Role-Reversal and Gentle Femdom General: Butt Stuff edition
ITT:
>related hentai
>greentext
>monster girls
>general lewdness
>doujinshi recommendations
>anime/manga recommendations
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
>cuteposting
>vocaroos
>What is Role Reversal?
http://rolereversalreader.tumblr.com/post/108492906077/finished-the-faq-for-relationship-role-reversal
New Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1618907
Old Role Reversal Map:
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1239585#
FetLife Group
https://fetlife.com/groups/121948
irc channel: irc.irchighway.net , #gfd
/rr/ and /gfd/ megapastebins:
http://pastebin.com/7NfGfusP
http://pastebin.com/evbfjazh
New doujin list
http://pastebin.com/BjvGSkMi
Rusfemanon VA work:
https://soundgasm.net/u/Rusfemanon/Writefags
and drawfags welcome!
Kitsune story:
http://pastebin.com/KbnXtAbp
SifSub:
My manager is my mistress (non lewd)
http://pastebin.com/TJAvFqgf
"I don't bite"
http://pastebin.com/hWmZEyjb
Smolbrit: Little Soldier Lady
http://pastebin.com/4PQW6E5B
Smolbrit's fashion guide:
http://pastebin.com/YvccbTvA
Escape form the Bermuda triangle:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5737978
Other: Protective Amazons
http://www.amazonlove.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7018
http://www.dlsite.com/maniax/work/=/product_id/RJ165291.html
In Her Argent Embrace:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2606318
Valentine /gfd/ (Written by a 4chan writefag. Supposedly was going to be 5 parts, I only ever saw 2)
Part 1: http://pastebin.com/tW34EBHL
Part 2: http://pastebin.com/hMDENVVs
Pretty Human (Highly recommended by many): http://seafoam.pbworks.com/w/page/77839289/Pretty%20Human
http://gfdrr.freeforums.net/
YOU HAD ONE JOB OP
>>6650403
I'M SORRY WHAT DID I DO WRONG
What is the difference between gentle femdom and role reversal?
What do you think about having a /gfd/ meetup at a con? It seems like the the majority of us are too spread out to get more than a few people even at a major city for a meetup, but people tend to travel further for cons so it seems like a viable option. Probably big ones like Anime Expo or Otakon would work.
>>6650426
LINK THE OFFSITE
>>6650449
How many women love this sight?
I was told a Northern Ontarian frequents here.
>>6650452
I hope it's lots, friend
Butt Stuff
Anyone know of content that is heavier on the role reversal aspect than it is on the gentle femdom? Reversing the gender roles is hella hot, even more so than any cuddly femdom stuff, but I only find stupid forced feminization and sissification porn.
>>6650452
I know I do.
GFD Story list:
Taiyakisoba:
>Absorption:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5343203/chapters/12337505
>The Vixen:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5202542/chapters/11990246
>Under the Falcon's Wing:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/4653132/chapters/10613943
>The Leprechaun's Charms:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3645492
>The Sentimental Succubus:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3241379/chapters/7061726
>A Taste for Christmas Cake:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3145253/chapters/6822353
>Takeover:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2779652/chapters/6235439
>Wings of Desire:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2760794
>In Her Argent Embrace:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2606318/chapters/5806514
>Bringing the Heat:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2454164/chapters/5439332
>Love-Love Umbrella:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2219088
SifSub:
>Until you are:
http://pastebin.com/KbnXtAbp
>My manager is my mistress:
http://pastebin.com/TJAvFqgf
>I don't bite:
http://pastebin.com/hWmZEyjb
Smolbrit:
>Minotaur's Labyrinth:
http://pastebin.com/b7dURJkY
>The Bear and the Wolf Cub:
http://pastebin.com/4PQW6E5B
Others:
>Pretty Human: (by Sea Foam):
http://seafoam.pbworks.com/w/page/77839289/Pretty%20Human
>Love You to Bits!: (By SilentOtakuGirl):
http://silentotakugirl.deviantart.com/art/Love-You-to-Bits-529875044
>Escape from the Bermuda triangle:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5737978
>>6650380
That link to Rusfemanon's stuff isn't working.
Tall Girl thread on /s/
testing cross link
>>>/s/>>16395654
actual link
4chan.org/s/thread/16395654/no-tall-thread-come-one-guys
>>6650479
Is there more?
I want to wear a collar
Is there any sort of hormone/supplement that I could take that would make me look more feminine without making me grow boobs?
>>6650738
you can lower your T levels with spiro, but if you take too much for too long you'll grow beebs anyway.
