He is cheating on you bro, sorry to tell you this. Dump her cheating ass.

sad to say that you lost her OP >>690012054

>>690012422
I know for a fact that she's not cheating.
Also checked

>>690012054
You are boring her.

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Catfish also check em

Sounds like the beginning of the end for you two. I can't offer advice, because the minute a girl and I start circling the drain like that, I don't know how to get out of that pull.

Just call her out and ask what's up, either there's an issue and you can work it out, or there isn't and you'll alienate her

I don't know, the same thing is happening to me right now, except I only got one date with her.

>>690013125
I'm a really docile person, i don't like to disagree with her or make her angry. I hate making her feel bad, but any time i bring something up she guilt trips me

Congratulations,

You've reached the point in your relationship where you don't have a lot of shit to talk about cause you talk to each other so much that you don't have anything new to share with one another.

>>690013836
Then every woman for the rest of your life is going to do this to you.

Men are such pushovers nowadays. The term Men is a fucking disgrace.

Who's idea is it to be on the phone? It sounds like she's getting tired of your co-dependency. Why do you have to be on the phone with her? Why can't you just text? Everything she does.. "What are you doing?" Walking around holding the fucking phone listening to you breath and play fucking pokemon. Jesus Christ I want to strangle you just reading this fucking post. I can't imagine being held hostage like this, having to basically ask permission to use the bathroom or do it in secret while your neck cramps from holding the god damn phone. Fuck you

OP IF YOU LOVE HER YOU BREAK UP WITH HER RIGHT NOW.

>>690014416
Its sad people think its supposed to mean anything in the first place

>>690012054
Your not entertaining enough for her. She's lost interest. But it isn't your fault. Your not her clown money for entertainment. Sorry man. but if you want to keep her you are going to have to spice things up. I recommend not doing that though. Because then you do become her entertainment monkey.

>>690013916
I've been with my girlfriend for 10 years and we never run out of things to talk about
U trippin dawg

>>690014648
I see where you're coming from anon. Ill stop calling so often, and do less breathing down her neck with whatever shes doing. You actually helped me. Thanks.

>>690014648
>Obvious mad femanon

>>690012054
Have you ever met her? Sounds like typical online relationship bullshit. Of this is a girl that you've met and hung out with, this is a bad sign. If you've never met her in person then she could be cheating on you or could be tied up in something.
Either way, no matter what the situation, just jack off and you'll feel better. Sometimes women are nothing but drama, the best course of action is to ignore it and focus on yourself.

>>690015190

> has moments of awkward silence with gf where he tries to think if things to talk about
> says I'm tripping

>>690015238
Nooo man. This is the wrong attitude. You and her should want to talk and be near each other as much as physically possible, That's love. Girls want to laugh. Some people are naturally funny. Some aren't find something you can do to make her want to talk to you. Talking less is the next faze of the "Beginning of the end".

>>690015419
Has nothing to do with cheating. This is the behavior that leads to cheating though. If not contained quickly. But I agree. MOST of the time woman aren't worth shit never-mind all the drama they naturally bring with them.

>>690015419
Yeah, ive known her since 7th grade. We just finished our senior year in hs and started dating in march. She doesnt have a car, i dont have a licence.

>>690015384

This is some cunty female shit to do to someone. What kind of dude is trying to hang out on the phone for more than 5 minutes? You just made yourself as a total bitch.

>>690015595

That ain't love, sometimes people need their own space to do their own shit. If your up each other's ass all the time you're gonna get bored real quick

>>690015595

Wow are you in middle school? That is not how real relationships work.

>>690015975
Only woman want to talk on the phone. But if men want woman they have to do what woman want. That's post feminism for you. And it's terrible.

>>690016176
If you get bored then it isn't love.

>>690016223
If you don't always love and want to be around your gf or bf. then I call bullshit on the legitimacy of your feelings towards one another.

>>690016480

lol

Good luck, kid.

>>690012054
OP, Everyone up in this bitch is so fucking wrong. Just listen to me.

Being in a relationship for 4 years is pretty fucking incredible. At first it was awkward, but it mellows out. When you begin your relationship, if it is true, take breaks from each other. Leave each other alone enough to miss each other and want to talk to each other. Talking on the phone is faster than texting. It's okay to do it occasionally, but constantly is a bad move. When you see her start to want more of you, come around more often, ask her her day, what she's gonna do tomorrow, that sort of thing. Pick her brain OP. Stop being distracted by other shit. Little stuff drives women crazy in love. If on the phone and she is getting distracted by something, then occupy yourself, or end the call. MAKE HER MISS YOU! Later on in the relationship, that's when it's okay for you two to want to be around each other constantly, talk on the phone constantly and more. You'll have more to talk about because you both grew more with each other. Be the man OP, you can do this!

