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how the fuck do i go from being a neet thats too scared to leave
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how the fuck do i go from being a neet thats too scared to leave my home to a normal adult human being? this shit is so far beyond me its not even a little bit funny.
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>a neet thats too scared to leave my home

The thing that no one wants to tell you:

Do everything you can to make you look physically more attractive. Clear up your skin, make your hair look nice, if your teeth are yellow whiten them, grow a good beard ONLY if you can, buy nice clothes (Zara is a nice place).

If I'm right and I probably am, you mostly don't like leaving the home because you have low self-esteem due to how you look, whether you want to admit it to yourself or not. Am I wrong?
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Also lose weight if you're overweight. Just don't eat anything at all.
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>>16605076
watch an anime called welcome to the NHK then get back to me
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>>16605391
Everyone and their mom already saw it.
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>>16605339
funny thing about that
[spoiler]i used to be a model[/spoiler]
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>>16605466
New plan, become Samurai Flamenco.
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>>16605469
ive never seen it
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>>16605479
It's pretty good but admittedly not very relevant to your life. For curing your NEETdom, I'd set some tangible goals. To me life is like an open world RPG. In those games if I'm not on a quest I'm pretty lost as to what to do with myself. Similarly, I'm least productive when I have vague objectives. So make up "quests" for yourself. Today I'm going to go to the barber shop. Today I'm going to the gym where I must do 25 reps each of X, Y, and Z exercise. Today I'm going to go ask for a job application at the local department store. It might not work for you, but I'd give it a shot, since being a NEET is often due in large part to your own mindset.
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>>16605504
i have no idea how to put what im feeling into words but it just seems like everything is too much for me, like i cant even go to the bank on my own. i have no idea why im like this but its fucking shocking how little i know about anything.
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>>16605076

>how the fuck do i go from being a neet thats too scared to leave my home to a normal adult human being?

Therapy. Not even a little bit joking.
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Http://Recoveryinternational.org

Free cognitive behavioral therapy. Really just plain common sense. There are online or irl meetings.
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>>16605600
that still seems kinda scary
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