>>6650734
collars are very nice, just don't get the leather ones.
>>6650752
Why not leather?
>>6650765
pleated collars are more comfortable
[spoiler] and cuter [/spoiler]
>>6650752
I've got a leather one and like it just fine aside from having to take it off for showers and stuff.
It's quite comfortable.
My mistress is in the hospital quite far away so I'm having kind of a sad day. She's okay and safe but I'm very lonely with no sign of relief any time soon.
>>6650780
I think I'd wear that quite happily. I'm not feminine at all. Maybe that's why. It's just cute.
>>6650782
Why is she in the hospital?
>>6650422
>>6650432
>>6650498
>All KLK /gfd/ is Satsuki
>No Ryuko
how do I find a /gfd/ girlfriend
>>6650814
i posted on the map.
now to wait to see if femanons actually look at it
>>6650807
Really bad anxiety and night terrors got her into a really dangerous emotional state so she went to the hospital to cool down. She had a really ugly childhood and so being alone is really tough on her. I had to move away to take care of my family and she's been having a really hard time since then.
I miss her a lot, but I have to focus on getting a job out here so I can get a place of my own and let her come stay with me.
>>6650819
gosh that's actually really sad
I hope she's ok
>>6650813
Just for you, friend
>>6650819
Oh, she lives with her family?
>>6650832
Yeah. Her mom is really unsupportive - when she was having her latest panic attack her mom just complained about the noise.
I've talked about things a little bit before.
>>6650734
Collars are great, my "owner" lets me keep it when I'm away from him. It's quite comfy when i'm just relaxing
>>6650837
you'd be surprised. There are more out there then you may think. Maybe try introducing your own gf to the idea, and she may end up liking it.
if we're talking butt stuff, these are probably the best /gfd/ doujins:
http://exhentai.org/g/619116/8bb42756d7/
http://exhentai.org/g/787107/21d5f9095e/
There are others by this guy too, but unfortuntately they're all in moonrunes
>>6650814
Honestly, in my experience, dating sites.
Depends largely on the area you live in and the site you use, though - in the bumfuck rural part of Virginia I'm in, using okcupid, there's generally one or two dominant-leaning women (that are upfront about it at least) within 50 miles or so of me. Problem with online dating is that it sort of throws out the "role-reversal" aspect of the early chase, as men generally far outnumber the women, meaning females get to take their pick of the lot that messages them, and, probably, aren't going to flip through hundreds of mostly identical male profiles consisting of "ayyyy i like my trucks and football and layin pipe" to find people they might be compatible with.
Speaking of which, this qt domme with a lot of similar interests to me just popped up in my matches, with over 90%, I probably need to be channeling some of the energy I'm wasting helping you out here into improving my own situation ;^)
>tfw you're watching spooky movies while laying on her lap and you hide your face against her so you don't have to see the gore
>tfw she ruffles your hair while laughing
>>6651054
My mistress can't handle spooky movies. We watched the trailer for one once and I had to stay up all night to watch her in case she had nightmares. And the next night, too.
>>6651064
Oh, it's the opposite with us. She loves them, especially the poorly made highly violent ones with lots of blood and guts. Where as I get really squeamish about that sort of stuff. And not just because I cling to her when watching them.
I know I only like this shit because of the affection on display. When I'm actually in a relationship, I tend much more toward the dominant end of things. But fuck, when it's been a while, the idea of somebody looking at me with lust and affection as I cum helplessly is a huge fucking turnon.
>>6651073
So you want to get fucked in the heart instead of the butt?
>>6651079
Well, kinda both, but yes.
>>6651095
Anon for safety butt stuff should be gentle when you're starting out. I know you think you can handle being fucked like an experienced boy scout but your power level is still too low.
>>6650470
lmao he plugs the metric system in his porn
>>6651054
I know that feel exactly
>>6651126
Does she purposefully make you watch them in order to extract more cuddles from you?
>>6651118
I don't know the source so maybe I'm wrong but when I read that I figured the guy is just supposed to be European and the girl is supposed to be American or something.
>>6651141
He could also be canadian. We're pretty much sissies up here.
>>6651152
There are plenty of russian speaking Canadians...but yeah, not likely I'll grant you.
>>6651134
Man, if only that worked on mistress.
But no, any attempt at horror leads to night terrors and anxiety that are seriously and realistically NOT FUN. I feel really bad because horror is something I really enjoy, and I can't share that with her.
She doesn't really care for stand-up either which is a shame because it's something that always cheers me up.
Her phone's dead, so I can't even check in with her right now. I hope she's feeling okay at the hospital...
