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>Im afraid I don't love my girlfriend...
Shes beautiful, kind and sweet, she really is great... but I havent felt the spark much. We have had problems at the beggining of the relationship but I wasnt brave enough to end it there. Now we are much closer, I just have been kind of numb.
We have bounded a lot actually, I know her family and she has met part of my family also. We have even lived together for a while recently. I dont want to leave her but I think I should. I can do better a part of me says but its not about that. Its because I don't know if we can continue our relationship this way or if its fair for us to continue since I dont feel that spark.
To make it worse, she has told me that in a dream I yelled at her that I dont have feelings for her. But we dont want to end this relationship, we both feel comfortable and scared about getting hurt.
I want to love her more and get past this doubts. How?
How old are you two? How long have you been dating? What where the problems at the beginning?