So, /soc/, I'm about to become a 31 year old virgin. How fucked (or not) am I?
>>22929545
Why are you a virgin? What do you do for a living?
>>22929545
Can you cast Fireball yet?
>>22929545
Yeah, there's these things called prostitutes
You should look into it
How is that even possible?
>>22929554
Had a very skewed perspective on sex and relationships for a long time. I work in a drug store and a restaurant.
>>22929557
Working on it. I can cast Magic Missile pretty well.
>>22929558
Thought about it. Would have to travel to Nevada to do it legally.
>>22929562
It happens for a variety of reasons. I'm not the only one. A combination of no confidence, unattractiveness and an odd family life certainly helps.
>>22929572
would have to travel to las vegas with ALOT of money to be happy, even though its illegal here ....its not in the rest of the state
>>22929545
>>22929572
I'm probably on the same road, OP.
decent-looking but shit social skills and bad social anxiety. feels fucking bad.
the most I've done is gotten a blowjob though. 25 years old by the way. but it's hard to try and talk to girls. in public my anxieties get so bad I can either freeze up or become robotic in movement.
I hate how shitty the norm for relationships are.
and I don't want to be with someone that has had a fuck ton of sexual partners either.
>>22929576
I hope I didn't offend you, realized that came off a bit mean. I was just genuinely curious. But even with those factors playing a role, there should've been some sort of break by now, if you have actually been pursuing sex.
>>22929614
I haven't actively been pursuing sex, I guess. I might have been able to have sex, though.
>>22929691
what made you change your mind at this point?
>>22929545
There is always a chance at any age, Anon.
I'm 27 and have a fucked up body, but I'll still hope it will happen one day.
Although I care about the not living my life alone part more than the virgin thing.
I lost my virginity at 31 to a girl I dated for three months, I was rebound guy.
I haven't really had sex or a girlfriend since, I'm now 37.
I'm gonna be brutally honest, OP. I doesn't look good for you. Even if you do get a woman to sleep with you, it's too late in life to develop the confidence and self-worth to be happy.
Your habits and personality are pretty much cemented by 25.
I know I'll never have sex again because anytime a woman expresses attraction to me, my garbage brain tells me it's just pity and she doesn't actually like me.
>>22929545
You ever thought of internet dating OP?
I tried it after I broke up with my second ex. Found the girl of my dreams and everythings been great since. Just gotta be realistic and honest when you're doing it.
>>22932669
internet dating sites*