>>6651153
Shit that's really interesting. Saved. Quick question though. I take a 20 minute walk every week day to get to school. Is that a good replacement?
>>6651302
Also here's a picture for the sake of contribution.
>>6651302
Not really, "cardio" exercises sort of depend on your heartrate and breathing rate getting raised. I mean, maybe if you jog part of the way or something, a simple walk might not be the most effective way of going about it, though.
>>6651304
I was wrong, it's actually 40 minutes. I forgot to add the walk back.
Interesting. Thank you. I guess I really do have to run. Fuck.
>>6651310
I feel you, anon. I recently started exercising again, and attempted to jump right back in on the routine I did through high school when I was semi-athletic and actually cared about things, which has been a good six years now.
I made it through the hour, but I was sore for a fuckn' week afterward. Thinking I might start with this guide as well and work my way back up, if I even try to get back to where I was (which I probably won't, old routine was slightly more heavy on weight training than I realistically need it to be).
>>6650482
anyone got the sauce for this I remember reading it and I kind want a nostalgic fap
I should be doing work but instead I'm posting here, and no one can stop me
>>6651302
Yea it was in the previous thread so I thought to upload to this one. I couldn't find it in any of the resources listed at the top. That guide seems like a handy thing to keep updated.
>>6651349
What kind of work anon?
>>6651370
Calc 3
>>6651310
get a bike, they are good for cardio and very efficient modes of transportation.
>>6651392
I need to study for my Japanese test tomorrow.
>>6651328
Cutting out the weight training is foolish; lifting heavy is the fastest way to change your body composition. If you keep it to just cardio and light stuff you'll be working longer for less bodyfat loss.
>>6651529
yeah but you're trying to get fit without gaining any muscle tone
muscle tone is not good for a cuteboy
>>6651529
I don't really need to lose weight, though, anon, I'm already a hungry skeleton.
Obviously I'll still be using weights, but only in cardio-oriented exercises. Upper-body strength isn't exactly what I'm going for right now, otherwise.
>>6650452
Meeeee
>>6650393
Anyone remember what the name of this comic is? I can't remember the name but it's one of my favorites ever. Later in the comic I believe the female characters thinks the dude has a girlfriend and gets sad n shit. And then semi violently rapes his ass
>tfw haven't been with a woman for awhile
>tfw hangout/play date scheduled Sunday night/yesterday
>tfw cuddles turn to sex
>tfw domme says no sex but oral
>tfw i see she has an innie pussy AKA my favorite to eat out
>tfw I eat her out for an hour and she pulls me off of her by the hair panting hard and twitching
>tfw I made her go cross eyed and made her head swim
Thank fuck I still know what I'm doing.
Damn I felt good.
>>6651606
>Thank fuck I still know what I'm doing.
share some tips then
>>6651585
Artist is Akai Mato
Damn I just went on /gif/ to see iif there was anything good. I just found these gems. I guess the japs know what's up
http://i.4cdn.org/gif/1453446480550.webm
http://i.4cdn.org/gif/1453542320270.webm
http://i.4cdn.org/gif/1453551438696.webm
>>6650380
>https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1618907
>those girls in chad
You guys are a bunch of memers.
>>6651861
We come from /r9k/ after all
>tfw no sweet but sadistic wrestling gf to toss me around the ring for a bit and laugh at me for not being as good as her, but training me with all of her heart when she's not beating me up to make sure I can go toe to toe with her eventually
>>6651557
Speaking as a girl who loves slender femme guys, you sound a little daft.
Let's see you get the muscles first - then we'll worry about whether they're too big or not. Muscle mass makes your body run better, and big muscles don't just show up because you did some benches and pull ups; that's something most guys work for years towards. If you ever start to develop too much muscle, just cut back on that muscle group and the muscles will go away fast. I see tons of cute guys in the gym who are lifting pretty heavy weights but stay cute and lean because they're on a restricted calorie diet. You won't grown big muscles no matter how heavy you lift unless you consume enough calories to support major new muscle growth. Unless you hit the genetic lottery and have a androgynous super pretty face, you're going to look stupid with an underage looking no definition body anyway. Puberty is a bitch, I know.
Please stop reading those guides, they're full of misinformation. Do cardio, lift heavy, eat nutritious food, and adjust your training and diet as you go to how your body develops.
>>6651825
Holy fuck, is there a sauce for those first 2?
>>6651893
>Unless you hit the genetic lottery and have a androgynous super pretty face, you're going to look stupid with an underage looking no definition body anyway.
