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so i'd like to hear what you guys think i should do in my current situation
im currently unemployed and days away from turning 20
i have a gf who's ridiculously devoted to me for what a shit pile i am, and a decent but fucked up friend group who all smoke weed. my parents are older and more lenient but i can feel the pressure to seek employment
i have the ability to work at places that pay pretty well for my age bracket (up to $20/hr)
thing is, they all drug test.
this becomes a matter of sacrifice in my mind
should i sacrifice weed and my friend group to get a job and let adulthood kick my ass and become an alcoholic (i need a vice to stay sane) or get a shit job and continue in financial limbo for another year or two to enjoy my youth to its fullest with drug freedom.
also worth mentioning:
option 1 family and gf rejoice, friends fade into memory
option 2 family angry and gf probably less happy. friends rejoice
friends also fabricating facts about weed to give me an excuse to smoke telling me weed will be in my system for 3 months so its hopeless to wait (im in decent shape, this is pretty much impossible to be true)
for some of you the option might seem clear but im really indecisive atm
if weed is causing you to fuck up your life for it, you have a problem
it's never good to go down that road. I love to smoke as much as the next cool broham but I wouldn't ever do it in a position where it would harm me like that
yeah it's clear. Don't be stupid. You can still hang out with your friends, just get shitfaced on alcohol instead like a RESPONSIBLE adult
