ITT: ask the opposite gender anything
I love every one of you girls
>girls
Hottest guy on soc?
what do you like about said person?
>>23852191
does that ginger guy still post here?i havent been here in a while, aside from the last couple of days. if so him.
>>23854280
Who?
Femanons how do you view husky guys, do you prefer just husky or husky improving themselves by losing weight?
ask away
>>23855774
def improving
>>23852191
no idea, i dont know names
>>23855790
Like are you looking for total change or just better than before
>>23855784
I mean if it's actually you, you're one of my favorites
>>23855784
Timestamp bae
>>23855795
i feel like its always nice to better yourself, regardless of others
>>23855796
thanks, no timestamp sorry.
Do virgin girls like virgin boys
>>23856041
yep
>>23855784
What are some of your fetishes hun
-what are personality deal breakers in guys, ie no matter how hot/rich he was you'd still hate him
-do girls actually like getting spanked or do you just like that boys like it
-would you call your bf/husband "daddy" if he wanted you to
-what are attractive/interesting hobbies
>>23856071
<3
why can't i even have a fucking hug???
Do girls find musicians attractive?
>>23856142
how do expect to get a hug from here?
>Girls
In foreplay where should a guy start and work to?
>>23855784
what traumatic childhood event caused you to be an attention whore?
>>23856142
You sir have a terminal case of resting bitch face.
I'm afraid I'll have to see a smile in order to deduce if it's operable or not.
>>23856104
no thank you, sorry.
>>23856137
-being selfish and self adsorbed
-i have no idea, i imagine it could be fun
-kinda weird, but if they really insisted
-hobbies arent attrative, its the passion you have for them.
>>23856142
no idea, id hug ya
>>23856145
doesnt hurt
>>23856177
nothing, i just like to talk to people
>>23852132
Ladies: Do you have graffiti in your bathroom stalls?
>>23856387
there is some
>>23856396
What does it say?
>>23856403
mostly honoring fallen gang members
>>23856410
That sounds very respectful.
Thanks for the info!
What is one Thing you wish guys understood
Why does every woman I meet is trying to "fix" me?
Sure, I have some issues but that doesn't mean that you should start treating me like your patient as soon as I open up to you about those issues.
>>23856417
np!
>>23856450
being mean doesnt make you cool
>>23856453
they care about you
>>23856474
Sweetie aren't you going to ask boys anything
If your bro wanted you to shave pussy would you
>>23856504
Supposed to say bf not bro
>>23855795
Man be yourself, don't change yourself for women. I say this assuming you don't want a slim or athletic girl, if you do then I'd say continue your work cause I think it's unfair to ask for a hot thin girl if you're chunky.
>>23856137
If he treats his mother bad, like if he's very disrespectful to her I will lose all respect to him. Yes spanking is fun, no
>>23856142
You look like a guy who just has a lot of self pity, no stranger is going to hug you so make some friends and hug them. If you want a girlfriend, again don't sit inside on a computer all day pouting.
>>23856148
Depends on the girl but lots of kissing, tongue, neck kisses and maybe while doing that undo her bra and work from there.
>>23856177
Seconded.
>>23856453
That's just how women are, they like to nurture things and are trying to help you. If you'd rather deal with those issues on your own just say so.
>>23856512
probably not, I don't like going full bald and I have very curly hair which means I have to shave it every single day and by the end of the day I have 5 oclock shadow and it's itchy. plus I don't want ingrown hairs.
Guys what's the most annoying thing a girl can do? Also what separates a casual fling from a lifelong commitment?
>>23856148
i don't expect to get a hug, ever. under any circumstances
>>23856186
that's funny i guess
>>23856230
thanks, you're always nice.
another question, why do ugly guys go after hot girls then when the girl says no he calls her a shallow bitch or complains about all women only caring about looks? Like if you want someone to see past your looks and to date you despite your ugliness how can you ask that when you can't do the same?
>>23856474
>>23856515
I understand the wanting to help part, and I do appreciate it. It's just not helping when I open up about something and then all women want to talk to me about is that thing.
>>23856557
It's not only ugly guys that do this, it's mostly guys that are full of themselves. Basically the reasoning goes: I'm perfect so she must have rejected me because there is something wrong with her. Ugly guys will say that she rejected them because she is shallow, good looking guys will say that she rejected them because she is a basic bitch.
>>23856523
>Guys what's the most annoying thing a girl can do?
Beating around the bush about things instead of just outright saying directly.
>Also what separates a casual fling from a lifelong commitment?
Where you meet is what kind of sets the course really. Mostly having genuine mutual interests, desires, plans etc is what separates it for me personally.
>>23856557
Beggars can't be choosers but some try to be. Lust is also a very powerful thing, so that plays a part too.
>>23856557
Both sexes do it, fat girls demand hot guys and cry about body shaming while still wanting a hot guy.
ANyway, guys do it because girls insist they don't care about looks but like "personality" more, so an ugly guy has been told all his life his ugliness doesn't disqualify him from a hot girl and that's why he wants a hot girl still
>>23856581
I get that, my boyfriend sometimes gets frustrated about things and when I offer to help he just gets more frustrated. I've just learned to let him work it out unless he specifically asks. Just tell the girls that you want to vent and aren't looking for advice but if you change your mind you'll come to them first.
>>23856584
I'm really forward and that turns a lot of guys off about me. I heard they like the "thrill of the chase"
>>23856594
Not saying girls don't do it, I was just asking from the male point of view. And if you look at movies and tv shows, a lot of times the nerdy and fat ugly guy gets the girl just because he's a good person. Also a lot of movies have a fat gross husband and a hot wife. I was just wondering if that seeing ugly guys get hot girls maybe made them want to demand one too.
>>23856142
you're a walking pity party, its pathetic and is a stronger girl repellent than walking around with your dick out
>>23856602
Thrill of the chase is a good thing but finding the balance of playing hard to get and being uninterested is difficult. In what ways are you forward?
You could also try treating the guy your interested in like a friend to begin with by doing regular stuff like hanging out in a group, doing just friends stuff but then start to show some interest in him.
>>23856610
That all sounds about right. People think movies and TV can be like real life which just sets them up for a big fall later on.
>>23856631
With my current boyfriend I just told him he was cute and that I liked him. If he makes me upset I don't pout I tell him. I'm still bad when he asks me what i want to eat tho lol.
How do I approach you in bars and shit women? I'm always really awkward and sit alone drinking, ultimately leaving when I'm done drinking.
>>23856663
im curious, are you good looking?
>>23856663
Sounds like how I met my gf.
>If he makes me upset I don't pout I tell him.
I like that. Being direct makes it easier to find a resolution. Though my gf pouts, which kind of bugs me.
>I'm still bad when he asks me what i want to eat tho lol.
So is my gf. But I'm also the same, so we usually spend 20 minutes asking what we each feel like.
>>23856693
If she pouts ignore her, that'll piss her off and make her act like an adult.
>>23856690
yes why?
>>23856750
kinda matters when it comes from taking opinion/advice
>>23856750
>If she pouts ignore her, that'll piss her off and make her act like an adult.
