Is Bullying good or bad?
>>75110504
good
the reason there are sjw is purely because it was made illegal to bully retarded people and faggots
It's a strange situation. Bullies are dicks for sure and should not have their behavior encouraged as school is supposed to be a welcoming environment, but kids need to learn to stand up to them as they will always exist at every stage of life. I would be irked if my child was bullied, but I'd probably have pride override that if he gave him a good punch or countered his bantz.
Basically this boils down to being a decent parent and equipping your kid with confidence and wit.
>>75110504
On a macro scale, good.
>>75110504
That redhead kid must be jonzin' for his fix of that limp bizkit mix.
>>75110504
Bad. You can learn self-reliance and confidence without behaving like an uncouth little shit.
Good it teaches you not to be a little bitch
My dad always told me if anyone gives me shit i should just hit them
Proper dad advice
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>>75110913
This. "Necessary evil" is the phrase that comes to mind.
>>75110504
Light bullying is good, heavy bullying is very bad
>>75110504
bully my penis please
For a moment- unpleasant for the kid on the receiving end.
In the long run- good for society.
>>75110504
As a former victim (who never shot up his school) I wish I had initually reacted differently: by which I mean bullying is almost the only solitary thing school does to prepare you for the real world, and it's not so bad, and I wish I hadn't bought into the whole "victimhood is wisdom" thing. I actually see now that if I had fought back I would have been accepted by those who rejected me. Your bad reaction to bullying bears out the accusation and confirms in the bully's mind that he was right to attack you.
Bullying is developmentally damaging to children. Retards ITT seem to think that bullying and tough love from a father figure are the same thing.
[Spoiler] They're not. [/Spoiler]
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>>75110867
You retards act like bullies are some sort of everyman who only targets Chris Chan types
These assholes literally chucked a slushie at me from their car because I wasn't a wigger piece of shit. If I was wearing a minecraft hoodie and was being an autistic dick I could understand but I was a very moderate to average guy. Fuck you guys.
I hate nu males but honestly, bullying only has made me hate "Meatheads" even more
>>75111470
>Being a beta cuck
You deserved it lad
>>75111470
>>75111470
Then up the ante you fucking retard. Retaliate, don't just sit around like a cuck. That's what's more damaging to children, thinking they have no agency or that the bully is right. You could've gotten the plates, gone to a pay phone, and called in an anonymous tip that you saw drugs/weapons being sold out of it. Even if they never found out it was you, you'd still get some smug satisfaction that you probably fucked up their day instead of wallowing in self-pity.
>>75111545
I ain't no fucking beta you British piece of shit. I literally got suspended from school from bashing my fucking binder on this one asshole's head because he stole my fucking five gum. Fuck this gay school system for punishing me for avenging myself.
Fuck you and fuck your bullying, I'm the motherfucking law here. The law is needed. I breath the law. A world without rules is a wasteland. I will lay down the law to anybody who fucks in my way.
I think Louis CK described bullying very well in his Conan clip about not letting his daughters have phones.
"Kids are mean cause they're trying it out. They say 'you're fat!' and then they see the other kid get sad and realize 'It doesn't feel great to make another person feel like that'"
Kids who are incapable of taming themselves clearly have abusive parents or are sociopaths and need to be tamed a bit and given more female nurturing. But kids who are completely incapable of standing up to anything at all are fucking pussies and have parents who coddled them. Or a single mother. And they need some serious masculine role models.
>>75111470
I was bullied far worse than that. You know what? It was a good thing, it built my character. I will never regret standing up for a friend one day, and then getting abandoned by that same friend and a few others and get ganged up on by 9 guys. Bullying taught me a lot about people. I appreciate bullying, it made me hate everyone equally and understand that everyone is just out for themselves. I taught me to never help people who don't even help themselves.
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>>75110867
>hurrr durrr all kids should be fighting each other all the time, it makes them stronger, natural selection lol
I swear some of you idiots actually belong in Somalia.
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>>75110504
I was bullied and now i'm a nazi so it's good
>>75110504
Actual, mean spirited bullying where kids are singled out and beat up over nothing? Of course that's bad. Boys being boys and fucking around, rough-housing, and calling each other names? It's good. Without that, you grow up with pussies. Libcucks tried to sterilize masculinity wherever they could, and now we have people like Carl the Cuck in society.
>>75111470
>bullying only has made me hate "Meatheads"
How is that a bad thing?
>>75112408
fag
>>75112355
well no shit, you're a fucking beaner, you probably get a hard on when someone cuts another head off you savage fuck
>>75112397
Kids shouldn't be fighting all the time, but also everything should be free and women should poop rainbows and give me blowjobs whenever I want. Not gonna happen, so kids should learn to deal with assholes in a way that doesn't make them feel like victims. Sometimes retaliation (preferably verbal if the bullying is verbal) is the right way to go about that.
