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Why does nu-pol fell for the feminist meme that nice guys aren't nice? I mean they are fake nice guys like Elliot Rodger but there's also a lot of men that are nice and can't get pussy because they are too ugly or they are not bad boys. I swear this is place is turning into tumblr 2.0.
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>>77841287
Being an inoffensive milquetoast motherfucker afraid who's afraid of women and can't get pussy because they're too beta aren't "nice," they're just future cucks.
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There's nothing wrong with them, they're just not sexually attractive to girls. Girls like being dominated.
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>>77841576

Found the Chad/tumblr
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>>77841671

This. But nu-pol will say they aren't nice guys, just like feminists.
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>>77841287
If you actually have decent game, being a complimentary and caring can make girls become enamoured with you, provided the fact that you can make them cum. Currently have two girls who are into me but I lack the dark triad traits to play them both
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>>77842323
Part of decent game is being a cocky asshole and involves treating women with less respect than you would a man.
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>>77841287
also "too ugly" is being a "5" or less on the ten scale. As long as you don't have some sort of major flaw (and I mean major) you can have pretty much any girl you want. Girls are governed by emotion, no matter your looks if you can tap into that you are set. Don't fall into the suckers game of social conditioning that you need money or looks to get hot girls. Nowadays is a golden age for men with a little cockiness and the balls to approach girls at a time when porn addicted cucks are scared to even say hi. Women a looking for a masculine man-that's it
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>>77842628
Agreed. But you can tie it in with flattery. I think of an emotional roller coaster
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>>77842933
Yeah it's kind of like good cop bad cop but only one guy playing both parts. It actually works with men too and is a large part of any manipulation.
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This is true. I was no pussy until I destroyed my life with drugs, and then girls thought I was cool enough to bone. I regret it though because I didn't get much more sex and now my health is fucked
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>>77841287
go back to /rk9/. nobody ever talks about nice guys on /pol/
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It's because nice guys also try to be masculine. And that doesn't fit being personable for a lot of girls. If your masculine, women expect you to act like a man, and being a flirty nice faggot doesn't work, because they want someone whose kind of a lug head, but passionate. If your a nice guy though, girls like a cute guy, someone who fits what being nice is, who cares a lot. Personality means a lot to women, and people who don't know who they are get easily over looked.
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>>77843513

r9k was invaded by normies and it's a normie board since like a year ago. We robots don't have a board now.
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>>77842851
I love the Americans who post encouraging and positive stuff for your /pol/ mates.

The most adorable woman I've ever seen is an incredibly pretty and physically fit PR executive living in ATX, who actively supports the 2A and has a literal cosmic-class arse. I've never had a "crush" so badly for a woman.
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>>77842851
Nah, their standards are more inflated than ever, the demand is higher from all the other races they're dating now and supply of decent quality women is at an all-time low thanks to so many of them getting fat as fuck. High demand, low supply.
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>>77844308

I wanted to date a 2/10 fat woman and she said she liked my personality but I was too ugly for her,
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>addicted to porn
>can't get it up when hooking up with real girls

Help
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>>77844790
Happened to me last night. Told the chick it's cause I had fapped 3 times that week already. In reality not a single day has passed for years were I haven't jacked.
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Nice guys only refers to weak effiminate men.

Western civilization is dieing and it doesn't need these men, it needs men that can save it.

Western civilization needs hard men who will enforce the principles and are willing to knock heads and step on a few throats.

Men such as these are not considered nice guys.

/pol/ stands with the western working class, not twiggy passive male activists.
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>>77844294
Go for it m8. The girls you have a natural affection for are the best to pursue. If she feels "out of your league" you need to get out there more. I'm just sick and tired of hearing quality guys lacking so much self confidence. If we are going to change the world for the better it's going to have to start with building up the confidence of the more cognitive and introverted guys in the west.
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>>77844790
Cut out all porn now. If you don't you will continue missing out on your life
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>>77844308
That's total bullshit, but if that's what you believe that's how your brain will dictate your reality to you
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>>77844964
>Break dead guys leg, rip it off
>Makeshift Shovel, go for hip bone if possible
>Start to dig out

There is always a way, just how bloody you're willing to get.
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>>77844427
>wanting to date a 2/10
There's your problem. Why the fuck are your standards so low?
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>>77843869
This. It's bullshit.

idk if I'm a "nice guy", I try to be polite to everyone but I'm a kissless virgin but who cares
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>>77845593

Because I am ugly. I can easily recognize it but most women don't.
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>>77842851
This. I arrived at å work party at 22:00 because evening shift. They started at 18:00 and everyone wad drunk when i got there. I was sober because og early shift the following morning.

There was this 1,59cm tall 19 year old petite cutie Who was super drunk but full of energy. I chatted å bit with her and we had å good time. Eventually she asked me to personer with her and thats when i knew i had å chance. I was å Virgin at the time, 2meter tall, chubby with mantits i cabt hide No matter what and at 03:00 i scored with her in my car. I was just honest to her about how i was avirgin, shy etc. And she just Said lots of positive things to me.

