OP. Do not ever shit where you eat. Ever.

Nah fuck that go for it man - My gf atm used to work with me

>>685018264
did she have a boyfriend before she met you ?

>>685018264

>used to

>>685018264
also am currently with my gf whom was my manager. we got fire for it but twas worth.

>>685018506
She did when we started flirting, she left him though then I jumped in after a while, so cant help bro...

>>685017871
shes just stringing you on for a bit of banter mate

>>685017871
I too have been successful. And nonw of you are answering the question...

Easy. Become friends. Drink, hang out, etc. It is a risky gsme to play, and i wont lie, i got real lucky.

Good luck

>has a boyfriend
you dont

>>685018973
I have a good thing going with her at the moment. Im at a point where i give her a lift back home after work and we have a good laugh in the car, seems like she enjoys my company, but im just afraid im the dude that gives her lifts and then her boyfriend is riding her before bed.

1. You are an asshole for breaking the bro code.

2. When a woman flirts with you more than once, she's basically rolling out the red carpet for sex.

If trips, post a pic of yourself with a timestamp.

Post more pics of slutty co-worker.

>>685019392
is it summer already ?

Let me make this as easy as possible for you to understand.

1. Girls are attention seeking whores. She's flirting because she wants attention, not because she likes you.

2. She keeps her distance occasionally because she has no use for you. She also keeps you clingy that way, but more importantly because at that point in time she has no use for you. You are disposable.

3. You are over analyzing and depending on where you work or how important your job is, you sound like a complete beta for chasing this girl. Only a beta would put something of their own on the line for a girl.

>>685019798
yes it is you giant shitposting faggot

>>685019982
amen

>>685019798
tell your whore of a mother to keep her legs closed

>>685019982
Wise anon, follow his advice and don't waste your time with the attention whore.

>>685019982
Incorrect, the only reason im chasing her is because I really think iv a chance. Both of us are french and her boyfriend is english, so already iv an advantage because of the language barrier. It soo much easier to express how she feels in her first language to me then her boyfriend in english.

>>685019289
>afraid i'm the dude that gives her lifts and then her boyfriend is riding her before bed
Reasonable fear anon, mostly because that's exactly what's happening.

>>685019289
>but im just afraid im the dude that gives her lifts and then her boyfriend is riding her before bed.
thats because you are

>>685018587
> twas
Kill yourself and your family please

>>685020439
then you sound like you just want someone to tell you to do it.

still beta bro.

>>685019289
>but im just afraid im the dude that gives her lifts and then her boyfriend is riding her before bed

Don't be afraid, it's exactly what you think. She IS riding him before bed and you ARE just the guy who's giving her lifts. But guess what? It doesn't have to be that way.

>Touch her, give her a move warm hand on the back, always advancing more and more. A brisk embrace, a long hug, start hugging her lower on her back. Make eye contact and smile genuinely. Don't seem needy though, always point your torso away from her, still maintain the attention and smiles, but don't open your body to her. She will read this as needy. Eventually you'll come to a point where she opens up about shit her boyfriend and how she has problems and they fight etc.

At this point you will start to be "the guy she'd rather be with". She'll start to reciprocate the embraces. She'll start to do things she would do with a guy when she didn't/ like she didn't when she had a boyfriend.

Good luck, and happy funking

>>685017871
fucking a bro's girl is bad karma. hope you end up raising a kid that isn't yours.

>>685021472
Yeah you are right, sounds beta as fuck, I just want thought that some anon will give me a good reason not to do it.

>>685020439

Not the guy you replied to, but...

I think the anon you just replied to is absolutely right. A whole LOT of girls play with men like that; they like the attention and the feeling of being desired. Don't let your infatuation with this girl get in the way of you seeing that. So yeah, I think the advice you stated is "incorrect" is actually probably spot on.

Let's say it isn't though. Let's say she leaves her boyfriend and gets with you. She left someone for you, do you really want to date someone that isn't loyal? A good rule is that if she left someone for you, she'll probably leave you for someone else, down the road. And being French won't change that.

