Age Gap Thread
>post age gap stories
>post your info and contact information if seeking an age gap relationship.
>>22945254
813 f seeking local older Floridian men.
kik: 4chan.FL.little
It's a throwaway, so replies may be slow.
>>22945254
bump
43m wa seeking 18-25f for friendship, casual relationship. I like smart and personable cuddley affectionate girls. Kik aromeoguy
28/m/MA
Looking for a younger women for stress free, casual relationship
>>22945272
it's the last. unicoooooooorn
>>22945254
30/m/Ontario Canada
Not looking for anything specific, just looking to talk to younger girls and see where things go.
Looks not important, age is not important, just be younger and interesting,
I generally prefer kinky, submissive girls who are nerdy/geeky, but anyone can feel free to message me.
kik: KikAllTheThings
skype: throwawayskype12345
30/m/straight
I enjoy fucking a little girls face roughly while I tell her what a good girl she is and how proud I am of her for taking it so well, until I cover her face in cum. Then making her feel safe and protected.
>be 15 but look older
>virgin because none of the guys at my school interested me
>go to concert out of town with some friends
>hot older alternative guys everywhere holy shit
>hanging around merch tables looking at stuff
>drummer from opening act comes out and talks to us
>probably 25 or 26
>starts flirting with me
>flirt back
>friends go to get food
>keep talking to him
>starts getting touchy
>veryokaywiththis.jpg
>he asks if I want to talk out back
>say yes
>go out back and have a few minutes of small talk before we start making out
>get in their tour van
>get as undressed as we can and about to fuck
>tell him I'm a virgin and "haven't done this before"
>he gets hard as diamons and says he better make it good then
>holy shit it was
>start to live pretty much a double life fucking guys in bands at concerts
>none of my friends have ever found out
I kept in touch with him and we regularly fucked until I met my bf, he actually was a bit pouty when I told him I met someone
>>22947723
>>22947723
Well that is incredibly hot.
>>22945272
really curious what you look like :x
I have a friend obsessed with unicorns *sigh*
she was my first time...... all good things come to ends though, right? lol
27/m/FL
Open to any girls 18-22, but I would love to find an older girl.
Kik: FL.Anon22
>>22945254
30/m
I'm pretty stable and well off, but I want to find an under 18 qt virgin, fly her to a tropical island, show her a good time, buy her some nice dresses then have sex for a week in a beach side grotto.
>>22947723
Or this. This would be fine. Flirting with a 15 year old girl, deflowering her in a van. Diamonds is right.
18/male/straight
Just looking for a milf to mess around on snapchat with
quintenoz
>>22948143
5"6, 105 lbs, boobie length dirty blond hair with blond tips.
>>22948602
Was that fantasy real or just an exaggeration? lol
Why underage girls?
>>22947252
Also, this is adorable. Goals.
>>22948143
Btw, I'm not obsessed with unicorns. I just am obsessed with cutesy stuff because I'm a little.
>>22949158
Not so much the age, as much the idea of a fresh, tight, only just recently sexually developed girl. Her not having any bias or expectations of sex, can just let herself go and really enjoy it.
>>22949303
That's not how underage girls work in the real world.
They're the most self conscious beings on this planet, there's no "letting go and enjoying it".
sorry friend
>>22949316
My experience with women in general (of all ages, but younger especially, into their 20's) is that there is, indeed, a great deal of self-consciousness, but getting through those trained and insecure layers gets to a core of a person who wants to feel and have release then lets all that shit go, at least for a little while.
>>22949322
Speaking from my experience as an underage girl, there's lots of bias and expectations of sex even if you're "recently sexually developed".
Underage girls aren't a blank slate. They're still impacted by society.
>>22949337
Yes, that's what I'm saying, but a younger girl is going to be more accepting of letting go of all that for the sake of enjoying herself. More inclined to just running on pure hormones and instinct leading up to the act. And the simple fact of bodies being (generally) thinner, fresher and just more attractive all adds up to wanting to put all my experience to work in making one amazing fuck that she'll always remember and never regret.
If I had a cute young girl I plan for the sex to be awkward, fumbly, potentially embarrassing and probably not the best
But I plan to do it a lot
>>22949365
Right, but that typically that isn't what happens during a girl's first time. >>22947723 is a very unique story. Most underage girls aren't into older men for one (society teaches it's wrong), and two, girls usually aren't willing to give their V card up to someone they aren't dating/haven't known for a long time (society again).
I know where you're coming from, but I feel you're romanticising having sex with an underage girl.
18m looking for older women: zalezax
Now that I got that out of the way, I've sadly never had an experience with anyone older.
>>22949521
Ugh, zalezax is my kik name... Sorry about that.
