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My girlfriend makes me pay for a lot of stupid shit, like Christmas
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My girlfriend makes me pay for a lot of stupid shit, like Christmas vacation, roadtrips, etc.

At Christmas I spent $2400 on her. She had to spend $350.

2 weeks ago I spent $1500 on a road trip to see my mom, with a rental car, with her, where she got free food and accomodation for 3 days.

She didn't chip in at all.

Now she wants me to pay for my fucking hotel room/casino venture for my birthday, in Niagara Falls. She says she needs to "save money for her Financial Manager license" at her place of work.

How do I tell this bitch to smarten the fuck up and chip in before I dump her ass?
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Punch her in the face
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Do something along the lines of, "Shit ain't cheap bitch, being together means together you should pay" Luckily me and my girlfriend pay for things alternatingly, but good luck bro
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>>674265308
>My girlfriend makes me pay

99 problems
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>>674265308
Lol whatever you do OP don't marry this bitch.
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OP you're a retard and this is completely your fault. Man up and fucking lay down the law.
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>>674265308
What brand of squint is she? Chink?
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Idk man that is a fine Lucy Liu lookin bitch make sure you try your best to persuade her cus if you dump her, someone else will definitely pay for her, at least for a little while.
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really...nobody sees the resembelence?
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>>674265308
my girlfriend does the opposite. she a feminist, but shes not the type you see in the u.s.

so she does not see sexism in movies or video games, but instead she thinks "i have to prove I can hold my own"

this has resulted in her paying for like, everything.
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>>674266012
this so much and I'm not even samefagging

fuck her or whatever but don't fucking marry this piece of shit whore
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>>674265308
Just ask her if she likes being a whore. Then point out with the amount of money you spend on her for pussy privledges....that it would be cheaper to rent a hooker with aids and you would live longer.
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You ever hear that song that goes "your daddy's rich and your mommas good lookin'"?

It's really not a song. It's the fabric that holds what remains of western civilization together.

Just go with the flow OP
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kill the bitch
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>>674265308

I think she is already plenty smart, getting a sucker like you to pay for all that shit.
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>>674265741

Been there, done that. Doesn't work.

>>674266012

Yeah, tell me about it. She made me open up a fucking joint account at the bank where she works, where I contribute 100 a month to our future, as if there's going to be one.

>>674266108

I see your point and share your sentiments. I should have had more of a spine.

>>674266137

Yes.

>>674266183

Lol Like I give a fuck.
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>>674265308

unionville, faggot went to markville
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>>674266486

Wow, didn't expect anyone with any semblance of a thought process here.

Also, oldfag detected.
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>>674266511

OP here - yeah, I'm beginning to feel like a fucking sucker. I gotta back the fuck out asap, otherwise I wouldn't be here asking for advice.

>>674266496

... no.

>>674266427

Kek.

>>674266369

Yes, agreed.
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>>674266486
Yeah, go with the flow OP.
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>>674266580

Haha good eye. Yeah, we don't live too far from it.
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>>674265308
tell her she has to smarten up or you'll dump her ass

tell her to at least pay for her own half of the niagara trip or she doesnt get to go

the thought of you getting drunk and partying without her will probably drive her mad to the point that she'll fucking pay
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It's not hard OP. To be honest a woman like that isn't worth it and seems like she's with you for financial reasons. Ask yourself this, "would she stay if I was making the same her?". If you're dead set on dating her I would just bring up politely and tell her she needs to start pulling her weight and pay for her own expenses. If you think you can't have an honest convo with her about it then leave her.
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If dubs tell her to smarten the fuck and chip in before you dump her ass.
For real tho, just tell her that in nicer terms Shit won't work if bitch won't pay.
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>>674265308
>>674266349
Why can't you guys just be honest against your girlfriends and fucking TALK.
Communication is key in a relationship.
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>>674266486

Hush little baby, don't you cry.
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>>674266824
>>674266486
>>674266673

Fuck. That.

I'll die before I tie the knot or have kids.
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>women are a financial burden

You're only now realising this?
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Don't take advice from /b/, so basically kill her or talk to her. It's literally your only choices.
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>>674266933
This all the way. I have never had a problem with bringing this up with past girlfreinds I was in serious relationships with. If it's a problem and she gets pissed she is just with you to get a free ride
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Fuck the bitch with your Money Dick
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>>674266525
Drain the account an hour before you dump her
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>>674266933

OP here. My girlfriend is a whiny, temperamental, moody bitch. I could talk, sure, and I've tried, but all she does is go into full on silent pout mode and lock herself in the front room of the house with her phone and some fucking wine.

Seriously.
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>>674266525

10/10 would wife and kill self after she takes all my money in the divorce
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OP just admit you're here to vent your relationship problems which you're absolutely going to do nothing about. Admit that after this thread is 404'd, you'll go back to your gold-digging whore of a girlfriend and keep lining her cunt with gold, because you're too afraid to break it off with her or even talk to her about it.

The fact that you've been conditioned into paying for your OWN BIRTHDAY is telling of how much of a pussy you are.
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It means she doesn't really care that much about you and is just using you for finical reasons. Once she's done with w/e she will dump you and date a richer man.
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>>674265308
Send her link to this thread.
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>>674266933

That will never ever work.

