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Hi, I was told by /adv to come here?

I'm asking advice on: how to improve aesthetics (no makeup on) and how to get over mental block against interacting attractive white people (was bullied when I was younger, trying to overcome now)
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uploading the other photo I took in other thread. again, both no makeup, would appreciate advice
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lol

This thread is going to have at least 150 replies.
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>>23762385
sorry? I'm new here, could you explain why?
And any advice for me?
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>>23762381
Well I'm white(age 23) and I would totally date you in a heartbeat if you were in my area,OP.

there are a lot of white boys who like qt Asians like you.
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>>23762395
You're an Asian girl who isn't ugly, posting on a board full of horny thirsty guys, many of whom have serious cases of yellow fever.

Also expect at least 100 of them to try and convince you to get naked.
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>>23762408
oh...
I'm actually looking for advice though :c
I might post full body shots for help on general fitness but no nudity?

>>23762403
I seriously doubt that? I'm not sure though, my entire friend group is asian....
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>>23762420
Are you outspoken or shy?
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>>23762426
It really depends?
I believe the term is extroverted introvert.
Bubbly until I run out of socializing energy

Can I have some advice please? Not sure if this was the right board to go to...
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>>23762385
totes. That said

>>23762381
No problems there. Care less what other people think. Minimal makeup needed - cheekbone play up maybe. Mole on chin? Marilyn Monroe, Cindy Crawford and other models have had them too. Your own mental blocks... harder stuff. That is illusion too. Make one random contact daily - comment on a book, an article of clothing. Go to local events. Tell someone that they seem interesting and they should try to prove it. Get engaged in Disc golf or Magic The Gathering or bowling.
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>>23762420

Expand your group of people, or go on tinder dates. Though I'm sure most of those are crapshoots for women. I'm white I've been with 2 Asian women that have 95 percent Asian friends, and it works out fine usually
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>>23762381
>how to get over mental block against interacting attractive white people (was bullied when I was younger, trying to overcome now)
Try to associate their being assholes less with being attractive/white and more with them being just assholes. White people vary alot, you'll learn that pretty fast if you just go out and talk to them.

>I'm asking advice on: how to improve aesthetics (no makeup on)
Frontal face view looks pretty good. I think you might look good with bangs. Working out is also a pretty solid general way to improve your aesthetic.
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>>23762432
Sorry but I really don't know how you could look any better cause I find you pretty attractive already. *shrugs*
I'd notice you. I wouldn't judge you by only really hanging with the Asian group but if you had cool interests to talk about that's the best way to connect with a white dude I guess(?) lol
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>>23762420
He's right, actually. I'm a white guy and I'd probably be interested if we met somewhere.

I don't see that much that would need to change in the appearance sense. I might try a different hairstyle, yours is kinda plain, and with a really nice haircut and makeup you'd probably be able to get any guy you wanted. I'll have to let some femanons come up with the specifics of those, though, because I'm an idiot weeb with turbo-nerd tastes.
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>>23762381
Youre pretty cute OP.
If I had to say something, id sugget trying stuff out with bangs. My ex had a big forehead and bangs really helped her confidence.

As for the white guy problem. You can talk to a lot of white guys from here if you want. Id however reccomend going on a skype thread and try to find a guy with similar interest. Cause if you post your skype here say goodbye to your account.
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>>23762470

Unless she lives in an Asian country, she doesn't need to talk to guys on here in the slightest.
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>>23762470
It seems pretty quiet here? Not sure why everyone is warning me about a mass of yellow fever'd men.

>>23762457
Thank you, I'll look into bangs/diff hairstyle in the future. desu I have rather thick hair for an asian and idk what to do with it. kinda grew up a huge tomboy/around asian guys so I'm just starting to learn basics of female beauty
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>>23762489
That's really odd why is there a desu appearing after my period? I don't normally punctuate my speech/writing with those
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>>23762489
I think the warnings may have scared some of them off lol, now that it's been pointed out they realize it'll be obvious what they're doing.

I guess it's worth asking, what's the context of your interactions with "attractive white people," and what are you looking for with them? Do you just have trouble with normal everyday stuff when the other person is white and good looking, or are you interested in dating a white guy, or something else?
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>>23762497
t b h = desu on some boards. It was a joke wordfilter thing late last year and for some reason it still happens on some boards and not other ones. F a m also becomes "senpai" IIRC.
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>>23762497

It's an autocorrect of t-b-h
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>>23762484
Well shes on 4chan to "get over her fear of white men"
I mean, of course the optimal course would be to talk to guy outside but if she could just do that it wouldnt be an issue.
>>23762489
/soc/ is pretty slow, your thread will survive until tomorrow. dont forget that its night for the US right now.
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>>23762489
mostly due to the time of day. most of them are asleep or in another time zone busy with the day's activities. this board probably has yellow fever worse than the anime boards.

you also haven't posted contact information for the lurkers. for every dude posting, there's several dozen laying in wait for skype or kik to drop so they can send you an erect penis.

as for tips to look better, different hair styles to frame your face. no weight loss appears needed, no eyebrow tweaking, facial features are fairly symmetrical and pleasant. earrings can be cute if they aren't gaudy.

basically just work on your confidence. you're attractive, at least to my also-almond-eyes. get out there and talk to the white man. Asian boys aren't thirsty enough sometimes~

signed, your friendly filthy paleskin polynesian
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>>23762508
Ah, thanks for the warnings then

In answer to your question, both? Interaction wise I have trouble interacting with most females and attractive guys. I have a few very good female friends but I don't care about what people think -- my friends tell me my bluntness = condescending/not socially aware. Attractive white guys scare me because I was bullied by several when I was younger. I'm worried that they look down on me (both literally and figuratively) and think I'm either dumb or unattractive.

I do like a white guy in my year actually, but he's very quiet and I've only carried 1 long conversation w/ him before I got scared (attractive white guy) and stopped talking to him. I made it my goal to ask him out before the term ends, but I need advice on looks/talking to people in general.
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>>23762535
I'm best friends with a pakistani (muslim) guy by the way

thanks for your input c:
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>>23762545
Oh wait I misread that oops. Polynesians aren't scary in my book
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Honestly, you're very pretty and should be able to get along with anyone as long as you don't overthink it. As for general skin care/aesthetics, you could always try /fa
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>>23762541
unfortunately there aren't many more looks tips to give. wear a v-neck and pushup bra if you have small breasts, paint yourself lightly, just go talk to gain confidence, be yourself. White dudes come in every variety. For each asshole, there's a nice dude. For every Fuck Boy Chad, there's Law Degree Allen.