>>22949421
you plan for it to be that way?
you're going to be a disappointment. Younger women go for an older man to avoid that, they want someone who is good with their hands, knows how to make her feel comfortable, someone who will push their limits, someone who can actually get them off.
if you plan it that way, enjoy being a once off.
>>22949529
I am good with my hands and I pile on the foreplay
And I've had no problem getting my partners off
But I can shoot low and surprise myself yay
>>22949535
mm yeah, you've got loads of self confidence, GL with the woman hunt virgin.
>>22949555
I've lost my virginity thanks
I'm not even looking or a girl in this thread, just making self deprecating jokes at my sometimes awkward sexcapades
calm down Meredith
I am a 32 year old married man whose wife has given up on being a wife. She told me to go get my jollies somewhere else. So I did. It isn't like she hasn't cheated before...
Had a great experience with a 22 year old from Mexico. She came up to visit me for a couple of days. This was my first experience with a younger woman...I had always been with women my own age or older. Really great...she had a strong sex drive and couldn't get enough. Apparently younger guys aren't that interested in their partner's pleasure...the fact that I focused on her getting off had her feeling things she had never felt before. I enjoyed being appreciated, admired, and treated well...think I may want to stick with younger women from now on. Unlike a lot of women my age (especially my wife), she didn't make me feel self conscious about being short or chubby or having some grey hair.
Kik is NickTheToiletBear if anyone wants to chat.
>>22949365
Just wants to fuck underage girls.
Any younger gay/bi guys interested in an older guy?
>>22949779
Damn. Why don't you just divorce her? Kids?
>>22949781
Probably. He's probably been effected by /r9k/'s policy that if a girl isn't a virgin, she's garbage.
And the majority of virgin females are underage, anyway.
>>22950208
There probably is a lot of them lurking. Try leaving your ASL and Kik, I'm sure you'll get some replies anon!! :)
26/M/CT
Kik: roll_the_bones
Looking for a younger female to talk to about life, the universe, and everything. I need a fresh perspective on things.
>first threesome with older couple (35/46) when I was 15
>more into power relationship and kink than "age"
>but those tend to come with age gaps
33m and 24f looking for kinky play times with age gap couples, bi girls, and mostly-bi guys. we're on the west coast and like have fun meeting people from here
kik: mavin310
>>22950274
I'm sure your correct on that one.
I only have one age gap story, so here goes.
>I was 26, she was 17
>We had met through /soc and would randomly message each other, nothing sexual
>Finally, one summer, her parents left for a week
>She invited me over
>When I arrived she was in a bikini, invited me to swim
>I had no trunks so she said boxers were fine
>We ended up having sex on a pool chair
>I stayed the night, we fucked all around her house
>Afterwards her parents found a used condom
>She was punished and we've never risked it again
I have one but the gap is only 5 years.
>Be 23, she's 18
>Meet on r9k
>Agree to meet for a regular date
>At the end we share fetishes
>Both anal and rimjob obsessed
>Meet up a week later
>Get in my backseat, I pull my pants down and she rims me for what feels like forever
>I return the favor
>Her asshole is the most beautiful pink
>She fingers my ass while licking my balls
>End up cumming on her ass
>Second time I get two fingers knuckle deep, she holds her ass open for me
>End up cumming in her mouth
>Meet up once more on my 24th birthday, she eats my ass and swallows my cum again
We texted a few times after that, but I haven't heard from her since.
47/m/603
Looking for folks in the 18-26 bracket who are enthusiastic, smart, and preferably within New England.
On-line is fine for starters, but be prepared to take things IRL.
6'4" if that's something that matters to you.
Escape to the woods for a week or a weekend?
borftein on [Kik,GMail,Skype,Snap]
>>22945272
My timing appears to be terrible, I just got back from Florida and was near 813 for a few days. But if I remember correctly from previous threads, you're more interested in something a little more long-term than a fun evening or two of being a very naughty little girl, yes?
>>22945254
231 but originally from 616, im 22m/MI (athletic seeking petite)
looking for 15-17f, i dont have a contact but can make a throwaway if any girl would like to talk
>>22950274
We have a 5 year old son and I don't trust her to take care of him. And in Texas, women always get custody...
So I am staying, for now. But when I have an exit available...
28/m/southern california
Looking for a nerdy female companion to have adventures and generally be cute together. Ideally you'd want something long term and serious. Open minded, kinky and nerdy is ideal. Same if you live in the state
skype:evldcky1
kik:mcboots
>>22951914
>very naughty girl
Ew...Cringe.
Yes, I'm looking for a relationship with a local...AKA, someone who LIVES here. I'm not interested in sex.
>>22952615
Good for you for putting your son first. At least it's an open relationship.
