Dominant Women thread
tell stories,give advice to newbies subs and doms, or etc.
>>23712075
subs are welcome too
lol. I'll tell one of my stories.
There was a guy called Shane, about 5'10 Very nice and facially very attractive but he was so skinny, one of those who looked "young" for his age because he had no fat on him.
Anyway I let him stay at mine for a few weeks when I was 19 and i'd tease him all the time. I remember when it started I had him get a spider out of the bathroom I was just in a towel but my ass wasnt covered and he was starring tons. But he was still a virgin at the time. I remember teasing hi tons after that. Wearing just a thong and a top (no bra) around the house. Bending over in skirts, No underwear on. Then I moved it up a notch by sitting on his lap etc
>>23713974
Into this. Go on.
But where it really kicked up a gear was when I sat on his lap this one time when he was slightly drunk and for the first time he put his hands onto my legs/upper thigh and began to rub it.Eventually I began kissing him and he said "im unsure" went on about being a virgin all this shit. So I just forced him down pants off and sucked him till I could tell he was about to cum, 30-40 seconds and stopped. He seemed really confused, I slipped my panties off and began to ride him but I just went really slow. Soon as I sat on his cock I barely moved then i'd do ONE big hard thrust every 6-7 seconds so he didnt cum.
anyway I kept doing this for awhile you could tell he had no idea what to do, and I just stopped and he said something like "please" so I said please what? he said "you know" during this little conversation I just sat on his dick entirely didnt move. or thrust though. "please make me cum" I went really fast for about 10 seconds and just stopped. During this 10 seconds he put his hand on my tits and just squeezed the nipples/tits over and over could tell he was loving it now. "Put them in your mouth I said while I stopped" and started the slow thrusting, Then I Did another 5 very fast thrusts and just stopped again. "if you want it you'll have to take it."
I stood up walked towards our kitchen a little bit and bent over the stand there. "go on" He got up behind me and it didnt take him long to work out what to do. Cock was in and he fucked me really fast and hard. he lasted about 15 seconds before he cummed inside me, as he was cumming I reached down and grabbed his balls gave them a big squeeze. He shot a TON inside me as well. I remember how hard I cummed on his cock, I like moaned/laughed because it was so good when he did cum. After he was done, I looked at him and said "its running down my legs" He was a great toy for another 4-5 days. But unfortunately he moved from ohio to cali so it stopped after that.
>>23714027
This isn't real. I refuse to believe a guy could luck out this much.
>>23714038
it is real, I've met a few people online become good friends with them and then fucked,.
>>23714043
Lucky bastards. Did you meet Shane online too?
>>23714056
yes. We never really dlirted or anything online just a few jokes here and there but was good friends.
>>23714072
So he had no idea what your plans for him were when he got to your house? Starting to tease him must have been hot as hell.
>>23713974
>>23714002
>>23714013
>>23714027
>>23714072
I want u to sit in my shoulders while I eat ur box and prolly do military presses with ur shaking body as u cum and I still lick ur clit on every downward motion
>>23714043
Where are you from?
>>23712075
You know what doesn't attract dominant women like myself? Sub POV pics of a woman pointing assertively at her pussy. Try a domme POV pic of a kneeling guy giving subby eyes and we'll talk.
>>23715272
yeah? Well you're a bitch!!!1
I am a submissive male, will do just about anything. Anybody can add me boy/girl, on snapchat: lilsubbydude
>>23715272
Yes pls. Not enough of this going around.
Not to sound whiny but I feel like lots of the female dom porn material out there isn't to cater to the actual doms. Fifty year old men in tutus et al...
>>23716808
desu i'm not sure who that's supposed to appeal to
>>23716993
A dominant female..? Cute collared guy, what's not to love.
>>23717022
I meant the fifty year old men in tutus. The Internet is awash with this material and I'm not at all sure who it's aimed at. Maybe it's not aimed at anyone, maybe older men are just more likely to pay to participate? I wouldn't care but they're usually awful subs as well. They look perpetually miserable and engage in the scene with all the enthusiasm of a jaded retail clerk.
>>23715272
This. These threads have had a terrible choice in OP pics lately.