See here:

>>674267387

She's a full on princess. She's totally incapable of intellectual conversation. Unfortunately, I found that out too late into the relationship, past the point of moving in with her. She put on a good act beforehand though.
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>>674267030
>I'll die before I tie the knot or have kids.

If this is the case, forget what I said here>>674266486

If passing on your genetic code and helping raise stable, heathy offspring is not your goal, then 1) idk what you're doing in a relationship and 2) straight up tell her you ain't paying for more than half of shit anymore. In an ideal society, makin. The pretty girl happy and want to stay with you means your genetic code will live on. If you dont care about kids, what's to loose in pissing her off?
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>>674265308

Just refuse to pay for it all, she will throw a lot of shit your way.

"Is money all you care about?"
"Does money mean more than our time together?"

All these years of fedora wearing white knights have ruined it for us. It's YOUR birthday, stay home and eat taco bell if you want.
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>>674267430

I'm not conditioned into paying for my own birthday. That's why I'm here.

I refuse to do it.
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Also

>Dating asians
>Ever

Their women are fucking infamous for having princess complexes, they expect to have their ass wiped 24/7.
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Stop paying for shit. Simple as that. Tell her straight up she needs to contribute. I've been in the same boat OP
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Is everyone here retarded. this nigga chose to spend that much on his bitch. and expects her to pay for a trip to see HIS mom and HIS vacation.

but oh yea fuck women they are evil
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>>674266525
Just from the way you answered these questions OP, and from both of your facial expressions in the picture it's pretty obvious you are a really nice guy that's getting taken advantage of pretty bad. If I ever had a gf tell me to make a joint bank account I would break it off immediately. That's a really good sign she is only interested in the money
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>>674267676

My buddies wanna get me drunk and take me to the strippers. I told her I want a threesome and for her to at least split the costs for my birthday trip.

She doesn't like the sounds of either.

And truth be told, if she doesn't like it, too bad, it's happening.

I wanna find a way to put my foot down and say to her in a respectful way that it's my way or the fucking highway.
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>>674265705
>>674266183
Ricky + Lucy Liu otp?
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>>674267859

You're an idiot. She wants a fucking future and won't chip in to pay for OP's trip to see her potential future mother in law? Fuck her.

She won't chip in for his birthday? Fuck her.

You're the only retard nigga in this thread

>mfw you're actually a fucking sjw defending a chink
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>>674265308
How about you get the fuck off four chan you fucking normie. REEEEEEEEEEEEEEe
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My girlfriends a nurse making 45 an hour and i work part time min wage. She always pays for me and it doesnt bother her at all. If your girl actually makes money she needs to chip in or you should just find a different girl. Tell her, Im going to Niagara falls alone and meet new people. Stop paying for her if shes actually able to pay. You guys arnt married so she needs to stop acting like you guys are
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>>674267949
Tell her that she needs to realise that you cant afford to keep paying for everything and that you need her support to keep doing it. Then if she denies just drain the account in front of her and dump her.
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>>674267924

Damn son this hits me in the feels. My boss tells me the same shit, but I met him through her, whom he was friends with first.

I'm afraid that if I give up the relationship with her, I'll lose my job as well.
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>>674265956
And my bitch be one
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asians are the biggest golddiggers
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>>674268484

Gold skin = gold purse
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>>674267387
What you got here OP an entitled little princess. Been there done that, cost me a bit of coin for pretty ordinary pussy. I thought because she was hot and that that it projected a great image. Deep down I was dying being robbed of my manhood. Sent her packing, told her she had drained me of life force.
Now with a real hot but down to earth chick.
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How about you don't date dumb goldiggers? But I'm sure u love yourself a good ol trophy wife right? Fucking yuppie
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>>674265308
I won't even date a girl that expects me to pay for fucking everything. Sure, when I take her out for a nice meal or shopping on a special occasion, I'll pay out the nose. But something like a road trip to see her mother (which I'm assuming you probably really didn't even want to do), fuck that. I'll give her some gas money maybe and she can do the rest.

My most recent ex was the easiest damn girl ever to please. A $10 movie and a good home cooked meal and she'd suck my dick til she ran out of oxygen.

It's okay to spend money on your woman, but (over)paying for everything, every time is out of the question, bro. I'd dump that bitch if I were you.
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>>674266580

GTA reporting in
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>>674267430
Agreed you'll doing nothing to fix your shit
>beta cuck
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op you are a real zero and an insult to real men everywhere! gd luck faggot
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>>674268778
Well said. Fuck fake bitches, find someone who actually enjoys your goddamn company, because nobody wants to constantly feel the need to spend money on a girl on the chance they may leave them.

/rant
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>>674267387
>>674267579
It doesn't matter if she talks or not. The first thing you have to do is at least try to say that it is a problem. When she doesn't engage in a conversation, you bring that up AS WELL and say that a relationship is not going to work that way. Then the outcome depends on her response. If she agrees and actively tries to do something about it you can go on with the relationship. If she still does not respond properly, you quit.
Simple as that.
Just say that communation is key (i did that to my girlfriend and she wholly agrees)
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>>674266525
Bro you're stupid as fuck. She's profiting from your dumbass
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For reals op you two are a team but shes the fucking owner! u just a towl boy
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>>674265308
She's got a tight grip on your balls in her handbag.
You got nothing
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>>674266525
Dude, you have to break up with her. Why are you putting yourself through all this. Just drop it.
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wtf is wrong with you motherfuckers...judging without nudes ??? .
need more pictures sir.
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>>674265308
*sighs* Damn it /b/ro.