Good luck finding a lady friend. I've seen a number of TX girls post on here recently. :)
I love the idea of corrupting a younger girl, and I've got some experience with it too.
29/m/Europe
>>22949498
Perhaps, but a man can dream. Dating girls in their early 20's is pretty great just on the basis that they're still very physically fresh and attractive.
38 Bearded Male Canadian
Into younger ladies and littles. Love being a caregiver and need somewhere to lay my adoration
kik spideytroll
>>22952914
what kind of kink are you into?
>>22953541
why can't more daddies be in California :^(
>>22953633
There are.Though not too many littles.
>>22953657
believe me, there are. We are suffering, haha
>>22953663
Then post your info so they can find you?
>>22953689
Most are just looking for sex right away, I tried for a bit. Being a Daddy also has a nurturing aspect to it, I'm sure you know. So when I tell them I'd rather get to know them a little better first they get upset :(
>>22953714
That's the perfect part though. The feeling of caring for someone and letting them know you're always there for them. Maybe you just found duds.
303 720
30m white slim
stable job with good pay
Looking for younger or older for chat, fem
Kik: rt2257
>>22953728
we need more people like you ;n;
>>22953738
Awww. Shucks. So what part of cali you from anyways?
>>22953819
I grew up in Santa Cruz, but now I'm living across the delta from San Francisco
>>22953848
I grew up around LA myself. Now i'm currently around irvine. Pretty damn cold right now.
>>22953880
oh really? Cool :) The coldest it's gotten here is maybe...50? Winters don't exist in Cali
>>22953894
Wuddup Honeybunches :^)
>>22953894
It's dipping down to like 45 right now. We'll never get snow, but damn it feels like it. Also, may I ask your age and all that?
29/m, Texas, military, looking for younger.
skype: coffeesalad85
kik: evan.c.t
>>22953911
5 1/2
>>22953905
not much, random dude :^)
>>22953911
Lol which one?
26/m/OH
Looking for a little to care for and love.
6'4", broad-shouldered bearmode, blue eyes.
White collar career.
No games, no drama. I'm monogamous.
Kik: BiggestReindeer
>>22953931
Real age, then the one you feel like of course.
>>22953935
18, give or take. Also little age ranges from 4-6
>>22953952
Ah. Haha. The perfect age to treat like a princess..if you're not being pouty of course.
23 bbw f
i like older men (27-30, maybe older depending on the circumstances)
i don't like the dd/lg thing at all
>>22953970
I can occasionally get a bit pouty, nothing a good Daddy can't handle though ;)
>>22953989
Of course! So, got any preferred way of contacting you?
>>22954005
kik I guess haha :^)
>>22954015
Fair enough! Add genericusername08 then.
>>22953952
>18, give or take
You jailbait or some shit?
>>22954027
I am Chris Hanson. Beware.
>>22954040
I'm on TV!
>>22954024
kiked :^)
>>22954053
eat a stale cookie, I promise you won't get tackled when you go outside.
>>22953973
skype?
>>22954064
Kik me, too?
As a 21 y/o woman I feel like I'm already rotten for some of you, I'm afraid of aging
>>22954177
You're never too old to be little! If you believe you are, then you are!
>>22954144
sure man :^)
>>22954177
Where you from lady? ; o
>>22945254
used to work at a place called breaktime in salisbury md
there were always cougars there
went home with one and her husbands stuff was still in the house, wasnt cool at all
I really dont see how people get married, everyone is such a fucking peice of shit its unreal
>>22954177
Body type?
>>22947767
i thought it was, but my friends have a way different opinion of hooking up with musicians so I kept tight lipped. plus don't want to fuck up their career. once it gets out you'll squeal on Twitter that you fucked them you'll get avoided like the plague
>>22948602
>Or this. This would be fine. Flirting with a 15 year old girl, deflowering her in a van. Diamonds is right.
the dirtiness I think is what turned me on the most. and also he was an older touring musician with tattoos and long messy hair, that shit gets me going like crazy.
>>22954220
Haha thanks, hope you're not the only one thinking this way
>>22954261
Europe
>>22954309
I'm pretty small, small breast but thick thight
>>22954240
K ... Toss me a message with a sexy fotograf "Faux.. "
>>22954333
Sounds cutie.
>>22954339
....Sven?
>>22953973
And where in this big ole world are you my dear?
>>22954333
25 year old Irish guy here, kik me if you feel like continuing to not sleep! - Majoradouchebag
>>22954369
>>22954416
Sven, you ass, I will personally go over there and tackle you. Stop 4chan stalking me XD
>>22954424
That sounds fun, please do. I was browsing the thread before i messed with you. As you wish though.
