So, who pays for the date? The man, the woman or both?
Man.
t. man
Unless the person offers to pay (lets go for dinner my treat!) you should always be prepared to pay for your half of the meal.
>>23667753
Thats how I feel. If youre an adult, you should pay for your own food.
Either go dutch or whoever made the invitation.
If she mentions feminism it's all hers though.
I'm always prepared to pay half, but I'm into the traditional stuff so if the man want to pay I find it a turn on. As well as opening doors and just being a gentleman.
>>23667781
>if the man want to pay I find it a turn on
women turned on by money, what a fucking surprise
>>23667781
>>23667753
>>23667758
You're paying for pussy, not the food. It's all part of the elaborate courting/sexual rituals of the west, if you want to be balls deep in pussy then either way you have to pay for it.
And don't ever forget one of the primary ways a woman judges if you are worthy of having her pussy is if you have money and are prepared to give it to her.
Half unless both parties agree otherwise.
>>23668086
Nobody cares, spotty face
>>23668101
Just ignore him; he thrives on *any* attention.
the problem isn't paying for the woman. if it were just paying for the woman, that would be fine. the problem is they expect you to pay and all the other stuff too. Equality when they like it, misogyny when they don't.
Whoever asks the other out should pay, if I ask someone to dinner I'm not going to expect them to pay, and nor should they expect me to pay if they invite me out
>>23668134
This 100%
OP if you asked this person out and then dropped the prices on them you were lucky to even get a response
>>23667741
If I ask them on a date, I'm fully prepared to pay for it. I will not suggest her to pay, nor do I want her to. If she offers to pay for her own meal, I'll insist by saying "No don't worry about it, it's my treat." but if she implies that she's wanting to pay, I won't argue with her.
If a girl asks me out on a date, I still offer to pay for my own meal. I'm just one of those people that hates the idea of people treating me to dinners.
But OP if you asked her on the date you should pay. Stop being a jew.
>>23668208
I dont see how she is entiltled to my money just because I asked her out. We both want to be there, why is all the pressure of money on me?
Were both employed adults. Stop bumming me for free meals.
>>23668300
If you like her I don't see why you'd have such a problem spending a small amount of money on her dinner tab.
I honestly can't tell if you're trolling right now. I mean, the "pressure of money" is on you because YOU asked her out.
>>23667865
>>23667875
It's not about the money. I make 50000 a year so I get by quite comfortably. I like to keep our house clean and decorate, I like to buy the groceries and cook dinner every night. I like my boyfriend to fix appliances and work on the yard, on dates I like it that he pays for us. He actually gets embarrassed if I try to pay. We split the bills equally. I actually make more than him (not by much) it's just preference.
>>23667753
This.
>>23667865
>>23667875
Missed the point.
>>23667884
You speak as if you've ever gotten pussy.
>>23667759
Funny you mention feminism. I dated one who was all about equality, ect. So I started making her split the bill b/c "its 2016". She got so fuckin upset.
>>23668344
>small amount of money
On a typicall date I like to go eat and see a movie.
I drive and pick them up.
So on gas im spending atleast 20$
Movie tickets 10$×2
Food 20$×2
If were going purely cheap.
So I should spent 80$ everytime I go out. Remember, this is just one girl. If I have atleast 3 dates a week, thats 240$ a week.
>small amount
Smaller still when the check is split.
Why shouldnt she pay?
Equal work, equal pay
Equal food, equal check.
Stop cucking for the flesh jew.
>>23668399
>20$ (sic)
I agree with your general statement, but shit son, your car is one thirsty nigger.
>>23668399
I agree man, it fuckin sucks and I don't like it. But if we want any chance with a girl, gotta just bite the bullet. I know for a fact (ive had relationshits with them) most girls will drop you if you don't pay for the dates. Even if you tell them you are a poor student with 60k in debt. Not even my girlfriend of 3 years was understanding about that shit.
>>23667884
Yeah as a female I am not 'paying for pussy' when I go on a date. I posted that because it's how I've always been. You pay for you half unless the person says it's on them. Don't assume someone else is going to pay for you, it's classless.
