Motivated by the recent string of "females of /pol/" threads. At least it seems to be increasing to me. TL;DR at the bottom.
So my question is, how would a traditionalist "redpilled" female convert a "bluepilled" male to the reactionary side?
Basically there's this Russian I like and want to start dating, but not unless I'm sure the dating will be productive in my search for someone to marry and have many conservative and religious children with. I was so impressed with him at first, is 26 and I'm 19. He owns his own car, has a great job (fulfilling and well paying), and I know I could push him to "climb the latter" so to speak. He's religious, respectful of my parents, etc.
Only problem is, he seems super liberal. Said he would have voted for Trudeau in our most recent federal election he "cared enough to vote anyway," because he loves smoking weed and can't stop talking about it. I recently found out his parents are draft dodgers too, took him out of Russia at a young age so he wouldn't have to join the military. Said they'd bring him back after he's no longer the age service is mandatory. Red flag number three. I was under the impression Russians generally vilify draft dodgers.
Should I cut my losses while I can? Or is there a way I can convert him without scaring him off?
TL;DR: How would a woman redpill a man, and what are the red flags a conservative girl can look for in her search for a potential husband?
If you can't redpill anyone in the entire world by making a 15 minute rant then you're not really redpilled yourself.
>>77750170
This doesn't make any sense, are you referring to my post? I wasn't attempting to redpill anyone. Was just giving a story for those who care. I included the TL;DR for people who didn't care.
>>77749840
>woman redpill a man
Sex is your tool of choice.
Offer yourself if he renounces his political beliefs, through certain amount of actions and cooperated analyzing of convincing right wing ideals.
Don't forget to post the sextape here.
>>77750585
No. Not happening. I don't want to participate in pre marital sex. I don't care if he sucks at sex later, we can learn together if need be. Everything I need to know I want to learn through dating, and I don't need to know if he's into sucking on toes or something, y'know?
Try not being autistic as fuck
>>77751302
Yeah but if a retard asks for a donut and has cash, the bakery will still sell him a donut.
How did you become redpilled? Maybe I can find ideas through other's stories. If you can put words to it.
>>77750740
>y'know
nah, lustful interaction is what men chase before they kill
you seem prudish, maybe inert to showing intimacy for emotional persuasion, unless you've found another that behaves and thinks just as you, this will end like the rest
just have him sieg heil while you suck his cock, he might start to cry but now he's full blown redpill and you can continue your relationship
>>77751495
I'm actually quite healthy sexually, I'm very informed about various related topics. Not opposed to watching porn once in a while in private. Basically, not getting too into it, I wouldn't describe myself as a prude.
You'd suggest I jump ship and wait til I find someone more suitable off the bat?
>>77751416
Having friends with similar views and having repeated conversations about recent topics with them until I fleshed out my own beliefs (obviously we had influence on one another)
My girlfriend is also right-wing and I have some discussions with her
>>77749840
Liberal Slavs are even worse than regular liberals since Slavs tend to go full retard whatever they do
>>77751846
>jump ship and wait til
And that may be years to come, I guess you really endear him, for now, if his urges for marijuana and opposing political views seem to be the only surface issues, as you find out more you may not want any of it
I used to be a major pothead too, thank Poseidon I've quit, while inebriated a person's mind can absorb and reflect on a deeper, personal, and somewhat instinctive level, maybe you can get him high as fuck then give him pieces of a redpill at a time, show him the stupidity of Trudeau, if he continues to reject any information he may be too far gone
>>77752410
Okay, that helps, thank you. I'll dial it back and start with regular discussion first.
>>77752563
oh, and then you suck his dick
but this time in a complete and authentic Schutzstaffel regalia
Men will do anything you want them to if it means it will get to your pussy. You can have the most sjw hipster cuck declaring he wants to gas the kikes if you offer anal.
A female friend text me yesterday and asked if I'm voting for the Brexit, she asked why and after about 15 mins of conversation and her watching with open borders she was redpilled, she is 30 and voted for Trudeau by the way. Exact same thing happened with my girlfriend
>>77752557
aw, I hope he's not so far gone he can't be reached. I like Slavic people especially, for some reason.
>>77752563
You're right, that is true. I'm hoping, being as normal as he seems, our most dividing issues are just pot and political party. That might be open to change through discussion.
Congratulations on quitting tho, I'm sure it was difficult.
