Question for girls, What are your thoughts on Carl Sagan's alterations to the Kardashev scale, and do you think that energy consumption or information availability should be the defining factor when deciding on the rank of a civilisation?

>>22833488
thats some r9k tier shit

>>22833567
Sorry, you must have misread. I was talking about anthropology, not spouting dank memes and crying about nice guys finishing last.

Not so much a gender specific question, more of a general wondering. But...

If you are taking artistic nude photos, does the male model need to be average down there in order to keep it non-sexual?

Or would it be acceptable for the model to be a good amount above or below the average?

I'm not familiar with a lot of the guidelines for nude photography, but I have to think that if the man in the photos were far from the average, either vary small or vary large, it would distract from the rest of the photo. So would it be reasonable to say that it is important the model be fairly average in terms of endowment if you want the photo to be non-sexual?

(IE, let's say its a nature photograph and there's a naked man and woman in the photo. But, the model you are using has a flaccid penis that is 5.5 inches long. With the average flaccid penis being 3-3.5 inches, wouldn't that distract from the rest of the photo?)

>>22833600
I don't think it matters. If the shot is artistic and isn't supposed to be sexual, then the dick isn't the focus of the shot and won't be closely examined anyway. You're not showing dick to show dick, you're doing it for whatever other artistic reason you have, so the physical details of the dick are far less important than what the bare dick represents.

why do women stare at me?

I normally started walking down my college halls not having my face in my phone and i notice girls starring. I thought whatever coincidence so next time this happened, i looked back again and girl still starring.

I dress normal, not like i wear a fedora.

>>22833600
To a large extent what the other anon said: If you're not focusing on the cock, then it should be closer to the artistic end of the scale than the sexual. That being said, if the model is erect, that can easily throw the whole thing back towards the sexual.

Short form, the size of the flaccid penis is more or less irrelevant assuming artistic intentions. Any erection however may be troublesome.

What does a guy need to do to find a girl who wants her pussy licked until she cums multiple times?

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>>22833488
When it comes to Carl Sagan, I prefer his writing on cosmology
When it comes to energy production, it would be pretty self-defeating classify the success of a civilization, as ours can't even decide on harnessing effective strategies such as solar, hydro, or atomic without bickering over how it'll deplete the fake pieces of paper we call money from the coffers of those who'd rather worry about making a quick profit than the quality of life of future civilizations
And don't even get me started on the untapped potential of piezo kinetic conduction methods
>Pic related, cause I'm a grill

Girls; what should I do to strike up a conversation without grabbing pick up lines

>>22833488

Ladies,

I know this is almost always about dating questions, but I'm curious. I'm a dude, 30, and recently divorced so I've got zero clue about the dating world. My ex-wife and I had a very whirlwind thing and were married for 10 years... bad idea, obviously.

Thing is, I'm talking to this girl, and we seem to be getting along. I ask her for coffee (my go-to date, and because she admitted to liking coffee anyway) and she said "definitely soon!". We talked again a bit more and I like her, she's smart and funny and all that you could want.

Thing is, I have to be the one to initiate contact. She won't text me first. No issues holding up a conversation, but won't try and get a hold me.

Should I even keep trying? I leave the state in a few months, and if this is how things begin, is it even worth?

>>22833840
You're either really attractive, really ugly, or you have a bad habit of getting your breakfast all over your face.

>>22834918
Craigslist and low standards.

>>22835554
Ask quirky questions. I met my fiancé by him messaging me online asking me what my peanut butter to jelly ratio was. Search tumblr for random question lists, find one that interests you, know your own answer to it, and then ask the same question to girls. It's two birds with one stone: We love to talk about ourselves, so you'll have a greater chance of getting replies, plus, you immediately discover something you do or do not have in common.

>>22835649
Have you already gone on the coffee date? Or is that something that's imminent?

If you haven't gone yet-- just keep doing what you're doing and try to make the coffee date happen. If it doesn't happen within the next two weeks or so, probably abort ship.
Once it does happen, see if she starts initiating conversation. If she still doesn't, I would drop her.

>>22835118
The rank of a civilisation on the scale isn't related to it's success, just it's level of energy utilisation as it pertains to technological advancement. It's entirely possible that a species could attain Type 1 status and still struggle with the politics of energy production. Type 2 would probably necessitate a unification in politics as it would involve hugely coordinated manufacturing efforts to produce Dyson Spheres.

Is it weird to blow a dude with a condom on? I've never done random hook ups before but I'm considering it, IDK what's standard "avoid getting AIDS" protocol when it comes to foreplay.

>>22837622
I've had a shit ton of partners, and only one person has ever given more oral sex with a condom on - that is largely because they applied said condom with their mouth, which was definitely different.

You're far safer using a condom for oral sex, yeah, and a dental dam for them, buuuuut, at the same time they tend to really fucking suck. No one likes licking at rubber. If you're going to do that, maybe invest in some flavored lube (obviously: glucose free, you don't need yeast infections if you hop on said dick after).

But yeah, I would be slightly thrown off - but I don't tend to do actually random hookups.

>>22834918
Realize that women tend to get offers like these all the fucking time, and a shit ton of dudes will overstate how much they are going to actually do this because they assume it comes tied with reciprocation, or it's 'bait' in order for them to get to fuck the chick.

A lot of folk are going to want some sort of connection to who you are as a person first. Sure, there will be folk who don't give a shit and would love something casual, but you need to be able to flirt pretty fucking well and get a sense of folk - which aren't things I expect when someone's asking how to do such things.

So like the other poster said: Craigslist and low standards.

>>22833600
Trying to run through my head, but the vast majority of nude models I know are female.

The vast majority of artistic nudes often don't end up showing the genitalia, or it is de-emphasized and not the focus of the shot. If genitals are centered on, a focal point, or attention is overly drawn to them, it's going to be viewed as more pornographic. Same if you just fall into the standard "stripper shots" style of photography.

Do it properly? No one gives a shit.

Ladies, how do you like to be approached?

Question to girls. Do you like when random guys ask you how was your day?

Why do most girls lack the basic social skill of asking how others are doing or about their life instead of rambling about their own?

Mostly a question for men, but ladies are cool too.

I've known this very sweet guy for over a year online. About six months in, he confessed one night he had feelings for me after being gone for almost two months.
A lot of times when we get very close, he ends up backing off and not talking for days or even over a week (once in was 2 weeks or longer). I don't think I'm a very clingy person, but is this normal for some of you? To back off after a while of being all loving or sharing something deep? I've never been in a relationship before, so I might sound 'tarded here.

>>22838081
I have no idea.
>>22835649
That seems frustrating. If you feel frustrated move on, especially since you're moving soon.

>>22835649
Did you try asking her about it? Is she a somewhat shy person?
I have a problem with starting conversations because I feel like I'm going to bother the other person. I usually make it clear to people it doesn't mean I don't like them or not want to talk to them though.
I really think you should just casually bring it up and be truthful about it. If you two get along so well and you like her, don't let something simple like this ruin it when just having a little chat could solve it.

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Does the crazy amount of moles I have make my body look disgusting/unattractive?
Seriously considering laser removal.

>>22838209

I'm definitely not looking at your moles. You have nothing to worry about.

>>22838209
Not at all! The guy I like is also covered in moles and I find them very cute.
Also, you have a really nice body there.

>>22838148
Yes, found myself doing the same. Some guys are more condident, some less so. When things start getting to real it is scary and some might back off. If you feel like this is something you want, you might have to take the initiative in this.

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>>22833840
Checking to see if you're a match of course.

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>>22838251
This angle shows them better. Seriously I have fucking loads it's awful.

Guys

Do you really care about a girls labia?
Because I'm really self concious of it sticking too much, and have read a lot of people saying that the would leave if they saw that inside the panties of a girl, I'm a bit afraid of having sex because of this

Is it weird if us girls make the first move? Some guys I like are shy and they're very attractive, but never start the convo. Is it a turn off for me to flirt with him? Or does he appreciate the confidence?

>>22838426
Why bother with shy guys?

>>22838418
Me personally, yes. If a labia looks like the stereotypical "roast beef" I find it very disgusting. Puffy isnt bad though

>>22838426
I am one of those shy guys. I love when a girl makes the first move. I am dying to do it myself and it is such a relief if the girl initiates.

Girls
I am most self conscience about my man boobs. I am thin everywhere else on my body, but for some reason it seems like all my fat gets stored in my chest. I know it sounds weird but i don't know why it happens. I have a very small gut but my man boobs stick out past my belly. How big of a turn off is man boobs for a girl?

>>22838418
it's not a make or break, i wouldn't worry about it too much. My girlfriend has A LOT of labia and it has its inconveniences, but it honestly changes nothing.

>>22838480
are there sensitive lumps behind your nipples? you might have gyno, there's surgery for that

>>22838461
>>22838480
Do you really think people should overlook your body image issues when you're superficial as fuck when it comes to other people's?

>>22838418
Provided that they aren't ridiculous (and no, that's not something you can judge yourself) I personally wouldn't give a damn. Some guys however have been too thoroughly programmed by the (often artificially) perfect pussies of pornstars. My recommendation would be to post in a labia rate thread (when there is one kicking around, I don't think there is one currently) and see what the response is.