Dude this isn't bad at all if she's into you, if the call is awkwardly silent at some points she's probably thinking it's her fault somehow and doesn't want you to have a bad image of her or some shit we're complicated creatures. The worst thing you can do is make a big deal out of it imo

>>690016480

Spend a whole week with your significant other, never leaving their side, then get back to me on that

>>690012054
Maybe she needed to be quiet for some reason. I wouldn't read too much into it. Just ask her about it tomorrow. Don't be confrontational, be the concerned bf. "is everything ok?"

Who turns off the mic while you are talking on the phone?
If it's come to that you are done, she doesn't care if you are there or not because I imagine you are just always there. Who plays Pokemon and talks on the phone? I do not fucking understand you fucking kids.

>>690015580
>haven't had an awkward silence in 10 years
What's it like?

>>690016642
Thanks.

>>690012054
the fire is dying bro... abandon ship

>>690015595
Was totally agreeing with you until you
>fazed
out of being intelligent

>>690016698
I'll take your advice. Thank you anon, you are a good man.

>>690012542
prove it then

>>690016737
Then your not meant for each other. If you can't stand being around them past a certain point then you must have gotten whatever it is you wanted out of them from the start. But it wasn't that person him or herself, because you are wishing to get away from them.

>>690016866

> Op being dumbass
> claiming that they never run out of things to talk about, but also have awkward silences

means you ran out of shit to talk about bro happens to everyone

>>690016832
Who texts responses while you are on the fucking phone? Do kids just have to have some channel open with someone else all the time? In really asking. Like have you ever just sat and figured something out and not talked about it or texted it or posted it somewhere? Just like did something for its own sake?

>>690015975
I was calling out how bitter bitchy it read
>quit chimping out nigger

>>690017134
Then we aren't meant for each other hunny.

>>690016866
Have you had a relationship in 10 years?

She is waiting for her $3.99 per minute to talk to you. Dude, all girls are whores. The only thing in debate is the cost.

Be comfortable with not talking sometimes, hell I'd say even practice it. It keeps the spark going better, the last thing a girl wants is to be talking nonstop all the time

Don't have a call the next day, tell her you're busy and proceed to do this for 3 days. On the fourth day have a call for 10 minties, then hang up and tell her you didn't have anything to talk about. If you lose her, she's a waste of time anyway. There always someone better.

>>690017250
That's genuine advice /b/ro. I got you... It happens, but if you really care for her anon, fight for her...and she'll fight harder too

>>690016176
Somewhat true but you always have to be somewhat up each other's asses when you're financially linked

>>690012054
You're just boring op. You guys shouldn't talk on the phone every single night. I bet you also constantly text her throughout the day too. Couples get bored of each other if they're in constant contact. Spend time with her sure, but do your own damn thing too and don't worry about checking in with her.

Yeah man, definitely her period. You should just let her know directly that you understand what's happening and that you can take it easy until it's over. She'll appreciate your intuition and how well you know her.

>>690016627
>this guy
How many fair maidens have you saved today brave white knight?

>>690017569
Relationshits are terrible. Because when men were dominant we always got what we wanted. But now that men and woman are equal we have to worry about what the women want to. Which is usually contrary to what the guy wants. But thats only because we are seperate genders and we have different chemicals in our brains....

>>690017270

So what if your gf wants a girls night? You know, to do things with her female friends? Are you going to say no because you're supposed to want to be together all the time and I'd you don't it's not love?
Have fun finding a woman that wants to be bound to your hip 24/7 cause it ain't happening

>>690017615
This is the one! Listen to this one.

>>690017869
I may be dumb, but I'm not that dumb. We all know how that would play out

>>690016698
This
By the time you've been together 10 years you forget these things because they're so engrained

>>690017887
Today? None. But to be fair I wasn't trying to save any. But in my whole life I have saved one. At least that's what she said to me a few years ago after we broke up. But I must circumvent that this was at my own expense.

>>690012054
Honestly you just sound like a boring guy. You're asking her what she wants to talk about and leaving long silences in the conversation. Sounds like she is bored and unless you get interesting fast get ready to be dropped for Tyrone.

>>690017962
No. But were talking about a simple phone call.....?