>>22954440
>>22954424
Want to buy cool friends like this
>>22954440
Sven you asshat, go away. You have my goddamn kik XD
Long story short, I'm 26, the hubs is in his 40s. Good times all around.
>>22954454
lol wanna join?
>>22954465
Y-yachi?
>>22954501
wat
>>22954488
What kinda cult am I joining?
>>22954356
Thanks
>>22954390
Sorry I don't have a kik
>>22953905
HOLY FUCK JOSH. THAT'S YOU ISN'T IT. You're the only god damn person who calls me honeybunches. AGHHGGHHH
>>22954549
the kind where it's just a bunch of nerds who met here a few weeks ago. We're pretty tight, if you couldn't tell.
20/m
Any older, possibly bigger, woman who wants to chat or more, im right here!
>>22954575
You're the nerd, nerd.
>>22954599
which one are you >->
>>22954575
Oh a kik group? Idk.. guess I'll try groggret
>>22954605
Feckin IDs breh
>>22954607
chill. Drop me your user :^)
>>22954607
But do you like cats?
>>22954611
Sven one day you will see me, and when you do it won't be pretty XD
>>22954623
That's fucking hilarious
>>22954619
Josh no XDD
>>22954623
That one is Josh
>>22954615
That was it
>>22954619
Indifferent but here's my mouser for my ranch
>>22954633
Sven you are confusing me >-> I hate u
>>22951936
Ew. This board is 18+
>>22954040
>>22954053
>>22954064
>>22954339
>>22954416
>>22954424
>>22954440
>>22954465
>>22954501
>>22954527
>>22954569
>>22954575
>>22954599
>>22954605
>>22954607
>>22954623
>>22954630
>>22954631
>>22954633
>>22954644
>>22954646
Why did half of my thread turn into these people talking to eachother?
>post age gap stories
>post your info and contact information if seeking an age gap relationship.
This thread is an AGE GAP THREAD. Discuss age gap related content, or get out. You can have a personal conversation on Skype or Kik, so stop mucking up the thread for people who are looking for someone. No one wants to see it.
>>22955345
>bossy, demanding little
>forever alone
Nothing unusual to see here.
>>22955624
>using shallow insults towards a complete stranger because you're angry they're right
>>22955813
>assuming anyone but newfags don't know who you are
>assuming anyone gives a shit enough to be upset by you
>>22953593
have a look for yourself
>>22954568
Continental? If so, leave a skype or throwaway email.
>>22955916
Take it easy and don't be an asshat. Some of us are here to meet people not sift through miles of unrelated convo.
>>22955916
The reason I post a lot is because I don't settle for the vast majority of men who message me off 4chan.
If someone who messages me doesn't meet my requirements (living locally, being older, treating me respectfully, and not being creepy), I'm not interested or wasting my time on them.
I'm a human being before being a little, and I don't have to be sweet and tolerant to those who don't deserve it.
That doesn't make me a "bossy, demanding little" who's "forever alone", it makes me a sensible human being that knows what she wants.
Anyone who has gotten to know me off of 4chan will tell you I'm a kind and genuine person, so clearly you don't know me.
Furthermore, the reason I made that post (>>22955345) is because they were derailing the thread.
I can understand chitchatting before messaging someone, but that's not what they were doing.
It was clogging up the thread with personal conversations that could be had elsewhere.
I'm the only one who makes age gap threads anymore, so I'd appreciate it if the threads were kept on topic.
I understand that might be contradictory of me considering this post is slightly off topic, but I don't appreciate being bashed because I don't want my thread to be derailed by other people's random, personal conversations.
>>22956087
I can personally confirm she is a kind and generous young woman so if you don't like it you're the one with the problem.
Inb4 wk, I have nothing to gain from saying this, I don't even meet her criteria above
20/F/socal
I like younger boys who are virgins
this is my fetish
>>22956174
She is a wonderful strong young woman who doesn't deserve to be treated poorly.
>>22953049
bump
18/ straight/ Male/ The netherlands
Wondering if I find anything
Casatrasos on skype
28/M/Austria
I like young unexperienced girls, can be just roleplay too.
>>22954333
Where from?
>>22956191
Go to /r9k/, plenty of kissless virgins there. But they probably think you make fun of them.
>>22957405
France !
f4oldermen skype group
more women are allowed but we need some hot daddies
https://join.skype.com/CgZHfQVws5wd
>>22957712
Mon dieu!
I love how french girls talk. I once had something like an internet gf from Paris.
I am probably too young for you anyway, what are you looking for?
>>22957712
A little from France ? Gosh, this is so rare to see here ! I'm a daddy from France, I only have a little bit of experience, but I'd love to talk. If you feel like it, you can contact me by sending an email to [email protected]
bonne soirée ~~
22/f. Looking for older men but I'm already too old for most of you. I feel old irl, but I just wanted to pretend for a bit longer.