Chances are good however that most of the responses will be positive, and the negatives will mostly be hateful fucks who wouldn't have the first idea what to do with a real pussy having never touched one before in their lives :)

>>22838426

Not at all. If you've got the confidence to flirt with them, have at. If they're genuinely shy they'll probably be so tongue tied that they won't be capable of complaining until long after it'll make any difference. Or for that matter until long after they might want to complain.

Personally, I wish more girls would take the initiative because by the gods are some of us men (myself included) dumber than a bag o' hammers when it comes to reading the body language signals that girls give us if they're attracted to us. For that matter, even if that's not really an issue, I just wish they'd start the convo every now and again rather than me always be the one who has to do it.

>>22838519
No I do not think people should over look my body image issues. You asked a question and I gave an honest response. You shouldn't have asked if you were going to get upset when you got a response you did not like.

>>22838514
No sensitive lumps, just fatty feeling. I have done chest exercises to try to reduce the size and it just seems to make them larger. More muscle in the area but the fat still remains.

>>22838426
Not at all. Any decent guy will appreciate your confidence if you make the first move.

>>22838436
Because most introverts tend to be smart, and very perceptive. And most of them are not ego-driven, arrogant, or full of themselves.

>>22838598
Haha oh wow

>>22838551
I didn't ask anything, lrn2IDs.

I only commented because you're coming across as a hypocrite. And a bit of a cunt too desu

>>22838418
No. Forget what vagina-raters on the internet have to say. Any guy who leaves because he doesn't like your labia, is not a guy worth putting in there in the first place. The only thing anyone should ever be concerned about as far as their junk goes, is making sure it's clean and doesn't look all diseased as fuck.

>>22838380
you're like a hot human dalmatian
dont worry about it

>>22838615
You're right, didn't see it was from someone else. I'm not being hypocritical, I answered honestly. And I was hoping to get honest answers back for my question. Just because I find something unattractive, doesn't mean I was speaking for all men. Clearly I am in the minority here as you can see from the other posts.

>>22838607
You wanted an answer. Something that often takes years to learn, is that the most out-going people tend to also be douche-bags, or stuck up bitches. The shy type tend to not be so full of themselves, hence why they're shy.

>>22838426
It's honestly so relieving when girls make the first move, at least for me. I never know how to start conversations and having a girl be the one to start a convo makes things a lot easier. This is coming from a shy guy.

ladies.

if a guy is single for 6 years, is it a big no go for you?

>>22838081
Welcome to people in general. If there's any big trends, I would say I would expect women might be slightly more inclined to launch into it because they tend to be more likely to commiserate or talk about what's going on, while a lot of dudes treat conversation as a means to an end.

If they bore you, bow out of the conversation. If everyone you meet is like that, try to figure out if there's a reason you keep approaching these women.

>>22838148
How old are the both of you? It could just be a coincidental thing, or it could be that he's trying to maintain a bit of distance since it's an online thing and doesn't want to get super involved.

>>22838418
I don't give a shit. The vast majority of guys are going to be super happy that your pants are off and they get to do something with your vagina. If someone leaves/freaks out/reacts in any non positive way to your labia, you're dodging a bullet. You don't *want* a partner that's going to freak out about that, it's superficial and childish.

>>22838426
No, I have absolutely zero problem with it and often enjoy it - AS LONG AS YOU OPERATE BY THE SAME BASIC SOCIAL RULES EXPECTED OF GUYS. That is; flirt and feel out chemistry first - it's just as awkward for us when we have someone we aren't interested in be super pushy as it is for you when someone you're not interested in is super pushy.

If we both have some interest and are enjoying the conversation? Hell yes, go for it. But I've met a few women who are super persistent when I am super disinterested and it's really fucking uncomfortable.

(That being said: Some dudes will react weirdly, be aware of this. I have a lot of female friends that approach, and it has bitten them in the ass. I am of the stance if a dudes masculinity is so fragile he cannot handle being approached, or think you're a slut for approaching, you just dodged a bullet.)

In the end: DO WHAT YOU WANT. People can deal with it or not.

>>22838689
No. It's only an issue if you make it into one. Many women go through several years of not having any relationships.

>>22838694
In regards to girls making the first move...

So much this. Anybody can be pushy, and creepy as fuck. Guys or girls. Morale is, don't be a fucking creeper. Basically, don't do something that would weird you the fuck out if it someone you weren't attracted to was to do it to you.

>>22838751
That's retarded

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Girls of Reddit,

Im a 19 YO 7/10 Neet with no plans for the future.

How big of a detractor is that?

Pic related is me.

>>22839229
Deal breaker status for me. If I wanted to support another human being I'd have an actual child instead of adopting an adult child. Get a job, get an education, do something.

>>22838689
I'm a grill going into my 4th year of the single life. I think it just depends on the reasoning. Have you been single for so long because you're a psycho fuck who sends up red flags to everyone you meet/Autistic to the max, just needed a lot of time to work through the last break up, been too busy with work or school to date, just plain weren't interested in dating until now? Some reasons are more acceptable than others.

>>22838380
I think it's kinda cute actually.

>>22838076
Yeah, I like it when any guy is friendly and tries to initiate conversation with me. Anyone who gets pissy with someone saying something as nice and innocent as "Hows your day been?" is a cunt and not worth you time.

>>22837955
In just about any way that's not creepy/overly sexual. Seriously I'd kill to have a dude with enough balls to actually approach me instead of expecting me to go get him.
Strike up a conversation, comment on something I'm wearing (again tho, not creepily/sexually), complement me, just ask whats up. Key is keeping the conversation going instead of "Hey nice shirt" "Oh thanks!" "K bye"

>>22838751
Eh. I phrase it more in terms of "don't overstep boundaries"; because that's really what a creeper is - someone pushing past where they are welcome to be. Nothing is wrong with deciding to try to approach someone, but there's a matter of context, if they welcome it, and if there's any actual chemistry.etc.etc.

>>22838654
>>22838598
Introverted people can also be douchebags and stuckup bitches. In all honesty, it just kind of sounds like you're speaking from an introverted side of things and declaring introverts superior.

Extroversion and introversion are not positive or negative traits; they just define 'default state' to some degree. They don't make anyone better or worse than another; there's amazing people who are super outgoing, and terrible people who are super outgoing. There are amazing people who are shy, and terrible people who are shy.

>>22839229
"Reddit"? The fuck?
Okay, outside of that - I'm a dude, but exactly what do you bring to a relationship then?

>>22838380
Dude here and all: But fucking own any trait you have. Okay, you have freckles, whoop de fucking do - treat it exactly like that. Honestly I am generally of the opinion that what people openly and honestly *own*, people tend to not give a shit about. It's when you get all freaked out by it and treat it like you have a third arm growing out of your forehead that people tend to notice.

>>22839782
I was thinking my looks alone would make up for it

Don't mean to be weird but do girls actually like anal?

>>22839807
And to elaborate, why in the nine fucks would they make up for it? You're basically offering a heavily codependent 'relationship' as a freeloader; you have no job so if you're not living at home how are you going to pay rent? Or are you just going to move in with the girl and she will pay for all your expenses? How in the hell will she afford this?

If you want to be in a relationship, you need to *be able to offer something to the relationship*; anything else is just childish fantasy.

>>22839921
Yes. Some girls like anal. Some girls don't. There is no universal rule.

>>22839971
Thanks person

>>22839807
kek looks fade over time. If that's all you're banking on don't expect anything to last and don't expect to get anywhere after your 20s maybe 30s.

>>22839921
I do! But I know plenty of my friends don't. Some do it anyway to make their bfs happy, others refuse.

>>22839229
Quite a big detractor sorry :(
There must be something you enjoy that you could develop an interest in

Guys: what's the number one thing a girl does that makes her good in bed?

>>22841429
For being 'good at sex', for me its usually exaggerated hip movements.

Im sure theres a good and bad way to do those movements, but in general I dont know how someone might learn a 'proper way' to do it. I have had few partners, but all of them long terms so please take what I say with a grain of salt. In all cases girls I was with only got better the more we fucked.

For ladies:
Is the myth that finding out a guy you are interested in/think is hot is in a relationship (long term or married) make you want him more? Just person to person?

>>22841607
It is maybe mildly true in my case. I am not some homewrecker who seduces married guys or something lol, but I suppose it's validation that they can hold down a relationship if thet are in one.

>>22833488
We're really only familiar with one kind of civilization--human civilization. To think that gives us enough information to judge the progress of all possible civilizations is unbelievably arrogant.

>>22838076
It's kinda weird and creepy. Like, who are you? Why do you want to know about my day? Are you gonna jack off to it?

>>22838209
A little, but--how much does laser removal cost? If it's more than, like, $100 total (depending on your spending power) then it's not worth it, since they're not really all THAT big a deal.

>>22838426
You ever hear of Bumble? I think you might like Bumble.

>>22839229
The fact that you describe yourself as "7/10" doesn't help, either.

>>22839823
>any girls wanna rate my dick?
No. No girls will ever wanna rate your dick. Let's just rip that band-aid off.

>>22841607
I haven't done a survey or anything, but I know that when I found out the Hot Guy At Work was married it didn't make me want him more.

>>22841623
>It's kinda weird and creepy. Like, who are you? Why do you want to know about my day? Are you gonna jack off to it?
get over yourself, that is the most common social platitude in north america after saying 'how are you'. no one actually cares.

For the boys:
1. Describe your ideal first date. You can have more than one answer to this.
2. Why do/did you draw dicks on every damn thing [in middle/high school]?