I do that but it does occasionally make things worse. I really don't know how to handle pouting.
>>23856785
Okay ask her what's wrong first, if she doesn't tell your or if she says nothing then leave it. When she gets mad about it later tell her you're tired of dragging answers out of her and if she wants you to know what's wrong she should tell you.
>>23856773
But why? You haven't even asked anything.
>>23856801
i read the thread but please dont take it personal im just skeptical when it comes to taking advice from anons but by this logic you could just lie whatever i find your answers and questions interesting
>>23856801
Thanks, I'll see how that goes in the future.
FEM ANONS
BOXERs
or
BRIEFs
?
>>23856927
boxer briefs
>>23856957
Out of curiosity, any particular brands?
>>23856965
lol she doesn't know she's never seen them irl
men: what do you think of girls who love facials? is it hot? a bonus?
>>23857007
Very hot and a bonus. But it's rare. I know my gf hates it and the idea and doesn't understand why anyone likes it.
>>23857024
I'm totally obsessed with facials/cum in general and I don't understand girls who dislike it!! I'm glad to hear men like it at least.
>>23857024
a lot of girls don't want their makeup ruined. I know personally I'd hate that to happen, but if we were having sex after I took a shower I'd be more than down.
>>23856992
lol
>>23856965
hanes is nice
>>23857024
What is the obsession around it? I really don't want cum on my face.
>>23857031
>>23857040
I know plenty that hate cum in general, I'm surprised there are girls that actually like it.
>>23857074
I honestly don't know. It's one of those things you just can't explain I guess and that you like for no logical reason.
>>23856137
>what are personality deal breakers in guys, ie no matter how hot/rich he was you'd still hate him
mean, rude to waiters/baristas/retail workers, arrogant, thinks he's better/smarter than everyone around him, racist, sexist...
>do girls actually like getting spanked or do you just like that boys like it
some girls really do like it, some girls don't. i am in the "don't" category
>would you call your bf/husband "daddy" if he wanted you to
nope
>what are attractive/interesting hobbies
varies from girl to girl, but personally i love scuba divers or any activities that involve nature/animals :)
>>23856927
not a big deal but i've heard that boxers are better for male fertility, but seeing as how i don't wanna get pregnant... briefs :D
>>23857561
>scuba divers
I've not heard of that being an attractive before. What are some of the other nature ones?
Ladies, I've sorta got a fuck buddy arrangement going with this girl and we've got a lot of sexual chemistry. But I was thinking today I'm not sure what a good sexual experience is (if that makes sense). She cums, but I'm just wondering what it is that makes you think 'I need to continue fucking this guy'
>girls
Does cumming = orgasm? I've made this girl cum the times we've been intimate, but I really want to please her. Not sure if i'm "ok" or actually fulfilling her.
Will I ever get swiped right with this as my main photo?
>>23858379
Yes
There's no help thread going on now, so would you folks mind telling me your opinion on my profile?
okcupid.com/profile/badtasteinmovies
Had it for a week now and have been able to go out on two dates, but most women don't respond back after looking at my profile or put zero effort into a conversation if they do.
Girls do you care that boys fap to your pics? Do you like it?
>>23859058
I kinda like it yeah
>>23859072
kik? :) no but really do you take pics and think about it like i wonder if guys fap to this, or do you even take pics on social media just for that?
>>23858928
Must be the women, I would put 10/10 effort into conversation with a guy who has such a nice dog
>>23859074
I'd think it'd be a bit odd for someone to fap over just a face picture, but I do like the thought of it if the pictures I take are intended for that use
Question for the guys to keep this alive: Generally, do you prefer girls that come across as sweet/ cute or hot/ sexy?
>>23859104
Sweet/cute, definitely.
>>23856688
git gut and get fit
Girls, a few questions.
Does shaving each others pubs appeal to you?
Does a virgin guy turn you off period? Even if everyone seems to think he isn't, I get this a lot but I assume it's just people being nice. I feel it's clear as day that I am but that's just me
For a first date is a simple lunch at a sandwich place a pretty good idea?
>>23859174
>Does shaving each others pubs appeal to you?
No
>Does a virgin guy turn you off period?
Not really but would prefer a guy that knows what he's doing, that being because I myself don't really have much experience
>For a first date is a simple lunch at a sandwich place a pretty good idea?
Sounds cute
>>23859193
>cute
I'll take that as a good thing
>>23859058
Even though I've never sent nudes to anyone, I wouldn't be surprised if guys have fapped to my pictures and it doesn't bother me.
I do know people have fapped to my voice and it is an ego booster for sure.
Well, i've got a gf since like 1 year until now and we are both in the kinky stuff. I recently got her to do more and now I'm thinking about talking to hear about making pictures after our sessions. That would be the first gf i ask about this - because I want to add them to a profile, like fetlife or other ones.
>what do you think about the idea?
>would you deny a guy who asks this instantly? or are there things that need to be done beforehand?
Thanks for answering
>>23855784
holly? :o
(socks)
>>23859104
Cute
I don't do well around hot/sexy.
But it's nice to turn hot/sexy in bed if you're cute.
>>23859660
totally agree with him
Whats the ideal way to hit on/get numbers of girls at events, bars, etc?
I go to a lot of social things like small concerts, art gallery openings, and trivia nights, but would like to talk to girls there, but I'm not sure how to start in a public setting.
>>23859087
Thanks, I needed that laugh.
>>23859104
Sweet and cute definitely. Little/no makeup, long hair and not showing tons of skin, bubbly and excitable
When a girl is "hot and sexy" it's obvious she's trying and it's a turn off because you assume she's had 50,000 dicks and no one wants that
>>23859058
Id be put off by it unless I sent nudes. If you're my friend I don't want anything sexual between us. That just seems gross.
Ask away
>>23860059
tfw no pretty brown gf
Girls:
I masturbate a good amount when I'm single, and because of that when I do get into a relationship it takes a few times for me to adjust and be able to get it up/stay hard from actual sex. I do regain my function after a few nights of it, but up until then, I keep going limp. My question is: how off-putting would it be for you if this happened with a guy you were seeing?
>>23860949
depends on our relationship. casual? annoyed. but if we've been dating seriously and I care about you, I can handle it.
>>23860949
Man I wonder if this will happen to me since I masturbate at least once a day
>>23852132
Why are vaginas so fucking gross?
>>23856523
> Guys what's the most annoying thing a girl can do?
Having cleavage probably. Also insisting on overcome role models.
>>23856557
>why do ugly guys go after hot girls
It’s worth a try
>calls her a shallow bitch or complains about all women only caring about looks
Denial, they can’t stand that they are just not compatible. Same goes for hate on gay people.
>>23857007
Doesn’t matter to me, but would fulfill that request. Licking her clean, on the other hand, would be interesting.
>>23859104
cool and cute
>>23859692
>I'm not sure how to start in a public setting
I’m totally not social, but just talk about the common interest, you have.
>>23861120
they aren’t
Asking the girls:
Girls are generally sexy and cute/beautiful to other girls. Think of a very cute teen girl you have seen - If she took her panties off in front of you and wanted licked out, would you do it?
