>geting married in the 21 century
Can someone tell me the pros and cons of geting married. My family is preasuring me into marriage. I'm 22 years old. Because of that I broke up with my ex.
>>80944882
The fuck? You're 22 years old. Establish your career and then marry if you want to. Tell your parents to fuck off until otherwise.
>>80944882
It varies by country op look into laws and local's personal stories.
>>80944923
That's what happens when you raise multiple generations of women with the "only the very best is just good enough for you" slogan.
>>80945216
I:
>own a house
>still a student (history)
>parents live in another city
>>80945233
I just finished with my exams, do you really think that after reading reading reading history books with 500 pages each that are boring as fuck I would be bothered to read a pdf of how marriege works in my country. Maybe in a month but not now.
As for personal stories, most go like this or most start like this... I was already married at your age boy...
>>80944967
>the reason is the lack of men willing to settle down
It's hilarious that they all spout this meme when it is really them who were unwilling to settle down.
These women often had multiple partners throughout life and a good amount of them would have been willing to settle down - yet they decided to ditch them because they had this vague feeling that they could do better (they can't).
You can also see it in the fucked up marriage laws we have nowadays that turn marriage into a complete non-commitment
>can initiate divorce at any point
>alimony laws will most likely leave her better off financially than if she had never married at all
>don't even need to be loyal because there is no punishment for cucking your partner
The problem isn't that there aren't any men willing to commit, the problem is that they themselves are unwilling to commit and thus make demands almost no one is willing to fulfill so they can blame everyone else but themselves for staying single.
And when they do happen to stumble across someone who is willing to put up with their shit they just ditch them for some vague reasons because even with the fucked up marriage laws they still are too afraid of going through with it, even though it should be a no-brainer.
These women are getting exactly what they have been asking for
>>80944882
>Can someone tell me the pros and cons of geting married
Pros: NONE. Absolutely none, except if for example she's a foreigner and she would be thrown out of the country otherwise.
Cons: Loads.
>>80945305
>only the very best is just good enough for you
>>80945691
I'm getting married in just under a year to a girl I've been with for over 2 years. The more I think about it, the more I'm torn. Get married and be chained down with the responsibilities of manhood, or stay single and be unstoppable money making and pussy slaying machine. Loneliness got me into this relationahip, I feel like it would grip me again if I chose the latter.
>>80945792
>>80945768
>I'm getting married
Good luck
>>80944882
Pros:
Cons: Everything
>>80944882
you should not marry at 22 because if you have kids at 23 your life would be boring as fuck.
try marrying in your late 20s. thats still pretty young imo, but you said marriage works there so, i guess its not that bad.
>>80945792
Try reading this. If you think she can do something like that... well you know the answer
>>80945792
You don't have to be married to start a family with a woman. Beware that in some countries you can still get the 'divorce' treatment if you part ways even if you're not married though.
>>80945792
>Loneliness got me into this relationahip
Honestly, if you are at the point where you are admitting to yourself that the only reason you are with your partner is because you couldn't find anyone else marriage does not sound like a good idea.
Modern marriage is basically a voluntary blackmail. You have to be 100% bonkers to engage willingly in one.
>>80944967
desperation is just not very sexy
>>80946102
>I was drunk
How does that change anything? Being drunk doesn't change your character, it just makes you drop inhibitions.
>>80945792
Don't do it lad, you're a clapper so watch Divorce Corp as it's highly relevant to your country.
The system will screw you, the system encourages your wife-to-be to screw you. If you have a kid (even if you don't want one you can't ensure she won't skip a pill) then you are literally stuck paying alimoney and child support for 18 YEARS, possibly longer on the alimoney.
I'm getting married to a DD tits cutie I've been with for over 2 years now and I'm not falling for the "don't marry, don't breed white man" kike trap.
>>80946102
if anything, this just warns you about bachelorette parties.
you can get married but you have to delay it.
the men who say
"i was married at your age"
are just trying to get back at the world by bringing more men into suffering as early as they have.
>>80946250
It's kind of funny how they paint themselves as over achievers who stick out among their peers and are highly intelligent, yet they do not even understand the most basic aspects of social interaction.
Though I guess that could be due to them being women and thus never having to learn how to woo someone during their youth.
>>80946328
sounds like a cuck in the making
This is a thread of frustrated virgin fedoras. Once you find the right girl and fall in love, you start to think differently. I know from experiance.
>>80946328
If you cheat it's your fault.
If I cheat it's your fault too.
>>80946328
I'm always amazed how these posts start off with the guy explaining in detail why his relationship is unsalvageable. And then asking for tips how to save it.
>>80946683
>in the making
He even said he's alright with her fucking other guys, just not with him being left out on it.
>>80946730
Sure thing reddit.
>>80946730
Nah, most people in here just aren't underage and experiencing love for the first time.
>>80946102
Lots of brides-to-be have sex with strippers at bachelorette parties because the kind of women that have strippers at bachelorette parties are whores. If your fiancée is having a party with strippers, you've already fucked up in your decision to marry her.
>>80944882
Women still don't know what they want.
More news at 11.
>he hasn't taken the ultimate red pill and found a black milf gf
>>80944882
How did women get to be so successful?
>>80945768
SPAIN NO!
So much for being devout Catholics.
>>80945691
I know that fly trap
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks0GQ44xR4I
>>80946338
Yeah but we don't get to marry DD Agnieszka, Pawel.
>>80946495
More like it proves that the only way to prevent women from turning into degenerate whores is to literally lock them up.