If you're being looked down on, just shout something in a foreign language - any language - and assume the fighting tiger stance. it'll send the idiot white guys running.
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>>23762566
we better not be scary. like a fat dude who likes good food and friendship is scary. christ.
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>>23762541
Is he quiet around everybody? He's probably just awkward. Unless he has a GF or something I doubt he'll say no, at least based on what I can see from here.
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>>23762381
As far as aesthetics go, you don't really need a lot of work, you're already quite pretty, the only things I could suggest would be maybe cover that mole on your chin (cause it's literally the only flaw I could find) and eyeliner, but that's probably just cause I like girls in a lot of eyeliner.
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>>23762381
>>23762383
You're being serious? You're very pretty.
You have nice features, and your moles are cute. Maybe try growing your hair a bit longer, but that's about it. Maybe try bangs, they look as though they'd suit you.
And you look thin to the point I don't believe losing weight would do anything. You look great, try to be happy with yourself.
As for getting over the mental block, try joining a club or going to a pub. All comes in practice, just be patient with yourself and try to have fun along the way.
Best wishes.
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>>23762420
And as far as white dudes liking you and other qt asians, yeah they will. I'm a 19 y/o white dude and I'd definitely go for if I wasn't so beta.
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>>23762627
Also, remember that no matter how attractive you find someone, they're just a normal person.
Treat them the same you would anyone else and I'm sure things will go well.
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>>23762383
Honestly no make up is going to make you appeal to white people specifically, as for getting over the mental block you just have to dive in and pit yourself in that situation, once your brain figures out that there's no threat ( this will be after a couple interactions) you'll be comfortable and not even notice you're interacting with a white person, it eventually won't matter.
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>>23762432
that's introverted
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>>23762381
hey op I'm a girl and i'd say that you're really beautiful and you don't need makeup at all. But if you'd like you should try winged eyeliner because it looks really good on asian girls such as yourself. You seem like you'd look really cute wearing skirts and knee socks.
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>>23762385
Best not to dwell on the negative, just sit back and 'njoy the show.
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>>23762663
Yeah, she exactly summed how I feel in social situations. Idk, even around my family I would keep to my self.
>>23762381
Why do you like white guys specifically, is it a Korean thing?
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>>23762489
Looks like I spoke too soon.

I think you guys all missed her, though.
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>>23762726
Best delete that before someone sees it
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>>23762726
Nice post
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>>23762726
Oh that's interesting, id is based off of ip probably. I'm still here, just on my phone and sleeping soon. I'll be back later for help as well
>>23762717
Not necessarily white, grew up exclusively around Asian guys and they're kind of boring
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>>2376272
KNEW IT
YOU'RE A FAT WHITE AUTISTIC NECKBEARD AREN'T YOU
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>>23762738
I think OPs gig is up. and only a disappointing 43 posts in. 2/10 OP, you bungled such an easy one.
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>>23762635
>KNEW IT
>I WAS ONLY TAKING YOU SERIOUS JUST IN CASE
Faggot.
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>>23762747
I mean, I'll take more pictures with a note later. I'm just new to 4chan and don't know how it works
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>>23762761
Lel ok, I guess it's time for desperation measures.
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>>23762764
If anything, everyone's reaction is informing me more about the culture of this particular website. Goodnight, anons
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>>23762732
>>23762734
>>23762743
>>23762758
Shit, what did I miss?
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>>23762758
You got me there senpai
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>>23762776
That pic you posted is a Korean girl. I've met a few here in Texas and they look very similar.
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>>23762778
"She's clearly Chinese, look at her facial dynamics"
with OP's ID
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>>23762778
Here you go.
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>>23762793
>>23762794
Ah, that's pretty stupid.

She (?) actually looks Chinese and not Korean to me (I would have guessed Taiwanese specifically), but yeah, that post is pretty damn suspicious.

Actually I don't even get why OP would do that in the first place, even if it was a troll thread, it would have been just as easy to reply as herself and say "I'm Chinese, not Korean."
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>>23762815
I don't get why OP didn't even change the filenames! I mean come on, it's not like it's hard to do.
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>>23762381
>how to get over mental block against interacting attractive white people

Imagine them naked with their tiny 2 inch white boy dicks AND THEN TRADE UP TO BIG ASIAN CHUNG THUNDERCOCK!
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>>23762743
whats with all these autistic asian betas getting emotional over some asian girl posting who only dates white guys massive damage control
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>>23764101
>>23762794
wasn't her, retard
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Bangs and eyeliner
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>>23762381
You're not someone who needs to worry about appearance
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Pls interact with me
t. Attractive white person
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>>23762381
you're a cute asiian girl, every guy and his hamster want to talk to you
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>>23762381
Youre pretty cute with out make up desu. Can we see body?
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>>23762381
holy shit girl, you don't need to improve shit. I'm white, wanna talk?
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You're pretty much perfect the way you are.
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>>23762381
Age Country?
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>>23762381
male here, you look perfectly fine and beautiful without makeup.
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Hi /soc, a stamp (is that what these are called?) done properly. I'll post pics of body later for advice (I refuse nudity) face advice is generally: light natural eye/lip makeup, maybe bangs.
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>>23764409
...post picture? Or disclose your general interests so I can see if I have common ground.
>>23764451
That's not how the world works?
>>23765061
I'm on the east coast (us). All I'm disclosing.
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>>23765153
i want your hand writing.
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>>23765170
As for my slight 'blunder', I switched from my computer -> phone and didn't know ID's were based off IP. Thought that if I posted under a different id no one would believe me :|
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>>23764299
Thank you, I'll add this to my mental list.
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>>23765170
It would be asshole-ish for me to post my picture after I've said I'm attractive myself t b h.
Besides you most likely live on the other end of the world in America or whatever while in live in Central Europe, so our eventual interaction is impossible anyway. Feels bad, man.
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>>23762381
1. Don't wear makeup.
2. Get rid of the mole.
3. Your forehead is a bit big, so don't keep it completely void of hair.
4. Your face goes up by like 3 points by smiling, and it's the best way to get people to interact with you too.
5. At least you're not somewhere like California.
6. Alternatively, 4chan is the right place to sexualise your inferiority feelings towards hot white people.
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>>23762381
try highlighting your cheekbones and draw your eyebrows on. look up 'eyeliner for monolids' on YouTube. use rose shades for your lips. you're a pretty girl but this might help you.
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Your skin is fking sexy. You won't get bullied in the real world looking that way, but makeup might help boost your confidence. You have amazing brows and potential to be a 10/10 sxc beast so I'd recommend learning how to do your makeup (r/makeupaddiction is a good place to start).

