factory 1 hours drive away from home, 8am to 5pm hours (arriving early, leaving late for good impressions). Getting up at 5:30am, out the house at 7am, back at 7:30pm. Again, nothing done around the house. Come home, cook for myself.
Had to actually TELL HIM the next time I went on another placement, "Please cook for me this week." Turns out, during these weeks he hadn't even bothered with the normal hour of gardening every day. Apparently if I wasn't there he didn't have to do shit for my side of the family, whose house he was living in?
> "What can we do to salvage our relationship?"
> "If you're saying SALVAGE, is it really worth trying? [...] You were putting in all the effort in the relationship."
Yeah, fuck you too. I put EVERYTHING into making this work, and you just sit on your computer all day like a fucking leach. I'm trying desperately to get a job, but this guy has already HAD a job for around a year - he's employable! I don't have shit, and legit autistic. But he's just making me do all of it?
>>6524167
>Anyway, he'd do nothing, so I'd end up picking where we went. And all the time he'd just still seem miserable. Like he didn't know what he wanted, but whatever he wanted wasn't THAT.
YES, I've known "sub" guys like this. So frustrating.
And damn, that guy was a fucking asshat. Glad you got rid of him.
>>6524177
See, if you had that as the reason and explained it then everything would be fine, just be honest. But dragging on your GF / fiance for two years with LIES when you never actually intended to do it? That's intolerable. Hell, that's outright betrayal of trust.
>>6524176
No money means no money to lose. You can do anything you want right now and not worry about going broke. Become an activist, go travel Europe, do something crazy that only someone without burdens and responsibilities can do.
>>6524178
How did you even get with this guy in the first place? He doesnt sound like the glorious /rr/ boy we all strive to be.
>>6524168
Currently? Reading up on some sort of metal treatment for an interview. "Come for an interview next week! Also, bring a 2 page summary of X topic, and your research references." Oh god, there's so much information.
Otherwise? Metals, crystalline structures, colour (as visible to humans), gem materials (synthetics, natural, lab-grown), metallography, spectroscopy... I tend to flit from subject to subject, depending on what is useful to me at the time. The more you know about things the more interesting they become.
>>6524181
>without burdens and responsibilities can do.
I have the burden of disappointing my family, there's nothing really stopping them from kicking me out.
>You can do anything you want right now and not worry about going broke.
Most things require some amount of money to do, anon.
>>6524180
Yeah, lying is a big no no but damn I need to fix this shit. I was almost dying again today because I ran in to street while day dreaming about some stuff again and almost got hit. Happens in class all the time too, I keep missing lectures because of this.
>>6524184
Oh. I know a bit about x-ray diffraction. What metal, and what kind of treatment?
I also once had a chance to synthesize Yttrium Barium Copper Oxide in a lab. That was a lot of work, but i got it to levitate a magnet, so it all paid off.