>>23714002
This fake post gave me hard.
sub male checking in
few questions for dommes if any are still in thread
>>23717437
Sure what are your questions?
>>23715272
>>23717330
so you make the femdom threads anons
>>23717521
wondering about how the non-sexual aspects of domming go for different folks
have you had any long-term relationships with any of your subs?
does the dom/sub thing show outside of the bedroom for you, personally?
if so, to what extent?
if not, do you ever want it to?
ump
>>23717168
Oh! I get you. Yes, my sentiments exactly. It has to be aimed at SOMEone or I doubt they'd waste time making it but it seems so forced, staged, and generally unpleasant.
It's hard to believe that there are no cute, skinny, or young subs who'd be into it. :/ Maybe all the good stuff is behind paywalls? Does anyone have any suggestions? I'd be down to subscribe somewhere if I knew the content was good. I'm into bondage, collars, denial, chastity first and foremost, but I enjoy almost anything where the chemistry between dom and sub is good. Those videos are holy grail for me and I've only found maybe two.
>>23718194
You're into some hot stuff. Do you like assplay too?
>>23717346
erm... Certainly not fake lol I come here all the time.
>>23714552
ohio, currently in leeds uk though.
I'm not really submissive when it comes to my professional and social life, but there's something about talking to a confident woman that makes me want to immediately kneel and be collared by her. I've payed for it before from professional dommes but it's always better when it happens organically in your daily life.
If there's any dominant women here from the DC/NoVa metro area that want a new sub to control, my kik is DCprofessional.
>>23714081
no idea at all lol.
>>23714467
lol you think you could shoulder press me?
>>23717168
>>23718194
I actually sent an email to one of the femdom websites asking them why they always use older guys like that. They said that their biggest audience is older men who aren't exactly the most attractive, so they try to make it easy for them to self-insert into the videos.
I agree though, it's hard to find the videos without that shit. I would love to be the sub in femdom videos, but they tend to either use one of the older people who are running the site or men who are friends with the higher ups. There's so many willing male subs out there too that there will always be someone to grab and use.
>>23719162
Dear god, you're a dream...
I definitely classify myself as a dominant woman but I feel frustrated because I feel like I'm not as confident as I should be when it comes down to that.
>>23719242
Let's talk about it and see if I can't boost your confidence. Kik: dex412
>>23719148
Where in Ohio?
Any of you ladies into face sitting? I'm a guy and lately I've been into that. I'm huge into asses and whenever I see a girl with the proper proportions from the waist down I can't help but think to myself "God I'd love her to sit on my face". I'm talking laying down and having my face just ground on.
Any stories?
I know this isn't necessarily always femdom, but videos online seem to imply it is.
>>23719142
I would have paid 1000$ for you to take my virginity if you lived in michigan.
I've always wanted to explore my sub side. I'm really turned on by being told what to do.
Ladies, if you're interested in training a sub, kik me at Frank.Luther
living in japan
recently got a gf who i had no idea was domme, but she was about 5 years older than me and there is a lot of meaning in age and superior in rank in japan so there was already the atmosphere of her being in charge and she took up that tone naturally, not asking me what we should do but stating what we'll do, ordering me to do things.
she could she i was submissive and eventually she started feminizing me. would make me wear her underwear when making love or at home and then went on to tell me to sit while peeing after scolding me for missing a few times.
when she'd play with my dick she'd moved down to rubbed the balls and then further down and slowly prod at my ass. was subdued at first but slowly she'd get her whole finger in and start fingering me. after several times of this she showed me pegging pics and how fun it would be. so sure enough she got a strapon that came with two sizes, one smaller like an enlarged finger, and another like a bratwurst.
first with the smaller one, later with the larger, she started to peg me quite forcifully everytime we made love. the times i got to penetrate her decreased until the point it was just her fucking me.
then like most jap girls she just sent a brief text saying to break up and never heard from again
>>23718194
The kink.com websites are mostly of excellent quality (good chemistry, variety of models, pre- and post-play interviews, behind-the-scenes), although they're frustratingly male-oriented.