I didnt expect It but i jokinglyasked to see her tits and she was ok with ir. Then i touched and licked and she startes moaning sayibg she was horny as fuck. I Said the same and she Said lets fuck right now.

Her bf spotted us in the car but i think It turned out ok. She Even apologized to me on Facebook the day after. Such å sweet girl.

Tldr: if i can get laid with unhideable mantits then anyone can. When she told me my pens was Nice and bigger than her boyfriend i felt Great. Im on phone at nightshift so sorry for typos.
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>>77845194
The problem I have is "getting out". Where? I walk around but its not comfortable pulling girls walking the street. Too rushed. Most them are with company anyway. It's too rushed. The only social scene is the bars & I don't like drinking. I'm on Tinder but most of the matches I get are either fat whores or spammers. I'm a normal looking guy with good finances in shape. It's also hard because most women I talk to are so goddamn dullwitted. It's hard to really push the envelope of social comfort when it simply leads you into a boring conversation you're desperate to escape.
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>>77845782
I guarantee you that you aren't ugly bro. Start talking to one girl a day and I guarantee you that you will realize you aren't ugly at all. You owe it to yourself to give it a shot
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>>77845927
You are just going to have to get comfortable with it. From the way you've described yourself you have a lot to offer a girl. Stopping a girl and talking to her isn't inconveniencing her, think of it as an altruistic act-because that's what it is. In conversation work on giving little pushes and pulls, I can give examples of you are interested. If you are naturally witty guy (which will get you laid more than you can even imagine) this will come easy. If not, it will take some time but even then it won't take more than even 6 months for you to see drastic improvements. Start approaching one girl a day
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>>77845337
Why are you arguing with facts? Obesity in women is at a historic high. Fact. Whites as a percentage of America population at an all time low. Fact. White women choosing to race mix, be dykes, or reject men altogether at an all time high. Fact.
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>>77845858
Perfect example. Good on ya cunt
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>>77845858
Forgot to mention i was 24 years old before i popped It. Girls i've talked to and have been honest with tell me to just be Who i am. A quiet gentle giant whos just honest with everyone. So får being honest worked once so ill just keep being honest.


Also. Where can i find Nice single girls? All the girls i've had good contact with Are in relationships and all single girls just get mad at me for being honest with them.

I'm isfj and å måle nurse for anyone curious.
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>>77846435
Because facts don't mean shit to women or me for that matter. If I see a girl I like I'm chatting her up no matter what and half the time I'm fucking her. If I don't I've gained a new reference experience. It's a win-win.
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>>77845487

very nice
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I'm a nice guy but in only after I actually get the pussy.
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>>77845927

Just troll for pussy at the super market, CVS, wall greens, any store. It works wonders. Start with small chat. Go from there. Then rape her.
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>>77841287
>be guy
>be nice to a girl
>OMG WHAT A CREEP HE JUST WANTS IN YOUR PANTS
>try to actually grow balls
>ask her out
>OMG I'M NOT A PIECE OF MEAT YOU SEXIST ASSHOLE
>become bitter
>withdraw
>OMG IF YOU JUST WANT A GIRL ASK HER OUT STOP BEING SUCH A CREEP

Really the only way it's going to work is if you're a nigger looking for a trashy white chick with daddy issues or you're an alpha Chad because the majority of women nowadays are entitled and expect everything. that 4 or 5 is going to expect no less than a guy who's an 8 to want to fuck her.
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Chad is superior to all you sperg numale cucks and "nice guys"

I bet most of you guys can barely make eye contact with a women let alone gauge her interest. Go back to jacking off 12 times a day to your traps you flaming homosexuals.
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>>77841287
women respond to confidence over anything else.

you can be a nice guy so long as it doesn't make you seem a timid pussy.
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>>77846562
Literally anywhere mate. Just have a playful attitude and you literally cannot lose.
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>>77841287
>there's also a lot of men that are nice and can't get pussy because they are too ugly or they are not bad boys
No m8. They haven't worked out that to get a quality woman all you have to do is become the kind of man that quality women want to marry.

OR they're so confused by mass marketing that they've put women on some sort of pedastal as being a panacea for their life's hardships.

Or they just want to get laid as if it's some sort of big deal, and they haven't discovered they can dial up a fit as fuck 18 year old prostitute to come round and fuck the shit out of them for ~£80.

