I'm 19 years old and living in the south east. I have a bit of debt building up from uni. I don't make enough from the job i have. I'm in between supporting my mother with what little I make and trying to do well in school. A few years ago I found out about sugaring. I don't have many friends so I have no one to tell this to but I'm genuinely afraid. I've come to terms with the idea of selling myself for sex. I don't really care about myself or my virtue or anything. I just want to help myself get out of debt and help my mom pay for her cancer treatments. Any advice would be nice. I'm not sure what to expect going into this but I really wish I could tell someone about it. I'm just nervous about this.
First, Im so sorry you are in the middle of a situation like that. No one should have to be.
I know the idea comes from a place of love and caring for your mother, but my advise to you would be not to do it. Not because of virtues or anything like that, but because it is a very real possibility that something terrible could happen to you if you persue that avenue. You could end up getting hurt, or killed, or kidnapped and sold into the sex trade. Then you wouldnt be able to be there for your mother anymore. You dont want to make your problems worse by going down another bad path. Life is hard, but I would spend as much time with my mother as I could while I still could. Life is a very fleeting thing. We are all just candles in a rain storm. No one ever promised we would make it thorugh
>>16906090
Be careful.
Try to go for the uglier "sugar daddies" unless you want to deal with getting beaten and emotionally abused.
The good looking rich guys who have to pay for a girl to hang around them have serious fucking issues.
>>16906090
How attractive are you? You could perhaps make money doing porn, I imagine it would be safer.
>>16906090
hey op how about you start sucking me off first? how much do you charge? also are you good looking?
Why don't you just do what a guy would do in the same situation? How about that?
>>16906090
If you don't have a good personality, you won't make it as a sugar baby. They want a young fun-loving girl to take their mind off the stresses of work. If you're quiet or boring they won't spend as much on you, they won't take you as many places, and they'll treat you more like a regular hooker and it will be all about sex.
They're pretty much the same, but the hit to the self esteem can be a lot worse. You start to feel worthless as a human being and only good for your vagina.
aren't you glad we don't have national health insurance?
