Communicate. Not telling him exactly what is wrong with your enjoyment of the fucking is a huge part of why he's so shitty at sex. Lrn2sex

>>694077546
dump him

>>694078730
Like really do you think he's just going to spontaneously figure out how to lay a proper pipe? Are you a fucking idiot or what?

>>694079036
I think anon's on to something, if he's afraid to make a move lead him through it. Figure out a way to make yourself cum.

>>694077546
Only way you're gonna get this done is to make him apprentice under some known good dick. He'll learn, or you'll have a pet. Either way a win.

>>694077546
Timestamp fucking homo

>>694077546
Show us ur tits

>>694079338
If i gave up on women that couldn't make me cum I would never ever have sex. Literally the only way you can get your man to not be so shitty is to tell him what you want. Jesus christ, it's not that fucking hard to figure out "ask for what you want". Are you literally fucking retarded or...

>>694078730
There has been times that I've asked him to kiss me in bed, but I still feel like I have to direct him. I don't get to feel wanted or submissive. I'm still the actor. I've told him I want him to make the first move. I've told him I'm tired of leading. He just says he can't do it.

that's cool, tori.

>>694079870
I told him to lick my neck. He did, but it was really awkward feeling. I told him not like that and showed him what I meant on him. But he said he couldn't tell the difference, and he was embarrased. So he wouldn't touch me anymore from his embarrassment.

>>694079913
Then figure something new out? If you aren't sexually compatible right now you can either make that not a part of your relationship or you can have a real mature conversation about your needs and desires.

If you want to feel wanted and submissive you have to *literally tell him that*. Tell him that what gets you off is to be wanted. If he can't adjust or get into that, reconsider the way you run your relationship. I've had a slow time with women before because of my own self-hating tendencies but talking to your partner after AND before sex is far and away the best way to lovingly meaningfully share your sexual preferences.

If you aren't clearly communicating what you want and need during sex then you are not mature enough to be having sex and should go back to fingering and handjobs.

>>694077546
he sounds like a faggot

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>>694077546
>no timestamp
>old copypasta

2/10 bait try again next time

>>694080344
If your boyfriend gets embarrassed from sexual instructions than he either he has deep socio-sexual issues that you should actually address or he's a fucking child. Are you dating a child or an idiot?

>>694077546
you won't be able to change his personality, he sounds super passive and if you want someone to take control there's only so much talking you can do.

OP HERE
Roll trips for pussy

>>694080393
Thank you for the advice. I'll talk to him more. I'll push him to move beyond his embarrassment and keep trying.

>>694081032
That's not me faggot, my pussy deserve quads -_-

>>694081126
>>694081032
Timestamp plox

>>694078730
This

>>694081032
where u live op? uk fag?

>>694080577
He is 19 and I'm 20. So I guess a child. He may have those issues you mentioned, too, which I need to work on with him.

This is a dude pretending be a chick.

>>694081126
Lol ur not me either XD

Go fuck youself guys, it's a man fapping to your stories

>>694081349
idgaf if this is a guy who can't figure out how to fuck his chick then all were doing here is making him better at fucking

>>694081557
Not the point. You subconsciously were drawn to the thread because you thought it was a female. This thread is gettig undeserved attention. Op should die in a fire.

>>694081298
Be gentle but be firm. Dudes have a ton of anxiety about the ability of their dick and being clear that he just hasn't figured it out YET instead of him b eing a total cockwreck is gonna be ur best bet

>>694077546
walk around naked at home, if he still doesn't initiate, he's homo

>>694081749
then wtf is the point fag. really figure ur shit out before you post what the fuckis wrong with you

>>694081749
not a guy, idk why youre set on that idea but w/e. i got the advice i needed. Op out.

>>694081872
this

>>694081884
Calm down. I've stated my point which makes reasonable sense. No idea what you're lashing on about. Now go watch kony 2012 again and donate if you so love to be fed false information.

>>694081126
rolling

>>694082404
rawlin

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>>694082131
You got shit and provided no timestamp. Your bf will continue to unsatisfy/frustrate you until you inevitably break up/cheat on him. Now you get some real adivce but of course you would have to provide timestamp.

>>694082339
you sound like a real fuckin fag bringin up kony 2012. how white are u? did u rly miss all the other dumb shit?

fag. if u think i'm not calm/75% of the people in this thread then ur a fuckin idiot fag

>>694082688
Wtf even is a timestamp??

>>694077546
What is his stance on oral sex?

>>694079036
> my boyfriend doesn't make the first move because he's scared of messing up
> teach him what you like so he won't mess up
> are you stupid? How could telling him what I like help him pleasure me and reduce his fear of being clueless?

>>694082979
He'll do it, but I always get a sense he doesn't want to.

>>694082735
Why does it feel like you're losing more and more brain cells with every post. Staph.

>>694082889
Piece of paper+time/date+tits+camera==

Timestamp

>>694082889
hello summerfriend

what the fuck. where is the tits and timestamp

>>694083130
How often would you say you have sex a month?

Your bf sounds like a pathetic little faggot. Dump his ass and move on already. He obviously isn't into you at all.

I feel like you have big tits but no ass, he simply not attracted to you.