It's not a puzzle to be solved, and mooning after sluts is only going to make you feel worse. I do think more young men are getting clued up these days, which is a huge improvement from as little as 2013.
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>>77846855
Pretty much how I feel about these low T defeatist cucks. They don't deserve the pussy anyways. Chad is a state of mind and unless you are willing to accept that you will get no where
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>>77846855
You sound angry
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>>77841287
The issue with "nice" guys is that they are betas and give women too much attention. As much as they enjoy male attention, this will quickly bore them, which is why they go for "assholes".
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>>77846806
Small talk is boring. Especially things chicks like to chit chat about. Its like working a job you don't get paid for with 99/100 of them. I'd rather dig a ditch for minimum wage.
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>>77846949
>to get a quality woman all you have to do is become the kind of man that quality women want to marry.
so someone rich and attractive
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>>77847193

Well just trying to help. I am trying to help you on the approach. The hardest part is breaking the ice. Once that's over its all easy sailing m8.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M_h-v7ew20g
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>>77847193
I have two girls I could easily date right now. My problem is I just don't care about companionship. I am happy alone. I just want a girl when I am drunk. We are all different. If you are looking for a girl you gotta start approaching them. Break the ice with bullshit chit chat and get them laughing. Then you are in.
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>>77846908
It was hard to be playfull when i was sober at the party butgoddmn it worked. I'm trying to be more extroverted now as i've talked to lots of girls and women at the hospital i work at and they all say im sweet and cute and that ill eventually find å good girl. Might be another 24 years til next time i dont know.

At last i wont die a Virgin anymore. Thats. Big burden off my shoulders.
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>>77845273

Tried several times and failed. Gonna have to try again.

On a side note, what do I talk about with women? I'm a tremendous nerd and none of them like anime and vidya, none of them like comics and cartoons.

I met a cute, shy, quiet homely girl on a dating site recently, been on a two dates with her, but I'm absolutely bored out of my mind when I'm talking to her. She is the most unremarkable person I've ever met and I think I've exhausted all the conversation topics I can think of during those two dates.
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>>77845858
>2meter tall

Ok, now try being 5'9", ugly, scrawny with acne, no confidence or social skills. I don't even have much of a sex drive so it's just pointless desu
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I think I tend to think waaay too much.
Always concentrate on my opening - throw around ideas in my head but none of them are good enough. So I just continue being a sperg even if there is an eye contact and all that shit.
Compliments are not my forte as well. Have made probably less than 10 actual compliments to girls during my life. Got some sort of mental block against it. Even when I woke up next to a girl who basically dragged me by the hand I have to overcome myself to tell her how pretty her eyes are. Shit you not.
Also, something about the eye contact as well. I can play games of staring with bunches of shady looking sandniggers but if a girl fixates her gaze on me I quickly turn away.

Looking back at those things, it's a god damn miracle I'm not a virgin.
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>>77847504
I feel you. I'm very grateful for my height as that måkes up for å lot of things.
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>>77847473

Let her talk. They love talking about absolutely nothing. It sucks man but welcome to dating.

>>77847520

Bro, literally imagine her shitting. Chick's are just as disgusting and dirty as guys. They are not special snow flakes. Do this and you will be able to realize we are all living this life together. They are not better than you.
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>>77842851
There's some truth to this, women look for money and status when they're looking to settle down, marry and have kids, because they want to be well provided for while raising children.

Younger girls who are now sexually liberated and generally being emotional creatures who live in the moment if you can make them feel good then you can score, but you need to understand that that's just sex and fun, it's not the route to a stable relationship.

Quite a lot of guys wont approach women these days, not directly, and I've seen several instances recently where women have confided in me that they appreciated being asked out in person, even when I've seen my friends rejected the women made a point to say that they appreciated the effort.

That's all nice and well but the dynamics for serious long term relationships, marriage and eventually children are completely fucked. Finding a GOOD woman is nearly impossible.
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>>77847473
Literally talk about fucking anything. The table you are sitting at, the wrinkles on an old mans face or an old lady's saggy tits. The key is making it FUN. Girls are EMOTIONAL creatures, do anything in your power to charge her emotionally. The only no go zone is boredom, make her mad make her cry make her laugh but do not fucking bore her. But being a conversationalist is a muscle just work on it like you would anything else. Once you have the gift of gab you can make anything sound interesting
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>>77842851

>mfw i met a girl who didn't had fb and was religious and extremely homely

>mfw i had extreme chemistry with her, we could flirt a lot between us like nothing

>she literally cried to me because she fell that it couldn't happen, we were too different in lifestyles

>mfw a girl left me for some shy church guy for marriage because I looked too manly for her and had too much experience

i hate this, i can get trashy pussy but that religious qt that i wanted for a family thinks i'm unsuitable for her

fuck this world
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>>77847520
Meditate and stay present. I think, put myself out there and whatever happens happens. Let the chips fall where they may. Eye contact is one of the best ways you can get the vagina tingling, it's how girls see whether or not you are who you are presenting yourself as. So work on it, it will get less and less awkward until it becomes natural
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>>77847504
You could try the /fit/ meme. Makes no difference to acne, social skills, or ugliness but at least you are a bit stronger which is neat I guess
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Its so fucking amazing being a Chad these days, guys by the truckload are willingly withdrawing from the game. The thing is those guys would have never have made it anyway but they just at least are honest from the start. They just shorten the time for the girl to end up with me.
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>>77841671
Girls like guys who dominate other guys

It's not necessary that the girl also be dominated
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>>77847917
You'll find another mate. That shit sucks but there's probably 5 girls with similar values within 15 miles of you, you just gotta put yourself out there.
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>>77847473

You've been memed into expecting that you will find the "love of your life" and be able to connect with a woman on an intimate level. That's a meme. You tell them what they want to hear most of the time, put your cock in them, and slap sense into them when something is too important and you can't afford to tell them what they want to hear.