>>23857824
well since i like scuba diving, scuba divers are attractive to me! lol. other nature-y activities would include hiking, biking, swimming, surfing, mountain climbing... that kinda stuff.
or maybe even volunteering at an animal shelter... or volunteering in general, really.
>>23858928
2 dates isn't bad at all for your first week. seems like a good profile, you're a cute guy with a cute dog. and your bio doesnt scream douchebag.
>>23859174
>Does shaving each others pubs appeal to you?
no
>Does a virgin guy turn you off period?
nope
>For a first date is a simple lunch at a sandwich place a pretty good idea?
yes!
>>23859465
>what do you think about the idea?
if you think the two of you would enjoy it, sure.
>would you deny a guy who asks this instantly? or are there things that need to be done beforehand?
myself, yes, i would not want to. but this doesn't mean all girls would refuse... maybe suggest a more anonymous territory like here on 4chan or even tumblr
>>23861819
...no?? i'm straight, i don't find girls sexually attractive... i can objectively say "yes, this girl is cute/pretty," but i dont like other vajoos or boobs
>>23856539
Np! :D
>>23856515
im not lol
>>23856581
that makese sense, I guess try and look at the bright side? Having people who care for you is always nice, just tell them you don't want it to be brought up often? idk
>>23859498
nope not holly
>>23861120
bad hygiene
>>23861819
nope
If a guy is under 6 foot realistically is there any point in talking to women?
>>23861911
I think you would be a good girlfriend.
FEMANONS
HOW DO I MAKE MY GIRLFRIEND CUM
IVE TRIED LOTS OF THINGS BUT IT JUST NEVER HAPPENS
LIKE SHE SAYS WE HAVE GREAT SEX BUT IDK
>>23861921
of course
>>23861949
i like to think so too, thank you!
>>23861975
I AM ACTUALLY VERY INSECURE ABOUT THIS GUYS
>>23862027
ask her?
>>23856137
>-what are personality deal breakers in guys, ie no matter how hot/rich he was you'd still hate him
plays league, not funny, says shit like 'epic'
>-do girls actually like getting spanked or do you just like that boys like it
ya
>-would you call your bf/husband "daddy" if he wanted you to
ya
>-what are attractive/interesting hobbies
something you're interested in? dont do shit to be cute.
>>23856145
duh
>>23856387
yes, but less
>>23856453
>Why does every woman I meet is trying to "fix" me?
you're probably bad
>>23856688
not to be a dick but lose weight
>>23856927
boxer briefs look good if u got a good
>>23858412
yes
>>23859058
i'd like it but it would be weird if someone just told me
>>23859174
no
i've slept with a lot of virgins but i dont like it, i prefer him to be in control
yes
>>23860059
are u gay
>>23860949
really upsetting when a guy cant get it up
>>23861819
r u 12
men (or queer girls)
what is the best sex you ever had? why?
what are good things to do, please be specific.
>>23862034
>plays league
why?
i dont play league so im not offended just asking
>>23862049
just a huge red flag for gross neckbeard types. not all league players are bad, but its a good chance
>>23862031
shes only had one previous sexual partner and said that the sex was terrible.
like we have tried shit before, blind fold, tie to bed, various positions.
she doesnt know and neither do i
>>23862060
but isnt look an indicator for the neckbeard type?
>>23859789
How dare a girl put effort into her looks.
>>23860949
I'd be upset that you would jack off so much that when it came down to the real thing you couldn't keep it up. I wouldn't feel good enough for you either.
>>23861158
Why is cleavage annoying? A lot of womens shirts are low cut unless it's a unisex crew neck shirt.
>>23861819
No because I don't take advantage of children...wtf
>>23861921
Yes height seriously isn't that big a deal, girls do like if a guy is taller but he doesn't have to be a zillion feet taller.
>>23861975
A lot of women can't cum from penetration alone. Maybe get a toy to stimulate her clit?
>>23862069
not always.
>>23862082
so im actually confused rn
isnt neckbeard basically a meme? an unhygienic overweight person with beard on his neck talking about atheism and stuff
how is this not obvious from the look itself? or you have a different meaning for the word?
>>23856410
im actually believing this.for real.
>>23862090
i apply the word more to the attitude stereotype with those people
>>23862108
so you basically saying.. nerd? guy who likes video games and stuff?
>>23862109
...........no
>>23862110
WOMEN ARE SO CONFUSING
So you're in a bar or doing something social. As a not-gorgeous-but-cute-enough-that-if-we-got-to-talking-youd-give-me-a-shot kind of guy, how do I approach you without seeming like a total creep?
>>23856557
that doesnt make sense.If the particular dude wants to date hot chicks thats his perrogative.Ton of hell and baggage included in that choice but for me only chick ill shame is a fat girl.Deserves it 100%.Fucking eyesores and vastly out umber fat dudes.Me? im fit 5'11 190 *less than 10% bf* so before u go down that road.....
also ugly girls dont take rejection well nor aggro bitches.Want explanations or get into shaming yelling matches about how bad we are to try and convince themselves they werent rejected and cry themselves to sleep at night.
i dont put up with any of it,used to but after a few of those instances i now say what i didnt like outright and to fuck off.They persist ill just call the fuckin police.Its gotten to that point in society now.Have to have intervention or u face a fake rape or abuse/assault charge.Ill call the police and record a bitch at the drop of a fuckin feather.
where has chivalry gone?
its been bitched,legaled and scared out of us.
>>23856602
>I'm really forward and that turns a lot of guys off about me. I heard they like the "thrill of the chase"
not me that would be a welcome change to using up truckfuls of energy runnin around.Done with it in fact.
How do you guys get out of a dry spell (without getting super desperate)? I probably haven't had sex in about 4 months due to focusing on school/internship I had, but now it's summer and everyone is gone from my college town so my options are kind of limited. Tried out tinder, but no luck since I'm not a 10/10
>>23862208
Just fap, it's not that bad. My longest was a year, currently sitting on 6 months after a spree. Keep hitting up tinder, summer times coming up, lots of college kids on it returning home looking for a good time, but don't be serious on it! just be chill senpai
>>23862226
How can I get some good pictures for tinder when all of my friends are out of town? Don't really know what to put on there
>>23862208
guess ur a dude or?
anyway im a dude and good looking so chicks are not hard to scare up when needed.tinder i think is bullshitbut im older so use okc and pof.i hit those hard for three days ill have ten dates if wanted and those are dtf,no going out to dinner.
If ur desperate dont let chicks smell that it is deathknell.Once u understand they dont want to be a last resort girl because of their pride u get the game and find more u ignore them and are borderline or just flat fuckin rude,more ur gonna get laid.Dont care how ugly u are because it is hardwired for females to bond with alpha males.Try it out on buses,streets swear man u will see and feel them trying to open dialogue with you.
seems nuts at first and essentially is but once u think about it u can use it at whim.
i wont waste my time on it because its some tedious/bad sex anyway bullshit/ but throw me a feminist that is pussy power all the way ,ill have her on her back in an hour.