>>23719162
Ok know I can love Hit me up on snapchat
>>23719162
Need to fly to the uk asap
>>23718271
Yep! I'm with a guy who's dominant and that's pretty much the only "kinky" thing he enjoys so I like it. :)
>>23719194
That makes sense. I wonder what the psychology behind that is? Maybe the older guys feel ugly or rejected and think they deserve punishment, or it's the only way for them to get some? Armchair-iest of psychology over here.
It's a dream of mine to make my own porn someday. I want to make high quality bdsm porn with attractive actors, preferably real doms and their subs. I'm also into costuming and would love to do some really well researched Roman/Greek/Babylonian type scenes, with lots of detail, good to look at. Maybe a sub getting sold at an ancient market and trained. That's more my fantasy though, not sure if it'd be popular. I don't know all the laws about porn though, and I'm not sure if it's even legal in every state.
>>23719242
I understand that. I have yet to play out a scene with anyone because I'm pretty monogamous right now, and my man is not into being subby, to put it lightly. So what I do to build confidence is to just improve myself, develop my self control, stay in shape. I think it helps you feel more confident over others when you're in firm control of yourself. Also you could invest in a shit ton of nice leather gear and such so the second you find a qt at the club, there's a whole array of leather, rope, and metal niceties to play with.
>>23720289
I'll look it up. I'm learning that most porn is male oriented, so you kind of have to get inside their head to find what you want. I mostly watch gay porn to find attractive actors, for example.
>>23719148
440?
How would I dom an asshole and egomaniac?
I just want to step on their dicks and make them feel ashamed for losing control
>pic semirelated
>>23719148
>>23714027
Part of me wants to go to Ohio, but I've a bad feeling I wouldn't cum much, if at all ^^;;
I don't think I could get up and take you like that ;-;
bump
I've never had any luck finding a domme. I kinda feel that there's so many timewasters and such a discrepancy between the number dommes and subs that it's an uphill battle
LSaccount is my kik
switch male here (mostly sub to women, switch to guys based on the guy)
My advice to sub men is if you are over 18 (preferably 21), go out to local munches and kink events in your community, meet people (by local I mean anywhere from 10 minutes down the road to 2-3 hour drive if you have the gas and time), and connect.
Talk to dommes, ask to do small play sessions, see what you like and look for. Maybe ask other subs how they are able to find dynamics.
Rome wasn't built in a day. I managed to get into a dynamic within about a month of entering my local kink community, and while I'm in a different dynamic I still learned a lot.
Also, if all you want are quick scenes or one and done shit, hire a pro-domme. They go about $250+ a session, but they will get you your dream scene
Any advice for a newbie looking to find a Dom? Online would be fine, but I just want a femdom to tell me what to do to please her. Snap is cameron67521 If anyone wants to talk there. I'm 18 and M
>>23723375
okay anon
>>23721235
404?
>>23720576
lol
>>23719482
I use to stay in michigan a ton when I was younger. I'll post some of my other experiences here.
Every girl I've been with was super-dominant outside the bedroom and super sub inside it.
I wouldn't mind having it the other way around for a change.
>>23724599
i know how you feel man
I just want a girl who isn't a total slut with a dominant personality, someone who loves me and wants a proper relationship with her being in charge. Why is this so hard?
So far all i found were:
>findommes
>women who just want to RP online
>professional dommes and mistresses that have "dungeons" and charge you money for them
>women who want to abuse men for no reason other than the fact that they hate men
>women who are cold and distant and just enjoy hurting men and find submissives pathetic and get off at their misery
>women who just want to have sex and dominate you for a while and then move on once she is tired of you like >>23714027
Where do i look? Fetlife is garbage, full of older women in their 30s and 40s and the closest munch is like an hour away
>>23724599
>Every girl I've been with was super-dominant outside the bedroom and super sub inside it
That's the fucking *worst*.