People are assholes. If you shelter your kids from that and tell them that running to authority figures is the way to fix that, they're going to be completely unprepared when there aren't any to run to (or worse, the authority figure is the bully).
>>75110504
Bullying is a symptom of insecurity, cowards chase after the weak because they're too pitiful to do anything of value, so they get a sense of pride out of being superior to one person or another. Naturally, you'll have people defend it, merely because they're the same shitheads that partake in such behavior. You can't really win the argument given that there is a consistent portion of society that will take part in the bullying. They don't help the outsider, they push them further away and, for some, break them (school shootings, etc.). By any other name it's harassment and in some cases, assault. We live in a land of laws, you don't get to make the rules just because you're a few inches taller and heavier.
>>75112649
go be retarded somewhere else
>>75111355
Maybe you shoulda just went Klebold and Harris on them
>>75112777
Here's the thing though: we live in a first world (for now, at least) country, so there will ALWAYS be someone to run to. The richest and most successful people in the world aren't tough guys with character, they're slimy fucks who always get what they want. We don't live in a dog-eat-dog world, it's much more complicated than that. Bullies should be given one chance, and expelled after that. We need the autists and the slimeballs to lead us, and we need them to have a positive outlook on life so that they use their intellects for the better. If all the smart people end up being "tough" and hating everyone, you end up with shitholes like >>75112355 Mexico or Africa. Of course, people should be free to speak their minds, people need criticism or else you end up like Sweden or some shit. There needs to be balance, but I believe that there can be balance without physical violence, although I recognize that many kids do need to be insulted more often.
>>75110504
Mild shit-stirring and boy-ish playing around is completely normal and isn't bullying.
Picking on someone simply because of some trait you dislike is cowardly and you deserve to be smacked in the fucking mouth.
I was bullied (very badly in fact, I was hospitalized multiple times), and I hated every second of it. BUT, I was able to realize that the opinions of others are just that, opinions. They may hold some serious weight, they may even be completely right, BUT you don't need to pay attention to them or care about them if you don't want to.
It made me stronger. It enabled me to look at things and see them for what they are. I have a better life because of it.
Some people can't take it, and I honestly don't blame them for it. Some families are shit, some school administrators are shit, sometimes people are just unlucky and end up killing themselves.
It's a very sad thing, but there's no getting around it. It's going to happen whether you like it or not.
>>75113346
>Here's the thing though: we live in a first world (for now, at least) country, so there will ALWAYS be someone to run to.
No, fuck off you manchild. We want to raise MEN, not needy system-dependent shitstains incapable of helping themselves like you.
>>75112777
literally this. checked
>>75112854
i got beaten up multiple times in in the field in PE because I was wrongfully assumed gay. you can't raise your child thinking the world is a pillow-padded hugbox and nobody will hurt you or say anything to offend you. as long as we continue to live in a free country bullies will exist.
>>75113346
if a kid can't deal with a bully without shooting up the school or commiting sudoku, he doesn't have the temperament to lead anybody.
>>75110504
Dear OP, i was bullied really hard.
I was fat, and turned anti-social after a suicide in th family, then became more fat.
As it is right now, I,m 6.2 and ripped and see my bullies around town, one of the worst ones is like 5.1. Another one is like a druggie/fuck up, and another one married rich and became a cuck and literally adapted african kids.
I got over what happened to me, and it gave me perspective not to abuse my size and strength now as an adult.
I cannot say if its good or bad, i can say being bullied made me tougher and I adapted to it. I know how to deal with bullies now, but I haven't had to deal with bullying irl for years after I started lifting people leave you alone or act scared.
Lift + plus carry a gun.
:-) no more bullies, but be smart.
This is why we need bullies.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=cmGEsTPrhwY
>>75114237
This is why we need to teach people how to not be autistic on the internet
>>75110504
>all this internet tough guys saying bullying is good
>at the same time calling niggers violent apes
>at the same time getting triggered refugees bully european kids at shool
Jesus Christ people get a hold with that edge
Bullying is mostly made in gangs , which grow bigger into gang violence which is not good
>>75113820
I don't think you understand how other people work. Almost everyone can serve some kind of function in society, everyone's got a role. There are some people who can be bullied the shit out of and not gain any kind of character at all. These are the kind of people that shouldn't have to deal with physical violence in the first place. Not everyone can be a hot-headed hick who picks a fight every other day like you, non-violent people exist, and they undeniably serve a purpose. "system-dependent shitstains" and "MEN" will always exist, but we need both types of people to be successful. Tell me where defending yourself in a fight comes in handy for scientists or engineers. This kind of "character building" is absolutely fucking useless for certain people, it would be like making every meat head take 5 years of upper level calculus after high school: it serves no purpose at all. Different people live in different worlds, and have their own lives. Join a fucking indian tribe or something if you like MEN that much.