1) Tell her that you're tired of wasting money and that it's going to end now.

2) Tell her if she's going to expect all these frivolous spending, then you're going to expect anal from her. And not "we'll try it and see if you like it" anal, but "I'm going to turn your asshole into a Chinese finger trap" anal.

3) Tell her that you're not going to blow senseless amounts of money on her anymore, that you have other things you need to get paid off first.

or

4) If she wants to keep living with all these unnecessary spendings, then she's going to have to pay half of it from now on.

If you don't drop this shit now anon, she's just going to use you until she gets her license and then find a reason to break up with you and make it seem like it's your fault. Which, you'll probably believe because you didn't want to lose her. And blame yourself thinking if you did what ever she wanted that she'd still be with you.

I'm tell you /b/ro. This is nothing but bad news of it doesn't stop. Believe me when I say, if she doesn't agree with any of these, then it's best to ditch her ass now then you wait on her hand and foot and costs you tens of thousands of dollars only for her to leave you high and dry. And with nothing to show for it.
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>>674268615
i dont understand
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>>674265308
It's your own fault OP. You've been enabling her by giving into all that shit.

If my gf wanted me to spend that kind of money on her and wasn't fair about it I'd dump her, and you should do the same because she'll keep doing this shit forever.
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>>674269401
>>674269075
>>674268945

>samefagging

Clearly OP isn't a cuck or he wouldn't be here asking for advice on how to put his bitch in line.

OP, best step? Leave in the middle of the night while she's asleep. Drain the account.
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I'm a rich kid so I don't mind paying for my girlfriends, my ex went over the line and was acting entitled to the weed I bought like she'd die without it and even had a breakdown cuz I tried to smoke without her once cuz she was being a bitch. Broke that off after it got out of hand and she tried to move in to my house lol nope. This new one is way chill I'm like opposite vibe op I want to take her out and buy her nice things, albeit I'm not spending thousands
>yet
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Asian women are ruthless bruh, the majority only give a fuck about your bank balance.

Maybe you should test her and somehow blag that you're low on dollar or whatever, see how she responds.
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Op, youre the only persob on this board that understands your financial and intimate situation.

If you got the money, and its easy to shell it out and the pussy is worth it than keep on doing it. If she is draining you dry than you need to find compromises.
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>>674265308
Are you pissed because you have to pay for your own stuff?

Are you a woman?
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I'm sorry but you are the moron who "gets what he paid for".

In all honesty that woman is the best you will ever do in your entire life because at the price you are paying her anyone could and she chooses to be with you.

Grow a pair. Man the fuck up.
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Dude clean out the joint account and bye bye Felicia!
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>>674265308
>At Christmas I spent $2400 on her. She had to spend $350.

Why did you spend so much? It sounds like you're just a faggot tbqh.
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>>674269772
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>>674266824
Exactly this
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lol your a faggot op.
so what your saying is you want ur gf to be richer?
do you not care for her other than money?

stop going on such expensive fucking trips for fuck sake. smarten the fuck up and spend less.
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>>674270238
most likely jewelry
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>>674269772
This is me, OP. More advice.

>>674266525
Extract all that money that is your own from the joint account and put it in a personal account. She's going to rob you blind anon.
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Lmfao shes going to blow all your money and dump you when shes satisfied with her savings. Let her go bro.
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>>674265588
Yep, there's really no other solution
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>>674270072

I'm pissed cause I pay for fucking everything. Groceries, trips, meals out, transportation.

I'm sick of covering this chicks bills, but like I said, I'm also afraid of losing my job because of I leave her, I don't know whose side my boss will take.
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>>674266525
OP you evidently know what you must do - that much is obvious from your comments here and, indeed, from the fact you started this thread in the first place.

If you are unable to have a blunt conversation with her about the finances then you clearly don't have much of a foundation for a long-lasting relationship - much less a marriage.

That said, do you currently earn substantially more than her? Is it possible that she misunderstands your financial situation and/or you have a pre-existing understanding about money that you have forgotten / misunderstood? e.g. did you guys ever talk about supporting each other through professional qualifications?

TBH, the examples you gave were one-offs and pretty paltry sums. Are you being a tightwad here, looking to build more evidence against her by getting /b/ to take the bait - or is she being a real parasite?
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so uh...any more pics of her OP?

she's pretty damn hot, I understand why you've been paying up so far

well I mean there's probably cheaper ones but still
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>>674265308
>674265308
she looks like an entitled whore
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>>674265308
Dude. I had your exact problem. Was working in a lumber mill and my then-girlfriend was working as an admin assistant at the school district. I was paying for fucking EVERYTHING because she was saving to go to school for her CPA. It will NEVER change. You need to get rid of her ass.
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> My girlfriend makes me pay

hahaha faggit
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Bro she's chinese, they're frugal af. I.e. cheap as shit. She won't pay and she'll be offended if you ask her. That's like chinese and western tradition. She's your bitch, you pay. Stuff like money ruins relationships. If you don't pick a girl who's down to pay, it's too late. She's shown what she's willing to pay for by now
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>>674265308
She expects you to fulfill the traditional male gender role. This is only acceptable if she fulfills her role--sex when you want it, takes care of the house, etc. If she doesn't do that shit, then why have you put up with this for this long?