>>23712075
>Studying in Australia
>Meet a nice guy in my lab group
>He's huge, 6'4, built like a tank and strong enough to throw 80kg guys around like they're kids
>He nervously asks me out
>We go out on a cute date and notice he's very polite and considerate
>Next time decide to push things a little
>He gives into me with a little push
>Still has some reservations about things like PDA and going places he feels uncomfortable
>Make it official and start dating
>He's all too eager to please, but still offers resistance to certain things
>We have sex after a week
>He tries to bea good dom male, but gives up once I assert myself
>Over the weeks start pushing him
>He craves attention and affection, so I use some conditioning
>Always a little resistant in the bedroom
>One day force him to leave a game running without pausing
>Put him on his knees
>Butter him up
>Finger fuck his mouth and play with his tongue
>He's rock hard and sucking my fingers
>That's the tipping point
>From there he's more and more willing to submit
>Eventually manage to take him out in public
>Sit down on a bench in a train station at 1AM
>Wrap my hand around his head and start probing with my tongue and biting him
>Take his cock out and stroke it
>He resists for a few moments before letting go
>Stop just before he cums
>Make him worship me in public
>Keep a hand on his cheek and he doesn't even look around
>Wait until we get home
>Tie him to a chair naked
>Edge him for a good 30 minutes
>Eventually let him cum
>Choke him hard as he does
>He's completely spent and just so desperate to please me after that
>From then on he belonged to me
Still had a few defiant patches to straighten out, but all in all he really embraced it. In a way, it made him more dominant around others, particularly men, as he was completely comfortable and over a lot of his nervous behaviour.
>>23724935
What's wrong with women in their 30s? Sometimes it takes a while to develop their kinks and what they're into.
Sad to say an hour's drive isn't so bad to connect with someone, and that's probably the only way to make a *real* connection. People can come across very different online vs. in person, so if you're looking for something in person, you'll probably have to meet them that way.
I don't think findommes should even go on your list, that whole "kink" is a crock of bs imo. If you want a sugar daddy get a sugar daddy, don't pretend it's kinky.
29/f
Have been practicing since I was 16, own two subs one live in male and one female who comes over every other weekend.
Happy to answer questions
>>23725389
Who did you dom when you were 16?
Story about that?
>>23719194
Kink.com uses fit and young male subs.
>>23719242
Want to dom me kik dhwood11
>>23719242
just ask the other doms for tips
>>23724554
Not even kidding its a 1 hour flight Id love to take
>>23712075
last bitch was a domme.
lasted 3 months
shitty alpha,
when she lost control and
her dominatrix status didn't pull off
she would go apeshit, but in like, a pathetic way. so I dumped her due to her weakness.
I mean, most guys don't find dominant women tho, the just coerce chicks to treat them like subs with passive coersion, since 90 percent of chicks are full sub, man, more then half of the boys also
:)>
Like, bitch was a natural, she pulled off foot worship even, however dominating the dom starts getting sexier when you explore deeper.
otherwise its just tricks to avoid boring vanilla sex.
>>23724559
Reeeeee
I am unable to make any sexual advance on woman not even innocent one like touching her forearm or something. I just feel the need for her approval to do anything.
unless I met woman who likes to take initiative into her own hands I will probably stay virgin forever since more submissive woman either think I am gay or just see me as weakling.
I am not really complaining about them. I can see relationships from their perspective. as well as most of the woman I am not interested in submissive partner because I know it's not going to work.
18 male Indiana
I'm 6 foot 3...265 pounds and I'm looking for a girl to Dom me...I have never done it so I want to learn, so please teach me
Kik: brohamsandwhich
>>23725537
She didn't Dom me, she trained me and let me work along side her with willing clients. I met her in a goth chat room, didn't believe her at all when she said what she did for a living, we talked a lot and eventually met for coffee. After I learned to trust her she invited me over to practice on her husband and some of her clients. I'd stay every 2nd weekend for almost 2 years.
>>23726639
so are you pro as well? you certainly sound like one. if so do you take any pleasure from it? most of the pro domes I saw have usually this "I should have stayed at university" type of expression on their faces.
>>23725389
>29/f
>Have been practicing since I was 16
That's some naruto shit
>>23726689
Im not a pro at all, I domme in my downtime with my lovers. Professionally I am a chef. I just learned the basics of it from a pro.
>>23724559
Im in Indiana 765 if you want to make me your bitch
>>23726700
>That's some naruto shit
what?
>>23725351
super HOT.
I'm a switch male in Australia but only played with a couple of dominant women.
What is a good way to have a sexual partner take a more dominant role?