This. Anime isn't real, guys. Even "cute" j-pop idol guys have abs and nice muscle definition in their arms and such. Just stay thin so you can't bulk.
>>6651893
I'm going to have to speak up and agree with you.
This guide in particular >>6651153
looks more like a guide to a trap body.
Are cute guys automatically built like girls?
While I know there's some overlap with cute guys and traps they're not going for the same aesthetic.
What REALLY jumped out to me was the Spironolactone. That shit literally is an anti-androgen and prevents your body's natural testosterone from doing its thing. If you were to stop masturbating like the guide suggests and start taking that you just might "lose it" from not using it. Spiro would be an easy way to cause impotence and even cause infertility if you take it too long. At 100mg you're playing with fire. Depending on how well your body responds to it, you might develop gynecomastia after a while on it (small feminine boobs). And that shit isn't going to go away if you just stop taking it like the other side effects, that requires surgery.
A word of advice to anyone: if you see any guides on 4chan you best research eat part you intend to take up.
>>6651920
I want to simply stop mastrubating for the testy boost, is this true that it goea up? I've heard it is a myth.
Also the guide doesn't offer any advice to stopping something I do more than daily.
>>6651935
From what I've heard (I'm not a doctor either) the guide is right that your testosterone goes up for a while if you stop masturbating then it drops down to a manageable level and plateaus there, entering maintenance mode.
Sort of like your body thinking it needs to try harder to get more sex (masturbation) for a while then realizes it's not in "Genghis Khan" mode anymore and calms down. Your T is probably higher right now than it would be after a month of not masturbating. Whether that's good or bad.
>>6651935
I didn't masturbate for 25 days now and I don't know how it works on T levels, but your sex drive goes to zero after a while, so I guess it does something. People also ma'am me sometimes, but that's mostly because I feel more girly, not cause my T dropped.
In short, brosciensce which is linked to how you actually feel about it.
I cant wait for bermuda anon to write chapter 5. I want a happy ending with lum and anya back in Britain, honestly. But that's just me wanting to see them with a happy life with good care :')
>>6652022
Death of David Bowie. I lost my sex drive completely. Other than that? Take your mind off it, do things, I don't know.
>>6651825
Holy fuck that second one.
>>6651919
Not to mention that age WILL catch up with you, nothing will change that. You're gonna hit your mid thirties and be DYEL.
>>6651983
I wanna see Anya take on a platoon of Nazis.
Not masturbating for like 2 weeks increase your productivity or it's only a myth?
Because I might try to do it but it's very hard for me to don't masturbate for like 3 days.
>>6651893
>Have a fairly androgynous face
>Have a no definition body
>Still look weird
It's probably because I'm a little overweight though (which is more pronounced when you have a no definition body). I either need to jog more or eat less and I don't want to do either.
>>6652029
Were you fucking David Bowie or something?
>>6651649
A long flexible tongue and anatomy knowledge for your fingers.
>>6652060
hell no. He was just important person to me, like very important. Like "you made me realize that i am into dudes" kind of important.
>>6652046
Doing nofap or any of that has no benefits if you fap once a day or once every two days.
It probably has benefits if masturbate like 3-4 times or more every single day.
![testosterone_chart[1].gif](https://i.imgur.com/YlagtGq.gif "testosterone_chart[1].gif")
>>6652091
>>6652046
Take it with a grain of salt but...
>>6652098
Ok and?
>>6652127
A guy was saying he was gonna try 2 weeks and I'm saying that possibly anything over 7 days is inefficient.
>>6650449
It seems a little extreme to me, those bites look deep, but I like that sort of aggression and marking.
>>6651064
That is interesting. I am getting into a relationship with a tall dominant switch and she cannot stand scary movies either.
Maybe they overcompensated for their fears by becoming go getters?
>>6651310
>tumblr_mww9196tDZ1sqc2d4o
You can bike ride or go to the gym for their machines to get your heart racing. It does not depend on running.
>>6652172
Marking is lots of fun
>>6650435
I'd love one as a chance to go in my kilt at some cute panties....maybe with the note on my back saying pet me I'm a slut...
Could be fun.
>>6652203
Lack of proper marking is one of the hardest things about moving away from my mistress.
At least I've still got my collar.
>>6651895
Yep, sorry for taking so long. I was playing csgo with my friends
http://javfor.me/89272.html
I want to find a shy and insecure guy to take care of. I want to pin him down gently but very firmly like a straight jacket, showering him with the softest of kisses interluded by heavy sighs.
>>6652270
Welcome, most guys in this thread are guys who would love to experience that one day.