I should point out, though, that men have no inherent value to a woman. Maybe you're dating above your ability to spend?
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This has pissed me off OP as it reminds me of a date I had.

Read this and rage.

>on date with 7/10
>had a walk in park
>bought her coffee and snack
>watched a movie where I paid
>had dinner afterwards
>as I go to pay I remember I have a buy 1 get 1 coupon
>she calls me cheap and is embarrassed
>point out I paid for everything this evening
>never see her again
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>How do I tell this bitch to smarten the fuck up and chip in before I dump her ass?

the problem I see here is that you should of done this a long time ago. and even that shouldn't of had to happen because she should WANT to chip in. Being generous, or at least sharing with her boyfriend is something that she should automatically do. If that trait isn't in her nature, then you need to ask yourself whether you really want to spend your time with someone who uses you?

I see this all the time with insecure men. They feel that because they don't really have other options, that this female is special and you need to keep her around, so you spend more money than you're comfortable doing, because you think she will leave you or not find you attractive anymore if you don't. And eventually like we see her with op, is the money starts running out, and you start getting bitter, because you realize she's not pulling her weight and you've been just taken for a ride this whole time. The girl you really liked was just using you for your money.

If this really was the girl for you, the one to marry and have children with, then why does she not want to treat you as you treat her? Why is she putting less effort into the relationshp than you are? Why does she the value the relationship less than you?

Personally, I would never even get into a situation where I'm dropping that much cash on a girl who wasn't at least putting 2/3 the same amount back into the relationship.

From the sounds of it, you're the one putting way more effort and energy into the relationship, and you're not even being ppreciated for it.

Basically my advice is that you should of left her a long time ago. You should of never got to this position.

You know how marriage and the family unit is breaking down? divorce rates through the roof? fathers broke because of crippling alimony and child support payments?

yeah, it's because of women like the one you're with.
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>>674270168

Dude, I've dated models most of my life.

>pic related

I don't wanna lose my fucking job, that's the reason why I haven't made the move yet.
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>>674270339
>most likely jewelry

That doesn't answer the question. Did she DEMAND he spend thousands on her? Either way he OP is a retard.
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Go to Niagara Falls without her. That will teach her a lesson
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>>674265308
OP I live 35 minutes away from Niagara Falls. Bring her to my place and I'll rape her, she'll never want to travel again.
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>>674270446
Why not just cut the tap? Start paying for your own things and when her bills come due don't say anything see if she throws a tantrum. If she throws that bullshit license thing in your face just tell her maybe you'll help her pay for it when the time comes(you'll probably break up by then) but for now you're reassessing your financial situation cuz it doesn't seem worth it and get this shit off your chest.
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>>674265308
you do it because you want to, not because you are made to.

stop crying man/boy
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>>674270003
You act like this isn't most women regardless of ethnicity.
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>>674270238

I know anon, my gf and I spent about $30 each for Christmas.
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>>674270820
what, did you pay for those too?
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>>674270446
Proof OP won't do shit.
>fucking cunt fags come on here and tell of problems
> fags talk shit "yeah I'm going to be a man for once"
> fags then start slippin in excuses
> fags go away ignoring advice and living like shit again
Fuck off cunt, sick of you non delivering beta turd eaters - stay off /b/ you don't belong here.
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I don't know where you live, but in SF you can pickup girls like her by the dozen.
Chinese are mostly stingy on money, either act the same way or find an outlier, or go Vietnamese
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>>674270446
Your boss won't fire you because of your personal life. That's a multimillion dollar lawsuit he'd be looking at.
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Op is a fucking BITCH. Harden up cunt face.
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>>674270820

Dude, I've dated models most of my life.

Wow you sir are an idiot! You find a woman who is trying to be "stable" with your level of spending and you are trying to make her life all chaotic because you can't control yourself in and out of a bed. Why not get an attorney involved to fuck both of you so you can remember what you missed.

I'm out guys, obviously this guy is full of shit because if he's really fucked models his whole life he wouldn't be bitching on 4chan about his FIRST match.com LMAO
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>>674270820

>me all you plebs don't know the real issue is that OP is scared of losing his job because his boss knew his bitch before he did.

Get your boss drunk OP and then he'll tell you whose side he'll take.
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>>674270829
obviously not. OP reminds me of my brother.

he bought his wife jewelry and she had the nerve to say she didn't like it. but thats my own problem.

hes nice and thinks buyin people shit will make people like him.
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Pic related.
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>>674266525
Seen this picture before, you're lying about everything OP.

You don't have a gf, you're a fat, lonely neckbeard.
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>>674270609
You talk like you've got a girlfriend, faggot.

Also, I'm not OP.
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>>Rules of dating an asian

>>#1 be rich
>>#2 love is based on rule #1
>>#3 all rules optional except rule #1

Thats it
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>>674265308
>She
Quit being a beta fag and tell her to chip in if she can't no trips and quit bitching she's hot as Fuck if she's not worth it dump the bitch
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>>674270820
Maybe you need to lose your fucking job to make the change you're looking for. Don't be a pansy if you're a good worker you'll find work or you can start your own shit, this is America motherfucker.
>The cave you fear most holds the treasure you seek.
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>>674265308
I bet it's too far into the thread for you to read this, but leave her, because she'll just find another [stupid] man who will want to spend money on her. You have to find a woman who isn't like that
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>>674265308
>How do i trll this bitch to smarten the fuck up and chip in before I dump her

Duh:
bitch smarten the fuck up and chip in before I dump you
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>>674271438

Am I?
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>>674270729

I went on a road trip with a girlfriend, I did all the driving and one evening I got a headache at dinner and asked her to drive to the motel (about 3 miles) and she bitched and whined.
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>>674270729
No rage.