>>22957970
Oh stop. You're still wonderfully young. 36m here and I'd love to chat with you!!
Contact?
i recently turned 18 and im about to tell my mother about the LDR im in with a guy whos 28
give advice on what to say or wish me luck pls
>>22958090
Can't post it due to spam adds. Please post yours?
Kik: bullstradomus
30/m bored as fuck at work on a sunday. Would appreciate some conversation
>>22958129
I'd be up to talking if you are interested.
Decently-shaped, mid-thirties, tall and handsome, white man. Work hard, good job, moving to Northern Florida within the next month. I know no-one there. Just coming out of a marriage that failed, but have no kids to carry along with it. Looking for someone young to dote on. She absolutely must prefer wearing g-strings that ride her anus well. I am not driving down--I'll just buy a car when I get there. Moving from Canada back to the US. Not interested in fatties or women with decent self-esteem. I'm completely free of STDs, and you'd also better be. And while I like vanilla sex just fine? I'd appreciate it if you prefer someone who finishes in your asshole. Oh, and my large family is a huge part of my life, so you'd better be able to present like a decent human being, in front of strangers.
>>22958180
You're not interested in women with decent self-esteem? No wonder your marriage failed.
>>22958206
Fair enough.
I've had a few with women 10 years or more younger than myself (36). For some reason I tend to attract them when I post what I'm looking for online. Unfortunately, I've yet to find one that can be everything I need or is mature enough to handle it. I would be happy to try a younger woman again, but I rarely have faith that it would work out over the long term.
>>22958180
>Not interested in women with decent self-esteem
What the hell? Why?
>>22958258
It's dull. I prefer a project. I like power dynamics, and I'm too old to find anyone I could believe as a dom to be attractive.
>>22958276
Submissive women can and should have decent self-esteem, or they are at serious risk of harm. Take it from one.
Also cause like, women are people and not objects.
>>22958276
Quite the opposite for me. I've had a few attempts with women (bother quite younger and my age) and I'm very tired with the emo/depressive attitude. I want my partner to believe that I care about them and trust me when I tell them I think they're beautiful.
>>22958291
>>22958293
So be into the thing you're into. It's all good. We don't all need to be looking for the same thing.
>>22958308
Oh I am. Just finding someone else who is, is easier said than done.
>>22958308
I know that sweetie. I just think what you're into is shitty and misogynistic. We don't all need to have the same opinion.
>>22958318
Likewise. Not gonna be all bashful about it, though. I dig chicks with low self-esteem.
>>22958323
>shitty and misogynistic
It's not. I want someone I can build up. You think it's less misogynistic if men are dismissive towards those women? Yawn.
>>22958344
Dismissive? No. If you actually do want to build women up, kudos.
No fatties though.
>>22958360
>No fatties though.
Damn right. Gross. If I can get through my early thirties without getting fat and you can't get through your late teens? Gross.
45 m 478
Would love to meet up with younger girls.
Kik penfan88
>>22958385
I'm lucky that I've always been thin. I have strange eating habits, but even so. Being 5'11" and 155 when I'm 36 without working out anywhere near regularly is a wonderful thing.
>>22958344
So once you build them up with self confidence, you get bored and dump them?
>>22958395
I'm 6'3" and 190, I think. Not saying you gotta be a wafer. But come the fuck on: you coulda put down that piece of pizza.
>>22958399
Nope. I just like something enjoyable to start from. Where it goes from there is wherever it goes. I'll change. She'll change. That's all good. People should change and grow and become different than they used to be. But why not start from something that you're into?
>>22958385
Sucks that skinny women have standards too, right? Personally I can't fuck anyone who isn't 6'2 and ripped.
>>22958399
sounds like it lol
>>22958417
You're looking for a doll, a object, not a person.
I am a 45 yo M would like to meet a younger girl in Ga.
Kik penfan88
>>22958424
Well no--I'm counting on that. I'm not ripped, but I am 6'3" and better-than average.
>>22958428
I am ok with this categorization of my preferences.
>>22958417
I don't understand the point in having a girl with low self confidence then.
Self confidence =/= narcissitism
Girls aren't "projects"
>>22958446
>I don't understand the point in having a girl with low self confidence then.
I don't need you to. I am not looking for your approval. I'm just talking to folks on the internet, same as you.
>>22958452
I'm a skinny girl from Florida, so I was interested in your post. This is why I'm asking questions.
>>22958417
I do enjoy pizza, but only without tomato sauce :)
Being thin and lanky, I look for someone who's similar. You don't have to an Asian woman who's body is like that of a 12 year old, but being slim/fit/average and shorter than me is what I'm attracted to.
