Hey /pol/
I'm a 26 year old virgin. I've had oral but never intercourse. I always used religion as my excuse but i'm really starting to wonder if maybe women just don't like me? I have 1 male friend and the rest are all females, yet I haven't had a girlfriend in 10 years.
Anyways on my way home today from the dogpark i saw a young girl wearing a black tshirt, with long black hair. She had thigh high lace stockings on and i'm not sure if she even had anything else on under her shit(as in shorts or something). I checked my wallet and had $50 dollars in it. I almost fucking paid for sex... I have never felt so depressed before. Why does sex hold such power over me?
Anyways ultimately I want to talk about prostitution and what is /pol/'s stance on it?
>>74289075
HAHAHA FELDMANN LOOK AT THIS PEICE OF SHIT! AAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
>>74289075
>Why does sex hold such power over me?
Because you are virgin, having sex won't change anything.
>>74289075
I paid for an Asian bitch to jerk me off twice at the local 'massage' place by my house after my ex broke my heart and I got tired of jerking myself.
It was 75$ , big deal. I'm sure if I paid enough I could of fucked her.
But didn't want jungle gook AIDS
Tl:;Dr?
Your confidence is low. Try and get some.
>>74289336
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S06nIz4scvI
I have ptsd from /b/ raids on /pol/....
Look at my face anon.
3/10 at best for male
Manlet
45k year dead end manual labor job
And I slayed in my younger twenties
I'm 27 yo now , and my gf would let me piss on her if I wanted to.
Lrn2bealpha
>>74289075
Don't do it OP, i have plenty normal experience with girls but also had sex with a hooker on a drunken night out with friends and while it wasn't that big of a deal, i rather wouldn't have done it
>>74289479
Ain't /pol/ hell ? Hahahaha
>>74289075
>I've had oral
Normie get out
REEEEEE
>>74289075
If you pay for sex because you're lonely and want companionship, you are a degenerate loser.
>>74289075
>Why does sex hold such power over me?
Because you're a human being. We all have our needs and don't believe anyone pretending that they think sex is lame. It's overrated as fuck, but you can't control your basic needs. After all, you're just an animal.
>>74289075
I had one girlfriend when I was 17-18. I had sex with her many times,but since then, I haven't had sex with anyone else. I may as well be a virgin because I was mever good at sex back then and I basically forgot how to be close with anyone. I am 25 now and my chances look bleak. Women my age want more than they did in high school. Everyone tells me to lift, like it's the holy grail of getting pussy. I honestly don't think it'll save me. I have bigger problems now than not being swole and those problems are more than enough for women to ignore me. I have considered paying for sex, but when I went to a strip club for the first time it was so awkward, I din't think I would be willing to get more intimate with a stranger who is basically tolerating me for money.
>>74289075
the way to a woman's heart is through her vagina, and the way to a woman's vagina is through her ears
Look for a wife, but since so many women are whores, consider a life of true celibacy
From a moral standpoint, I oppose it.
But I can see why men would pay for sex. $50 for sex is much cheaper than a wife that'll leave you destitute in a few years when she cucks you.
>>74290057
I make about $60k a year, which isn't bad, but also not good... I really just want to find a nice woman to marry and have kids with. But society is so fucking fucked up right now. It feels hard to meet women who aren't just out for a free ride, money, or their quick fix. Feminism has really gone and fucked up everything i feel.
>>74290214
I can't remember the last time i met someone in their late 20s to 30s thats been married for more than 5 years. Lasting relationships seem like a thing of the past, and one night stands are the norm. Makes me disgusted
>>74289075
>I've had oral but never intercourse.
So. How did you like sucking cock?
>>74290005
>Tolerating you for money
>Implying that this isn't literally the only reason a woman ever stays with a man
>>74290383
lol
I came to a problem I can't find a girl I like anymore.I had a girl I found 10/10, but, despite her liking me at first, she turned out to be quite strange and immature in terms of relations and I dropped her.