Remember Aladdin? The girl was locked up by an overprotective father? It turns out he was right, the first chance there was some brown thief ("bad boy") started fucking her.
>>80946316
Being drunk is ABSOLUTELY NOT AN EXCUSE YOU CHOSE THIS for men
Being drunk is YOU ARE A VICTIM for women
>>80944882
>He isnt entitled to alimoney because he isnt a woman.
And this is why stay-at-home-dad is a stupid thing to do. Theres no financial or government aid in case she ditches you and fucks up your life forever.
Try doing that to a girl (as a man) and she is forever entitled to your earnings as tho the two of you are still married.
Libcucks BTFO.
>>80946328
This guy sounds like a massive beta. He was always just a place holder until she found someone better. Sounds like he and his fiancée were just room mates by the end and he didn't even notice.
>>80946944
They are allowed to advance for free in most western countries.
>>80946061
>because if you have kids at 23 your life would be boring as fuck.
The sentiment of an 18 year old right here
>>80946730
Bait. It's now statistically likely that if you marry a girl, she'll divorce you.
>>80947124
> He isnt entitled to alimoney because he isnt a woman.
Meanwhile, in civilized countries, this isn't a thing. Gender doesn't matter in regard to alimony and it would be retarded due to faggots having kids.
>>80946328
>>80947245
Also statistically likely that if you are born, you will die. So how about not getting born?
>>80947258
>>80947336
Who here /wantedtogetmarried/ but has since changed their minds?
At the back of my mind, I always thought I'd get married one day with a nice gal, settle down in a place and have some kinds. A pupper. The good life.
But it was around 17 when my gf cucked me with her old bf that I got super depressed and started hanging out on /r9k/. It was there I learned how shit a deal marriage is for guys now.
Two years later, I've come to the conclusion that I'll probably have throw away gfs til I die.
>>80947255
In your case your taxes pay for her free meals from Khalid's welfare payments
>>80947359
>>80947434
>>80947303
>American logic
>>80947359
Fucking this. Jesus
>>80947517
>>80947627
>>80944882
ITT: we diagnose the fall of white families
>>80947664
>>80947258
>within 2 days she is blowing up my phone waning to know why I defriended her
Gives a good impression of how much of a beta he must have been even before she started openly cucking him.
Though I do want to believe those stories are just from guys having a giggle making it up. How could any remotely sane person think that he would come back to her after that?
>>80946129
Its not that I couldn't find anyone else, I can have anyone I want, because genetics were kind to me. What I'm saying is that I always wanted to feel love and not just be a fuckboy. But now that I'm in a successful relationship and the realities of spending the rest of my life with one person starts to set in, it makes me miss being an unstoppable bachelor.
>>80947781
>>80944882
>My family is preasuring me into marriage. I'm 22 years old.
stop lying
>>80947858
>>80947883
>>80947905
>>80947389
Personally I feel I'm doomed to a marriage that ends in disaster and when the time comes there won't be much I can do about it.
My mother is always pressing me about grandchildren, I don't think she understands that it's statistically likely that they'll be torn from her life at some point.
But I am weak when it comes to the female pussy trap and will probably get married once I have the finances for it
I just pray I get lucky
>>80945792
>Loneliness got me into this relationahip
yeah you really sound like a pussy slaying machine
>>80945768
Fuck divorce man, it's like it's nothing now
>>80947939
That's al I got lads.
I know /pol/ scorns MGTOW because tradionitional values etc, but but it does exist for a rather convincing reason and is worth checking out just for the horror stories. It's not impossible to have a successful marriage in the West, but the odds are heavily stacked against men, the game is rigged from the start.
>>80947860
About what?
>>80948071
>tradionitional
How the fuck did I manage that, traditional.
>>80947940
Anon. Please. This is your buddy Anon speaking. Don't fucking do it. Don't willingly put yourself in such a shit situation. Instead of finding a girl to marry, find one who's fine NOT being married. Think about it, outside of a few gov't benefits, what do you get from a wife that you couldn't get from a gf without far less risk?
>>80948114
no male under 30 is being pressured into marriage here.
hell, it's normal to live with your parents or study until that age.
>>80947905
>>80944967
is this fake? please be fake.
>>80944882
I'd rather stay alone that be married or even get into a relationship with a girl that annoys me or is being a bitch all the time. two friends of mine are with two absolute soul eating, nagging bitches and I can watch them slowly dying from the inside. I met two girls in my life that were amazing, but in the end it didn't work out. I keep looking for a girl that I can live with and that is on my level, but until then I prefer being alone and fucking bitches one time or another.
>>80944967
The author doesn't know what circumstance means.
>>80947905
If this isn't cause for murder i don't know what is
>>80945633
John Green tried to warn us all.
>>80947940
i dont understand parents like this.
why do they have to force you to marry?
wtf?
but it is quite common in asian countries, but i loathe it.
WTF
why should you be forced to marry when you are not ready and suffer because of a bad impulsive decision later?
if anything marriage makes love die because of the pressure it puts on the couple.
>>80947940
I'd be weak too, with those Korean broads. Are they really that bad, or are they Americanized to shit at this point?
>>80944882
>MFW female spaghetti story threads
>>80948235
I don't live in a city anon. I come from Puconci (Prekmurje), it's different here than in Maribor, Celje, Ljubljana or Koper. Lot's of old people and very few young ones. Those who don't go to study either take over the farm or help around with other chores.