>>23725351
that's hot
>>23727263
Make them feel like they're in control during intimate moments. Let them make decisions and follow their lead with enthusiasm. The most important part is, when having sex, ask them what they want from you and what you can give to them. Be selfless and submissive, then the power dynamic of the relationship will shift on its own, as long as she's not an eternal sub.
How do I get a loving, gentle dom gf?
Can anyone lead me in the direction of a strap on harness that can fit larger toys?
My smallest dildo has about 2.5 inches of girth and my girlfriend has been showing an interest in this.
I have a lot of crazy shaped bad dragon toys too which might make it difficult.
>>23728364
wish i knew
>>23725351
Hot. This used to be my idea of a good time before I got serious with my current sub. Take a guy, see how far he will go into the sub world. Usually pretty damn far, even if the guy is vanilla. I think a lot of men are starved for that kind of thing, they want to be seduced, pursued, taught how to please and serve, sometimes exclusively, sometimes just to change things up.
>>23728364
I am just trying to be myself. it's huge turn of for most of the woman but I guess it's better this way because I don't feel like putting an act my whole life.
but even as sub you have to approach women and ask them out. it's just that the way you do it is slightly different. if she finds your shy and nervous behaviour cute you are on the good path. if not, well it's not going to work because she wants someone dominant.
>>23724559
What area code in Ohio? I'm from 513
>>23714467
die, nigger
>>23729536
In my experience, men are always "on", when it comes to masculinity and dominance. Even a fairly reserved, meek guy has to uphold the facade all the time. Letting them just relax and let go on the reigns seems to really benefit them.
>>23730500
why the hate anon?
I need a german QT who wants to run a train on me...
>tfw you want to meet a dominant woman but have no clue where to even look
>>23715272
So a guy posing like girls usually do?
Sounds easy enough.
Submissive males are a dime a dozen. The market for them is so saturated with guys who are more into their own pleasure than the person that they are submissive for. That's not to say you should only care for your partner, as it's a shared experience, both partners should be pleased.
I have pictures a lot of experience with submitting to very aggressive, rude, mean women. It's a thing I like, but it's not good for me. I'm into dangerous fetishes and these partners dint actually care about me. Lately I've been thinking more about finding a nice dom. I've never had one before, but they seem good. They are about as rare as a good male sub I'm sure.
For some reason I've always had a huge mistress/Dom fetish.
I just want to get bent over a MILFs knee and spanked and wedgies hard. I think it's so passive and submissive but I've always been so turned on for some reason.
Are some ppl just more inclined to this fetish?
22/m/straight , kik : tsmith4556
>>23714027
The real question is what your 1rm is for bench/squat/dead
>>23714027
>he cummed inside me
>>23719967
>then like most jap girls she just sent a brief text saying to break up and never heard from again
ouch
>>23728938
go back to /gfd/
I am currently being heavily financially dominated by a girl I cannot say no to. She has me in chastity, and has taken a few of my possessions as well as compromising pictures to keep me under check. she keeps getting me to give her my money and there is little I can do about it - both because of the extremely frustrating tease and chastity keeping me aroused, plus her being a little scary and eccentric as well as holding potential blackmail...
>>23732755
pics now
>>23732755
Could it be a sextortion scam? 'Sextortion' scams are on the rise lately.
30/m/337
I'm a sub guy, but I don't like mean doms, pegging, or S&M. I like nice, mommy dom women. If any femanon is into this, reply to this post.
>>23732838
Of her? I have them, but if she finds out I posted them here it is going to cost me dearly. She's a mediterranean looking girl, brown eyes, curly brunette hair, full hourglass figure (not chubby, toned).
>>23732846
I have met her and been kissed just to keep me on edge, so it's unlikely. Or, she found a way to do one but keeping me aroused?she is a bisexual who got curipous about men after being in a relationship with a girl she used to heavily tease, and both thinks more like a guy as well as knowing exactly how we tick. Intimidating, erotic, and to be honest, I am a little envious of her.
Bumpan
>>23732887
Pics of her. Now plz.
>>23733049
...hm?
Looking for slave/dom girl/tgirl to intoduce me to this whole thing :> Willing to learn and obey im 22 y/o male pictures are on kik add me there contrastx if youre willing to help me/have fun :>
>>23719967
Pretty hot. Kinda sad the ending ruined it for me.