Now I just don't like most girls I see and I also feel bad that I want to have a family and children though I am young and most girls of my age are just HANGING AROUND UNTIL 25.I also have no strength to develop higher feelings to woman anymore.I am not even painful about that retarded shit happening, I am already over it, I feel ambitious and I know what to do with my life right now, but in terms of relationships I feel empty as fuck.
>>74290023
of course the only way to her respect is through your wallet
>>74290377
I used to be the same way, but now, all I want is money and a decent career. Fuck marriage and fuck child-rearing.
>>74289980
On mobile, what flag is this?
>>74289075
I get a hooker once in a while.
Cheaper than a girlfriend and I want to avoid the degeneracy that is Tinder and other dating apps.
Remember, paying for sex is no different than paying for a haircut. It's a service between two consenting parties.
If you feel that having sex would change you, do it. I know a few virgins (25+) who are deeply embittered, but refuse to to fuck a hooker. They are dumbfucks. They're basically letting it control themselves and choosing not to do anything about it.
So do it, OP. Even better, order an escort and chat to her before hand. Have a glass of whisky before she arrives. Canadian Club is good shit.
>>74289075
sex can get boring man once you nut you could give a fuck about a bitch . the only reason you feel the way you do is because you are thinking about sex as some kind of glories mountain you have yet to climb
>>74289075
>I have 1 male friend and the rest are all females
Lmao how can you be so retarded.
>>74289528
You look like an average bloke unless you're like 5"1.
>>74290528
I thought this way like 2 years ago, which is why i went to university. To get a better job. Now i feel just a complete lack of motivation.
>>74290460
I totally understand this. These women who just want to have fun till their mid 25s feel like used goods.
>>74290540
Topkek
Lichtenstein
>>74290749
And this.
Get a hooker and you'll see it's really no big deal. Sex exists as an incentive to procreate.
>>74290460
By had I mean she wasn't my gf.I share the ''fuck as early as possible'' philosophy but this girl just played sadistic on me because I reminded her of her father that just dropped her family.Did no single bad thing to her and was caring and badass at once.Right in the feels, sorry for this shitpost, I just rarely share such things.
>CURRENT YEAR
>Falling for the 3D meme
Join us in the 2D Utopia
>>74290540
Liechtenstein
OP, whenever you're in a place of weakness, think of people like Napolean Bonaparte or Julius Caesar whose mere existence changed human history forever. Did they bow to roasties? No, the conquered, and everything else was just a spoil of victory.
Guys, how do I keep being myself and don't break?What if world always hit me for being honest and honorable and I climbed depression over depression and it just hits harder?Is there a point when I overcome this and this is all just kind of test?Or we are here just to either suffer or swallow blue pill and die slowly?
>tfw you can't get hard when with a girl
I think porn and anxiety ruined me, I have thought of paying a hooker but I'd need viagra just to get the job done
>>74291515
there is no point of being depressed bro I have been there on and off for years you cant change the world the point is finding happiness in something the world could burn you have to look after yourself
Ur mistake op is to be friends with too many women might have 1 female friend max, must reject the friendship of the rest tell them that they are just ur acquaintances, that will piss them off and u cannot be friendzoned by them, when i met my gf at the begining i refused to be friends and any physical contact always told her that shes not my type and blah blah blah women dont like to be rejected thwrefore they might force themselves on u
>>74289075
I'm 26 as well. Honestly, I'm jealous of you and you should be proud. At this point, save it for somebody special and meaningful to you, preferably a prospect wife. I don't even remember the name of the girl who took my virginity. I've had sex with 10 girls, 1 time each, condom every time and I regret every one of them. I've not had sex since I tested positive for herpes. I don't know if it's genital or oral (Never had a noticeable breakout to be lab tested), but I'm pretty damn fortunate it wasn't something else. The point is STDs are rampant and will pop up in the least expected people. STDs have now become I think the number 2 cause of death for young men in the United States.
Hang in there pal. Find a good girl. It will be worth your wait.
Big deal. Im 29 and I never scored.
I dont even have a social life now.