>>23667884
That's an ignorant oversimplification. I often but lunch for my friends and co-workers of both sexes, and I'm certainly not bisexual.
If I invite, I buy. It's that simple. It isn't any sense of faux-chauvinism designed to drop panties. It's my own personal values.
>>23668458
Often buy. There needs to be an edit function.
>>23668432
Het!
This is the first time Ive had a girl back out because of me not wanting to pay.
I always go dutch, why wouldnt I?
There is no way to know weither or not Ill even like you, why would I put money down for a bum time?
Have some self-esteem, just dont pay for their shit.
>>23668479
Newfags are intolerable
>>23668487
If its an online dating first date, I'll usually make it at Starbucks or some casual thing and yeah we go 50/50, no reason to pay for total strangers like you said.
But anything after that you need to pay for, in my experience.
>have some self-esteem
I've tried to go dutch. I've strained relationships that way and made the girl respect me less/cause drama.
I usually just get my card out when the bill comes and offer to pay. Most of the time the girl will offer to split he bill in which case I acquiesce (unless I want to treat them in which case I sort of insist).
If they don't even offer, I'll pay but hold it against them.
The girl I'm seeing right now and I just take turns to pay for stuff
>>23668538
>Most of the time the girl will offer to split he bill
>tfw have these friends, both male and female
>tfw gf as well
>but will still let me pay if I insist
>>23667741
When I'm on a date. Which I won't lie isn't common. I'll buy a round of drinks. If she offers to buy the next round then dinners on me. Otherwise, we ain't going to dinner.
>>23668602
Also if you're the one who asked the person out and you're not intending on at least paying for the meal. You're kind of a dick. Male or Female.
>>23668602
Not a bad system. Got to make compromises like this, can't just complain about paying for dates. Shit is unfair and not about to change, so got to roll with it.
>>23668606
Or. If you accept an invitation to a date, pay for yourself, as you would any other occasion.
>>23667753
you never know if the person will ditch
and leave you with the bill
always carry enough to pay the whole bill
>>23667884
and this is the reason all women are Gold diggers
if you want equality,
if a women wants the right to vote
she can pay for half the dates
or can pay for her half of the meal
>>23667741
>losing a date because don't want to pay for the lunch
Such a fucking jew. It's still cheaper than a hooker faggot, go ahead and pay for it and get the pussy.
>>23667741
>paying for other people's shit
What am I, made of money? I offer you the gift of my company.
>>23668830
actually hookers are a lot cheaper
depends on how clean you want her hole to be.
an expensive Escort Hooker is $1,000 - $3,000 for a night
and usually work for a modelling agency or a fancy hotel
the middle ones are $100 - $300 for an hour
and usually work from online or the back page of the classifieds
or a local strip club
a cheep one will run between $20 - $60 an hour
and usually work the street,
or an online sex cam show
literally 90% of people in this thread are fucking cucks.
read the red pill. i have a LTR girlfriend of 2+ years, never have I ever spent money once on her (apart from our birthday gifts and cakes - which equally offsets in values).
you're supposed to teach your girlfriend to be a good girl and pay for her own shit, down to the cent.
i.e you get take out, her meal costs $15 and yours costs $11: she pays $15 and you pay $11 (not going 'halves', or you paying all of it).
she will respect you for it. if you're too nu-male and beta to see it, then ignore my advice pls
>>23668399
I imagine you're also the type that spits on the homeless guy and tells him to get a job because "He's got arms and legs like the rest of us."
The reason I pay for dates isn't for equal rights. I do it because I genuinely like the person I'm going out with. I've never just walked up and asked someone out, the people I've dated I've already known prior. These girls have been classmates, co-workers, or people I see somewhat regularly. I'm one of those people that has to actually know the person before I bother going on a date with them. That's just how I am, so maybe my system is different than yours because of it.
>Stop cucking for the flesh jew
>Proceeds to spend $80 everytime you go out
You really don't know how to have a good time without spending a chunk of change, do you? Go do something other than movies. Get a better car that doesn't have shit mileage. Have a bit of creativity.
Honestly I followed this rule
1st date: Split bill, I pay for them and they pay for me.
2nd date: I pay
3rd date: They pay
4th date: My bed springs pay.
