My girlfriend is always trying to get me to let her peg me. Put her vibrator in my butt. I am vehemently opposed to this but she says it's important to her. Let her do it or just stick to my guns and tell her to get back to sucking ?
>>16448088
Your call m8. You set your own limits
Let her put it in, then make her suck you off twice. You'll blow in her mouth so fast, and then get hard again and she'll have to work for the second load but it will come.
Its the new age anon! We should all be faggots doing gay shit with pride!! #lovewins
Just fucking do it you pussy. Can dish it out but can't take it?
After the 3rd time you'll be begging for her to do it anyway. You'll feel like you're on the verge of ejaculating almost the entire time.
You'll especially thank her when later in life because massaging the prostate gland reduces the chance of developing prostate cancer.
No you fucking faggot. Do you not have any pride? Don't ever be anybody's bitch. You're a man not a poofter. I'd dump her ASAP if I were you sounds weird.
Why exactly are you against it?
You don't want to get your anus stretched?
Fag
We actually live in an age where you have to justify, as a man, why you don't want to put things in your bumhole.
We also apparently are unable to stand up for what we think about and let others pressure us into doing things we don't want to do.
Dark times indeed.
>>16448113
My own standards, and pride I suppose. Maybe I'm afraid I'll like it and I'll be self loathing and think I'm a gay
Shits gay as fuck mang
>simulating being fucked in the ass with a cock
None for me thanks
>>16448116
Did you tell her that?
Like, it's still a girl. Don't know how it would be gay unless you think about fucking dudes while doing it or something.
Should honestly try it once.
try it just once goy :^) how can u criticize something if u didn't try it u dont know if u dont like it :^)
its not gay dont be a bigot ur obviously insecure with ur sexuality stick things in ur bum just once go on :^)))
>>16448116
Just try to remember that it's only gay if you're doing it with another guy. Nothing gay in your gf pegging you. Besides it'll feel good once you relax and just let her do it.
>>16448116
why are you afraid of being a gay?
>>16448209
go back to /lgbtq+/
>>16448209
This is the real homophobia. It's not being afraid of gay guys, it's the fear of not being straight as numerous social stimuli have repeatedly told you through your years.
Honestly most people don't care unless you grew up republican.
>>16448113
Not everyone like having things stuffed in their butt
>>16448215
>>16448224
No seriously if you're afraid of being gay because of social repurcussions at this point you are a fucking pussy. The world has never been more accepting of it than it is now. Nobody actually gives a fuck if you put a dildo in your ass or even suck a cock except for your republican parents but fuck them.
>>16448224
I have no attraction to men so having a women stick a phallic object up my rear inherently implies male sexuality and contact. It's not logical and I don't care. Perhaps I will let her try once and then if it's awful back to our heteronormative sex life
>>16448248
But it's part of your own anatomical sexuality weather you choose to explore it or not, so to each their own.
It's an inherently submissive pose, and a homoerotic activity. What, exactly is the dildo shaped like again? Pelvic thrusting on her part, using a phallic-like object strapped into position in a location and angle analogous to an erect penis.
That's about it, yes?
Gay. If it's not a problem for you, OK, fine, bend over and take it, and good luck.
Do not expect that this will ever become normative behavior, however, if you're looking for external validation.
One final thought. I thought no meant no? If she can't respect your comfort and limits, and is pressuring you, isn't that wrong? If you harrangued her for buttsecks and she didn't want it, you'd be vilified for pressuring her.
Well, that's sort of besides the point. It's not normal for a good fucking reason. It's not a heterosexual activity, and it WILL alter her perception of your masculinity. If that's important to you, think about your decision.
>>16448248
It's your fear of being gay that is making it gay. Seriously. It's a piece of silicone. Not a penis.
Also it doesn't matter. It will feel good if you just chill. the. fuck. out. and enjoy having sex with your kinky girlfriend.
>>16448256
No, it's not.
>>16448088
Peggy 18
>>16448258
So much this.
Oh, and don't think it would be a "one time thing", it would only get worse.
>>16448258
There's plenty of room for letting her do it and retaining plenty of masculinity. Owning it, not letting it affect you negatively and remaining confident in your sexuality is incredibly attractive.
>>16448263
I think OP possess some self control,dildos aren't drugs.
>>16448115
>We actually live in an age where you have to justify, as a man, why you don't want to put things in your bumhole.
as opposed to grills who have been opposing it since time immemorial?
Its just as unnatural
Hell, so is oral sex
>>16448266
I mean on her part.