Women are to be led. They have never been your equal.
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>>77847504
>no sex drive
Do you watch porn by any chance?
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>>77848184
This guy gets it. Either exerciser your will to power or give up cucks
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>>77848117
I have been doing a lot of physical labour recently, definitely gotten more muscular but I haven't gone to a gym yet. I'd rather play sport or do physical work personally, though maybe I'll look into weightlifting.
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>>77848202

my social circle is big but shallow as fuck, i won't ever find anyone genuine in those places

as i said, i can get laid, but it's all trash
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSDLv6Ezh00
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I have been told I am a 7.5/10 to a 8/10 in looks, and by guys no less. And I have no problem with finding topics to talk to women about. Topics that make them think, topics that make them happy, angry, sad, and all others in between.

And yet, at age 28, I am still a virgin. It has gotten to the point where I just don't give a shit about it anymore. I don't fucking care if I lose my virginity anymore because I have become so jaded to all of it. I just do my job, take care of my businesses, and have a little enjoyment every once in a while. But pussy doesn't mean anything to me anymore. I just don't care about it.

How did it come to that?
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>>77848267
Not often.

I tried the NoFap meme for two months, made no difference to how I felt.
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>>77847762

>Let her talk
>tfw she doesn't talk at all

>>77847854

>making it FUN
>tfw to-the-point serious guy
>tfw absolutely hate small talk

>>77848264

I don't want to "connect" with her, I just want to not literally die of boredom.

That's the only thing I care about.
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>>77848473
Do you watch porn?
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>>77848503
How old are you?
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>>77848508
Girls aren't attracted to logical calculating autists bra
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>>77848529

Hardly ever anymore. I've weaned myself off of that. Not 100%, but it's getting there gradually.
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>>77848575
21 famalam
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>>77841287
No one likes autistic faggots.
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This thread is bullshit.

If what /pol/ says is true and that you need to be a 6'4" uber alpha testosterone filled male to get a gf I'd be a virgin.

I'm a "nice guy".

I'm shy, introverted, etc... Definitely not an alpha male in the traditional sense of the word and yet I still manage to get laid.

Now obviously, I'm no Chad but I still do a lot better than most of my friends who are far more outgoing and extroverted.

I've had several girlfriends all of whom have approached me or given me massive IOIs.

>inb4 rich

I'm a poor artist/graphic designer.
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>>77847854
I was visiting boston, MA. I travelled with my little sister so i didnt have many opportunities to chat with american girls but the few i talked to got quickly into me as they heard me talking Norwegian to my sister and when i told them i was from Norway their eyes opened wide.

Next time i have å week or two off i'm gonna travel alone and try hitting up american girls. When your å tourist you have å thousand things to talk about.

I like to think its easier to hit up girls out of country than those of the same country. But i havent tried It yet.
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This is how you get a woman boys.
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>>77848700
Do you lift weights? Exercise at all?
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>>77848766
So you're handsome.
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>>77848846

Push-ups, sit-ups, crunches, and I occasionally run when the weather's cool enough for it.
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>>77848473
You have to be aggressive to get laid, you cannot be passive, if you're not making moves to impress you'll never sleep with anyone. Women never initiate like that, stats put female initiation less than 5% of the time.
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>>77848776
Definitely true. It's an instant way of separating yourself from the pack which is essential. Milk that shit
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>>77848943
Well goddamn man. You have no desire to dominate?
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>>77847762
>>77848088

Sounds advices bros, thanks.

I was actually kinda popular with girls before. But it all went downhill after I dumped my sort of gf (we've been together for about 4 months which is a record for me so far). Basically I got bored of her and was a massive dick to her afterwards. But she wasn't so bad herself. She hit me exactly where it hurts and left me questioning everything. It was like a magic spell, or karma if you want. Whatever game I had vanished quickly. Never really recovered after that.
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>>77848781
did she died
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>>77848967
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>>77849023
Not him but also a virgin, don't feel any particular desire to dominate or submit. I'm very quiet though I can get extremely aggressive to people who threaten me or my family members. Most of the time I'm easy going and prefer co-operation.
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>>77845487
or you could climb up his corpse
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>>77848687

I know.

>hooking up with 40+ MILFs
>they love that I'm serious
>they love discussing serious topics with me
>they're smart and mentally mature, I love that as well

>young girls hate my type of personality

WHY IS IT SO HARD FAMICOM
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>>77849409
>he's had sex

Normiestonia pls
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the truth is you gotta be a cocky guy in this world if you wanna get laid. especially if you're ugly. you gotta be some kind of hot shot or other or you just do not get laid... and lets face it everybody wants to get laid.
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>>77849023

Not in that way. It just doesn't appeal to me. Think of it as a STEM major trying to get into Women's Studies. They aren't interested in Women's Studies because they are in STEM. It just doesn't appeal to me because I have become so desensitized to all of it. I just need my firearms, my job, my home, and I'm good.

