I feel like the world has given women all these tools and resources they need to explore sexuality and all this other shit. But what about men?
I am 26 and have never had a girlfriend or done anything sexual with anyone besides myself. It feels really bad to want to have sex though. It feels like their is a animal chained up in my ahead.
I want to pounce on any girl I find attractive and just turn myself loose but that makes me feel like shit.
My friends describe me as seeming jittery with a strange glare which doesn't make me feel good. How am I supposed to talk to women if I am jittery with a strange glare/leer?!
Mastutbation doesn't even help. I feel even more aroused after.
I never will go into a strip club because my mind wouldn't be able to control myself. I would feel so many women....
Anyway, what can I do? Society doesn't really teach sexless men how to manage this crap. My mind is plagued by headless female bodies. Not like chopped off... Just censored.
Stop jerking off
Use that jittery energy to work out and get yourself a routine. Discipline is important and that starts with familiarizing yourself with a predictable set of actions.
Start meditating immediately. The first time will feel pointless but doing it again and again will allow you feel at peace. Highly recommend.
Read this
http://westsidetoastmasters.com/resources/book_of_body_language/toc.html
It might allow you read people and therefore possibly approach girls in the future. Having a little handbook of information like this will be great for you to start to read body language.
>>17108140
Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
If all you want is raw sex, go out and buy some.
If you want romance, increase your circle of friends to include some female-type friends. Once you're comfortable with them as people, you can choose one to get romantic with, and sex will follow.
I just wish male heterosexuality were not seen as inherently violent or destructive. I don't even understand how people have healthy relationships involving sex.
>>17108318
I understand that last sentence, but at the same time I am a 25 year old loner who never had a relationship, sot it boggles my mind as well.
I want to get out there. I fear rejection and really have to get over it to find someone, and I do fear that I wasted the primary years on bullshit that it will make it harder to find someone.
Gonna go to a movie today and let that shit melt from my mind and continue painting a poster in my bedroom after.
>>17108140
Prostitutes.
You sound like a rapist in training
>>17108140
hey man I used to be like this but now I've learn to deal with my urges without hurting anyone, or myself. you should go on /jp/ and buy an onahole it's strange at first but it changed my life for the better man not even kidding. I used to waste so much energy worrying about stuff like you are now, but now I don't even worry about anything.
>>17108648
How do? I just want a romantic relationship and sexual release.
>>17108676
buy an escort or visit the strip club
>>17108698
Strip clubs don't help. You can't even touch the girls in most of them.
>>17108867
Prostitutes help, though.
