Femdom thread? femdom thread
like always feel free to discuss kinks, share stories, find likeminded. be nice to each other.
i am myself get really off on the idea of being "unworthy" of a girl. someothers are into the same stuff?
bump, or do we have to wait tll the us is waking up?
>>23481267
I've got vice versa shit
>>23481471
Hii! That you in the pic? :D
>>23481526
how do you mean?
Any lady doms want to have fun:
Doodling_snickers
>>23481267
My gf dominates me sometimes. With us it's more like she is a goddess and I worship her. It also gives her an outlet for her bossy bitch side. I tell her to save it up for the bedroom and she tells me exactly how she wants to be fucked.
>>23482357
sounds hot to me. you had troubles getting her to show her dominat side?
>>23482380
A little but I actually have more trouble these days trying to get her to be sub. I'm very much a switch. She definitely seems to enjoy being the one in charge when we have sex.
>>23482396
yeah well i also like to switch sometimes, but i am for sure more on the sub side
>>23482292
girls for me are always unworthy piece of shit
>>23482415
You maybe wouldn't make a very good sub then!
>>23481267
This is how most of my femdom experiences go
>tell i guy im into femdom
>he says oh thats interesting
>he continues to try and dominate me after I tell him thats not what I'm into at all
>tries to boss me around
>I block him
shits dope. Not like there arent a million submissive girls out there for you to go and fuck around with.
>>23482511
That is unlucky, there always seems to be an excess of sub guys if anything, so I'm surprised you haven't had more luck.
There more Dom guys then there is sub. It's just if your lurking in this part of the net your gonna find way more sub guys then norma
Example. I'm sort of a sub guy. Want to be dominated a little but not all the time other wises I'm mostly vanilla.
>>23482511
>message dom girl looking for sub guys
>no response
yeah must suck.
>>23482511
Master, can I be lucky enough to be your Slave?
>no Doms in the whole thread
Damn it bump
>>23482524
Online they are plenty of them, problem is they're all americans. Offline is a whole other story.
>>23482556
Happens. I've had it happen to me, it's just life. Could be they're not attracted to you or interested in you, or it could be the fact that they've found someone to talk to already or have been spammed by too many.
Just because they're a dom and you're a sub does not automatically entitle you to a conversations with them.
>>23482598
>people calling me master when I don't even know them.
Don't try and immediately throw yourself into any form of relationship with someone because it's not attractive. I only like desperate/needy when it's from someone I know and am attracted to.
>>23481267
>>23483223
Sorry to hear and I hope you have better luck. I met my gf offline so we are out there.
What do u thin?
>Tell gf I'm into femdom
>She never even tries to Dom me
>iI have to do all the work
>>23483261
Try doing stuff where you are usually in control, like fucking her on top, but asking her to tell you exactly how she wants it, how fast how slow and all that. See if it brings out her teasing side.
>find dom online
>we start talking
>rarely lasts more than a few days before I find out she's /pol/ as hell, figure out that she's fucking boring, or realize that she's a nut.
sigh
really just want to say that there aren't that many doms to begin with and there are so few good ones. i'm lonely as hell since the steady thing I had ended recently.
>all guys are either brain damaged sex addicts, macho manly man retards who are too insecure to ever let a woman even straddle them, or needy guys who will fall in love with them the minute they let them clean a shoe
how do dommes retain even a modicum of hope?
>>23483723
Or just normal guys who can enjoy vanilla sex, are not creepy, but like a woman to take charge sometimes. I agree though that there are a lot of guys around in the categories you mention!
>>23482511
I was under the impression that dominant girls were a rare commodity and that quite a few are into that. Weird.
>>23483654
I have tried that. She is just naturally and 'feels weird' trying to dom me so I am forever - dom
>>23483223
>Online they are plenty of them, problem is they're all americans. Offline is a whole other story.
So where do I have to be from in order to get dommed by you?
I've been really depressed and miserable lately, and the strangest side effect is that I'm suddenly into femdom.
I really want an older lady (or just a really dominant gal) to slap me around and really violently take me. Dictate my every move. I'd even want her to peg me if I really trusted her eventually, or if she beat my into oblivion.
The other side of this though is that I'm also really into Mommy type stuff. Like I really want a sweet woman to tell me I'm her good boy and that everything is going to be alright
I'm fucked up.
>>23484408
It's the mixture of loving/nurturing ("come here and suck my tits like a good boy") and harsh that's so fucking hot.
>>23483723
By dating cute submissive women.
Straight dommes, you have my sympathy. Men are good for the occasional fuck, but women make such better submissives.
>>23483723
It's no better from the other side, honestly. It's just ugly for everyone involved. The loudest and most visible fetishy people are the goddamn mental patients, and the chill ones who just want to do fun kinky shit always retreat into the background.
The end result is that 98% of sub guys can't ever find a domme worth a goddamn, so they go even crazier from desperation. Meanwhile the dommes themselves are equally screwed, because they have to resign themselves to vanilla guys. Vanilla dudes are not only generally dominant, they're typically scared of even indulging femdom, because they feel like it threatens their masculinity. And even if they do agree to indulge it, dommes often can't really get into it, because vanilla guys are notoriously selfish and will just be like "OK I ATE UR PUSSY HALF-ASSEDLY FOR 5 WHOLE MINUTES, JEEZ CAN WE GO BACK TO NORMAL SEX NOW????"
People constantly say that the magic key to good D/s is going to fetish events and participating in the "BDSM community," but BDSM community people are even fucking worse sonehow. And events are usually eerie sausagefests full of people with no self-awareness.
I thank god every single day that I'm a service submissive. 90% of my femdom kink is that I want to be a disembodied mouth on a leash, maybe be used as furniture occasionally and get bossed around relatively benignly. It's at least not THAT hard to get vanilla girls to enjoy being selfish about using my face for stuff. I swear, if I were into really elaborate BDSM kinks, I'd be fucked. Basically the weirdest thing I ever have to ask for is to lick feet / shoes clean.
Still, you end up going so long just getting vanilla girls to sit on you that you literally forget what it feels like to viscerally submit. Whenever some girl actually gives me that "this person owns me and I want to eat her ass for a thousand years" feeling, it's like "oh yeah, that's how this fetish is supposed to feel."
>>23484475
Beautifully written
>>23484472
I've told my gf if we ever have an MFF threesome she can boss us both around
Wish I could find a girl whos into gentle domination or role reversal. I'm not super kinky, mainly just want a woman who will boss me around and fuck me like I'm her property.
>>23485187
>woman who will boss me around and fuck me like I'm her property
It's so good when you find it!
>>23483223
Where are you from?
>>23481267
I just want an assertive girl who is willing to take the lead and initiate things both in and outside of the bedroom. Someone who is intelligent and also wants a proper relationship. I'm not interested in online sexting, whoring, or RPing with strangers or findommes or any of that crap. I'm also not interested in CBT, chastity or humiliation or small penis humiliation and stuff that makes up 90% of the mainstream femdom porn. Why is it so hard to find a girl like this?