'd hate to take advantage of his use, but every time he gets high he texts me to tell me - well. "I'm high"
>>77752961
Good idea! I'll show him the video once I've made more clear my own views maybe? Or at least started the path for open discussion.
>>77752557
This. They look at Timoshenko giving Ukraine full unemployment and think, okay, now let's do this for every formerly Soviet nation.
Also I wouldn't really get hung up on him being a draft dodger.
A) Wasn't his choice, it was his parents. The fact that his parents cared enough to make their kid not have to serve in the Russian army isn't really a bad sign.
B) I mean it's Russia after all, who the fuck wants to do that.
Only red flag I see is "constantly talking about smoking weed"
Anyone have the original tank picture?
>>77753525
I personally am not sure what to think of it. My sister has expressed concern because she feels they are not loyal, especially because they've said they want to move back to Russia after he's no longer eligible for mandatory service.
>it's Russia after all
To me, that doesn't matter. It's Russia, it's Canada, it's Greece. Doesn't matter. I wouldn't leave my country because of a draft. Actually I even applied to serve, I said "even just a desk position or a cleaner or cook", but was denied for two reasons. One embarrassing, one not so embarrassing.
Okay, another thing is that he describes himself as "Greek Orthodox". From what I understand, this is where Orthodoxy originated from? But I thought it was odd he didn't just say "Eastern Orthodox" or "Orthodox."
>>77749840
>liberal Russian
There's no hope, their innate slave mentality rejects other worldviews so much, an average leftist Russian would put your average SJW to shame.
>>77749840
"red pill" does not mean "make him a religious christcuck material resource provider for my children"
"red pill" means that if you are not good looking as a man, women are not attracted to you and only want to use you for your resources as you have just explained.
>>77753914
It's pretty common for Russians/Ukrainians to identify specifically as Greek Orthodox as far as I know. It's where it originated, yes.
I guess if you yourself value the military enough that you signed up then you have a right to judge him on his choice.
>>77754184
I've heard that a few times before, but I figure there might be some hope since he was brought to Canada when he was still quite young. Not super young, not sure the exact age but probably late middle school. Maybe he's more open to other views?
>>77754221
So, by your definition, redpill is the act of a man being rejected by women because he is ugly, or only accepted because he can provide for her and not for any other reason?
I'd give it a different definition, but hey, I asked for other eyes.
So, I guess I could ask you:
1. what is wrong with wanting to be attracted to your partner? A man should get a woman he is attracted to as well.
2. What is wrong with wanting your partner to be successful, or exemplify a level of success he/she brought about through maturity and independence? I also have my own success I've achieved through simply being mature and independent as well. I want him to inspire my to do well at my job too.
>>77753914
"Greek Orthodox" is just Eastern Orthodoxy. There are very few differences between countries in the Orthodox church except for what language the hymns are sung in.
The Russian Orthodox church might be the most different from the others though, the horrors communism inflicted upon the church in the days of the Soviet Union stayed with them.
>>77754674
Oh, okay - thank you. I hadn't heard of that before, thank you for clearing that up.
But I do hear you when you say it wasn't his choice, it was his parents. As far as I understand, his father was in the military. I can't say specifically why they left, just that it is a bit of a cause for concern because, at the very least, it might have taught him the military is not a friend to the people they fight for.
>>77754876
Thank you to you as well, I appreciate you guys filling my knowledge gap.
That is very interesting, I'll be reading up on that more. I had an idea from the books I've read about the communist system in Russia, but I thought maybe things had changed since President Putin seems more inline with and supportive of the church, and they seem to be gaining back a lot of the lost influence under his watch.
>>77753207
>every time he gets high
what you'll hear from most informed drug users say about use is, "everybody is different". He may get high for reasons totally unlike anyone I've shared with so my speculation and parallels concerning an overlapping mindset will be digressive
He probably just started, considering he's from Russia, I don't think they have a big weed scene there. His new token of waking up and falling asleep could revolve around this substance and motivation is also linked to getting high. All of this is why I quit.
Most heavy weed users are stagnant, slow to respond. Weed procures complacent attitudes relating to all things not necessarily, "too important" with their self.
That means your plans to reveal a whole other face within politics will not bode well to his unaware and chemically dependent character, if you want your actions to be successful it has to be done carefully and with complicated precision.
I might recommend asking the anons of 420chan, they probably have a sizable base that knows what you need to do. I don't think they have a politics board, you may need to just ask indirectly for some advice in an appropriate thread.
