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Sounds shitty man. Listening to advise from a socially inept retard, but either sort things out with her or end it.

>>677889956

>she gets a pain everytime

You gotta use more lube on that anus, bro.

OP, on some real shit you gotta get her in check and I don't mean beat her. Just take her pussy or ass when you want it. She will go with the flow and like it. Every girl likes it, he'll every girl I've been with liked it. Even my current girlfriend. You must take that pussy like a man and own it.

>>677890760
I wish we did anal.

>>677889956
Leave her, find someone else, get all the affection you need.

had a friend in a relationship, not exactly, but like this. Got with girl, turns out she's not affectionate at all - no PDA, lazy to make plans or text/call, barely hug/hold hands/kiss, didn't work out.

>>677891882
we're currently at the 9 month mark, thinking of breaking it up and moving back to my hometown, I mean I already masturbate regularly and we don't have sex. So...

>>677889956
She's cheating on you with someone else or planning on it. Dump her.

>>677889956
not worth the trouble dude. let her leave. call her bluff and if she does come back then make it blatantly clear shit has to change

OP, don't limit yourself. Seek girls that are into open relationships and fuck all of them. You will find that care is something that you get more of the more people you are close with. Thinking that having a monopoly on someone will give you more care is bullshit, it'll just cause you guys to grow tired of each other.

>>677892183
samefagging to say also
>>>677892163

I was in a position like this, and I advise you do what I did and dump that cold bitch. You deserve someone more affectionate than a teddy bear.

Go to the source OP. Whether it's an infection or infestation or spilled milk or your shitty gf, it works.

Find the source of the pain, or find out why she avoids you. And once you've found the source, treat it.

And OP, be ready for some devastating shit. I don't mean break ups or shit like that, I mean real bad news. If it is pain she may have an STD or has experienced rape.

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>>677891820
>>677892163
>>677892183
Honestly this

If she's losing interest or there's none to be found, she's either cheating or does not like you. If you said you tried to turn her around and nothing worked, cut it off.

>>677892648
Not OP, but from the story it sounds like a teddy bear is more affectionate anon.

>>677889956
How about you just leave her, she's clearly disgusted and/or repulsed by you. Rate yourself 1-10.. honestly. Short, fat, balding? part-time job? what?

>>677889956
The "pain" she's referring to is guilt. Mostly over the fact that she's fucking someone else already. Take her advice. Leave and find someone better for you.

>>677893630
I think this is right. A lot of people express the truth in their lies.

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>>677889956
Your a cuck lol. Shes at my place atm. Suckin and fucking.
>mfw she rides me

>>677889956

>was married for 7 years
>4 great ones, 3 shitty ones
>see 3 marriage counselors, 2 of them try to fuck wife
>don't want to let it go, thiswilllastforever.jpg.
>visiting her family out of town one weekend
>having beers with her dad on deck talking about it
>he sits for a while thinking, then turns to me and says this
>when the affection is gone the relationship is over
>boom, head shot - her dad gets right to the core of it
>we split up a few weeks later

>>677889956
it hurts? are you packing a 9" thunderstick or can you not turn her on and she's just dry as a fucking desert?

>>677893630
yes.this.
OP is getting cucked. That bitch and her fucker are probably laughing their asses off to you right this moment.
They probably laugh at your tiny dick every time they fuck too.

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you should probably show her my sound cloud

www.soundcloud.com/revazz

>>677894727
definite cuck

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>>677889956
>yeah, but does your mouth hurt?

"How about i just leave and you can find someone else to get all the affection you need"

Dude, this is what you want. Anybody who holds a relationship hostage and storms out when you're trying to discuss things is not someone you want to relate with..

>>677895015
OP is gone. Hopefully he offs himself, because I can't live in a world believing someone is THIS beta.

/thread

>>677895015
> holds a relationship hostage
100% with this anon. Ultimatums are impossible traps and will ultimately be the poison that kills your relationship, assuming the lack of affection fails the task. Leave and be done with it.

>>677895503
op is still here...