>>23862305
What should I ask the girls to do, if not like dinner? I have a few numbers from pof
Females: This woman I work with has been sending me mixed messages. I'm social enough and experienced enough to know she's into me, but just autistic enough to not know if it's a sexual attraction or a friendly curiosity thing. Shift change went as follows today-
>walk in, be me "hey what's up how was today"
>"oh hey anon today was good. Kinda boring."
>"we don't look very busy not many cars out how many rooms do we have tonight?"
>she actually pulls out a cartoonishly large lollipop and sucks on it while talking to me now.
>"only like 20 rooms tonight most were walk ins. I was hoping we'd stay dead maybe I could sneak in and use the pool for a little while tonight".
>be me autistic answer "just don't get in the hot tub, you put the chemicals in right?"
>she pops lollipop out of her mouth and actually licks the fucking thing.
>me diamonds trying not so stare at her mouth
>"yeah I put the chemicals in the spa, oh anon(the boss) said he wants you to email the end of month reports early tonight"
>"ok cool thanks for letting me know. Have a good night"
>"you too anon" she leaves and throws lollipop in trash on her way out didn't even finish it
What the fuck just happened?
>>23862176
So fat girls are the devil but fat men deserve hot girls? Wtf dude. Also fat women are probably more common because estrogen holds on to fat while testosterone doesn't. It's much easier for men to lose weight. So fat men should be shamed more. If we're shaming anyone.
>>23862548
Should add we had to take a seminar on workplace harassment and we have a strict no outside relationship clause at work, including even just friendly gatherings. So this isn't a case of "well don't be a beta and just try and see". If I engage and she reports me I lose my job, zero tolerance. So basically puss puss isn't as important to me as my job, but I feel like it's staring me in the face with its cunny flaps smiling at me. But what if it's a trap. Fucking hell.
these are all pretty sexual, sorry
1) what do you think if a girl gags on your dick? like not like she's trying to, but an accident??? and then just continues?
2) what do you think of girls calling you daddy? What would you do?
3) What do you think of a girl who doesn't like to receive oral?
Why do girls wear really short shorts that don't even cover their ass cheeks, and then spend all day pulling them down? Did you buy them knowing how they fit? if not, why still wear them if they don't fit?
pic related
>>23856137
this is fun
-I don't like... when we have nothing to do all the time. Or when someone has to be high or something to enjoy things.
-I do. But I like it because of the way the guy does it, like if I can tell he's into it, so maybe I like it because boys like it
-I really really like calling guys daddy but I don't think my boyfriend would appreciate that too much...
-My boyfriend and I play music and go to festivals together and longboard and love doing things outside in nature, but I find those hobbies attractive in men because I do them and we can do them together.
>>23856145
It depends. I'm a live musician, so if you act better than me or belittle my career saying you could do it, no. If we can play together or enjoy each others music, yes.
>>23862625
I don't wear shorts, but I *love* wearing dresses, and sometimes I wear them without realizing what I'd be doing that day and I end up flashing people constantly. Like I keep my longboard in my car and spontaneously do that and flash people. It's more of a "not caring" thing, or an "ill-planned" thing than anything. I think girls wake up and put clothes they feel good in on and then don't realize they're going to do stuff all day.
>>23862590
1) A gag is fine, even gives a slight ego boost. Just don't throw up on my dick please.
2) Any pet name can be sexy it all depends on the context. Daddy is a good one, being told yes sir is a major turn on for me though. I'm not an extreme Dom or anything but I do tend to take control in the bedroom, a submissive girl respecting me as a "superior" is a huge turn on, so daddy would probably work too.
3) not sure about this one, haven't met a girl that absolutely hated oral before. New a girl that claimed it never got her off but I just fingered her while licking her clit, found out she preferred for her clit to be sucked on rather than licked and bam, a couple tries later she's squirming.
For all 3 of these the easy answer is communicate with your partner, your likes and dislikes matter less and less the more you talk about them with whoever you're fucking.
31/m/virgin. Do I have a chance to get a gf or get laid? Honestly wondering if I'm so far beyond where I should be if it's even worth it to try at this point.
Femanons. I know this is not the best place to ask since I think most of /soc/ is pretty high on the clingy scale, but I will ask anyway.
Is there any way to find someone to eat fancy dinners with, take to social gatherings, and occasionally bone without all the texting and other bullshit?
I can make friends with a guy and not talk for a couple of weeks/months and we can go out to a bar and act like good friends still. I feel like girls lose interest if I don't constantly shower them with social attention.
>>23862662
depends. Social skills? Job? Interests? Maybe money? (I don't care about a guy being rich, but my guy and I wanna order pizza and stuff occasionally haha) Do you act like a virgin???
>>23862662
Average life span of human male is somewhere in the upper 70's, so you aren't even half way through a natural lifetime. It'll eventually happen, just depends how long you are willing to wait, or how much work you are ready to put into yourself. It's an investment really, work on yourself if you expect any kind of return from another person to show interest in you. Hope you find someone bud!
>>23862668
I love guys like this when I'm single. Like I had a few in my city I lived in and if I wanted to get out for a while, I'd go canoeing and to dinner with this guy in my hometown and then have sex with him. No texting unless I was in town or something. But one got upset I wouldn't date him, one never had anything interesting to do or talk about, wasn't really attractive, and one went to the army. So I got a boyfriend. (classy, I know)
why do woman hate it when guys show the same level of affection as theydo to us.
i dated this girl for awhile who i at first didnt have much interest in. She was head over heels in love with me. She wanted me to move in and even bought me a buch of stuff. A few months later when i started showing the same level of affection and started really loving her she grew to have little to no interest in me.
>>23862687
Dude here, but this is a rule of the world. You always want what you can't have. I bet the girl liked that she had to work to get you to be in love with her. Once it was easy, she stopped caring
>>23862682
This is good to know people like you exist. Where would be a good place to find someone like you? At the bars? Most of my friends are dating and I am pretty tired of being the 21st wheel when I go out. I have a good job and would even pay for the food. All I want them to do is look nice, talk with people, and drink. Harder to find then I would think
>>23862651
It's hard to find irks that wear dresses anymore. Even more rare to find skirts. I've always had a dress/skirt fetish due to an early teen sexual encounter in a dollar movie theater. Since then I've always related skirts/dresses to sex. Weird how that works.
>>23862672
I work around 60 hours a week and make enough to live on my own, albeit in a 1br apartment. Two jobs. Drug store management and server in a restaurant. Interests are chess, video games, reading, movies, learning photoshop and piano, some origami.
I think I used to act like a virgin, but I've improved a lot. Been a long road, One of my friends likes concerts and I've been trying to go to some when I can. At the least, I'm getting out of my apartment. I'm not rich, but I work a ton so I have a bit of extra money.
>>23862705
I knew mine from school, friends of friends, and childhood. With the first two, I asked them if they wanted to hang out and I'd just drive us somewhere and eat dinner or something and flirt and do stuff with them and then turn around and not text them for two weeks. But it helped that they'd liked me for like, years. With the last one, he messaged me after we hadn't talked in years and we talked for a while and then i mentioned I was visiting and we went long boarding and had sex and then we were like "cool, we should do this again sometime" and I went back to my city. I think it helped that I made it really clear that I didn't want to date them, and that I was really happy being alone, but I missed certain aspects of relationships like talking and enjoying people alone.
