>>23424691
Id talk to u. B urself.

>>23424691
Honestly, if you're the type of guy who seeks to fade into the background, dress and act accordingly.

Wear darkish, drab clothing. Or perhaps something more styled yet understated. If this is something you're deeply conscious of, try to keep yourself looking as well groomed and presentable as possible (practice good overall hygiene), without giving off the air that you're trying to impress anyone.

Honestly, smoking is a lifesaver for me in social situations; you appear as if you don't give a fuck about your health/surrounds/peers, and quite frankly, makes you look kind of cool.

Horrendous habit to pick up, though.

But fundamentally, the less you give a fuck, the less you give a f u c k.
I was actually going somewhere with that but I've forgotten - typical.

>>23424846
Cont. but yeah it is your academia that is of the utmost importance - everything else is secondary.

Plus you mightn't look anywhere near as bad as you believe you do (or you could look worse *shrugs*). Regardless, keep your cool. Decent people will judge you on your character, so just make sure that's up to scratch.

>>23424754
lol
>>23424846
>>23424855
ironically pretty much all the cloths i own are dark colored. Yeah im well kept and in shape.

I dont smoke and never will. Im a semi health nut, it will probably get more into being healthy once i move out.

I use to care so much about academics, see in computer science you have 0-2 women in class and the women are not attractive. So you never think about girls. Now i have to take math courses and see girls and realize im ugly as shit and none speak to me. So now i get depressed and my grades are going down.

>>23424691
Homie I'm ugly as sin but I honestly don't give a fuck. That's how I get by happy. You'll realize eventually that your appearance isn't something you can really do much about outside of staying clean and groomed, and people don't really give a fuck. If they do they're not worth the time. Out in public, how many of those people are you ever going to see again? They won't think of you more than 5 seconds after you're out of sight, so who fuckin cares if they give you a look? I've a shitty mohawk and tattoos because that's what I like, and if I could tell you how many people give me sideways looks through the day I'd be out of breath. But it doesn't matter, because they don't matter. Unless those people have something positive to bring you, unless you have something you want to bring to their lives, they don't matter now, the next hour, the next month or the rest of your life. What matters for now, the next hour, the next month and the rest of your life is that YOU are happy.

>>23424691
deal with it until you get older, looks will become less and less relevant, don't fuck up your academics, at any cost, focus on dressing, hygiene and wealth, the absolute best would be to gain confidence from these (or any quality you KNOW you have), confidence solves everything, especially for males

>>23424935
yeah i try not to care, but seeing good looking girls and having none ever speech to you is depressing.
>>23424958
Relevant to? my job? If you mean relevant to getting girls, eh if they dont like me now for my appearance i dont think i want one that wants my money(providing i have any)

yeah i doubt the whole confidence thing, its good for job interviews though