>>74289528
You look like a friend I used to have who had a really hot gf (until she cheated on him)
>>74291772
you from ont bro
>>74289075
idgaf you should just get your end away and chill out about it
then you'll get it for free
I'd never go to a whore though because I'm petrified of women, even those who I have paid
>>74289528
Oh shit! Mark?
What the fuck are you doing on /pol/ dude
>>74289528
rid yourself of the shitty facial hair
get a decent set of frames
get rid of the child's cap
spend $40 on a decent haircut, either from a hot chick or a faggot
you'll do better unless
>>74290806
is correct
>>74289075
25 y/o kissless virgin, I don't care.
>All these people still waiting for a 3DPD
I am fucking South American spic and even I was able to see the light of 2D.
So you can too
>>74291881
Can't we?We have the spark that drives humanity.We are depressed because we supress it.I can't speak for everyone on pol but I personally will follow my dream and lay my life for it.I just feel bad I broke my only rule of not getting connected to someone I havent been through a lot and this hurt me so much.The happiness is an illusion, we are not designed to be happy.The perfect life is both happiness and saddness, you just need to find yourself through lots of suffering and pleasure.It's just that sometimes there are things you can't affect.I just feel bad because I am old-fashioned guy who wants a family, but I cant find any woman to build it with.This is the breaking point of my plans, I guess I have to blindly dive into life and hope for the best.
>>74290806
Friend zone accumulation probably.
>>74292347
Same.
Engineering stress killed my libido.
>>74292568
Let me guess. 3% of cunts in your department.
>>74292539
Thats what people would assume, but i've always found it easier to befriend women for some reason. The problem is finding one that I can develope feelings for.
>>74292347
>>74292568
It's called 'being a faggot' Anons.
>>74289075
>Why does sex hold such power over me?
Evolution. You're part of species where the vast majority of your ancestors over the years died horribly violence and excrutiatingly painful deals while never having reproduced or passed on their genes. However you're one of the extremely lucky people who has a lineage of people who were more suited for passing on their genes and because that requires intercourse you have a strong desire to seek it.
In the same way you need knowledge of calories to help mitigate eating too much when you're hungry, you also need knowledge of your own biological sexual drives to help mitigate the need to stick your dick into anything with breasts.
Educate yourself, understand your urges, learn to deal with them.
>>74292310
This. He looks like a hipster faggot.
>>74289075
If you get a hooker to lose your virginity you should just end your life.
>>74292504
I am in the exact same situation being old fashioned and wanting to start a family . I think the more you get out there though the easier it will be to meet someone bro I plan on doing the same thing since I am single as well ill say this don't have it in your mind that is the main reason you are getting out and about and you will meet someone when the time is right .
>>74289075
21 here, kissless too.
I've considered paying but being a depressed loser piece of shit I'd probably just end up hating myself even more.
If it never happens for me, then whatever. Doubt it ever will given how awkward and introverted I am, I just can't picture anyone ever being attracted to me either.
>>74289075
short answer on prostitution: i don't judge.
honestly, if a man wants to do it, because he wants to, i'm fine with that. But based off your situation, I wouldn't because you're doing it to cope from a larger problem.
desu senpai, most honest normal young men these days are getting shafted because we got taught to be beta fucks with good hearts. It's a huge uphill battle, but in the long term it's worth it do get your shit handled.
There's a good chance who you are and how you convey who you are shows that you don't get sex and that you're needy. Women can literally see, hear, and smell that shit off of you; they're genetically predisposed to have these abilities to weed out beta men.
personally I went the "game" route. learning how to talk to people, coming from a genuine place but learning how to convey myself in a better way. "the game" was the door, but RSD really solidified that shit for me, even though they had a lot of advanced concepts.
anyways good luck, faggot. do what you gotta do.
>>74293075
This
>>74289075
>tfw scored 7 times while living in a muslim
thats on hard mode.
i don't understand how you guy are still virgin in western countries.
>>74289528
>3/10
this how i know u are trolling
>>74290723
>Remember, paying for sex is no different than paying for a haircut. It's a service between two consenting parties.