You have no reason to be insecure about your face though.
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Because my post read as if I'd agree with the bangs recommendation: I don't think it'd suit you, it rarely looks great with thin, straight, black Asian hair anyway.

>>23765219
>It would be asshole-ish for me to post my picture after I've said I'm attractive myself t b h.
No, the opposite. It's "asshole-ish" to say you're attractive but not to post a photo.
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>>23765248
Thank you, I will try this as well. I have subtle double-lids, will that hinder this process though?
>>23765255
When I was younger I was definitely bullied. Gotten better today.
>>23765260
O-okay .-. I guess I'll take this into consideration as well.
>>23765224
How do I get rid of a mole? And I have indeed been told by strangers and friends alike I need to smile more

Next up is help on body I guess
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>>23765153
I think you look good already.
Smile more and where makeup if you like it.
You could try a shorter hairstyle with kinda wispy bangs maybe.
Would show of your nice face shape.
But for real just smile you are a qt and I like your mole.
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>>23762381

As a reasonably attractive while male I find you to be very cute. Easy 8/10 without makeup. Lack of defined cheekbones and that mole are the only drawbacks your face really has.

I can also provide general fitness advice should you want some.
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Oh, and random question: is it just because of the population who frequent 4chan, or is there actually this much of a thirst for asian females? And if possible, can you explain why asian females are so desirable to xyz people?
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>>23765260
Describing yourself as attractive is basically a sign of being a major douche, I only said it because I thought I was anonymous. :^)
Now if I did post a photo everybody would know me as a douche.
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>>23765275
Real world= outside of school
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>>23765291
4chan has a big asian thing in general.
Some attractive white people will fetishize you as a stereotypical submissive asian girl that looks "exotic".
You should be hardcore dom to filter them out lmao.
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>>23765306
How do I become more dominant then?
>>23765299
Ohh, thanks for clarifying
>>23765289
Attached is a body image (normal stance, normal clothing)
I'm really sorry about the water stains :c
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>>23765354

You look like a normal, slender girl. What exactly do you want to change?
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>>23765397
Hmm, that's why I'm asking 4chan? Any tips with stance, pose, etc. I'm not sure how females hold themselves, having grown up mostly around guys/huge tomboy

I have trouble finding pants that fit me properly because I have muscular legs, if anyone could help me out there that'd be nice.
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>>23765354
Post a full body nude please
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>>23765437

You look fine. You have a very nice figure. Nothing odd about how you're standing jumps out at me.

Might have to look into custom made jeans. I have the same problem.
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>>23765153
>>23765354
Kill yourself you fucking race traitor chink bitch
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>>23765354
you have a nice and slender figure.
If you really want to look more attractive wear some skirts.
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>>23765483
Not much of a traitor? I'm not sure whether this post is serious or not. I can attract the majority of asians/weebs/etc. but I have trouble talking to people I'm attracted to.
>>23765477
Thanks, I'll add that to my queue
>>23765510
I don't know what kinds of skirts to wear. Short legs with muscular calves+thighs? Any tips please?
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talking about improving aesthetics when you are a young asian soman with no notable deformity, you are already at the peak of aesthetics.

but then i'm an unattractive white person so i'll never have a cute girl interested in interacting with me other than to tell me to get out of the way
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>>23765550

Pencil skirt just above knees to show off your calves

>>23765573

You mad brah?
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>>23765579
i would be, however no one would hang around to observe me being mad brah
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>>23765550
everyone gets nervous talking to people they're attracted to, you just need more experience
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>>23765201
>>23765153
Lol! I see. So not a smelly white dude after all. Not that it matters, plenty of people started posting even after.
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Its all about your body, post some more pictures of it! (PS: I think you are handsome)
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So much thirst for an absolutely average girl.
Never change, /soc/.
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>>23765550
Above knee skirts with knee socks can probably attract the eye of any guy you want.
As for tops, take something that fits with the skirt but make it tame you want people to notice your skirt not your shirt.
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>>23765550

Google "sundress" and "casual minidress". At your age, with your face and body, you'll look stunning. I don't know what your legs look like under those baggy clothes, but baggy clothing in general will make you less attractive. An a-line skirt that ends above the knee will play your legs to maximum advantage.

If you have b cups or better, then a tight top or something a little structured will play this strength up. If you have a cups or are very asymmetrical, then emphasize your arms, shoulders, and back with loose off-the-shoulder looks.

Keep the mole. I'm sure it makes you self-conscious, but it's beautiful and will make your looks distinctive. Go find a website about bad Hollywood plastic surgery. They're filled with girls who try too erase all their flaws... At best they end up looking bland. Trust anonymous guy who's got no reason to lie: you're beautiful and the mole (good size and placement) is a big plus.

Very light makeup will help. Don't overdo it. People should not notice that you are wearing any.

See the general pattern? You're young, so err on the side of being slightly more natural and revealing but not slutty. But in general, don't try to cover up your "weaknesses". Instead emphasize your strengths.

So far, that's your attractive face and what i can see of your figure. But at your age lots of girls have that. So far your best and most distinctive asset is your mole, which is perfect for your face.
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>>23766006

Holy shit knee socks or stockings are tactical nukes in terms of winning a guy. Use with caution: you WILL hook up with him but you want to date him first and make him work for it or he'll take you for granted.
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>>23766058
My legs err on the side of stocky and short - I tend to build fast twitch muscle. However, I will definitely look into sundresses and 'casual minidresses'.

I've never actually minded my moles, and no one has ever really commented on them. Thank you for your advice.
>>23766068
O-oh <.< if I ever find out how to wear them I'll try that.
>>23765795
I'm pretty average, but I have a positive body image/self-esteem. All about climbing the ranks though bb c:
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>>23766229

Curvy legs due to muscle can be fine. Hence a flowing a-line skirt. A tight skirt would emphasize your thighs and butt. Those may be great, but in the clothes in your pic I can't tell so I'll take your word for it that they're a little more muscular. You want it to end above the knee to draw the eye up from your calves (which also I'm taking your word for). A flowing miniskirt will draw the eyes to the most slender parts of your legs. High heels will help ENORMOUSLY; they change the whole shape of your leg.