I think you can redpill him, it's hard to asses from here. I think most stoners don't want to hear the truth because they're constantly using for a reason. Good luck and don't forget to suck his dick while a vinyl recording of Hitler shouting about jews plays in the background.
>>77754780
I've had experience with a Russian like that, he came to Poland when he was six or nine, and yet he was hardcore soviet patriot, whitewashing stalinist crimes and praising red army - and he did that in Poland, where these two are completely reviled.
Although I have to say that he did mellow out over the years, so I guess that people surrounding him did have some effect. I guess that when he had friends with completely different values, he kind off switched over time. Maybe if he knew more generally conservative people he'd get molded by them.
>>77755574
>I don't think they have a big weed scene there
I have heard this as well, even worse I know some cities have a massive drug problem that seems to go unchecked, especially in more remote areas of Russia, but they seem to really fear/hate weed in particular. I wonder if it can even be grown there.
That's the thing, he seems like such a hard worker. He also exercises a lot and seems to have healthy friendships, from the stories he has told me.
I wonder if this means he has just started out, and has yet to get as bad as you have described. I'd like to try and convince him to stop or dial it back before it gets to that point, if this is the case.
Thanks for the advise, I'll give it a shot. The.... 420chan thing.... I'd rather save blowjobs for marriage. Open to the vinyl Hitler speeches, however.
Actually, that gives me an idea to show him Rum Diary first? He could laugh about Ribisi's character and relate to the drug use maybe and then I'd come in and shout "HEY YOU WANT TO LISTEN TO THOSE RECORDINGS FOR REAL"
>>77749840
Tits or gtfo, manipulative gash.
>>77749840
Ok here is what you need to do:
>Take your bf out for a walk at nighttime
>randomly wander through city
>"accidentially" enter bad neigbourhood
>get robbed by a pack of niggers
>instant redpill expirience
I got redpilled in a similar way.
>>77756082
Wow, how long ago was this? I was under the impression most hardcore soviet patriots were from older generations, or their parents are from that generation and teach their kids to think this way. Is there an ironic soviet patriot scene among teenagers over there I don't yet know about?
This makes me want to introduce him to my friends, who share values more like mine, but I always had the idea a couple should mostly keep their friends separate and only meet on occasion for group activities like the movies or dinner or something.
Just, you know. Independence and time away to be yourself, etc.
>>77756306
If you're saying you were robbed by a wild pack of dindus, I'm very sorry to hear that. The positive lining would be that it awaked you to certain truths you maybe hadn't noticed before, I suppose?
I hope everything they might have stolen was retrieved or easily replaceable, and no one was hurt on your end.
Although the "bad neighbourhoods" in my city aren't filled with blacks, they're filled with refugees. We used to be 99.9 percent white and .1 percent asian until the government started shipping the fuges over.
Those neighborhood, thankfully, are not too too bad yet. Mostly the white population is still spread out everywhere and not planning on leaving their homes yet.
Actually, I was thinking of starting a "Christian march" like in those youtube videos, just to make sure they stay exactly in line. Or leave.
>>77756441
>Wow, how long ago was this
I've met him in high school for the first time, in 2005 (15 at the time). We're born in '90, so we haven't had any experience living under the commie rule.
>This makes me want to introduce him to my friends, who share values more like mine, but I always had the idea a couple should mostly keep their friends separate and only meet on occasion for group activities like the movies or dinner or something.
I would agree if you didn't plan on having a long-term relationship with the guy. Isn't it better to get to know the social circle of your partner? From my point of view, I've always tried to befriend the girlfriends of my friends, it makes hanging out with them easier.
>>77757329
It must have been his parents, then. Or a trusted family member or family friend... Can't think of how else he's get those beliefs, only to have them completely mellowed out later on.
When I date, it's usually because I'm serious about a person potentially being my life partner later on down the line. Dating is like, stage two if the hunt. They have passed stage one.
I see what you mean, but I'm under the impression his friends are all liberal Canadians who smoke pot as well. Haven't yet met any of them, but have heard many stories about one friend in particular that usually center around getting high.
But, again, I see what you mean and am definitely open to it.
>>77756195
>exercises a lot and seems to have healthy friendships
That's a stronger figure than I visualized, he could be an exemplary drug user, whom I would consider befriending myself, if you know how much he uses that will tell you how robust his mental fortitude is then answering if it's a problem at all.