It's nice to be an anonyslut.
>>23856137
>>23856137
>-do girls actually like getting spanked or do you just like that boys like it
I personally like it. A little pain to punctuate the pleasure. However, this is coming from someone who likes to be choked during sex so ymmv.
>-would you call your bf/husband "daddy" if he wanted you to
No.
>-what are attractive/interesting hobbies
Just do what you like in your free time. Lifting is always a plus.
>>23862739
You have the same interests as my boyfriend, who also has two jobs. We have an age gap, I think it helps. Like find a girl a little younger than you, ask her for her number, call her and ask her on a date? That seems too simple, and that's why it works. But I don't know you so idk. Concerts are also super fun, or like festivals? You meet tons of people, so that sounds gr8
>>23862668
If you want little to no obligation to talk I'd say get a fwb
>>23862778
The other problem is meeting people. I work a ton and when I'm not working, I'm physically exhaused so I'm tired. I've been to a few in the past few years, but I with either go alone or just end up hanging out with my friend.
I wonder if I do meet someone, if she finds out I'm a virgin at my age if I'll just be rejected. I think women expect someone my age to have a certain amount of sexual experience. Since I don't have that, I feel like I'm just some bold red flag.
>>23862810
get a hooker to boost your confidence mayb? i think its a lot more psychological. you can always act like you havent had sex in a long time, she wont know youre virgin
>>23862810
hmm, that's rough. My boyfriend is usually very tired from his jobs, and we actually met at walmart (while he was working) and he asked for my number and then I found out he works with my dad at his other job (title insurance) so that was weird. But my boyfriend really didn't like... get to know me on the spot. I was buying the little mermaid and makeup remover and he asked for my number before giving me my receipt. Then he called and asked me on a date so we could get to know each other. And I never asked if he was a virgin because the topic never really came up. And then we did it and he wasn't. First times aren't a big deal unless you want them to be.
>>23862837
Yeah, but I feel like it's going to be weird since I'm in my 30s vs if I was 18 or something. There was a girl that came in to my restaurant job that I waited on. I talked with her briefly. She was new to the area, cute, liked the food, left me a good tip, ect. Seemed to like me enough. I assumed she was just being friendly and I didn't want to bother her. I did consider asking her if I could show her around the city but didn't want to bother her or anything. If she comes in again maybe I'll ask her.
>>23862849
awwh. the worst thing that can happen is a "no"
>>23862852
Agree with this, unless of course you go younger, and in that case goodnight sweet prince. 18 and up give it a shot, any younger don't get caught.
I'd say the best thing to do in this case is to join a singles club like "events and adventures" or whatever it's called. Even if you don't end up hooking up with someone you are expanding your social circle, and exposing yourself to new groups of people. It can only help.
>>23862852
Yeah. Or she writes a review on the creepy server that hit on her and I get fired.
idk. I tend to assume the worst possible thing that can happen, will happen.
My philosophy since I was maybe 7 or 8 years old has been: Expect the worst, hope for the best. I dunno. I feel this is probably a very pessimistic way to live life, and one that most people don't live by, but the one that feels and always has felt the most natural to me. Maybe this peculiar, inherent nature of mine has doomed me to a life of solitude. I don't know anymore. I just want to not be lonely anymore.
>>23862865
Speaking as the "18 year old" in this situation, I agree and so do my friends. Their boyfriends are around 27 so you're not much older.
>>23862882
Guess I'd feel weird going out with an 18 or 19 year old.
>>23862881
Then you laugh and tell your manager "She was telling me how she was new to town and I offered to show her around. If she took it wrong, that's her fault."
>>23862919
then go for 20s. 22 or 23 is old enough to drink while maybe being past the "omg I'm old enough to drink" thing hehe
>>23862927
You're right, I probably wouldn't get fired. One guy left his number for one of the servers and she went out with him for a bit. I dunno. I know most of this is just me and my hangups. I'm probably just making excuses so I can stay in my comfort zone. In this experience of dating, flirting, 'hooking up', I'm probably like a 15 year old.
I don't have any issues with dating someone in her 20s. My issues are that with my age since I'm in my 30s that I should be expected that I know how to please a woman, have a decent job, be a normal, regular guy that 'just hasn't found the right woman, or something to that extent.'. I dunno anymore.
>>23862966
fuck a prostitute first, then you at least know what to expect
>>23862625
they dont sell shorts the right length and my fat legs make the shorts roll up
>>23862668
fwb
>>23862590
1) Not really a turn-off, not really a turn-on. Probably pretty context-dependent, too; if she was really going at it then it'd probably be hot.
2) I mean... it's not my bag in particular, but I'm pretty flexible about quite a few things, including that.
3) This is awful. Not a dealbreaker, but definitely makes me sad.
>>23861911
i wish there was something i could now say that would make you like me without sounding creepy.
>>23862590
not a huge fan of gagging if it gets extreme but a little is just whatever, if what you do feels good then good, if not then It might bother slightly, let me ask you this, would you mind if I just told you to choke less or do this or that instead? I often give directions, girls seem to be fine with it and something much more important than gagging: do you swallow?
and I don't like to be called daddy, would go with it if it was a huge thing for her and I got something in return
a girl who does not like to receive oral is a bit boring, it would be kinda weird too, suddenly not doing it, old habits and all that
>>23862988
Is full dogging a prosto any fun? Shit probably gets expensive right?
Are women (well, some women, obviously not all) actually attracted to emotionally troubled guys, or is that not a thing? Assuming he's not outright repulsive otherwise.
Ladies, what kind of hygiene and grooming standards do you look for in a guy?
>>23863073
it is what it is, feels better than jerking off, only fucked one once and I did it to help a virgin friend of mine who was in his mid twenties work up the balls to go up to one while we visited amsterdam
I paid more than I had to because I wanted more time, I fucked her for like 40 minutes, she got really into it and even bit me at one point
I used a condom and her biting me did not break skin, doubt she has any aids anyway but you never know, she was a student working in some extra cash, no regrets, might do it again in the future if I get the chance
been 10 years since I lost my virginity though so doubt it will be the same relaxed setting but just be up front and let her know you're getting rid of your virginity, they are professionals after all, its their job
>>23863021
Okay, thank you.
>>23863061
I really like it when guys give instructions actually, it helps a lot. And it's not a big deal or anything, just sometimes the guy will try to go farther and nope haha. My boyfriend actually said he liked it if it wasn't on purpose. He said it was flattering which I don't really get but whatever
Another question if y'all don't mind. I'm enjoying anonymity. Would you rather a girl *try* to let a guy do oral on her and then stop him if she got too uncomfortable or just not try at all? Because it really does make me uncomfortable, and it'd take a lot for it not to.