>>22841635
That's not a fair comparison. "How was your day?" is a question that demands familiarity. If someone I knew asked me, I could bitch about Lynda. You have no context of who Lynda is or why I care, awful as she may be.

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>mfw these threads are only source of social interaction I experience.

>>22841658
1.)I'm a boring sack of shit so an ideal date is anything laid back where we can half enjoy what we're doing while it also sort of provides context for being together. Theme parks with cafe after, sort of traditional stuff where the girl is into it are always killer. I feel lame typing this out.
2.) After I stopped drawing dicks I started drawing phallic swords and guns. Maybe its just my inner dick loving self trying to break free, but men love their dicks.

>>22838418
Obviously but unless it's something really, really freakish it's not too relevant.

>>22838426
>Is it weird if us girls make the first move?
No.

>is it a turn off for me to flirt with him? Or does he appreciate the confidence?
Yes to both. In a way, you present yourself to be more interested, which is a slight minus but since you have the confidence to act on it, it's a bigger plus. Just do it.

>>22838598
>And most of them are not ego-driven, arrogant, or full of themselves.
Hahahaha, nice one. The "ego-driven" part is up to debate but lack of confidence doesn't stop people from being arrogant pricks (hell, arrogance IS lack of confidence unlike cockiness) or full of themselves.

>>22841429
Knowing what she wants and communicating it. Preferably non verbal.

>>22841688
>but men love their dicks.
I've always felt like this is pretty much what it comes down to

>>22841658
1. Depends on too many factors like my mood, the personality of a girl, how long we know each other and yidda yadda. As long you both have fun, the most boring setting like a cafe can be enough and if there is no chemistry, even stuff like bungee jumping or skydiving will blow.

General formula would be starting with something public like a gallery or football game, where you can communicate and got something other besides you two to focus on and moving to a more private setting. Be it a smoking on the beach at night or playing vidya in your room.

2. Because I am a fucking artist.

>>22841658
3. What would you think of a girl who occasionally sleeps with a stuffed animal well into young adulthood?
4. Do you have a name for your penis? You do not need to tell me what it is, just a simple yes or no will suffice. We're all anonymous here.
5. Do you prefer one-piece or two-piece swimsuits?
6. Would you ever actually try the old "horror movie date" cliche?
7. Have you ever in your life received a vagina pic you didn't request, or from someone you didn't know?

>>22841727
Are you just angrily stating that you're an artist or are you saying you're an artist of fucking?

>>22841830
Lemme clarify, on question 5, I mean which do you prefer on girls. But no judgment.

>>22841830
>3
That's adorable. Also gives one an easy option for presents.

>4
Me? Hell no but girlfriends came up with the weirdest shit ever, although I don't recall much more than "Little Anon".

>5
Two piece all the way. May I expand on it? What do women even see in one-piece (assuming they have a good looking body) ?

>6
It's scientifically sound but feels too much like manipulation and as much I dig that, it's not something I would use on somebody I like aka. would consider dating.

>7
Does "knowing" somebody for few days count? If not, no. Not yet at least.

>Are you just angrily stating that you're an artist
Passionately.

>>22841830
>3. What would you think of a girl who occasionally sleeps with a stuffed animal well into young adulthood?
Freaking cute

>4. Do you have a name for your penis? You do not need to tell me what it is, just a simple yes or no will suffice. We're all anonymous here.
No.

>5. Do you prefer one-piece or two-piece swimsuits?
Depends of the girl

>6. Would you ever actually try the old "horror movie date" cliche?
I don't like horror movie but if she want to see one, no problem

>7. Have you ever in your life received a vagina pic you didn't request, or from someone you didn't know?
Never

>>22841830
3 : i wouldnt mind, my ex was like that, it's like they kept a part from their inner child, sometimes it's cute.
4 : nope. No name
5 : a bikini is always better looking imo
6 : if i want to watch the movie, yes i would, but just for the sake of scaring her so that she can grab me if she's afraid ? Nah
7 : never vagina pics but tits, yes

>>22841892
Personally I just think one-pieces are cuter. But there are some mitigating factors.

Firstly, I'm more pear shaped than not, and two-pieces show off my lack of a bust more than I'd like while not showing off my hips as much.

Second, I'm already half dorky mom. I tie my jacket around my waist when I'm not wearing it, for God's sake. My owning skirted one-pieces is as much as me leaning into my destiny.

And third, I burn pretty easily. I want as much of my skin covered as possible while still allowing me to swim comfortably.

>>22841920
I suck my thumb sometimes when I'm sleepy. Is that adorable or weird and childish? Always been slightly self conscious about it.

>>22841949
I'd say it's cute.
But i'd make joke on you who involve your mouth your thumb and my dick ^^

>>22841951
Well that would be ok :)

>>22841954
I'd just do this to tease you a little :)
As i said, i'd find it pretty cute !
Something's telling me that you're the blonde belgian girl who want to be a child and cute and pure.

Is that you ?

>>22841949
Weird. Definitely weird and yes, asks for "Do you want something else to suck on" jokes.

>>22841942
I see, sounds reasonable enough and goes beyond aesthetic too. Though yeah, from the latter perspective, as a guy, two-piece is definitely more appealing for me.

>>22841966
If I felt comfortable with the guy I would quite like him to tease me about stuff like that.

Uhhh, no, that's not me sorry

>>22841970
Ok, weird as in offputting? The jokes are expected, I just want to know if it makes me seem like a baby.

>>22841978
Nah, not offputting, just the "huh ... what the hell" - type of weird. Not something I would mind but as other anon said, definitely an opportunity for playful teasing.

>>22841984
Well this is almost a good thing then because i can really enjoy being playfully teased

>>22841988
Who doesn't? Teasing is fun.

>>22841994
Yay :) It's really a big thing for me, like it almost sends me into a kind of contented trance or something. If I'm attracted to a guy I like him to have a bit of power over me or to be his plaything in some way. Some gentle meanness done in the right way makes me melt.

>>22842003
Well that killed the thread... :O

>>22841830
3. Definitely cute. I suppose there are guys who want really mature partners that would find this odd but overall is probably more of a plus than a negative.
4. Nope.
5. Two-piece, but mid-riff is my favourite so i am heavily biased.
6. Haven't, would maybe try it if the girl was actively into horror movies but that breaks the cliche.
7. No, but I dont do much sexy photo sending or receiving so im probably out of the loop there.

>>22842003
>>22842045
More likely that time killed it, soc usually goes to sleep at around this time.

Also, yeah, a girl telling me that she really likes sucking on her thumb, is going to end up with either my thumb or cock in there, via some innuendo and very dirty flirting. As long as you aren't doing it all the time (or even all the time when you're sleepy, it's fine, just a quirk of action.

>>22842045
I think the fact that it's 1-5 am on a weekday in the continental US killed the thread. Heck, I should have been asleep hours ago.

>>22842067
>a girl telling me that she really likes sucking on her thumb, is going to end up with either my thumb or cock in there, via some innuendo and very dirty flirting
That's not a problem at all ;)
My ex used to hold me tight in spoons position and I would suck his thumb sometimes, it was the most incredibly intimate thing. So comforting and peaceful. So I'm glad you said your thumb as well. That's beautiful.

>>22842072
Stay up and chat!

>>22842076
>Casually sucking someone elses thumb or having mine sucked
I never realized this would be a thing I'd enjoy until I read it.

>>22842076
Wow... I think i would actually... Enjoy that ..!
Nice anonette, you sound sweet in relationship !

>>22842076
Well I guess i included that because of what you said about power or being a guy's plaything. If pushing my thumb into your mouth is a real trigger for you getting submissive and contented, then hell yeah I'm going to use that.

>>22841658
>>22841830
Answered these questions in an audio over on MSA, here's the vocaroo link:

http://vocaroo.com/i/s14grmnrAh1u

>>22842092
*mental high five*
Yeah, right ?!

>>22842094
I really pride myself on it.

>If pushing my thumb into your mouth is a real trigger for you getting submissive and contented, then hell yeah I'm going to use that.
It really really is :)

>>22842095
Damn, you sound like a teacher with all the positives and negatives it implies.

>>22842104
Question: is it thumb specific or do you get kinda blissed out from sucking cock as well? Or is that more just something that gets your motor running?

>>22842117
It's pretty thumb specific. I love sucking cock but it's a different feeling, more horny and excited than blissful, but I think there's an element of that too.

8. How does it make you feel when someone asks you to help them move something heavy, open a jar, etc.?
9. Do you pay for the first date? If so, why? If not, you don't have to tell me why, I can guess.

>>22842090
Nah, I don't want my sleep schedule getting too messed up. I'm going to bed after this.

>>22842095
I suppose I should be flattered you liked my questions so much. I'll probably listen to it in the morning, when I can better appreciate it.

>>22842117
When I'm on my back being fucked I do sometimes gently touch my lips, nose and face, just like running my fingertips over them, and that kind of puts me in the blissful zone.

Would you rather have a guy eating out your pussy or your ass?

>>22842137
Pussy but I am more than happy for him to lick my ass :)

>>22842126
8. I am a fairly average sized guy, but I have a very boyish face and personality. I love it when people ask me to help them with stuff that are traditionally male. (I have a fragile ego, I am willing to admit.)
9. Yeah, I went dutch in university a lot because I was the poorest at the time, but with any steady income there's really no excuse not to imo.

>>22839921
Some girls do, some girls don't.

>>22839823
No.