>>75110504
Good. Weeds out the weak, and builds character.
>>75114616
>There are some people who can be bullied the shit out of and not gain any kind of character at all.
Sucks for them.
>We need whiny manchildren who cry to somebody else to help them handle their own personal disputes
No, we don't.
>>75114609
Ayy lmao
>>75110504
>>75114213
The big bull at our school was Tom Cummings
This ugly fat cunt is now on suicide watch and has literally no life or friends
His family are buying him shit all the time to keep him busy otherwise he's a hermit
kek
>this fucker made everyones lives hell
cunt
I was sort of thinking about this the other day actually.
I am a bit conflicted to say the least. Firstly, bullying, or at least boyish banter etc can teach how to stand up for yourself and defend yourself without running to someone to cry on. Like the other anon said, there won't always be an authority figure to help you like in school, even worse is if in the future you'll be the subject of bullying by someone in power.
Then again you need to set rules in school; schools should not allow bullying the same way schools don't allow snowball fights or whatever. It doesn't mean that it's really bad though, sometimes breaking the rules and standing up to a bully and punching him in the face can be a good thing. Action over following rules in other words, because you can't expect everyone else to follow the rules all the time either
All in all I think bullying is bad in itself, but rather I would say that the subject of bullying can learn how to adapt to it.
I'm saying this as a guy who was never very popular until after high school. I was not bullied but I was probably generally seen as a bit of an idiot and a huge cunt. Now I have pretty good control of my life, I've fixed what I wanted, I'm fit and well dressed etc. Sometimes I'm happy that people aren't hiding how shallow they really are because otherwise I would've never evolved as a person. If someone was nice to me all the time despite me dressing like shit, acting like shit etc, I would've never changed.
>>75110504
It's not "good" but it is natural. Toughens kids up for the reality of their situations and it's only a phase for some. I was tall in elementary school so no one really picked on me, but the bullies who used to mess with the shorter or fat kids later on became more or less normal and blended in with the rest of the crowd of their "victims" and whoever else. The kids who got bullied either remained the same way that led to people preying on them or toughened up and made it so no one could easily fuck with them. Of course, that's anecdotal and there are instances where kids get bullied into suicide or shooting up their schools so I'm not speaking for anyone outside my immediate area.
>>75114834
ok that was a funny one
But back to the topic especially to the edgelords claiming bullying is good , Why would he support a activity that promotes gang violence and why is pol so fucking hypocrite
>oh LEL BULLYING IS GOOD
>OH NOES A REFUGEE IS BULLYING AN EUROPEAN
>>75114237
Give me a break, you fag.
If you did a presentation at your local C.C. about how the white man needs to stand up to degeneracy and everybody needs go back to hanging gays for sleeping with men, you would look like an autistic retard yourself.
>>75114827
>skim through my post
>find some shit to greentext
>"you're wrong, I'm not telling you why though"
You are no different from Carl the Cuck, but I'm getting tired of arguing too, tbqh fampai
>>75110504
>tfw school children will never bully liberal runt-spawn into suicide again
If bullying was still around, there's be a whole fucking lot less libcunts today.
>I'm a dragon-kin
>No dude you're a fag and you have dumb hair
>O-okay
>>75110504
Good if you're a bully, bad if you're the bullied. The only people who say bullying is good are people who were or still are bullies. Fuck you, it didn't help me at all. It did help me with forming my lack of trust for people and total resentment in life though, thanks bullies.
Good or bad for what?
Nothing is inherently good or bad. You have to link that question with an outcome or a specific goal for it to be answerable.
>>75115793
Except that's not true, read the fucking thread. Everyone is writing from the perspective of the victim and the reason for that is most likely because they were bullied at some point as well.
NO IT ISNT YOU GOD DAMN IDIOT
>>75114616
Having been bullied in grade school and now being a successful scientist/engineer I can tell you that I have bee in situations where I need to stand up for myself on the job. Not physically but just asset my position and not get pushed around. Very useful life skill
I agree though that we shouldn't encourage bullying, however, treating the education system as some kind of safe space isn't the right answer either
>>75112045
lel this has to be bait
>>75110504
The redpill is that all humans are bullies.
It's not about good or bad, it's intrinsic to the idea of evolution and life.
>>75114609
Because most of /pol/ is comprised of pathetic losers that boast about fighting to preserve their white heritage, but wouldn't dare call a black person a nigger to their face.
>>75111470
>people assaulted me from their car
>implying this is the same thing as bullying
Did this happen at school? Did you do anything about it? Of course not, you're a beta cuck and this event only proved that.
