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Hi /adv/, I have never been too good with social interaction,
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Hi /adv/,
I have never been too good with social interaction, though I have managed to snag a few friends in my life. I have recently decided to make a conscious effort to be more social and to create bonds with more individuals. As I understand it the first step in any relationship is successful small talk, which I am abysmal at.
What are some topics that I should read up on and practice articulating that will hold the interest of normies? I don't want to end up like Chris-chan
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>>17356977

first and foremost, stop treating this like a science experiment. you cannot clinically orechestrate bonds. thats just called manipulation. the hwole point is you want to feel things. so stop trying to force a scenario.

that being said, its small talk. if ur so smart to approach this clinically, than you already know what to talk about and are just being an edgy try hard faggot. talk to people about whatever you want.

general topics (That you dont need to fucking research) inclue
>wahts up?
>hows your day going?
>do anything fun lately?
>where you headed
>waht you doing here?
>interesting weather yeah?
>have you heard about XX on the news?
>>what about YY local event?

stop focusing on trying to fit in with normies and just focus on finding people who fit in with you
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>>17356995
It's not about manipulating vast amounts people into liking me. I just literally hVe no idea what to say after "Hi. How are you? My name is Anon" Of course after we are aquainted we will find interests we share and can discuss, but I can't even get to that point due to not knowing what it is strangers are supposed to say to eachother.
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>>17357054

literally anything. there is no list. there is no science. its just people saying those stupid things, bringing up stuff tehy actually care about, and then hoping theres common interest.

skip the retardation and go striaght to real interests.
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