>>22839229
I mean, I probably wouldn't open with that. If you have a great personality or whatever, the NEET and no aspirations things don't really matter. But mileage may vary from girl to girl.

>>22838689
Not necessarily. I'd need more details about the individual's situation to determine if it's a dealbreaker.

>>22838480
Personally it depends on how you handle it. If you poke fun at yourself or make jokes or use it to your advantage in some way or another, that's attractive and cute and charming. However, insecurity shows. You gotta try to own it. Girls who think something as trivial as that is a dealbreaker, aren't worth it.

>>22838418
Answering as a girl who has had way more sex than any one individual should, honey don't worry for a second about what your sex organs look like. Most guys are just happy to be sticking their dick in something wet, they don't care what it looks like, and if they honestly do, then they have some sort of psychological problem and you should avoid them. Any normal functioning male wouldn't give a shit about what it looks like down there as long as it's clean.

>>22838209
Nah, you have a perfect body and if anything I'd probably just trace them with my fingers and make constellations or something. I think moles are awesome. As long as they're not malignant, you're good man.

>>22838081
We love to talk about ourselves and when we find someone who is a good listener, sometimes we forget that it should go both ways.

>>22838076
Sure? Depends on the guy I guess. If you're friends or you know each other, it's a normal person thing to do but if we just met and you made a point of asking me that every day it might come off as creepy and trying too hard.

>>22842126
Fair enough. I will... add these new questions and my answers to them to the next battery of such things I answer. I am complete sucker for doing recordings of answers to to questions.

However, for now:
>8. How does it make you feel when someone asks you to help them move something heavy, open a jar, etc.?
Doesn't really make me feel a thing. If they haven't tried themselves (on things like opening a jar or a heavy box that isn't obviously too heavy) then I might be a touch annoyed with them (or if they never bother doing anything vaguely like hard work themselves), but other than that? Job's gotta be done, jar's gotta be opened. Just get on with it.

>9. Do you pay for the first date? If so, why? If not, you don't have to tell me why, I can guess.
Not entirely. First date I figure should be split half and half or people paying for what they've had. Maybe the same with second date. After that it'll probably shake out to being whatever it most efficient/comfortable/logical for the relationship (if she's very well paid and I'm really not, makes more sense for her to be paying, if the other way around, of course I'd be paying and so on).

>>22842128
>>22842122
>>22842143
All good things to know femanon. Now where can I find a girl like you :P

>>22842157
I think we're everywhere, just needs the right guy to bring the sexual side out. Or 4chan because it's anonymous lol

>>22842126
8. Feels good, guys like to feel like they're needed even if it's for stupid shit like unscrewing a bottle cap
9. Yeah, cause I'm the one asking them out usually. If someone offers to take me out somewhere, it's implied they're paying. After the first couple dates it's 50/50 though.

>>22833479
do women really care that much if you have facial hair, stubble or a baby face? if it's just preference, what is the more popular option?

>>22842174
I personally prefer a clean shaven but quite masculine face, but all sorts of different faces are attractive.

>>22842126
8 : depend of The person. If it's a girl annoying to me, i might refuse or doing it just because of courtesy. If i like her, i'll not think twice about doing it etc etc, The more you like The chick The more you want to help her.
9: yes, i try to pay everytime because it's always The guy who INVITE The girl to a date. So it' sa common gentlemen move to pay. I'd have a better opinion of her if she want to split but dont insist about it.
If The girl want to pay her meal in a "im a grown and independant women blabla i can pay for myself" it's a total deal breaker

>>22842174
I don't think any of us can say for sure what the popular option is. Tons of us are into beards. But tons of us like the opposite, a clean, smooth face. Don't base whether or not you have facial hair on what you think women in general prefer. You can worry about that later when you have a significant other who tells you exactly how you should shave/not shave your face.

>>22842126
>8
"Yay, a chance to show off … man, that feels cliche as fuck."

>9
If I invited the girl out? Definitely. If she invited me, well … I would still offer pay since money has little value to me outside of traveling and drugs but I would probably have a lower opinion of her for not asking to split it. (Unless there is a good reason like a shitty financial situation … although, why would you suggest something expensive in that scenario)

Though so far I had to meet somebody who is okay with me paying, any girl I date either wanted to split directly or roll with the "I buy you X, you buy me Y" way. Thank you, feminism.

As for why, it's obviously just like 8, an easy opportunity to show off and make somebody happy at the same time.

>>22842179
>>22842184
thanks! atm I'm clean shaven but facial hair itches the hell out of me which I don't like.

Loving this thread but it keeps dropping off!

>>22842364
What's your biggest deal breaker in a relationship?

>>22842380
Dishonesty, or on past experience, when they just stop giving a shit

>>22842126
8.
Natural, I don't mind helping people even strangers with their bags so long as I'm not obviously being used.
>9.
Same, don't mind throwing a bit of cash around since it doesn't break me but if I feel I'm just being used the bitch is getting curbed.

Girls: do you experience oneitis? Like that guy from when you were a kid you've never been able to shake from your mind?

>>22841658
Probably dinner or coffee or drinks at a quiet bar, something where we could eat and chat. A concert, movie, gallery or walk around the park would be cool. Or like a carnival or fair. I would sayou just hang out at home but that might be weird or make her uncomfortable, we'd just hang but I could be a cannibal for all strangers know.
2, I can't draw for shit. But I graffiti'd out of boredom, and I had to buy my text books, private school :p I also did that thing where you said penis and tried to not get caught. It's because I was bored and like to clown around. I still do but I don't do that at my job, I have to adult.

>>22842399
Not really. But the nearest thing to that is that it took me a long time to get over my first serious boyfriend. It was a horrible dark time and I felt like I would have done anything to get him back.

>>22842399
>Girls: do you experience oneitis? Like that guy from when you were a kid you've never been able to shake from your mind?
I'm over him now, but the nearest thing was being dumped by my first serious bf, which was horrible and took me a long time to get over.

>>22841830
3, it's cute, unless it's obsessive and / or ruins any Chance of cuddling.
4, yes, jokingly, several, seriously nah.
5, whatever she's most comfortable in or confident in, I go for comfort but I know a lot of people go for looks.
6, I'm not entirely sure what you mean but probably not, I'd go to comfort her cause she's scared and she'd knock the sh*t out of me because she's scared and I went to touch her.
7, two and a half times, I say a Half because I showed a girl a YouTube video where Bryan McKnight sings about squirting and she sends me a video of her squirting. If the 3 incidents one was a stranger. There was a girl I met on 4chan that asked about sexting and pix first if that counts.

>>22842126
8, if I can do it yeah I like it, jars always. I'd hate to not be able to do something though.
9, I generally like to pay for things, I don't go out much and have plenty of money in my budget when I do. I like to make sure that the tip is at mim wage for an hour, even if the service sucks, usually the one asking out is supposed to pay, but I wouldn't mind splitting a check.

Girls, and guys I guess, in general.
1
Do you prefer small talk or more meaningful, deeper talk?
Do you believe in interfairh/intercultural /differing poitics/philosophy /lifestyle /sex attitudes relationships or friendship
2
Is being friends necessary / better for a relationship? Can you love someone who isn't your friend?
3, can men and women just be friends?
4 can you be friends with your exes?
5 when you date/meet someone /flirt are you looking for something specific or just being sociable?

>>22842415
How do you move on from big, serious relationships? Or marriages, personally I think a lot of long-term monogamous relationships are pretty much marriages, especially if you live together.
Also do you believe in monogamy?
What constitutes cheating?

>>22842438
123 yes to all
4 is difficult I think
5 it depends how I'm feeling

>>22842415
>>22842406

Was it just a virginity thing? Also could you expand on how you feel about the guy you lost it with and how you feel about him?

>>22842449
You just start taking your life off in a different direction. Moving away really helped in my case. I believe in monogamy but am open to polyamory. Plus i think there is no harm in having fantasies, look but don't touch, looking at porn etc.

>>22842454
What about flirting? Or sexting?

>>22842451
It wasn't just that, although i did lose my virginity to him. I just couldn't imagine my life without him. These days i look back and have some happy memories, but tainted by how it ended. I'm also embarassed at my imaturity and how desperate I was for him, especially as he wouldn't really be my type these days.

>>22842438
>Do you prefer small talk or more meaningful, deeper talk?
Depends on mood and energy, if both are right, deeper talks of course but I love people who can effortlessly switch from one to the other and don't get mad over making puns about Kant after discussing him.

>Do you believe in interfairh/intercultural /differing poitics/philosophy /lifestyle /sex attitudes relationships or friendship
As long nether is a complete radical and both can find a compromise, no problem. I definitely would prefer some level of opposition over a partner/friend who mirrors me too much.

>Is being friends necessary / better for a relationship?
For what I imagine under a relationship, yes. Otherwise you'd be just permanent fuck buddies.

>Can you love someone who isn't your friend?
Desire/lust for yes, love doubtful.

>can men and women just be friends?
>can you be friends with your exes?
Yes and yes. As simple as that.

>when you date/meet someone /flirt are you looking for something specific or just being sociable?
I don't get the question.

>>22842458
That's a bit borderline. When i talk to guys on here it's a bit like sexting sometimes but we have no ongoing contact and I am never going to meet them, so consider it more like porn.

>>22842454
What about long distance relationships?

>>22842465
I've had one of them but it required meeting up fairly regularly to work.

>>22842460
Fuck me I wish I could understand female attraction. For us it's just face, ass, tits and does she just support me being me? Define it, please.