Stand up for yourself or be shat on.
>>75110504
If you and your friends don't bully eachother are you even friends?
>>75112397
This thread is full of edgelords.
>HURR I WAS BULLIED I WANT OTHER KIDS TO BE BULLIED BEING BULLIED IS GOOD 4 U
Misery loves company, I guess.
>>75116126
>but wouldn't dare call a black person a nigger to their face
Why do people say this. Plenty of people do this, most of them don't care
>>75116152
What do you consider "Bullying"
>>75116152
There is a difference between banter and bullying
I get what you mean though
On a sort of related note I was bullied in grade school and it turns out today that one of the kids that bullied me at the time is one of my best friends. I am even the godfather to his child. Good feels
>>75116275
Between me and my friends we just call eachother faggot and insulted each other about being virgins and having potential aids or being weak as shit. It was mostly banter but it's not something you would dare say aloud or to someone you just met.
>tfw all your bullies go on to have successful lives, families and careers and probably don't even remember you while you sit around an post silly things on the internet
>>75110504
>the white kid is the bad one
nice message
>>75116427
Yes this is what I meant. All good friends, truly good friends will do this.
>>75116625
>Who is bullying the white kid
>>75116625
Considering there is only one nigger they'd probably be on their best behavior to not get lynched. Also you act as if whites don't bully darkies, like England taking the Falklands from you niggers.
>>75116524
In the same boat, friendo.
Guess they weren't really bullies. Guess they were just telling me the truth.
>>75116001
Oh yeah, I think that kids should be free to insult each other more often and be meaner to each other, just not physically. I'm only against physical violence. Kids should certainly learn to stand up for themselves, but I don't believe that them getting beat up on a regular basis is necessary.
>>75110504
Bullying is part of the social hierarchy
>>75116126
I used to do this all the time when I used to study in Texas and they made fun if my broken English accent.
Calling a single nigger a nigger will do nothing, all they do shove their face into yours and all you have to do is look em straight in the eyes and head smack then.
Niggers are cowards when they are alone and they are very easy to scare.
That being said, pissing off a bunch of people when you are on your own is not wise if you are solo or carrying a weapon but then again the weapon might escalate things to unpleasant levels and not worth it.
>>75110504
Case to case. Excessive mental/physical abuse will permanently fuck up a developing young brain. Then again, any sort of banter is bullying nowdays.
>>75110504
Bullying is wide spread because of the individualistic nature of American schools
We should have used the British boarding school model.
>No time to bully
>Strict schedule and military like consistent activities
>To tired to bully
>Will appreciate the freedom
>Will also yearn for the structured lifestyle and become a productive citizen
>>75117220
Why do spics always start shit?
>>75110504
bullying in general means bad parenting.. so no.
>>75115403
And that's why I don't do presentations like that.
>>75116996
Yes and no.
In school you are told to behave, kids that follow the rules find that their hands are tied and can't really defend themselves.
>>75110504
Being bullied was good for me, it drove me to start lifting and make myself respectable
>>75117628
Well, they should man the fuck up
>>75117590
What, he started it.
Niggers always make this snarky remarks and borderline bully ape talk only to say "I'm just kidding bro" so you get fooled into not fighting back and they don't fucking stop.
Have to make their stupid bananalips shut up somehow.
>>75110504
It's good and necessary
>>75117628
>kids
>behaving at school
kek, there is no figure in authority in the school because the teachers can't do shit against you even if you hit them, so kids go rampage, it's actually worse in high school when you have these teenagers fucking your shit up everyday and if you do anything the parents will get furious at you
>>75110504
Are mass shootings good or bad?
>>75117896
Sure, while you get your school record tainted.
>>75116961
Maybe I could have been something more. Maybe not. All I know is I am what I am because of them.
If this is as good as I can be... God help me.
>>75110504
Good sorta. But if I meet the assholes that bullied me when I was doped up on ADD meds I'll beat their skulls in.
>>75118222
>Are mass shootings good or bad?
As having been a victim of strong bullying, I'd say that I understand them.
>>75112397
Yeah, we went to Africa with this ideology once. Haven't heard the fucking end of it since.
>>75118294
I probably could've been something more.
But I had so low self-esteem and told myself I was worthless one too many times. It's too late for me now.
>>75110913
>but kids need to learn to stand up to them
what they're learning now is that they'll be expelled if they do
>>75110504
Yes
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rYo_-Jj2SX8
>>75112045
Pls be real
ITT:
>Retards who think being bullied is character growth
>Regards who think being called a faggot daily is grounds for violent massacre
>>75118227
Oh, no. School records. Bullying is mainly phased out by high school. If you have straight A's, but you punched some kid years ago, they're not going to deny entry into an AP classes, and colleges certainly aren't going to give a shit
>>75118807
>thinking you were dealing with rational people
dont the jews put chemicals on kids food to make em more agressive ??