>>80947883
yes, good goy, avoid those sloppy women and don't produce any children
>>80944882
I feel ya.
My mother is angry that she doesnt have a squealing little larval stage human containing some of her genes on her lap whenever I visit.
Like, I've served in the military through 3 combat tours and am the first in our family to begin earning a bachelors, but somehow none of that matters because according to society your life is not complete until you reproduce.
>>80948395
>Puconci
lel instantly saw PUCCI
>>80948395
are there qt hungarian girls?
>>80944882
There is absolutely no benefit to a man to get married. The marriage contract is not an actual contract, it is the relinquishing of the man's rights - including that disputes in dissolution will be handled by a Family Court judge.
The Family Courts exist to preside over divorce for the very reason that the marriage 'contract' in not a valid contract. For a contract to be valid, it must show consideration to both parties.
DON'T. FUCKING. DO. IT.
You have been warned.
>>80948376
This. This is making an insane amount of sense.
>>80948565
Define the word "girl"
>>80948409
>don't avoid the sluts
For what purpose?
>>80948565
Not here, but they are only 30 away ;) Sadly their language is like mine to yours. You can't understand a word they are saying.
>>80948461
>according to society your life is not complete until you reproduce
a man reproduces. biologically speaking, it's the sole reason you're alive
>>80944882
If you ask me, one of the main reasons to get married, despite the risks, is to help rebuild the family unit to fix western society
>>80946924
Underated post.
>>80946931
>pic related
>>80947517
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ip7kP_dd6LU
>>80948171
I'm Canadian so it would become common law (marriage without the ceremony) anyways.
>>80948388
Mum's pretty traditional and started seeing my dad when she was 19. She doesn't understand not being able to "make it work"
>>80948391
They're a little boring personality wise and they mostly are after money it seems. They're not nearly as degenerate as white girls.
But I would say they're at least 50-60% 7's. They don't go beyond 9 as often but the average is higher.
I plan on going home in a couple years so long term here is out of the question thank God
>>80944882
>Can someone tell me the pros and cons of geting married
It's really awesome when it actually works and kids are great. Sure kids suck at first but once they get older they are cool.
>>80945489
>I was already married at your age boy...
yeah, my dad gave me this line too, you know what else he had at my age, a job that had a nice pay, affordable housing, a functioning school system, a girlfriend/wife that wasn't an utter materialistic slut, a growing economy, a government that didn't reign completely against the will of the people and wasn't entirely in the pocket of banks and multinational companies, also there wasn't a fifth column of openly hostile religious fanatics in the country and many many more of them descending on the country like locusts all backed by a weak and spineless government hostile towards the people.
It told him all that and more and then told him that he will see a grandchild when I find a woman that isn't complete trash and I can see a glimpse of a nice future, so he shouldn't hold his breath. Needless to say, thanks to several discussion like this, I am now known as that misanthropic Nazi guy among my family.
>>80948659
I'd hit it.
>>80947796
>How could any remotely sane person think that he would come back to her after that?
because modern women have the sanity brainwashed out of them by sex education. They honestly believe they can go be sluts and then have a happily ever after with a good husband, and then find out the hard way that no good man wants a slut.
>>80949003
Yeah, but then shed hit you back......
Im moving to hungary.
>>80949055
Cant make a ho a housewife.
Ther are good women out there. I mean I havent found any, but I havent lost faith that there is one somewhere.
Maybe I'll find her before I decide to shoot myself.
>>80944882
Pressure?
Try being all of these things, and then attend a conservative Christian church in the United States:
>Average looking.
>Not overweight.
>Work full time.
>Place of your own.
>No debt.
>Single, and never married.
>No children.
The pressure is BRUTAL, especially when you are the ONLY SINGLE MAN IN THE CHURCH and are constantly surrounded by dozens of now-divorced single mothers and other never-married women who see you as their last chance for happiness.
I have to say though, it really is an ego booster. Can't really say that I do not enjoy being looked at like a desirable piece of meat.
>>80947434
I recommend reading this, from my own experiences it's generally true.
>>80949084
enjoy living in a second world country where they aren't friendly to foreginers, fatty
>>80948376
Hehe, I like this Anon.
Genius reply.
>tfw going to be 27 in November
>Only child, family means a lot to my mom but dad died when I was young so I never had siblings & she never remarried
>She's always told me to wait till I'm older to start a family but now she's pushing me to have kids, last time she cried a bit because I sounded reluctant
>Want to have a familly, but secular women are fucking horrible today
I honestly want to brainwash myself back into religion just so I can find a pure girl who hasn't fucked her way around town. I'm also truly in one of the worst cities to find good girls.
Sorry I went /r9k/, I don't hate the female sex or have anger issues I just don't like how the future sounds. It just feels like life will get worse and I'll get older and uglier every year.
>>80949186
>>80949084
Due to the huge influx of tourists and a lot of Westerners living it Budapest the attitude towards foreigners (especially if you are white) has drastically improved in the recent years.
But if you want to get a qt traditional wife, I don't recommend our country, the majority of the young women are sluts here as well.
I feel like this video deserves viewing. It's what I think of every time I think about having a relationship of any kind with someone.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jltM5qYn25w
>>80948977
>you know what else he had at my age, a job that had a nice pay, affordable housing, a functioning school system, a girlfriend/wife that wasn't an utter materialistic slut, a growing economy, a government that didn't reign completely against the will of the people and wasn't entirely in the pocket of banks and multinational companies, also there wasn't a fifth column of openly hostile religious fanatics in the country and many many more of them descending on the country like locusts all backed by a weak and spineless government hostile towards the people.
schön gesagt.