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>>677889956

Been in this same situation. She likes somebody else and may or may not be banging them. Best to cut it off now bud.

This is worth watching.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJ7LdrAqL0Y

>>677889956
find someone else to get all the affection you need

>>677889956
Let her leave.

You've stated your problem and she isn't interested in helping resolve it. Plus from your account she doesn't sound happy either. You guys sound plain incompatible.

>>677891384
This

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>>677891384

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>>677889956
Dude I dated a girl like that and it sucked. We dated for 7 months. I know what you mean by lacking affection. Sometimes it's not even about the sex but you'd like a hug after work or something.

Now I've been with a girl for 2 years who's very affectionate and the sex is good.

Dump your gf and find someone else

>>677889956
Man up and ignore her?
Women tend to dislike people who seem overly needy.

>>677889956
She is cheating on you... Simple as that... You choose what to do with that information... Have fun

>>677889956
what you have is a selfish bitch. her only reason for being with you is that you...
>A:Pay for nearly everything
>B:Have a vehicle and she doesn't
>C:Are providing her shelter
>D:All of the above

Simple. Do as she says. She already gave you the answer, bro.

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>>677889956
Break up with her.

>>677889956

>"How about i just leave and you can find someone else to get all the affection you need"

OK, genuinely, this anon has been happily married for years, NO female here hate at all... that was the wrong fucking answer. If her reaction isn't to try and understand more and then fix the problems you guys got then you might as well call it a day.

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hate to tell you but she is cheating. shocker

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>>677897588
this man has dubs, and is 100% right. dump her ass

>>677889956
Dump her like a bag of unwanted puppy dogs

my girlfriend does the same things, is she cheating on me or am I just being a silly paranoid idiot?

>>677889956
Literally just went through the same thing. Tell her you feel unloved. if that doesn't make her change her ways, fuck that slophole

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>>677889956
Leave that cunt mayne, why stress over someone who doesnt show you love

>>677900403

Shes cheating or is bored and the relationship has run its course. On to the next one mate.

>>677889956
I don't usually respond to threads often, but felt this was needed.

OP, if you're reading this, I recommend trying to have a proper conversation with her (but it sounds like you have)
if she can't be an adult about it and speak about why she is this way, then it's time to move on.

I'm going to take a gamble and say you're young, I myself am 22, I've been with a girl who was like you describe in that area, it only went downhill. If she won't adjust such an offstandish behaviour, then it's not worth it for your own sanity.

Never say "I can't leave her" - You have to for yourself. Trust in these feels from somebody who has had pain caused by a bitch.

Sincerely yours,
A fgt on /b/.

>>677900403
Mate this is 4chan, dont take owt setiously

My mrs isnt that affectionate, we kiss when i go to work, sometimes we fuck 3/4 times a week, sometimes we fuck once every 3 weeks, i just go with the flow, smoke a lot of weed with her and have a laugh

We had sex tonight, lasted for two hours, had a 2 min cuddle then she went to bed, perfect

>>677901440
the problem is we've already taken a break before... for 3 months.

>>677901440
Same guy here,

Also should note, I got out of there too late and got hurt, now settled with somebody who is completely different, yet everything I've wanted. Everything I thought I wanted in my previous was wrong, you'll change and your partner will change, only the strong ones survive that transition. Very rare from what I know.

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>>677889956
>http://analonlytrainer.tumblr.com/

I'm just gonna leave this here.

>>677901624

Why did you take the break? Do you tell her what you want out of this relationship? how does she react?

>>677901624
Same guy you replied to here-
A break is not the answer. The answer is a full split-up. If she doesn't make you happy bro, don't stay. Think about it like this, you only get precious time on this earth and having conciousness, a precious average of 60 - 80 years, do you wanna waste even 1% on that on somebody who makes you feel unloved?...

I think you know the answer bro, hope this helps to some degree.