Likewise, I'm just average looking. As such, those I'm attracted to are usually not attracted to me. Such is life. I don't blame people for being honest about what they find attractive.
>>22958452
>>22958463
And personally, I think I have decent self confidence.
I don't think I'm gorgeous, but I know I'm cute and above average.
I also know I'm a kind person with a good personality who cares for other people, so I know I deserve someone who treats me good.
>>22958477
I would certainly treat my partner well, but some would disagree. It all depends on how you see a D/s relationship working out.
>>22958499
How would you treat her? Always trying to build her up with self confidence and love and respect?
And then in bed being rough and calling her names?
>>22958463
It's not complex: I enjoy a power dynamic.
>>22958477
>so I know I deserve someone who treats me good
I'm not sure how to explain this, and it seems weird to do so in a thread about age-gaps. But you won't find people who treat you better than people looking to dote on someone. Patronizing? Sure. It makes me feel good about myself to be able to patronize someone. So that's not what you were looking for, when you hopped in this thread?
>>22958507
For my needs, such a relationship is not one revolving around humiliation or abuse. It is one where we both don't have to compromise what we need as our needs compliment each other. I would care for her as much as she would care for me. Such relationships are about trust, honesty and respect to me. I just need to be the one in control.
>>22958129
Sure thing dear - my kik is:
Socanon23456
>>22958510
Do you really think that all women into age gap want to be patronized? I'm sorry, I know you don't want me in this conversation, but I'm wondering.
>>22958539
Nope. Just the one I'm into. Not looking for "all women."
>>22958539
>I know you don't want me in this conversation
Oh, and by the way? It's cool. I was expecting a conversation more than a result. Happy to talk to folks.
>>22958539
>>22958536
My contact info was meant for you I believe!
>>22958441
Don't you realise how dangerous it can be for a young/fragile/vulnerable woman to fall under the influence of someone like you ? That's unhealthy
>>22958594
Would they be safer with you?
>>22958594
>>22958612
Women are safer when they feel empowered to choose a partner that they feel comfortable with.
>>22958510
I enjoy power dynamics too, but loving ones. I enjoy men who are smarter with more experience than me.
I also love older men doting on me, telling me what a sweet precious little girl I am.
I also love when older men are rough and sexy, calling me names like "slut" and treating me like one.
But I am not looking for an older man to be pantronized, nor is the vast majority of girls looking for an older men.
Young girls like older men because they know how to treat a girl right.
Sure, I can easily get a hot younger guy, but brains matter more than body.
To patronize someone is to treat them like they're less than your equal in a mean way. I want someone who's better than me that can help me grow as a person.
You're not looking for a D/s relationship. To treat your SO in a patronizing manner is abuse, not D/s.
D/s is for the Dom to teach the sub and help them grow and blossom as a person.
>>22958594
I'm not a moustachioed villain, just because I have a preference. Lighten up.
>>22958612
I'm a young woman myself.
>>22958594
I agree with you, by the way.
>>22958629
I'm not here to judge what's right for me or anything else. I may not seek what the man you're responding to does, but we all know what makes us happy and fulfills us. We can't control that aspect of ourselves. Sometimes you just have to agree to disagree. I hope all of us find what makes us happy, even though I doubt it will ever happy for most of us.
>>22958551
Have you posted in one of the d/s threads. It might be more appropriate for what you are looking for.
>>22958629
You seem to have read a buncha stuff into what I said that wasn't there. It's ok, dudette--if you're not interested, then it wasn't directed at you.
>>22958636
Would you then feel unsafe with an older man?
>>22958629
Preach. Good for you. You deserve exactly what you're looking for :)
>>22958635
Not true. I've been with plenty of men who took advantage of me when I was a little younger and way more desperate and vulnerable. They ruined my life.
Man after man who treated me horribly only lowered my self confidence and drove me deeper into depression and closer to suicide.
I didn't like it. I still am trying to get better, and its really difficult to recover from men who treat you badly.
I was actually manipulated by a man to believe he didn't rape me when I was crying and begging for him to stop.
Afterwards, he belittled me and made fun of me when I was scared I was pregnant.
Yeah, patronizing young girls isn't a big deal.
>>22956191
Not sure how I feel about this one.
Im 18 and..
uh
yeah
a virgin.
Not to say I'm not bad looking. But uh, it's just never happened.
>>22958635
>>22958651
You are indeed patronizing. But I'm just being a bully at this point. Good luck.
>>22958666
That was a great blog post. No idea what it's supposed to have to do with me, but I hope that expressing yourself made you feel better.