>>80944882
There are literally no Pros in marriage
>>80944882
A girl I knew as teen had a stay at home dad. His wife got him a Toyota Celica and he delivered takeaways at night to earn his pocket money. Having some independence, with a shitty little job matters to women too.
>associating with people that associate with sex workers
Unless its some one working at rehabilitating them you're a degenerate.
>>80945768
Guys I think I'm marrying a potato nigger. I don't mind having a qt Celt gf
>>80946956
Dat was beautiful, anon. I never thought I'd see insects twerking.
Is that the official video?
>>80948409
t.Schlomo Goldstein from Goldstein&Abraham divorce shark lawyers.
>>80949507
>I don't mind having a qt Celt gf
>>80947883
Jesus christ thats fucked man
I didnt come here to feel this feel
>>80946931
milfs are only for humping and dumping
All these marriage threads make me almost paranoid. Then I remember here you can beat your wife moderately. State won't cuck you to pay for another guy's kid. And I won't loose any property if divorsed, not a ruble. Ah, motherland, I love you so much.
>>80949690
>All these marriage threads make me almost paranoid.
Paranoia is valid when the perceived threats are real.
>>80949690
Based russians.
I would move to your land, if it was warmer and i knew the language.
>>80947389
You're 19 m8. I've had shits longer than you've actually thought about your prospects in life. Get off r9k for your own good.
>>80944882
Wow.. what a bunch of salty losers over here.
Getting married is not a matter of WHEN or WHY. The real important thing is WHO are you getting married with.
Married my teen love when I was 22 and not regretting a bit of it. Dumping perfectly good girlfriend and marrying some random hoe in your 30's because you were "too young" or "muh career" is the stupidest idea ever
>>80947796
>How could any remotely sane person think that he would come back to her after that?
Women aren't sane. They think they deserve to have fun, and if they sleep around with other guys, it's either those guys' fault, the's situation's fault or - most of the time - actually her boyfriend's fault. In their mind, they themselves are never to blame, so of course they expect you to forgive them or even apologize to them.
To be fair, I'm sure this is some kind of instinct, as taking responsibility and admitting fault is risky for a woman due to her physical inferiority; she might get severely harmed if she does (or at least did in the stone age).
>>80949690
why would you wanna beat your wife? if she's a bitch or annoying, don't marry a nagging bitch. you got plenty of good girls in russia
>>80945768
>tfw parents are part of the statistic
>wife leaves househusband
>REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>husband leaves housewife
>ok
>>80949838
husbands dont ever leave tho
at least for white men it is statistically insignificant, especially religious ones
>>80947664
Ive got such a large revenge boner right now.
>>80949796
I have no doubt that you're probably right, and I don't hang out there as often as I used to. Tbh, I feel like I've sorta transitioned here.
But these thoughts do cross my mind occasionally, and when I'm in threads like these I seriously contemplate them. A lot of the guys I know, including my dad and cousin tell me marriage is a new meme.
>>80949838
>househusband
"men" like that don't deserve to live
>>80949838
>husband leaves home
/pol/ hates that though, just look at all the fatherless black households ruining this country.
>>80949826
Do people but guns because they wants to be killing people?
Its just nice being able to.
And besides the fact she cant just be a massive bitch to be just because i can hit back.
>>80949176
probably suspect you're gay
>>80945489
>own a house
Do you own it own it or does the ((((bank)))) own it?
Because if you own't it, you're off to a good start. Buying a house is the first goal any man's career should start with.
Just focus on your career and chicks will come naturally, unless you're repulsive.
>>80949826
You should be your wife once a week. If you don't know why - she does.
>>80949341
only difference between a secular girl and a religious girl nowdays is that one feels guilty about being a slut (or has a couple bastard kids because condoms are a sin or something)
>>80950106
Are you from the countryside?
Over here it's still pretty common in villages because even if the law protects them, they don't report it; different story with most couples in cities.
>>80949933
Life advice friend. Listen to yourself and temper those words with the opinions of others. Never forge your opinion around anyone else's thoughts but your own. It's not yours otherwise.
>>80949176
>The pressure is BRUTAL, especially when you are the ONLY SINGLE MAN IN THE CHURCH and are constantly surrounded by dozens of now-divorced single mothers and other never-married women who see you as their last chance for happiness.
Never go for a single mother. There's a chump for them somewhere.
>>80949606
She looks like a feminist.
>>80950239
I own it. It was given to me by my grandma after her death.
>>80944882
My dad married after almost three decades of fucking bitches, drinking and enjoying life.
I want to become a monk - he doesn't give a fuck.
There's no urgency really.
>>80950282
I will, Anon.
>>80950507
Si eu ma gindeam mai in gluma mai in serios la calugarie, dar nu cred c-ar fi de mine.
My realistic dream life would be to live alone somewhere in the countryside with as little human interaction as possible.
>>80944923
SUFFER
>>80950507
>the town rapist finally settled down
>>80950507
>I want to become a monk
wat
>>80947940
Anon I have been there. Married at 25 to a my uni sweetheart. Been together 7 years before the ceremony. Right after the ceremony she changed. Lost my house, son, 50% OF MY FUCKING PAYCHECK to that whore. I never see my fucking child. It makes me tear up every night, my own child hates me, she told him that I left her, for another woman. She cheated, initiated the divorce, told the court I hit her, I never laid A FUCKING FINGER ON HER. Fuck women.