Using only in moderate sessions should be how marijuana is taken, I suppose he is relaxed and exudes a friendly demeanor at all times, which is what that will do.
Try to perform the most flawless redpilling that's conceivable, he sounds like husband material.
The movie you suggested is actually constructive to what is shown and what we've discussed, good choice.
Take him in the shower when you suck his cock, the steam will help cleanse his mind, as your female based sexually induced psychokinesis subverts his inner conscience, think strongly about goose stepping Nazis and strong Aryan men annihilating and freeing Europe of cultural Marxism.
A white female who understands it's not racist to prefer sexual and romantic interactions with your own race over others?
How do I find one? Seems impossible.
>>77758255
>not racist to prefer sexual and romantic interactions with your own race over others?
If speak this to a woman it would most likely seem as if you're sanctioning her in the worst manner possible, sexually.
I believe you overthink how people perceive one another considering relations and sex. Most people of any race believe this instinctively, unless their parents have damaged them with some serious progressive brainwashing.
It may be just a diligently racist female you're wanting.
>>77758024
Aha, thank you. Things to look out for. Hopefully all goes well.
Also, very funny. I'll be thinking about it, alright.
>>77758255
The truth is out there, anon. By truth I mean wife-material girls. Seriously, you'll find one! I know it. There are so many people on Earth and so many of us are getting more and more fed up by the day by all the terrible things that are happening around the world.
My own mother, for example, used to be so into social justice and supporting the gays and such, used to argue with my sister hard on these topics. But last year when she cancelled our planned trip to Europe together out of fear of the terrorists she said to me, "I don't want to see arabs swarming the country my parents were born in. It will make me sick."
None of us want it to get worse, but the worse it gets the more of up pop up to fight back, or to at least start the dialogue. Start the dialogue, and I swear to you a girl who's right for you and feels the same way will find you. Like moths to a flame. We all have something to offer.
Honestly tho, I used to envision marrying someone from the same cultural and religious background as me, so my kids can have a proper singular identity, but now I'm more about dating within the white race and having lots of kids. I don't care if I have to teach them two European languages, I'll do it.
>>77759051
I agree with you, there is a reason people need to be taught at a young age not to be squeamish around the disabled or mentally ill. Or weary of other races.
Anything that needs to be drilled into the heads of children in order to be observed in adults just cannot be natural, within reason.
Not necessarily he wants a racist woman, maybe he just wants an overtly aware girl who acknowledges she isn't interested in relations with people not the same skin colour as her.
>>77759051
Sorry but my anecdotal day to day experiences with women in public says they lack the biological instinct to stick within their race.
But I'm not propositioning women this way, I just date them and hope they don't fuck niggers. Too bad that's really becoming rare.
>>77759677
I think the other anon is right tho, it's a normal instinct. The girls who sleep with other races must be raised by liberal parents, and have no access to other opinions.
In another thread, I read an anon describe his attraction to black women as a perverted thing, like he had been with so many white women and now wanted to see something different.
My sister once said to me it's 100 percent a fetish thing, and there is no natural and normal attraction between two people who are opposite in a major way. Like, skinny/fat, tattoos/no tattoos, black/white, etc.
>>77759597
Thanks for the info. I will take your advice. I hope things work out for you and the Russian guy, he sounds a lot like me, actually, except for the Russian thing and draft dodging.
>>77749840
You can't even spell 'ladder'.
Retard, leave him be. There's a better mate out there for him than you.
>>77759984
It is intersting, I don't think he's wrong, and I don't necessarily disagree, I just, as I said, have a hard time seeing it in my day to day life. My job requires me to interact with a lot of people in a downtown area in public.
I'm just being an upset negative nancy.
>>77760006
Thank you, I hope things work out for you as well. I think there is some truth in the words, life will happen when you least expect it.
(just like the coming race war)
>>77759677
You're referring to modern relations intertwined with unruly prowess in an age they consider learning.
Just so you know, white males are more likely to marry another race compared to females.
>>77749840
>So my question is, how would a traditionalist "redpilled" female convert a "bluepilled" male to the reactionary side?
Withhold pussy privileges.
He's cucked his politics once to get sweet vagoo, he'll do it again.
>>77749840
I would start with the obvious:
Democrats are not what they seem, they say they want to help people but they don't.
