she's a stuck up bitch that thinks she's better than you. i literally just had a bitch tell me she "doesn't really date people" today. all she had to do was say some bullshit like she had a boyfriend. just think of her as the cunt she is and move on to the next one

>>17225105

girls are not programs running the same script. by which i mean, each girl is different. all you can get from this is that she doesnt want you to think she is 'not into hookups'.

if you dissect that it means you shouldnt go in saying ;EYY BB LETS FUK'

you thinking you are not a sperg wont change that

for me, i say im not into hook ups, im not 'looking' nad 'i dont know what im looking for' because i dont want to have planned sex. its boring. where is the fun? i love the chase whether its me chasing or him.

when you go straight to the kill its so boring, almost uncomfortable. there is no attempt to enjoy each other as a person.

so if i say 'im not into hookups' in my case im not implying that we have to be comittted and dating.

it just means that im not going to 'hook up'. if we at least feign some sort of date or hang out, then it gets there, thats fine.

but even explaining that takes all the juice out. i dont know why guys wnat to know exactly whats going to go down.

>>17225151
>but even explaining that takes all the juice out. i dont know why guys wnat to know exactly whats going to go down.

Cause guys are normally the ones who have to pay for the date, plan the date, entertain YOU and do the dance in hoping of you spreading your legs. You literally have to sit there. Guys have to go waaaaaaaaaaay further in putting an effort forward than women ever will save for the uggo hamplanets, can't blame them for wanting SOME peace of mind.

>Lol i like the chase teehee

You're an entitled bitch. Who will destroy the Gynocentric Complex first, Trump or Islam? Either way I welcome the new change, you witches need to be knocked down a peg or 5.

>>17225105
From my experience as a girl, and knowing many girlfriends and acquaintance females on tinder... I would say it's like a "I don't want you to think I'm trashy, and I honestly want a real relationship but if you're cute and give me attention I'll probably put out"

>>17225160

dude, you need to chill. why should I (or anyone) have to commit to sex with someone they havent met yet? whats wrong with working the way up to sex? the excitement of not knowing when it will happen?

that being said, im a dude myself, just a faggy one. i tend to be the one who pays for dates cuz i make good money. but im in your position, hwerein if i DONT shell out to go to some third location and just want to have a guy come over ot hang out, im expected to guarantee sex of a certain variety

>>17225105

It means she doesn't want to meet specifically just to fuck, and nothing else. It's not that she won't, but that she'd like be treated as slightly more than a good-looking fleshlight and get to know you a bit.

Honestly, nothing wrong with that. In fact, I'd be more enthusiastic about a girl that had that on her profile.

I can see the appeal in "Hey are you down? I'm down. Great, let's skip the bullshit and get to it." But once the novelty's gone, that gets boring fast. What makes meeting people fun is the people. Ultimately it goes to show that most people aren't pornstars and fuck exactly as you'd expect without about the same success rate, and that all this constant whining about whether you're Chad enough or have a big enough dick is a bunch of shit.

>>17225205

basically this desu. its fun to connect with people. its cool to have feelings, even if only for one night. its nice to feel that build up, get worked up knowing its going to happen or you want it to happen. being nervous makes it fun. sometimes the guy being nervous is fun. but when its just 'so wanna come over and fuck' it sucks. i walk through the door, they take my shirt off, arent hesitating to kiss.

meh. i love the thrill of the uncertainty, the exploration, the testing boundaries.

If you want sex with no buildup or effort, just get a prostitute. That's what they're for.

>>17225105
>When girls on Tinder say "I'm not into hookups"...
...then she has missed the point of Tinder entirely.

>>17225308

if it was a hook up app they'd let us send pics / upload nudes.

>>17225317
If it was a hookup app Id skullfuck your mother

>>17225325

you are one clever man

>>17225160
>cause guys are normally the ones who have to pay for the date, plan the date, entertain YOU and do the dance in hoping of you spreading your legs
No wonder you haven't had sex yet, if you want to pay a woman for sex go after a prostitute. If you don't want to do that stop being such a troll/spergeball and don't go to expensive places on a date, take her to the park and eat an ice cream cone you nut, go on a hike.

>>17225317
>if it was a hook up app they'd let us send pics / upload nudes.
Who the heck sends nudes to a hookup?

>>17225105
They are indeed into hookups. but if for some reason they just aren't feeling it when you message them they will indeed just wash over you.

>>17225334
Meanwhile you'll spread your legs for a tall Chad with 0 effort. No wonder people shoot up schools or join ISIS. Fuck this shit

Tinder is for hookups, but say her friends, family members, etc. are on there for hookups... it gives her excuse of, 'I'm just on there for friends' validity.

It varies girl to girl, but I'd say it's mostly to avoid putting off the image that she's on there for hookups, even though she is.

tinder isn't for hookups, it's for the pleasure of judging strangers

I am the definition of a male hamplanet. I am 6' and 400+ lbs. Despite this, I am capable of going on tinder/pof/okc and getting dates and having casual sex. Ask me anything.

>>17225374
What do you talk to them about? Also how rich ate you?

>>17225437
I am not rich. I make like 18-20k a year coaching a sport.

I talk to them about normal things? Sometimes we play 20 questions, sometimes the convo just goes. I send out a lot of messages to people and the majority don't answer me (but to be honest women on those websites get 1000s of messages a day and have to wade through shit so its no surprise) I get rejected quite a bit. But the key is to ignore the rejections and enjoy the successes. Failure is only if you stop playing and don't get what you're looking for. It takes time.

>>17225448
I should also point out, to answer OPs question, that women on dating websites get hundreds of messages each day if theyre remotely attractive and most of the messages are for NSA sex so them putting "I don't wanna hook up" is to try to get those guys to stop spamming them (but A: it doesn't work because they keep getting spammed and B: it doesn't work because half the girls I have slept with on those websites had that on their profile.)

She's on tinder, she's down bro.

>>17225169
Imagine if there was a venue that said "Buy a ticket for our show. We will not tell you any details about what the show is or if there will even be a show."
It's fucking annoying and I probably am not gonna bother inquiring into that shitty show

>>17225459
That's a pretty shitty fucking analogy

>>17225348
>hurr durr stop being attracted to attractive people and have sex with me because I paid for your soup.

>>17226018
Yeah I don't feel bad for rape victims at all