Let's say you don't date, but you hook up. You have no idea if down the road, she'll feel guilty and tell her boyfriend. Then you've got to deal with him and I don't think you want to be in that situation. And don't tell me you know she wouldn't do this, that's just idealizing.

Just let her go, man. If her relationship ends at some point, then fine, go after her. She's got a boyfriend though and messing with a girl in a relationship is never a good idea. Notice I say "girl" and not "woman." You've got to up your standards a bit, man. Girls that play games like this aren't worth your time.

>>685021877
This. So much this. OP and every other beta should read this.

don't confuse her being a nice person with her flirting with you.

>>685021788
>>685021877

Two completely different advices but both valid. although
>>685021877
this anon seems to be on to something. waiting until she breaks up with her boyfriend without you interfering is the best you can do at the moment

I'm in the same kinda predicament, advice would be appreciated.

>be me
>work full time at grocery store because i have no talents
>work with cute 9/10 brunette
>she's two years younger than me
>works one or two days a week and goes to school
>know she'll be working here for at least one more year
>she's always giving me drity looks and flirting with me whenever we run into each other at work(big place and i'm usually in the back lifting milk)
>Anytime she's close enough to me, she touches my arm and holds on to it
>never seen her do it to anyone else
>always latches on to me during "company events"
>we get along really well
>she has bf tho
>skinny fag who's 3 years younger than me whom i used to rip off for cheap weed a couple years back
>she has a german exam coming up
>I am fluent in german because i used to live there
>casually mention it to her
>next day get a text
>"can you help me study for my german exam?"
>yes
>Going to her house on sunday to help her study

I'm unsure if she just wants help with her german, or if she wants something more. what do anons?

>>685021877
Thanks anon, I needed someone to say this!

>>685019289
that's how it should be you faglord.

>>685021833

I was (and still am) madly in love with my manager when I had a retail job. She had a boyfriend and eventually got engaged. I was too insecure to really flirt or make a move back then and just let it pass. I really regret not trying something or not at least being more confident with myself.

basically if you cant envision your life without her you need to try for your own peace of mind.

Anons here are right though. Girls love attention and you could easily be over thinking shit. If shes ever got physically close (touching your arms, hugging etc) to you then that's usually a sign that it's a bit more then attention.

>>685018714
Is your name Jim Halpert?

>>685017871
Nah dude.

>>685018045
This.

>>685022677
Whats the worse that will happen, Ill just end up having another friend right ?

>>685022516
help her with german

>>685023089
^

>>685022516
I used to work with this girl that bearly ever talked to me but during staff party she was all over me when she was drunk, ended up riding her at her place and she even texted me the following morning to meet up for coffee and I just changed numbers. I dont know if thats any help to you, but if u want to ride her just make it obvious

>>685022911
Real advice.

>>685022516
she's sounds like a slut tbqh.

>>685023021
Well if you consider yourself friends already then yea probably, this won't get you a friend lol

>>685023554
well, she is sort of a slut tbqh, but i don't really give a shit. it's not like she's gonna be the mother of my children, just something to keep me occupied for a while. I'm sick of being alone.

>>685024230
help her with her fucking german and see what happens

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>>685026230
this guy is right, you should listen to him dude

>>685018045
This, /thread, sage

>>685017871
Going for a girl with a boyfriend, you neckbeards always auprise me. I hope he fuckin beats your ass. Shes probly not even flirting with you faggot

>>685021833
Here's a reason for you. Married fag, fucked every receptionist\ secretary I could for ten years. One day go to 4chan, see wife sucking dick in my house on my bed.

>>685018714
Enjoy it while it lasts my cuckish friend.

Woman who cheat statistically continue to do so.

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>>685024987
Oh that is just fucking hilarious.

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>>685017871
she's probably just trying to be nice.
just because someone is nice to you doesn't mean they're interested in you, you sad fuck

>>685021833
Well, knowing she has a bf totally fucks with ethics. But is he your bro? No.. so there you go. I just wouldn't date the bitch if she leaves him for you.

Be careful too, if the bf finds out he could be retarded and blame you, putting you up for an ass kicking.. or worse, depending on his mental stability.

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>>685025541
This