Keep in mind it will be very difficult if you express that some people should not be able to do what they want. (He is russian so anti-gay marriage might fly, but there may be other things that you will not be able to talk about).
>>77760235
Hey, you're right, I misspelled something. Thank you for pointing that out.
In the future, we are on the same side and there is no need to knock each other down. Canada's division as a voting population has been profited from for years, our identity taken from us because willingly shame the things that make us who we are. Our culture is watered down every day with the colours of other flags, all running together and turning into an ugly brown. Literally.
There is a light in the darkness, and the more people holding hands to get to the end of the tunnel, the more people will make it to the other side.
>>77760246
This is a venting space, we are free to be negative fear mongering nellys here. :F
>>77760486
I have heard this as well, mostly shown through dating website infographics. Haven't personally seen it, however. TV makes it seem like it mostly happens because of white women.
Then again, or news is mostly subsidized by our government.
>>77753768
l8 is gr8
>>77760754
*our
look, it happened again
>>77760700
I understand, it's a balance. I figure I'll start with general discussion to test the waters and see where it goes. Thanks for the warning!
>>77760754
>mostly shown through dating website infographics
Those are messaging and response rates online, I'm referring to the US census bureau displaying married people in America.
>TV
Fuck TV, stopped that years ago, the internet is where you should be streaming shows.
>>77761001
I just imagined future redpill ads saying things like "Netflix supports the coming race war" and "Smart TV for a smarter electorate". Genuine support, or clever marketing campaign? You decide.
>>77760754
We most certainly aren't, the conservative party is the worst party in Canada. Any party that muzzles our scientists and denies climate change to make a quick couple bucks to make the numbers look decent is a bunch of scumbags.
And I'm atheist.
>>77750585
This only really works for ugly people with poor self-esteem though. I redpilled myself in my quest to gain knowledge and better myself physically, and changed despite the influence of my leftist friends around me.
>>77761295
I wish there was a way to collect political opinions on /pol/ like people collect flags
>>77761225
Yeah woo, gas the kikes, right after this episode of scrubs.
And this movie I forgot last week. Also anime.
>>77749840
>and I know I could push him to "climb the latter" so to speak
holy shit. how about you just fuck off and leave him alone. redpilled or not you're going to endup divorcing him and making him miserable
>>77762165
You know, I don't know if you read the thread, but this man if constantly high. He's a good person, I'm sure, but if marijuana wasn't the center of his world he could do so well in all areas of his life.
Besides, I don't believe marriage as an option, especially if young kids are involved. You can work it out, if you respect each other and stay focused on the true goal. Being good people, helping your neighborhood, ensuring your kids grow up smart and strong and happy.
Thanks, though.
>>77762165
Also, there is nothing wrong with wanting better for your spouse. I'm sorry you were pushed too hard, or not at all as a young person. You can do better, safer. Good luck.
>>77753525
nah dude, i was actively avoiding army back in 2004, it was real shit. I would like to serve now tho, they improved conditions for soldiers, have warious privileges after army, can serve again with contract. My health turned to shit, sadly, not gonna happen.
>>77762510
You are not red pilled. You're just another manipulative cunt.
NAWALT
>>77764492
>it was real shit
can you give me more detail? how were the conditions bad? Because they didn't have VA privileges?
I'm sorry to hear about your health, however. Hope things improve for you.
>>77764674
shhh, before the others discover my secret.
Men only speak the language of mob mentality. Introduce him to some male friends that are redpilled too. Trust me, he will never listen to you about this he has to hear it from a group of guys where he knows he'll be accepted for turning his back on his upbringing and ideas.
Also its nice to see another female /pol/lack from canada.
>>77765014
>>77765066
The men here say women are victims of mob mentality as well. Just goes to show it varies from person to person, and mostly the statement is true for everyone. People just want to belong.
Thank you for the advice, tho. It's not at that point yet we are introducing each other to friends, but if it goes there at least I have the ability to offer him a male perspective more inline with my own.
Also, what province are you representing? :b (or east/west if you're tinfoil hat like me)
>>77765351
Alberta
>>77765835
Ah, not surprised. I heard Albertans are the least happy with the new government.
Nova Scotia here. Hope all is well in your city.
>>77766023
Between Trudeau and Notley we're not going to have much of province in the future. I'm right in the hot bed for socialism (Edmonton). Had my lawn signs stolen and my fence spray painted during the elections.