That's because you have rationalized to yourself that sex is as normal as a haircut - when it really is not. Especially for a virgin.
It can be deeply emotional and I suspect there are many who regret having a hooker take their virginity. You don't want to lose your virginity, you want to lose your virginity with someone other than a dollar bill.
If you are that obsessed with sex, then have that be a motivator to better yourself.
People who have had others love them will never know how someone who has never had anyone love them feels.
>>74294975
god damn that bitch is horny
this is why you should post pics like that on /pol/
I didn't read your text at all
god dayum
>>74296418
>it can be emotional
>can
It's not always rationizing when it comes to the emotional apsects of sex. For some people sex is always meaningless pleasure, and for some it can always be emotional pleasure. Most people are just in between.
When someone is rationalizing, they are hurting themselves by automatically believing that they don't care about the emotional aspects of sex. Rationalizing is only a defense mechanism for those who have the capacity to care for other people past a certain point.
not worth it OP. Had a friend who fucked a black hooker and he cried about how it was a drunken mistake. Plenty of sluts out there who will let you bump the nasties for free anyway.
>>74297160
>It's not always rationizing when it comes to the emotional apsects of sex. For some people sex is always meaningless pleasure, and for some it can always be emotional pleasure. Most people are just in between.
I agree. this is what I was saying. But I thought it was self evident that those who care about losing their virginity and the /r9k/type do put a lot of emotional weight behind their virginity. And typically, if a man has not lost their virginity by a certain age it is a source of great shame.
I just think that if you are one of those people who do care about their virginity then going with a hooker is probably the worst thing you can do. It will likely be horrible. First times often are. But you will still feel all the self-hate you felt before. They don't just disappear, especially not because you paid for sex.
>>74297693
first time i got laid it was shit
put the rubber on the wrong way
>>74289528
ahahahahahahahah faggot
Sex is an embellishment in modern culture. Things like porn, women putting themselves on pedestals on social media, etc. will give any average man the notion of feeling like sex is unattainable.
Sex is fucking overrated dude. yeah it feels good but don't look at it as something to cross off of your bucket list. That's how I looked at it for the longest time, and it intimidated me, resulting in my inability to find a sexual partner.
Once you have the revelation that you shouldn't feel the need to compete with what everyone else on the planet is doing, and truly, genuinely feel ready to have sex, it will happen, friend. Have sex for the sake of loving and bonding with a woman and procreation. Hopping from person to person goes against human biology and is fueled by the inability to control impulses. Like chasing a high from a drug.
>>74289075
Jesus, just fuck a whore already. Actual sex is not as amazingly life changing as people say. What is life changins is realising that sex isn't a big deal at all, so go fuck a whore and forget about this stupid shit.
>>74298553
kinda like coming to 4chan to get a conversation high off of strangers instead of making close friends
>>74298553
It's not just the sex though, it's the total lack of intimacy and relationships, whether romantic or platonic.
Being so isolated and lonely sucks, especially when you're too pathetic to get out of it.
>>74298961
A tired argument but I agree. For me personally, I lurk more than post because I like the viewpoints and information I find on this board.
>>74298553
>Sex is fucking overrated
>the entire post is about how you need to be genuinely ready for sex
No you don't, just fuck somebody Jesus Christ, the sooner you get it over with, the sooner you move on with your life. After you stop being a virgin, nobody really cares how often you have sex, there's no real pressure and you can do whatever.
>>74289978
>implying all men don't pay for sex
>one way or the other
Grew up believing in love and marriage and all that crap.
Never sealed the deal though. (If that fairy tale is going to work, it only works with a high school sweetheart and then only in a nation that's not toxic as VX nerve gas to men and marriage like the U.S. is.)
Older now...more experience with women. Honestly? If I was a millionaire I would set aside the whole dating scene and just fuck college age escorts.
Ironically this is probably less risky in feminazi America than any other type of male/female relationship outside of the Amish community. Always remember your dear, sweet, loving gf or wife can whisper "rape" to a cop and you will be arrested, beaten, and spend your life's savings trying to prove your innocence.