Bullies are a necessary evil
Bullies are the first thing you encounter in your closed, protected bubble that threatens you in any wayy, you are always loved by everyone, being told you are the best child ever and then suddenly bam
Jerry the fat fuck wants to mess with you
at this stage you realize that the world is full with dicks, people who abuse his power and bullies, and thus you have two options
the first one is being a fucking beta and try to not give any importance if you are being insulted, that's what every mother tells his child "ignore them"
that's the worst you can do, kids are like animals, they have little reason and mostly acts based on instincts, so if you ignore a Bully he will keep and keep going to see how much he can do
the second option is to stand up to the fuck, this is the best option, not only gives you character, personal growth and a set of balls, you will realize that as soon as you put a little fight the bully will run away scared or just leave you alone because you are not worth the trouble
the teachers won't solve shit, you will also learn that you need to solve your problems on your own
It's pretty stupid, school is the first part of your social life as a human, and you will always have dicks trying to fuck you up, making school/high school some kind of "safe heaven" is stupid, human has been always fighting beetween themselves, it's in their nature, without bullying you would be basically someone who has been overprotected their entire life, thus, you will be fucked when you reach adult age and start working, people will start fucking you up everywhere because you won't stand up by yourself
it's a simple but important test that every child should pass, it's what being a man is about, maybe that's why we have so many beta libetards males or transexuals fucks
All bullies are closet fags.
Much like the words "abuse" and "rape," the meaning of the word "bullying" has been diluted so much that you shouldn't even be using that word. A strong kid tormenting a weak kid just because he's weak? Of course that's bad. But "bullying" also includes "anything that makes a student (especially a minority or girl) feel bad."
There was a great post on The Last Psychiatrist years ago about how zero tolerance policies in schools encourage bullying because the weaker kid is deterred from defending himself by the fact that he will be in just as much trouble as the bully AND since he's weaker he might get his ass kicked. TLP argued that since the system is feminized and cucked out, it doesn't distinguish between different types of violence (namely, between a sadistic bully and a victim defending themselves).
On a side note, I'm not sure that any school shooting has had anything to do with bullying. That's an easy narrative that the media went with after Columbine, but in retrospect it seems like those guys were just some psychos and outcasts but were NOT bullied.
>>75110504
>White bully stock image
Sort of like when you type "robber" into google images and they all come up White. Except in real life it's niggers in both cases.
>>75119078
>that's the worst you can do, kids are like animals, they have little reason and mostly acts based on instincts, so if you ignore a Bully he will keep and keep going to see how much he can do
Disagree. Bullies want a reaction. They're not going to indefinitely bully someone who is ignoring them.
>>75112045
I am the second coming! I speak for God now!
>>75110504
is fire good or bad?
So they wait until the first time they are bullied is when they have a family and bills and all of the sudden they have a mean boss and don't know what to do and end up committing suicide. because they've been in a safe bubble their whole lives.
>>75119206
of course, they want to see you suffer
that's your reaction, you will not be able to ignore them, especially if they go physical on you, keep in mind that we are talking about kids 9-14 years old maybe, the first reaction will be to cry, or to say the typical "leave me alone"
no matter what the bully will keep going, the only thing you can do is stand up to him
I was never bullied but tere were some chavs that used to chat shit in class.
You just have to out banter them and get everyone to laugh, end up friends most of the time.
My friend was defiantly a bully though and pikes on kids and girls like 7 years younger, now no one speaks to him and he has a shit life
>>75119479
A lot of autocorrect here sorry
I was bullied for being smart. And not the glasses wearing Star Trek all A's smart, just smarter than them.
I don't see how it's good tbqh
>>75119395
There is a middle way between safe bubble and going full roman circus at school.
Also, schools could actually teach kids how to defend, instead of forcing them to figure it out.
How else are you supposed to become witty without an adversary?
>>75119206
Does a bully take school money from a person and the next day tell them, "Thanks for the money. I only needed it that one day. I will never bother you again." I don't think so.
>>75110504
Bad. Banter is good, but when it goes to full on bullying, all you get is extremely insecure adults with emotional issues, Columbine wannabes and people who post of r9k.
>>75119206
I think you are underestimating the perseverance of bullies.
The problem is that being bullied is a catch 22 for a lot of kids. If you ignore them they just don't stop. If you react then they just use it against you. If you physically defend yourself you get in trouble.
>>75119750
that's the point, you don't
that's why the society is full with retards, we protect kids too much
>>75110504
It's natural selection, nothing more nothing less
>>75119479
>kid bullied for being awkward
>awkward kid tries to get class to laugh
>joke falls flat because retarded
>makes it worse
>>75111121
That is a misquotation, and a really hokey image.