>>80945768
> divorce highest where white women live
White women are shit
>>80945489
>student (history)
>history
>>80950666
kek
nice trips
Got a green text of my own
>be Marine
>joined with a fiance who left me
>string of unhealthy relationships follow
>extremley disgruntled, I meet a girl who changes my mind of course
>cute asian girl fresh off the boat with a student visa
>it was like the perfect relationship, she would cook me food on the weekends when I could visit, wanted to sew my uniforms, fussed over me and generally was a perfect traditional female companion
>goes on for about 8 months
>starts hanging with americanized 2nd generation girls, begins to act like a bitch
>suddenly, all of the work is my duty, and I end up on that typical treadmill of constantly having to provide/oversee/manage every one of her crises just to keep her from leaving.
>go to Iraq.
>she basically just goes feral and turns into a stereotypical college party bitch
>any objections I have to her behavior or company automatically results in accusations that I am just trying to steal her freedom
>guys begin showing up on her facebook being VERY forward
>notice she has deleted all pictures of us together and changed her relationship status to single.
>call it quits over a static filled phone call during my 30 minutes of phone time allowed per week.
>get home, feel kinda bad.
>dad gets sick, has surgery, cant work for a while.
>but i've been saving a few hundred per month from each paycheck in an emergency account, I offer to pay the bills while dad recovers (all family funds had been expended ppaying the medical bill so none left to pay for groceries n such during the 8 month recovery period)
>account is empty.
>call my bank up, they look at the files and say I need to come in to talk.
>"do you know who this (asian name) is?"
>That. Fucking. Whore.
>get idea
>call her to confront her
>she knows shes fucked, she was using my info she stole to transfer money to her account and my bank can prove it
>cue pregnancy claim
>cue chills down spine, instinctual reaction, I have nothing to fear
Contd...
>>80950823
those are the horror stories you always hear about
I honestly think that this ruins your live so severely, you should just leave the country and start a new life elsewhere
>>80950857
>spain
>white
>>80947359
kek
>>80950674
Yea I want to use my earthly life in service of universal orthodox Church - I'll just around 10 years each in different orthodox countries.
>>80950634
N-ar avea sens sa devi calugar daca nu esti Crestin. Exista si cazuri de calugari care sunt oameni esuati in viata, extreme dinatea, homosexuali, oameni care n-au o treaba - dar in general sunt de evitat manastirilea alea. Trebuie sa cauti - daca te duci te duci pentru ca sa te mantuiesti, nu pentru alt scop.
Citeste marturii din viata monahala - sau carti scrise de mari monahi si vezi ce viata predica, ce fel traiesc.
>>80950666
My dad worked as mercenary. After that he worked in television and gave half of Romania tv cable.
>>80950823
>>80950496
Nice. You'll be fine.
Upload pics
>>80949341
>tfw 31 and parents gave up on asking years ago
>>80951110
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ec04Qw3pt7o
>>80944882
Pros: none
Cons:
Lose money
Lose time
Lose energy
Lose double the money and property in case of divorce
Lose kids in divorce
If the divorce might be hard for her prepare to be added to the sexual offenders list if russia even has such a thing
>>80950953
Go on....
There is no reason to get married unless the woman plan to be a housewife.
That would be the only reason I'd ever get married.
>>80949799
>WHO are you getting married with.
Someone else than myself.
Nope, not worth it.
thanks atheists
>>80950953
i'm curious
>>80951346
>averageswedishwoman.jpg
>>80948844
>why have children with 105 IQ when you can have black ones with 85
Nah I'm good bruh
>>80948880
>this
so fucking this
>she ended up in a fucking psych ward
she couldn't take the fact that she was wrong
A good test to see if a woman is marriage material is to create a situation to where you are going to go homeless, and see if she's willing to go with you, or if she's gonna bail out.
If she's not willing to go homeless with you, and starts looking for other options that aren't extended to you, then she's not marriage material.
>>80947664
damn thats some old pasta
>>80951335
is she Indian or Latino cant fucking tell help me Sweden
>>80946730
Hi roastie
>>80951088
>daca te duci te duci pentru ca sa te mantuiesti, nu pentru alt scop.
De asta si ziceam ca nu-i de mine. Nasol e ca in punctul asta chiar nu stiu ce vreau de la viata. N-am vocatie de monah, dar in acelasi timp nici nu mai gasesc vreo valoare in majoritatea lucrurilor lumesti si incet, incet merg catre un ascetism/minimalism nihilist care ma tine intr-o stare de spirit la fel de proaste ca cea oferita de desfriu.
Asa ca fapt divers, am avut ocazia sa il vizitez pe Pr. Amfilohie la Diaconesti si un lucru care m-a marcat a fost acel sentiment de 'vesnicie' din curtea manastirii. In linistea si peisajul ala parca se oprise timpu-n loc. Cam in aceeasi vena cu "vesnicia s-a nascut la sat" a lui Blaga.
>>80947258
Fuck, I just Google searched for it and he's deleted the entire text. Pussy whipped fuck.
>>80950953
Continued
>go into full marine ass chewing mode
>"bitch, its been 9 months since I saw you, if you were pregnant youd be shitting it out it sometime tomorrow"
>all her neighbors are watching, mostly old korean ladies, this is much more exciting than thier soap operas
>shes freaking out, crying, all that
>inform her that I have called the foundation that pays her scholarships, who will be canceling thier payments of her tuition
>no school means no visa honey
>she throws a bunch of stuff from her purse at me, storms inside.