>>694083166
lol fuck u. im just drunk and honestly I really have posted most of the posts in this thread because i know how easy it is to multi-post and be mean and make OP actually get meaningful and helpful advice through a sea of shit. The fact that you use some reddit bullshit like "staph" (somehow you spelled a made-up word wrong. Unless you're imploring me to get a staph infection? Idiot?) tells me that you're some probable newfag who doesn't really get LITERALLY anything.

And even if you've been here for years (which I doubt) then that means you've somehow managed to remain a newfag this whole time, while missing the SJW infiltration for what it is. You should honestly be embarrassed, because you're an actual fucking disgrace.

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>>694083166
Ta-fucking-dah!

You should start cuckolding him. It is the only way. He'll have a real man making him submissive, same for you.

>>694083903
You are fat.

>>694083903
AWESOME. Keep making your sex better and also masturbate more to figure out what you wanjt

>>694084104
What else is new?

>>694083903
How come your tits aren't pierced in your original post?

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>>694083903
Those hairy ass arms certainly aren't helping the situation. Maybe if you put on a sexy look instead of the King Kong one you would have more luck.

>>694083903
you got those piercings awfully fast

still, post more tits and I'll read through to give advice. I've gone months without fucking my girl before, she did not appreciate it.

>>694084304
lol uve never fucked an actual girl before.

mammals have hair. get over it

>>694083823
Didn't read lol.

>>694083903
Your bf needs some serious male influence in his life. Either he didn't have a poper father figure or a complete lack thereof. Do with that as you see fit. But juding from what you already described. You already did your part and He may be beyond saving. I suggest therapy with a male therapist present or getting him into some sort mma. Something that will improve his confidence.

>>694084294
Old pic

Great another titty picture but no ass remember that's what most guys want! And obviously you don't have it.

>>694084440
Omg his dad is a deadbeat. Good guess. Thanks!

>>694077546
Op what's that ring on your right hand? Might it be a college ring?

>>694083903
Those are fucking gross kill yourself no wonder he doesn't want to fuck.

>>694084466
Not just old but if it's the same chic it's back when they were skinny. You can see the stretch marks under her arm she's trying to hide. Has OP considered weight gain as the issue?

>>694084640
No problem. Now I suggest you get off this site while you can. If everything you say is true then your a good gf but lets be honest. You're a bit sexually deprived and came here to do some bad things. This will only led to you being more and more unfaithful and eventually, cheat. Peace.

>>694084599
Great tits>ass

>>694084884
9 out of 10 dentists agree eating is the issue.

>>694083903
How long does he last?

>>694084640
Either tell him what you want or drop him. Don't expect him to read your mind.

>>694084884
Yeah, definitely gained weight. I'm dieting and exercising. I asked him if it was the weight gain, but he said no. Probably trying not to hurt my feelings.

>>694084440
This is genuinely the dumbest fucking advice I have ever heard.

"My boyfriend is bad at sex." "Have him get beat up by other people"

Dumbass.

>>694077546
I can come over and fuck you in front of him to show him how it's done it you want.

>>694085112
gurl u still fucking sexy don't listen to these virgins. They have literally never had sex and have no idea how it works or how to manage a relationship that includes you. I have been all of the helpful advice in this thread, in a variety of voices. Be positive.

>>694079913
>>694084409

ok, lets see here.
>I still feel like I have to direct him.
>I don't get to feel wanted or submissive.
>I've told him I'm tired of leading.
>He just says he can't do it.

Is he a sub? two subs in a relationship is going to involve one of them being unhappy.

>>694080344
>So he wouldn't touch me anymore from his embarrassment.
emarrassment is a tricky one. Sex is only something you want to do if you enjoy it, and if it doesn't feel like a safe and fun place you're going to keep your distance. The only way you can help that is by not making a big deal out of anything so it's nice and relaxing.

Aside from that, general advice:

If he's capable of being forward/dominant and there's just some mental barriers holding him back, just get a few drinks into him. Suddenly embarrassment is less of an issue.

If you think he's just not that into you and making excuses? there's not much you can do about it. You can find out if he's got any kinks and try to fulfill them, but overall if you're not compatible you're not compatible.

The cumming problem: some girls cant easily get off while fucking. Try different positions and all but you're probably going to need clit work. Get yourself a bullet vibe to use during, get a vibrating cock ring, whatever. With my gf I either make sure to get her off before I fuck her or warm her up so much she's guaranteed to come with me inside her.

>>694084920
You're a good person. Thanks again. I'm off for real this time. I get the gist of the mean comments: Keep losing weight, talk to him, be understanding.

>>694084440
edgy

>>694085112
I would blow a load in you.

>>694085279
Lol shut up try hard OP.

>>694085421
same. I want this bitch to drown in my cum no doubt

>>694085279
What the actual fuck, 'gurl'? What are you, gay?

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>>694083903
you got kik? I love chubs

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>>694085421
4chan, everyone.

>>694077546
Post skype so I can stroke my cock while you fingerbang that needy snatch.

>>694085536
nah i'm a bifag. If you ain't fucking both you're wasting your time. why are you living your life with one hand tied behind your back?

>>694084466
why did you get fat between pics?

also dump him and fuck better guys
if you love him, put up with it and teach him. doesnt matter how long it takes.

>>694084992
https://youtu.be/MRoAroipx2s?t=7