A plus of having muscular legs (and let's call them well-toned) is that you won't get as much of a muffin top above thigh high stockings if you wear them. Every girl gets them to some extent but yours will be unnoticeable to anyone else if your legs are muscular and if you pick a pair that fit you.

What's your cup size? If you're an A cup, then go for off-the-shoulder or spaghetti straps. It draws the eye away from your breasts and towards what in your pic is an extremely cute upper body. If you have bigger breasts, you have options, but you still won't go wrong emphasizing your neck, shoulders, and back.

Mainly I harped on your mole because some idiot told you to have it removed, and lots of shy girls make the mistake of erasing everything that makes them look distinctive because they get a complex. Bravo to you for not fallig for that.
Thigh highs are nukes, trust me. Pic them carefully, wear them in private. There was a point five years ago when every reasonably attractive girl was wearing them, but they're back to being "ready for sex" clothes. Rule of thumb: a classy girl can get trashy in private for her boyfriend, but trashy girls can't fake classy convincingly. You want classy if you're defining your image.

So: miniskirts, flowing rather than tight. Top reveals your shoulders. Classy dresses. Mid heels (high heels at events). Thigh highs in the bedroom for boyfriend only.

He seriously can't possibly say no.
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>>23766229
Where are you located at anyways? Also you're going to have to lie and make people think you're all preppy and cute to complete the entire ensemble.
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>>23766433
Goddamn this is a goldmine of information. I attached a picture of my well toned legs for your judgement (and others'?). Already looked into sun dresses and casual mini dresses, going to start shopping around soon. May I ask how you came to know so much about how to dress for body shapes/sizes? I have b cups, I believe, and I don't wear spaghetti straps because I have broad shoulders.
>>23766456
I'm usually like that until I run out of socializing energy c:
That or if I come face to face with an attractive white male.
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>>23766456

Lemme guess, you're still in high school? That kind of thing ends once and for all once you're in college. As does the racism (replaced by the sjw thought police, but that's a different brand of fascism).

It's not selling out. It's using your assets optimally. Why opt out of a game you're positioned to win?

Most girls who dress nicely aren't evil phonies. You just tell yourself that because you can't get one to go out with you.
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>>23762381
White girl here. You look beautiful without make-up, obviously those people were bullying you because they saw something in you that made them envious. Your skin is flawless, you've got great eyebrows that are soft, but a gorgeous shape. Full-lips, great face shape and high cheekbones!

What kind of aesthetic would you like to emulate wearing make-up? Something edgy, like cat-eyes or bold eyeliners (dark hair and eyes have many options in terms of color choice) Something natural? Something girly? Would you like to try more Eastern or Western trends? (Korean and Japanese brands are the next "big thing" in the US)

You seem like you have a neutral to warm skin tone, you would look great with reds, oranges, golds. I could also see you rocking burgundy, wine colors. An iridescent peacock liquid liner would look fabulous too! Hit up the MAC counter!
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>>23766229
Just randomly encountered this thread. I am a white guy who has dated a fair number of Asian girls though. You seem like someone I would consider dating-- you seem thoughtful, you have interesting things to talk about, you're pretty, and you're in good shape. I don't think you need make-up. Try to dress a little bit less plainly though -- do you like wearing sundresses? Normal mid-length skirts? Sweaters? Something other than those trousers anyway. Cute shirt though. Honestly I think you should just ask the guy out. Try to phrase it as doing something together or inviting him to an event with friends at first if that's easier / less uncomfortable at first. You're cute; it will probably work.
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>>23762489
The length of her hair is good, she could even go longer and still looks beautiful. I would suggest maybe soft layers if she wanted to try a new haircut.
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>>23762686
>winged eyeliner
This
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For eyeliner OP (as well as all other ladies trying to figure out how to master the cat-eyes, winged eyeliner) FOLLOW THE ANGLE OF YOUR LOWER LID. Pic related
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>>23766494

Thanks!

First off, I'm a man. So grain of salt.

I teach persuasion science at a university. So yeah sciencey stuff, plus lots of undergrad girls in my class and the class discussion on fashion is lively. Then there's the grad student girls who are young, sexy, smart, and professional. My wife is into fashion, too. I've learned a lot.

I also dated many, many asian girls when I was younger. Most of my friend group was asian. My first GF was latino, and then I was in my mid 20's the next time I dated a white girl. So I know (second hand) some of the pressures.

Your legs and shoulders look excellent. As in, like, perfect. Seriously, not overmuscled or broad at all. I suspect that you could work a tight dress if you wanted to. But I'd stick with the sun dress plan, especially since summer's nearly here.

BTW I have your socializing style, too. It works better once you're in professional life.

Time and a few good friends/boyfriends will help you with your hangups. You're at a time in your life when you have all the power, even if you don't realize it. It won't last forever, but be a nice person, watch out for assholes, and you can have the time of your life and end up with someone great.
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>>23766511

Yeah what this guy said.

Asking him out will almost certainly work. The main unknown is what kind of guy he is and whether he'll take advantage of her inexperience. Don't do a first date that involves drinking.

Remember, most guys are nice, but the few guys who are major jerks will be the ones who you find it easiest to hook up with. The bad ones are not even necessarily good looking or desirable, either.
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>>23766542
Oh my Lord. This is what my eyes are called. This must makes me so happy

For eyeliner, will anything do? A quick Google search gives me liquid gel tattoo liner etc etc, does it matter what I try?

I definitely would veer towards edgy and natural, I just have no idea how to pull any of it off. I also don't really know much about trends (see my clothing as exhibit a) so I'll look into that.

I have been told I look good in burgundy/wine! Thought it was really weird I looked funny when wearing dark blue but looked fine wearing more earthy colors

Well also look into iridescent peacock liner orz

Thanks so much for all these pointers *^*
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>>23766511
You have me at a disadvantage here -- my dating experience has been vanilla and limited to asian males. My wardrobe is very lacking, but when I have worn dresses/sweaters it feels very liberating.

