Is autistic to want a gf who is into music as much as you are /mu/? I feel so much at home listening to music and I wish I could share that with someone who is comfortable with the shit I listen to.
Pic unrelated.
>>65771406
Yes
Few people are actually "into" music
>>65771406
Yes
Few people are actually "into" music
>>65771406
Yes
Few people are actually "into" music
>Is it autistic to want a girlfriend who has similar interests to you?
Um, no???
>>65771467
He's wrong Op.
Yes, it's very autistic and more importantly, it's wrong.
>>65771604
Why's it autistic? Why's it wrong?
>>65771406
no girl will ever lay with you and listen to your favorite records
was all this time spent becoming a patrician worth it in the end?
just go to a local show and then quietly stand in a corner and watch the one cute girl there walk around and talk to people while you're alone and trying to think of things to say to her that won't make her think you're a, like, total creep until you say to yourself well she probably has a boyfriend anyway and then you go home
Yall act like you're a special snowflake talking about how you listen to Swans and shit then get salty when a girl thinks you're weird af.
>>65771770
You must go back
>>65771406
dont ask for advice on 4chan
>>65771705
Chad Thundercock wins again
not really, it's understandable to want to be with someone who has similar interests to you
if you stop looking at women as some type of hivemind and rather as people, you could probably find one
>>65771770
>Yall
found the nigger
>>65771739
None of that serves to answer my question.
>>65771812
shut the fuck up
>>65771820
Yes it does
>>65771406
Why this nigga look like Anthony Fantano?
>>65771790
beta uprising when
>>65771812
>Y'all
>You & all contraction
kys
>>65771812
Retard
>>65771821
back to the cotton fields
>>65771829
No it doesn't.
Searching for a partner that shares your passions, no matter how few there may be, isn't "wrong," or autistic.
You're not making an argument here. You're simply stating, and again stating your position while giving no substantiation.
If you've got nothing to fucking say, shut the fuck up. Stop wasting my goddamn time with this bullshit.
>>65771897
Dude few people are actually "into" music
Yes. There's only 3 possibilities:
1. You're a complete pleb and thus can find a girl who actually likes the music you like
2. They have a bf
3. They parroted their ex-bf's taste and don't actually enjoy the music
It's not just autistic, but almost an impossibility. Just find a girl who's comfortable with weird taste and who's interested in your personality and teach them about your favorite music.
>>65771916
>he recognizes that I'm simply repeating myself ad nauseam!
>better repeat myself some more!
>surely that'll show him just how much of a too-cool-for-school-tool I am!
Indeed it has.
I appreciate your rhetorical resignation. Thanks for not wasting any more of my time with your nonsense.
>>65771960
unty i feel like you don't even try to hide that it's you
>>65771916
who literally gives a shit about that?, at the end you're just saying it's really hard to get a gf who enjoys music as much as you, but that shouldn't be stopping you from looking around, and if it does, you're socially evasive as fuck
>>65771954
>they have a bf
So, according to you, it's autistic and unrealistic to pursue women with passions for music because such women already have a boyfriend?
Do you understand how fucking stupid that sounds? I'm not sure I can even express it to someone that's not privy to it on their own, but I'll fucking try:
Women don't exit the womb with a fucking boyfriend, you idiot. If there exist musically-inclined women with boyfriends, that means that there once existed musically-inclined women without boyfriends, and that there at some point will be more.
You are a fucking idiot.
>>65771993
The only thing that motivates me to contribute to this festering corpse of a board anymore is anger, intense animosity in the grip of which I don't give a fucking damn to try and obscure my identity.
>>65771406
Not at all, man. You might have a good chance of it if you can get in with some females that play instruments. I'd love the same thing but, if you have other stuff you want in a girl, date the ones that have the most likeable (or loveable, I guess that'd be) qualities to you. Your "the one" might not be a girl that loves music, you just have to love her immensely and you're set. Hopefully we'll get there someday.
>>65772057
dude you look new as fuck correcting everyone who calls you autistic, you should know by now everybody here will call you autistic for some stupid reason, jesus it's like you've just discovered this site weeks ago
>>65771406
No, it's not- it's normal teenage attitudes. You want to associate more with an image you've chosen for yourself.
dream on normie
>>65772090
what's the point in not using the trip? did you forget the password? genuine question 2bh
>>65772057
chill. if you think women are so easy to get, go get one instead of bitching about it on 4chan
>fucking idiot
>>65771770
>yall
>>65772116
I'm criticizing his assertion that it's an impossibility moreso than his assertion that it's autistic.
Learn how to fucking read.
>>65772158
>chill
I'm perfectly fine. I'm a little worried about you, though.
You were so bothered by my post that you were went through the effort of typing and submitting something entirely unrelated as though the act would in some sense invalidate the "offensive" or "triggering" content of my argument.
I swear more idiots occupy this board daily.
>>65772134
I just don't care anymore.