>>16448248
>having a women stick a phallic object up my rear inherently implies male sexuality and contact.
do dildoes turn lesbians straight?
>>16448265
No, it's not. It's delusional. But good try. Perhaps you should try repeating that as a mantra, and maybe you'll actually believe it someday. Don't expect anyone else to, while masculine dignity is still a thing.
>>16448274
the penis (or dildo) is necessary for penetration, but if you're the man, you're the penis.
>>16448260
Your prostate exists, the decision to use it for pleasure or to recieve cancer is your decision.
>>16448281
It's not there for pleasure, though.
>>16448274
Nah, they just lose their gold star.
>>16448268
Except stimulating prostate feels good. As women can't get the same effect out of it they have a much more valid argument against it.
Just stop being so fucking insecure about everything and try shit out. You might even enjoy some of it, and if you don't like it then there's no harm done. But at least tjen you've got a solid reason to say no in the future.
>>16448278
hey man I just do what works. if that's delusion so be it.
>>16448265
So it's basically like getting raped and not crying afterwards.
>>16448280
Girls have fingers, mang.
>>16448282
um
says who
>>16448290
You now I'm talking about the shape.
>>16448289
it's not rape if you want it
I guess if you don't want it it would be
>>16448291
Basic anatomy, it's like saying heroin or any drug is there for your pleasure, and that not doing drugs is not "exploring it"
>>16448294
OP doesn't want it.
>>16448298
Then I guess he shouldn't do it.
>>16448258
>If you harrangued her for buttsecks and she didn't want it, you'd be vilified for pressuring her.
If you're not even willing to try something for the sake of your partner's sexual satisfaction, you should seriously ask yourself if you work as a couple.
If a girl refuses to let me stick a pinky in there, when she knows that its a big part of what gets me off, I probably wouldn't be down with the relationship.
On the other hand, I wouldn't let a girl shit on my chest. But I also wouldn't pursue a relationship with her if I knew that I couldn't satisfy her sexually.
>>16448300
Pretty much.
>>16448296
>> mfw drugs are a part of my body
>>16448293
there are plenty of vibrators that are roughly the size of a middle finger, you don't need a fucking dragon dildo in your ass
Girls are plenty capable of penetration
>>16448306
Neither is the penis you're getting into you butt, shithead.
>>16448293
so get a dildo shaped like a finger
again, who gives a fuck
>>16448310
I thought we were talking about the prostate
>>16448296
>>16448296
>>16448310
so would you advise against any sexual act not strictly for the purposes of procreation?
Or do you get to pick and choose
>>16448301
Man, there's one thing about being willing to satisfy your partner, and one thing about completely going past your comfort zone to appease someone's shitty fetish. I will never get pegged (despite having experimented with anal play and kind of liking it), because I find the role of being submissive to be a HUGE turn off, and I would not be comfortable around my partner after the act was done. I also am thoroughly disgusted by feet, so a partner I am with will just have to cope with no foot play ever.
Those are my two main hang ups, and I will not "experiment to see if I like them."
OP, if you don't want to get pegged, tell her to go kick rocks. You don't have to do anything you don't want to.
>>16448314
Your body reacts to drugs.
Your body (prostate) reacts to a phallic object.
It's not "a part of your own anatomical sexuality".
>>16448320
I'm saying it's not there for pleasure.
>>16448323
your body also reacts to pussy and food
what's your point
>>16448326
see >>16448325
It's all about >>16448256 retarded claim.
>>16448330
I don't see how you've refuted this
>>16448325
Neither are tits
Neither are mouths
Neither are hands
Neither are grill butts
Would you advise against engaging in sexual activity centered around these body parts?
Or do you get to pick and choose.
>>16448088
Ask her why you should let her do that when a guy can do it better.
OP here, solid thread and have given me a lot to consider. Good points brought up include submission. I do prefer to be dominant in bed, and being anally penetrated is a very vulnerable experience.
>>16448341
Be the power bottom you retard.
Don't let her have control.
>>16448343
Being straight and pretty vanilla I have a woeful lack of knowledge when it comes to butt play. Not even sure what being a power bottom entails
>>16448348
Ever watch porn where the girl sets the pace of the fucking and talks down to the dude?
Think that.
>>16448348
Well you see, a power bottom is a bottom that is capable of receiving an enormous amount of power.
>>16448361
Actually anon, you've got it backwards. You see, the power bottom is actually generating the power by doing most of the work.
>>16448352
Does that even exist with anal?
>>16448369
You clearly need to watch more amateur porn.