>bank presses charges (I hate banks, but this military bank was pretty cool, took care of everything for me)
>ICE cancels her visa, gives her 30 days to leave or she will be deported
>her dad finds out
>pays me back what she stole because he is afraid I will tell everyone and he will be known as that doshonored guy whose daughter is a thieving whore
>lol, but guess what, she wasnt lying about being pregnant
>its half mexican from one of the trashy house parties she was going to on my dime
>if you thought /pol/ was racist, you havent spoken to koreans
so yeah, she dropped off the radar after I trashed her life, I helped my folks out, dads doin alright again, I let him buy me a new rifle so he wouldnt have to feel bad about taking a loan from his kid, hes old fashioned and very prideful.
So yeah. long story short I hate women and am utterly terrified of getting into a major relationship ever again.
I know it was nowhere near as close a call as some, but what if I HAD knocked the bitch up?
I get stuck caring for an anchor baby and bestowing citizenship on some fucking cunt who stole the money I had spent 3 years saving specifically for family emergencies?
Like that would ever be a relationship that held together, soon as she was a citizen shed run with the kid and I would have to pay childsupport to a fucking thieving whore.
Fuck that.
>>80951641
god almighty that language
>>80951726
Keep in mind that I am writing without diacritics.
>>80950953
FINISH THE FUCKING STORY, MAN
>>80951518
If you become homeless you're a failure of a man and she should dump you though.
failing in one of the main duties of a man seems like a pretty stupid way to see if a woman will dump you or not
>>80946328
hahaha, I want to believe this is real.
How can someone be this blind?
>>80947258
Seems like trade schools has helped him become a man, hope he gets better friends.
>>80951621
latino
here have another
>>80951719
>>80951801
Shit happens. Just because you go homeless doesn't mean you stay that way. I was with a girl who stayed with me, even though she had other options. They weren't extended to me, so she lived out of a car with me, surviving off truck stop showers and ramen noodles for 6 months during a brutal winter.
I knew that if anything would get her to abandon me, it would be that.
>>80951719
good for you that everything ended well. but don't let your whole lovelife being ruined by some whore and hate women in general. there are also good ones out there, don't give up!
>>80951914
If a penis even gets within 3 feet of one of them they immediatley go into labour and birth triplets.
I just don't see what the fucking point is. You wait until some woman is nearing 40, post-wall, and desperate to get comfy now that she has spent the whole of her youth just feeling around, getting wasted, and having nsa sex with lots of hot guys. She's open to giving you time only then after you've established yourself and made your life decent and respectable.
I just don't see what the fucking point is. Somebody else can have it.
Even if it's about kids, I'd probably unwittingly raise kids that aren't mine because she'd cheat and carry the secret to the grave.
Why get married, honestly?
>>80944882
Just got married three weeks ago nigga. I'm 32. I married a 25 year old. DONT fucking get married now.
>>80951914
>she
>>80951719
>after I trashed her life
she trashed it herself by being a no-good thieving whore, but got on you for standing up for yourself, glad everything worked out alright
>>80944923
a maniac stalker
>http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2263518/I-left-love-life-I-thought-I-better-Now-Im-childless-42.html
>>80951458
No way I'd ever even consider marrying a Swedish woman.
They all have nigger AIDS and Arab syphilis.
>>80951914
The fuck is that through the window in the upper right?
>>80949838
>Husband leaves housewife
Less than 20% of divorces are initiated by men. Given that men are almost universally buttfucked by divorce courts no matted the economic situation of the household, they try to stick it out.
>>80946328
He deserves everything coming his way.
>She says she will "give me another chance" to show her that I love her.
How cucked can you be?
>>80949606
Yep. Ireland it is. Better start drinking and fighting and getting real good at those bants
>>80951914
>top right
wtf
>>80944882
Cons:
50% Chance you'll get divorced
70-80% chance woman will initiate divorce
>90% chance family court award her the kids
Divorce wont be because you abused her or cheated, it will because she's bored or wants better.
Almost certain she'll be awarded alimony
Almost certain you'll be paying child support
Almost certain she'll be awarded the house
There's zero help for men in this position in fact many asking for help are laughed at. Mens suicide rate post divorce shoots up to be about 11x higher than that of women.
If you get married knowing all of that, you're literally an idiot and deserve all the pain and suffering you will go through.
Pros:
Literally nothing
>>80952272
oh god
>>80952280
>husband cheats
>wife demands divorce
>what a fucking whore
>>80951641
Poate ar trebui sa te apuci de droguri?
Incepe cu marijuana - stare de euforie constanta, nu neaparat fericire doar asa o reverie.
Fumeaza putin si constant, altfel iti prajesti receptorii rapid prin supraexcitare si o sa ai nevoie din ce in ce mai mult.
Nu stiu ce sa mai spun - greu sa gasesti duhnovici, oameni care sa te invete de la 0 - in general gasesti doar in manatiri si daca esti si tu monah. Ca mirean in lume ia si citeste din scoarta in scoarta evangheliile.
Daca nu se leaga, nu merge cu forta - ramane sa-ti gasesti un sens la existenta fara sens. Drogurile ca si reactie chimica o sa-ti alunga depresia si suferinta dar o sa-ti genereze si mai multe iluzii despre viata.