>>77848967

So be it. I don't care for getting my dick wet now. I almost view it as being a waste of my time. It's a novelty, but nothing more.
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>>77848871
Not especially. I'm a skinnyfag.

>>77848967
If you're shy like me, you should get a group of friends who will approach girls and break the ice. Then you can talk to them when they're "part of the group" and proceed from there.
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>>77845194
"I will, thank you father!"
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>>77849409
Keep on plugging away mate.
I've felt exactly the way you do before
>tfw now dating a 4.0 engineering student who is actually attracted to the fact that I am intelligent

They are out there
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>>77849546
>Not especially. I'm a skinnyfag.

As am I. I meant your facial features. I've been called ugly tons of times and clearly given my status it's true.

Also even the few friends I used to have would ignore me to be with girls and would never invite me to go anywhere with them and women. Guess I'm just that repulsive.
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>>77841287
I am nice but also weird. I like to collect dolls and play with them. I like to dress them in nice clothes and brush their hair.
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>>77843757
What the fuck am I reading?
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>>77847183
He's projecting.
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>>77849533
>So be it. I don't care for getting my dick wet now. I almost view it as being a waste of my time. It's a novelty, but nothing more.

You're in the same boat as many other men, read the sexodus article that Milo wrote if you've not already. Lots of modern younger men are giving up on women because the juice simply isn't worth the squeeze, and modern society provides so much entertainment and ways to stimulate young minds be that with education, entertainment, music, arts, hobbies, drugs/alcohol, etc, it's all cheap and hell and life is just generally better for men when they're not making massive investments of time and money into women when they don't get back much, especially if women are boring and uninteresting like so many are today.

I don't chase pussy either, I don't respect women who act in a way where they expect that the man puts in all the effort, I just work hard and play hard and live an otherwise good life without women in it.
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>>77847473
Sometimes I think the quiet boring ones are the best with the least chance of cheating on you.
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>>77849807
I suppose my facial features are quite good. I've been likened to a young Leo DiCaprio but that's about all I've got going for me.

I don't know about your face mate but the other thing you should do since you're skinny too is dress well. Most clothes look good on skinny guys so that's one thing we've got.
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Its just stupidity

They have been cucked since highschool and they are still trying, with the same methods.

Im pretty sure im a decent person and a nice guy but i would never behave like that
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I'm a nice guy but I'm know how to be sly, flirty and take the innitiative.
I'm dating a literal 10 and she was surprised a guy as forward as me actually had good intentions and actually wanted to get to know her after sex.
There is a difference between being a nice guy and being a numale cuck.
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>>77848202
I am curious, /pol/, any advice on how to get into the circle of the family valued girls?
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>>77850385
I spend my time reading, running/walking, playing vidya, learning about history and politics and watching films. I hate drinking so I guess that does make it harder to lose my virginity, but like I said, it doesn't even bother me that much any more. Sex and romance is just not feasible for me and I'd probably be useless at it anyway.
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>>77845858

>2 meters
tall

Try doing it being a manlet.
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>>77841287
>too ugly, not bad boys

It's not exactly about treating women like shit . It's about not placing them on pedestals and maintaining power in the relationship by making the decisions.

A nice guy is a doormat who is a people pleaser. A "bad boy" is just a guy who lives his life not giving a fuck what others think and lives by his own rules, has the balls to say no and disagree with women, and a guy who has a valuable life with options, not necessarily a guy who intentionally doesn't give women respect.

As soon as a man realises that he can't please everyone by being super nice, as soon as he realises that attractive women are a dime a dozen and don't deserve shit (flowers, gifts, attention) until they are firmly in a relationship, that's when he becomes a bad boy (even in a relationship, hold back on that shit)

As far as looks go, it can change with /fit/ and nice style. As long as you're avg, you can get women with confidence
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>>77850913
I am a manlet. I am 1.54m tall.
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>>77841287

Yeah, the meme that "nice guys aren't really nice but are just entitled creeps" is a just-world fallacy. Nobody wants to believe that genuinely nice men aren't attractive to women, because that says something ugly about the nature of female attraction, and it implies that the world isn't fair. It's much more comfortable to believe that the men who spend their lives involuntarily celibate must be creeps who deserve it, and that women have a 6th-sense that allows them to detect creepy entitled misogynists and preemptively 'friend-zone' them.

I'm a genuinely nice guy who has never had a girlfriend, because I've always been too scared of making women uncomfortable to express sexual interest. I was indoctrinated very hard in my early years that women are scared of men, that male sexuality is innately rapey and gross, that and expressing interest is sexual harassment. Ironically, when I started to understand what women really wanted from men, I lost interest in relationships. I'm too insecure and 'beta' for any woman to ever genuinely be attracted to me, and I don't want to have to wear a mask all the time to get women to want me.
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>>77850857
They're feasible for pretty much anyone, it's just a case of whether you want to put the effort in for what you get out of it.