I guess I can do that. I've already had a conversation with him about vidyas, but when I realized I found him attractive bam! stopped trying to talk to him. I once randomly gave him a game rec (FEZ). Again, he's really quiet so I'm not sure how he'll take being asked out.

>>23766562
Thank you from the bottom of my heart and best wishes for your future as well c:

>>23766583
Alright, gonna avoid the alcohol if I get around to asking him out
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>>23766600
Trips/dubs :D

Yep! Hooded eyes are pretty common, many people have them and they are a lot of fun to work with.

A gel or a liquid liner would be perfect. Kat Von D makes a great liquid liner. I would also recommend Urban Decay and Lush, both companies have an amazing color palette that can be classy as well as bold.

Too, looking more closely at your photos, you may be more on the neutral side, with a mix of yellow and olive. If blue doesn't look good, but burgundy and purple still does, I would avoid maybe avoid the blue tones (with the exception of a dark navy.) If earthy colors look good, olive might be another fun color to work with.
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Chart for identifying skin tones
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>>23766643
Also, this might be a potentially cool color for you, but it may depend on lighting (I'm very fair with blonde hair, blue/green eyes and it looked a little bizarre on me) Still LOVE the color though!

http://www.lushusa.com/Motivation/03681,en_US,pd.html
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>>23766667
Oh goodness this color looks amazing ._.
Is this what you were referring to when you said iridescent peacock liner? I bookmarked this and will try this out after I get the hang of black eyeliner
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>>23762381
based entirely on that chin-freckle, I am confident that I just saw you in an asian amateurs thread on /b/, op.

>/b/>>683680608
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>>23766718
Not possible c:

Amused that you'd think of me though
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>>23766619
>>23766637
Dressing well can make even shy people a bit more confident and appealing; I've seen it before. But go easy on the make-up. If done right, it should be subtle and not really noticeable. None looks much better than too much, to me anyway.

As for asking people out, just relax a little. Guys are much more likely to accept such proposals than girls are. You're cute and you've talked to him before, so the odds are better. Just think of an event that you want to go to and ask him if he wants to come along. Personally I always like it when the girl asks first; it's endearing. Haha this is bringing back memories now-- hope things go well for you.
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>>23766736
Exception: makeup should be more noticeable at cocktail parties etc. Asian girls often look amazing with red lipstick in particular. Idk about mixing that with eye shadow though; I've never really thought about how these things work. All I know is if someone approached me with very noticeable makeup one afternoon to talk about random things it would seem unusual. Best to be subtle.
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>>23766746
Will follow your advice anon, I'm pretty low key with makeup either way
Red lipstick does indeed look good on us, but I've noticed the same could be said for most women in general c:

Thanks so much for your advice! Have a good day now, anon
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Sooo cute! marry me?
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>>23766834
I don't think you understand the implications of marrying someone you've never met/had a full conversation with before? Think about it, a binding legal oath that you're officially connected to this one person who western culture dictates you have you live/sleep/east with for the rest of the marriage.
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>>23762381
You are very attractive. one of those that can pull off no-makeup-face. I encourage you to do so.

If you do wear some make up, eyeliner would be about all I could imagine would do anything for you. Maybe occasional lipstick/gloss for special occasion or to hit on someone or something...

28/white male here
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>>23766619

>TFW no cute Asian girl wants to ask you out
>TFW never been asked out

Time to /wrists
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>>23766494
Hey girly,
We have the same body type. I found that skater dresses do wonders for muscular legs and slightly broad shoulders. I'm 5ft and usually where my skirts and dresses about 2-3 inches above my knees to make my legs look longer. It is hard to feel confident and get passed things people said when you were younger, but you got this!
XO
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>>23766881
Don't worry, I realize what I'm thinking of doing is almost unheard of in the states. Apparently, elsewhere it's more common (Brazil, New zealand?). Don't slit your wrists anon, the world is a happier place if you decide it to be c:
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>>23766928

It's not that...
>It's that no one will ever give a fuck about me
>Better off dead, just too much of a pussy to do it
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>>23766940
Hey I used to be the same. Then I realized that of I gave a fuck about myself other people started to too. It seemed paradoxical but hey it worked.
>>23766918
Ohh, these seem lovely. Moves the visual waist upwards and have rather wide straps definitely am going to buy some
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>>23766940
You won't believe it but slitting your wrists is in fact painless. In fact it's literally orgasmic.

Just cut vertically, not horizontally.
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>>23766955
I already have :^) pretty long scar but it healed well
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>>23766966

Really? I have a ten inch long scar on my left arm that took 23 staples to close...shoulda let it bleed out...
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>138 posts
>no tits
fuck you nerds
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>>23766966
>>23766975
I castrated myself without anesthetic and even proceeded to rip off my penis soon after.

Now, I feel euphoric. I don't even care about sex and girls anymore. It's all just...meh.
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>>23766975
Mines more like 7, but it was an accident (went too ham climbing a barbed wire fence). In those first few seconds when I could see the pale flesh before the blood started to flow, there was a feeling of quiet. Then the pain kicked in :p
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>>23762381
>how to get over mental block against interacting attractive white people (was bullied when I was younger, trying to overcome now)

Dress like a grade schooler and giggle at them. They'll date you and supply you with free lolipops.
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>>23766996
Anon, that doesn't seem like a very logical thing to do. Sans sex drive, have you become more productive? Not sure why else you'd do such a thing, unless you're baiting me hard
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>>23767004
It's even so much easier than that.

a)Start a thread on 4chan
b)Make a long winded story about your insecurities
c)Post a pic of yourself, even better if you are Asian! Just be a girl
d)Let the boys come to you

Only 4 simple steps required!
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Get an advanced degree and be yourself. Your physical beauty is the last last thing you want a partner to have as their reason for being with you. You want to be with someone you want to hang out with...cause you'll kind of like...be doing that a lot. Also have nice shorts that show off your booty. Got anything we can sign off on?
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You should be courting your own kind.
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>>23767018
It is if you are a sex addict like me. Or I would say, was.

Before I emasculated myself, I always felt the need to masturbate. Once done, the urge remain the moment the mere picture of anime or a girl makes contact with my eyes. It's worse when you know that right after you masturbate, it wouldn't feel as good the second time you do it and so on. In fact doing it everyday makes each time I came felt empty, devoid of orgasmic joy or sensation. Even my cum was just so little.