>>22842462
I Kant stand people who hate puns :p
2, everyone either is or isn't a radical and who's to say what is and isn't radical?
3, English needs more words for love, with better connotations and denotions.
The last one is kind of like do you deliberately date, look for a relationship or a hook up, do you start thinking long term when you meet someone who you like?
Thanks for answering
And you >>22842463

>>22842475
Haha. I might be a little ashamed to say this but i am a bit old fashioned in that I kind of want the guy to be superior to me in some way: confident, intelligent, successful, whatever. I'm pretty shy and underconfident. The guy I lost my virginity to really made me laugh which is a huge plus point. I do have to feel physical attraction too though.

>>22842475
I'm not a woman but there's a lot more than that for me and I'm male. If I actually care, I want to know if we're a good match, if our life goals are compatible, how do we fight and resolve disagreements? What would happen if I wanted to do something really different. Is she my soul mate? Does she believe in soul mates? Do I believe in soul mates?

>>22842483
Fair play, not totally surprising

>>22842490
I used to be that way brother man, I really did. 3 failed multi year relationships by 24 set me right off

>>22842494
Some guys get butthurt at that. Thanks for your understanding :) I like being honest about these things.

>>22842494
Dang, you started early. I deliberately avoided relationships until I didn't with this one time. It's mostly because I want to either work on a farm /commune or give most of my money to charity. I'm young 23, my degree is in a STEM field, but I only want to make money to help others. She's already got a kid and I'm not sure I'll be a good step parent, I mean I'll be better than abuse but that doesn't mean that I'd be good.

>>22841830

>3
I'm in to ageplay as one of my kinks so that's cool for me, might be considered weird by others though

>4
Nope

>5
I personally actually prefer one pieces the majority of the time, no idea why

>6
Probably not, films like that tend to bore me so wouldn't be too enjoyable.

>7
Only been with one girl so nope on that one too.

>>22842482
>who's to say what is and isn't radical?
I guess the shortest answer avoiding a long debate would be "Somebody who absolutely won't tolerate other viewpoints"

Or a practical example, some IS fighter married to a tumblr queen, that shit won't work, no matter how much they love/"insert synonym" each other.

>do you deliberately date, look for a relationship or a hook up
Nah, it would feel too forced and make the process harder that way.

>do you start thinking long term when you meet someone who you like?
Yes but I don't take the thoughts too serious nor would invest too much at start. I just like to be a step ahead of the potential events.

>>22842483
Everybody wants to be desirable or needes/wanted or feel like they belong regardless of it is because they are attractive or smart or successful or funny or talented.

>>22842497
Be honest, your anonymous. Fuck what some Elliot Rodger woman hating cunt has to say

>>22842512
Ha yeah man, 15-18 with my first gf. I used to go in with the mindset that if I date a girl exclusively it's for life.

I can't speak for you sitch but do you really want to raise someone else's kid? I have no money, nothing to provide so I guess I can't level with you there. But fuck me, seems like an empty investment on your part.

>>22833479
Question for guys

What's the point of continuing to hit on me, or adding me in the first place if you know I'm lesbian?

>>22842528
Haha, I am being honest. I'm attracted to dominant men a lot of the time.

Interesting parallel with my first serious relationship, which was 16 to 18. I thought it was for life too, whoch now seems ridiculously teenage of me.

>>22842520
That was mostly an existentialist joke, I actually got you about radicals and agree and think if something is that important to you, you should make sure that your partner agrees, whether it's being ISIS or Tumblr-y or you just refuse to accept that PLUTO IS A PLANET, A BUNCH OF STUPID EARTHLING NERDS CAN'T CHANGE THAT.

>>22842529
I've fucked "lesbians" so could be that. For real though never underestimate male thirst, the game can be brutal and it's easy to get sucked into any girl who smiles if it's been a while

>>22842528
Actually yeah, my genepool is shit, I was probably going to adopt at some point in time, especially older kids when it wouldn't look sketchy af, just to give them a friend and some guidance . I'm not rich and student debts a bitch but if I could afford it I'd like to.

>>22842529
I think turning someone bi is a big fantasy for people of both persuasions.
Lesbians have all the goods I want to see. ( I am playing devil's adocate) Also, some people are stupid.

>>22842529
A lot of men seem to have a true fascination with lesbians!

>>22842529
>1
"My dick can turn her."

>2
Not everybody takes flirting that serious.

>3
Adding in the context of the threads here? Some just looking for female friends.

>>22842548
>my genepool is shit

Damn man, that's next level defeatism. Best of luck.

Hey I'm lesbian so dunno if my opinion matters to you since you phrased your question at guys, but...
>>22841658
>>22841830
>>22842126
1. ideal first date would be movies as corny as it sounds, or playing some game together at home
2. I have no idea why I drew dicks everywhere, it got a laugh out of my friends maybe?
3. I do this myself, I think it's cute
4. n/a
5. two piece
6. I hate horror movies so I personally wouldn't ever
7. I haven't
8. I'm usually the one asking for help with those things, but I wouldn't mind helping if they weren't taking advantage of me!
9. I usually get paid for rather than the other way around

>>22841949
If I knew you and learned this fact about you I'd think it's cute, I'd probably offer my thumb as well

>>22842380
arrogance

>>22842399
I have not heard that term before but a few past girlfriends are still in my mind and I catch myself imagining "what if"

>>22842438
1 - deeper meaningful talk is preferred
2 - being friends means you can "click" with them meaning it's a whole lot better, which is essential to a LASTING relationship in my opinion
3 - I've not had good experiences so far, I've talked to exactly 2 guys in the past week and it was only for business for one of them, and wishing the other a happy birthday
4 - Yup
5 - Yes I am looking for specific things I enjoy in a person

>>22842449
>>22842465
cutting contact is good, I'm only monogamist - can't deal with poly it just hurts me, depends on what you tell your partner you're ok with (flirting with others could be ok, depends on the partner?)

>>22842475
Personally I'm shallow, looks are a big factor for me too, but personality / life goals / interests are equally as important (so I guess I'm pretty picky?)

>>22842539
>>22842556
>>22842594
>>22842595
ty for answering, from what I gather from your responses it's mostly seems that it's just most guys are convinced I'm not "set in stone"?

>>22842605
>I'd probably offer my thumb as well
Well this is becoming a bit of a theme!

>>22842613
Congratulations, you've been the creator of a new whole sexual fetish !
"The thumb suckers"

>>22842636
If so then honestly I'm proud

>>22842605
> it's just most guys are convinced I'm not "set in stone"
No idea if most but yeah, tons of idiots think this way.

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Where can I find crazy qts who were abused heavily by their own parents as children?

And before anyone judges (like some mean girl on soc) I just want someone who understands, someone who relates and can tolerate my depression and possible PTSD. And I'd do the same for her. Also I live in rural England, which lowers my dating pool much more.

I don't care how much of a sad love it is....
(Crawling in my skin etc, etc...)

>>22842650
"most" as in most of the idiots who are disrespectful yeah, sorry for my wording

>>22842657
I don't think you're in the right thread anon

>>22842657
Jail, red light district and the likes. Also arts.

>>22841658
1. Never really thought about that, but I tend to just be willing to things that she will like. I never thought "sure, let's go on a date and do <random_thing_I_like>".
2. No idea, never did that.

>>22841830
3. That it's either a legacy from her past or that she feels less alone and more "safe" that way. In the first case it might be a problem (like people who in their adulthood still suck their thumb), in the second case not really.
4. Nope. I find that weird.
5. Two-pieces.
6. Never did, never will.
7. No never. But I received boobs pics I didn't request from more than one girl at different periods of time. And I knew good enough only one of them, the others were mostly strangers (at the boob pics time; I got to know some of them better with time).

>>22842126
8. Uh? Like: oh look at me I'm so strong? Nah, not a thing. Though a thanks is appreciated.
9. Yes, always. I don't go on dates if I can't pay for them entirely. (apart from some exceptions in the past, but it was a different thing)
> why?
Because... I don't know, because good manners? No idea, it just feels weird (and kinda emasculating) when someone else pays for you, especially if it's the girl you invited on a date.

>>22842717
>In the first case it might be a problem (like people who in their adulthood still suck their thumb)
:/

>>22842095
I guess it's just the fact that it's a list that you liked.

Your laugh is very infectious.

>>22842174
I like stubble, personally. But you'll find support for all camps.

>>22842399
Personally, I do not. Not anymore, at least. There was one guy in elementary/middle/high school but I did eventually manage to put him out of my mind after he was out of my life.

>>22842438
>Do you prefer small talk or more meaningful, deeper talk?
Each in their own domain.
>Do you believe in interfairh/intercultural /differing poitics/philosophy /lifestyle /sex attitudes relationships or friendship
Definitely. I'm atheist, my sister is Mormon, and she's one of my best friends. Not by obligation, either. And another of my best friends from high school has been getting more liberal the longer he lives on his own but through most of high school he was pretty Republican and we got along famously.

>Is being friends necessary / better for a relationship? Can you love someone who isn't your friend?
It makes a relationship much better. I genuinely don't understand why someone would want to be in a relationship with someone if they don't have the same hobbies, senses of humor, etc.