I'd advise that all the beta virgin guys at least get laid a few times and understand what it means to fall for a girl who reciprocates, so at least you have perspective on what you get out of a relationship, but once you've done that you need to measure up what you put in and what you get out and decide if it's worth it.
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>>77841671
>>77842851
lolno. It CAN happen, rarely, but the number of times I've seen a pure alpha get rejected by an 8+/10 girl is innumerable.
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>>77850673
They are the easiest to be honest mate. They are the best imo because you can just be genuine with them
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>>77844964
>>77845487
Tbh he could probably just reach the dude's foot and climb his way up.
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>>77846949

Whores here are illegal I don't want to get caught in a sting. Besides, most of them want a 30 year or older guy. Not to mention some fuck only guys they actually feel attracted to.
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>>77851237
You are Japan it's ok friend.
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>>77851648
It is not. The average height is higher.
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>>77848473
Fuck escorts. Its cheaper than a girlfriend and you don't have to talk to them or any of that shit.
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>>77847806

THEY APPRECIATE THE EFFORT BECAUSE THEY MAKE FUN OF YOU BEHIND YOUR BACK

>Hey grills, do you know that ugly autist wanted to date me HA HA HA.
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>>77841287
""""""Nice""""""" """"""""""""guys"""""""""""""" are all beta cucklords. The feminists are right about that one.
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Nice guys = not masculine and therefore unattractive to females

I just realized recently that when a man is being "nice" he's actually failing a woman's shit test
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>>77841287
Why do you know what tumblr 1.0 looks like

Get the fuck off my board spic
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>>77850857
See my story. I was sober at å party and i managed to pop my cherry, No condom either. She litterally told me to do whatever i wanted as she Said she was on the pill so it was ok to fill her up inside. Checked with my doc after and i was clean, luckily.
Story here:
>>77845858
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>>77841576
>128 posts in thread
>no one notices subtle loss
Good job, Anon.
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>>77851366
The truth of this is that women find unwanted sexual advances creepy and the same actions done by men they're sexually interested are seen as desirable.

Different women find different things attractive, there's a diverse group of women some of whom want aggressive sexual attention, others are just as introverted and scared as beta men and prefer a much more gentle approach. Takes a bit of gumption and practice to work out how to approach different women.

Wearing a mask by pretending is good to avoid, because relationships predicated on that fail quickly as you'd expect, so it's better to find women you're genuinely compatible with.
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>>77852300
Sounds like too much effort.
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>>77851366
>'friend-zone' them
Women usually don't place men in the friendzone. It's a place where men put themselves by acting like a friend.


The fact that you're scared is why you're a wizard. If you meet a girl and are attracted to her, make your intentions clear

I'm not saying be a perv. I'm saying flirt with her, make lots of eye contact, physical contact, and go from there

If she rejects you, then she's not interested, so just move on to another girl. No point in being terrified. You need to take a risk to get the reward
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>>77852300
Noticed this when i was out in the city with some girls from work. Several men aggressively approached them. Grabbing their butts and thighs. I noticed they didnt shoo them away and let them get away with touching.

When i asked them låter about It they Said they hate aggressive men but wouldnt tell me why they didnt say anything to them.

I dont understand women.
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>>77851825

I am 5'9'' and Japanese men are usually taller than me.
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>>77852842
Exactly. I am unusually short. It is not good at all.
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>>77841287
It's just sad to see the pathetic glasses wearing nu males work so hard and waste so much time and money when they get nothing in return. They deserve it though...no one is making them be as they are.
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Being a nice guy and expecting women to sleep with you for that is like eating a soup because the spoon is so fucking good.

Not to mention most nice guys are actually huge cunts.
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>>77853049

>Not to mention most nice guys are actually huge cunts.

That never gets brought up enough. The biggest single lie the people tell is "I'm a good person."

If you were actually nice you wouldn't expect things for being nice.
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And another thing is that men from different classes are allowed to do different things, instead of having the same standards. A poor guy who acts like Trump does with women is seen as an alpha or maybe an ignorant. A middle class guy who does that is seen uneducated and put to shame. Another thing is that in cucked countries like Germany How an Arab should act around a woman is different from what a white can do. You can be seen as a rapist for things that other men do and get away with it.
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>>77853203
>single lie the people tell is "I'm a good person."

Yep. "I'm a good person. People like me!" is 100% synonymous with "I'm perfect"

Nice people constantly change their character to fit the molds of others as approval/evidence for their "perfection" and to please them, but it just gets them no respect and blue balls
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>>77853049
>>77853203


What about the men who are genuine in their intentions and don't get a gf? I am not talking about expecting anything, but let's be real, you are just a bunch of cucks for siding with feminists. Not all nice guys are fake.
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>>77847473
Are you really a nerd? because nerds can talk about a lot of subjects, there is a difference between being a nerd and a geek.
t.alpha nerd
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>>77852954

It will be easier if we had legal whores but we don't.