>>690016737
We've lived together in a 600 sq foot apartment for half of college
Ain't no thang

>>690018323
I'm counting the time until 10 years hit us. Trust me anon, that will definitely not happen to us. I know what to do if shit hits the wall

>>690014416
>Then every woman for the rest of your life is going to do this to you.
>Men are such pushovers nowadays.
speak for yourself, OP is a whiny little bitch and this girl is going to be off fucking the first badboy archetype that walks in her direction(if she's already not doing so)


Here's a little brain buster for the lot of you potential wizards. Relationships are not like what you see on television, the typical highschool or university girl is not interested in your fucking feelings, they don't want to hear about or have to validate your insecurity. If you get feely wheely before you get the pussy, you're never getting the pussy.

"Women want a man with confidence" is up there in the top list of cliche things to say, but it's fucking true. Women don't want OP, they don't want someone who is a passive/docile pushover who won't even defend his own fucking opinion. A woman doesn't want someone who is going to fall right into their world and pick up their hobbies/habits.

Try having some self respect, have your own hobbies, and be firm in your opinion(s) just in general.

Op is already dumped, he just hasn't realized it yet.

>>690018597

But surely there were times when you were apart, and chose to be apart? Correct?

>>690012054
And the ugly people losers try to look powerful and attractive but is fat and ugly like the ugly Virgo women loser that get ugly help to be better then the popular people And that's why the ugly people losers are pathatic and is ugly as shit and smell like shit like beyonce and is ugly And that's why the ugly guys losers is ugly as shit And is ugly as shit and pathatic and the ugly guys losers is going to ignore the attrative loser people that say ugly guys losers is ugly cause the ugly guys losers like ugly hippo loser women and that's why the ugly guys losers is funny looking and is ugly as shit and that's why the ugly guys losers group or ugly people losers is ugly as shit and thats why the ugly guys losers is ugly as shit cause lie that there ugly and the ugly guys losers lie that the ugly guys losers that is ugly as shit dont smel llike dog shit like Beyonce and the ugly guys losers is ugly as shit and thats why i hate the ugly guys losers ugly as shit face
thats why the ugly guys losers is ugly as shit and get rejected by the popular people cause is ugly as shit

>>690018434
This. It's her way of showing you she's getting irritated.

>>690012054
And the ugly people losers try to look powerful and attractive but is fat and ugly like the ugly Virgo women loser that get ugly help to be better then the popular people And that's why the ugly people losers are pathatic and is ugly as shit and smell like shit like beyonce and is ugly And that's why the ugly guys losers is ugly as shit And is ugly as shit and pathatic and the ugly guys losers is going to ignore the attrative loser people that say ugly guys losers is ugly cause the ugly guys losers like ugly hippo loser women and that's why the ugly guys losers is funny looking and is ugly as shit and that's why the ugly guys losers group or ugly people losers is ugly as shit and thats why the ugly guys losers is ugly as shit cause lie that there ugly and the ugly guys losers lie that the ugly guys losers that is ugly as shit dont smel llike dog shit like Beyonce and the ugly guys losers is ugly as shit and thats why i hate the ugly guys losers ugly as shit face
thats why the ugly guys losers is ugly as shit and get rejected by the popular people cause is ugly as shit
and thats why the ugly guys losers smell like shit like Beyonce fucken the ugly guys losers is ugly as shit and tell people what to do but the ugly guys losers is ugly as shit
and the ugly guys losers is ugly as shit and try to hurt the popular people when is waiting for the popular people to be weak
and try to hurt the popular people even if the ugly guys losers cant hurt other people that hate the ugly guys losers or the popular people

>>690018549

Meant for the white knight, not op

>>690018814
I agree with this guy.

>>690017345
You can't read can you
I've never had an uncomfortable silence
Deal wid it

>>690019213
I am white knight..... And I repeat, this discussion was about a phone call gone wrong. Not some girls night out scenario?

>>690017487
Nigga you don't even know who you're arguing with

>>690019213
Also on another note: You say white knight like it's a bad thing? Girls want a nice guy. They also want a mean guy. They want everything because they are bipolar. And they will switch up on you all the time. So be ready to morph /b/ro

>>690019683
I wouldn't argue with you. Because you're a nigger.

>>690019451

So that brings it to the phone call,

If she doesn't want to talk, how is that any different from her wanting a girls night out? Does that mean she isn't in love with you? Fuck no, it means she's got her own shit to do

>>690019712

Women want a man who is stable and driven.

Girls want presents and whatever dumb shit you're on about.

>>690017569
Nigga I've been in the same one for 10 years
Suck ma balls