1) She shouldn't be giving you shit for using a coupon. It just shows that she's a stuck up bitch.

2) You shouldn't be using coupons on dinner dates. Especially not buy 1 get 1 free. Why? Because it looks like you don't think she's worth spending a meal on her.

3) You're both faggots who seem to have sand in your vaginas. Get over it.
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Happy birthday anon
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>>674265308
>makes me pay for
>makes me
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>>674265308
>How do I tell this bitch to smarten the fuck up and chip in before I dump her ass?

You don't, you just dump her.
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>>674267739
all asians or american asians?

Just met a japanese girl who moved here a year ago. she seems pretty down to earth.

enlighten me /b/ros
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>>674265308
What are you? Her fucking pet? Its the other way around bro. Women love to control but dont let her do it.
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>>674271879

She looks mean as hell OP, you better thing far ahead cause youre gonna need a plan.
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No asian chick is worth this, they are b rate talent and you need to inform her of this and her b-rate compensation. They all fucking look the same and theres like a billion of them, so a replacement chink is fairly straightforward.
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>>674265308

Tell her she keeps freeriding.
Also, Happy birthday anon!
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>>674267167
they are if you let them be

if everybody dumped golddiggers you wouldn't have this problem
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>>674272133
This.
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>>674271879
Timestamp or you could've just found an imgur site or whatever.
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Just break up with her

It would be cheaper for you to fuck escorts
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You are all fucking idiots!!!

If race is of concern here WHITE PEOPLE ARE FUCKING STUPID WITH THEIR MONEY

ASIAN PEOPLE ARE JUST TAKING WHATS GIVEN TO THEM.
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>>674266824
The sad truth...
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>>674272008

I could understand if only told her to get a certain meal so he could use the coupon but he did nothing wrong, my wife is so thrifty and good with money I love it.
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>>674272008
on #2, you have obviously never dated a jewish chick. Saving a few shekels will get you a fine dry handjob at the end of the night.
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>>674272501
CHYNK!!!!!!!
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>>674271879
I like how OP hasn't responded to my advice. This >>674269772 and this >>674270379
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Buy the ticket, take the ride bro. It's fairly typical and I was in a somewhat similar situation with a hot asian girl years back. This is their modus operandi. You basically just have to draw the line and tell her not to expect it. 90% chance she'll fuck right off to the next payday for her pussy. It's a shame but, life sucks sometimes.
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>>674267430
what he said. dump her, get your money back. tell her that she is scum.

dont be a fucking bitch. she is a subhuman being and you are too afraid of what??? GETTING A BETTER LIFE??? whats wrong with you.
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>>674272501
Do tickets to the special olympics cost the same as the main event?
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>>674271879
more
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OP's dick is stuck in crooked oriental cunt and he is so blown away by it he can't stop paying her.

HEY ARMY ON 4CHAN!

PLEASE LISTEN TO HOW MUCH OF A FUCKTARD I AM BUT LET ME POST SOME PICS OF ASIANS

Sorry /b/ro you are the only one with your problems LMAO hence your situation!
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>>674272164
Chinese gooks are the worst, they only care about status and money. Just look at all the reports of men throwing themselves down several floors at shopping malls when they get tired of their bitches there.
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A few questions OP (sorry if I missed the answers)

1. What about her made her attractive to you to begin with/what are you looking for in a woman (besides azn obviously ya big fag)

2. Does she come from money?

3. Do you come from money? What kind of salary are you pulling?

4. Are either of you in debt?

5. Has she dated other people before and if so what was her most recent ex like?

6. Do you know her parents/family at all? Do you like them? Do they like you?

7. Does she express any remorse for not being paying for things or is she entitled? Does she understand that she is financially subservient to you? Do you want that kind of relationship longterm? A wife who is a homemaker who you support?

8. Have you ever told her this bothers you before in any way?

9. What do you think she likes about you/sees in you?

10. What exactly is the work situation, do you guys work together? I read about her boss taking sides-- why does that matter again?
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>>674271879
nudes?
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>>674273023
Slanderous lies!
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Pussy costs money retard.. They have their own currency.
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>>674265308
Walk away. Don't waste time with this 'how do I change her' bullshit. cunt won't change. She's a user. If that's you two in the pic, then she's been relying on her looks to get her what she wants from beta fags like you with nutsacks on their chins. Shave that shit, start saving up again, and get a new girlfriend.