>>77764895
Soldiers were poorly fed, like really some garbage soups with grain and cabbage. There wasn't very much training, some guys who returned back from army said they hardly shot one full magazine out of AK, they mostly did cleaning or constructed dachas for generals. Soldiers often didn't got right kind of uniform, there was instances (that managed to get on TV) when soldiers got pneumonia becouse they had only light summer uniform in -20 degrees celsius. And of course hazing, realy harsh hazing, with officers just ignoring it. Yeah, it was shit.
Does anyone have the rest of these?
>>77749840
>red pilled woman
>wants to date a Russian.
Pick one, whore.
>>77765014
This is total horseshit, all my male "friends" were liberal socialist pussies.
If the only men you have known were informed by their male peers on politics and their male peers alone then the men you knew were weak. Not a good thing.
Gotta say I dig the traditional woman thing but waiting until after marriage to actually discover whether or not you're sexually compatible is a huge mistake. Just my two cents. Don't delude yourselves into thinking sex isn't hugely important to a healthy relationship (though sex's commodification in pop culture and the media is thoroughly degenerate).
>>77766210
I'm sorry to hear that happened to you, it wasn't right.
I understand a strong sentiment on here is that people want things to get as bad as possible so liberals never get in power again. I guess we're heading that way, as unfortunate as it is that it is coming to this.
>>77766265
I heard the hazing one, but not about the uniforms or food. That's awful! Why was it so bad? Who was in charge while this was happening? I was under the impression Russia put a lot of money and attention into their military. Another thing for me to read up on, thank you.
Has it really gotten better? The food, the hazing, all of it?
>>77766407
Not necessarily want, but would enjoy doing so. Anyway, stop poking the bear.
Learn about Russian history from before communism, they're historically a rich and wonderful people.
Watch 70s Russian films like the Ascent and Come and See. The Ascent is my favourite film of all time. The story of Rybak and Sotnikov perfectly exemplifies Russian values.
Russians are a very strong, resilient people. Their history has something for everyone to enjoy learning about.
They can be misguided by their leaders at times, many of them are flat out awful people, but ultimately their strongest trait is that they can preserve, and carry on through anything.
You should respect Russia and its history, learn from it. Enjoy their culture and food and language. I guarantee it is not a wasted experience.
>>77767076
I agree sex is important in a healthy relationship, but the sexual compatibility thing is a myth inspired by media degeneracy you just mentioned.
>>77767221
My first gf and I dated for a year before even being in eachother's physical presence, and it was shortly after we started having sex that we realized we had very different drives and ideas of what we wanted out of our sex lives. It didn't last 2 years, and that was a big reason; I love lovemaking and she didn't.
You sound very young and very inexperienced.
>>77750740
So good women do exist.
>>77767530
I am young and inexperienced. I am not afraid of sex with the right person, however. If she didn't like lovemaking she probably just didn't like you.
Take it from a woman, women have no problem sleeping with men they actually like and enjoy being around.
This is not to be insulting. Sex drives among healthy humans are all the same, it's just biology. That is not to say people will sleep with those they are not attracted to.
>>77749840
I became redpilled when I started asking questions: within a few days of turning 18 I began looking deeper into political issues because I realized I had no bqcking for my beliefs .
>>77767662
Good men and good women. The trick is, I think, just finding each other.
>>77767841
It's terrible, but I sort of wish this will be the case. If I question him and find out the only reason he supports Trudeau is weed, I will be very happy.
>>77749840
If he would have seriously voted for DUDE WEED Trudeau at 26 then honestly he might be a lost cause.
I don't even know where you'd begin to convert someone like that.
Show him some factual statistics about race and crime or something and if his kneejerk reaction is DAS RACISS instead of looking at the facts, you'd probably just be wasting your time.
>>77767711
What I'm trying to say is that you do not and will not know if they're the right person without exploring each other sexually, first. I realize you are, for whatever reason, simply unwilling to do this, which is fine, but just realize that you will not have the MOST accurate perception of your partner without this aspect fleshed out. You just won't. That's fine, but dont allow yourself to be that naive. This is real life, not a Disney movie.
>Sex drives are all the same
Absolutely false, and also ludicrous. You would know this if you had the actual experience, but you're taking someone else's word for it. That's not being redpilled, seeing as how you appear to be so concerned with being as such. Everyone is different, it's genetics, biology, psychology, and culture.
