>be me >have girlfriend past 8 years >things have been

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noko
2016-05-09 03:11:45 Post No. 17124323
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noko 2016-05-09 03:11:45 Post No. 17124323 [Report]

>be me
>have girlfriend past 8 years
>things have been good for the most part, but she never put much effort into spending time with me
>i was always the one to drive to see her
>start fighting about her never making an effort to spend time with me
>shit gets pretty bad and we end up hardly talking for 4 days
>go to the bar on the 4th day and run into girl i have been friends with, and really like
>end up getting black out drunk and telling her i would fuck her
>she's engaged and has been in a relationship for 8 years as well
>she doesn't say much, i end up leaving and making it home somehow
>next day I apologize and find out she really likes me too
>pretty sure she'd hook up with me if i met up with her sometime

What do /adv/? Should I destroy my relationship and this chick's wedding engagement? I really do like her. I doubt that she would call off her engagement, nor do I really want that, so I guess it'd just be something that happens on the down low. I honestly never thought this would happen to me.

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 04:02:39 Post No.17124488
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Anonymous 2016-05-09 04:02:39 Post No.17124488 [Report]

Don't do it. It'll fuck things up in the long-run. Doing this now for some short-term satisfaction isn't worth what it could ruin.

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 04:07:58 Post No.17124508
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Do it faggot! Search for your happiness and love

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 04:33:01 Post No.17124583
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Anonymous 2016-05-09 04:33:01 Post No.17124583 [Report]

>>17124488
The rational side of me thinks that, but it also is really hard to fight feelings for someone that I know likes me back. The obvious choice would be to cut all contact, but I don't want to because we just graduated college and I will lose her as a friend if I don't keep in touch. The other thing is that I somewhat believe that my relationship with my girlfriend will permanently be like this. We are past the honeymoon stage and I doubt that that feeling is ever going to return. Her fiance is a douche and she's unhappy, so I don't really care about their situation. Also, it'd be stupid to leave my long-term relationship for someone who is married. It's hard, man.

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 04:38:01 Post No.17124597
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Do not do it, that's wrong. Don't be selfish and only think about you and your happiness, what about your gf and her fiancee?

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Anonymous 2016-05-09 12:48:29 Post No.17125579
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>>17124597
Well, her fiance is a douche and she's unhappy. My girlfriend never makes time for me. I realize this is kind of cognitive dissonance after the fact, but I don't think this would have happened if I was happy with my girlfriend.