Hi /d/ 18 years old male with the tiniest little experience here. I recently got dumped and am looking for other ways to pleasure myself. Im into bdsm and orgasm denial.
What are you looking for actually?
Are you looking for something like a new masturbation kick?
>>6769643
No, altho that pic turns me on. I am looking for a way do to bondage alone and/or ideas for orgasm denial
>>6769644
Oh sorry, I don't have those auto-bondage tutorial pics, but they are sometimes posted in the BDSM threads.
Why alone though? I bet it's 10x more fun with a partner...
>>6769657
It sure is but I don't have a partner atm and I am not a fan of random sex. Also me being male greatly limits my self-bondage capabilities.
On the side note I love being bot the dom and the sub so pretty much anything is fine
>>6769669
Well, since I don't limit myself to sex with the opposite gender only I have it a little easier I guess.
But yeah, for str8 ppl who don't like random sex it's pretty hard I guess.
I never visited one of those BDSM communities, but maybe that's something for you? I hear they're not like random sex meetups, people rather just get to know each other and maybe then have kinky time.
>>6769685
I don' think there is one where I live. Living in a small town which in turn is in a small country is not really good for one's kinks. Anyway thanks for the suggestions and could you please tell me in which board to go looking for bdsm threads/advice
>>6769689
The last one just 404'd. You can look it up in the archive. The community kind of "died" during the last few months so no one really knows when the next one will be up.
Lets turn this into a bdsm general then?
Why not?
One actually drawn by me
>>6769742
So you're an artist.
>>6769753
It's just a hobby.
>>6769768
Do you have a tumblr or something?
>>6769776
Nope, not a fan of social media. I do have a deviant art but i havent updated it in years
>>6769742
>>6769635
500x313? Are you shitting me?
>>6769850
Google image search it for higher res
>>6769742
>>6769812
Wait did you draw and color this? Pretty impressive.
>>6769909
Truth be told, no I didn't. I planned to recolor it into ruby from rwby but I got an erection while drawing, jacked off and left it at that...
>>6769909
http://heavy-bankrupt.deviantart.com/ here's my deviantart
>>6769635
>>6771370
Don't do this on your own without someone else there to help get you out. You will fuck yourself over quick if you do.
>>6771387
No risk, no reward ;) get some medic cloth cutting scissors or something.
Always have an escape plan!
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>>6769635
Belts!!
Get creative!
>>6769635
Hell, build a machine or something! It just takes a creative spark of deviousness
>>6769689
as my 2 cents, it would still be worth checking on somewhere like fetlife whether the kink community exists in your area. I have been repeatedly surprised at how munches run in even small towns.
If you want to go the full self-inflicted route, there are a few sites I would recommend (I dont post regularly so I hope this doesn't get me banned).
Boundanna - self bondage information/resource page, and forum
Milovana 'webteases' - effectively online stories, either linear or interactive, that often involve playing along with either T&D or painplay
GetDare - an old one for me. May have once been a kid-friendly 'post dares to do at sleepovers' forum, but for as long as I've known it just a place for people to set each other kink-based tasks to perform. Usually too much content and too little filtering, admittedly.
Onesubmissiveact - never followed it up, but heard good things
Rolls & roulette - from your image it looks like you know about those. There are a lot more, though, so worth giving a full google.
CTI (custom tease instructor) - was a big thing on /d/ 5 or 6 years ago, was it?.. anyway mechanically it is collections of slides in 'demotivator' frame format with tasks/controlling statement on that you insert into a folder of pornographic images and set to play at random. Centrally it all revolves around increasing or decreasing 'stroke rate' and hoping for a rare card to come up that allows release. The craze is long since over but look up CTIbooru to get a feel for the cards, and if I check this thread again I could upload a mega to the few more that I have come across (and likely get b& for it, desu).
If I recall someone else made something like this more recently (the name of which eludes me), but they were only releasing them in person in small batches almost like currency. They may have called it 'making them trading cards' but to me it seemed a lot like he was trying to make himself important.
The textbox is yelling that I have to stop
>>6771895
oh, on a similar note, and maybe more conventionally:
T&D JOI - 'Jerk off instructions'. Effectively a POV video with a person talking to you and instructing you. There's a variety a flavours available, from entirely vanilla to tease and denial to full CBT painfests.
Cock Hero - Again videos, but this time pornographic videos with music or a metronomic beat backing it, with the instruction to keep masterbation speed in line with the beat. There's a good few repositories now, like all of these things, but I dont want to risk posting links, so googling would be neccesary.
I remember what those CTI-like cards were called now.. 'fapio' cards.. *shudder*
>>6771895
>As of August 2010 /d/ no longer allows CTI threads
Why though?
Was it like an overused meme?
>>6772072
Mods being mods. Though if I recall correctly, it was showing up even in completely irrelevant threads and generally attracted jackasses and cancer, especially towards the end.
>>6769850
Buy a Dao Huan fuck machine from China for $300
Get fucked any time you want, for as long as you want, as deep as you want, as fast as you want
I got one, and I'm getting fucked right now