I've been there. She's spending that money on herself already - hair, nails, massages, or a piece of dick on the side. She's using you to support her lifestyle till she gets that license, and then she's in the wind, with years of your life, and thousands of your spent dollars.
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This will be OP soon.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/woman-faces-stiff-penalty-squeezing-man-testicles-death-article-1.1325879
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>>674270623
/Thread
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>>674266525
>Yeah, tell me about it. She made me open up a fucking joint account at the bank where she works, where I contribute 100 a month to our future, as if there's going to be one.
Hey man, I've gone through most of the shit you're describing, with a 3/4 Chinese bitch before.
You only need to know two things:
- as others have told you here, you're being taken advantage of
- you can do better
I'm pretty sure you can see yourself that there's no possibility to be happy with her in the long run, and there's a good chance of disaster.
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>>674273022
>huffing this much ether
What is his "army" going to do for him? You're really calling out advice threads as personal army? Killeth thyself, faggot!
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DUDE JUST SAY YOU'RE WHITE AND IN WESTERN TRADITION MEN DON'T PAY FOR SHIT, GET WOMEN KNOCKED UP, and SHOW OFF THEIR BABY MAMA'S

DID I MENTION YOU'RE WHITE?
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>>674272693
Obviously you haven't dated anyone ever. Stop trying to sound like you know what you're talking about by using bad stereotypes.

Also, I've gotten head the first day of meeting a girl before. She was a cute red head virgin at that.
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> be in a serious relationship with someone outside of your race
> god forbid having mixed kids

I normally feel sorry for people in your shoes OP and help with what I can, but in this case fuck you, cause you deserve it.
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>>674268219
/r9k/ is at the bottom to the right
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>>674273028
I barely read any of this, but it sounds like you're trying to get advice from OP on how to bag an Asian girl.
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Guys the last time I fucked an asian girl her pussy was more slanted then her eyes.

I was kinda weirded out.

THANK GOD WE ADDRESSED THE REAL PROBLEM!
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>>674273142
Coming from Bill Nye, the fucking retard guy.

What a joke of a 'scientist'.
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>>674271331
/thread
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>>674265308
I know someone is going to say: tits or GTFO so on beforehand: Fuck you. But femanon here (a nice and honest one)

this shit is not ok and it will never change. She will always expect you to pay for everything. And if you'd get married please please please get prenups. because she'll leave you for a richer man the second she has the chance, and take half your stuff on the way out. Not trying to diss your girl, but I have seen it from up close so many times.

But before you break up, eventhough she should have known that this is not a fair situation, try to discuss it with her. If her reaction to chipping in is a negative one, you might want to reconsider your relationship.

Good luck and take care.
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>>674267668
You think the only purpose of companionship is fucking kids?
Start living kid.
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>>674273463
hah, I've dated 3 jewish girls and they all gave impressive dry handjobs. Its their calling. Once I taught the one to use lube she became the most impressive cocksmith in all the land. I've even heard from other dudes about her handjob abilities

And I'm fucking married. I'm 32 years old, been around the block and done tons of stupid shit.
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>>674267972
yessssssssssssss
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>>674273854
So, tits or gtfo?
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marry hot Mexican immigrant like me. As long as you can pay for tortillas and a roof over your heads they won't complain!!!

>also don't vote for Trump, you'll get put in the dog house
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>>674273926
Literally none of this is true, fedora-wearer.
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>>674274148
Until their fucking druglord cousin wants to have a word with the gringo
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>>674265308
Meh, i guess OP left.
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>>674273854

I'm sorry but these women are the saints of this 'creeplord' I can pay for sex and companionship in "eastern" culture and traditions because honestly i think you're forgetting that this woman never asked him for anything.

Also, you have to understand she's a human being and shes the real hero and winner of this battle.

Also prenuptial agreements don't mean shit unless you're talking alimony and then you're talking marriage.

This guy is not old enough to get married hes still a baby with money who is in this 'creeplord' culture that exists only in america.
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>>674273854
No fuck! You! Twat tits or get the fuck out!
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>>674273854
Yeah I'm not going on a crusade for your mammaries, but how exactly is your gender pertinent to the information you are contributing with?
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>>674265308

>How do I tell this bitch to smarten the fuck up and chip in before I dump her ass?

That seems like a pretty effective and straight forward way of saying what needs to be said.
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>>674265308
take all your money, put it in a personal (only you can access) bank account and dump her.

it's pretty obvious she only wants your money

p.s she also looks like a bitch
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>>674273854
Are you fat and ugly?
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>>674265588
Im sitting in a dead silent lecture hall waiting for class to start. This post made me laugh and look like a dipshit.
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>>674274485

Because that's what got his bank account emptied in the first place and she's trying to get in on the loans hes giving.
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>>674274679
Quite youngfag
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>>674265308

Even in the selfie she you can tell she only cares about herself.
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>>674274702
I'm not sure you meant to reply to me. Your answer doesn't make sense in relation to my question.
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>>674265308
Hey, at least she's Asian...right?
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>>674274946

Then please remember OP because he will be your father one day.
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>>674265308
break it down by lydia davis
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pretend to be broke, find out what she is made off
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>>674275117
huh?
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>>674274485
I was doubting putting it in there, because if you don't you can come across as a neckbearded sexist, but if you do people and critisize a woman people think you're jealous... I chose to do it because I thought it might could give a slightly different vibe to the words (not sure how to put it in English correctly). But when I posted it I did realise it was kind of a brainfart and irrelevant thing to do. But don't mind me, I was already on my way out.
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>>674274796
Im 20, so yeah i guess so. Im gonna be a RA next year. Kill me
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>>674274324

Still here.
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I take mine on nice vacations to other countries for less than 1000.
OP really needs to learn to budget or get a girl who isn't a gold-digger.
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>>674275702
Have you tried cheating on her?
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>>674275346

She has to huff about her bleeding vag because she could score just like OP's transgender looking adopted sister.