>>77853416

Hi ruddit/Chad.
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>>77853203
I'm isfj and i never expect anything from others. If other people Are happy, i am happy. i'm just honest around girls. Telling them i didnt have friends or went out partying before i was 19 and i'm o ly 24 years old. Some girls find It interesting and i've learned å lot. I'm often dragged into the toilet and pee with girls because they love å good listener. If anyone wonders what girls do together in the bathroom ita just peeing, chatting and adjusting clothes and makeup. I always joke about watchinc them pee and they let me see eveything. Hard to pee afterwards with å stiffy but girls dont mind It.

For some reason just watcging girls and have them watch me måkes me day/night. Anything Else is å bonus.
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>>77852172
I'm gonna let this slide because you're foreign, but getting your "cherry popped" is really a girl-only thing.

think about what it actually means and then ask yourself whether that phrase is appropriate for describing a man's loss of virginity or not
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>>77853974
I'm not going to lie and say I'm not handsome but I can talk literally about any subject because I'm really am a nerd and I retain a lot of knowledge about multiple subjects.
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>>77853924

>watch her pee

Are you sure you aren't German?
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>>77841287
Damn, my hair line is starting to look like that.
JUST
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>>77853727
>Hi ruddit/Chad.

>makes a valid, general point about why people are overly nice = Chad

okay, jose
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>>77854142
I can do that. It does not help though.
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>>77853924

>I'm often dragged into the toilet and pee with girls

Oystein, please...
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>>77853576

We're talking about the sense of entitlement. Being a good person is being a good person. Attracting women is attracting women. They are separate things. Women don't give a single fuck about how "nice" you are. They care about your social status and how attractive you are. This isn't me siding with feminists, this is me attempting to give you the redpill.
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>>77854376
I was not easy for me to get to this point, I used to be really introverted and self concious.
Baby steps and patience and now I'm the type of guy who can fit in any social situation from a football riot in france to a magic the gathering convention.Maybe acting classes can help some anons, I certainly feel like I'm acting in some situations.
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>>77854309

But I DO KNOW there are fake nice guys out there. I was pointing out how Elliot Rodger considered himself to be a nice guy and he was actually throwing orange juice at people. What I am trying to say is that there are genuinely nice guys out there that are alone because they are ugly and/or women are attracted to ganstas, not
all nice guys that don't get laid are fake nice guys like feminists say. Don't you agree with me?
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>>77854604

Exactly. That's why I say that feminists saying that nice guys that cannot get a girlfriend are always fake nice guys is bullshit. That's all I am saying. I already took that redpill.
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>>77848184
He's right. You're either Chad or you're not - there's no path to bypass it. If you're not Chad it's better to withdraw from society than do crimes or kill people.
Btw - if you fuck up in school, there's no chance to recover unless you have model-tier looks.
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>>77855020
>You're either Chad or you're not - there's no path to bypass it.

Exactly. Take the black pill.
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>>77855020

Are you that lithuanian chad that post on interpal threads?
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>>77855020
>If you're not Chad it's better to withdraw from society than do crimes or kill people.
I used to have fantasies about killing people because of my isolation. It made me angry.
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>>77855020
What if i'm not chad, didnt do that well in school but have rich parents?
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>>77847473
About how toilet paper has not changed in our lifetimes. It's just paper on a cardboard roll that's it, and in 10000 years it will still be exactly the same. Because really, what else can they do?
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>>77854760
>genuinely nice guys out there that are alone because they are ugly

Yes, but it's not just about looking ugly, it's about acting unattractive ie a dependable friend who is too nice. I think that simply being kind/respectful when people deserve it and being a "nice guy" are different things through my eyes
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>>77855212
Sadly but no. I'm just regular observant guy.
>>77855291
But you didnt. Thing that separates us from criminals is that we turn anger towards ourselves and rarely towards others.
>>77855353
>rich parents
resource trading - money for sex.
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>>77847917
>>mfw i met a girl who didn't had fb and was religious and extremely homely
>>mfw i had extreme chemistry with her, we could flirt a lot between us like nothing
>>she literally cried to me because she fell that it couldn't happen, we were too different in lifestyles
>>mfw a girl left me for some shy church guy for marriage because I looked too manly for her and had too much experience

that's why they say be yourself!
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>>77845858
>Being a 2m ubermensch
>even considers dating someone 1,59m
Womanlets are genetically as bad as manlets, I don't get why they get a free pass. I wish I had a vagina, it would be so easy to upgrade my genes.

t. manlet
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>>77852623
1/10 for having wasted 5 minutes of my life and made me google the image, post it and reply.
great fucking job
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>>77847917
>church girl gets together with church guy
>you hate this world

o???
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>>77853924

wew lad

top post
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>>77847454
Was a nice story Norwaybro. Good luck to you.
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>>77847917
eat shit homo
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>>77848202
>>77855826
>>77856174
>>77856587
>>77850673
>>77851555

okay lads i feel better now, i had to roleplay to get the (yous) and feel better about my autistic ass :^)
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>tfw 5' 3", haven't had sex in 6 years

JUST
U
S
T
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>>77841287

If you are literally desperate for pussy, with no standards, you could get a fuck in no time at all.