[spoiler]Me too[/spoiler]
>>6650482
Try the new gender-flipped Twilight book.
Okay, bare with me, I'm serious. I know it's not the best piece of literature, but damn, the /rr/ there is fucking delicious. It seriously makes you feel really warm and cozy. Meyer has no idea she accidentally created cuddle porn for people like us.
>>6652274
>Try the new gender-flipped Twilight book
I'm not sure if I should laugh or feel disgusted
>>6652270
This is not uncommon, I can jive with it
>>6652274
>Try the new gender-flipped Twilight book.
Sounds like something I'd write.
>>6652280
You do realize that all the usual Twilight criticism applies ten times over to pretty much all of /gfd/ favorites (Taiyakisoba's stories, Rusfemanon vocaroos, etc.), right?
Don't act like you're above reading Twilight for stomach butterflies, you literally read stories about bird-women kidnapping and taking care of village men. Stuff that gets posted here is no better in terms of literary quality than Twilight.
>>6650482
>>6652274
Somebody here a while ago said to try an android game called Choice of Romance.
It's actually kind of cool. You get to be a qt richboy(or girl) and get courted by a bunch of women(or men) to raise your social status. It has issues with the language at times though. It's primarily intended to be played as a woman and they literally just swapped the pronouns.
It's not a literary masterpiece, but it's quite engaging thanks to the stat management/bad ends it's got going on too.
>>6652290
I don't read that stuff though, anon.
I appreciate the effort, but Amazon women and valkyries don't really do it for me.
I just like cute, slightly assertive, older women. I'm too fucking vanilla for this board.
>>6652290
>you literally read stories about bird-women kidnapping and taking care of village men.
Actually I haven't read any of the stories posted here, though I've listened to a few of Rusfemanon's recordings.
But I do get your point.
>>6650738
>>6650748
>>6651153
>>6651920
Just referencing all of these
I've heard from /r/nofap (>inb4 leddit) that not fapping increases testosterone. It's been difficult to keep up nofap, because I've heard it increases, and from the chart, that it decreases testosterone.
Are there any definitive studies that prove or disprove these ideas?
>>6652310
I found this in my giant folder of random shit I save.
>>6652270
Put yourself on the map
>>6652270
As a shy/insecure guy with an ex that complained that she had, "to be the man in the relationship," I would definitely appreciate this...
>>6652318
>hopefully ethically produced
Jeez, People for the Ethical Treatment of Subs is everywhere.
>>6652329
>People for the Ethical Treatment of Subs
>PETS
That's pretty appropriate.
>>6652337
I'm bored and very curious about this.
Do this test, say if you are a dom or a sub and say which type of personality do you get. Just for fun.
http://www.16personalities.com/
>>6652344
I don't mean to be rude, but personality tests like this tend to clutter the thread.
>>6652347
Sorry, I just remembered one time where someone posted something similar if not the same test and it was kind of fun, I guess.
Sorry.
>>6652274
>new gender bent twilight book is delicious rr
>twilight book
HERESY AND BLASPHEMY!
Seriously though the original books are shit and I doubt that moron can polish shit.
I'm back home again, so I can get back to posting the lists.
Animated film:
>Garden of Words
Live Action Film:
>Angel-A
Anime/Manga:
>Witch Craft Works
>Freezing
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>Infinite Stratos
>Accel World*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun
>Amagami*
>Oji-san to Marshmallow
Manga/Light Novel:
>Kono Onee-san wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Otoyomegatari
>Sensei Lock-on
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Natsuyuki Rendezvous
>Otomen
>Kimi wa Peto/Tramps like us
>Hokago play
>Game Over
>Takane no Hana Nara Ochitekoi!!
>Tsugumomo
>Ore x Yome
>Altina the Sword Princess
>Ane no Onaka o Fukuramaseru wa Boku
>Utsuro no Hako to Zero no Maria
>Waltraute-san no Konkatsu Jijou
>Visual Novels
Junipers Knot*
Web animation:
>Newman
*/gfd/ is not the main focus of the story. Don't read/watch it purely for the /gfd/, make sure you enjoy it first and consider the /gfd/ a bonus.
Doujin List: http://pastebin.com/BjvGSkMi
Hentai List: http://pastebin.com/jVY1dAeb
As always suggestions, advice and constructive criticism are most welcome. Let's all try to improve these lists.
>>6650428
>What is the difference between gentle femdom and role reversal?
There really is none and the two are used interchangeably. Though if you really, REALLY want to split hair I guess you could say that gentle femdom is simply the woman taking a dominant yet loving position in the relationship whereas role reversal is the woman assuming a masculine role (such as the role of the provider) while the man assumes a feminine role (such as the role of the caretaker).