>Take it from a woman (who has never done any of the things I'm pretending to have any idea about)
This is my issue with your entire situation: you are admittedly young and inexperienced yet believe that because you're "redpilled" that you have any idea whatsoever about any of the things you're talking about, especially regarding sex and relationships. You literally, at your own admission, know nothing of either.
I am not trying to be overly critical, but come on. It's fine if you want to do things the way you are. Just don't pretend to have insight especially when you can't say a word from experience.
Looking for qt aryan trap in winnipeg pls leave contact
>>77768089
>He makes political choices based on drugs.
You'll be happy about this. Oh man this is great, I really hope you're a guy roleplaying the dumb female that falls for the deadbeat and goes "But I can change him." 10/10 bait if that is true.
>>77767108
>Why was it so bad?
Missmanagment, corruption.
>Who was in charge while this was happening?
Sergey Ivanov, supposedly the one who should have reformed military. He didn't shit. Then came Shoygu, previously worked as a head of ministry of emergency situations (did amazing job, became one of the most popular politicians in Russia), he doing good job as minister of defense too so far.
>Has it really gotten better? The food, the hazing, all of it?
Yes actually all it took is make conscripts serve 1 year instead of 2. plus now they have "luxury" to posses mobile phone. Hazing is not much of a problem now.
Food, clothes, conditions in general really improved. Shoygu is fucking magician desu
>>77749840
>wanting to date a beta male
Jesus Christ, women are fucked
>>77767108
Have you seen The Leviathan? Russian movie you might be interested. Top notch acting and cinematography.
>>77769397
>implying pothead draft dodgers are alpha
>>77768268
You may be right, we shall see. Thank you for the advanced warning tho.
>>77768573
I realise how I must sound to jaded adults much older than me, but understand how you guys sound to impressionable young adults like me.
If you claim sexual drive varies from culture to culture, which it more than likely does, it is uniform and does not very too much. If it does, if someone is super perverted, than they are a victim of the same degenerate media you were speaking about above.
Don't make it seem like this is normal, and people like me should adapt. The opposite should be the case. I am normal and healthy. I am not afraid of sex, I am simply making a choice that requires me to hold potential partners to higher standards and harder scrutiny.
Your insight means nothing to me because I don't intend to have an experience like yours.
>>77768809
I used to live in Winnipeg, lots of jews for some reason. Is this still the case?
>>77768884
If that is all that is there, it is very shaky, is what other anons have been saying.
>>77769235
Yes, I have heard good things about Shoygu. I swear at first I thought he was a member of the royal family, tho, when I saw a picture of his face from far away.
I wonder how much of it has to do with Putin, however.
I'm glad to hear the conditions have improved, we should all be treating our military better.
>>77769397
Women are half the population, if we're "fucked" so are you.
>>77769516
Not yet, but it's on my list. Now I'll be watching it next, tho, thank you. :b
>>77769704
Not bad, depends on the neighbourhood. Kind of mixed on the community. They've done alot, including for U of M. Hell, I have a tims near my grandparents now in the pharmacy. Katz was personally scum but the businessman we needed. My main beef is that asper had a huge hand in the human rights museum, enough that they renamed a street after him. Yet small enough our taxes went to it. Jews hide well, but theyre here
>>77754780
the red pill in relation to men/women/relationships is that women are primarily attracted to LOOKS, just like men.
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with wanting to be attracted to your partner, I think that you should only be with someone you are physically attracted to. And if you aren't physically attracted to him, but still want his money or something, then the only problem would be if you lie to him about that.
>what's wrong with wanting your partner to be successful
literally nothing, did I say that? I just am saying that if you want someone for their money, be honest about it. Being "red pilled" as a man means realizing that if you are good looking you don't need money to be attractive, and if you aren't good looking she is using you for your money regardless of what she says.
Also trying to convert him to be a christcuck is the opposite of reality
>>77769704
You're listening to a bunch of NEETS on an image board, of course they're encouraging to sleep with the degenerate pot smoker, at 26 if he is still a degenerate drug user he will always be a degenerate drug user and you're a moron on the level of woman who stay with wife beaters thinking they can change them for thinking you can change him. Also your reasons for liking him read like bad /pol/ satire "he has a great job and owns a car" "I could push him to climb the ladder." note you didn't even know that the phrase is climb the ladder not latter. Maybe you're retarded ass is made for his degenerate drug using cock, I mean you seem to be about the same ranking in the gene pool, and trust me it ain't a high rank although you're 19 so you get a pass for still being an idiot, he doesn't at 26.