Uite aici un om interesant:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_zxtRrvTXA
Nu stiu eu - nu vad ceva sfant in loc
>>80951726
It's latin base with lots of turkish and slav words lmao, and we used lots slang terms + it's meant to be pronounced with diacritics so it's much more melodic.
>>80949690
Just because your paranoid don't mean they won't divorce you.
>>80949838
Haha yeah /pol/ is totally cool with men abandoning a dutiful wife.
Nice meme.
>>80952396
Wtf are you on about, woman cheat more than men as they want alpha male and if their husband isnt one they are sometimes fucking alpha on side.
>>80952131
Well, GG Anon. Tell us how it all crashes and burns, will ya?
>>80952083
Meh, I deliberatley didnt talk about how I ended up leaving my 1st fiance, or any of the other fucked up relationships I had.
You know what the divorce rate is in the US Marines? 86 percent.
The absolutkey fucked up shit I have seen women do to men, not just to me, has utterly erased any respect I held for women. Men coming home from war to empty houses and empty bank accounts, kids being the wrong color, fuck one guys wife literally quit taking care of the kid and the government took it away while he was fighting a war and she sent him letters like everything was fucking fine.
I was raised very traditionally, women were these soft nurturing creatures you treated delicatley and cherished. That fucking image has been utterly wrecked for me.
Maybe its outdated and there really was a time women actually posessed the virtue worthy of the pdestal they stand on, but I doubt it.
I think its just an axaggerated image from a bygone era where things werent as bad as they are now, but nonetheless were never really all that great.
Im not trying to be an edgelord, I honestly just cant look at a woman without imagining her ripping my heart out and running off with my wallet anymore.
>>80951914
thanks bro I don't even care anymore if I met a cute girl like this I would say to hell with the white race I just turned 27 and I feel like I am getting too old to care
>>80952404
Eu am avut marele ghinion ca am fost crescut intr-o familie nepracticanta, asa ca inafara de un mers la biserica din an in Paste nu prea am avut parte de viata religioasa, iar acum nu prea ma simt in largul meu sa incep sa merg la biserica de unul singur si nici n-as sti cum sa-mi gasesc un duhovnic.
Who /waifu/here?
Been happily married since 2010!
>>80952493
Nigga please, I got a good one. You think I waited till I was 32 only to marry some whore? If it crashes and burns, it'll be because of me.
>>80950872
It's like being forced to watch the ride over and over again. History is a trip if ultimately useless for other than a teaching career
>>80952513
>You know what the divorce rate is in the US Marines? 86 percent.
>>80952591
>>80951518
Or hire some buff good looking guy to hit on her. You'll see if shes worth it
>>80952584
i feel you bro
26 here
life is suffering
>>80952641
I like how the definition of cuck has been so warped here
MGTOW amirite?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!
M G T O W
G
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>>80944882
Some women are still ok in Slovenia, those that aren't Americanized yet or too religious, while getting married in USA or caring for your children you have to be retard of highest caliber:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kieQauvWrAQ
>>80952585
Si eu m-am nascut intr-o familie nepractinanta. Daor ca m-a obsedat ideea de a gasi adevarul, mai precis intrebarea la: care este sensul vietii?
Si sub nici-o forma n-am cedat, ci aici e capatul de drum - am descoperit un stil de viata care reprezinta starea plenara a omului.
In principiu oricat de agitata este lumea si oricate si cate se intampla un lucru a socat si zguduit din temelii omenirea - si acel moment inca este actual. Acum ~1980 ani Iisus a inviat din morti.
>>80952739
It hasn't. The marines literally defend their feminist shithole of a country that gives women these rights.
>>80944882
Marriage stems from a desert death cult anyway, fuck marriage, do something white or think of something new, as long as its not recognised by law.
>>80952783
>Some women are still ok
Nah
>try to redpill my friend
>think it's going well
>he gets oneitis'd to fuck senior year
>went off to boot camp
>his GF is going to the majority mexican college while he's gone
I'm scared for him bros. I don't know what to do if he comes back to getting cucked.
>>80951982
It depends on the girl, the situation and how your relationship is.
Frankly I'm way too cold. I don't know why I just lose interest if they get bitchy or annoying.
>>80946316
She could not consent, obviously those strippers raped her. You should feel sorry for this girl.
:^)
>>80952585
Sincer n-ai altceva de facut daca te intereseaza decat sa citesti noul testament - incepe acum.
Versiunea Anania este cea mai ok - usor accesibila:
Citeste macar primele patru evanghelii nu dureaza mult. Daca il intelegi pe Hristos are sens sa mergi a biseirca - daca nu-l intelegi si nu simti chemarea - ce rost are? De ce te-ai duce acolo??? Ca sa ce.
http://www.dervent.ro/biblia.php
^ citeste si introducerile - Anania s-a folosit de multe editii critice.
>>80944882
There are no pros or cons my squatting slaving friend, just do whatever makes you happy, nothing more.
>>80944967
See, it's funny : both /pol/ and these women stay in their hugboxes believing that it's never their fault.
>pic related : men just want to pump and dump!
>/pol/ : women just want to fuck chad then drain you of your ressources!
It's pretty funny, kek
>>80952872
We dont defend our country, we just like killing muslims.
Well that, and you dont want to die or go to prison for deriliction of duty.
That seemed to be the general concensus in my unit anyways. We all pretty much hated america by the time we left. The Marine's wasnt a redpill, it was a fucking suppository.
>>80944882
I know that feel OP but realize this because this is what I have seen for myself. A lot of people who are young and get wedded then get pressured into getting kids. Once they have kids people will look at the parents funny if mom and dad both work and do not have all the time in the world to stay at home nor the means to afford it.