I did all I could to stop. I tried praying, reading the Quran, reading the Sutras, Bible. Whatever religious text I could find and even tips online on how to curb my unhealthy habits. Suffice to say, I just don't have the willpower to do it. So decided that I needed to remove the source at its root once and for all, that is my sex organs.

I only lied about doing it without anesthetic. I got a certified surgeon to carry out the procedure.
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>>23767029
You seem rather salty(is that the correct word?). Tell me a story from your childhood
>>23767037
Idk what advanced degree means but I'm in stem? What do you mean by signing off on?
>>23767039
I already have ._.
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>>23767059
Pron addiction, fear of hell because of my religious upbringing and sex addiction.

I had a normal childhood until puberty came.

Now I can happily say that I'm normal thanks to getting the source of my Original Sin removed.
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>>23767059
Once youre gone I am going to miss that thread dearly.
Please dont go away.
>mfw Tell me a story from your childhood
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>>23767059
>I already have ._.

Don't give up, continue looking for a companion within your race.
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>>23767069
Not much of a story, but I understand more now that you've given a bit of your background. Religion isn't for everyone, would be the moral I'd draw from your situation. It's good to know you have a normal life now c:
>>23767087
Why?
>>23767070
You can screencap this if you wish. In the end, I'm just another anon passing by. I accidentally found out one day that if you want to know someone more, you can ask for a story from their childhood.

Everyone is a big tapestry whose threads are made of stories waiting to be heard
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>>23767098
I just love the way you handle everything. Its refreshing.
Keep on keeping on being you, okay?
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>>23767098
>Why

Interracial relationships are typically fetishistic. Biracial children suffer fron medical problems, identity issues, and familial conflict.
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>>23767103
Sure, sounds easily doable
>>23767105
I'm friends with several biracial people. They seem to have the best of both worlds in my opinion: subtle Asiatic features, taller than average, more intelligent (one is at Stanford, one at Harvard, another at Emory. I believe with the advent of technology (and thus, westernization), mixed race children will be more and more common
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>>23767098
I'm agnostic now though.

Then I was pretty religious and thought God had predestined me to damnation. But I rebelled and told him that I'm the master of my own fate.

Is my action moral? I dunno. Did it help me grow and develop? Yes.
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>>23767135
The average Eurasian look deform-ish.

As a Platonist, it disgusts me to gaze upon such an aesthetically displeasing object. But it reminds me that I ought to contemplate the higher realms of the Forms.
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>>23762381
>>23762383
One of the cutest femanons I've ever seen on /soc/.
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>>23767135

You should have pride in your heritage and ancestors and preserve your lineage. If everyone congealed into a single race, the unique expressions of mankind will be lost.
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>>23765153
>face advice is generally: light natural eye/lip makeup, maybe bangs.
No, stay the way you are. No makeup, hair the way it is. You look great.
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>>23767163
Well it's not like I'll stick with one look forever and ever do I can switch it up
>>23767160
Hmm you're right in that I don't have a lot of Asian pride and are giving me a compelling reason not to have biracial children. Easily solved if I choose not to have children though? Why have you given this topic so much thought?
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>>23762381
Lift weights, develop ass. Your face looks cute. If you approached me at a bar I'd be flattered. The more you talk to people the easier it becomes.
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>>23762381
you look good. honestly smiling and a positive attitude will do 5x more than any make up ever could. maybe a little of a wavy thing for the hair instead of straight would seem more interesting.

I'm eurasian myself. after having a chinese first girlfriend who hurt me pretty bad I couldn't really date chinese girls after that. I can't say what to do to get past these things. But try to remind yourself that everyone should be judged based on who they are personally.
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>>23767254
Could you specify what weights I'd need to lift? I already have a bit of an ass, seeing as I build muscle in my legs easily. Didn't developing abs require a certain body fat percentage as well? Insight would be nice in change of lifestyle necessary
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Hey OP what is your age? I'm not sure if you mentioned that.
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>>23767283
Do squats
the rest dont matter.
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>>23767294
Ah, the person from Texas who assumed I was Korean. Well, beyond the fact that I'm old enough to post on this board, I won't reveal much else. Hard to guess the my age through my looks because I'm Asian.

Why does my age/location/ethnicity matter to you?
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>>23767283
Oh man I don't want to send you to /fit/ but.... Squats are probably going to be your best friend. Abs are made in the kitchen and they are all about diet. I'm not too knowledgeable about the answer for women, but the body fat range for abs showing really varies from person to person. If I had to guess somewhere between 15-20%. Women should have more body fat than men.
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>>23762381
You're already very beautiful. I'm a white guy, btw. turnovertherecord at gmail dot com if you wanna meet up (Connecticut).
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>>23767313
>>23767318
Well, I guess I'm starting squats soon. I'm worried about doing them, however, because my thighs are already very built (fast twitch muscle). I believe doing so would just make it even harder for me to find pants that fit well
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>>23767318
Why are you worried about sending me to fit? I've never been on there before, but besides just squats I feel like I should be doing more to develop abs?
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>>23767328
in the pic you posted, you tighs looked just fine.
Also squats makes your butt looks better so dont sweat it.
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Get your eyebrows threaded. Get that shit on fleek, put on a little eyeliner stretch your lashes and you're pretty much good. Your skin tone is good and you have no noticeable blemishes.
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>>23767328
I hate to ask you for an ass pic, but A LOT of people say that about squats and a lot of people have flabby ass legs and pancake asses.
>>23766494
Judging from that pic your legs don't look all that defined. If you lost some fat and added some muscle truthfully they'd look better. As for the pants, I can't say. But, if you're trying to get guys attention that asss will help you.
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>>23767334
If you're really serious about getting fit then /fit/ and bodybuilding.com will help you out infinintly more than I can. Heavy compound lifts, squats, deadlifts, weighted dips ect... will shred your abs more than a million fucking sit-ups.

As for /fit/ I guess like any other board on 4chan it's filled with faggots and narcissists. It's just that on that board they circlejerk over half-naked photos of themselves.
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>>23767334

Just email me or contact me for instagram for diet advice and programming

[email protected] the_meier instagram
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>>23767360
Sure, I can take a picture later but I'll be fully clothed.
>>23767385
Yeah I'll pay /fit a visit soon and start a thread similar to this asking for help.
>>23767338
Thank you anon, Will look into eyebrow threading (?)
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>>23767317
Not much, I always assume Korean women only like white guys. Also I like guessing ethnicity. Its safe to assume you are in your early 20's.