>>677889956

relationships are about give and take and in any healthy relationship you have to be able to express your concerns and desires

it's possible you were a dick in how you brought it up but only you'd know that

but if she can't fulfill your needs and isn't willing to work to address it then fuck that bitch and move on

Dude, she simply does not love you and you are not getting the clues.
Sorry.
If in the end you break up with her just remember that she will always make it sound like it was your fault, don't believe it.

>>677891384
lol when called rapist on faceboook

>>677901922
This was me-

>>677902248
Not the way I'd word it, but never the less very solid advice. Would recommend taking this guys words into consideration also.

>>677893094
big deal.
just leave.
dont wait around for someone to love you like you need only for everyone to be unhappy and then she leaves cuz lol unhappy

>>677894245
super dope dad inlaw

>>677889956
Fucking dump her you retard

dump that bitch faggot dont /b/ a pussy

>>677889956

She's banging someone else. Dump.

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>>677894245

Sounds like a based god.

>>677892163
This. Hate to say it OP but bail.

>>677889956
hes probably cheating and found someone else to sexually please her. real question is...why is she still with you then?

>>677889956
>storms out saying "How about i just leave and you can find someone else to get all the affection you need"

She seems to be the smart one in this relationship. She is right, you should leave her.

>>677901624
Again. Either show her you don't give a shit, or move on.
Given what youve said there are no real alternatives.
If you really want her, ignore her, dont be so needy and emotional. Shove that shit down the depths of your soul and show her you are indifferent.

If that does not work, which it should.
Then "take another break" and sleep around or at least fake it. Hang out with other females in a manner to where she will find out. Her natural jealousy will kick in and want what the other girl has and try to get you back. Dont leap at the chance, but dont close the door. Slowly ease ur way in.
This would be the very last step you could do before actually ending it.

>>677889956
Leave her. Immediately.

>>677900403
Cheating broseph.

>>677903381
sleep tight egger

>>677889956
Ive been there /b/ro. it doesn't get any better. your best bet is to dump her and try and move on. it will be shit for a while, but trust me , being single is better than that.

Leave her ASAP.
But knowing /b/ OPs, you'll obviously stay with her and continue your shit tier relationship.

>go to walmart
>buy new door lock
>put her shit outside, put her outside
>lock her out

>>677889956
Lock the door
download tinder
get swipping

>>677889956
take her advice

>>677905820

Dont do that. Dress good. Smell good. Go out and approach chicks. Be confident as fuck and it will just happen. Fake it till yuo become it.

>>677889956
We've got the consensus anon, the bitch just doesn't like you. She's stringing you along as a saftey net (I don't know why women do this shit but they'll keep a worthless relationship going just to be in one, flogging a dead horse) but almost certainly fucking somebody else. That or she's just a cold bitch. Either way, you sound like you're slightly more demanding of confirmation and this chick isn't going to do it for you. Take control of your life and end this shit before you get hurt by her confirming she's been cucking you.
The dog is dead man.

>>677889956
OP... maybe your dick is too big for her =/.
I know plenty of women who say that too big of a cock hurts them and becomes a turn off.

If this is the case, then you could definitely get it to work for you.

>>677889956
She's cheating on you.

Op here again, I think I'm getting the vibe that you want me to an hero?
Or is that just because OP is always a faggot?

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>>677889956
>no sex
>no huggie wuggies
>no smoochies

What is she good for find a new gf

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Find someone else to get the affection you need, don't waste time on that bitch.

>>677908014
How big is your cock?
Does she actually seem to care about you?
Are you attractive?

>>677889956
Do exactly that. Cast her aside like the harpy she is.

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OP HERE, Ask me anything

>>677908310
6" x 4.5" girth
yes, my pc died and she took the money out of her grandmothers inheritance in her savings account to buy me new parts
I've been told I have attractive eyes and I'm a bear (no homo)

Bump.

Wow. I'm married, 5 years, same situation with my wife. Just not interested. Ignores me when I initiate sex; used to fuck like a maniac, begged for anal, etc. Now, haven't fucked in 2 months.
I've been looking for other places to live, thinking of divorce, just makes me sick to think of, because I do love her and she's my best friend. But I can't tolerate feeling like a spurned 9th grader.