As you can see, the two are virtually the same.
>>6650428
>>6652369
/gfd/ usually refers to the girl taking the lead in the bedroom, although it can also be used for things like headpats in public.
/rr/ is about the relationship as a whole (I.E Househusbands)
Personally I only like /gfd/ and not /rr/, mostly because I would feel like shit sitting around the house and not working.
>>6652382
>mostly because I would feel like shit sitting around the house and not working.
That's what part time jobs are for. You do productive work, get home in time and prepare dinner for the big provider of the family.
>>6652344
>http://www.16personalities.com/
>dom
>INTP-T
>>6652327
Shy people tend to be fiercely loyal. You just need the same loyalty in return and unambiguous communication. Keep up the good work.
>>6652344
That entire MBTI thing is built on confirmation bias, I know because I spent years delving into it, however...
>INTJ-A
>sub
>>6652347
Post pics then and it's fine.
>>6652344
ENTJ-A, sub/switch.
>>6652344
INTP-T
sub/switch
>>6652270
Yes, Hi, Hello. I have been abused and I'm a bad thought away from breaking down into tears almost everyday. Soft kisses and reassurance keep me alive.
>>6652281
As adorable as this picture is that kid sure as hell better be afraid!
>>6652408
'Course it is. My result changes wildly every time I do it.
>>6652415
There's a difference between "shy and insecure" and being emotionally crippled and possibly unstable.
>>6652426
I've become shy and introverted to avoid problems.
>>6652426
That's weird, my result has stayed the same the past 3 years, but even if it is consistent I still believe it's based on confirmation bias.
Oh well anon, what were your results?
>>6652352
It's fine. I'm not entirely against it myself, I just know some people have complained in the past.
>>6652409
[spoiler] A compelling argument, INTP-T sub [/spoiler]
>>6652398
Thanks, I guess I just feel like that's never appreciated. That meant a lot.
>>6652451
See >>6652409
Who else is INFP here? It's suffering.
>>6652344
>Sub
>isfp
>>6652344
sub and INFJ
>>6652327
KEK
>>6652344
>INFP
>dom
>>6652470
I understand anon
>mfw no qt sub with te/ti function to make an offhand comment dismissing my idealism, only for me to have to punish him later
>>6652426
>my results change each time I take it
Same here.
>>6652527
That does sound nice.
>>6652527
>teddy function
>>6652527
Fuck this picture is adorable
>>6652344
sub (although sometimes dom), INTP
>>6652382
Er, I wouldn't say /rr/ is just being a househusband. It's about being the pursued one in the relationship.
>>6652344
INTJ (from meyers-briggs, actual test, not 16personalities).
Sub, mostly. I looked into the "relationships" segment about INTJs on 16personalities and basically laughed my ass off.. they think I have a coherent plan in my mind. I don't know what the fuck I'm doing.
>>6652317
specifically this relates to the "Cute boy aesthetics" poster.
I'm not too worried about sex drive.
>>6652344
>http://www.16personalities.com/
dom, INTJ-A
:l
>>6652703
It keeps telling me I need to give up and basically just let someone be attracted to me and fall into my lap naturally.
THAT ISN'T GONNA' FUCKING WORK UNTIL I HAVE SOME REASON TO LEAVE THE HOUSE. Believe me, I've given up, you fucks.
>>6652703
"It"? What, the fucking crystal ball? What the hell are you even talking about?
>>6652710
Sorry, the site, 16personalities, everything about "dating" "relationships" and INTJs, basically.
Site's stupid. Everything is stupid.
>>6652712
Ah okay. Yeah, INTJ dating advice is usually depressing. I would try not to take it to heart, although I acknowledge that's also very easy for me to say being one of those much-sought-after female doms... So. Sorry bro.
>>6652344
INFP-T, sub
THANKS MEYERS-BRIGGS
>>6652712
>Look up dating profile for infp
Holy shit that's too accurate. I'm more akin to yanderes when it comes to relationships and dinginess and I get hurt consistently.
>>6652735
INFP dating advice basically comes down to 'yo dog you have unrealistic expectations of other human beings and will be continually disappointed'
'Also stop internalizing everything everyone says to you, seriously, most other people don't consider the emotional impact of every word and action to a paralyzing degree, that's mostly just you'
...which is fair honestly
>>6652745
I have a thing where I need to be perfect for them. Not the other way around. Me fucking up is way more emotionally destructive. I'm quick to forgive and I put up with abuse most often just so I can be perfect for them.