You don't get this game at all but one day you will find OP and realize he was right all along. These women will just "rob" you when in reality they didn't ask for anything. To make it worse you people think that "shes" the root of all evil because shes asian when shes not even a prostitute or "gold digger"
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>>674266525

Is that the only issue you have with her? Need more details on relationship, OP. I agree that's pretty shitty though.
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>>674274939
Yup, can see it in her eyes.
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>>674275702

Being serious you better have your cellphone ready to record the break up.
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>>674265308
go NF with her
come back without
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>>674275618
Eh, I have no say in whether you stay or go. I also get what you were trying to preempt, your execution was just a bit lacking. But yeah this is all the answer I needed. Carry on with whatever you were doing.
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>>674270820
She's like an 8 dude just cut the bitch from the team unless your an ugly neck beard
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women are sniveling pets for people wealthier or more powerful than them. They are mean and nasty to people they perceive as poorer or weaker than them. The only worth they have is a few wet holes, and they still think the world revolves around them and their yeast infections
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>>674273667
Answers would help make circumstance more clear. None of them are asian specific...so...yea but OP is long gone.
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Your problem is asian women. they are heartless no empathy bitches.
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>>674275926
You're projecting man, my first contribution to this thread was trying to figure out why the posters gender was spoken of. She answered me in >>674275618 and I got why she was doing it. Gold diggers come in all shapes, races and sizes, I attribute no such quality to a specific people.
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>>674273028

>>674273028

1. I just want a semi attractive stable chick with zero debt.
2. No, but she's pretty, so she's been spoiled.
3. I'm from a very poor background. I was raised to respect women. I make $100,000+ a year.
4. She's in debt $15,000. I never have been and never will be in debt.
5. All Asian. I dunno.
6. I hate her family. They're all simpletons.
7. No she has no remorse. I don't want marriage or kids with anyone, ever.
8. Many a time. She has mood swings and freaks out.
9. Don't know, don't care. Probably the fact that I say shit as it is, and that I'm very passionate about the stuff I love.
10. My boss. She was friends with my boss before I met her. He gave me the job after he met me.
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>>674265308
You already set the precedent of paying for everything, so why would she not expect that from you? You shouldnt have done it in the first place, and it's really your choice. If you want to change things, tell her what you really think about it. Tell her you don't think the relationship is balanced financially, and you would like to save for your future as well instead of paying for everything. This shit could really go either way, because you set yourself up as the provider, so when you say you don't want to be the provider anymore, she may not see as much value in you. So tell her how you feel about it, you're better off either way.
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>>674277027

You're problem is your income. Start making at least 4 times what you're making and when you have a shot at being a millionaire you won't be bitching about a woman who didn't even ask for this shit.

You are a piece of shit in the first place for ranting about a possibly good person when the real problem was staring at you every day.
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>>674277378

>SJW detected.
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>>674277579

I just call it like it is.

You don't want the truth cuz you don't like poetry but I'm making the music..
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>>674277792
Not samefag, but that was the most autistic response
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Her looks will fade and you will be stuck with a greedy cunt. Move on OP. Guarantee there are better women out there.
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>>674265308
It's funny because she's asian HAHA
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>>674277027
tell her you don't have spare cash after everything you laid out for christmas, and don't plan on laying out the lion's share for a trip or a party again anytime soon. if she has a problem with that, dump her. if your boss fires you for dumping his friend, sue him.
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>>674266824

>black guy some how less black than the other figures

my immersion!!!!!
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>>674278053
Nice contribution
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This is just one reason why I, on the whole, dislike Chinese people. The men are rude and obnoxious and pushy and the women are gold digging whores. I've been to China, that's literally their culture. That's how most Chinese are. It's not that I'm a racist per se, I just dislike their culture itself. I especially dislike Chinese who bring shitty aspects of their culture here and don't care to change, which aligns very well with their general belligerence as a people. Driving being a great example.

>tfw smashing chink mirrors every time they pull out on me on my bike, which is very often
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>>674267739
>>674272164

Asian americans are pretty bad for this. You can thank their shitty fathers :^)
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>>674277027
If you make $100k+ annually, then stop your bitching. You can afford most anything the both of you want as long as it's not absurd like four 918 Spyders just for the heck of it.
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>>674278210
>gold digging whores
How is that different from any other race's woman? Its not, they all like to be taken care of.
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$100k a year is great and all but yeah man blame race, be a bigot, run for president, and succeed Donald Trump.

She's gonna meet a good man someday.
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>>674270820
>>674270820
>>674270820
>>674270820

more sex pictures pls
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>>674278605
There's a difference between liking being looked after and getting angry and having a tantrum when your partner doesn't spend thousands of dollars on you.

Tbh id find a way to rob this chick blind before leaving her. Not that I'd be in this situation because I don't date gold diggers.
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>>674265588
TOPKEK
also checked
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>>674279220
They may go about things in different ways, but theyre all the same when you get right down to it. While a asian woman may flip her shit for not buying her things, a white woman may emotionally distance herself for a while or cheat on you, or just grab your card and go buy it. Different means, same ends.
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Wow

OP: MY GF IS STEALING FROM ME! AND SHES AZN!
4chan: I see the problem shes AZN.
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>>674265308
Jesus lad. And to think she's Asian, they're supposed to be good with money. What a disgrace.
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>>674270246
file name is.... not correct.
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>>674280000
Quads of truth
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>>674280000
Quads don't lie
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>>674280000
she's getting all her shit paid for along with free food and shelter and nice trips every month. explain to me how she isn't good with money?
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OP I hope she robs you blind and leaves you on the street homeless because you did this to her.