Growing up in my little town my sister jokes that when she was me years ago she already had her first kid. Meanwhile she never finished anything other than highschool and can barely make ends meet, she can't get a proper job while her husband who works soldering metal can hardly stand the work hours. And now she has 2 kids. Her kids will never experience certain things, will grow up with the same problems repeating themselves. She said she thought she could do it cause even trailertrash can have kids.
Others are exactly the same; either they argue cause they cannot stand each other or they fight over money. Don't fall for that shit OP.
>>80952892
I know women who are ok, there's plenty of them, but most of newer generation that grows up on English music and films, you know they compromised trash, then if she starts to talk about spirituality, i would run away as far as i can. I know for a fact that every guy that was married for decades and his wife found jesus or buddhism, they got divorced.
I'm surprised the lois lane "Is this really the best I can do?" image hasn't been posted yet.
>>80952513
I guess nowadays you're not getting rewarded and respected for being a real man anymore. for providing your family, working hard, serving your country. it seems to me that nowadays you have to be a feminist loving beta fag to be respected by society
>>80952641
probably because they get discharged and then they're basically 18 years old again. No real experience or education, no idea what to do without the military paycheck. My dad couldn't keep food on the table after getting discharged in the HW Bush years, and that probably destroyed their marriage. Military service is a huge waste of time.
But also you can google this and see. Divorce rates increase with less education and lower income. People who are professionals and wait to marry have much lower divorce rates than people who rush into it before they can support themselves.
That's depressing to me though, it makes it sound like the entirety of a relationship in 2016 is economic. Nothing to do with love, you're just combining incomes.
>>80952739
>warped
pic related
>>80952946
Multam de recomandare.
>>80944967
Why do they always blame men for literally all of their problems?
They could have found "the one" if they hadn't been such cringy bitches and all-around whores.
>>80947258
Well, he consented to everything, including the whole "after I fuck 15 guys you will take me back" deal. Should've known better.
>>80952219
>I encouraged him to find a career and was thrilled when he was accepted to join the police in 1995.
>It should have heralded a new chapter in our lives, but it only hastened the end. We went from spending every evening and weekend together, to hardly seeing one another.
jesus what did this cunt thought?
Joining the police means sacrificing your personal life, are this people retarded?
>>80953042
Meanwhile I finished my education, I have a steady job with an income higher than my sister will ever earn.
This shit mostly happens cause people are uneducated and have always lived in poor conditions. Once you get to hang with more educated people do you realize that it is better to offer your kids something they can build on than to remain in degrading conditions cause those faults tend to repeat.
People think in this day you can stay at home and have your husband work a lousy low income job and still raise kids proper.
>>80944967
In some ways I feel sorry for these women because feminism is ruining them. That and family courts.
Rather than address this they will start saying single men are sexist racists
>>80944967
A harsh reminder that women are basically children and cannot think for themselves, they most often just go along with what they're told by their mothers or peers, which is why feminism has fucked them over so badly, it suggested that become stronk independent womyn first so they don't need a man, and then go find a man and have kids, without acknowledging the downside which is what men want in this equation.
Of course they blame this on men because men can wait and have kids when they're older, hilarious because they do this all the time skirting around the fact that they once held the upper hand in their youth when they had naturally higher sexual market value. What they seem to naive to understand is that while they win the lottery at birth by getting given all their attractiveness for free with no effort (vs men who have to earn theirs over decades) it is also a temporary benefit, and if your plan is to wait until you have a career at 35 before you have a child then deliberately putting yourself at a disadvantage.
Women simply are too naive and imature to know what is good for them, they've had an explosion in agency in the last 100 years and are now more than ever in history in control of their future and have more prospects and equality, yet female happiness has been on a steady and noticeable decline since the 1940's.
That tells us something very important about their mentality and how they behave, they're not even rational enough to act in their own best interest, hilarious but also kinda pathetic really.
>>80953169
Dont call what those faggots recieve respect.
Its a master/pet relationship.
>>80952700
she is cute bro I should head south and meet some girls like this dating web sites are a waste of time I gave up on that mess years ago . white woman are so heavily indoctrinated into this culture of infidelity I fear it is just a waste of time trying to pursue a relationship with most of them .
I met a girl who lives in my apartment building. 5 days later I was fucking her brains out. She was always a bit aloof when talking about her living situation. At first it was friend, then potential boyfriend. She also would never reply to my messages outside of business hours. It took me all of 2 seconds to realise she lives with her boyfriend.
She got all distant all of a sudden, I guess she got guilty. I didn't give a shit about her. I took the red pill on women years ago. But relationships always get dull at points, and I knew she'd be back for more later, given she's a woman and uses only her emotions at any given point in time to guide her decision-making.
Yesterday she sent me multiple nudes. There is no way I'm ever getting marred. Ever.
>>80944882
My wife was waiting with dinner, clean laundry and mended pants. Good women still exist, take the time to find one, you're still young.
>>80951914
>>80952214
Its a porn star, veronica rodriguez or something
>>80952892
*wanted to post this one actually.
>>80953299
Of course anon let me guesd you are :
The epic stem graduate who pisses code all day and think that Will make him rich or the epic underwater welder or oilplatform worker or the ebin electrical engineer.
>>80951719
Ex was a Korean. They are the worst.
>>80944882
Everyone knows which culture has a future and which hasn't.