>>6652754
Yeah, me too. I assume the best of everyone, because I want the best from everyone. So I tend to hold myself to blame for everyone else's fuck ups, which mistress calls me out on hard because it tends to make an emotional wreck of me.
It actually does sum me up pretty well at the bottom, as to why I'm interested in being a sub:
"People with this personality type are generous in their affection, with a clear preference for putting the pleasure of their partners first – it is in knowing that their partners are satisfied that INFPs truly feel the most pleasure."
>>6652756
Yeah I can see that. I can't tell you how many times I've quietly cried on skype because I said something wrong and acted like nothing was wrong.
>>6652344
sub (male)
intp (from older tests)
INFP (this one)
>>6652344
ISTP-A and this is the stupidest thing I've done today.
And believe me I've done some pretty stupid things.
>snowed in for days
>broken laptop
>little to no outside contact
I AM GOING TO LOSE MY SHIT
and on a totally off topic note, I am fully willing to be pinned against a wall and fucked due to sexual frustration right now, and I don't even like to dabble that much into booty territory
fuck this week already
>>6652865
just have a transcendental experience in the snow.
>>6652352
That guy looks scared
>>6652344
ENFJ, sub
Again. Still after five years?
And literaly every line of this stupid thing is written in the ink of my life.
I know, condensing humanity into a set of 16 is unrealistic. Statistically speaking however, it must be true for at least a few.
So, if anyone want's a red headed bara sub who enjoys dragging people through their life goals like a dumb galloping horse, i'll be at Disney world.
....someone ride me. I don't know where to go on my own.....
>>6652344
INTP-T
sub
>>6652889
I already did, I damn near froze to death and think I saw a domme
maybe they aren't a myth after all...
>>6652865
I feel you brother
At least my laptop works.
Mistress got out of the hospital, but they basically told her she was blowing her issues out of proportion (after she had night terrors so severe she checked herself into a psych ward) and refused to treat her further.
Fuckin' American mental health care.
>>6652921
thanks dude
also, i agree.
american mental health care is less like a hospital and more like a prison for the injured.
>>6652921
Hurray mental health!
Well, if night terrors the issue there's one very good cure.
Physical exhaustion.
Be so tired the body goes right to sleep. Works very well when the problem is in the rem cycle as apposed to out of it.
Time for some running, and sexing, and wrestling, and bouncing and funfunfunfun funfun.
Or not. Could just ignore me. But whatever she is doing, adding this won't hurt.
>>6652921
So what does she have night terrors about?
>>6652921
You don't go to the psych ward for night terrors so I'm not sure what you're expecting here
>>6652344
Finally got around to doing this.
ENTP. Sub.
>>6652889
>>6652920
Bleh, tell me about it. I'm 6'3" and the snow is going up to my crotch. I wish we could go back to the 70 degree weather of last month.
>>6652951
Take us back man, I have a fucking backyard literally full of the shit up to my waist
>>6650819
>She had a really ugly childhood
Should we even ask...?
>>6652928
All mental health systems are atrocious.
Once you learn enough about how often people in the past were drunk, you start to realise that people have only formed society so that they could be drunk and happy like the dumb animals we are.
Humans were never ment to be sane. Just smart. Understand this and people take on a whole nother shade of color. We are just now comming down from a ten thousand year kegger and thats just cuz we have better drugs to dose ourselve's up with.
Try to keep people healthy happy and respectful of eachother. But the moment we start curing people, you're just trying to change the current of a lake with a pebble.
It take's allot of pebble's to change a current mate. And allot of time.
.
>>6652944
The night terrors are more a symptom of the general anxiety. There's a lot going on. The night terrors just escalated things because they set off some serious panic attacks and things got worse from there.
>>6652943
I don't know exactly. She has a really shitty home life, but she doesn't go into much detail about it because it's painful to think about. I've gathered bits and pieces. She has a really hard time with scary stuff at all, as well. The last time we watched a horror movie I had to stay up through the night for three days straight because she was thrashing in her sleep really bad.
>>6652933
I'd love to be able to do that with her, but I moved several states over to get my own life together because I've got a serious panic disorder and need to get healthy so I can be a proper caretaker.
>>6652980
You also don't go to the psych ward for general anxiety
>>6652980
Sound's like me time exercise would work out well for both of you.
Take a online dance class or something and do it together.
>>6652984
There's more to it, but some of it touches on really personal territory. Ultimately the issue was she was having night terrors that were severe enough that she was having waking nightmares and felt unsafe, and her family was just complaining about the noise rather than actually offering any help.