>TFW no qt girl to femdom me in my uni
>>23725351
Holy crap that's hot as hell
>>23732755
Financial domination is great.
I'm poor as shit, and the idea of some bratty girl taking my money to waste on stuff like new shoes while she laughs about making me live off instant noodles for her benefit... That's the dream, man.
>>23725351
Fuck this is exactly the type of sub I want. Dominant to all except for me.
this is fucking wierd who the fuck would want to be 'dommed' thats so degrading lmao. i guess each to their own
18/ germany/ str8 dl
My fetish: Diaper, pee panties
My kik : 98natsu
>>23725389
its spooky skeleton girl from canada that i sent emails to back in like november
18 male Indiana
I'm 6 foot 3...265 pounds and I'm looking for a girl to Dom me...I have never done it so I want to learn, so please teach me
Kik: brohamsandwhich
>>23736357
>thats so degrading
that's literally the point tho
>>23737304
not all the time
20 male alaska looking for a dom let me know
Snap = Juneaugray
21/M/IL
I want to be a sub for someone
Kik: ii_Fonzie_ii
Question for dommes, but I'm open to anyone's input.
Is it easy to determine people's preferred position based on their behaviour? I'm really shy around women, and I'm not sure if it's lack of experience or my personal kinks.
>>23738566
when it comes to guys, it's easier to tell for me almost always. in my experience, they're much more shy and non-sexually submissive
with girls, i notice that submissive ones varied more - they would be anything from bossy and aggressive to shy and meek
>>23738757
Makes sense. I'm not sure if that bodes well or not.
>>23738810
I mean, it could be COMPLETELY different in other peoples experiences, but that's what mine has been irl mostly
As for if its good or not.. I dunno, I think shy guys are cute and it makes me want to break them for my own amusement, hahaha
>>23738836
That's heartening.
I just want domme-senpai to sweep me off my feet and onto my knees.
>>23738836
have you broken them? if so, how please
>>23738860
>I just want domme-senpai to sweep me off my feet and onto my knees.
This is adorable.
>>23738861
No, I'm actually incredibly shy/nervous to actually approach somebody in a dominant sense. I'm a mostly submissive switch, but I'm too afraid of going "too far" in a domme position by hitting some sort of snag that genuinely harms them in some way, rather than enjoyably hurting them.
Maybe people here will have some tips to avoid that, outside of "talk it out/negotiate" ???
>>23738881
I try. Currently trying to pull off male-moe.
>>23738891
It's working, don't worry.
I've always been really turned on by pegging and other kinds of assplay, but I've been too nervous to stick something up my hole. Does anyone here know how I should start this?
>>23738969
Lube is important. Try something fairly small at first, and work your way up. Don't insert anything that you can't remove.
>>23738933
Awww.
>>23739022
I don't have any official lube. Is there something I can replace it with, or should I wait to get some?
>>23739046
What material is the object going in your ass?
>>23739049
I haven't decided yet, but I was thinking either a plastic pen or my pinky finger.
>>23739060
if you have organic unrefined coconut oil, that is amazing for anal - i've heard similar about olive oil but can't vouch for that at all
>>23738969
use fingers
>>23736838
I don't live in Canada.
>>23739060
I just use saliva with small objects. Real lube is much better though.
>>23738566
I dont know any completely submissive guys but two switches. They are both very confident and seem to get along with girls easily. Not really alpha males, more like "the funny guy" type.
>>23730500
racists pls go
>>23715272
>You know what doesn't attract dominant women like myself? Sub POV pics of a woman pointing assertively at her pussy.
Shut the fuck up, you dumb cunt. This is a thread about dominant women and so there is a picture of a dominant woman in the OP. Is that so hard to understand?
I understand you like sub guys, but having a pic of one in the OP would usually be posted by a dom looking for subs. The OP is a sub looking for doms.
Hi. Experienced dominant male. But I find myself looking for a dominant woman and had a little time spent with one myself. I'm sure this isn't the place to be posting about this but here looking for any dom woman.
kik: deej044
>>23743869
are you a switch ?
>>23719148
Fancy domming a fellow Brit?
I'm thicker than your wrists and insist on asking to cum.
