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2016-07-06 09:52:19 Post No. 17329532
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2016-07-06 09:52:19
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6 months ago while travelling around the globe I met a girl that was quite special and what started out as harmless fun has developed into something serious which has been both very good and quite sad. But more than that, it has made me reflect on the way I live my life as a whole and I'm starting to think I really need to change my mind set entirely and that's where I need your advice.
So basically I met a local girl while I was travelling, we had a great time and I kept seeing her again and again and I was satisfied just being there with her that I completely put my travels on hold and bummed around for many, many months in a place that I knew wasn't good for me with a girl I knew I could never make a serious relationship work with. Now I've had to move on due to work, and I'm thinking about what happened and feel terrible about having wasted my time and gotten so far of track even though I had a great time and was very happy during that period of time.
However, I realize that I have a strong tendency to just go with the flow, whenever I meet someone I like or have a good bunch of people to hang out with then I completely put my plans and goals aside to desperately cling on to that connection and make it last as long as I can. Eventually, they move on with their lives and doing what they want to do while I'm left behind moaning about the good time that has come to an end. I think this is a pretty pathetic approach to life on my side and I really need to start taking charge of my life, go my way and pursue my goals. That seems like a confident, strong mentality.
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