>>75110504
every IT office that ends with "web" are pedos of the brazilian army, or terrorists. army, mterrorists, whatever. like every american.
I got bullied by a kid when I was in middle school. I stabbed him with a pencil one day and he never bugged me again. Now I'm on 4Chan and he is in jail and has to pay child support when he gets out, so I guess I'm on top.
Not sure how I feel about it. I was harassed by girls from 2. Grade to 7. Grade. Many of them had zero connection to one another. Outcome is that I might never have a relationship. Sometimes I think it might be for the best because I now know what to expect. I have no problem interacting with girls on a normal basis like small talk or what not. But one thing I have a hard time dealing with are the ones sucking up to them.
>>75119926
Funny that the kid who bullied me in middle school was a conservative Christian. He would have never believed in natural selection
there has been in place for too long, a system that focuses on the victim learning to report the bullies actions to a higher authority.
this authority will then punish the bully, and the victim has NOT learned to process and internalize WHY someone is doing this to them. what they do learn is that when someone insults them they should report them to authority and and this is where there satisfaction should arise from.
the satisfaction should arise from knowing that the bullies criticisms come from their own shortcomings.
>>75110504
Well, it's bad, but it's also natural.
The thing is, you're not supposed to expect a bully will recognise the authority of a female teacher that tries to guilt them into not bullying.
Children go wild. This is a fact. You need grown men to show up from time to time and intimidate them in order to put the kids back in line.
The thing is, you only interfere on bullying by punishments when if crosses a certain line.
Mainly when they get arrogant or start to think they are invincible, that is when an adult is supposed to double down on his punishments to scare the kid.
Until that point, the kid that's being bullied will need to learn some self respect and to stand up for himself.
>>75120680
>Not knowing about the Zero Tolerance policies
Kid beats another kid to a bloody pulp, both kids get suspended.
>>75120953
Should there be more deciding if the kid that gets beat up should suspended?
>>75120953
Those are some bullshit
Some faggot with a chip on his shoulder had a problem with me playing foursquare, I walked away from the fight twice and still got suspended
Good, it weeds out the weaklings (the bullied) but also exposes the insecure losers (bullies).
>>75110504
The problem is when kids fight back against bullies they get punished.
>>75121105
There should be, but it's called zero tolerance for a reason. It happened to me, and I feel sorry for any kid that goes to a school with that dumbass policy.
>>75121250
Well just don't enforce it and teach kids not to be pussies
It depends
If there is some sort of teacher intervention to ensure It doesn't become a long-term problem and the kids can work out their differences than It's fine
I got bullied pretty bad in grade 7-8, even remember crying in my room like a beta bitch over it, but now I'm honestly best friends 8 years later with one of the worst bullies. People grow up and change.
Letting kids have free reign to treat each other like shit is an awful idea that just creates a lot of mentally damaged children
Zero tolerance and harsh punishments for bullying is an awful idea because kids don't learn from mistakes that way and It'll just make the bullies even harsher and threaten worse things If anyone tells
An attitude of 'kids will be kids, bullying is a thing everyone experiences now and again, but we need to help kids work out their differences to keep the bullying benign and to a minimum' is the best approach
>>75110504
bullying for being a weird autistic faggot should be encouraged
bullying cripples is a no no
>>75111470
Kill them anon, kill them all. Kill them all. Kill them all.
>>75110867
Sjw were the bullies idiot.
>>75121593
hey fawken abbo, what are u saying ?? autism is due to jew-avy metals in the brain, jew pesticides and sheit
Yes / No
i was bullied in high school for being a fat video game loving autist, during those times i just wanted to kill myself and not go to school, but it ultimately lead to me seeing how much of a loser i was and iv changed since then, but damn i hated those years
if they did not bully me for being the way i was than i probably would be the same person
>>75110867
bullies doesn't target sjw freaks only, they shit on everyone they can
bullies are a problem for every single kid in school, their parents, the teachers that have to deal with his shit, principals, etc
>>75110504
good, last remnant of natural selection humanity has
>>75118571
>I probably could've been something more.
>But I had so low self-esteem and told myself I was worthless one too many times
>>75119078
Bullies taught me that deep inside, all humans are worms. And then, they wonder why shootings happen, as if it's some kind of big mystery.
And the bullies never go away, they only become stronger. I deal with bullies at the work place, and I realize that they haven't grown up at all. They're the same disgusting snot-nosed kid in an adults ugly body, and I want to fucking gut them all.
God forbid I ever get super powers, I'd become a villain in .5 seconds
>>75123011
Is quoting me your way of saying your in the same boat?