The odds of an upper end escort that you treated nice doing this are nil.
>>74289075
IMO prostitution is just like getting a back rub, you're paying someone for a physical service that relieves stress and promotes a feeling of well being. Just go in for a rub-n-tug at your local massage parlor (check online if it's legit first) if you're anxious about your first encounter with the world's oldest profession.
>>74299425
Let me correct myself. The way people go about sex is over rated. The more popular opinion is fuck around and sleep with whoever you want, which is trashy and Chad tier. Do you think it'd feel better to lose your virginity to some hooker who's had 10 other dicks in her throughout the day, or a girl that you've known and have developed romantic feelings for?
>>74289075
>Why does sex hold such power over me?
Easiest way to fix that is have sex and kill the illusion, yeah its really fun, but its not worth your dignity, falling all over yourself whitenighting just hoping to slam some sweet puss.
I say pay for it. Tell her and shell go easy on you from expirience the best sex is in a relationship, if you practice lots with the same person its better.
>>74296418
>men
>"lose virginity"
Choose one and only one.
Virginity is a concept that only properly applies to women. Men don't give anything up or "lose" anything with sex.
If the phrase "lose virginity" can be applied to a man at all, it can be applied the moment he gets married, or the moment he gets slapped with a child support order.
>>74290460
It's because they're either all dead or the russians have them.
>>74299908
>Do you think it'd feel better to lose your virginity to some hooker who's had 10 other dicks in her throughout the day, or a girl that you've known and have developed romantic feelings for?
I think it doesn't matter, because sex is not important. What's important is understanding that sex isn't important and for that you need to have sex. Otherwise you're just going to be obsessed about it like a retard. So just do it
/pol/ always complaining about degeneracy and now:
> just fuck a whore anon.
> I never had a relationship
> i'm still a virgin
Once you reach a certain age you are better off staying a virgin. I'd say probably around 19 or 20. The fact is that you will never catch up to how much sex everyone else (men and women) have had. Every woman you'd fuck has been with multiple guys and you will not being anything special to them. You may as well stay a virgin and not get cucked by the previous 100 men who were in your woman.
I spent 2.5k on hookers and blow in the last 2 months, git gud faggit
>>74289075
Find a decent escort or paid fuck buddy.
Trust me, it's the smart man's move.
Having a g/f leads to having a wife which leads to having kids. Don't find yourself quietly staring at a blank tv screen because the kids are sleeping.
>>74300217
only the first point is hypocritical.
there is NOTHING wrong with being a male virgin
op, if you want to rent a hooker, don't pick one up off of a street corner
you're in fucking canada, you can walk into an escort agency operating out of a storefront
you might be surprised at how much having sex and enjoying yourself changes your mind about "disgusting women that sleep around in their 20s" or whatever stupid shit you were posting about above
>>74300217
There is literally nothing wrong with whores. That's the purest form of relationship between a man and a woman.
>>74289075
Don't get a street walker. Go online and find a prostitute with standards, like she wont fuck you or suck you off without a condom. If you don't have sex with women regularly you will become a pussy chasing beta male. Don't let them have power over you. If women try and use hole power on me, I just show them a loooonnnnnggg list of women I have and could fuck right now if I wanted to.
>>74289075
Nothing wrong with prostitution, mate.
But I prefer expensive escorts, to be honest. Two weeks ago, I dated with this girl, Marta Bosch, Spaniard (Catalan), 24 years old, university student, occasional model; 700 euros for 3 hours.
http://www.girlsbcn.net/escort/gbmarta69.html
>>74301024
>>74301084
>>74301084
There's a cockroach in the glass
>>74300979
russia yes
>>74300979
This.
>my thread is deleted
>this is fine
>>74301170
>>74289075
degenerate, but a means to an end.
its legal here and i will admit to /pol/ i have used such services.
I had a perfect girl, we had a blast, she was my third, I was her first
I was on a roll socially and truly believed that adventure was in my destiny; and so it was, I enjoyed that for a decade, I've experienced much and had a real good time doing it, launched succesful businesses, made lasting and faithful friends I'd do anything for...
