Long story short, girl I've been meeting up with for a few weeks. We text a lot and hang out whenever she's town. She's coming back from school for a week before she goes on her study abroad trip over the summer. Should I ask her out in the little time we have or should I ask her out after the trip were we'll have more time to hang out?
I typically don't like to wait longer than two weeks to ask someone out, especially if they're vibing with me. Problem is distance, not sure how to go about this.
by ask out do you mean ask to hang out, or ask to officially go steady?
if you mean hang out, go for it. keeps you in her mind before she goes off on her trip.
if you mean ask to go steady, i wouldnt. regardless of her feelings the trip is the trip and shes not going to want to have much devotion to a guy she only started seeing five minutes before boarding the plane. im not saying this in a 'ALL GIRLS ARE SLUTS' kind of way.
but if i was single and planning a trip to virtually anywhere, i wouldnt want someone wlaking up at the last minute and saying i cant get laid.
ask her to go steady when she gets back.
>>17109429
Yeah sounds like a plan. I didn't feel comfortable asking her for a lay before she went to another country either. Plus she's like relationship material versus drunk night sex type if you catch my drift.
>>17109593
you should never 'ask' a girl for a lay. if u plan to hang out with her in the meantime and sex happens, let it happen. no reason not to.
>>17109651
joke