But 90% of ugly, fat, NEET, niceguys think they deserve to be with that bitch from Hunger Games...or Zooey Deschanel.

Ugly ladies might have high standards, but don't kid yourselves that 'Nice Guys' don't.

Lower your standards, and fuck some flubbery STD ridden whore. There you go, pussy.
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>>77857332
LEL

masturbating is 1000000000x better than fucking an STD ridden whore.

If you fucks are ugly, then too bad. Work out, build strength, do some martial art that's effective and you will eventually grow out of that pathetic phase you're in, being a raging faggot.
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>>77841287

30y/o 280Lbs balding and mailing plenty of women, don't ask me how, now some of them aren't the prettiest but I have this fetish for ugly chicks so I do well for myself.
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>>77848766

>tldr i am not open to advice even though what i am doing doesn't work because i am still alone


Your kind is worse than chads. Im not sure who has the more inflated ego.
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>>77855961
Small girls Are fun. We easily had sex in my car in the drivers seat and when we went outsider i lifted her up like a weather and fucked her standing.

I wouldnt mind å tall girl either but small girls Are fun. She could barely for my cock in her mouth and watching her try was too cute.

I feel for manlets. I really do.
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>>77850407
>I suppose my facial features are quite good. I've been likened to a young Leo DiCaprio
>I'm shy, introverted, etc... Definitely not an alpha male in the traditional sense of the word and yet I still manage to get laid.
Wew lad
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>>77858547
Fuck typing on phone. Forgot to.bring my laptop for this nightshift.
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>>77857332
>But 90% of ugly, fat, NEET, niceguys think they deserve to be with that bitch from Hunger Games...or Zooey Deschanel.

I think most guys actually want an average unsuspicious girl who dresses in an average tasteless way, to be honest. The problem is that some girl don't have the decency to not look unhealthy. The amount of obese slobs at my uni are unsettling.

On a side note: I have spoken to over 40 girls in the past 9 months since my exgf broke up with me. I know because my success ratio of chat up - to - get date is worse than 1:10 and i was on 4 dates. This amount allows for a large sample size and I tried them all: younger and older, thinner and not. It's amazing how self-entitled and rude average girls are. The better looking ones tend to be kind and are interesting to talk to, but of course they aren't interested in a manlet.

I also realized that girls are rarely single. They always have someone in their immediate orbit in case they are being dumped and before they dump they already know where to go when they jump ship. It adds another layer of difficulty: you need to find the window where those pigs in heat are available.
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>too ugly
I've literally seen the fattest, ugliest, neckbeardiest cunt ever with a girl wrapped around his arm, and I know a certain old bat who's fucked two rednecks who had faces like leather boots. This isn't the problem.
>not bad boys
It's literally as easy as not wearing your heart on your sleeve, and then making sure that they N.E.V.E.R meet your mother.
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Nice guys are just huge fags that weren't raised by daddy properly. It's why they flip out when the advice mummy gives them about what women want, and the cancerous media backs it up

Men raised by a father, or who have a proper father figure to look up to do not end up as nice guys. Women don't want weaklings, they want to see strength, confidence
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Never had a long tern relationship, had plenty of girls , 10s 9s 8s, chubby ones ( the chubby one was the best), she had to move town, and i lost my job at the same time, had a lot of time to work out and get a natural scincare routine that really fucking helps, basiacly went from 7 to 8, but with all the extra time i redpilled myself to hard to the point where if i am talking to a typical left/completly emty headed phone zombie, i can't stand it, the pussy is not even worth it.
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>>77841576
But what if i'm very offensive, don't fear women but still too beta to get pussy?
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>>77858821
>that file name

By definition, it was the black guys getting cucked since they'll be taking care of a white child.
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>>77859444
Good observation/advice.

And the flip side of the coin, women raised without fathers are basically the girls who have daddy issues. They see men are inherently unreliable and inherently bad people and that means they only ever want to use men to get free shit and to get themselves off. Lack of fathers in homes badly damages children growing up, it makes weak men and it makes women who are completely unsuitable themselves for long term commitment to a man, quite often the man hating drives them towards radical feminism.
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>>77855020
Please I went home schooling and I still kept an active fuck life. Once you get over little embarrassments its easy pickens. Take a class at community college or just hang there. Not the hottest chicks be some solids 6 to 7's and the odd high 8's. They are usually beta women that with a hint of attention will suck and fuck you in the parking lot. Whores are gonna whore.
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>>77843757
fuck off normie
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>>77847439
normie, please leave
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>>77847473
You can find plenty of qt chicks who are into vidya, anime and comics... maybe you're just looking in the wrong places?
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>>77842851
this.

women these days are drowning in nu-male cucks. deep down, a lot of these (current year) liberal chicks would love to have their sensibilities challenged by a manly man. it excites them, and its something they don't get nearly enough of any more.

even an average guy can punch above his weight if he's got the right mindset
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