>can men and women just be friends?
Yes. Though you reminded me of this:
https://youtu.be/T_lh5fR4DMA

>can you be friends with your exes?
Theoretically yes, but it depends on a lot of pretty precarious factors. If it's a mutual breakup between two people who get along pretty well but just don't want to necessarily lock in to spending their lives with each other, then probably yes. Like someone and someone on that Netflix show I don't wanna spoil.

> when you date/meet someone /flirt are you looking for something specific or just being sociable?
By definition, it's too early to say. Dating someone, to me, is a chance to get to know them better and figure out if it's worth pursuing some kind of relationship. Flirting, on the other hand, is just for fun.

>>22842535
If Pluto is a planet, why not Ceres? Makemake? Haumea? Eris is even bigger than Pluto. Or why not Charon? Pluto orbits Charon as much as Charon orbits Pluto, they're tidally locked and their center of gravity is in between them. And if Pluto's a planet, why not all of the Solar System's moons? If orbiting something else doesn't disqualify them, and there's at least five bigger than Pluto, why not Io or Luna?

It's been almost a decade. Get over it. Yeah, Pluto WAS classified as a planet, but potash WAS classified as an element and gravity WAS classified as an attractive action at a distance. Then we got better data.

How many girls are okay with facials?

>>22843248
I'm okay with them. I might even enjoy them sometimes.

but not in the eyes, shit burns like acid

>>22842535
Ah my bad for missing it … tho jokes on the Internet, you know. Like this Pluto thing, you must be joking, right? You better be joking. Even Pluto thinks you're joking.

>>22843208
>I genuinely don't understand why someone would want to be in a relationship with someone if they don't have the same hobbies, senses of humor, etc.
I definitely agree on same humour and similar attributes but hobbies? Fuck that, all of my girlfriends had pretty much the opposite hobbies (and media tastes, since people here care so much about it) and it never was an issue but a great opportunity to try something new. In the end it's much less about WHAT you do but with WHOM.

>>22843248
Not a girl but from my experience, the most. Just don't act out the last movie you saw, it has to fit the pace. If you're absolutely uncertain whether she will like it, just ask.

>>22843235
This.

If Pluto's a full planet, then fucking Ceres gets to be classified as one also, once again. Which means Pluto would be the "tenth".

But it's not, because like Ceres it hasn't cleared the majority of debris out of it's orbit. They're both dwarf planets, because they're fairly large, planetoid objects that are in large debris fields.

>>22833479
what's the deal with vaginas?

>>22843259
They are great. They are scary. Who knows, man, who knows.

>>22843259
It's homogulous to the penis. Basically, it's an entrance designed to facilitate reproduction by providing a direct opening into the womb. Because of the friction involved with reproduction, the interior cells produce a mucus membrane that provides both lubrication, and acts as a defense measure against invading cellular organisms. The clitoris is the homologous organ to the penis's head and shaft, and is the only organ in the entire human body with the sole purpose of providing pleasure.

They also have Tardis-like properties.

>>22841429
Eagerness and engagement. She's an active participate in the sexual experience, she's openly enjoying it, she's vocal, she knows what she wants and she's open to trying new things or voicing things that she wants to try.

There's nothing wrong with some reservations or what not, and it's not like you need to be screaming at the top of your lungs, but when it becomes just that .. Kind of breaking down of individual self losing yourself in the moment and just shifting focus back and forth and all sorts of different things? That's when it becomes phenomenal.

Or on the lower end key of things, being able to give an amazing blowjob is pretty impressive in and of itself - only a handful of folk have gotten me off with oral, and only two have gotten me to have multiple back to back orgasms from oral, so, hey, I *definitely* remember them.

There's always going to be individual variations though; if you can indulge someone's fetishes than they are more likely to remember you in a glorious light. Right now I have a bit of a sadism kick, so I've been playing with a ton of masochists and they are leaving wonderful wonderful impressions. *Shrug*

>>22838076
(Jumping in here because it's getting highlighted - dude and all, but be aware there's no 'default answer' - a lot of women will get annoyed or weirded out, a lot of women won't give a shit. What becomes important, I would say, is the context of 'random guy' - are you coming up in a social situation? Are you standing around in the same kind of narrative situation? Are you stopping, interrupting, or impinging her from doing what she wants?

'Cold approaches' are generally fucking hard because you're the equivalent of the mall carnies trying to hock goods.)

>>22841623
Bumble seems to be getting a weird push lately. o.O

>>22841635
Get over yourself in turn.

>>22841658
1) Hm. Something novel, something that shows me who you are, in a way that I enjoy - so for example, I'm a bit of a foodie, so show me your favorite random little dive restaurant or something like that. Honestly pretty much anything can make a fantastic date as long as it offers opportunity to connect and get to know the person, and the chemistry is there.

I am more likely to quantify an 'ideal first date' in context of how I feel about the person, than the date itself. Most of my unofficial dates or side dates tend to be just stopping at a tea shop or what not, so we can sit back and sip at things and chat for hours on end. Those are fucking awesome times, even if the experience in and of itself isn't anything big.

But yeah: Showcase who you are, give me new experiences, build connection.

2) I didn't. I don't ever recall drawing dicks. I would imagine that it's just because its slightly risque, and super fucking easy to draw.

>>22841830
3) Don't really give a shit. I know a surprising amount of women that have their stuffed animals still, and a good number that sleep with them. The only time I give pause is I know a (25ish?) woman who still has her *baby blanket*, and carries it around with her at home / keeps it accessible. That's a bit stranger. Stuffed animals I roll my eyes at, but fundamentally I really don't care. Whatever.

4) No. I've had (one?) former partner name it before, but I don't hold names to it. It is simply my dick.

5) Two piece probably? I am not hugely concerned about it in the slightest bit, but it's super rare to see anyone in a one piece - unless its an absurdly flashy one piece.

>>22843208
Erm... Thanks I guess :)

>>22841830

6) Yes. I've taken people on dates to Haunted Houses. This has nothing to do with trying to get them to curl up to me, more the fact I REALLY FUCKING LOVE HORROR. Also, that I'm a jaded ass at this point and none of it scares me - but it's amazing and phenomenal to watch someone be all frightened and freaked out. I love it. Then we go and have some come down time.

7) Yeah, I've received a couple vagina pics I didn't request. The few times I've received it from people I don't know is some social media apps where people decided to try to escalate the conversation. Pretty fucking rare for it to be randomly sent though by someone I don't know. Usually the random pictures are from partners/former partners.

>>22841949
I honestly don't know how I would feel about it; I might find it a bit weird. That being said, if I am seeing you and am spending the night / vice versa, I am probably going to be accepting of it - that's not even remotely close to a make/break thing.

>>22842126
8) Either amused or indifferent. Moving stuff I am indifferent, I generally volunteer just because I am physically larger and more burly. For jars I always find it amusing because it's such a stereotypical thing. I don't care though.

9) Generally, yes. My general policy is that the person who arranged the date pays - I am the one that decided where we are going, what we are doing, and might know far more about it than you. No one should be ambushed with expenses they cannot expect to handle; it's no fun and ruins the mood. If she sets the date, she pays - or if we talk about it, we split it.

I've had a few people take over and pay for first dates, which always gives me pause and amuses me. Then we fall into a habit of switching on/off for paying.

Everyone

What do you think about two religiously opposed person getting together ?
How would you feel if an atheist/agnostic have a crush on you, practicing (or the other way around, a religious person developing a crush on you, atheist/agnostic) ?

>>22841658
1- I prefer something low-key. That allows for conversation. Coffee meet-ups work well for me, even if it's cliche.

2- I don't. But I do think it's funny. It's like trolling... Everyone. It's a shame not many girls like to draw vaginas everywhere.

>>22841830
3- Eh. Seems a bit childish, but I've known plenty of grown women with stuffed animals. If it's a guy, it's a warning sign that they're fucked up in the head. But girls seem to get a pass.

4- Hyper Weapon.
(No, not really. Just couldn't resist).

5- Neither. Depends on the figure. Some women look better in two piece, especially if they've got the toned mid-section for it. Others, particularly those more endowed in the chest, tend to look better in a one-piece that draws more attention there.

6- Nope. Horror movies are fine, but I've never been a huge fan of them. If it's a movie date, then that means it's further along in the daring cycle and we've established that we have similar interests. So it'll be something nerdy, because I don't date women who don't share the same interests.

7- Nope.

>>22843252
This

>>22843363
The question also works for muslim/catholic, muslim/jew, catholic/jew, and all other religions

>>22842438
(You can probably fit all these posts into one post you know?)

1) Both? I mean, I overwhelming prefer more meaningful/deeper talk, but you cannot have that ALL THE TIME. Sometimes it's nice to just shoot the shit and talk about silly things. And yes.

2) Like, first? I've dated a lot of people that I wasn't friends with first - we hopped right into stuff. That being said, I think if your partner isn't your friend in *some* fashion, that's .. Weird?

3) Yes. The majority of my friends are female. That being said, I also sleep with and have slept with a shit ton of my friends. It doesn't mean we aren't friends though.

4) Depends on the ex's. Some yes, some no. The two most recent major ex's are pretty fucking problematic.

5) Just being social. I am non-monogamous, so I am not 'on the hunt' for anything - it's a matter of how we connect and if there's chemistry. If there's anything I am looking for right now it's in context of I direly want a ... Pet. So I tend to lean towards masochists at the moment, and I am attempting to find a lady for a partner of mine.

