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My sister literally died yesterday in a car accident. Seriously
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My sister literally died yesterday in a car accident.

Seriously

I dont care if you believe me or whatever, bu I really need album recs, /mu/. Please just give me some albums that'll help me feel something outside my own thoughts. I need you /mu/
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Pop by Gas
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Sad or happy?

Sad: Hospice by the Antlers

Happy: Astral Weeks by Van Morrison


Feel better OP :(
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>>65086356
Sad.

She was my best friend
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My best friend died a month ago and Sleep Cycle by Deakin really helped me. The lyrics are gentle and he gives some good advice in them. It sounds like that's not what you want from your post but it really helped me
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Starting with obvious ones
>bon iver- for emma forever ago
>raid yo head, man
>crack the skye- mastodon (the title track at least)

Take care friend
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>>65086391
This. Sleep Cycle is fucking beautiful.
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>>65086337
>>65086337
>>65086337
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Thanks for the suggestions so far guys, it really means a lot

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>>65086337
obvs hitting this one hard
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>>65086315
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mcrei6ih0_c
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Joanna Newsom - Ys if you can enjoy her voice
Yo La Tengo - Painful
Carissa's Wierd - Songs About Leaving

Sorry about your sister, man.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kw-Fl_xGpyY
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Chin up mate
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Fast Car - Tracy Chapman
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you're retarded
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l039y9FaIjc
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If you want a little bit of escapism something with like the Hamilton recording could help. You'd still find it cathartic because there is a part where Hamilton's son dies but you could lose yourself in the story too.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jEJdfDD4dVg
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Have a Nice Life - Deathconciousness

Read the book that goes along with it.

>>65086568
This is also a good rec.
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>>65086356
Seconding Astral Weeks. Listened to this while driving in the car with my dad after our dog died, he was the one who inteoduced me to Van Morrison.
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>>65086391
Also I just want to say props to you for having the guts to ask /mu/ for music right now. When my friend died I thought about posting something similar but I knew I wouldn't be able to handle the trolls
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I just wanted to say I'm sorry for your loss. I always listen to pic related when I feel hopelessly unhappy. Hang in there OP.
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>family member dies
>better tell /mu/!
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>>65086315
If you want to immerse yourself in noise in order to achieve catharse, try out Galactic Tornado by KK Null, Dead Rails by Air Conditioning and loveliescrushing by Bloweyelashwish. Sorry for your loss OP.
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Belle and Sebastian helped me through cancer, not sure if that's what you're looking for
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wait a sec, is really a good idea listening depressed albums when something bad happens?
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmcrlvNPTJw
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ldyx3KHOFXw
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>>65086905
Ever tried listening to happy music when you are crushingly, hopelessly depressed? It's fucking horrible and infuriating
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>>65086905
>what is catharsis

people react differently to different situations, personally I can't imagine forcing myself to listen to upbeat music would do anything but worsen the situation
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>>65086905
Yes. Sometimes you just need to dwell in your current mood for a while. I would never want to listen to happy, uplifting shit after a death like that. It's worse if you pretend that nothing happen and try to cheer yourself right away.
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>>65086962

I can confirm this.
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op I think this will really help you
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RiMsI5ZZ-qg
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>>65086315
Here you go bro.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n8sLcvWG1M4
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>>65086905

>>65086391here
It can be really cathartic to listen to something sad and have an extreme moment of sadness. It's almost like popping a pimple in relieving the pressure. Also, some people want to be sad for a little bit to mourn and honor their loved one. Really, everyone grieves differently. For me Sleep Cycle was perfect because it got me out and doing stuff again and Deakin's personal lyrics helped me feel like I had someone to talk to even though I didn't
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Laughing Stock / Spirit of Eden by Talk Talk

both are beautiful
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>>65086995
damn
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I'm really sorry about your sister OP. That's such a senseless terrible way to lose somebody you've known all your life. Sometimes when I'm sad, I like to listen to music from video games I used to play when I was younger
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHFBO-ASaE8
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Music that my mom used to play in the car when I was young usually does it for me. Play old songs from your childhood, it's really a strange, cathartic feeling for all the memories to rush back
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rrJky8YuTr4
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Mellon Collie, Zen Arcade or Epicus Doomicus Metallicus.
Or just try this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GgzvgAp4Juk
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SNDoLXYtpc
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Sorry for your loss OP.

here's a pupper.
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Keep your head up bro, for now take this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SIcnc_8UxXo
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CARISSA WAS 35
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blood hound gang. this shit always raises my mood.
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>>65086315
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xM74A_1S9Xc
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>>65086844
All the archive links are dead, if someone could upload this for me I would be really grateful, seems like a good album
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Thank you again everyone so far, you dont know what it means to me
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>>65086315
not memeing, but barter 6

its pure character, you won't feel alone anymore
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>>65086890
wow man, good for you, I'm happy that you had some nice music to listen to during rough times
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>>65088223
>All the archive links are dead
like OP's sis, amirite?
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>>65088565
op here, too soon
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>>65086315
Universal Themes by Sun Kil Moon
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Bluetile Lounge - Lowercase
Bright Eyes - Fevers and Mirrors

Sorry, op.
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Sorry to hear, man
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>>65087715
Goodnight pupper
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