Stop whining and deal with it.

I'm older than you and I'm a virgin, I've never even felt a vagina or held a girls hand.

I wish I had your problems.

It's time you be a man and do the right thing. If you're not interested in marrying her then you need to let her go so she can find someone that wants to marry her. Keeping it going only makes it worse for both of you in the end.

Also, your dream job will come around again and if it doesn't well that's kinda how life works. I didn't grow up as a kid wanting to be a machinist when I got older but I am now and it's fun and I get paid well. Life's how you deal with the bad things that happen to you not the good.

>>22771892
It's not so much that I'm flat out not interested in marrying her. At the moment, it's not something I'd want with anybody, my current job can barely sustain myself.

At some point in the future I might be in a better position to get married, but that time isn't now.

>>22771895
Why are you on here explaining that to us instead of her?

>>22771902
This as many times over as possible, unless you've already explained this to her and she us just that desperate to get married she doesn't listen in which case you still leave but only this time it's because she's crazy.

>>22771902
I have explained that to her, problem is she still wants it regardless of neither of us being in a position to enter into that kind of thing.

>>22771875
Its pretty much always easier on you if you just be honest man so just be honest

Real talk, she's damaged goods OP.

You tell her if she keeps pushing this shit she's going to push you away. Do NOT rush into marriage. Wait until like 30+ to even think about that, you've got so much more to learn before you should even think about marriage.

Just tell her you don't want to marry her, but you don't want to brake up with her also. If she doesn't understand it, then brake up with her for being so selfish and needy.

>>22771920
That much I already know. I've told her many times I don't want to even consider it till after I've got myself into a stable career.

>>22771909
She's desperate to have someone to cling to dude. She thinks that marriage is a cure all for not being alone. That is something you need to get away from, she's probably pretty needy and clingy too I'm betting. Shit gets old quick lemme tell you. It's gonna suck for her and you but if she's not listening to reason now imagine it later on in life.

On a side note since this is /soc/ is she hot?

>>22771924

Then yeah, like everyone is saying, abort that shit. She sounds like she's crazy enough to poke holes in your condoms or trying to get knocked up so that she ties you down with a kid, then your life is really shot.

Marry her and have kids with her. It doesn't matter if you don't have the best job.

Having kids in your 20s is the best time to, if you wait until your 30s or 40s you might miss your chance and any woman you get will be too old to reproduce. A 35 year old woman makes worse babies with higher chance of birth defects than a 14-30 year old, when you're supposed to be having kids.

You're lucky to have a girl that likes you and would stick with you. Ungrateful shit.

>>22771925
That describes her pretty well, yeah. And that's part of my thinking in wanting to wait, for her to mature for one and see if her way of thinking changes, cause at the moment it's just rushing in without thinking.

I certainly think so.

>>22771875

You could literally make this girl your pet/sub and you're whining about it? I'm so fucking ashamed of you pal.

>>22771935

I want to think you're trying to be funny but you actually put effort into typing that out.

Virgin beta plz go

If just talking to her after a year is annoying you now, think of how it will be later down the track. Seems like you guys just want completely different things, and if she's not willing to compromise, then maybe you're just not right for each other.
Personally i would end it ASAP.

>>22771938

Like the other poster said, not too long from now she's going to rig the birth control either poking holes in condoms, not taking her pill or whatever to get a kid and then you're locked in and might as well give up.

Also, don't make her your slave, that type of shit is only fun so long. It gets tiring after a while, and don't listen to the others about being ungrateful. Trust me, I literally just separated from my wife of 17 years. We got together in our teens. You need time to figure out who you are, you grow as a person more in your 20s and early 30s than you ever do as a teen. Once you get a solid job and know who you are and what you eant is when you should start thinking about marriage.

>>22771935

This post reeks of divorced 40 something year old single woman that got cheated on. How many cats do you have?