Girl is messaging me on okcupid she actually instigated the conversation how do I respond shit
Just dont spaz out, you got this
>>23000001
So close to unlocking the internet
>>23000001
Said "Just chilling out to some music"
No response yet
Is it ogre?
>>22999988
Read her profile and ask her about that stuff
>>23000007
Didn't even notice that
>>23000020
Naw, you good senpai.
>>22999988
U CAN DO IT FAGGET!!! just think a bit before you write your messages.
Just chillin out to some music? wtf
lol just be urself why u asking what to say
>>22999988
Act normal. I don't know you personally, but talk to her like you would talk to a family member. I'd say talk to her like you would to a bro, but that could backfire very quickly.
>>23000092
this is great and all but when making the initial contact you have to have some sort of outstanding quality.
since the majority of people are boring this is important. and when i say the majority of people thats not an underexaggeration. think about how many people you meet throughout your life and how many of those are interesting enough to you to date
>>23000144
or overexag w.e
>>23000020
If ya havent said it yet, tell her what type of music you listen to, then ask her about her favourites.
>>23000179
Sent, "Some classic rock, what do you like to listen to?"
Hopefully two posts back to back wont ruin everything but she hadn't responded to me telling her I was listening to music and your idea sounds like a natural follow up to the first one and asking her what she likes will suck her in
>tfw girl messages you on tinder but you too depressed to answer
>>23000189
it helps to think a cuple steps ahead, dont count on a chick to help with the conversation.
"Oh cool:) I listen to all sorts of stuff. Mostly indie and rock."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vrQFBYgwQW8
Its not fucking spam fuck off
"so did you wanna go out or just fuck"
>>23000233
Noice :)
I want to get her number, this is the current situation
I asked her if she had any favorite bands and here we are
>>23000223
this
>>23000821
>iron maiden
>metallica
>phil collins
>pat benatar
PLEBIUS MAXIMUS
you already bored the shit out of her, move on unless you just want to be friends (lol you do)
>>23000821
call her a beta cuck, that way you establish that you arent one.
>>23000833
shes 18 and its very rare for an 18 year old today to like classic rock, she already said she is into it on some level and I dont think if she instigated this conversation and has been keeping it going that she would drop it all over "le your tastes are plebian sir"
>>23000893
LIES
>>23000821
this seems like one of the most basic conversations ever wtf. how are either of you amused.
>>23001536
Status update
Got her number and we are working out a time to meet up and do random shit
>>23001670
Nice one m8, I hope you get on well.
