>>16445741
lmao the shit that some people think about, I swear.

Its not out and out gay, guys do some weird stuff when they're young. I remember watching porn with mates. I never jerked off with them, but I used to sneak off during sleepovers to jack off in the bathroom.

If you are confident in your current sexuality why does it matter? Why do you want to bring it up if you have a girlfriend and haven't talked to the guy in a long time? Was he older than you? If not then why do you think he might have taken advantage of you?

>>16445761
No he is the same age as I . I thought he would take advantage because I was a really dumb teen. He would tell some lies about touching some girls boobs and I used to believe it. But I dont think that was the case.

I was thinking about talking with him because sometimes when I think about doing again it gets me excited. I don't have a lot of male friends and he was one of the few I was really close to. We know each other since kindergarten. And I know some folks may find it weird, but being naked and wanking was a great type of male bonding.

>>16445741

>is it normal

define normal. it happens a LOT from what people will admit, and considering how tabboo male interaction is, that would mean it happens ever more than expected. it is becoming less and less of a thing though because females are beginning to put out at younger ages, and pornography is becoming easier to access when you are alone (what with smart phones and personal computers these days).

the farther back you go, the more common this gets. remember that being a teenager was by far the most complex and horniest time of your life, you probably remember humping a few things back then that make you cringe now. its ironic because despite it being the HARDEST time to control sexual urges, parents also restrict your access to things like porn, making it even more frustrating, and expect you to be more mature in handling it then they are now, or were back then. its really funny how society works.

all that being said, its pretty normal. we aren't actually evolved to wear clothes, we were just smart enough to put them on as we traveled to colder territories. its completely normal to want around naked, considering they put us in diapers the day we are born. whether alone or with friends, its common to want to be naked.

masturbation probably stemmed from sexual frustration, other stimuli, and the fact that being naked in general was so tabboo that it gave you an erection. its the same reason why seeing your girlfriend naked the first time will make you REALLY horny, but after a few months she has to blow you to get you hard. you just get used to it.

either way. even if your friend was gay he didn't 'take advantage of you'. you both made clear choices about what you were doing. if he hasnt come out of the closet yet, hes likely just straight (unless you are secretly in highschool still)

to find out check out his pcr or phone and look at his porn history. all straight? hes probably straight as far as he knows. gay stuff? probably gay.

>>16445792

>great type of male bonding

if thats the case, why does it matter if he was gay? you both were excited about it, clearly, so even if one is gay and one is straight, whats it matter? you both took advantage of each other in terms of doing something you like.

either way, i agree, male nudism and masturbation is a great way to bond with each other. its exciting and refreshing. i think this might have been common early on in human development, almost like a sport or contest between men.

if you are trying to meet him again to see if he'd be into doing it again, try it out. see what happens. maybe hit him up and claim that you are actually a nudist enthusiast, and gauge his reaction. if he seems into that sorta thing, but says he wouldnt know how to get involved, invite him over to your place to hang nude again and see what happens.

i have several friends that i do nudist outings with, mostly just going to a nudist spa and relaxing. lots of hot tubs.

>>16445741
Probably bait. But it's normal to be bisexual. There are many gays in the world, you just have to remember that you're one of them half of the time, instead of just walking around asking "is this normal?" and pulling out your dick near a guy playing street fighter.
Have fun playing with dicks desu.

>>16445741
There's nothing wrong with a bro-job; if playing xbox with your best friend is gay now, I don't want to be straight.

>>16445818
suck my dick, bro. it's just what bros do.

>>16445824
You have to beat me at call-of-duty first.

Growing up my best friend and i use to do this too. We never did anything else or anything to each other. I cringe when i think about it but we were just young kids. I haven't seen him in over 10 years.