Serious question guys, I'd appreciate input from both sexes.
be me
21
sex twice ever
new gf for a month
last night
bit drunk
I was soft
she randomly dacked me in her room whilst standing up
laughed at flaccid cock (barely 3 inch) but around 6 hard, average.
she reassures me everything's ok and apologies
strokes me
I get hard
tells me it's not small but she's had heaps bigger (yeah thanks)
she wants to be on top but reverse
she turns around
cock goes in
I keep falling out
she keeps reassuring me it's fine
what the fuck am I doing wrong?
seen fuck loads of porn where a girl reverse fucks a guy on bed, around same size dick, no falling out??
what the fuck do I do?
was with her friends yesterday and they're all laughing, ask what joke is, oh it's nothing.
I feel like fucking shit.
>>22861595
bump
>>22861595
So let me get this right, you told the whole story about you dont know what the joke is? well, its you.
As a girl speaking, get a new gf who isn't a bitch. Thanks.
>>22861595
Mate, don't let some bitch kek you like that. If she laughs at your cock you hold her the fuck down and pound that pussy like you you're gonna fuckin damage it
>>22861655
is that the only issue? I believe I'm also at fault and need to improve
Life's to short to date cunts.
I hope this is bait.
>>22861686
Lmao no, nothing is your fault, how do you think she would feel if you made fun of how loose she is or how her boobs or butt aren't big enough? Please.
>>22861595
im a girl who also agrees you need a new gf buddy dont settle she sounds like a toss
>>22861686
femanon here, and no, you didn't do anything wrong
1. you're a virgin. almost everyone's first few times are awkward. she should understand that and try to be patient and sympathetic. I'm sure her first time wasn't perfect either. and speaking of which...
2. the responsibility to make sex feel good is not solely on the man, that's some outdated sexist bullshit right there. women are not passive objects in sex, they're active participants, especially when they're riding on top of you cowgirl style. if the sex was bad, it's very likely at least partially her fault.
3. bringing up other partners during sex and comparing you to them is a shitty thing to do. I'm sure if a guy told her that she's an alright lay but he's had much better, she'd be infuriated or devastated. if she can't have the decency to treat you the way she'd want to be treated, that's a sign that she doesn't respect or empathize with you, and you shouldn't be dating her.
4. if she actually told her friends about what happened and laughed about it with them, that's grounds for breaking up with her right there. again, how do you think she'd feel if a guy did that to her? I know you don't know for sure, but if she actually did that, it's clear she has absolutely no respect for you whatsoever and you should drop her like a sack of potatoes.
all the reasons why she's a bitch aside, if you actually care about trying to make this work with her in the future, I'd suggest trying missionary position or doggy style next time. that should make it easier for you to get it in and keep it in.