Bet you didn't know you could torture a man by playing with his urethra right after he cums.
It's literally the worst feel in existence.
>>16448348
You would have to tell her to fuck you, would be very gay imo.
>>16448245
or you could just... you know... not tell people what you do in the bedroom, and then nobody will think you're gay?
>>16448274
>do dildoes turn lesbians straight?
No such thing.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/11977121/Women-are-either-bisexual-or-gay-but-never-straight.html
>>16448383
>It's literally the worst feel in existence.
No, having only brown M&Ms left is the worst feel in existence.
>>16448341
>I do prefer to be dominant in bed, and being anally penetrated is a very vulnerable experience.
Even if you're the bottom, you can put yourself in power. My guy is straight as an arrow and didn't like the idea of me pegging him, but that's where we're at now. He's typically on top, straddling my strap-on, and doing most of the work while I jerk him off and he plays with my tits. We didn't jump right in though, you have to start off slow. At first, he'd let me eat his ass out and stick a finger up there while I gave him a blowjob. He said it blew his mind. Now we take turns, and it's fucking awesome.
I can understand if that's not your thing, but you won't really know until you try it. It doesn't make you gay.
>>16448407
I'm glad this can be concluded by a single study
>>16448387
It's more about op himself thinking he's gay and being afraid of that than it is about others, but that fear comes from what others think.
>>16448088
Did she tell you why it's important to her?
Might be a turn on if her reasons are good.
My OLTR recently told me she wants to peg me, because it's a massive turn on for her to reversing the roles, and imagine how I feels when I fuck her. Basically she wants to borrow my prime position to projecting the feeling of fucking herself. And however complicated, I think it's fucking hot.
Also, both men and women got masculine and feminine sides. You don't lose one by exploring the other. Unless you whine about it and give yourself reasons to feel insecure about your sexuality. You're have straight sex with a woman, no matter what goes in where, because you're a man and she's a woman.
>I am vehemently opposed to this
say no. end of discussion.
wish I had a gf that wanted to peg me. she'd have to be hot of course, most amateur pegging porn is filled with fatsos which makes me think its not so common among normal people.
>>16448088
Break up with her and give me her number.
>>16449654
On a more serious note, simply talk about it, delineate limits, and see where it goes from there.
>A pinky, even once?
>What about a forefinger?
>Two fingers?
>A toothbrush handle with a lubed condom on it
>>16448088
No way, OP, refuse to let her do it.
Your dated definition of masculinity *must* be upheld, and trying anything new is a very slipery slope. Suppose you found it somewhag pleasurable, or even enjoyed it! Yuck! Then you might want to try *other* new things. No, thank you.
Refuse flat-out, and tell her that if she isn't happy with things staying exactly as they are, forever, then maybe she should just keep on moving, because honestly isn't everyone's fantasy to fall into a rut and do the same things in the same order every day, week, month, and year until you die?
>>16448088
Do whatever the fuck you like. Real man don't worry about being a man and improving themselves. What are you, 12? Do you even drive a car?
>>16450541
>le ebin strawman
fucking faggot
>>16448088
gr8 b8 m8
if not b8, leave her, some man who genuinely enjoys this stuff will love her way more than you do.
>>16450543
Real men don't need a car.
Fa mbeing straight and taking it in the ass is like being a vegan that doesn't count fish/eggs as meat.
Offer to peg her instead. You can wear the strapon above your cock and hit both holes at once.
>>16451399
Not really, being straight/gay is whether you're attracted to men or not, but taking it in the arse is about liking anal stimulation.
Is a lesbian that enjoys penetration straight?
>>16448088
Fag here.Regardless of any of the arguments for or against allowing your girlfriend to do this, the fact of the matter is, You may hate it, you may like it if you were to try. but if the idea itself makes you that uncomfortable then don't do it. It is your body and you should not be guilted or coerced into doing something that makes you uncomfortable.
>>16448088
All I can say is that if I were you,
N O P E .
I think you shouldn't have to force yourself to do something you don't want to do and it's not very respectful of her to try and pressure you into doing something you're uncomfortable with. If you do decide to do it, just know it isn't gay at all if a girl is doing it to you. Actually it's more common than you think. My boyfriend very shyly asked me to rim him and put a finger in there because all his friends had done it with their girlfriends and told him that it had felt really good. Surprisingly Chinese guys seem to be really into that stuff.
>>16451409
>Is a lesbian that enjoys penetration straight?
Read the thread, women can't be straight.
>>16451435
read the Hello.