>>22842449
Depends on how they ended. Time heals wounds, yadda yadda. I've slipped out of big serious relationships and been fine because I had closure; versus the last major relationship I have absolutely no closure over and it's absolutely fucking hell on my head. Super super super super fucking hard to move on from. SO. HEY. That's a tricky question.

- Do I believe in monogamy? Yes. Do I practice it? No. Just because I don't follow that route doesn't mean monogamy doesn't exist, or that it doesn't work for a whole lot of folk.

- Cheating is breaking the relationship contract. That contract can be fairly fluid. A good rule of thumb is if you have to hide it from a partner, or haven't talked about it first, don't do it .

>>22843363
I would struggle to take the religious person too serious at start but if the overall chemistry works, it's not a huge deal. As long she wouldn't try to convince me, I wouldn't bother to convince her and just treat it like ice cream preference in the long run.

(Fuck the plebs, who still didn't accept the superiority of banana + choco)

>>22843363
Ok, here's the deal with different religions in a relationship...

It SHOULD NOT matter, but that is rarely the case because so many people are pushy, or zealots to their faith. If both sides are cool, and don't push their fucking views on other people, then it is never a problem. But if they're going into it thinking "My beliefs are correct, and I must cram them down their throat and teach them the errors of their heretic ways", then it will NEVER work out.

I've dated Atheists, Mormons, Wicans, Christians, and many more that I never bothered to find out what they believed. I myself was raised Lutheran, and I'm largely agnostic these days, but I believe the Budhists are on to something. Maybe I just avoid pushy religious types, or self-righteous asshats. But it has never been a problem in any of my relationships (although I've seen it be a problem for others).

>>22842529
What do you mean by adding? I've a number of lesbians on my facebook; they just are cool people. If it's in context of hitting on, I just kind of compulsively flirt at all times - so it's an eye rolling poking fun at our interaction kind of thing; though I know a LOT of dudes apparently hit on lesbians with the assumption they have the 'golden phallus' that will 'cure' their lesbianism, because 'they just haven't been fucked right'.

>>22842657
Go get therapy.

>>22843248
Just ask your partners before hand. Some will hate the idea, some will just shrug as long as its not in their eyes or hair, and others will revel in it and play with it.

>>22843256
>>22843208
Agreed. I like to have the same sense of humor because I'm a bit of a glorious bastard, but I am indifferent if we have the same hobbies - we don't need to do EVERYTHING together (nor should we), and exploring new things is awesome.

Actually have a question for once,
For the women.
If a big(as in well hung) guy accidentally goes too deep and hits cervix. Does it completely kill the mood from pain or if youre horny enough do you keep at it?

In conjunction do you continue because of some kind of obligation or because you want?

Best way a guy can avoid plowing cervix?(especially if the girl is also getting into it and pushing back on me)

What are your thoughts if your partner makes you cum but you cant make him?(not because of any type of impotency)

What the fuck do yall talk about in bathrooms and at sleepovers?

>>22843258
Mm-hm. Preach it!

>>22842672
>I don't think you're in the right thread anon
Then what thread should I ask in? I'm asking damaged girls where they hang out.

>>22843403
>Go get therapy.
I've been seeing therapists by my own admission since 2013. My new therapist said I'm too fucked up for PTSD therapy. Believes if I become overwhelmed I'll go psychotic

>>22843416
Not a girl, but I can answer a bit of that.

Some women really love the feeling of being "filled up", when you plow into their cervix. A lot don't. And some are indifferent, or just want you deep without it hurting too much. It all depends, on the girl, really. I have found though that if they really enjoy the feeling of being filled up, and slamming into their cervix feels good for them, then they'll push back and grind down hard(er). For whatever reason, I've noticed this more with redheads... For girls who are more sensitive, and don't enjoy the feeling, they will usually let you know if you're going uncomfortably deep.

Having them on top is also a good way to figure out what they like through observation. If they're trying to support themselves up, and are focusing more on in and out movements, then try not to bottom out on them. If they like grinding down on you as hard as they can, then box the hell out of that cervix unless they say otherwise.

>>22843416
>What the fuck do yall talk about in bathrooms and at sleepovers?
Same stuff we talk about anywhere relatively private, basically.

>>22843256
Not necessarily ALL the same hobbies, or even the majority, but you have to at least have a few things you can do together other than the stuff you do just to be together.

>>22842679
>rural England

>>22843506
Well, time to move south if you want to improve your chances for a crazy abused qt. Although relationships with both partners with such issues are unlikely to work, the crazy will multiply and all.
You're better off with a stable, empathetical qt. Possible somebody who studied psychology and everything.

>>22843468
This is where the different hobbies come in, no need to love activity X to enjoy doing it with your partner. It's more about the willingness to attempt different shit than sharing passion for same stuff IMO. Also cooking!

>>22843531
>time to move south
I live in the South West

Hopefully moving to Manchester sometime

>Although relationships with both partners with such issues are unlikely to work, the crazy will multiply and all
I'm not that crazy, just lonely. A girl who understands and relates is better than someone who wouldn't. And I'd be there if she got a little crazy.

>You're better off with a stable, empathetical qt. Preferably who studied psychology
Doubt any sane girl, especially one with a degree would date someone with issues

>>22843599
>I live in the South West
Ah, damn, I guessed it would be something north of Newcastle.

>A girl who understands and relates is better than someone who wouldn't. And I'd be there if she got a little crazy.
Focus on a little. Doubt it would be that easy and if you're not perfectly stable yourself, dealing with her shit would be pretty tasking for you. Shit, it's hard for perfectly stable people too.

>Doubt any sane girl, especially one with a degree would date someone with issues
Depends on your other qualities and you don't sound too bad, at least going by few posts.

>>22843599
That doesn't really sound like you're wanting a relationship, you're just offering codependency.

>>22843441
Glad to hear you're seeing therapists. Have you been looking into/receiving medication as well?

>>22843416
Dude here and all, but it's going to be massively dependent. I'm not going to go jumping about saying I'm well hung, but I've ended up slamming the cervix of a LOT of folk - there are some women I know who get off on it hardcore; one of my partners will slam myself against her cervix till she's bleeding .. But the majority of women tend to equate it to being punched in the gut, with the accompanying bruising and pain and being popped out of the mood.

There are those who can be horny enough that they'll enjoy it, and hey, it's generally a good idea to get your partner as worked up as possible .. Buuuut yeah. Don't count on it. I would say try to avoid doing it as much as possible unless you explicitly know your partner wants it.

Best way to avoid it is to just control your penetration depth. If she's pushing back it gets a bit harder and all, but don't thrust all the way inside of her - focus more on how deep you're actually entering her.

>>22843876
>Depends on your other qualities
I don't have many other qualities

>>22843888
>Have you been looking into/receiving medication as well?
Not diagnosed with anything, there is 'nothing' for meds to treat

>just offering codependency.
Where do I find a girl who relates to me. Reee

Might as well give up

>>22843403
>What do you mean by adding?
Things like hookup threads where I state I'm lesbian on this board mainly, but ppl messaging on OKC too and stuff

>>22843996
Oh. I have no fucking idea for this board; I pretty much just end up haunting the question threads, occasionally giving advice in the dating advice threads, and when bored checking out what the nudes are. I've never gone into the hookup threads.

I'm going to assume, knowing this board as little as I do, it's desperate people reacting to the fact you're female more than anything else .. Or people deciding that they can 'fix' you.

But probably just desperation.

As for OKC; I'm curious if many of those messages were *good* messages that actually showed they read your profile in any way shape or form? A lot of dudes seem to try to 'shotgun' approach dating sites by messaging a copy/paste thing to EVERY SINGLE WOMAN POSSIBLE.

Though I am amused because unless you have looking for men, they are specifically filtering for women looking for men AND women.

>>22844011
Yeah it reeks of desperation, the ones who add me on the hookup threads usually have not read anything I've posted in my post, and I have filtered out anyone except girls who like other girls and I still get those messages on OKC

Why cant i get gf

>>22844069
What do you bring to the table in a relationship.

>>22843996
OKC is terrible, regardless of which side of it you're on. Girls can expect todal waves of shit-tier spam. And guys can expect the most well thought out message getting buried under said tidal wave of spam. Which leads to desperation, which leads to opting for quantity of e-mails sent out over quality, which leads to more spam.

In short, fuck OKC. Nothing good come from it, unless you're really lucky.

>>22844110
Eh, as a dude I found OKC pretty damned useful. Maybe it's just my area is less population dense, but I wrote legitimate messages and had a pretty good rate of reply.

The spam is definitely a huge fucking issue, and it's dudes shooting themselves in the foot.

I'm bored, I'll give an open question to men and women:

- What do you wish the opposite gender understood about your gender.

- Conversely, what do you find super confusing about the opposite gender.

For women:

Don't you feel the need to have sex with a hot guy you just meet? Because it happens to guys with hot girls they meet.

>>22844167
Guys answer:

I wish women understood that men do NOT get "hints". We just don't. Go right over our head. Be honest and straight with us.

I wish I understood why girls say one thing one day then another the next
Example: "you told me you didn't have feelings for me any more, did you mean it?"
"If I meant it would I be texting you now?"

Next day
"Just answer me straight yes or no. Do you have feelings for me?"
"No."

For the girls: After you've had sex, how long does it feel normal for the guy to stay in you after he's blown his load? How long is too quick to get out, and how long is too long?