>>23863091
I'm not. I don't know about other girls. My boyfriend gets really upset sometimes, especially about his dad and stuff and that's fine cause I get upset about stuff and we talk and cuddle and eat and stuff, but... I'm not great with overly sad or emotional guys, because I'm not openly sad and emotional? Maybe "sensitive" is a better word to put it. I hear girls say they like sensitive guys, is that the sameish?
>>23863105
just to clarify what I meant by not the same relaxed setting: that you will probably find the whole thing a bit awkward if its your first time, regardless of how chill the prostitute is about things and you will probably be a bit nervous at first etc
>>23863141
Well shit. Time to drop some cash on listcrawler.
>>23863139
I would try if you did not mind me keep trying
my ex was like you at first, until I got my tongue on her clit for the first time, then everything changed drastically for the better.
I'm gonna make an assumption here as she never told me the issue in detail, only that she did not "feel like it" and my assumption is that girls are insecure about their vagina and afraid guys might get grossed out or something, is there any truth to that?
And I'll tell you how I managed to eat out my ex: I simply made her so fucking horny she was literally begging for dick, and then when she least expected it I just casually went for it, she kinda tried to stop me, but I pinned her and placed my tongue on her clit all flat and careful and slowly moving it in circles until she relaxed, then I let go, got more comfortable and continued until she came, and she came hard, and she just stayed clingy telling me how much she loved me the rest of the evening, lol
after that she loved getting eaten out, thing is, she did not know what she was missing out on, neither do you, and that is literally the only thing stopping you, because once you feel how good it can be all other thoughts will become insignificant in comparison
>>23863139
another suggestion if you are into bondage, what if you were tied spread eagle to the bed and blind folded and you were expecting to get a rough fucking, but suddenly instead found yourself getting eaten out instead, how would you feel about that?
seems hot as hell to me to be on the giving end of that at least, lol
Why are you so fickle? And why do women so obediently obey status quo where as man tend to think for themselves? Notice at any given protest or rally the majority is men
>>23862145
I'd say just walk up and introduce yourself
>>23863176
>>23863187
I don't know if I could do it. And it would be because I'm insecure about it I think. Just because I have scars and idk I don't like my vagina. If I could get over thinking about it, maybe I'd be fine, but I've never gotten that far, so... idk. I don't know if my boyfriend will? and it's not his fault.
>>23863268
I bet he would be fine with it as long as its clean, mind posting a picture?
>>23863274
can't do that. But it looks like a normal (clean) vagina. But with light scars, that are like.... 14 years old. So they look like birthmarks and usually no one even notices them, but they bother me because *I* notice them.
>>23863285
you need to be blindfolded and tied up or just made too horny to care and then leave this silly insecurity in the past
Asking all female races but mainly asking white girls specifically
I know this is going to sound lame but for the first time in my life i got to have sex with a white girl, it was an emo girl who i was friends with and it was casual. Anyways i feel really gay writing this but when we were having sex i was saying stuff like "take that big black dick" and "you like nigga dick dont you" and i told her to say how much she loved my black dick. The thing is i wasn't sure if she liked it or not, like really i have no idea how she felt about me saying that.
Do women like racial banter / dirty talking during interracial sex? Do you find it weird or does it turn you on? Would you personally rather a guy not race stuff like "i have a black dick and you have a white pussy" or would you rather he say that? Not even black and white it could be any race combo. Its a turn on for me but if it bothers the girl i can work around it
If a girl asked you to help shave her hairy pussy, would you?
I'm talking like 70s bush... I need help..its out of control
>>23863337
Black guys don't typically like me because I'm tiny and white and awkward and I hate saying that cause it sounds awful but I see the girls my black friends like and they don't look like me. So I've never done this. It seems like it *could* be hot with the right person, but could also be uncomfortable? I'd just ask idk
>>23863339
I'm a girl but I have a married guy friend who says he thoroughly enjoys shaving his wife. Idk why, I'd rather just shave my own lady bits
>>23863339
if it the alternative is bush then sure
a guy in my outer social circles once brought a chick home that had crazy bush, he simply took her to the shower and shaved before he fucked her
>>23863339
I'm not sure why it would require two people but sure.
>>23863339
I like tweezer girls pubic hair one hair at a time. I live watching it slowly come out and the little hip movements the girl makes
What do women think of 'female emancipation' and it's effect on western society? Has sexual liberation been a good thing?
>>23856168
Of course, it differs girl to girl, but I think a good universal place to start is always a good old fashion make out. Get handsy, but don't remove clothes too quickly, slowly strip. Then for me personally I believe the next step when shit gets a little heavier is to work up to eating her out. After that I'm usually good to go at least.
>>23856387
In high schools/teenage hangouts yes. It was never good though. Very rarely do I see it in the adult world though.
>>23858379
Generally yes, but idk I get the feeling you're asking if she's faking it which we can't tell you that certainly. What I will say though is if she is faking it and not fucking opening her dumb mouth and telling you what she wants that's in no way shape or form your problem at all.
>>23859692
Honestly just talk, but be natural. Like if you're at a concert say "hey how long have you known this band, whats your favorite album/song?" Open with something relevant, flow from there.
>>23861120
Idk man I think they're pretty fucking weird too. Thats why I like dick.
>>23863100
Don't smell like shit (this includes over grooming IE wearing a shitty over powering cologne or something). Don't look homeless in hair/dress. Idk I don't have very high standards. I don't tend to like beards, but a rare few can pull them off imo. But I've never seen a long beard that looked good. Chest hair is a huge turn off to me personally, idk why I just find it gross. I only had one ex with chest hair and I made a deal that I'd shave my legs if he shaved his chest lol.
>>23863091
Honestly on average I'd say no. I think this is universal though, on average stable people seek out and attract other stable people. Unstable people tend to seek out and attract unstable people.
>>23862687
Different folks different strokes. I'm personally attracted to a heavily dominant man, because I'm a very submissive woman. I like to dote on others, not be doted on. It makes me uncomfortable.
>>23864259
I feel like you can't shame women for having sex and then encourage men to do it. I'd much prefer if everyone was told to wait and find the right person before having sex. There would be less broken homes.
>>23864363
But feminists just reversed it: women sleeping around is empowering but men sleeping around is objectifying. Plus men who aren't having sex are disgusting losers who are bullied and shamed even more. You lose no matter what.
>>23864436
Women who don't have sex are prudes women who do have sex are shameful sluts. It happens to both genders.
>>23863057
I like everyone
>>23863100
Brushing teeth, bathing, no bo lol
>>23864259
i think its all stupid
>>23864259
No. But the sexual attitude of the public in general has gotten a lot more casual, yet still very vicious. You can't win. Don't sleep with everyone? Faggot, or prude. Though a woman will call a woman a prude faster than a man would. Sleep with everyone? "Man-whore" or slut.
Would be less of an issue if people stopped ruining their lives for a good lay.
how many fingers can you fit in your pussy
what color panties are you wearing
>>23862076
>Why is cleavage annoying? A lot of womens shirts are low cut unless it's a unisex crew neck shirt.
Well only if it draws my glance to boobs. If it looks good, I’ll accept it, but when it doesn’t I’ll be annoyed. And then I have to force me not to look there.