Shes gonna meet a guy who says he makes six figures to hide how much hes REALLY got rather than how much he brags about:

OP: Oh I make $100k+.

Idiot.
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>>674278210
This.

>A man jumped to his death after a furious row with his girlfriend who insisted they go into another clothes shop.

>An eyewitness said: 'He told her she already had enough shoes, more shoes that she could wear in a
lifetime and it was pointless buying any more.

>'She started shouting at him accusing him of being a skinflint and of spoiling Christmas, it was a really heated argument.'

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2520753/Chinese-boyfriend-jumped-death-girlfriend-insisted-going-clothes-shop.html

Chinese people are literally untermensch.
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>>674266525
>>674266525
tell her you need to borrow 500 until payday.... then drop her like a hot potato

after you make her lick your ass
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drop her /b/ro she is the kind of girl who makes you pay for everything then get married, then she will divorce you and take the money
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>>674277027
Asker of questions here,

That clarifies things a lot. From it I can gather that you more or less have your life together from a responsibility and fiscal standpoint. The part about not wanting a marriage or kids is also especially telling, I thought you were in the market for someone to hold on to for marriage or the like.

I also think I understand more about her and her background. She doesn't seem like she has it together than much in terms of aspirations, but she keeps wealthy company. That being said, she is attractive, and I'm sure would be a big catch for someone.

I think the biggest red flag is the fact that she is not intellectually compatible with you. I have to ask explicitly: does she serve any intellectual needs? Like, at all-- even being someone who listens to you and believes in you even if she doesn't quite understand? If not, it's probably a no-go. If her family are immigrants, then that would explain why in american terms they are simpletons. Chinese countries have very different values from an intellectual standpoint, and very different ideas of what makes a person "smart" or "clever". That's really besides the point though if you don't really see a reason to keep being with her, and she isn't doing anything for you but providing some company and hopefully good sex (and yea she's a qt3.14).

It sounds to me like you've got 1 foot out the door, and it also sounds like she doesn't think she needs to change. I also get the sense that she feels entitled to the treatment you give her and the precedent you've set with her so far is going to be a thorn in your side because you will always be "the bad guy" for trying to do less than you "originally" did. It will be a long painful road to adjust, not impossible, but probably not worth it unless...

There is some silver lining. Is there? Anything? If not, your biggest issue is whether or not this affects your job. And if it does, you sound like a smart enough person, can you get another?
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>>674280912

Bro I think he's right let me translate:

1) You paid too much to fuck!
2) You paid so much to fuck, you can't dick her for the rest of your life without dicking yourself, but you already fucked yourself in the ass!
3) She's too smart for you!
4) The truth hurts but eh.. you make money?
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>>674265308
How tall is she?
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what is your and her job ?
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Dear Op,

post her nudes or gtfo

Yours,
anon
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>>674265308
>My girlfriend makes me...


you lost a long time ago, its a shame cuz she's really cute here...

and its obvious she makes the rules in the house
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>>674281738
>Yours,
zozzle af
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>>674276718

My dad went to China a few times with work and he said how sly they are especially the women.
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most interesting thread in a while 10/10
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>How do I tell this bitch to smarten the fuck up and chip in before I dump her ass?

maybe you should smarten up and dump her ass already. what the fuck are you doing? you should be single right now.
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I was hoping OP would kill himself on the internet but obviously hes going to go home and beat his wife.

Fuck these guys man. Blame other people for your problems grow the fuck up.
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>>674281871
>>674265308
This. OP has been made into gf's ATM. She has complete control over him and his money. He says she even 'made him' start a bank account, at her bank, where he contibutes money every month for the future. I'll tell you what that is OP, that's money she will be keeping if you come to your senses, its hers now. Grow some balls or get played, its your choice.
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tell her you're broke and are in debts and see her reactions
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>breaks up

>comes back
>kills bitch

done
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>>674265308
wow, i cant believe how ignorant your comments are OP. I cant believe that there are so much bad advices on this dumb site called forchan. she is a woman and she deserves to be treated like a queen ok. since when was a woman suppose to pay for anything in a relationship. if you want to keep her than you should continue paying. she wants to find the best man that will raise and support her and her kids. if you arent up for finding a good loving gf than you aint man enough. man up you worthless pig. i hate men and their patriarch.
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>>674282629
why don't those cats stop him
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>>674283994
b8
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OP, this is the type of woman to get her hooks in, have offspring, divorce you once she's got her career on track because you're now nolonger achieving as fast as her, and come at you hard for child support and alimony. She'll do it smiling the whole time too.
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>>674265308

men LOL

>fucked 5 girls in the cunt
>fucked a dozen girls in the mouth
>never spent a penny on a bitch
>some of them used to spoil me

what, she has a pussy so she gets free shit? you have a dick so you have to pay for everything
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>>674265308

ooo what a man you are. cant even speak up. need shithole /b/ to help
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