>>22844179
No
>>22844069
Because you're unattractive

>>22843416
Can't answer on the cervix thing because it's never happened to me, but I'm a wuss and have a really low pain tolerance in general so any kind of pain or discomfort no matter how slight is an instant turn off to me. I would assume if it did happen to me it would kill the mood. I'm not huge on penetration though to begin with. I get little out of it.
>What are your thoughts if your partner makes you cum but you cant make him?
I'm relatively inexperienced with sex, I've only had 1 partner, but I would feel kinda insecure/guilty if I couldn't make my dude cum. Train of thought would be "Is it because I'm inexperienced and don't know what I'm doing, am I just really that bad at this?"
I was giving my ex a handjob once and he just like went flaccid in the middle of it, had no clue what happened and felt pretty bad like I did something wrong. He assured me that wasn't the case, it was just that was the second time we were going at it in too short a time period I guess. Still not a great feeling though.
>>22844179
I don't lol. I've never been a random hook up type chick before. I've been considering oral hook ups maybe, but I've never really based my decision to actually fuck a guy on his appearance. I'm more concerned if the dick going inside me is attached to a psycho or not. Pretty face holds nothing on crazy.

One can a guy tell if he is attractive? I always have had girls tell me so but I feel like its them just saying it. I get "high" rates on here if that means anything. But I never really see random girls I walk by make eye contact with me or like try to make small talk with me when I'm in line or something. Help?

>>22844381
I'm not a psychic so I can't really answer a question that specific, but I have a pretty good feeling it's a matter of body language. If you're hunching your shoulders, looking at the ground, keeping your hands in your pockets, etc. it's not really gonna matter how attractive you are.

>>22844381
For what it's worth, I don't think a lot of girls will make the first move, at least that's what I've seen. If you get high rates where its all anon and few give a shit about hurting your feelings, I'd say you're probably a decent looking guy. Of course some raters on 4chan try to be nice, but I don't think many lie too much. If you're still concerned knock 1-1.5 off your average.
But I think its mostly that its not as socially acceptable for girls to make first contact. Try going to them and gauge their reactions. If they seem uncomfortable or try to end the conversation quickly, you're giving them bad vibes which could be personality or physical appearance. If they welcome you to talk to them and keep it going, they're into you.

>>22838380
not a girl. But I had a GF with moles like that. I never really noticed and neither did anyone else. Basically non-issue. Also, I'm mirin your bod, no homo

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GIRLS:
what signs give away that a boy is a virgin
what signs give away that a girl is a virgin

>>22844606
There's nothing definitive.

Although, fun fact, you can tell when a straight guy gets into a serious relationship when he gets new boxer shorts. Not terribly practical in day-to-day life, but uncannily accurate.

>>22844606
He bitches about being a virgin.

>>22844658
implying I would ever say that. have boys told you that irl?!

>>22844682
They never implied that you say that. You asked a general question; and that makes it super fucking easy to tell that a dude is a virgin.

>>22844682
Not a chick but I know quite a few girls and therefor their view on this, and unless you point it out (preferably all the time and make sure that they get how insecure you are) it's not something you can tell.

Guys who swim in pussy can do the same embarrassing shit a virgin would and the opposite is just as possible. Your fucking brain is wired for fucking, hundreds of thousands of years of evolution just so you can bust a nut, as long you don't try to re-act the scenes from your favourite porn clip, you'll be fine.

>>22844743
This.
Don't act like an autistic fuck around pussy and girls won't even question it. If you're really bad I might wonder, but being shit in bed isn't strictly a virgin thing. So there is no way a grill can tell unless you advertise the fact that you are a virgin.

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Ladies, how is my hair game?

>>22845327
Did you just take this picture from a Loreal commercial?

Like, damn, son. I'm not too proud to admit I am jealous of that hair.

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Girls.

What is the response you expect from "Does this make me look fat?"

>>22845410
Ty anon <3

>>22845444

The look of terror at a trap successfully laid upon unsuspecting prey?

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>>22833488

>>22841658

1) Simple. I like coffee as a first date. It's my go to. Simple, public, and noncommital. I don't feel there is any pressure on either side to stick it out for either party over coffee like there is on something planned like a trip, or a dinner at a restaurant.

2) I cannot answer this, I never did. When I doodled I did tribal designs. Lots of curves and sharp ends, did it for years and still kind of do. Don't know why.

>>22841830

3) So what? There are people that sleep with cuddle pillows. When I owned pets they would sleep on the bed with me because I liked the comfort their presence brought.

4) No. I don't get that. Why would someone want to name their Cock?!

5) Doesn't matter to me. Depends on the girl. Bikinis can be really nice on the slimmer girls because they fit a bit better and show off the whole body. Which is sexy as hell. If they're larger then a one piece can be nice because it binds everything together and flatters the figure. That all said... it depends on the girl. If she has a solid body she can rock either or with equal deliciousness.

6) What is this? I'm confused? Horror movies are funny as fuck to me so I don't really see the point. Is it so that the girl will get scared and want to cuddle up against her Big Strong Man (tm)? If that's the case, maybe, but only if she suggested to go see the Horror Movie itself.

7) No. Thank fuck. I've gotten pictures of some dude's girlfriend one time from a dude that wanted me to know what I thought of her. I was annoyed. I don't want to see anyone's girlfriend, don't give a shit. What is it with guys from here wanting to share pictures of their girlfriend?

>>22845444
the truth because I'm not stupid and petty enough to ask that question just for the purpose of asspats from my boyfriend.

Guys:

what are the sexiest panties you prefer?

>>22845444
Fat :c

>>22845327
on point

>>22844606
maybe nerves? idk thats a hard one

>>22844167
I wish men wuold realize how terrible periods are..and also, how do you deal with your penis? seems like it would be a bother

>>22844069
possibly posting here

jk :p just be confident?

>>22843416
it hurts pretty bad, but nothing a good hair pull and slap on the ass to lighten the mood

>>22846449
Whatever compliments your shape. Good lingerie comes in a hell of a lot of different forms, and it's hard to argue with good lingerie.

>>22846470
A bother?

Dealing with penis requires no work; versus dealing with discharge, periods, higher rates of utis, yeast infections, yadda yadda. Keep in mind that mens clothing has room for said penis, and underwear tends to keep it in a more or less restricted area - so it stays in a comfortable spot, and clothing has room to allow it.

>>22846536
Yeah I wasn't comparing them haha, but you're right,

>>22835554
seriously, if its in person just walk up and say hello, and introduce yourself. If online quirky questions are a good go. You might get turned down a bit but honestly its worth giving it a shot because eventually someone great will respond positively :)

>>22835649
she might have decided she not interested but doesnt want to be rude and drop conversation, if she doesnt initiate it and she only replies with short sentences or whatever, its probably best to keep looking elsewhere. if she turns down being asked out for coffee 3 times, shes never planning on going out with you.

>>22837955
say hello, with a nice smile. if she turns away or doesnt try to make conversation easily shes probably not interested and it looks creepy to keep pushing. if you aren't ready to (or they are out with friends or something) to have a convo in person, its always good to say hello, introduce yourself, compliment her (e.g. I saw you from across the room, you look really lovely in that shirt blah blah) and ask for her number. if she gives you a fake one then keep looking. you should be looking for someone who is interested back, not wasting time trying to force people to be attracted to you. wishing you the best xx

>>22838209
you're gorgeous don't stress about your moles!! they actually look hella cute

>>22838480
no you're totally fine, especially if its not a one-night stand. if she loves your personality, she not going to give a shit, honestly. and if its a dealbreaker for her, shes not worth your time and you should keep looking xx

>>22838689
nope! especially if there is a reason, like focusing on a career, didn't want a relationship at the time etc. its not a big issue at all xx

how do you get a partner to initiate dirty talk? (girl asking guys)

>>22845444
if you're serious, the best thing to say is "you look gorgeous, like always" or something like that. when girls ask, its just because they are feeling insecure and want to know that you think they look good in what they're wearing. saying "you look fine" is a big no no. only use words upwards of fine e.g fantastic amazing etc. sounds so dumb but legit it will work

>>22846658
How well do you know them? You could give them some obvious leading lines or just straight up say "talk dirty to me."

what do girls really think of chubby/overweight guys?

>>22846658
Communicate. That's how you solve 99% of all problems in a relationship.

>>22846449
Boyshorts.

>>22846674
If you're funny, smart, or rich, I'll let it slide, but do believe I'll think of a sexy as tight bodied man every time I have sex with a lard ass.

>>22846658
Very easily in most cases.

As far as sexting or cybersex is concerned, a simple ;) emoticon will probably enough to get them to make a suggestive comment of some sort, and then a positive response from you to that (i.e. an even more suggestive reply) and you're probably away. If that doesn't work, just tell him that you're horny and don't want to get off alone and again, should do the trick.

If you're doing it in person, suggestive comments, dirty smile, suggestive wink. Ask him what he wants from you and so on, throw dirty comments his way that demand response (questions, comments on how good it feels, etc.), however, this does come with the warning that once you get to the actual fucking, he may well loose the ability to string a sentence together or turn his mind to the actual fucking rather than the dirty talking, even if you're dirty talking to him. In that case, you're going to have to talk with him afterwards, let him know that you really enjoy dirty talk during sex and get him to agree to try harder next time.

For the guys: would you like to hear about the girl's locker room?

>>22847001
Isn't it just girls asking each other about their periods?

>>22847001
This is a kinda related question, us girl talk the same with male gay friends? Like exactly the same or is it different because even if he's fay he's a guy?