Also changing everything about your self to attract someone is something I would avoid. I would look for someone who likes me and accepts my flaws. However you will probably get this by some guy with yellow fever as well lol. Most guys I've met with yellow fever are usually really old though.
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>>23767394
You can help me code while dieting? I'm confused by your sentence. Sure, but what do you want me to email you?
>>23767399
I'm not changing myself to attract someone. I'm asking them out before I begin to utilize all this information. It's more like I had a huge epiphany recently that I can be whatever I want but I'm lacking so much information on how to achieve that. Thanks for being honest/the warning, anon
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>>23767398
At this point no one expects you to post nudes. If you want tips, we just need an idea of what were dealing with.
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>>23767420

Programming is how you set up your weight training routine lmao

I can provide a lot more info via email. Just make a throwaway one lol.
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>>23767420
Also do you consider yourself someone who would rather stay at home than go out with friends?
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>>23767422
Oh definitely, the earlier comments have made me wary of those seeking nudes
>>23767453
Ah, too much coding on my mind sorry. I'll make one later and email you, right now on mobile is a hassle
>>23767501
Stay at home if I'm feeling low on energy, out with friends if I'm exuberantly social
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>>23767520
>stay at home if I'm feeling low on energy, out with friends if I'm exuberantly social
No, I mean do you avoid social situations? Like making an excuse why you cant go somewhere.

You seem to have the same issues as me. I'm really social around people I know. However I am really shy by my self. Also I tend to avoid talking to strangers.

As a kid I got abused at home which really didn't prepare me for school. Odd thing most of my friends where females. I consider my self a little effeminate. Also its always been hard for me to see women more than just friends.
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>>23767576
Oh shit I was abused pretty badly too. Had to go stay in a foster home for a while, state found out too late one of the home family's sons was as a pedo :^)
Yeah, if I'm not that familiar with the people organizing the event I'll end up making a bs excuse.

You seem to be implying that our abusive past is to blame for these issues. Nothing wrong with having mostly female friends, I have mostly male friends and several have told me I think like a guy
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>>23767520
Just a tip. As a guy, it's intimidating to approach a large group of women, especially if I don't know any of them. At a bar I'm a lot more likely to approach, or even notice you if you're in a smaller group. I don't want to have a conversation with ten people, I want to have a conversation with one. Position yourself to be noticed, and in a place people can talk to/approach you. Make sure you send positive body language! If you think a guy is cute, eye-fuck him. If you make eye contact smile and hold it; I'm not going to approach you unless I think you want me to. Starting the conversation is half the battle when your out and about. Most bars are loud too, you can't really hear every word someone is saying. It's not so much what you say, as it is how you say it. If you have bad intentions, all you have to do is smile, touch my arm and laugh.
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>>23767621
Damnnn... I'm sorry to hear that.
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>attractive white people
another princess demands her 11/10 chad
fuck off already
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white guy here, I would totally date you as you are. 8/10
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>>23767642
I don't find chads attractive. I like quiet guys who play vidya (see above somewhere) you get salty too quickly, anon
>>23767622
I'll put this to good use, many thanks
As for
>>23767634 it really wasn't that bad, just lots of looking/going through my stuff. Abuse mostly from family
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>>23767621
Damn that sucks.
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>>23767621
>You seem to be implying that our abusive past is to blame for these issues.
Sort of, its hard to let people get close when you've felt the worst side of humanity.

Life gets better as you age I guess, I don't see people the same way as I did.
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>>23767656
Surprise surprise I grew up in a broken home too. Alcoholic father with PTSD and a temper. It sounds pretty bad, if you had to end up in foster care. That's not your fault, that's just shitty people being shitty people
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>>23767667
>Sort of, its hard to let people get close when you've felt the worst side of humanity.

Dude I know the feeling, it took me a long time to get over myself and my issues. Eventually you just have to let the anger go, be the bigger man, and let your pain make you a better person. You could defiantly perpetuate the cycle of abuse, or fall into self-destructive thinking. But, you have to let yourself learn from your past. The path of wroth is one of folly. It's really hard for me to be positive, or feel much of anything most of the time. But, being born from all that hate, made me a better man. It made me value kindness, it gave me empathy and perspective. The strongest steel is forged in the toughest crucibles
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By sign off I mean have us anons give our ratings of. I'm a mathematics major so when I look for a partner I seek intellectualism first. What exactly is your major?
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>>23767576
>I'm really social around people I know. However I am really shy by my self. Also I tend to avoid talking to strangers.

I'm this way too. I find it really hard to approach people or start conversations unless I have a good reason to do it. (ie. work stuff or whatever.) I don't have trouble carrying a conversation with a stranger once it gets going, though, especially if we find a common interest.

I wasn't really abused by my family though. There was some shit they did that fucked me up, but it wasn't really malicious, more just my parents being weird and not understanding a lot of things. I was bullied badly by other kids and by teachers though.

>>23767656
You would've liked me when I was younger. Probably not so much nowadays.
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>>23762381
Yeah listen up. I'm im ΛΦΕ, and I know you want my dick. If we went to the same school we probably would've fucked already.
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>>23767642
>annoyed that people actually need to be attracted to others to establish a relationship

Buddy just lose the weight and fix your fucking face and hygiene, it's really not that hard
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>>23768331
I've tried being healthy and hygienic and yet I'm still disgusting as fuck. What should I do other than kill myself?
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>>23767422
Well, here's a picture of my lower body in what I wore today. Tips? I'll also email
>>23767453 in a bit.
>>23767667
Hopefully that's true. If you can do it I definitely can too.
>>23767724
Ohh, I have a friend in pure math. You might not like me much, I'm in a branch of engineering (all I'm going say). Intelligence is a must, but also consider what intelligence is an umbrella term/many kinds of it.
>>23768039
....?
>>23768482
Change your inside for the better anon. I know someone who was like you, he ended up at upenn Wharton school of business and dates actual 10/10s consistently. He's a confident guy, goofy, dual citizenship, informed etc. All about changing inside
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>>23769950
Why are you asking for fitness tips?
You look fine face and body.
I would definitely eat your ass and call you master.
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>>23769963
I used to be more physically active, and realized I'd slumped a bit, hence fitness tips
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>>23770017
I guess its not bad to want to improve but ya.
Can i have a pair of your panties now?
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>>23769950
haven't read through the advice given but I think you look fine but maybe try out different simple hairstyles to get past the mental block, can you post a pic of your hair up and one of your hair down?
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>>23770033
Why do you want my underwear? That's a really odd request, you can simply go into a lingerie store and buy one yourself if you really need one

Self-improvement is my main goal right now, physically, socially, academically
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>>23770041
ya but you havn't worn every pair of panties in a lingerie store have you?
I wanted ones a girl like you has been inside of chillin and sweatin in.
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>>23770061
dont scare her yet dude, we havn't even claimed a pair of her panties.
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>>23770070
Too late :^)
I save pictures of people (friends/family/people I find attractive) on my computer, most people do.