>>22958666
I'm sorry you had to go through that. I could never hurt someone or anything like that. While it's not the same thing, I do have very bad memories of a friend telling me that a girl we both knew told him I "tried" to rape her when we had gone out. I'm wondering how a good night kiss turned into that.
>>22958629
>D/s is for the Dom to teach the sub and help them grow and blossom as a person.
That's your definition. D/s is also for people to act out fantasies or kinks in a hopefully safe environment, and some of those are pretty nasty from the average person's point of view. Real sadists look for real masochists, and vice versa. The key, surely, is informed consent.
>>22958641
Um, no. Other people's interests are not okay if they're hurting other people!
Treating girls with no self confidence in a patronizing manner in a D/s relationship is abusive and hurting the other person.
>>22958651
You said you want to patronize a young girl with no self confidence. I don't see how I'm reading into what you said.
>>22958705
Again, I'm not here to judge. Some women enjoy being treated, for lack of a better word, badly. I've certainly had women tell me that I wasn't "mean and degrading" enough to them. Everyone should be able to find what they need as long as it's consensual on all sides.
>>22958705
>I don't see how I'm reading into what you said.
That'd be the part where you decided that I was comparable to abusive rapists.
>>22958686
You're saying manipulating and patronizing young girls isn't a big deal.
It is a big deal.
It leads the girl's lives down a path of self destruction and self hatred.
>>22958700
sadism/masochism =/= dominant/submissive
>>22958629
This
>>22958635
You also said you were ok with the terms "object", "doll", "project". At this rate it become more than just a preference. You want someone's mind, someone's life.
>>22958705
Eyy fellow Floridian
>>22958718
I never compared you to a rapist. My experiences with abusive men who patronized me in the past led me to be so desperate to think that what was happening was OK.
>>22958717
There's a difference between pretend treating badly and actually being abusive.
>>22958719
>You're saying manipulating and patronizing young girls isn't a big deal.
Oh please. First off: consenting adults aren't "young girls." They're consenting adults.
>>22958656
Not necessarily
Well this thread got hostile very quickly.
>>22958735
Very true. I would never condone abuse. The furthest I go is spankings, though to me, they are for discipline, never punishment. I draw the line and would never abuse my submissive.
>>22958737
When you nitpick at an idea, that means you can't reject the bigger picture.
>>22958763
It means I reject the premise that a woman with low self-esteem can't recognize what she wants and seek it. And you think I'm patronizing.
>>22958775
I think the women in this thread are speaking from experience, which should not be taken as the whole truth or brushed off entirely.
>>22958775
I don't "think" you're patronizing. You said you're patronizing.
Also, yes. I do.
ma·nip·u·late
məˈnipyəˌlāt/Submit
verb
control or influence (a person or situation) cleverly, unfairly, or unscrupulously
I think you can easily manipulate a young woman to think she deserves to be patronized and treated like an object when she has low self confidence.
Aka: Abuse her when she's desperate for love
>>22958789
I have no doubt we all have experience in being treated poorly by those of the opposite sex, be such due to abuse, spite or immaturity.
>>22958789
I'm pretty sure that you aren't gonna get internet-laid by white-knighting to forty year-old men on the internet.
>>22958795
There is genuinely nothing abusive nor cruel about a decent guy who would enjoy the company of a younger woman who could become part of his life. That a woman with low self-respect is going to be better-able to fulfil that role isn't saying much about either one of them.
Lets uh. Talk about something else?
>>22958855
What's on your mind?
>>22958719
The real point is informed consent.
Not all doms are nurturing and not all subs want to be nurtured, especially those into humiliation/degradation type scenes. It could be a turn off. A D/s relationship doesn't have to carry over to a normal bf/gf relationship. Many don't.
Again, the key is informed consent.
This person's experience has been with abusive men.
>>22958666
I'd assume she didn't have a safe word to end the rape by one of them.
SSC
Safe, sane, consensual.
>>22958819
That's not the impression you made on me.
You agreed that you want a doll and you described yourself as patronizing.
That doesn't fit
>a decent guy who would enjoy the company of a younger woman who could become part of his life.
>>22958819
I'm not looking to get internet-laid you patronizing dick. And I'm nearly positive that you won't either. You're fucking gross.
If any respectful men would like to chat, drop your contacts as I'll be around.
>>22958879
>You agreed that you want a doll and you described yourself as patronizing.
You really got to lighten up. I responded to some anon flippantly. Relax.
>>22958864
Nothing much, just wanting to change the subject around here.
Though is it really frowned upon to be a virgin at 18? All be it I'm short. but not bad looking.
>>22958888
I'd be happy to chat, but I don't use kik or snapchat or any few fangled stuff. Then again, I doubt any of you are near me in Chicago or after this long discussion looking for a dominant partner with someone you'll find on 4chan.