I never found a woman like my perfect girl even though I enjoyed the company of many; I should've kept her close and taken her along for the ride but it's too late now, no turning back
I don't believe in any higher power but I pray for the chance to meet another one of her kind: beautiful but modest, rational yet girly, responsible but easy going etc
>>74299559
>The odds of an upper end escort that you treated nice doing this are nil.
Look at all the pornstars on twatter crying rape. The only thing the guts got saving their asses is that no one cares about whores.
OP just think about it like this, you want ass and she wants money. Its a win-win. But always be "in control" she's still a whore and after your money. If they see weakness they will abuse it.
>nooo i dont want to go on top.
>nooo no kissing
>nooo i wont wear the alien mask its stupid.
Your money, your rules. Discuss everything beforehand
>>74294975
>RSD
what?
>>74295837
Did you say ficki ficki to them?
Seriously OP, the fulfilling thing for me in a relationship is feeling good about myself and someone really caring for me. I don't think you'll find happiness in a hookers cunt.
>>74300979
>>74300862
Pick one
>>74289075
>oral but not intercourse
Same. Condoms are so uncomfortable that I'm fine with sticking to oral
This isnt /r9k/ get off me board reeeeeeeeeeeeeee
>>74302162
this
condoms a shit
even handjobs are better
fucking a bird with a johnny is just a means to an end in the hope she'll go on the pill later and you can chuck some yoghurt about
>>74301665
iktf, friends ask me why I dont have a gf despite them introducing me to other girls, but what I want is a very specific kind of girl I have only known one of before she went to medschool and I never saw her again.
>>74291515
look at every single third world country. there is no sign of depression anywhere among poor people. maybe you should fuck off to africa and learn what it really means to have the privelage of being alive. obviously you're never going to do something like this so you've already lost if you're whining about depression. depression doesn't exist, it's just something psychologists get you to believe in so that they can make a buck and brainwash the population.
>>74302147
I'm not the same person as that Russian and completely disagree with his view there is nothing wrong with whores.
Women might be inferior to men, which is true, but that doesn't mean most men aren't degenerates who think with their dicks too much
>>74289075
Bro, you're a virgin without the experience of dating a woman and having your heart crushed by them. When you get older you begin to loose interest the bullshit that women put you through and you gain wisdom from all that hardship. Married men In their 40s have no single fuck about sticking their dick into a hooker because they're tortured souls, shells of what men they were simply because they adhered to society's expectation of marrying your high school sweetheart and having those 2.5 kids.
tl;dr the point is that pussy is pussy so no need to place it on a pedestal. Go out there and fuck as much as you can. Eventually you will find that woman who will become your bff
>>74301900
google it you fuckwit simo hayha. it's an acronym for real social dynamics.
>>74289980
> Liechtenstein
> convincing goy OP he's an animal
/pol/ was right again
>>74301665
you won't ever meet another one of her kind because when it isn't your first too anymore the bond is weaker
>>74289301
>Because you are virgin, having sex won't change anything.
kek, I know what you meant but that sentence can be read in a funny way.
>>74301900
real social dynamics
look it up on yt
>>74290723
>Canadian Club is good shit.
lol, is this our Stella Artois? Canadian Club is pleb tier for people who like a little whisky with their ginger ale.
>>74302772
Red herring. Third world countries aren't exactly known for their stellar mental health services.
>>74289528
weev?
Yes, fucking go for it OP. I was much like you in my younger days, but throughout my late 20's and 30's, I pulled so much poon its ridiculous. My advice, you need to spend like a year or two just banging hookers. Get it out of your system. It absolutely worked for me, changed my fucking life.
You need to teach your mind that fucking a girl is absolutely no big deal. Its as common as driving your fucking car, no reason to even worry about it. You can tell yourself all day long, but you need to get out and live it, get the experience. If the only way you can make that happen is to pay for it, then just fucking do it. Keep yourself safe, cover up, and holy shit don't fall in love with a hooker, just fuck them and have a good time.