>>23863339
>If a girl asked you to help shave her hairy pussy, would you?
No, I like pubic hair. I would accept it if a girl shaves, but I wouldn’t assist.
Maybe if there is a plausible reason for not being able to do it herself ... like having no arms or stuff.
>>23864609
you even reject people really nice
>>23863337
bump my question, i need to know so i dont look retarded in the future :*(
>>23865078
>dont look retarded in the future
I’m not female, but dunno better ask what she likes about you. If the other does not care for your skin color it could be just perceived as offensive and racist.
>>23863337
as a white girl, i definitely wouldn't like it... i'm sure some girls would like it, but just to be safe, i wouldn't bring up racial banter without asking first.
How can I be the little girl?
How do you prefer guys to approach you? And where do you usually meet them?
>>23864565
The word prude is used by men who are unworthy of sex and women who are jealous that they're used up. Don't be ashamed of being called a prude.
This one is for either gender really. I'm visiting a new city in a week and I'm going to be there for about 6 days. Where can I meet people to just hang out with?
>>23863337
i love black guys but it would make me really uncomfortable. like it would make me feel like you're having sex with me just for the sake of having sex with a white girl/reenacting your raceplay fantasies
>>23864436
>disgusting losers who are bullied and shamed even more
Never happened to me. I mean it makes me sad and leads to self-pity, because I wanna try this relationship and sex stuff. But just for trying isn’t a good reason.
So I’m waiting and exploring myself in the meantime.
To me it does not matter how often somebody had sex. It’s just very likely that somebody who has lots of casual sex has a totally different lifestyle and isn’t compatible with me.
>>23856410
XXD #RIPTupac
>>23852132
Are girls only attracted to large dicks? Like if you wanted to watch male masturbation porn and the guy is very attractive but he only had an average size dick you'd pass him up for someone bigger.
Big question for guys out there.
This has been bothering me for a really long time, it's about a guy I like a lot so it's important to me. A honest answer would make this girl really happy!
1) So imagine you meet a cute younger girl and you're having sex pretty often and when it happens she's often like, "I love it when you do this/I love it when you do that/I love it so much", "I've never let a guy fuck me in the ass before", "I've never managed to do a real deepthroat before", "I love it so much when you fuck me in the ass" "You turn me on so much" etc and also saying your name when you have sex with her and stuff, praising you, displaying really actively how good you are at pleasing her. (I'm literally just being honest and it's important to me to show it when someone makes me feel really good) And also she's often dropping hints at the fact that she only sleeps with you and is a very hard-to-get type of girl and "haha your friend tried to sleep with me can you believe this?". Also she lets you do literally anything you want, slap her, choke her, pull her hair, hurt her, etc and she's smiling when you do it. Is that, err... Offputting? I'm scared that he will think I'm a slut... Somehow I feel that it's humiliating for some reason... I can't put my finger on it but I feel it affects my pride in a way and he will think I'm stupid and take me for granted.
2) Should I say no to him for once so he doesn't take me for granted/to be more appealing to him? We don't have sex that often really but there is a cultural stereotype saying that the most desirable woman is one you have to fight for and one that is unattainable. I feel that I'm making myself undesirable by displaying the real strength of my own desire for him... Should I play this game in order to be higher in his esteem or follow my heart and act how I really want to act?
>>23866250
Large dicks are visually very appealing and to see pics of them or watch them on video is a big turn-on for a lot of girls, but irl it really doesn't matter what size dick the guy has unless it's laughably small, au contraire 16cm (sorry, European size) is already a little too much for me... Varies from girl to girl obviously. It's always a matter of taste and different girls will like different things.
People keep saying I look good for a fat dude but I just can't see it for some reason, I still need to lose 30 kg more. Do you think I'll be good looking after losing all the extra fat?
>>23863091
Depends on the 'trouble' this sounds sketchy but depression or being distant for instance can actually make a person more interesting. But being clingy or complaining a lot for instance, would definitely be a turn off.
>>23866257
For 1), all those early things like the ass stuff and praise is great but around here
>saying your name when you have sex with her and stuff, praising you, displaying really actively how good you are at pleasing her.
>dropping hints at the fact that she only sleeps with you and is a very hard-to-get type of girl
>and "haha your friend tried to sleep with me can you believe this?"
Is not so great for various reasons (especially the friend one). I think doing most of those things are great but I think you should ease into some of them you know? I don't mean take things really slow but just don't rush into them, try out a new one each time you see him.
2) I think pulling back and saying no occasionally would be a good thing and make him want you more. The thrill of the chase plays a huge part in relationships.
I hope some of that was helpful.
>>23852132
>girls
why do you say "lets hang out" and never actually do or even try to?
>>23866257
Depends on how old you both are, it plays a huge factor in the "hard to get being more appealing" thing. I say this from experience as I slowly went away from the things I liked from girls as I got older.
>>23866257
1) that your friend tried to sleep with me thing is kinda weird, but if that happened i don't think you two are dating or just a asshole of a friend. probably try to word it better if it happens, and he might think you are a slut for doing some of those things but you would have to ask him about that.
2) do what you want probably say no sometimes but that hard to get stuff will get old fast for some people
sorry for not being much help
>>23866312
Ah, now I'm worried :( I shouldn't have said that... I wanted him to know because he's pretty judgemental of the female gender, he has some quite strong preconceptions about girls (he thinks all girls are sluts), both his exes cheated on him... Thank you!
>>23866336
I'm 19 and he's 26.
>>23866388
>he has some quite strong preconceptions about girls (he thinks all girls are sluts), both his exes cheated on him
Well had I known that I guess I would have put things differently. If he has some pretty deep seeded issues like these, maybe showing him how much you love him is the best way. But not just through sex, do it through other things. Play games together, watch movies, cuddle up in bed, talk about things etc. All that will help establish trust in the relationship since a partner really should be like a best friend but more.
Do you do much of that kind of thing?
>>23865061
I try my best
>>23866225
lol
>>23866407
i appreciate it. well i'm killing myself now
>>23866448
youll find someone!
>>23866457
lol no i fucking won't
>>23866400
I agree that friendship is the most important side of partnership!
We both lead very busy lives which always get in our ways the morning after, but we cuddle and kiss a lot when we wake up, and I try to talk to him a lot, although he's a pretty shut-in, shy person, even with his friends, I feel that being too invasive in spending time with him will scare him off. I think he's often not in a really good place. I get the feeling he is scared of getting too close to a girl as he's had awful experiences. Since he's not that keen on talking about himself the main conversationist is me, but I should ask him to tell me a story or something next time. He told my best friend that he finds me very kind and friendly despite us being extremely different in our worldviews. I study painting and he told me that he doesn't agree with my pessimistic subject choices, I should tell him that I've started choosing slightly different subjects for my studies ever since we argued, ie I'm open to our differences and I've heard him. I'm talking a lot about all of this but I really like this person...
>>23866459
i believe you can
>>23866509
well i'm 25 and i've never even had a hug so obviously i never will. sorry for talking to you, i'm killing myself now.