>>65771406
Not at all man, I met a girl when I was in high school who liked the same stuff I listen to and we became great friends for that, she was really cute and not a bitch at all, we would spend some of our time together listening to alt rock bands from the 90's, I introduced her to My Bloody Valentine and some other groups, and she made me get into Tame Impala, the sad part is that she lives way too far from my home and I never got to see her again after hs, but we definitely had a great time together, not autistic at all in fact
>>65772250
kys
>>65772250
>I'm perfectly fine
>proceeds to call me an idiot, argue a point that had nothing to do with my post
i wasn't upset, autismo. clearly you have some sort of social retardation if you cant just talk to girls, and if the selection of girls you could possibly get is as high as you think it is, then why aren't you out getting one?
>>65772250
hope ur having a good day unty :)
>>65772376
>clearly you have some sort of social retardation if you cant just talk to girls
When and/or where did I imply/state this?
>if the selection of girls you could possibly get is as high as you think it is
THIS IS WHAT I'M FUCKING TALKING ABOUT.
You're doing it AGAIN. You're introducing entirely unrelated bullshit that I at no point fucking SAID. I did not say I'm good with girls. I said it's fucking retarded to say that it's almost impossible to acquire a gf that's musically inclined because "they always have a bf," because the fucking argument is contradictory!
You/he are/is literally saying it's almost impossible to get a musically-inclined girlfriend because other people have musically-inclined girlfriends.
THAT is my fucking argument. It's NOT that I'm good with girls, or that I've a healthy dating pool, or any of the shit that your previous two posts have argued against.
LEARN HOW TO FUCKING READ.
>>65772505
>LEARN HOW TO FUCKING READ.
Okay anon I'm sorry but please don't yell.
>>65772505
holy shit calm the fuck down
>>65772505
>confirmed autism
stop bullying unty he can't help himself when he gets mad which is all the time
>>65771705
The feel when I've done this.
Multiple times.
>>65773362
I did it last Monday, only there were several cute girls in attendance, a few of which I caught looking at me repeatedly.
I don't know why I mention that though, as if it serves as some sort of constellation prize.
>>65773362
>>65773434
Yeah, some sort of constellation prize.
Something akin to "Hey, we know you've not the social skills or courage to take advantage of the situation, but you're going to attend that show and for a few, brief moments girls' glances will be drawn towards you and linger far more than your apathetic, defeated demeanor warrants! They'll offer you smiles, and you'll stare at the floor, or at the adjacent wall-mounted speaker - anything to avoid making eye contact because you're a cowardly faggot whose solely to blame for his circumstances. Have a nice quiet, lonely drive home and try not to plow into a wall of highway cement!"
>>65773434
I get it, it sort of justifies it. I worry I put out a bad vibe sometimes but someone has started talking to me at just about every show I went to, would prefer it was with women but I've met some chill dudes. Socialising is tricky shit, fammajamma.
>>65773635
No one's ever talked to me.
I went to a show today and this qt kept staring at me. like multiple, long stares. her expression wasn't saying anything, though. did she want my dick?
>>65773787
everybody wants your dick, dont be modest
>>65771406
No; It's only natural to want someone with similar interests
Just ask girls what their favorite bands are
If they're too norm then go ahead and list your normie tier bands you like
If they seem to like similar bands you like, then go ahead and share music together
>>65773787
There are women who lack social skills aswell.
She may also have been worried if her friends would disapprove.
Maybe she thought you were staring at her or someone else and was concerned.
We'll never know since you didn't talk to her.
>>65773696
It's not always a good thing. I saw Tiny Moving Parts and some dude lowkey tried to get me to jam with him. It was a little off puting but maybe I was just misinterpreting his expressions of dissatisfaction with the amount of musicians in his social circles.
that feel when no gf
>tfw gf goes record shopping with me
>tfw gf goes to concerts with me
>tfw gf has better headphones than me
>tfw gf has killer record collection
>tfw i met gf on /mu/
Anything is possible OP.
A lot of the guys here can't get girlfriends because they're creepy weirdos. I listen to lots of different music, but there's no way I'd date any of the woman hating creeps here lol
>>65775887
did you scream london at her
>>65775924
i don't hate women but i don't have a girlfriend with good music taste
my last girlfriend listened to fucking macklemore
explain this
>>65771406
Yes. Thag actually sounds like an anti social tendency you take comfort it.
Literally autistic that listening to music comes before a decent girlfriend.
>>65771770
he's right you know
>>65775887
If I browse /mu/ till I'm 35 maybe I might also get one famalam
>>65771406
Craving a gf is for normies
>>65771916
Go to shows and talk to people, dumb fuck
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q0oz0xE88S0
>>65773846
Haha I would probably still show her patrician music anyway, just in order to be honest with her (I'm not OP btw)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K-jR-9o0cew
>>65778966
Nice record you got there
>he cares about music without playing any instruments
>he pretends to understand what he's listening to without any knowledge of theory
>he doesn't have relative pitch
>he doesn't have a qt musician girlfriend to jam and go to concerts with
brought this upon yourself fag
>>65779584
Except...
>play cello well enough to stand in for my teacher at gigs
>have a shelf full of books on music theory (that I've read).
>can transcribe 4-part harmony
>haven't touched a girl in 18 months
Tfw no Varese loving qt.