Once all the mystery and nerves are gone, you'll know that truly, sex is really no big deal at all. And when you can bring that attitude to your dating life, you'll find there are probably a lot of girls who will fuck you, no problem.
So go out and bang some hot bitches, and some ugly ones, thin, fat, whatever. Just fuck until you realize that its really not a big deal for you anymore. Make sure you keep up your "normal life" at the same time, hookers are for practice, not as a substitute for relationships.
Anon's with copious amounts of sex/ relationship experience, how do you meet women? Outside of paid prostitution, what are the best ways/ environments for first contacts?
I personally have no problem with attracting women and the follow-up its just that I rarely ever meet chicks. I don't feel like I'm a low-life, I go out as much as my buds who have gfs, and my personality isn't abnormal? I can safely say that I'm smoother with women than said buds, but wtf
I feel like it may be because I'm too personable with women, and people in general. Not shallow enough for modern dating culture, but I really don't know.
recently had sex for the first time, still fucking the same girl
only thing that changed is now I barley care about sex anymore
I would have given her $50 is she would have fucked desu.
I lost mine to an escort.
Really regret it because a year later I got a virgin gf. We could have lost it together (she thinks we did) but I gave in to my desires and now my first experience is tainted forever.
>>74289075
>have 1 male friend and the rest are all females, yet I haven't had a girlfriend in 10 years.
because your female friends have you trapped in the friend zone where they want you.
>>74306673
Get a job in a female dominated industry.
Personally I am Y: The Last Man At The Hairdressers.
The downside to this is they might get all bitchy competing over you.
>>74307150
Virginity in males don't exist, even if you had not gotten laid in your life the other people assume you have an active sex life; men don't have hymen so virginity in men only means inexperience. That's the reason women looks for men who had has a lot sex with other girls and see you with disgust if this is your first time.
>>74307150
It's meaningless shit.
The only reason you care is because you balloon the meaning if it in your mind.
I lost my virginity to my first love, we did together. and I'm telling you stop obsessing over it.
You attention should be focused on the girl you love (?) and looking forward.
Just don't ever tell her about that hooker thing. No matter what. No reason to ruin her ideal fantasy.
>>74289075
Why the hell are you so desperate to have sex? It's more important to form genuine relationships. Work towards that instead.
>>74290005
I thought this was me for a second. Hurts man.
>>74289075
>Why does sex hold such power over me?
cuz u put dat pussy on da pedestal dawg
I'm a 25 year old virgin and while I've had thoughts of banging a prostitute or escort, I just can't go through with it. My luck I'll get an STD or caught or killed or something.
I squandered my college years, could have had so much pussy but I kept being a moral fag that thought drinking, partying and shit was below me. So many qts wanted my D and I just had to be this byronic tough guy. I blew it.
Sad thing is, my libido and testosterone is off the charts and I'm just throwing away these years of being in my prime. On one hand I'm starting to get over it, sex isn't a huge deal and I'm not about to put pussy on a pedestal. On the other though, man do I want to mount a bitch and go to town. I really don't put myself out there, but it is what it is.
>>74289528
if you are a 3/10 then I must be a -25/10 m8
the only girl who ever paid any attention to me was a qt blindie (I'm not even kidding) during college, but she ended up with some Chad of course
if I don't kike up and become a banker I'll without a doubt die a 70 year old fat hunchback kissless virgin neet who forgot even how to speak
>>74296484
Same. I didn't read a word of his shit. I stared at the jpg for a good 2 minutes however.
>>74289075
Are you ugly as fuck? Why don't you just dl tinder and fuck some 3/10 slut?
>>74289075
Get tested. If you're asking us how we feel, you've already done it.
>>74311078
I have tinder, and I've talked with a few ladies on their. It just never ends up happening though.
>>74312542
you talking about texting of tinder or actually meeting up with them?
if you're constantly texting, stop that shit, unless you're flirting. the point of text is to get them to come out.
>>74312542
>>the face of /pol/ leafposters