As cringey as it sounds, one internet-hug to you, friendo.
>>75110504
bad.
but necessary.
>>75110504
bullying, yes.
Crybullying, no.
>fat fuck keeps bullying me constantly everyday, picking on me at every turn, following me everywhere
>man up call him a fat fuck one day
>he goes crying to the teacher, get detention, he gets off scott free
>>75112397
im in somalia nigga its called houston
>>75123742
I'm pretty sure it's called Dearborn.
>>75116524
The same happened to me but I had a different perspective
>tfw all of your bullies fell for western women jew and got married, and are all now washed up drones that work 9 hour jobs to support some bitch and his spawn so she can stay at home and cuck him
[spoiler] honestly though bullying was good for my life because it made me start doing virtual school and eventually led me to skipping highschool and starting on my college diploma early, so now I'm like 19 and have a bacherlors and almost my masters
i would say it's necessary
I always considered "bullying" to be bantz hot off the presses.
Then I met my first American, called him a chubby nigger as a joke (I'm black, he was white) and the guy lost his shit and called me a bully
Why are Americans such softies? It's only ever the American tourists that get buttblasted over every perceivable thing on earth, you people need to gey punched more
>>75112045
I've been laughing at this for a good 10 minutes straight, Jesus
>>75110504
It's a necessary bad, like getting burnt to know fire is hot and hurts. Bullies are there to teach you acting like a retard and looking like a retard makes life hurt.
>>75124500
kek
>>75110504
I was bullied as a freshman in highschool by some senior assholes. They tormented me everyday until one day I just snapped and stabbed one of them with a pair of scissors and kicked the other in the balls and proceeded to repeatedly punch his face while he was on the ground.
The dean of the school told me he was disappointed I reacted like I did, but said those guys deserved it.
I became a cool kid that day. After serving my semester long in school suspension, I was never messed with again.
>>75124266
It sucks but most American tourists are the most un-fun, white bread people you'll ever meet. I'd appreciate bantz from a foreigner but most avoid it because of people who can't take a joke.
Calling people niggers is pretty widely frowned upon though, might not want to do that
>>75121828
this! once girls started to realise they had a free pass on bullying things went to shit quick
>>75122578
Fuck you Paco. If you can't take some bantz fucking kill yourself. If you're show weakness people will target you. If you got big ears or fucked teeth, or you're just ugly, then make fun of yourself on occasion or just don't give the "bully" a reaction.
No one bullies the ugly funny kid in the class who makes fun of himself on occasion. They bully the weak little beta hiding in the corner.
>>75124912
Most people honestly don't care about the nigger thing. Aussies and Americans do, but I've met my fair share of Africans, and other assorted black people, it's just a word. White people get uncomfortable, but most of them who have been here a while start saying it themselves
Bullying is bad nowadays because of how much shit has changed.Lemme clarify.
50 years ago if someone was a bully the kids are usually the same height,age,build and ethnic background,they have the same temperament,the teachers could actually have the freedom to smack a kid in line if they got out of hand and you're allowed to fight back.
Now you have can have some small beta Asian kid who immigrated straight from Japan and had to skip 2 grades because American public education is absolute shit tier whose worst conflict he ever encountered being someone not using the proper form of language when greeting him or some shit.
He's now being bullied by a bunch of 6'4" Negros held back 2 years because they have an IQ of 70,responding to the news of their older brother being shot in a gang war with "SHIIIIIIET NIGGA GOT ICED!" and who teachers will run away from if they see them bullying someone because they just KNOW if they get involved in any way their career is down the fucking drain.And if by some miracle that kid knows karate and can beat up a gang of thugs twice his size he's getting expelled on the spot and the police called for committing a hate crime.
Like seriously,society is too fucked up nowadays for us to NEED a little bit of chaos in the form of bullying.
Both. But kids need to learn to stand up for them selves. None of this tell the teacher bs. Give the bully an ass kicking and they will under stand
>>75110504
I weep for the kids that won't get to bully fags. It is a true injustice.
Depends. I was bullied in elementary school cause I was a loser and a pussy. Made me learn how to act somewhat normal, and made me toughen up. I don't think people should bully about looks because they can't help being ugly. But if someone is acting like an annoying fag, then I'd say sure, go ahead.
It builds character
its how you first learn that life is not fair and tough if you're a pussy
Im only talking about unarmed fights
Problem is today youll probably just end up stabbed because theres no values
>>75110504
I can't really relate to you guys because I was a kid who liked to read books and only had a handful of friends. People left me alone and I left them alone.
I got bullied, repeatedly kicked the guy in the balls who bullied me when I got forced into a fight. No one bullied me after that, I even got the respect of people around me.