Can you just ask other asian females around you for their underwear? Their proximity should make it easier. I still don't understand why you'd want underwear, used even more so

>is this your fetish
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>>23769950
Dat ass tho
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>>23770108
Don't ask questions, just let me love you o yellow dove.
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>>23767394
>>23767453
Sent.
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>>23770145
O no the chads won again.
I'm gonna go watch anime and then drown myself in the tub.
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5/10 thats the best i can do
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>>23770161
You have given me no information about yourself, and seem to be one of the anons afflicted with severe yellow fever (along with another)

What anime?
>>23770120
Is my butt up to par? Not sure what this comment is supposed to mean
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>>23770185
Alright, how do I go about improving that?
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>>23770195
Start working out, with focus on your ass, you have potential to develop a massive booty that will make all the guys heads turn. The confidence will follow after that automatically.
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>>23770188
the ass is good
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>>23770188
I am currently watching Garo: hanoo no kokuin.
Also you really don't think out of the box do you?
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>>23770188
After reading some of your posts I have to say this: stop talking like a robot. I get that you think you're smart, and you probably are, but people simply don't talk like that in a casual context and this is 4chan and not a goddamn science symposium or something. I don't know why you do it. I also get that you think of yourself as a huge introvert. Unless you're borderline autistic or something, learn how to talk more chill. Socializing will be easier and less draining if you learn how to be more relaxed and casual and not try to find the perfect vocabulary to express your thoughts.
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>>23770327
I like this
I might or I might not
>>23770292
Sure thing anon, hopefully /fit/ guy gets back to me with help
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>>23770359
maybe this is what i meant by my think out of the box comment but worded more 4chanishly i guess.
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>>23770371
Have you seen it? It's kinda fucked up, worst part about it is the stupid roars when they fight though but thats my only complaint.
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>>23770359
One of the most insightful comments so far, you've already picked up on my problems socializing casually

how to learn to talk more chill? I've been told I sound too formal when i talk as well :^)
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>>23770379
I saw trailers for it a while back, going to watch it with exams now over

i like fucked up anime and good artstyle :|
>>23770373
lol okay
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>>23770406
Watch mayoiga and Kabaneri of the iron fortress too then.
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>>23770394
I only noticed because I've been in the same boat, but it's a lot better now. I can't give solid advice on how to learn it, for me it was just an ongoing process. I think the tipping point was that once I got more busy with uni and other things, I learned to value my free time and energy a lot more, and realized that it's not worth wasting them in situations where not being perfect makes absolutely no difference.
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>>23770435
Amusingly have them added on 'to-watch' already

>>23770463
I guess I'll reach that same point one day and overcome difficulties socializing c:
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>>23770490
Maybe just waste time talking to some fags from 4chan.

We might be fucken weirdos but atleast you can practice on us and then throw us away.
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>>23770490
Mail me if you have specific problems related to your introvertism, I feel like I have some valuable advice but I can't put my finger on it right now, and I don't wanna leave the thread without at least giving you the option: [email protected]

I'm with my girlfriend for 6 years (she's Asian) and might have something interesting to say about this yellow fever thing as well. Have a nice day.
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>>23762381
>how to improve aesthetics
your face is great already. check make up tutorials on yt, hundreds of beauty channels

>how to interact with white people
no one is going to bully you now
find a group of people that you're comfortable with. white or not, and take it from there, you'll come out of your shell fast, you'll learn to give 0 fucks about what other people think of you when you meet them, and that will translate in confidence
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>>23770575
This advice is so generic. How could this help anyone?

You just told her to meet people and watch youtube make up tutorials hahahaha.
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>>23770598
literally what she has to do
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>>23770608
The ignorance is real.

That is literally what she WANTS to do, your advice was telling her to do what she is asking how to do lol.
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>>23762381
I'm sorry if that offends you but can i lick your anal please? my skype is guy.poor
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>>23762381
You're Gorgeous
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>>23769950
Well your ass is on point. I mean you can do squat anyways but you dont need it,
Really all things considered you are very pretty. I guess if you want to change something it would be your style maybe. Try some sexier stuff if you feel like being different.
If that is the case, do as I said earlier and try skirts with knee high.
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>>23770648
>anal, adj.
Our intentions don't seem to line up, so I kindly decline
>>23770575
Haha, I'll definitely look into youtube, I've only used it for music/gaming channels all these years. not sure how to utilize giving 0 fucks, I used to do that and was told I came off blunt/condescending.
>>23770598
:|
welp, I can do that. I'm the only thing stopping my own growth
>>23770498
I don't like doing that to people yknow
plus, face to face casual convo =/= typing
>>23770545
Thank you anon, I'll contact you fellow leaguer
>>23770691
Haha, I guess I'll invest money into clothing then
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I think I've extracted as much information as I'll ever get from here.

Thanks very much /soc/, pleasure talking with you all

xo

fun fact, I have this c:
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>>23770923
awww pls dont leave, Ill miss you OP with your robot typing and all
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>>23770851
well, I actually meant noun form of the word not adjective. But it's okay, you can still add me. I'm not gonna coerce you.
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>>23762381
why you want to improve aesthetics ?
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This bitch still didn't get naked yet?

Fuck her.
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>>23762381
You're already a step ahead of other azn grillz cause of facial shape not bring strange and in the skin department ahead of the curve compared to girls who live in the western civilisation in general

I'd explore different hairstyles just to see what looks good and what doesn't if I were you, if you're considering facial surgery don't, unless you're a burn victim or have other permanent damage to your face it will not be an improvement ever

Your face is good, so don't look for improvements there, maybe wardrobe hairstyle and makeup tastes can bring improvements tho
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