>>22958870
We did have a safe word, and I do like to be roughed up sexually. Outside of sex, I like to be treated like a princess.
My whole point was that I believed what happened was acceptable because I had been with so many men who belittled me and made me think being treated badly was all a part of BDSM relationships.
>>22958895
Being a man, I was a virgin until I was 19 I believe. I would have had sex sooner if I could, but was (and still am) somewhat nerdy and wasn't that good at knowing what to do to attract women my own age.
>>22958895
it shouldn't be honestly
People would only fuck if they feel comfortable to fuck. There should be no rush
>>22958912
See the thing that's bothering me is that. If I don't get laid this year (ok well 2016) I'm not gonna get laid for 4 more years due to me joining the military.
>>22958890
You also told me you want to patronize a young girl.
>Patronizing? Sure. It makes me feel good about myself to be able to patronize someone.
>I am ok with this categorization of my preferences
>>22958928
Are you kidding? Women love men in uniform. Once you have one go into a bar, you'll get plenty of women interested. Secondly, if they deploy you overseas, you'll be the exotic foreigner. You'll be fine, trust me. You just won't get laid during basic training.
>>22958942
I am a eagle scout too. Which will help in the military (I'm thinking of going army) but the thing is. I'm short. I mean. Short.
I am 5ft 4inch. Which has given me nothing but problems in my love life.Really it's not my fault I'm short.
Was born 1.14 pounds and 3 months early. So I was never suppose to be tall.
>>22958941
As long as we're gonna be shit-picking douche bags, intent on seeing no lightness nor humor in anything that anyone else says? I'd appreciate it if you stopped referring to my expressions meant towards consenting adults being directed at girls.
>>22958957
The uniform will make up for you being short, don't worry. At worst, just hire an escort or something the week before you go to basic. But really, you'll be ok.
>>22958971
>At worst, just hire an escort or something the week before you go to basic
See I don't really want that. Not that, I don't doubt they'd be good but I would like to loose it with out pay? If that makes any sense.
Thank you though you've given me a little boost of confidence
>>22958985
Trust me, I've never paid for sex or companionship either and hope I will never get to that point.
Just relax, don't worry. If you're in a bar and some good looking woman says you're too short, just respond with "but stocky" and glance down a moment.
>>22959003
To be honest that may be true. I am certainly not small down there.
>>22958744
I'm curious now. What brought you into the thread?
I'm in an age gap relationship, so was interested to see what people had to say.
>>22958928
Every woman in the military is A. lesbian or B. (more likely) a slut
Any shortcomings are your fault alone
>>22958958
I don't see how joking about girls being objects is funny.
Also, I call all females girls.
>>22959008
See, just have confidence in yourself.
>>22958985
I wouldn't have sex before going into military. You can't crave something you've never had...
Do you like older women, or..?
>>22959033
Who ever said I wanted to hook up with anyone I work with? Seeing how I wish to be a medic, I doubt I'm going to have time to fuck any co-workers of mine.
Ironically I'm working for my welding certification and not medical at all. Either way welding is a nice skill.
>>22959039
Hey, thanks still. You're a chill guy.
>>22959035
Because I was joking about the nonsense you made up and ascribed to me.
>I call all females girls.
Patronizing ass.
>>22959054
I guess that's kinda why I'm here. I've always enjoyed the thought of someone a little older. Though if I am making the thread strange and such I can always leave.
>>22959059
Military couples are not "fucking" their "co-workers."
Your short-sightedness is your fault.
>>22959097
Alright then. I'll keep that in mind.
>>22959063
I didn't make anything up...Another girl said you're basically treating girls like dolls.
You said you're patronizing on your own accord and brought it up first.
Stop deflecting.
>>22959111
>Another girl
Teehee
>>22959103
Yes, having sex in military is best kept to having with with non-military people. Trust me, wherever you're stationed, there will be local bars when women who like men in uniform flock.
>>22959120
Give women the autonomy to call each other girls. Jesus.
>>22959140
I was accusing that poster of being an overweight, balding dude, actually. Sorry--I was letting reality get all up in your business.
>>22959124
I have a feeling you were in the military?
Which branch?
>>22959120
I can see why your marriage failed.
You keep deflecting everything that is spot on and making it into what is wrong with the other person.
I was interested in you since you're a potential local, but it seems like you have issues and are waving every red flag loud and proud.
Try the D/s thread. Maybe you can find a doll there.
>>22959154
Oh good! I'm also an overweight balding dude. What a coincidence.
>>22959155
Not in the least. I could never make it through boot and well, I don't care for taking orders (if you've followed my other postings here about looking for a submissive partner). No, I'm just a guy who's good with number and Excel and makes a living as a data analyst.