Years later I heard the guy is impotent, I like to think that he became that way because of me
>>75126831
I'm pretty sure that its a pretty safe bet that you're the cause of that.
>>75110504
Depends is you manage to overcome or not.
>>75127041
Wha... What is going on in that photo?
>>75110504
bullying used to be indian burns and the occasional wedgie, now it's half a class of niggers stomping on your head after you're already been knocked out by a sucker punch.
>>75119078
Apparently there is something called a zero tolerance rule which gets children suspended if you stand up and fight a prick that's fucking with you. So kids are taught to be fucking snitches while also being brainwashed by their teachers that being an SJW and tolerant at school is the best way to go. My son is fifteen and he had a slip come home just a few weeks ago that read "before summer vacation starts, we will begin our gender education week, teaching your child about terms such as "asexual" and "gender fluid." What the absolute fuck happened to math and science? How is this supposed to get my son ready for the ACT and college? Reeeeeee
>>75110504
Everything is good in moderation.
Bullying makes oddballs self-aware of how they appear to others. Do YOU want to look like the weakest link everywhere you go for the rest of your life?
>>75110504
Schoolyard bullying prepares you for the more severe bullying that occurs later in life.
Adult bullies can ruin your entire life passively and comfortably without breaking any laws. They have policy, status, and power over you and will prey on the weak relentlessly.
>>75127341
Private school man.
>>75126831
Good on ya m8.
>>75114616
Why would you want any system dependent men?
>>75110504
It's bad but kids should be able to handle it without offing themselves and shooting up a school. Not victim blaming but lots of kids these days are pussies
>>75116126
leftypol your memes are shit
>>75110504
Bullying isn't some life sentence.
If you can at least fight your bully to the point that you create a hassle for him to continue bullying you- you've won.
If you continue being easy quarry and don't even stand up to them- you've lost.
>>75127294
That's not bullying that's "niggers" and "attempted murder"
huge difference.
>>75110504
Builds character. we need more kids taking karate and shit
To a certain extent, yes
>>75110504
>tfw "soft and friendly" looking exterior but actually a warrior.
I've given many bullies a shock in my day. I love the look of confusion and terror on their faces when I ground and pound them into the pavement for making a threatening remark.
>>75126282
Kek, this
>>75110504
Kids growing up in these school "safe spaces" where no one hurts, offends, or bullies them is why we have all this bullshit SJW crap. Kids need to experience reality or they will continue to reject it into their adulthood as tumblr whales and others have.
>>75110504
Maybe he's bullying for a different reason?
A healthy culture enforces its values through "bullying." This is meant to be a social function, not a government function. Ostracization in Amish communities is a perfect example.
Of course kids bully out of boredom or as dick measuring contests, but bullies give boys the opportunity to defend their honor and build the self-esteem required to become men.
The anti-bullying campaigns run by many schools only pathologize masculinity. Aggression and honor are delegitimized as psychological shortcomings stemming from traumatic experience. This is how you get numales.
I've been teaching teens and some kids for over 6 years now, pretty much all my coworkers agree with me on this subject.
I grew up playing games and being that weird kid, I did suffer "bullying" or whatever it was called then. My friends were pretty much the same, and one of them used to say girls could smell virginity miles away, but in reality anyone can do that, it's easy to tell by someone's attitude.
Out of all the people I've taught over these years, EVERY single one that suffered bullying was a wimp. What bullies look for isn't that weird kid, or the retard like in the movies, it's one with no self respect at all. I've noticed as well that most of them think they're much better than the others because they're smart, unique and whatever other autistic thought goes through their heads. They simply won't mix with the class, not because of their hobbies, but for some stupid behavior they simply can't throw away for whatever reason.
Of course, people who can't integrate will be bullied. Most think it's something unfair, but reality isn't like that. I've had to deal with shit countless times because a certain person or group, instead of arguing the problem with their classmates, decided to bring it directly to the director and fuck the entire class up, simply because they cannot integrate.
Most teachers I know, surprisingly, agree more with the bullies than with the bullied ones. We can tolerate kids talking and messing up most the time, but not the bullshit of the special snowflakes with their shitty attitudes they can only show to your back. Almost all of my classes have this one quiet kid, who doesn't talk much, with normal friends and so on. He is as smart as the nerds but without the retarded attitude, and guess what, they never get bullied.
>>75117923
based crowder
you're okay, taco friend
>>75111470
Well, Meatheads are a disgrace no doubt in that
but theyre as annoying as faggots and autistic kids.
Theyre quite the same size of shit
>>75119078
The danger is when the people are in groups
How will you deal with 3v1? Do you want to lose teeth and have serious injuries? It's not worth it
>>75127239
Fuck if I know, but its glorious, and the dog knows it.
Good, cause it's reality and the sooner you learn to deal with it, the better