>>77770159
I know how you feel. My premier from the Harper government fought hard for a community rec center to be built in my city, totally state of the art and regularly maintained. It was suppose to be the project that told us we were not a forgotten city. We were so happy and proud to pay back the money lent to us, as well.
Until recently, when it was discovered the rec center was required to tent refugees first and foremost and we were required to continue to pay taxes on it in order to do so
>>77770162
Like I said, he is 26. He doesn't have a lot of money. But the fact he owns his own car, totally paid off, indicates to me he is smart with his money and is most likely to spend it wisely or within reason. My original post didn't focus entirely on his money, and I'm pretty sure I didn't mention his looks....
Also, this is Canada. Lots of money to me is not a lot of money to you.
And, if we're nitpicking, who said anything about christcuck? He is religious already, I had no hand in it. And wouldn't want to anyway, it's a very private matter.
>>77770394
You are not reading thread at all, huh buddy
>>77770914
Nah, don't need too, you're an idiot, I'm just here to tell you that you're an idiot so when you look back in five years and see how bad you fucked up you get that little knot in your stomach because you were warned and didn't listen.
>>77771066
>warned
>by the very people you just called NEETS
okay, you know what, I asked for advice and you are giving it to me. Thank you.
As another femanon I don't think this will work at such a young age. Part of the long term respect a woman builds for their man is relying on his ability to head the family and steer everyone in the right direction. While you think it's a joint thing, once you have kids you'll be glad to have a man you trust to shoulder this responsibility alone. If you are wondering how to change him into a man who thinks for himself and has ambition and motivation, then he is not the one for you because you will lose respect for him if he cannot rise to the challenge.
That doesn't mean he won't become that man down the track. But it will be gamble. If u marry him, don't have kids until he has become his own man and you love and respect him
>>77772064
It's so weird how everyone on here would agree with you, but coming from a woman it's suddenly being a manipulative gold digger. Maybe they interpret our meaning differently, even when using similar language.
I won't be marrying anyone until I know mostly for sure it is a safe bet. I can't take the chance, or at least I just won't. I don't care what I miss out on, even.
Also, thank you for the advice. I do appreciate it :'L
>>77770914
Savage
>>77772064
>graduate
>job
>house
>marriage
>kids
In that order. You need a job to get a house. The marriage can be done with savings leftover or if a modern expensive wedding is a must, I'm sure a working girl could help. After kids she shouldn't need to work. If you're not 100% done each step don't move on or you'll be financially strangled and emotionally drained. In my situation I'm not looking for a house until ~2 springs from now. Don't plan on finding a girlfriend until ~6 months max before a place. It's not worth it or fair for either of us if I'm gone before we click
100
darn, off by one!
>>77775492
Thank you kindly. Oh, and good luck, friend. God speed.
>>77749840
Lauren find someone nice through connections you have plenty.
>>77776517
I thought at first it was autocorrect, but Lauren is not my name.
Tell Lauren I said good luck.
Ask her for those sweet connections tho
>>77775492
>graduate
>job
>>credit card(s)
>>car
>house
>marriage
>kids
Insert credit card after job and car after credit card.
You need the credit bumps to get the house. Keep it cheap and easy to pay off. Stay within the finance charges and get the cash back bonuses or flight miles or something.
>>77772767
The reality is, there are times a woman will NOT be able to financially support herself if she has kids, and even down the track, being a working mother isn't easy on anyone and kids miss out when other mums are at their concerts but not you. A woman needs to factor in these times as part of her forward planning. I used to think women could do it alone until I found out for myself how much happier the family is will me home
>>77775492
Exactly, get the stressors out of the way first, it gives your relationship and family the best chance, cause it ain't easy
>>77749840
>Only problem is, he seems super liberal. Said he would have voted for Trudeau in our most recent federal election he "cared enough to vote anyway," because he loves smoking weed and can't stop talking about it.
Run, Its too late. If you try he will resent you for it, and you will never respect him.
>>77749840
Fuck off reactionary roastie.
>>77749840
Drop them in the ghetto at 3 am.
It's like one of those tests in fantasy stories where someone has to drink poison and survive.
He'll emerge red pilled or not at all.
>>77780855
scary, but intriguing.