>>23866388
This is coming from my perspective, so I don't speak for every guy out there. I have been cheated on before, I have done the cheating. I am jaded, so I share some qualities, but each person is his own.
My sexual preferences when it comes to women in regards to everything from body type to how they act in bed has changed over time, for perspective I'm 29 and I first had sex at 18 or 19, but a constant enjoyment in my case is hearing a girl say how much she likes it or things she likes doing. Most guys will agree, but the more observant ones will know when you're full of shit, hence the hate for porn and slut acts that a lot of guys put off. If you're really into it, he'll probably enjoy it too.
A big thing to avoid, especially for a guy who's been cheated on, is jaded, whatever the case, is referencing things you've done in the past. "I've never been able to/liked to deepthroat before" might sound like a compliment to you, but to him it's just a pointer to the fact that you've slept with someone else before. I'd assume he already knows this, but there aren't many dudes out there who want to think about it specifically, especially during the act. On that same note, talking yourself up is in bad taste to a guy who wants you to remain his. "Your friend asked me out, X guy asked me out, etc." sounds to you like you're being faithful and rejecting them, to him it sounds like that much more competition he doesn't want to think about that you might end up fucking anyway behind his back, and will probably piss him off. I had some major jealousy issues when I was a younger guy, and I can remember stuff like that specifically being triggers to set me off, even if I didn't say or show anything outright. The only time you really need to bring that sort of thing up is if you honestly want him to know a dude is creeping on you. Otherwise, handle men yourself by turning them down and telling them you're faithful.
>>23866515
Dont believe them. Youll never have anyone in this state. That can change though. Change your life. Don't be a faggot thinking things will change by themselves
Question for females:
How often do you fantisize about sex a day? What people does you fantisize about? Any guy? Family? Friends?
>>23866303
"Look good for a fat dude"
Nobody looks good when fat. Work hard = get attractive. Don't listen to the fat acceptance bullshit that wants you to stay pathetic. The same girl saying you looked good while fat would never ever ever suck your dick. They just wanna keep like that because they want friends 2. If you want sexuality in your life and with girls Man up and make change. Dont ever love stop, ALWAYS always improve.
>>23866388
>>23866529
cont. Chances are that word will get back to him if they're people he knows or in your social circle that you told someone to back down and he'll probably appreciate it more.
As for feeling sexual stuff, if he's doing things you don't like, just tell him so. He might get pouty, but just let it ride out and continue finding things you like with him. If it's not that you don't like it, but you just feel like it's humiliating, talk to him about that but let him know you definitely enjoy doing it and why. Again, just stay away from direct or indirect references to "X put it in my pooper and I didn't like it but I do with you".
As for rejecting sex, if you don't want it, don't do it. If you're full on into it and just decide to hold it off to make yourself more desirable, you're going to frustrate both of you and have a change in attitude that'll make him wonder.
Just do your thing with him, don't worry too much, and make sure to watch out for him being so jaded he can't handle a relationship. If you guys are okay now, there's no reason to try to change things or yourself. Don't try to "help him" by talking him through past relationship stuff either, unless he prompts it. Keep an eye out for it in case he does, but otherwise let him bury it and move on with you.
>>23866303
"Look good for a fat dude"
Oh if someone said it i guess its true. Live your life through fake perceptions and people saying lies to make u feel good.
>>23866515
you will find happiness, i know it
>>23866541
hardly ever
>>23866303
Girls use guys for:
A. Playful sexual tension, lots of good vibes and sex and adventures
B. Friends they can talk to and spill their emotions to. Someone to feed their ego over phonecalls. The dude will never ever taste the pussy but will mostly be used as a emotional punch bag
Now try to guess where attractive and unattractive guys fit where
>>23866574
>>23866561
>>23866554
You realize this isn't an anon board, right?
>>23866574
>>23866561
>>23866554
You responded three times to the same guy, all saying the same thing different ways
And ignoring the point of the thread since you're a guy
As a dude my life is filled with so much sexual tension and energy i barely can enjoy it. I just want to dominate every girl i meet. Every friends girlfriend id like to make my fuckdoll. I'd love to to fuck my little sis. I'm kinda sick and i repress it. Should i start actualizing and seduce women more?
>>23866576
>23866576
>>23866577
but harsh but have some truth though
>>23866577
Well getting a point across isn't really easy when talking about things like this. Who gives a flying fuck. should i be ashamed or what?
>>23866583
>I'd love to fuck my little sis
>>23866605
I mean, sorry for bullying but like
If you want a real answer I'd suggest you look for maybe like... BDSM things? I'm not an expert on the scene but I'm pretty sure you could look for groups where real submissive girls go to meet real dominant guys. Maybe you could even get into some kinkier stuff, I dunno.
It'd probably release some tension so that you don't feel so horny towards women you shouldn't try to fuck, like your friend's girlfriends and your sister
>>23866529
>>23866559
Thank you for the sound advice! He knows I have only had one sexual partner for 4 years and that was my ex, but you are right.
>>23866615
I've tried with some of the girls i've been with. Like choking and using handcuffs and light faceslapping etc. Overall just bringing it closer to that zone. But i'm just always so fking hungry for more. It's like i live in a sexualized version of life. Guess i can use that energy for good or something
>>23866615
The bdsm scene is filled with old and loose girls that don't look good. I just want that petite nerdy smart qt asian that secretly needs what i need. Fml
>>23866617
Hope it's helpful and you two work out. I had a lot less perspective on it when I was younger and would love to go back 10 years and give myself a solid smack, but you live and you learn. Help him not fuck it up if you're as into him as you sound, he'll show more appreciation later if he doesn't know it yet. Just make sure to reel him in once in a while by speaking your mind and not letting him cross any lines.
>>23866571
>you will find happiness, i know it
i literally won't because i'm killing myself tonight
Do girls like when guys sit on their face?
Do girls appreciate hard work even if there is nothing to show for it now?
I'm going for a PhD, I'm struggling financially and don't have a car or a house or decent clothes.
>>23866724
Stop that shit. Accept you're not killing yourself. Stop being a total washrug and start changing. Take some responsibility and give yourself a shot at a good life.
The purpose is to evolve. If youre constantly in the same place, doing nothing or doing the same things you will rot. As individuals we were never teached in school anything about taking care of our minds. It's like a garden, you have to manage yourself to stay breathing. You have to understand yourself so well that you can see patterns and with that you can navigate and HELP yourself. Meet your happy self at least halfway because if you sat in a room with 10 versions of the future and the most amazing one were there he would be begging you to start changing NOW because he is so fucking happy and he is enjoying life so much. you cant imagine it
>>23866737
Im not a girl but you should focus on what YOU want. Because if you're happy it will shine through. Girls will love it if they can see that YOU care about what you do . Never think "will they" because that is a very unattractive train of thought. Have strong priorities, don't let other peoples opinion make you feel a certain way, just completely embrace yourself in the things you enjoy and own them.
>>23866737
And to add:
All the material stuff is good and will help you. But the number one most important thing is your personality and your social presence.
>>23865982
Can't you defend something without attacking others? The argument seem so petty this way.