I don't think she needed to stay at the hospital, but the fact that they ignored the obvious need for treatment and sent her back into the environment where she felt unsafe (she was dragging furniture around to block off the entrances to her room) is kind of fucked up.
>>6652993
A psych ward is not a place you go to get away from a bad situation, it's where you go if you are a possible threat to yourself or others
Even in countries with socialized medicine the treatment would not be done there, it would be done with a psychologist since that's what she actually needs
>>6653002
I'm aware of that. I've been in one before, because of my panic order and depression escalating to the point where I was actively suicidal.
The part that irritates me is that they didn't provide any resources or connect her with anyone who COULD offer the treatment she needed, or even a safe place she could go to instead of being sent back to her mother.
She's ready to live out of her car to avoid being where she was. I'm just really disappointed with their failure to provide any useful resources to actually resolve the issue before it escalates again.
>>6653007
I hate to be realistic ( no sarcasm), but sometimes, life hands you lemons that you have juice, whether they're fresh or rotten. I'm dealing with a similar bid in my living situation.
It sucks, but you really have to bet your chips on you.
The most important thing right now, is for you to support her, because you see the need and that's also all you can do
>>6653026
*have to juice
>>6653014
>>6653026
Well-put, dear boy.
Simple answer then. Support, use technology to solve a few problems, find a helpgroup in her area she can visit. And start a class together.
Those stupid pillows that light up when one of you goes to sleep might be nice aswell.
>>6653007
Maybe they thought she was an adult who could put "psychologists near me" or "women's shelter near me" or "motel" into google
>>6653047
>Pillows that light up when one of you goes to sleep
Elaborate, this sounds cute af and I need to buy her a Valentine's present anyway. I'm gonna send her flowers but I wanted to get her a present also.
>>6653050
Rendering simple aid for someone who was putting themselves in a dangerous situation seems like basic human courtesy to me.
>>6653053
actually that's more or less more on the wider abstract subject of morality.
they can pull you into the same situation
>>6653053
Hospitals in America do not render simple aid
You might try a library
>>6653069
Looks just as cute as I hoped. Shame it doesn't come out until May.
I've always really liked falling asleep to her heartbeat. Hopefully we'll be together again by then, but who knows.
>>6652756
INFP life is suffering isn't it
>>6653069
*contemplates life*
>>6652745
How though? How do I stop being a little beta fuck? Fuck these personality tests [spoiler] fuck everything [/spoiler]
INTJ sub
Its a lonely existence ;_;
>>6653098
Absolutely it is. I wish I wasn't wired this way. Being male and INFP is the worst.
>>6653116
Insecurity of personality accentuated by insecurity of being a sub, and being a male where expectations are of masculinity and Chad-ness.
Fucking end me
>>6653123
Sorry I'll post pics as compensation for the incessant ranting
>>6653102
No don't do that, you'll never sto....oh. Right.....god you've sucked me into it too...
Crapbaskets. Btw, nice work with the shitposter. I know you can never reveal you're powerlevel now, but the threads are safer, or at least more hygienic.
You have my thanks.
>>6653098
no it's not, just take deep breaths and relax
>>6653132
Cheers. Just gotta be patient eh?
>>6653104
Hey, it's simple.
Find the thing's that triggered these idea's. And replace them with new ones.
One a day and you'll be a new man in a month.
>>6653132
This DESU
I rant a lot on here but honestly I've managed to cope pretty well with my panic disorder just by getting my shit together and remembering that most of my concerns are imagined, and that even if my fears are real, they don't have any power to act.
You just gotta get your head back in a safe place before you act so you don't do dumb shit.
>>6653162
Your problems are definitely caused by your personality and are no fault of your own. This is a healthy way to live life.
>>6653157
Unf this picture. Proof of dominace. Like a prize to be kept or a jewl. I want to be kept like this. A memory for her.
I need a drink.
>>6653167
I know its a problem. You don't have to be so passive aggressive.
>tfw no bermuda anon update
I will be strong
>>6653162
The way I counter the stuff I said in >>6653123
Is with [spoiler]DRUGS[/spoiler] and [spoiler]CRYING[/spoiler] desu.
Interestingly enough, new research in psychology about treatment through CBT is being replaced with a new treatment called Mindfulness. Works wonders for me, but it differs from person to person.
>>6652344
ISFJ-A, sub/switch
>>6652344
INTP-T
Sub
Haven't seen this doujin posted yet but it's pretty gentle I guess. It's also fairly shota and I'm not sure if that's allowed here or not.
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